I'm aware that I approached the post in a really immature and insensitive way, I can admit that. but how am I ableist? </3 you do have a good point that it's childish of me to talk about someone's past sh like that tho
I appreciate your view on sh, but it's kinda like:
"hey? can you hide your sh? I'm kind of sensitive about that stuff and it would be appreciate a lo-"
"WHAT? YOU WANT ME TO HIDE MY OWN BODY? NO IM NOT DOING THAT WDYM? WHO CARES ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL?"
I'm all for recovering from sh and growing as a person, but even a few white lines can be disturbing for people. it differs from person to person, and I feel like people should be more aware of something as serious as this