the decentering men convo gets weird when it seems ppl can’t accept that straight women are still indeed straight and will choose to deal with men in some capacity
i can always tell when someone likes me more as an accessory vs an actual person bc the moment i go off script it’s a problem. i’m not being valued for my authenticity only my ability to placate you.
since young ppl have been exposed to a lot of therapy speak and mature sounding terminologies thru the internet i feel like a lot of them have a very artificial sense of self awareness
i actually love watching ppl get me so wrong like damn ur really not understanding my essence but simultaneously tryna get a read on me but you lack the energetic literacy to do it
