Abụ m ihe m bụ (@Consiglieri1

Abụ m ihe m bụ

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Abụ m ihe m bụ

@Consiglieri1_1

The Patriarchy.

Joined March 2022

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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Dec 12, 2025
Yes, I'm a misogynist. What the fuck are you gonna do about it? Fuck all, nothing, nada. Take your stupidity to the men who will tolerate it, I'm allergic to stupid women because they're worse than pests. Only useful & intelligent women are allowed here.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
The year I was born, my Dad was building his house in the village. He planned to open the house in December with three cars he ordered. He also bought a couple of land & had planned to building a petrol station on one of them. He used to spend 2 weeks in Nigeria, 2 weeks abroad.
Danny Walter 🧸
@AjeboDanny
Aug 15, 2025
Children don’t experience their parents the same way. It’s a hard truth both parents and kids struggle to accept. One might be born when you’re in love, another when you’re barely holding it together. One arrives during struggle, another after your breakthrough. Each will meet
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Jan 16, 2025
Replying to @UgwunnaEjikem
Lagos has the same mentality about Nigeria as the US has about the rest of the world. The incubated ignorance is visible to everyone else but those who live in that bubble.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
I'm sharing this experience to say that from personal experience, I understand this conversation very well. I experienced what it was to be treated differently from your siblings because of your parents reality or experiences impacting your reception into the family.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Sep 22, 2024
Replying to @Wizarab10 and @espeezeal
Kindness with conditions is leverage.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @LetsDareDevil
I don't think my parents were terrible people, I think they were young people who reacted to an unfortunate circumstance they didn't know how to confront. My Dad came from a poor home, his father borrowed 4 naira to pay his school fees in the 60s. And he lost over 200 million.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
I was born in May of that year. That year disaster struck. He had a problem with his business that year, some of his containers were lost at sea. In total he lost $93,000 & his business began to crumble. Some of that money wasn't his own, about 1/3. So there was debt involved.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
My Dad was the kind of guy that was constantly surrounded by people. He was generous & people were always coming & going in our house. People who needed help, people who needed a meal or had some bills to pay. He was a tree that gave shade to many, strangers & relatives alike.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
When disaster struck, most of those people disappeared. The house in the village was at the finishing stage but it was suspended at that. No paint, no furnishings. My dad was practically hiding from people he owed money, & his business was in shambles. I bore some of the burnt.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
I can't count how many times I thought my parents, especially my father wanted to kill me, including the time I faced the barrel of his short gun at six. How many times he beat me close to death for minor transgressions or drew unnecessary comparisons with my siblings.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @_ValentinoXO and @AjeboDanny
My dad is gone now, but the interesting thing is that I never held any grudges against him. One of the coping mechanisms I developed from my childhood experience was the inability to sustain emotions for long, negative or positive. Only now matters to me, not the past.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
I didn't know it at the time growing up, but I know some of my friends & school mates asked if I was sure my parents were my real parents. I had that question myself. I was the first born, & even though I appreciate disciplining a child, it felt like mine bordered on abuse.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
Most of what I experienced in my childhood, my siblings didn't experience half of that. Even though I didn't understand why at the time, my experience with how my siblings later met while growing up gave me the impression that something was different. Near death experiences.
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Abụ m ihe m bụ
@Consiglieri1_1
Aug 16, 2025
Replying to @Consiglieri1_1
I was already a young adult when I began to understand that my childhood experiences might have been as a result of my father taking out his frustrations at life on me. I found out in an interesting way. My father was ranting one time, I can't remember to whom, & I heard it.
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