Dad la Dhaqanka
( Interpesonal skills)
Diyaariyey M.KOBAC
Maxaad ka filaysaa Tababarkan ?
Ujeedada Tababarkan
Isbarasho
Maalintii imisa ruux dabeecad kala duwan
ayaad la kulantaa ??
Qaacidada dad la dhaqanka
َو َقَض ٰى َر ُّب َك َأاَّل َت ْع ُبُد ٓو ْا ِإٓاَّل ِإَّي اُه َو ِبٱْلَٰو ِلَد ْي ِن ِإْح َٰس ًن اۚ ِإَّم ا َيْب ُلَغ َّن ۞
ِع نَد َك ٱْلِك َبَر َأَح ُدُه َم ٓا َأْو ِك اَل ُه َم ا َفاَل َت ُقل َّلُهَم ٓا ُأٍّۢف َو اَل َتْن َهْر ُه َم ا َو ُقل
َّلُهَم ا َقْو اًل َك ِر يًم ا
Qaacidada dad la dhaqanka
َفِبَم ا َر ْح َم ٍۢة ِّم َن ٱِهَّلل ِلنَت َلُهْم ۖ َو َلْو ُك نَت َفًّظ ا َغ ِليَظ ٱْل َقْل ِب
ٱَلنَفُّض وْا ِم ْن َح ْو ِلَك ۖ َفٱْع ُف َع ْن ُهْم َو ٱْس َت ْغ ِفْر َلُهْم َو َش اِو ْر ُه ْم ِفى
ٱَأْلْم ِر ۖ َفِإَذ ا َع َز ْم َت َفَت َو َّك ْل َع َلى ٱِهَّللۚ ِإَّن ٱَهَّلل ُيِحُّب ٱْلُم َت َو ِّك ِليَن
Qaacidada dad la dhaqanka
Wadajir
Dadka uma noolaan karaan si kali.
Dadka si dabiici ayey bulsho u yihiin .
Sidaa darted waxaa muhiim ah in ay bartaan
Fanka wada-noolaashaha
Tiirarka Fanka Wada-noolaashaha
Kaslsooni
Ixitiraam
Jacayl
Xiriir Wanaagsan , Waxtar leh
Haddii aad barato sida dadka lala dhaqmo
85% wadada guusha waad gaartay.
Fahamka Hab dhaqanka iyo Xiriirka
Xiriir waa hab laysku gaarsiiyo XOGTA.
Xiriirka waa howl abuurta ISDHEXGAL
ADIGA CAQABADO DADKA
KALE
Qeybaha xiriirka iyo la dhaqanka dadka kale
QOYS - Xaduud
SAAXIIBO
SHAQO
BULSHADA
Wadooyinka sababa Guusha
Dad la dhaqanka
Wadooyinka sababa Guusha
Dad la dhaqanka
Faham iyo ogolaashaha kaladuwanaanta
Isbedel muuqada samee
Kalsoonida dadka kale
Ixtiraam iyo Mahadnaq
Sambiriiraha cafi
Nasteexo iyo Kaalmeyn
Wadooyinka sababa Guusha
Dad la dhaqanka
Deganaan
Niyad wanaag
Wanaajin
In fagaaro ugu nasteexeyn
Ka fogow dooda
Dhaleecayn – dhibaysa
Cafis
Xirfadaha Dad la dhaqanka
Xoojinta guusha dad la dhaqanka
Xirfadda hadalka
Xirfadda dhageysiga
doorasha erayada dhiirigelinta
In aad ka fogaatid faham xumo
Nasteexo badan
Xirfadaha Dad la dhaqanka
in aadan dhalecayn
Dhoolacadeyn
Luqadda jirka hadalka
In aad aadan gelin waxa u gaarka ah
Aragtida 1aad
Noocyada dadka iyo lala
dhaqmayo
Nuucyada Dadka
Noocyada dadka wey kala duwan yihiin , qeyb
waliba si gaar ayaa loola dhaqmaa
Nuucyada Dadka
1- Ruux caadi ah – Macaamilka aan dhib ku
qabin
la kulan si Ixtiraam leh , si fiican u dhageyso
( xirfadda dhageysiga).
Mawduuca ha ka bixin
Hadafka ku hag
si dhab ah u kala shaqee baahidiisa
Nuucyada Dadka
2- Ruux Shaki badan
Ku abuur kalsooni
ka yaree walwalka u noqo waalid oo kale
ku kaalmee go’aan qaadasho ,una muuji xumaanta
dib u dhigashada
waxaad siisaa nidaam xogta lagu heli karo
u cadde shakiga in ruuxiisa uu dhibo ,xiriirka
dadkana uu xumeeyo
u cadde in ruuxa lagu ixtiraamo go’aan qaadashada .
Nuucyada Dadka
3. Ruux Madax adag
In hortiisa fikradaha oo dhan lagu mideeyo
in laga dalbado in ogolaado fikradaha dadka
kale si loo gaaro wada ogol
in lagu amaano in fikradiisa loo baahan
yahay
Isticmaal “ HAAA ‘ , laakin
Nuucyada Dadka
4- Ruux Khalafsan
In aadan xanaaqin , degenaan muuji
iskuday in si fiican u dhageysatid
ha is ku dayin in aad saameyso , laakin si
wanaagsan ula dood
adeegso fikradiisa iyo xogtiisa
fahamsii dadka qadirayaan ruuxii ixtiraam
u daliisho aayadaha iyo axaadiista arinkaa sheegaya
isticmaal “ HAAA “ , laakin
Nuucyada Dadka
5- ruux hadal badan
Hadalka ka jar cabaar ka dib
ku dheh “ Dooda mawduuca ku kalama
fogni”
u tilmaam muhiimada waqtiga .
jir-ka- hadal ugu muuji in aadan ku
qanacsanayn hadaladiisa qaar , sida adigoo
saacada fiirinayo.
Nuucyada Dadka
6- Ruux Facalecelin fudud
Si fiican u dhageyso
u adeegso su’aal furan ,jawaabteeda mudo
qaadanysa
u adeegso aamusnaan ku qasabta jawaabta
si tartiib ula macaamil talaabooyinkaada ha
dedejin
u muuji ixtiraam iyo jaceyl
Nuucyada Dadka
7- Ruux mucaarad joogto ah
u adeegso daliil dhaciifinayo
mucaaradnimadiisa
u sheeg in aad haysto marqaati adkeynaysa
doodaada
furso ha u siin in uu kaa jiro hadalkaada
u gudbi firkaradaada si tartiib ah
ku sabir la dhaqankiisa
isticmaal “ HAAA” , laakiin
Nuucyada Dadka
8- Ruux dambi baare ah
Deganaan muuji
Fikradahaaga dhan ha u sheegin
si heer sare u dhageyso
fahamsii in ruux waliba leeyahay xuduud
ha sii fursada uu kugu maamulo
