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Body Language
Non-Verbal Communication
• What people are saying (ie. the words they
speak) and what they are really saying
(their intentions, emotions, hidden
agenda's etc.) can be very different;
• Some people lie.
• Some people unconsciously oppose what
they say
• Some people pretend to be what they're
not
• Some people don't talk at all (but their
body speaks volumes!)
Body language and Intent
• Voluntary/Intentional movements - Usually
called "Gestures". These are movements you
intended to make, like shaking a hand, giving the
finger, blinking with one eye...
• Involuntary movements - Usually called "tells",
but "ticks" also fall into this category. Any body
movement you have no control over falls in this
category. While technically not a body
movement, sweating also applies.
Tone of voice and Intonation
• Pitch of voice - high voice, low voice,
intonation.
• Loudness - Everything from shouting to
whispering.
• Breathing - Slow, fast breathing, shaky
voice.
Happy/joy
• Your forehead is relaxed, and may show light
wrinkles as you eyebrows are lightly raised.
• The corners of the mouth are curling up,
sometimes showing the teeth. If someone's
laughing out loud, the mouth is open. The
cheekbones are lifted.
• Your eyes show wrinkles in their outer corners
(when 'the eyes don't smile', these wrinkles are
absent; it's a telltale sign that someone isn't
really happy).
Anger
• Your forehead is pushed together in a frown,
pushing down the eyebrows. Oftentimes your
teeth are showing, with snarling lips and
depressed corners of the mouth.
• Your nostrils are standing out and the nose is
wrinkled.
• The eyes are bulging out, putting tension on the
eyelids.
Sadness
• The corners of your mouth is depressed, often
with a shaking lower lip. The eyebrows are
squashed together, and the forehead is frowning.
• The skin around your eyes is pulled in, and the
eyes are tearing up (or even crying).
• Wrinkles are forming from the nostrils to the
corners of your mouth.
Scared
• Eyes are getting big, and the eyebrows go
up and then down again.
• Your lips are stretched outwards, and your
lower lip is pulled down.
• Your skin will look pale, as blood is
retracted from your head, and sweat can
form on your forehead.
Surprise
• When you're surprised, your eye brows
are pulled up high, making your eyes wide
open, and your forehead wrinkled.
• Your mouth opens as your jaw muscles
relax and your lower jaw drops.
• you reveal things about yourself with how
you place your arms and legs. Are you:
• Open or Closed?
• Confident or Insecure?
• Interested or Bored?
• Dominant or Submissive?
• Happy or Depressed?
• Successful or a Loser?
• Leaving or Staying?
Mirrors to the soul!