Al-Anon 12 Steps Workshop
Al-Anon 12 Steps Workshop
WORKSHOP
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12 STEPS
Orientation
Rules to Observe:
Be punctual
2. Do not miss (maximum number of absences=2. It is the responsibility of the
I will check the homework and do it.
3. Do the homework (if someone comes without doing it, it will be canceled)
meeting
4. If we leave the group, it is suggested to explain the reason to your
companions.
5. Have a sponsor who has worked the 12 steps.
6. Bring a small notebook to use it as an index, notebook
large and pens in blue, red, and green.
7. Obtain the Blue Book of AA, the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Traditions of AA and Pathways of Recovery of Al-Anon.
All necessary items for the workshop exercises.
8. Write down everything we can so that we can use it later as
reference.
9. If you are absent (due to an emergency), call a colleague to
to excuse us and ask for the homework.
10. Do the homework in advance and with care
11. Do not cut corners in tasks, apply 100%, being the
homework time followed, without interruptions.
12. Do not refute us, nor interrupt us.
13. Maintain anonymity.
14. The duration of the workshop will be 30 weeks; This period could
to extend depending on the evolution of the group.
15.Attend an Al-Anon meeting at least once a week.
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Week 1
First Step
Read the 1st Step in the AA Twelve Steps book. Also the 1st.
Al-Anon Recovery Path Steps.
Exercises:
TASK
Next week: share the feelings that came out and to which
conclusion we reached as a result of this exercise.
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Week 2
Second Step
Objective:
Learning to trust in God
Recognize that it is our Higher Power
Eliminate the reasons why we do not trust him.
Read the 2nd Step of the Twelve Steps of AA and the 2nd Step of
Al-Anon Recovery Pathways.
Exercise:
TASK:
Read the 1st Step of the AA Twelve Steps book. Write
about the effect that compulsion has had on you through
the years.
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Week 3
Third Step
Objective:
Read the 3rd Step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the 3rd Step of
Al-Anon Recovery Paths.
Exercises:
3. Watch the movie 'Field of Dreams', pay attention to the Faith of the
protagonist Kevin Costner.
TASK:
Reread the 1st Step of the Twelve Steps of AA. Find the relationship of the
1st. Step with the following:
Next Week: comment on the reading of the steps, the movie and
share the experience of prayer.
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HOW IT WORKS
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Week 4
FOURTH STEP
Objective:
Knowing oneself
Read the 4th Step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the 4th Step of
Paths of Recovery of Al-Anon.
Exercises:
TASK:
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Week 5
Write the Second period of the 4th Step, in the same way
what we wrote the first period.
TASK:
Read the 2nd Chapter 'There is a Solution' from The Big Book
AA or Blue Book.
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Week 6
Third Period of the 4th Step
Write the third period of the 4th step in the same way as
we write the first and the second period.
TASK:
1. Write about the relationship that this quote has with our
own history of controllers.
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Week 7
Continuation of the 4th Step
Entregar la Lista de definiciones de Virtudes y Defectos de Carácter.
Exercises:
2. Go back to the three periods of the 4th step and write with a pen.
red, on the edge of the paper, the defects we identified in
each event. Then we return to the same events and
also in the margin of the paper, with a red pen, let's make a
slash/ and let's write down the virtues that correspond to each
event.
If there is no defect in the event, write only the virtue.
3. At the end of the task of defects and virtues, add the amount.
total number of events that have been written.
amount of virtues
% of virtues = x 100
number of events
number of defects
% of defects = x 100
number of events
TASK:
Read the 1st Step of the AA Twelve Steps book
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LIST OF DEFINITIONS OF VIRTUES AND CHARACTER DEFECTS
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Week 8
Continuation of the 4th Step
Objective:
Exercises:
Go back to step 4 again and start from the beginning, with a green pen,
identify in each event which instinct we are using or abusing.
TASK:
Calculate what percentage of each instinct we use or abuse:
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Week 9
INFORMATION
Exercises:
c) What do I not want, that I could have, if I didn't feel this fear?
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Week 10
5TH STEP - Part I
The person we give the 5th step to has to be
available for at least 3 hours.
Objective:
Read the 5th Step of the Twelve Steps of AA and the 5th Step
of Al-Anon Recovery Paths.
Exercises:
1) Sit quietly and without interruptions. Read our
history from the beginning; and event by event tell us to
ourselves: "That's the way I am." "That's how it is"
as I am.” (this is to admit to ourselves).
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Week 11
5TH STEP – Part II
Objective:
Exercises:
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Week 12
6TH STEP
Read the 6th Step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the 6th Step.
of Al-Anon's Paths to Recovery.
Objective:
Exercises:
1st Week:
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Week 13
PROCRASTINATION
(Postpone, defer)
Exercises:
2nd Week
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Week 14
WORKING ON PROCRASTINATION
Exercises:
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Week 15
7 MO STEP
Starting next week, we are going to start doing a
hour, once a week, a recreation (something that never
we have done before). Preferably with another person, outside
from home and in public.
Read the 7th Step of the Twelve Steps book of AA and the
7th Step of Al-Anon Recovery Paths.
Read the 10th Step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the
10th Step of Al-Anon Recovery Path.
Objective:
Start practicing the 10th step this week. Do it.
a daily inventory and admitting our faults at the moment
to recognize them.
Exercises:
Next week: share about the inventory, the 7th step and the
10th month. Step.
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Week 16
11th STEP
Read the 11th step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the
11th Step of Al-Anon Recovery Paths.
Objective:
Exercises:
3) Inventory.
Procrastination.
Meditation.
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Next week: share about all these exercises.
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Week 17
VISUALIZATION
Objective:
Think of a small thing that bothers us. That is nothing.
neither at home nor at work. Something that happens quite often.
and that bothers us. Something that is not personal. E.g.: seeing the street
dirty with papers, making a long line at the bank,
supermarket, congested traffic, etc.
Exercises:
1) Write down a single thing that bothers us. One day during the
spend 10 minutes in a meditation position and
visualize the discomfort, and instead of visualizing a reaction of
nuisance, visualize a reaction that does not bother us. If the
visualizing takes you less than 10 minutes, start over the
exercise and repeat it until reaching 10 minutes. Do it a
day, let a day go by without doing it, and repeat it the next day
with the same annoyance.
The next time we face the annoyance, write which one.
it was our reaction.
OUR REACTIONS ARE DIRECTLY RELATED
WITH OUR ATTITUDES.
Recreation.
Inventory.
Procrastination
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Week 18
Objective:
Watch the movie 'The Empire Strikes Back' (2nd part of 'Stars')
(Wars) and pay attention to the character "Yoda."
Exercises:
Recreation.
Inventory.
Meditation.
Movie
5) Procrastination.
6) Visualization.
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Week 19
Objective:
Exercises:
Recreation.
Inventory.
Meditation.
4) Procrastination
5) Negative feedback.
6) Visualization.
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Week 20
Objective:
Exercises:
Visualization
3) Read the 1st Chapter of the book The Sermon on the Mount.
Recreation.
5) Inventory.
Meditation.
Procrastination.
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Week 21
THE SERMON ON THE MOUNT
3rd Chapter
Objective:
Exercises:
Annoyance no.10.
Negative Feedback
Recreation
Procrastination
6) Inventory
Meditation
8) Watch the movie 'The Karate Kid' part 1. Pay attention to the
Chinese instructor, old karate master.
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Week 22
8th. STEP
Read the 8th Step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the 8th Step of
Al-Anon Recovery Pathways.
Definitions:
Harm and Injury: it is a great damage. Something that has harmed and left
a lasting impression on another person. Something strong, powerful.
Exercises:
Recreation
Inventory
Meditation
Procrastination
8) Annoyance no.9.
9) Visualization.
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Week 23
9th STEP
Read the 9th Step from the AA Twelve Steps book and the 9th Step from Pathways of
Al-Anon Recovery.
Exercises:
1) Meet with your godmother or godfather and review the list, and leave the things that really
they have caused harm.
2) Economic damage. Buy a notebook and write one person on each page.
company to whom we owe money. Make an estimate of the money owed to
each one. Add the total amount of money owed and according to the situation
economic situation we have, to decide on a monthly payment to repair these damages.
Divide the total debts by the number of debtors. e.g.: church, league against the
cancer, such and such bank, such and such credit card, someone we borrowed from, etc. Go
reducing debts monthly until they are settled. If you win the lottery or you receive
a good unexpected money, settle the debts in a single payment. If you lose your job
stop the payments, but continue them as soon as you get a new job.
3) Emotional damage. For the people on the list who are deceased, find a
a person of their own sex who feels lonely, insecure, isolated, and is a godmother or
godfather of this person for a year. For the last person on their list (in their
name) donate an hour a week to a charity. E.g.: visit hospitals,
orphanages, etc. Any service work to the community. For the children that
they live away from home and outside the city, communicate with them at least once a
months. For the children who still live at home, double the quality and the time you give them
we dedicate, and write it for 6 months in a notebook (this is repairing the damage)
committed). For the spouses on the list, WITHIN THE LIMITS OF REASON,
not to say NO for a year.
4) Talk to the godmother or godfather, the alternatives we are going to take for each
person on the list.
Next week:
1) Discuss with the godmother what we are going to do and write it down.
Meditation
Procrastination
4) Inventory
Recreation
6) Negative feedback
Annoyance No.8, visualization
Read chapter 5 of the Sermon on the Mount
9) Watch the movie 'Flat Liners' by Julia Roberts and Keefer Sutherland. Pay attention to the
concept of repair.
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Week 24
REPAIRS
Inventory
Recreation
Procrastination
Negative feedback
Meditation
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Week 25
10th step
Objective:
Exercises:
Negative feedback
Recreation
6) Inventory
Procrastination
Meditation
9) Read the 10th Step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the
10th Step of Al-Anon Recovery Pathways.
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Week 26
11th STEP
Objective:
Exercises:
1) Read the 11th Step of the AA Twelve Steps book and the
11th Step of Al-Anon Recovery Pathways. In the
AA book look for the prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi.
Read the sentence every day several times during the day.
until memorizing it.
Meditation
3) Inventory
Recreation
5) Procrastination
7) Negative feedback
8) Read the chapter of the Our Father from the book The Sermon of
Mount.
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Week 27
12th STEP
Objective:
Exercises:
In the coming year, cultivate 2 close friendships. People in whom
we can trust, that we can share our intimacies with them.
(For unmarried people, they should not enter in
no relationship for a year, after completing the workshop)
5) Read the 12th Step from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous and the 12th Step.
from Al-Anon's Paths of Recovery.
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Meditation.
Inventory.
Procrastination.
Recreation
Negative feedback
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Week 28
THE PRINCIPLES
1ST STEP - HONESTY
2ND. STEP - HOPE
3rd. STEP - FAITH
4TH STEP - COURAGE
5TH STEP - INTEGRITY
6TH STEP - WILL
7MO. STEP - HUMILITY
8VO. STEP - BROTHERLY LOVE
9NO. STEP - DISCIPLINE
10MO. STEP - PERSEVERANCE
11TH STEP - AWARENESS
12VO STEP - SERVICE
Objective:
Exercises:
Cultivating friendships
Recreation
3) Discomforts
Visualization
Procrastination
Negative feedback
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THE PROMISES OF AA
1) If we put in the effort in this phase of our development, we
we will surprise you with the results before reaching the halfway point of
path.
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