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Introduction 2
The 2 Genders: Biological Differences in Dating, Sex, and Marriage 6
Man of High Status: How to become the most desired man in your city? 14
The only poisonous question 24
How to Approach Women: Alternatives That Do Not Involve Fear, Guilt, or Shame 26
The High Status Approach 30
The Storyteller's Approach 34
The Impulsive Rule 37
When women want you to get closer to them 40
How to make a woman approach you. 41
Attracting women through understanding the subconscious 44
Body Language 46
Neuro-Linguistic Programming 48
Attractive male body language 50
Posture 51
The "Mouthpiece Technique." 55
Sitting 56
Positive and Negative Body Language 59
Female Body Language 61
CTELP method (the 5 techniques) 65
Ask questions 67
Body Language 69
Visual Contact 70
Personal Space 71
Touch 73
Framing (and the six-word sentence) 77
Develop Comfort: Where the Relationship is Gained and Lost 80
Mirroring body language 89
Report 91
Showing Vulnerability 96
Change Location 100
The 'Bonding Game' 101
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The Golden Rule 103

The Moment of Truth: the all or nothing. 105
Mistakes Men Make When Going for the Kiss 106
The Method of the Charming Prince 107
Handshake method 110
Qualification 111
The First Unrefusable Kiss 113
Take her to bed 114
Hyper-Emotional State (and the 2 words that cut your brain) 117
Conclusion: Now you are a Master in Sexual Attraction 120

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Introduction
I was madly in love with this girl.

But when I opened my heart, she told me that she only saw me as a
good friend. This shattered my world. It felt like the sky had fallen
on top of me and there was no longer hope inside my body.

How is it possible that someone I loved so much doesn't see what really happened to us?

could we have turned?

Just like many men around the world, my quest to learn to

becoming more attractive to women started when I was 'friendzoned'.

It was a great surprise, at least for me. I always wanted to tell you the
how much she meant to me, but whenever we were together, I
I felt it moving away more and more.

So, I ended up not telling him. 'Next time! It will be for the next time!'
I promised myself.

And so, when the next opportunity arose again, it returned to

invent an excuse not to do it. It's hard to look at your best
friend and to see her looking at you with such a lack of familiarity.

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One day, I finally decided to tell her how I felt about her, and she rejected me.
It was a difficult decision.

We had been friends for years, but it became clear that this friendship would not be the

same after our conversation. Now, whenever we went out or

we were talking on the phone, there was a part of me thinking if she was going to change

ideas and, suddenly, admit your love for me as well!

But when we hung up, the next call or text message from her
he came with more excuses because he couldn't see me again.

I got friend zoned hard.

Nowadays, looking back, it doesn't surprise me that this has

happened).

But despite everything, I decided to keep trying, believing that she would eventually end.

for realizing what a great man I was.

From then on, I started to become much more aware of everything, which only made me
feel worse because everything started to spiral out of control.

I am a person with quite an average appearance, that's why I have never had

problems with my appearance before. But as time went by,

It seemed that everywhere I looked there was someone more attractive than
that I and the compliments no longer made up for this.

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I spent the following years of my life learning everything about attraction and
the female brain only makes her want me sexually the same way
the way I wanted her.

And one day, I succeeded. Although it didn't last long, I am very grateful.
for this experience.

From popping bubbles to wearing cologne, from dressing better to talking with
more confidence; I tried all the known approaches and everything helped me to
to become what I am today.

Nowadays, after having been with many more women, I am now

on a different level and it all started when I let go of what I used to be. And
That's why you are reading this book. Throughout my journey, I experienced
first hand what works, what doesn't work and what the approaches are
what has more influence on a woman's brain.

Therefore, whether you have a special woman in your life who does not desire you from the...

the same way or you just want to be more successful with women in general...

My mission with this manual is to transform you into the attractive man that
you were born to be; the man that all women want; the type of
man who can attract the attention of any girl simply
controlling what is being communicated subconsciously.

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Biologically speaking, there are many differences between men and

women. Men tend to be attracted to the physical appearance of
women. While women have an emotional connection with the
men that is based on the eye of your mind; this means that what he
what he says or does will influence her attraction to him. In other words, the
women feel more attracted to the psychological characteristics of a
man.

This program is for you if: You are interested in finding a relationship
more lasting, but also if you only want to meet women
different and live a full life knowing that you are the epitome of
masculinity. Let's talk about everything, from body language techniques
neurolinguistic programming, hypnosis, and advanced psychology!

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The 2 Genders: Biological Differences in

Dating, Sex and Marriage
The goal of the human species is simple.

Survive

2. To procreate

3. Learn and grow as a species

The way we do it, biologically speaking, is through sex and

meetings.

But what if you are single and don't know how to date? What if you have no idea?
What do women want in relationships? How can you be a good partner?
Have you never been in a relationship? That's where this chapter comes in.

This chapter will teach men to become more attractive to

understand their biological differences, as well as learn
how can one improve mentally, physically, and emotionally so that
not only can they find love but also give it.

Let's talk about gender roles and how they have changed with
time. This is crucial for you to understand why the
women are attracted to a specific type of man.

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Everything will make sense after you read this chapter. It will also help you to

understand why some techniques discussed later in the book,

they function at a subconscious level in the female brain.

At the most basic levels, gender roles are defined by two sexes.
In other words, we are different genders for a reason.

It is not a coincidence that there are men and women. And although it may be
It is tempting to think of them as equals, but that is far from being true.

Each genre has its unique characteristics that distinguish us and

they make us what we are today. But it is difficult to admit these differences today

on time, mainly due to feminism and gender equality.

Anyway, women are biologically programmed to

they seek specific characteristics in men, such as capability
of resource, to provide and intelligence. Men are biologically
programmed to look for specific characteristics in women,
such as beauty, sensuality, and fertility. These differences affect the
our relationships in a giant way.

The number one objective of the human species is to reproduce and have

descendancy.

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Having said that, men are mostly unconsciously attracted to

physical characteristics in women because they show that a woman is
healthy and can carry a baby for nine months, which means that
she is fertile enough to produce offspring with him (the man)
and carry your lineage.

The female brain has evolved over time, therefore it will be more receptive.
when men show personality traits such as being
protectors or having what we call 'good genes'.

This way of thinking comes from our days as hunter-gatherers where

the females looked not only after themselves but also for their children,
that would need protection from predators like bears while
they hunted for food in an unprotected territory outside the villages during the

Winter.

In modern society, men are still attracted to characteristics

physical in women because this shows that a woman is sufficiently
healthy to give birth; while the girls look at personalities
which indicate whether it can provide security. Therefore, if you want to
attract more women in modern society, so you need to work on the
your personality.

In summary: Women want someone who will protect and provide for them.
them.

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And the best way to show that you can do it is by working on your
personality. If you want more women in modern society, then
improves the way they perceive you.

The best thing one could do when trying to attract someone would be to focus.
just in the development of an excellent personality.

Women are much more emotional and respond much more to form.
how they see you mentally, that's why the key to attracting them is to attract them to a

subconscious level, showing them that you have the psychological traits that
they are biologically programmed to search.

It may take some time at first, but don't get discouraged when
look at the big picture because I will show you how to communicate
effortlessly through the use of many body languages, programming
neuro-linguistics and psychological techniques that work from the beginning of the
times.

Now that we have covered the basics of gender roles, we can move on
to our next topic, which is testosterone. The hypotheses are that if
if you are reading this book, then you probably have a decent amount
of testosterone in your body.

Testosterone is known as the male hormone because it makes the

muscular and strong men who are also aggressive and assertive (among
other things).

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But there are ways to use this powerful hormone for other things
besides sex that will make you more attractive to women for purposes of
dating.

Testosterone is the hormone that helps men become physically and

emotionally stronger. It gives you things like confidence, assertiveness and
courage.

Makes men feel protective of their loved ones and that is what
motivates us to act when necessary. This explains why women
they look for 'masculine' and 'alpha' men. Because they have more
testosterone and thus are more likely to protect them. Please, keep in
Attention that all this happens at a subconscious level.

The good news is that you can pretend to have high levels of
testosterone just by the way you behave. We'll get in there
for a minute.

You might probably get the impression that women have a lot
control over whom they date and marry. In reality, men are
much more selective than women when it comes to choosing
partners.

This is a myth about gender in relationships that is worth debunking.

once it has been shown to make us feel powerless in our
their own lives when it comes to relationships and marriage. What society

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taught us how the sexes think and behave with each other
And responding romantically is just a myth.

The truth is that there are biological differences in dating, sex, and
marriage. Many of the determinants behind who men
who women marry is based on biology, not on
personal choice.

Men are more selective when it comes to dating and choosing a partner.
life partner. Women have the power to choose whether or not to have sex,
but they do not have the power to choose a man's disposition towards
they based on your behavior.

Women can be extremely impulsive when it comes to

sexual encounters, but this is not true for men. While the
women can have a lot of control over whether or not they have relationships
sexual encounters with a man, they do not have the same control over whether he

he will remain monogamous after having had sexual relations with her.

Evolutionary psychological research shows that men are more selective.

of what women consider when it comes to choosing a life partner.

Men from all cultures seek younger, healthier women.

the fertile ones for marriage. Women of all cultures seek
older men, richer and of higher status for the
marriage.

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The brains of men and women are connected differently when

it's about your mating system. The reason why men are
much more selective than women is because in the past men
they used these unique characteristics to their advantage.

Throughout human history, the behavior of men towards the

women have been a demonstration of how much they wanted to mate
with them.

The men who were high-quality companions would have children with
this woman would transmit her superior intelligence, health, and resources
for her to create the next generation of these valuable traits for the
future generations.

The women who were able to identify and select these men
of high quality typically had children with them, whereas the
women who mated with lower quality men were left
to create the next generation and became irrelevant to the process of
human survival.

That is why women are more likely to marry a man.

due to your resources and personality rather than your appearance.

Even though women may be attracted to a man by his

appearance, when it comes to choosing one for a relationship, women

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are more concerned about what kind of provider he is. In fact, she
will ignore even the most attractive men if she feels he will not be a good
provider for her and her children.

Evolutionary psychologists say that this demonstrates that our

brains are still connected for success in the marriage market.
When women choose a man based on his success, it is
it's more likely that she will have children with him, while the women who
men who are chosen based on their appearance have fewer children.

And although this is not the answer you were expecting, it is exactly the
what you need to hear. The truth is that women are biologically
programmed to look for certain traits in men. Fortunately, these
Traits can be easily attained by anyone who wants them!

I call the type of man that all women want - the man of
elevated statute

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Man of High Status: How are you

becoming the most desired man of yours
city?

This chapter is the foundation for the rest of the book. This is what you are trying

communicate with all the techniques you will learn, that's why it makes sense
learn first what it is about.

I call him 'High Status' and not 'Alpha Male' because there are some
differences between both. Nowadays, the term 'alpha male' is seen a lot
negatively by the majority of people, mainly due to the fact that
many types try to pretend they are 'alphas', coming off as very insecure,
inauthentic and aggressive.

That's not what I want from you for the future. Please, really try.
understand what is being shared and make an effort to make them
part of your personality. Not only will women feel naturally
more attracted to you, but you will also have a new perspective on life.

A high-status man is socially dominant, respected and

admired by other males.

Personally, I love being a man of high status - but it was necessary

a lot to get there. It starts with your body language and goes to the
your behavior. Every man needs to work to be

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considered elevated status. It is too easy for people not to you

they will call or reject as insignificant when you are not exhaling
that aura of dominance and self-confidence that comes from being a high male
statute.

Let's get started.

1. Trust and self-esteem

Confidence is an essential characteristic of a high-status male. This

it applies to everything, from social groups, to getting women, to the fact
to be just a man in general. If you are not confident around
women or other men, you will have a lot of difficulty attracting them.

If you get nervous or anxious about talking to people or if you have

too afraid to approach the group of people you want to be with
becoming part, then you will not fulfill your potential as a man of
elevated status. It can be daunting at first, but it is a skill that
can be learned and improved with practice.

Self-esteem is a little different. It is what you believe you are like.

man. If you do not consider yourself worthy of the things that other men have, then

you will not be able to get close to them and become friends with them.

These skills are easily learned by both introverts and

for extroverts, for types that are socially dominant or

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completely non-dominant, by men in their twenties or by

types in middle age. They all need to acquire these skills to
if they build the kind of man they want to be around women and
other men.

Many people make the mistake of thinking that being more confident to
being an elevated status is something you cannot achieve alone, but
it's simply not true. Trust is an attitude. It's a mindset.
adopted by someone who demonstrates a high degree of self-confidence and
self-confidence in oneself, in one's abilities and in one's talents.

The first thing you need to do is a reality check. It is

It's important to understand your strengths and weaknesses and to accept that
you are not perfect. We all make mistakes, and we all have flaws or
defects. And this is fine.

Some people are just better at some things than others.

And we all have our flaws. So don't get upset about it.

Another important thing to do is to understand what you want from life. If you don't

Are you sure of what this is, ask yourself: why do I want to be more?
confident as a man? Do you want to be the best man in the world? Do you want

to be a great husband and father? Do you want to earn more money?

You may not know it, but there is a certain desire in your heart.

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When you have a general idea of the kind of person you would like to be, then
the next step would be to overcome your flaws. We are all human,
and we all make mistakes. We all make mistakes in our positive direction
or negative. We can make a mistake in friendship or relationship, or even
something as serious as a relationship where we promised to take care of
someone in times of need.

There is nothing wrong with feeling guilty for making a mistake, but
if you feel guilty every time you do something wrong, then you do not have
any quality of life. Guilt is just an emotion that motivates us.
to do better next time.

It's unhealthy to feel guilty about every little thing, but it's important.
learn from your mistakes. So how do you overcome your guilt?

First of all, stop punishing yourself. You don't have to tell your mistake to
no one, and you don't even have to tell it to yourself. Just make a note
mental to remind you of this lesson and move on.

There is no need to feel shame or embarrassment if you made a mistake.

It happens because we are human. We are not perfect. And if we
if we try hard enough, we will do what is necessary to not feel
embarrassed in the future.

2. Build strong friendships with other men

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A man of high status is highly regarded by other men - not

only by women. You can be the most confident man in the world, but
if you don't like the men around you, then you will not be able to do
connections with them or to establish yourself as one of theirs.

Get involved in local groups and meetups and regularly hang out with your friends.

friends. See your friends more than just once a week or

every month - has lunch on Tuesday and dinner on Friday and goes to parties
that they organize. Become known as someone trustworthy, loyal,
funny, and a good guy.

3. Practice your body language

One of the most obvious signs of a high-status man is his language.

corporal - that is, the way one presents oneself in social situations and

while walking around, and even when standing still. Let's have a chapter
entirely dedicated to body language.

Calm down and relax.

To simplify - don't seem nervous. If you are talking to someone and the
tremer ou a tremer de nervos, então vai ser muito negativo. Em vez disso,
keep your feet on the ground and make sure you are not jumping up and
downwards, or stretching too much (that is, leaning too much
for someone). Maintain a good posture!

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Something that comes with confidence is a calm tone of voice. Remember: if

It seems that you have something to prove, so you probably do; but if you are
just speaking normally, then it will come out naturally and easily.

Be optimistic

One of the things that attract women is being optimistic. If you are
positive every day, the whole world starts to seem like it's in
perspective. You attract people who are also positive and optimistic.
It becomes a contagious thing.

One of the things that women find attractive in men is when

they can see that he has an invisible shield around him. It is a feeling
of power or control without even saying anything or trying before the words and
actions have been attempted. With a low voice, they may seem more
confident that with a loud voice, but this alone does not mean that
they will be considered high-status men.

The aura of calm that emanates throughout the day is what attracts women.

High-status males are much more than just strong. But for
you are a high-status male, you need to be able to be confident and
not to feel scared in front of people. It is not necessary for you to be
tall or physically strong, but you need a great sense of self-esteem.

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You must look at yourself in the mirror many times and say 'I don't feel ugly'. You should

to have an attitude where you always see the good in yourself and highlight it

also ahead of all the others.

Humble and respectful

Being of high status is also being humble and respectful. You don't need to
to prove that you are better than other men. If you are a high man
statute, people will respect you. You do not need to confront.
with no one to show them how much you are 'high status'.
Developing empathy is also part of being a man of 'high status'.
You have to put yourself in other people's shoes and see things from their perspective.

their perspective. Women will notice everything unconsciously, that's why

If you are not paying attention to other people, they will notice.

There is a big difference between being a high-status male and being a

Donkey. Being of high status is related to respect, empathy, and listening. Do not...
try to play games or try to force yourself into another person's life.

You have to take the higher road. You always have to be respectful and you have
to show that you care. Being an elevated statue does not make you a man
better; it just means that you have the potential to be one of the best
men of the world if you strive and work on it every day.

Ambitious and goal-oriented

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If you want to be of high status, you have to be ambitious and confident.

It's important that you are like this with your friends, girlfriend, and family. You have...

to be someone who always takes risks, someone who is not afraid to

showing in public or speaking loudly. Lastly, you need to have charisma with
other people so that they can easily notice yours
qualities.

To be a man of high status, it is essential that you are someone.

who takes risks and is self-confident. It's easy to be a beta male and stay at home.

and whining all day long won't get you anywhere in life. If
if you want to be a high-status male, then you must demonstrate willingness
of adventure. If you are just doing what everyone else is doing,
then you will never distinguish yourself from anyone else.

To be a high-status man, it is important that you are ambitious and

that you pursue what you want. You must make a point of treating women as
princesses, you should always do things with style, like speaking in public or
go out with friends on an adventure. Finally, your family should know the
how important they are and how important they are for your life. It is crucial
Let them know this, take care of her as if she were royalty.

And last but not least...

Be a man with values

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If you are looking for a way to stand out in the competitive market of
current encounters, it's time to stop chasing physical beauty. The
women have always been the more emotional sex and they want stability
and determination in your men. If you can show that you are a
a man of worth, this will make you stand out from the rest.

The key is to show your commitment to being a man of values,

showing these qualities in your life every day: honesty,
integrity, honor, and loyalty among them.

Being a man of value is crucial to being seen as a high man.

statute, but many men fight against it. They have no idea what
means being a man of values. If you want women to see you
Here is a quick guide to being a man of values:

Be honest - it's not just a mantra for honesty when it comes to

of meetings; honesty is an important quality that men of
value is displayed in all its relationships.

If something is not right, speak up and resolve the situation. Honesty.

goes beyond the obvious things like not lying or exaggerating your achievements,
but assumes more subtle issues like being tired at work or
taking on too many responsibilities at home. If you don't want to work
tired of having a wife to take care of the house, so be honest and say.

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Be loyal - loyalty is the greatest virtue of a man of worth. It is your neighbor.

thoughts when something is not right in your relationship with a woman. If
things are not well, he goes back to what is well and does what needs to be done
so that things can be good again. Being loyal involves taking on more.
responsibility for other men, but you can never be too loyal.

Be trustworthy - a man of value does not limit himself to keeping his word,
he demonstrates it by doing what he says he will do. Keeping your word is a
sign that you are a man of value. If you do not keep your promises,
you are not being loyal to the men of value and women will not trust you
you.

Be honorable - honor is the reason why men commit their lives

to protect his countrymen. A man of honor does good to all,
it doesn't matter what kind of situation you are in, and you defend your friends
when they are unjustly treated.

Now you know that the most important thing is to show them your traits of
personality and you have what it takes to provide and protect.
he is a true man of high status. Trust me: when you
feeling like such, women will also notice this. Their intuition is
very good.

So, see this as a good opportunity to try to be the best.

version of yourself... not just to attract more women, but also to
live a more satisfying life.

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The only poisonous question

Now that you know what it takes to become a man of status

high status, let's talk about something that high status men
They never do.

High-status men do not show that the girls are too much
available. They have their own lives and schedules.

Have you ever been 'ghosted' (stopped responding) by a woman?

after a few days?

One of the reasons for this to happen is because you showed them that you are
too available. This happens, for example, when you send them
messages to meet, they choose a time and place, and you
you agree immediately. This is a no-no-no.

Therefore, one thing to keep in mind is this perceived availability and how
Everything you say or do can affect that.

Another very important thing that you should show like a man of
elevated status is leadership. You are the one who has to make the decisions for her,
not her. This may sound like machismo, but it is proven that women
they want men to make decisions for them. That's why it shows some
leadership whenever you can.

That said, the only question I call poisonous is this...

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When can we meet?

And all its possible variations, such as:

Where do you want to go?

Are you free on Saturday?

Where do you want to eat?

Especially if after she responds, you immediately agree with

her suggestion. This only shows (1) your lack of leadership and (2) that you are
too available.

The correct way to do it is to send messages like...

Hey, let's meet on Friday night at 9:00 PM for some drinks.

Can you understand the difference? If she responds, saying that she can't
and suggesting a different time, I strongly advise you not to accept. Give
just another suggestion. This will show you that you are not available.
when she wants, and will make her feel deep down how much you are a leader.

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How to Approach Women: Alternatives

That Do Not Involve Fear, Guilt or
Shame

A large part of men are afraid to approach women and feel

guilty for that. I know because it was the same years ago. I had a lot of
something in my favor and I still felt that something was missing as if there was nothing.

sufficient meaning in my life. The thing is, what was missing was
women!

But as soon as I got closer to one (and was rejected), all of these
feelings resurfaced: fear, guilt, shame.

When I was younger, I always felt anxious when I thought about

approach a woman. This feeling was so intense that many times I
didn't want to go out and meet new people.

Only a few years later did I really start to break this habit, but
Before that, there were many nights of drinking to help calm the nerves.

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I want to show you how I overcame my fear of rejection and others.

feelings that prevented me from approaching and developing relationships with

women.

And then, if it is something for which there is a solution (like overcoming the

shyness), we will talk about what can be done not only to overcome these
fears, but also to improve your life by meeting new women.

In the first part, we will see how YOU can start to approach the
women. In the second part, we will talk about how to make them want you.
I approach you.

So, let's get started!

The first thing I want to talk about is the fear of rejection and how it can
to be a great obstacle for those who are shy or have low
self-esteem - what includes most people in the world. It does not matter if
you are afraid that she will reject your advances or that she will reject you as a person - the

fear is still there.

In fact, this has a name, and it is something that all men feel -
it is called approach anxiety.

Why? Well, in the time of hunter-gatherers, the only way to

getting a woman was about approaching her directly - and what if she said
no, there went your chance to reproduce because all the other females

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from the tribe they would know you were rejected by another female - thus showing that

you were not a man of high status, as discussed earlier.

These days, that is not the case.

Even so, the anxiety of approaching torments 90% of men.

It's not hard to understand why this is so common for men.
After all, you are risking being rejected by a woman.

And furthermore, to overcome the anxiety of approaching, you have to talk to

a woman in public - which, once again, is counterintuitive for the
most men (and women) in this era of virtual hookup culture.

But you know what? No one cares if you are rejected or not! The
people are always concerned about themselves, not with what is
pass around them. They can pay attention for a few minutes, but
then they are forgotten forever.

They won’t wake up in the middle of the night, 5 years later, and think "Ah! That one

See how that bearded man was rejected by the girl in the blouse.
blue at the pizzeria... big palerma!

And if a woman rejects you... that's all she did - she rejected you. You move on.
face with your life - no one else cares about it. She is not like that
so special.

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And you will realize that it wasn't that bad. The anticipation and anxiety
Before the approach is always worse than actually being rejected.
In fact, when you are rejected, you will feel like a man of high status...
more than before!

Don't want to be seen as a "kid" by women. The "kids" are

those men who just watch from a distance, but never approach,
afraid of being rejected. Well, women know that they are
interested, but are too insecure to approach them.

The doormat never approaches a woman in public - no matter how much.

attractive as she is. So, as you can see, the mat is out of the running.
logo from the beginning. They are reactive men, who react to what happens. That
they complain about not having this or that. They are precisely the opposite of

Elevated Statute.

And this is a very dangerous mindset, because women end up with

better your consideration if you go there and say something, instead of
you will be looking from a distance.

But... what if you decide to go there... and she rejects you? No big deal. You move forward and talk.

with another woman. It's as simple as that. She's not anyone special.
It's just one more.

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But the big question: What can you do to start addressing

women like a true boss? Well, I have two methods
different to share with you.

These methods help me overcome the fear of rejection whenever

I want to meet a woman who has seen. It is a systematic way of
approaching women is as easy as breathing. As soon as you do it times
sufficient, it becomes completely natural.

First, let's start with my favorite. I call it the "Approach to "

"High State" only addresses women directly. Without
Sorry. This helped me become the man I am today. Here are the
steps:

The High Status Approach

1.) First, believe that you are a man of high status. The first step
is to realize that most men who have the guts to
To approach women, they are men of high status. You know.
They know it, and women know it.

You will always be better in a woman's mind if you get close to her.
of what you become when you stay away looking at her like a creep.

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2.) Get closer to her and say the first thing that comes to your mind. No
You need to think about it. No silly excuses. Because if
think about it... why do I need to justify your approach? Did you think -
you found her attractive and wanted to meet her, so you went there and approached her.

And she will appreciate that because most women are not approached.
as many times as you think there are. You can say something like:

Hello! I am Eric. What is your name?

Hello, I just saw you and I wouldn't forgive myself if I didn't come here to say hello. You have a

beautiful hair. What is your name?

3) Develops a connection to being friendly and open.

This step is basically telling the woman that you are kind, willing to be a friend.
what you want is to develop a connection with her. This can be done through
various ways, such as asking how she is, what she does for fun, the
what makes life, etc.

You can also ask for their opinion on things you may want to do or
what places are cool in the city or country where they are. But the most important

about this step it's very simple: act as naturally as possible.

4) Develops a deeper connection by revealing information to them.

guys.

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After you develop a connection, the next step is to leave the woman
Intrigued by you. For example, if she asks you what you do to you
entertain her, tell her things that she might find interesting and that reveal the
your elevated status, such as 'I like to play sports, travel through
places that are not full of tourists, try new food, and at the same time
Sometimes I like to go out at night and dance.

These things may seem simple, but women want to know more
about your personality and interests. If she asks you another question or gives
a response after I tell you these things, then act interested
Not what she says. When this happens, continue with the next step.

He asks for a contact so they can meet again.

When you are in a situation where both are interested

In the outro, ask for your contact. It is also here that you should act with confidence.

Even if she says no, she will appreciate that you asked and will be more
receptive to seeing you later; women like a man who has
some trust behind him. The best part is that, over time, this
will make you have a truly elevated status.

After you have developed your system and surpassed the initial phase of
"noise" that comes from your anxiety to get closer, is like putting on a pair
with glasses - the phase of autopilot.

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The anxiety of the approach - with practice - becomes history. And you will take
much better and more optimized decisions when it comes to women,
and this alone will boost your confidence to new heights.

Ok, so this is one type of approach. The next one does not show a statute.
so elevated, BUT it is infinitely better than standing there looking like a creep.

I call it the 'Storyteller Approach'. Why? Well,

because I’m going to tell you a story!

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The Approach of the Storyteller

It's a typical scenario: A boy wants to talk to a girl he just met.

to spot, but cannot find an opportunity. He does not want to be
Very straightforward. So what does he do?

The storytelling approach is one of the most effective ways to

any man communicating with a woman without showing too much
interested or direct.

It is a way to approach women without being too upfront. Men

those that are greener in their approach can benefit greatly from the
approach of the storyteller, but it is not always easy for some
men manage.

The storytelling approach has everything to do with telling stories

that were not designed to lead to a kiss or sex. Instead, it deals with
make it possible to build comfort and trust with your new friend.

The storyteller's approach makes it seem like your goal is not

the sex or the dating, but just to get to know her better. It gives you an option if

the conversation becomes awkward, why don't you make it feel like there is a
coupling climate.

It makes it easier for her to open up to you and trust that you won't try to take away.

party of her.

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Is the storytelling approach right for everyone? No, it is not.

necessarily. Some men will find this approach too
indirect and too uncomfortable.

Women can also interpret these approaches differently.

ways. You need a good mix of assertiveness and confidence
when you use the indirect approach to make sure she is always
effective in your favor, but never aggressive or insistent.

The steps to start a conversation with a girl using the

the approach of the storyteller is quite simple.

1) Make up a story or an excuse to talk to her. First, you have to

to have a line prepared before you approach her. This is your
homework - invent funny and interesting stories for you
to tell. It should seem spontaneous and not an excuse to talk to her (if
this way, it will make her see you as a man of low status.

2) Tell him the story and then continue the conversation.

Hey, do you know a good restaurant in the city? I had this experience once
where I tried a random restaurant in a different city, and
I found a worm in the food!

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You need to be able to tell a story that is interesting enough to

that she wants to hear. Ideally, these stories should seem genuine and you
make an elevated and full of personality statute. Let me give you
another example:

Let's say you see a girl looking at books in your library.

city. You can invent something like that:

"Hey, are you looking for your next book? It's just that I usually do my..."
I research first and see the online reviews. The last time I made a decision.
I regretted it immediately when I got home. Now I feel that
my life mission is to prevent other people from making the same mistake!

(she laughs or says something random)

What kind of book are you looking for? Maybe I can help.

Then you continue to talk to her and let the conversation flow. Now, how
you can see, something like this makes it seem like it was meant to be
they find themselves somehow. Furthermore, it shows them that you have patterns and

What it means to be an intelligent man (P.S. Women love men who read!)

That's why you should prepare some stories before going somewhere. There is always

an opportunity to meet beautiful women, regardless of the

your location.

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3) Establish a connection and then ask for a contact just like in

High Status Approach

Now, I will reveal two different techniques that I use all the time.
You should also start using them.

The first is the 'Impulsive Rule'.

The Impulsive Rule

For the men who found excuses not to get closer to

a woman, the impulsive rule may be exactly what they need.

The idea is that you should approach her immediately as soon as you see her. This
it makes everything easier because it forces you to do it.

Here are the steps for the impulsive rule:

1) When you see a woman you want to talk to, start walking over to her.
your direction.

Say something. If you're too nervous to say anything,

it's okay. Look her in the eyes and smile. Something will always come out when
you arrive in front of her. Or one of the stories you have practiced before or just
a simple approach to elevated status.

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3) If she responds, continue to speak normally. If she ignores you or

start talking to another person, so leave politely
as if nothing had happened. Don't worry - there are others too.
women around you who are looking for fun!

What is the purpose of the impulsive rule? To begin with, it prevents you from starting to

make excuses when you start to think about approaching a new woman.

When men start thinking about approaching someone, they tend to

making excuses not to approach women because they are
worried about what might happen or what might go wrong. But
If they do it, they may also be surprised at how well it goes.

The Impulsive Rule also helps us stop being afraid of the unknown.
and to come out of our own heads. It takes us out there into the world
talking to women we would never approach otherwise.

It's a great way to help you stop thinking and start doing!
How can you use the impulsive rule? You can use it in any situation in
what makes you start trying to avoid an interaction:

For example, when you see someone you know on the other side of the room -
approach them and introduce yourself.

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You see a friend or colleague you don't want to talk to - Use it when your
colleague or least favorite boss is taking a smoke break outside
of the building. You can use it to start the interaction, and then decide if
Do you want to continue talking or not.

See someone you would like to go out with - Use it when you find one.
attractive woman in a bar or another social situation. Use it when you see one.
attractive woman on the street. Use it when you walk around.

You see a woman on the bus, subway, or train - Use it when you see
a woman sitting alone. Approach her and start a conversation. She
it can be more welcoming than it seems!

It's easy to convince yourself not to do something because of all the reasons why
which will not result or why it may not be good for you. But if only
Act without thinking, you will realize that it is much easier than you thought.

The Impulsive Rule helps, in addition to avoiding excuses not to

approaching women, by setting a time limit so that you don't have
time for you to dissuade yourself from doing something. It also helps you to interact with

a woman without thinking about what her answer will be or how she will respond
negatively.

It's an icebreaker for your own nervousness because it forces you to act in the moment.

present moment with her, instead of worrying about what may

happen in the future or with what can go wrong if she doesn't like you.

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When women want you to approach them

Now, this next technique is a safe way to know if a

the woman wants you to approach her or not. And it's a technique that you will love because

it doesn't require much work from you.

The first sign is that she is making eye contact with you. And if she is
staring into your eyes for long periods of time, then it is a sign
Of course she wants to talk to you.

The second sign is that she looks at you, then looks away, and then comes back.
looking at you anew. If she does this in this order - it means she wants
that you get close to her. In other words, look at yourself, divert your gaze when you look,

she looks back a little while later.

Now, the final signal is an evolution of the previous one. If it makes contact
looking at you, looking down, and then looking back at you... then she
She is 10000% into you. YOU HAVE TO APPROACH HER!

Otherwise, she will think that you are not a man of high status. Therefore,
You just need to go and she will give you all her attention. Use the approach of
status elevated in this case. This will trigger a psychological reaction
in her mind.

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How to make a woman approach you.

It is every man's dream to be approached by women. By default, the

men are biologically programmed to be the ones to approach the
women, and women have something called a filtering mechanism to
filter out low-status men. Women are very demanding in
relation to whom they relate, due to the inherent risk.

But, every now and then, if you can show him that you are a man of
High status, then she can approach you first.

The biggest factor at play here is your body language. It's the most important factor.

important to impress someone you have never spoken to.

We will discuss this in depth in the next chapter.

Another important thing to be addressed is the circle you find yourself in.
This means that you should not be in a group - you should be alone - and she
She should also not be in a group. Women rarely approach.
of a boy first, so if she is going to do it, she cannot risk being
rejected in front of your friends.

That said, if you ever find yourself alone near a woman

attractive and also alone, let's see how you manage
communicate with her subconsciously that she can approach you in
security. I call it the 'I don’t bite' Method:

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1. Have an open body language. Many people do not understand the

meaning of the term 'open body language'. I am here to change
That's it. Open body language is when you have your arms and legs
uncrossed and you are displaying comfortable facial expressions without signs
manuals that show you are nervous or insecure.

2. Give him a reason to get closer to you. Okay, imagine that you are in
her situation - you want to get close to someone, probably never it
you did it before, and you have no idea what to say - how would you feel?
Probably anxious... and you would probably freeze in place. That's why
"to give him a reason to get closer to you" actually means to create a
easy opportunity for her to have a casual conversation with you. In the
most of the time, women choose an indirect approach.

Do you want an example? If you are in the library, pick up a book and start reading.

It's easy for her to come to you and ask something about that book in
particular or even books in general. Now, in this particular example, it is
it's important to maintain open body language and a
welcoming facial expression.

Look at her from time to time, and when your eyes meet,
smile slowly to subconsciously communicate that you are approachable and a
friendly type in general. Repeat until she gets closer.

Now, please note that this may not happen. That

sexy lady that you have been watching for the last 30 minutes can

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I have never seen you. They are just not programmed.

biologically to do it.

BUT! if she is showing interest in you by looking at you the way she does
I taught at the beginning of this chapter, I would approach her myself. This is the

best approach 97% of the time. Because it shows that you are status
high and will soon give you extra points. Why be reactive when you can
to be proactive?

The only time I wouldn't approach a woman first is if

was genuinely doing something more important. In the example of
library, if I really needed to finish reading that book by
any reason, then I would continue to read it and watch her from time to time - if
if she comes closer, it's fine; if she doesn't come closer, it's okay, because I
I really had to finish the book anyway.

As for social networks, the best you can do is to post things.

interesting that communicate your high status. (I will discuss this in
next chapter). If you have followed my advice and responded to
random form to the stories of women on social media, so for this
height, they are probably already responding to your own as well
stories. So guess what... They're coming closer to you!

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Attract women through the

understanding of the subconscious

For most of my life, I have failed with women, despite

to be the model of the 'perfect man'. Not physically, but in the sense that
he treated well and had all the typical characteristics that women
They are looking for a man.

But even so, I wasn't having the success I wanted. I took a long time.
some time realizing what the problem was.

I started my journey of discovering everything about how the brain works

female and after many months, after experiencing most of the
psychological techniques known to man, I finally started to have
some success.

It took me a while to get over all this because there was so much information.
wrapped up in so many different books and courses. But when I finally saw the
light, everything made sense.

The subconscious mind of a woman loves intelligence and language.

powerful body language. Being intelligent and powerful with body language
being strong is more important than being rich, friendly, nice, funny,
pretty, etc. All these things are smaller. When the mind

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her subconscious feels that you are intelligent, powerful, and a provider, doesn't it?

you can resist!

If you want to attract girls, you need to know these things. It's not difficult to

to learn. And since you are reading this now, I am almost sure that you want
learn more about these things.

In addition, one of the most important steps to avoid ending up in

this is a dangerous friend zone, so make sure you take your time
and you execute all these crucial techniques that will make her feel
attracted to you.

The reason why too many men are stuck with a woman that
they only see them as friends, they didn't do things right from the beginning

day. That’s why start implementing what you are about to learn now
so that, when you meet new women, you never risk again
to be sent to the hell of unrequited love!

Girls can feel magnetically attracted to boys without

any reason; other times they may feel attracted to someone who does not
it is a good match for them.

This chapter also discusses the importance of being aware of

that we are constantly attracting people into our lives, and how
it is important - especially when we are dating or looking at
potential partners in life - being aware of the type of person for

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what we are really attracted to on a subconscious level (and

understand why this happens).

Because, if you think about it, our 'intuition' and subconscious dictate the
most things in our life. Even if you don't realize it. It is because
this is how you can attract the type of woman you want - by assaulting her
subconscious.

We are about to discuss body language and programming techniques

neurolinguistics to increase the attraction of a potential partner. And don't you
don't worry, because all the techniques we are going to review are adapted to the

female brain and it has been proven that they work time and again.

Body Language

Why is body language so effective? Well, because humans

They start learning to read body language when they are children.

And it is a skill that we never stop using. Over time, these

skills mature within our subconscious mind. What,
As you know, it is much more powerful than our conscious mind.

All of our emotions are also in the subconscious mind, that's why
when you speak with your body, it is much easier to evoke emotions in

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women because they will be listening with their subconscious - not with the
weak and conscious brain!

This means that you can use this knowledge to your advantage when attracting.
women. By now, you must have heard that only 8% of what
We communicate through words. The other 92% is through form.
how we use our body to speak. Understand and master the
body language can help you achieve your goals, conquer
people and achieve the success you deserve.

Body language refers to the non-verbal signals we emit through

of facial expressions, gestures, posture, tone of voice, and eye contact. These
signals are often more important than the words we say.

It's easy to underestimate the amount of information that body language conveys.

send and how it affects our relationships. Many times we judge a book
by its cover without opening it or understanding what is happening inside.

This is because body language can tell us a lot about a person.

even before we got to know her - her moods, feelings,
emotions and intentions.

The importance of body language cannot be underestimated in our

society where communication is the key to success, but many of
we have communication problems. This has a negative impact
in our relationships, friendships, meetings, and business capabilities.

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So stay tuned because I will give you a master class on language

corporal. First, let's review what male body language is
attractive so that you can start using it to your advantage.

Then, let's review feminine body language and what the

behaviors that are indicators of interest and disinterest. By
last but not least, let's analyze some techniques
individuals that you can easily connect and play to create a desire
uncontrollable in the female brain.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Now let's talk about neuro-linguistic programming, also known

as NLP. NLP is a great way to make an impression on
someone.

Think of this as social engineering: you want your target's guard down, and
then you change your opinions or thoughts using words that are
more appealing than what they expected. You can use this technique in
everyday situations just as easily as for the ladies!

Neuro-linguistic programming is often used as a means

of persuasion. It can be designed to influence behavior
of people or change their thoughts and feelings. This technique

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is now being successfully applied in many industries

different, but what about social situations?

The neuro-linguistic programming model focuses on the processes of

perception, cognition, and behavior. Neuro-linguistic programming
analyzes the way perception influences cognition, which in turn
influence behavior.

Combines a series of different techniques for persuasion and self-

development. These techniques include hypnosis, neuro-programming
linguistics, behavioral science, behavioral engineering, and analysis
transactional. So you can see its potential when it comes to
influence the female mind?

But don't worry, as most of the techniques have not been created yet.
With that in mind, I have already gone through most of them and adapted them - giving-

it's my own touch. And that's what we're also going to learn in this
chapter.

In the following pages, I will not classify what you will learn as
["body language techniques","NLP techniques","hypnosis techniques"]
because, most of the time, they overlap and each model uses techniques
from the others.

What matters here is that all the techniques you are about to learn
they work, and that is what we are looking for.

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Attractive male body language

Let's start with attractive male body language. This is

Normally what women look for. Male body language
more attractive includes things like confident, strong positions or
dominant. When a man stands up or walks with his shoulders
back and head held high (which projects an air of confidence), is the
do this for the woman in front of you and for any other woman who it
may be observing from afar.

A man does not need to be physically attractive to have these traits.

It all comes down to being well-spoken and acting like a leader around women.

The key is to learn how women perceive attraction.

different from men and knowing how you find yourself when the time comes to
talking to a woman face to face.

It is also known that body language has the power to influence your
cérebro subconsciente. Isto significa que quando adoptas uma linguagem
confident body, your body will send positive signals to your brain,
making you genuinely more confident. That's why the main trick
Here it is: fake it until you make it!

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Posture

Let's start with your posture:

Stand tall or walk with your shoulders back and your head held high. This
it is one of the most important things to practice if you want to be more attractive

for women.

Get up and walk straight, but don't overdo it! You don't want to end up a
soldier at attention. But for optimal attraction, it's a good idea to stay.
against the wall when you can, so that you can check if your
the posture is perfect.

The next thing you should think about when developing a

attractive male body language is: How do I use mine
hands?

Make sure your hands are relaxed, open, visible (without

fists or handshake), and next to your body. You do not want to appear
threatening. You only want to send the message that you are a confident person

that will not resort to violence or intimidation.

But how do you communicate that in a non-verbal way without showing it

literally this? Leaving your hands visible and free.

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You can also use your head, neck, and shoulders when sending.
Messages to women. For example: Look them in the eyes while you speak.

You can also ask them something while looking into their eyes (this is
truth for any conversation). Women find this attractive because
makes it seem more confident and engaging.

When you stand or walk with your shoulders back and your head up
standing up, this also sends the message that you are not someone normal. This
It emerges as a masculine body language, but women do not
I find it threatening as men often tend to find it in.
Western cultures. This body language is considered very elevated.
because when a man has this type of body language it is
considered stronger and more dominant.

Remember to make eye contact with people while you speak.

They. Women find this attractive because they tend to interpret the
eye contact as meaning that you are interested in them when the
you do. But be careful not to use too much eye contact or
So your subliminal signals may seem intimidating.

When you are walking or standing with a confident posture, you will also
note that you have more space around you and other people may give up on
some space for them to let you pass. This is just one more thing that

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will make women feel comfortable around you and want to stay
more time in conversation.

To slow down your movements and maintain control is also considered

very attractive to women.

This is because it creates a calmer and more relaxed vibe. Women are
but stimulated by small and subtle movements more than men.
When you move slowly, that is impressive body language.
with which women will connect on a subconscious level, making you
thus more attractive to them.

Here are the 3 steps that I like to use:

Lift your chin and make eye contact with people.

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Pull your shoulders back and show your chest.

3. Slow down your movements. Move slowly. If you are standing,

keep your feet shoulder-width apart.

You can start practicing this in front of your mirror to feel it, but
get used to this position and use it as often as possible until it
become natural. It's a real game changer!

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Now, I have a FANTASTIC technique to teach you that will help you not
only manage to get this posture right whenever you want, but also to
make sure you are using throughout the day. I call it the "technique of
mouthpiece.

The 'Mouthpiece Technique.'

Imagine entering your room, as usual. But this time, there is a

mouthpiece at the level of your mouth, attached to a string, tied to the top of the door. If

This may seem confusing, here is an image to illustrate what I mean.

Now, imagine that every time you enter your room, you bite the mouthpiece and
you continue walking. According to Physics, what happens if you do this?

If you keep walking with the mouthpiece in your mouth when it is

caught at the door...

Your chin will automatically lift.

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Your shoulders will be pulled back and your chest will come forward.

AND THERE YOU GO! This is the posture we are looking for. You just need to imagine that

This mouthpiece exists in all the doors you pass through during the day.

If you do it, you are going to adopt this posture every time you go to the office, to

classroom, or to the café. And this is the best way to make an entrance
To kill! Women can't help but notice you.

Now let's talk about your body language when you sit.

Sitting

These are the steps to have confident body language when

you are sitting. In general, the most important thing is to have an appearance

comfortable.

1. Sit up straight in your chair and keep your back straight. NEVER
You look all crooked and careless! That's the worst you can do.

Keep your weight in front of the seat and not on the back, you want to look
open to new ideas and people when you take up space to show yourself
trust.

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3. Avoid crossing your arms in front of you, as it emits a signal of vibration.

aggressive that indicates that you are closed off to others or that you feel

defensive regarding conversation topics.

Avoid moving your hands and feet to show that you are confident and calm.
and collected.

5. Make eye contact with others but do not stare at them.

6. Smiling is always a good idea, it tells the other person that you are approachable and

friendly.

7. If you have positive body language when you sit down,

you will communicate confidence to those around you which, in turn, will
increase your own level of confidence.

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8. TAKE UP SPACE! A high-status man is not afraid to take up space.

arms, legs and occupy as much space as possible.

In fact, you should always keep this 'taking up space' with you. Give a
look at these images and tell me they don't seem to be of status
elevated.

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Now that we have gone through the attractive aspect of body language, let's
see what positive and negative body language is.

You need to know it to adapt and show one or the other when
You interact with a woman. Positive and negative body language
it depends on the direction you are taking. Here is a simple explanation
of positive and negative body language.

Positive and Negative Body Language

Positive: Tell people that you have their attention and that you are open to

communication. The trick is: you can't show body language

positive to a woman at all times.

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She has to earn it, otherwise she will assume that you are too easy and
too interested in her right from the start. The best approach is to give her
a positive body language when you approach her or at the beginning of
interaction, and then take it away immediately so that she doesn't assume that you

it's too easy.

Negative: It shows the person that your attention is not on them, but rather on someone else.

side. This includes turning your body to the side (as if you were about to leave)
and shift the weight of your body onto the leg that is farther away from the
person or group of people.

Once again, the secret is not to use negative body language during
long periods of time when you want to have a more romantic date
with a woman. If you do, then she will think that you are not interested.
nela.

It is important to remember that, just like in positive body language, neither

it's always necessary to use it when trying to impress someone. Also
podes usá-la como meio de proteção contra alguém que esteja a enviar
negative signs.

Therefore, what you should look for is a mix of positive body language.
and negative. You must start to show your positive body language,
facing her with your whole body and leaning in, putting your weight on the
in front of your feet.

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Then, you switch to negative body language by pointing your feet.

to another direction, as if you were about to leave. If she is
interested in you, so she will choose that subconscious cue and
invest more in the interaction so you don't leave.

As you begin to notice that she is invested in the interaction and

interested in you, you will start to face her with your whole body like a
a way to reward good behavior. This is extremely
powerful but you should not do it too much. With time, this comes
naturally. From time to time, you can also lean towards him
show that you are really paying attention to her.

Female Body Language

Often men focus on the wrong things, leading to

many missed opportunities. It is also common for men to think
that women are interested in them when, in fact, this is not the case.
I could not be further from the truth - and I know this because it happened to me.

many times!

But, after reading this chapter, you will be able to detect when a
a woman is truly interested in you. This kind of signals cannot
it is counterfeit, so if you see a couple, it's better not to ruin everything.

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There are many ways for women to show interest in men without
actually saying it out loud. In fact, there are tons of actions and
different behaviors that can help you find out if she is or
not interested.

Fortunately for you, we have compiled all these signs in one place so that you do not
Don't miss any opportunities with women who want to take things to the next level.

with you. Please understand that a single signal may not mean much.

Your job is to pay attention to all these signs. The more you see, the greater it is.
your romantic interest in you.

Female romantic interest can be displayed in various ways: signs

facial expressions, body language, and behavior.

Facial signals include things like a woman looking you in the eyes.
(for more than 1-2 seconds); smile more for you; will have the pupils a
slightly dilated; may tilt their head when talking to you (as if
pay more attention to yourself.

Body language includes things like a woman touching you; it can

lean towards your side; can touch you in public, etc.

Behavior - the woman will initiate the relationship, so that she can be seen by
both parties as being the more desirable of the two.

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Here are some of the most common signs that a woman is

romantically interested in you:

She plays with her hair and moves it while talking to you. This is a
way of flirting.

When she is sitting near you, she leans towards you in the position of
open body and/or rests the head on your shoulder.

When talking to the other person, she keeps looking back at you to see.
What's happening.

She shows her neck and tilts her head when she talks to you. This is a
signal of submission and it is a very big signal.

And then they make a decision and look at you or ask you what yours is.
opinion.

It touches the back of your hand as a sign of interest.

She holds hands with a romantic interest in order to convey her

interest.

- She laughs at your jokes. It doesn't matter if the joke is funny or not, since
that makes you laugh and smile a little more than usual, then this means

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What could happen with the interest they have in being friends?
versus romantic interests for another person.

She finds opportunities to touch you. This is a sign that the woman
she may be interested in more than just being friends, and she is trying
give more indications about your interest (and possibly intention).

Even if subtly, you must pay special attention to this.

This usually happens if she is indeed romantically involved.
attack on you OR if you already have a great relationship. So, pay a lot of attention
pay attention to see if you spot more of the other signals.

She tries to keep the conversation alive when you stop talking.

She asks you questions about yourself. This is a sign that she is interested.
to know more than just your name.

She gives you compliments.

She keeps looking at you for a while and doesn't look away when
look at her.

- She points her feet at you. As you know, this is body language.
positive and she is subconsciously telling you that she wants you to talk to
her. This is especially useful if you're in a group. Always note to
where women's feet are pointing. You can pick up some clues

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about who is interested in whom. It's a very fun game to play.

play.

She touches you back when you touch her. This one is also very big. There is a
reciprocity factor that we humans have. We feel obligated to
to reciprocate in most situations, so if you touch her, and she touches you back
volta - this is one of the greats.

She does not move away when you lean in or enter her personal space.

Now that you know what female interest indicators are like, it's time to
it's time to start paying attention so you don't miss any of them.
Because, sometimes, women get bored of trying to show you the
how much they care about you, and if you don't make your move in time, they will move on

for another man.

You lose your opportunity and are placed in the horrible friend zone. And this
it happens often, so don't miss it next time. Don't you
Don't worry, you'll learn to make your move flawlessly in no time.

CTELP Method (the 5 techniques)

I will now teach you my 'CTELP Method' which is responsible for 80% of
my success with women - believe it or not. Why? Because it is super
easy to remember and has the greatest effect on the subconscious brain.

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I created it many years ago when I was still learning the language.
corporal, NLP and primordial attraction. I was reading what I could find
and instead of helping me improve... I was becoming too
overwhelmed. There were too many techniques for me to remember - and most of them

They were making me look like a fool or they really weren't that way.
effective.

That's why I decided to invent something that was easy to remember, extremely
powerful and completely submerged on the radar. And that’s what I did.

I call it the 'CTELP Method', and you should start using it as soon as

meeting a new woman. This is how it works: it is an acronym and each

the lyrics represent a technique that you should apply. You should record them deep within

in your mind, and repeat them A LOT throughout your day.

Eventually, they become automatic and you will start doing them all the time.
that you want to attract a girl. That's how I did it, and that's how you will do it.
to do also.

Eye contact
Touch
Personal space
Body Language
Questions

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So what you do is repeat them in your mind many times throughout your
day. Especially when you are about to have an interaction with a
woman. Repeat this internally and you will know exactly how you should
behave (after you read the explanation I am about to give you).

Ask questions

This will help you keep the conversation going with little or no effort.
the mindset you should adopt is an insatiable curiosity. Look at the
woman you are talking to as if she were the most
interesting about planet Earth.

Do you understand what I mean? You should develop this innate curiosity.
Think 'I want to know everything about this person' because, if you do, that will
appear. She will be able to see that you give her attention and that you find her interesting.

And as soon as you adopt this mindset, you will start asking questions
better. Don't think that you are showing too much interest or that
you are being boring - you are not.

Since it also contributes to the conversation with some comments,

are you ready to go. Use only common sense and do not turn a
casual conversation in an interview.

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Why does this work so well? Because it's women's favorite topic.
it's always the same. Themselves. In fact, this is the favorite topic of
ALL people.

We all love to talk about ourselves, especially if someone asks us.

pay attention and ask us questions about our lives. We love him.
Have you ever met someone who had a genuine interest in what
Did you have to say and that they were always asking you questions?

You start talking about everything for hours, and meanwhile the guy barely talks about himself.

When you leave, you think to yourself: "That guy was

cool. I hope to see you again.

All he did was ask questions and show some interest in what
you had to say. That's right. Whenever I meet someone new, the
The first thing I do is ask some general questions until I can understand.
identify what this person's specific interests are, then
I start asking questions about these interests. It always works.

Let's say I just met a woman who seems to be super fit and
athletic. I start by asking if she practices any sport. If she says that
I play volleyball, so I instantly adopt the mindset of 'the volleyball'
it's the coolest thing ever" and I start asking him questions about it. And
that's it.

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You should also develop what is called 'active listening'. Because, if

you hear every word that escapes your lips, then the next ones
Questions will come naturally. And while she talks about something, she
it will probably imply other aspects of your life, and you can use them
to ask other questions and dive into other topics later.

You can also save these questions to restart the conversation if

ever gone through some "awkward silences".

Body Language

Very well, we have already discussed body language at the beginning of this chapter.

Both your body language and the body language of women.

So this acronym is to remind you that you need to load yourself with
a perfect posture at ALL TIMES (you never know who is watching)
ver).

It also helps you remember the many female indicators of interest.

What you should detect when talking to a woman. That's why this is in
truth two things: help you become more aware of your own
body language, and remember the importance of body language of
women.

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Eye Contact

Eye contact is one of the easiest and most powerful ways to give
attention to someone. To make someone feel heard, understood and
validated. The simple fact of maintaining eye contact with a woman for
A few more seconds than usual makes your relationship stronger.

In the era of hunter-gatherers, our ancestors used the

eye contact all the time to assess someone. That's why it is still so
important nowadays. Maintaining eye contact with someone creates
intimacy and develop your relationship. This has been proven by science
countless times.

But there is also a middle ground. You shouldn't keep looking forever. Look
from the side every now and then, but always try to hold your gaze one to two
seconds more than what seems comfortable to you.

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Personal Space

Proxemics are very important when it comes to attraction. There are

4 distinct zones, which are intimate space, personal space, social space, and
public space. Everyone has a different level of personal preference with
proxemic zones.

But we are here to talk about personal space. Personal space,

also known as 'personal bubble', is the zone around your body that
you consider safe for you. This space is violated when someone
close to you.

Personal space is vast if you want to get close to someone and/or make...
they feel comfortable around you, which means they feel
comfortable around you. Most people feel tension and anxiety
when your personal space is invaded by someone you don't know very well
well.

In the book 'The Art of Seduction', Robert Greene talks about how seduction has
everything to do with reaching someone's personal space. It makes them
feel free and comfortable around you because you are in the zone
of them. This also increases the chances of a woman having sex
with you because she will feel more comfortable and secure around you.

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That said, entering someone's personal space is a strong indicator of

familiarity and intimacy. Women are accustomed to having only
those they trust the most within their personal space.

That's why playing with proxemics is so important. You can use it.
strategically to increase sexual tension at the right moment and to
increase the sexual chemistry between you two. So get closer to her
when you have the opportunity.

As soon as you start to feel some comfort and connection between the two of you,

You should start entering your personal space.

At first, it may become a little uncomfortable because it raises

some tension. However, if she feels attracted to you, that tension
it transforms into sexual tension - which is what you seek. It also
will show that you are a high-status man who is not afraid to act
a move.

Another positive aspect is that she will get used to having you really close to her.
, subconsciously, your brain will see you as someone with
who can share some intimacy.

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Touch

Playing is one of the most important things you can do. And you should start.
as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the worse it gets. And this is not
Hydra with seven heads, in fact, the more time you spend doing it, the more natural it becomes.

he becomes. But you have to do it.

Touch creates sexual attraction and intimacy. Surprisingly, most

men are afraid to touch women. That is why the simple fact of
touching her shows that you are a man of high status. Moreover, it creates
a physical connection - which is really important if you ever want it
take to bed.

If you don't touch her, she won't receive the message that you want to have.
sexual or romantic intimacy with her. And if you don't touch her, you will have

difficulty in building sexual desire in her.

Women are very sensitive to touch. She can perceive how much
your desire is strong even with just one or two touches.

When you make her feel good about herself, she will start to
thinking about sex more often and becoming aroused without any warning
on your side. You can use this to your advantage, doing things
happen on your terms and not hers.

This brings us to the next point - touching her makes her feel good.

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And women feel good when they have that adrenaline. That's why it is
most likely she will agree with whatever you say or do. And if
if you can make a woman feel good about herself, she will be more
receptive and naturally more attracted to you.

It is true that most women react positively when they are

you touch. It helps to build sexual attraction and opens the door to sex.
right moment. I will explain why.

And the more you touch her, the more comfortable she will feel around you. It is a
virtuous cycle. It also creates a sexual vibe between the two of you. And the
the way she sees you affects all her behavior. Therefore, if she
perceive your relationship as having a sexual vibe, it will become more
sexual with you.

However, there are two things you must do:

Do not touch him too much. Touch him at the right time and in the right context.

Let's go into more details about how and when soon.

time. But let me start by telling you this: every time you touch a
woman, she will get excited and respond positively - unless, of course, that
do not feel attracted to you at all (which is unlikely).

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You can touch her a little too much, to the point where she thinks it's strange and

not feeling so good about yourself because of it. On the other hand, if
if you don’t touch enough for a long time, your masculinity will be
questioned and this can be a problem when you are trying to date
with her or trying to be intimate with her later.

The trick here is to increase your touch accordingly. By doing so, she
they will never feel uncomfortable and will never understand what you are trying
to do (at least consciously). There are 3 levels of touch. You start
with level 1 and you move to level 3 - where, at that point, your sexual tension
should be extremely high.

Level 1 - Hands and arms

Handshake
Shoulder touch
A subtle touch on her arm while you speak.
"But five" when she agrees with you (or anything else
situation
Grab the hand
A light bump while walking

You can be creative here and just touch her on the hand and arms when you have her.
opportunity.

Level 2 - Legs and trunk

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Rest your leg on hers while you're sitting

Rub your abdomen against hers while you talk
Touch him on the back when you have the opportunity
Hugs
Take her somewhere with your arm around her
Hold her torso with your hand while you speak.
Place your hand on her thigh

Level 3 - Face and Neck

Pull her hair away from her face

Rest your face next to hers while you talk (ideal if you are
in a place full of people
He messes with her necklaces

Make little parties on her cheeks

Place her head on your shoulder
Smell the neck
Run your fingers over her face while looking into her eyes
Run your fingers through her hair

These are the levels you should know. Gradually move up the scale to
increase your sexual tension and for you to be able to take her to bed
later.

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This is the CTELP Method, and as I said, you should repeat this acronym at
length of your day until it becomes automatic. It's a game changer.

Framing (and the 6-word sentence)

I will teach you a technique called 'framing' and how you can use it.
to make women try to win you over instead of you winning them over
you will try to conquer. By framing the girl as the one who is trying
to conquer you (and not you her), her ego will make her conquer you to
not feeling rejected by you.

Making her the huntress can change the power dynamics in your favor, by
at the same time it encourages her to start following you more
actively.

Some guys think this technique is a bit bad or manipulative.

because it implies that the girl will want to have sex with you just to
validation.

But honestly, I don't think framing a girl like that, does

any evil - in fact, can be extremely beneficial.

If you play your cards right, she will be so busy trying to prove to you
(and to herself!) that is desirable, that will not even care about your
own reasons.

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So how do you frame the girl as being the one who tries to take you away?
for the bed? It's simple. The phrase below is my favorite, but you can
invent your own variations. The 6-word phrase:

Sorry, but I don't want to sleep with you.

I usually use this a little after I start talking. When

do you feel that she is asking too many questions or just demonstrating
interest in you - drop this bomb. It's a super powerful framing, and
You will see how she will be more interested in you right after.
You just denied her and now she needs your attention. Her ego needs it.
to conquer you.

Here are other variations:

I must be really cool if a girl like you is trying to sleep with me.

You must really want me to come talk to you.

Are my lips so sensual? You can't stop looking at them.

This seems crazy, but go on, because the more you play with the
your own power, but she will do it too. This is part of seduction - a
state of constant tension where both people feel that they are
to chase each other and not the other way around.

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If this happens, you will be able to relax around her and start having more fun.
instead of having a great burden on your shoulders - trying to convince you
It's about her wanting you and not the other way around.

Even if you think the girl is not trying to seduce you, that does not
it matters. What matters is that you play with what she might feel. It's like
a magic trick where the magician makes you believe in something that is not real,
but when you see it happen, it becomes reality - even if your eyes don't
have been deceived in the first place.

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Develop Comfort: Where the Relationship Is

won and lost

Although they now show interest in each other, they still need to feel that
they know each other. You have to invest in building comfort
because comfort is actually what gives you the girl - the relationship is won in
comfort. If you cannot build comfort, you do not advance to the
next step.

In fact, you will have done all your work for nothing. Even if you succeed
building comfort, it’s not over yet - only 50% of the work is done here
Height. Now that you and the girl are comfortable with each other like
friends, what follows is an important step for a relationship.

If she hasn't realized yet that you both can have a conversation.
fantastic and natural together, this is the time to do it. in the future, when
if she is deciding whether to call you back, you don't want her to think
everything we've done so far has been talking about pets and
of time.

The same idea applies to the first date: no matter how good it was, if
it would only consist of talking about superficial things, it probably wouldn't work out

a good tone for a second date.

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This is the main reason why most phone numbers are

false and for which most women stop responding to you and stop giving you
attention.

It's not that they don't like you and it's not that, suddenly, they don't have energy.

to concentrate on a conversation for an hour, but rather that they

they got used to the superficial conversations that both of you had
Previously. A deep conversation is a huge point of attraction.

Not only that, but she must feel that the connection between you two was real.
and genuine, regardless of what they have said.

When you are talking, you should show her that she is the only girl with
who you should talk to. Whenever a girl is talking to a boy, it is
because she wants his attention in some way. Just as if she were
talking to the most beautiful girl in the room, she is trying to impress.
hardly not to seem like an idiot (a big ego check).

Your goal as a man is not for her to look like an idiot, but rather that
you and she seem perfect for each other.

However, when you are with her and you try too hard - even if it is
to build comfort - this means that your attempts are working
false or forced. If you are just stumbling over yourself trying to make it
happy and you're thinking 'my oh my, I hope this girl likes me'
this leaves a bad taste in the girl's mouth.

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If she feels that you are a fantastic guy, but has never seen any effort from you.

before (you did nothing but try to impress her), so there is no way
for her to know if all of this was an act. She must feel that you were putting
so much energy as she was putting in.

If she has the impression that your time with her is always fun and
exciting, then she might think "wow, he really puts 110% into everything"
what we do. And he believes that I am a fantastic girl and
special.

It’s better for her to feel that you are putting all your energy into both if
enjoying together, rather than the impression that you are putting all the energy
for her and doing nothing more than spending time with her.

This is because when she leaves, she will never forget the effort that
you do to try to make her happy - especially if your attempts are
always successful.

The aim of creating comfort is not just to spend more time.

with the girl and enjoy each other's company, it's also to let her
comfortable to praise you or to catch the physical touch that you already know it is

crucial. If you are starting to play, it's a good sign.

If she starts dating you or playing with you and you do the
Still, things can get very good when you progress to a

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real romantic situation. At this moment, however, it is still vital that the
the construction of comfort continues, even if it takes more time.

Girls like to receive compliments from boys - a lot - but it is not

we often hear this from our parents or from other boys in our
age. Girls usually do not give compliments because society teaches us to
teaches that it is men who should make us feel good and to seek
Compliments are a sign of weakness or being 'clingy'.

The girls will act more talkative when they don't feel
comfortable with you. This is a good thing. If she is not at ease to
talking to you, it will be less likely that I want to talk about your life
or express your feelings.

However, when we feel more comfortable together, things

What happens when you two are comfortable?

Your conversations become deeper and more intimate. It is at this time that
dating and playful compliments can really be fun and
natural when you hear an "awwwwww" from someone you like
it happens naturally without you thinking twice about it.

If you expect to have a natural conversation with a girl, you need to make sure
that she feels comfortable talking to you. This is the purpose of the
building of comfort. The best way to make it comfortable is by being a

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a great man who makes her feel good. There are three ways to do it.
to feel comfortable

Be a gentleman and treat her with respect. As I said before, be

a gentleman having an effortless conversation and listening when she speaks.

There is no reason for your voice to become tense in an uncomfortable way.

in front of her or start to shake when you are trying too hard.
Think like this, she is already feeling very well because you are trying to put her
comfortable with you. Why make things harder for her?

You are trying to seem optimal by making a positive impression on

girl - even if you're not trying. You can't be afraid to seem
strange or nervous if she is watching. Some boys pass
too much time trying to avoid looking nervous and end up doing so
worse than they were before.

Just have fun, and don't worry about it. Women love it.
confidence and trust come from inner strength; it is a state of mind that
come from within, not something you should try to pretend.

She will talk to you about herself. When a woman feels comfortable with you, she will

want to know more about you. She will ask questions to get to know your
passions, goals, strengths and weaknesses. For this reason, it is important to
a boy shares his hobbies and interests with a girl he likes.
like.

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If she feels that you are being selfish (that is, trying not to tell her about
you may start to doubt your intentions and begin to not like you
or feeling uncomfortable around you for no reason!

Women love independent and self-sufficient men because why not.

they have to worry about whether the man will be present or not when more
they need him.

On the other hand, the type of man who depends too much on his woman at
wanting her to take care of him or make decisions for him, leads to
that a woman feels uncomfortable because she feels that he does not have
self-respect.

She feels that he is a man without any passion and does not know who he is;
she may even start to resent him.

Create a good mood in the group. Talking about yourself is very important.
so that she feels comfortable with you, but there are other things you can do
do it to help create an excellent state of mind in your conversation
also.

Pay attention to your body language and tone of voice. Try not to smile if
not feeling happy. Many times, a boy smiles too much because he
really happy with your wife. This can make her feel
uncomfortable, because she assumes that he is only pretending to be happy.

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If you feel uncomfortable next to a girl, take a moment.

to check how you are acting and then change your attitude in
conformity before she feels any tension between you two (or
It is not her fault). If you are nervous in her presence, take a deep breath.
relax your mind.

Then look her in the eyes and smile. If you have trouble relaxing around
a girl realizes that she will understand that something is wrong if not
act naturally around you.

When you talk to an attractive girl, it is quite likely that she has
different standards than the average girl would have when it comes to
meetings.

Girls tend to be more picky than boys regarding the

type of people they date, so don't be afraid to
express your feelings boldly when talking to a
woman that interests you.

Now they will have a slight advantage. They will be more easily those who
who will be given half an hour to present their case. They will be
seen as more credible than their accusers.

It is important to keep in mind that the construction of comfort is a step

necessary for a relationship, but when you get there, the conversation doesn't have

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limits. You can talk about everything you like and feel free to be more
more open and honest with each other than with others.

Of course, one of the first things a girl will notice when

whether she feels comfortable around you or not. Remember
only that the good feelings she feels are much more important
than the time the conversation lasts.

However, if she still does not feel comfortable around you, make sure that
you take your time until things change before moving on to the next step
2: socialize (this may take months!).

If you feel that she is not going to open up to you, it is better for both of you.

separate for a while so that she can feel more comfortable with you
come back when you meet again. You will not be rejected if you do not give more
one step because there is still another important part before you jump to
Inside: Socialize! She needs to see how fun and confident you are with.
other people.

If she doesn't know this, then she won't want to have anything to do with you.

Just as the construction of comfort is a necessary step for a

relationship, socialization is another important step for dating. It is
it's important that she knows you and feels comfortable with you so that she can
move forward even further.

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There are several steps that lead to the next step, socializing, and the first is the

building comfort. If she is not comfortable with you yet, do not

Invite her out later. Wait until she is more comfortable with you.

This process should not take long if done correctly: the

the construction of comfort should last about one or two hours,
depending on how much you talk and how open she is to talking
with you. Normally, she will feel comfortable around you after
we will meet once or twice.

When people do not have chemistry with each other, usually

they can't focus on a conversation for more than an hour. If
you have a lot of fun together and if you see each other again a few times, you can

try to take the next step towards dating by inviting her out.

However, in the end, it doesn't matter how well your conversations

run or however many meetings you have if you're not bringing together - the best part
The important thing about attraction is finding someone who makes you feel good and happy.

inside.

Aside from that, let's go back to comfort and see how to make it work.
really.

If you are constantly trying to impress a girl, she will feel.

make her feel comfortable around you. If you want her to feel comfortable with you,
so she must feel that everything comes naturally.

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It is vital to regain your personal confidence before talking to girls.

so that they can see that your personality is really the 'natural' one and
not something you are forcing them to.

One of the best ways to make someone feel more comfortable with you is to
Building a relationship is mirroring your movements.

Mirroring body language

If you pay attention to what a girl is doing and mirror her actions
gestures and actions, you will make her much more comfortable around you. By doing so
this, you are showing her that she was not just imagining - you are
someone who truly understands her and with whom she has chemistry.

To reflect your actions, combine your body language,

maintaining an open posture and showing that you are listening. You know when
Are you really giving the attention that someone wants when you mirror their feelings?

expressions and keep a smile on your face.

Maintain eye contact. Girls do not like men who

They seem to be somewhere else. If she notices that you are not paying attention.
attention when she is trying to talk to you or that your eyes are
On the other hand, it is natural for her to assume that you are not a good guy.
or that you are lying about something.

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The clearer a girl feels that you understand her, the more
comfortable she will feel around you. A woman who feels
understood by a man will open up and allow him to enter her life.
A woman who feels misunderstood by a man will close herself off and
will become disinterested in him.

By mirroring her actions, she will subconsciously feel more

comfortable around you. You can use this technique for many things
different, including:

1. Mirror your body language (sitting or standing in the same posture)

that she, or inclined in the same way) to indicate that you are paying attention
attention and that you feel comfortable.

The mirror shows a person that there is a connection between you and her;
it allows you to form a connection with another person without really saying
nothing. By simply sitting or standing in the same posture as her,
you are showing that she is not alone when she talks to you. A woman
will subconsciously know that you both are on the same page and
Whatever happens, she will be able to count on your support.

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Report

When a girl has a good relationship with other people, she will
feel less nervous around you and feel more confident to speak
with them.

There are two types of relationships: positive relationship and negative relationship. The relationship

Positive occurs when two people get along and have fun.
easily laughing together, without feeling that there is something wrong with a

relationship.

A negative relationship occurs when two people do not get along.

very well and they have difficulty laughing together, but there is still a connection because

they formed a mutual bond.

You can learn the difference between a good and a bad relationship by looking at
your relationship with your friends.

Quando andas com eles, sentes-te positivo ou negativo em relação a eles?

If you feel positive, it's probably good to build on that. If not
If you feel any connection, then you shouldn't worry about trying to build.
a relationship with her if she is not going to like it.

Pacing is another technique you should learn if you want to build comfort.
when you talk to a girl or with other people. It is based on

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same principle of mirroring. It's another very useful technique that will help you

help to build a relationship with girls and people in general.

The goal of pacing is to understand, accept, and be able to empathize with

the thoughts, feelings, and experiences of other people. You can
use this technique when talking about yourself or her - it will help her relate
better with the things you say.

When she is talking about something she really loves, you should respond with
enthusiasm and excitement, 'agreeing' with her - saying things like 'yes' or
make faces that represent how excited you are for her.

If she's having a bad day, you should respond by saying things like 'that's ...
a piece of crap. The main thing you should focus on when you are
to build a relationship is to always be aware of what others are
to think and how they feel.

When someone talks about something that is important or special to them, they want

someone who understands them and is capable of sharing the same

feelings that they. They don’t just want someone who agrees with
everything they say.

You really know how I feel. You are a great listener. I have
much in common with you. You are just like me.” That's what you want to leave them to

thinking of you.

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If you try to agree too much with someone, they will notice that you are
trying to pretend, and they will probably stop trusting you.

If she is talking about something she really likes, then you should present it.
like someone who will be able to understand and accept what she has
I think I know how that is. I've had similar problems before.
the past and this is definitely the best way to deal with them.
I completely agree with you.

You can also use mirroring when talking about yourself, so that she can
I have never had a problem like this
before. But when I was in high school, I was in very bad shape because of
about something completely different...

If she starts talking about something and then stops, compliment her for that.
what she was talking about. If she is talking about a happy situation, then
show a good reaction by saying things like 'this is so amazing', 'say-
me more." If she is upset, don't ask too many questions - just wait.
let her continue. "This is terrible! Tell me what happened."

If she is upset, you can ask her why she is upset. Then
Listen carefully to what she has to say and feel her out.

If it seems like something is bothering her or if she has something else with which to deal with you

You can relate, so tell him that you know how you feel and how you already

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you were in a similar situation before. "Yes, I don't have it either.

good friends at this moment.

If she asks you something that is personal, then try to be honest with her.
answering the question in the most direct way possible:

Try to focus on what she said and then relate it to your life:
I'm sorry this happened to you. I know what it's like when people
they cannot accept who you are as a person.

Communication works both ways, so if it is listening with

Attention, so you must also listen carefully. She will feel very
but safer around you if you understand where you come from in your words and
actions.

If you want to build a relationship with a woman, then you must be able to
see what she is going through and relate it to your own life too. If
You are interested in her, so try to tell her that you have realistic expectations.
about a relationship. "It's great to meet someone who is not fake." When
Talk about yourself, focus on your positive points, but do not lie.

If she sees that a guy is confident and comfortable around her, then she will
feel more confident around you. A woman who feels secure with
a boy will open up more and will be able to share more of his thoughts
and emotions. She will be able to have a better idea of who you are over
of time.

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Don't even try to talk about your ex-girlfriends, past relationships or

about your emotions.

Women do not want to hear this kind of thing because they will think
immediately you will end up doing the same thing with them. They do not
they want to spend time with someone who can't think of anything else
beyond your ex-girlfriends or what happened in the past.

True communication involves taking risks that at times can

end up being embarrassing or embarrassing. It is better to be honest in
in relation to your feelings than trying to hide them. You will be able to
understand more about your personality if you take risks, being open
like your emotions and feelings whenever you are close to her.

Do not try to avoid being polite or loyal to the people in your daily life. If
she thinks you are always putting yourself above others, so she will
to assume that you will always be this way - especially when it comes to her.
If you treat everyone with respect, then they will think that you do too.
you would do the same for her.

If there is a girl who likes you and wants to get close to you, then don't
be afraid to take risks.

You can boost the relationship by taking one step at a time - getting closer.
us, go out more often, do things together that force both of us to a

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natural conversation. This is the best way to start building a

relationship with a girl because it helps you to see more of who you really are
is.

Showing Vulnerability

Another great way to build comfort with someone is by showing

vulnerability. Show her that you are not afraid to show her who
you really are. This way, she will feel more comfortable around you and
she will be able to open up more and share more of herself with you.

The best way to show vulnerability is through honesty. As

girls want to feel safe and confident around boys, that's why
They want to know that you are always honest with them. They don't want to be afraid.

of being betrayed or whom they lie to.

If you can show them that you can be open and honest, then it is
likely that she feels more comfortable around you.

Many types do not talk about themselves because they are too afraid or
why are they trying to hide who they really are from someone else.

But in real life, no one is perfect - it is impossible for people not to lie.
They will have falsified things at some point in their lives. If she believes
You will always be honest with her, so that will make her feel very

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more comfortable around you. This is something that will always be of great
quality because it is universal.

The concept of vulnerability has been widely studied when it comes to

seduction attempt. The more honest we are about our flaws,
more people will think we are perfect. The more comfortable
We should be in our own skin for not being perfect, more people
they will think we are perfect.

There are two main ways to show vulnerability: emotional and

socially.

Emotional vulnerability is related to the sharing of our

insecurities and fears. If we are honest about what we feel and
we pass, so this will make other people feel safe to
our return.

Some types feel weak if they show their emotions, but

I found that it worked in my favor nearly every time I did it. The secret is
Don't let others see you as weak. Be strong regarding your
emotions, but vulnerable at the same time.

Socially vulnerable means allowing others to see you as deficient

in some way. Do not be afraid to talk about the gym and to ask
advice - the girls will find it very cool that the boys do that
things.

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Letting others know who you really are inside is one of the
best things you can do because it helps girls understand
your personality and why other people like to be around you
about you.

All this comes down to one thing: being authentic and letting your personality shine.

shine.

Everyone loves authentic people because they know they are real and not a
aspiring to be someone else. Girls are the same way - they like
the boys who are being themselves and not trying to pretend they are
another person. They want men who feel comfortable around them
and have fun with them.

There is a famous saying about how the key to seduction is to 'be yourself'.

This is true for almost all situations. The boys are

always telling me that it is difficult for them to find a girl because
your friends think you are pretending things or being someone else,
but this is just the nature of normal human behavior.

Human beings will always judge others based on their

actions. If you want people to accept you, then you have to do things
that are genuine and real. You can't keep fantasizing about being someone else.
person. The goal is to be REAL.

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And this is something that will come with time. When you start to have more success.

with women, you will slowly begin to free yourself from the 'persona' that
you probably created. And I know it may seem counterintuitive to teach you
so many techniques, and telling you 'fake it until you make it' but stay with me.

Over time, high-status body language will become a part of you

without changing a single bit of your personality. The unique techniques
que podes usar com as mulheres são exactamente isso - técnicas. Elas não
they won't change your personality even a little bit.

So the point I am trying to convey is that, in terms of

personality, you should never pretend to be someone you are not just to attract
a woman.

Stay true to yourself, because they love it when men do

stay strong and let your personality shine.

For example, I am a very expressive guy and I have an attention deficit.

very high, which makes me very impulsive. I am also a little 'crazy'
and I am always saying random things. However, I will leave that
to be transparent when I am talking to a girl.

I let them see my strange facial expressions, my impulsiveness

and I tell them the crazy things I want to say. And they like it. They
They like me because they know I am not pretending anything.

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They know that the man in front of them is not afraid to show
who he really is (also helps to position me as a high man
statute). You have to learn to become comfortable with the fact of being who
and.

This is also true when it comes to your emotions. You should never...
pretend emotions. Be yourself and let other people see that you are
Being comfortable with who you are will bring out elements of your personality.
and it will help them like you more.

When they see your true personality, they will feel secure around you.
It will lead them to open up more and talk more about themselves.
also.

When I talk about 'being yourself', I mean being real with yourself, not
act like someone else just because someone else might be right or be
popular at the moment.

Change Location

Another way to establish comfort with a girl is by moving her to

a different place. Subconsciously, her brain justifies the fact that
she is moving to another place with you, believing that it should be
because you are important and because she trusts you.

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Let's say you just met a girl at the door of a bar.

You approached her and immediately started talking. She is interested in you.
But she is with her friends, which can "block" your advances.

Your friends are also nearby and making noise. What is the best?
What can you do? Move it to another place where you both can be.
alone.

You can ask something like, 'Hey, is there a fantastic karaoke bar right next to'

the other side of the street. Do you want to go see? You look like a singer!
In a cool and confident way, she is more likely to say 'yes'.

If she doesn't want to go, then you can say something like: 'Oh, that's fine! Say...
if you have a better idea.
keeps the conversation where it was before.

You should always try to change locations with a girl whenever you can.
This will make them more comfortable around you and will give you the opportunity to
establish more comfort.

The 'Bonding Game'

Now I'm going to teach you a game that you can use to create more harmony.
with a woman. I call it the 'Bonding Game'. It's easy, you basically

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They take turns asking each other questions. This is a fantastic opportunity.
to get to know you on a more intimate level.

But, Eric, what questions should I ask!?

comprehensive questions that were developed by a psychologist and that
proven to make people feel more comfortable and
relaxed with each other.

These questions take about 45 minutes to discuss.

and they almost always make two people feel better with each other
the other is that they want to see each other again, according to the social psychology researcher

Arthur Aron from the Laboratory of Interpersonal Relations at the University of

Stony Brook, in New York.

The more questions you ask and the more personal they are, the greater the
psychological connection you will have with her (which will make it much easier to return

to see her).

To use the bond-creating game, you start by asking a question that you know.
that she will be able to answer. Do you want to start and work from there (such
like everything else in this book). For example, if she says 'I love to sing',
Oh, really?! Me too! Sing for me!

At first, she may be nervous or feel shy to sing in front of you.

But by saying this, you are letting her know that you have similar interests.
it's not bad for her to sing for you because it's something that both of you have in common

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common. Each one of you should take a turn responding to each

question.

I included all these questions in your bonus "Fast Track to a Connection".

Immediate Emotional.

The Golden Rule

Another thing you should consider is the time you spend on

build comfort with a woman.

As a general rule, I aim for at least 5 hours past.

personally with every woman I meet before trying to take her to the
bed. This is because the more time you spend with her, the more comfortable
she stays when it's time to take her to bed.

So, if you are having a fantastic conversation with a woman who

you just met, wait until the right time for both of you
get along and then take her home. If you feel that you haven't built
Sufficient comfort, just wait for the next time you see her.

This will be much easier than trying to take her home too early and
then she tries to dodge even at the last minute. You know what I'm talking about
(that terrible feeling of "blue balls"!)

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Keep in mind that these five hours can be spent in any

place from the café, to the bar, to your own house. It doesn't really matter.
where the raisins.

It could be right when you meet her! You can easily start to enjoy.
one hour after the meeting and then spend the remaining four hours on
kissing each other and getting to know each other better.

When you bring a woman home, make sure it is clean and that
don't get distracted by anything disturbing in your environment. Don't ruin the

environment having a lot of clutter around your house. Furthermore,

keep your bathroom clean too. Women hate going to the house
of men if their bathrooms are dirty because they don't want to
to go to a bathroom that does not look clean or smells like urine.

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The Moment of Truth: the all or nothing.

If you have been doing what I taught you so far, then you have developed attraction and

comfort with a woman. So, what is missing? Taking her to bed.

In this chapter, I will teach you how to kiss a woman without fear of rejection, and
until making her kiss you instead. But, the essence of this chapter
what will be the next steps after liking - sexually escalate until
end up in bed.

Please keep in mind that the first kiss can come much earlier than
What is this. You can kiss her ten minutes after you meet her, if you
to crave. Or you can kiss her on the same night you take her to bed.
This doesn't matter. What matters is that you have to establish comfort and create
sufficient attraction to score romantically. You cannot jump.
none of these two.

If you skip attraction and build comfort, then you will end up in the friend zone.
You don't want this. If you build attraction and miss the comfort, then
She will resist you and you will not sleep with her. Capiche?

Now, I will teach you kissing techniques in this specific chapter just for
keep the book organized. But, as I said, you can kiss her much more
I give in to your relationship. Keep that in mind.

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The objective of this chapter is to teach you how to initiate a kiss without being

rejected. To do this, I will tell you the most common mistakes that men
they commit when they are going to give a kiss. I will also give you an approach that

It will work in practically any situation.

Mistakes Men Make When Going in for a Kiss

So, here we go:

The first mistake is to think too deeply about whether she wants or
no. This is something that most men do, and it is very destructive because
your focus shifts from acting naturally and acting with confidence to
worry about what they should be doing and try too hard
when they don't even know what they are doing...

The second mistake is being too hesitant when going in for the kiss. She will
to perceive the hesitation and it will lower your elevated status.

The third mistake is rushing things; if you rush things, then she will go
to think that you didn't have time to get to know her first. And if that happens,
then your chances of taking her to bed will be lower.

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The Method of the Enchanted Prince

In fact, here is my technique for kissing women WITHOUT running the

risk of rejection. If you do this well, it is impossible to be rejected. I call it -
Read the 'Method of the Charming Prince' because you will seem like one. It will be like

the movies, just like your wildest fantasies!

1) Ok, so the first step is to always be attentive to your indicators

of interest that we have already discussed. She is showing you
indicators of interest?

Great, this is the first step. Maybe she showed you her neck,
messed with your hair while making eye contact, and even touched you a lot
frequently. That's what we want.

Some women are more confident than others, that's why your
The way to show interest varies a lot. Women are not that confident.
they will still show interest, but in more subtle ways.

At this moment, you should already be using my 'CTELP Method' to attract her.
subconsciously. Optimal. Because this will play a big
paper now. If you have been playing it whenever you can and it is touching you.
back, so you can start getting closer to her and entering her space
guys.

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In addition, you need to enter her personal space more and more.
close. Perhaps you feel uncomfortable the first few times, but then it becomes
natural. Keep doing that. When you enter her personal space, your
sexual tension will increase. And that is a good thing. See how she
behaves.

Is she backing away or letting you into her personal space? If she is
by letting in, there is a good chance that the kiss will happen. Keep talking
with her as you get closer.

Now that you are in your personal space, start to make a

intense eye contact while you talk to her. The sexual tension will rise
even more. You will feel it, she will feel it.

At this very moment, they will be very close to each other. Both
they will feel a magnetic attraction towards each other's mouths. The kiss
it will happen naturally. You can even show him your elevated status,
holding her by the waist and pulling her towards you while looking into her eyes.
This is very masculine and she won't be able to resist this.

BOOM! It's done. This strategy works especially well because you will
to know if she wants to be kissed by you without the risk of being rejected.

It's simple: as you get closer to her, if she isn't ready, then
the sexual tension will make her pull away. If she pulls away, you continue to
use the other techniques of the 'CTELP Method' to develop more attraction.

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You continue to enter her personal space and assess whether she is or not
ready. The moment you feel that she doesn't move away, and she keeps on
look into her eyes as you approach – you must kiss her. Or let it be.
to kiss you.

This is a HUGE indicator that she desires you sexually. You cannot
lose this opportunity or you risk being placed in the zone of
friendship.

Let me give you two different examples. The first is on a night out.

You've been talking to this girl for the last 20 minutes, and now you're
dancing with this while listening to reggaeton. Since they are holding onto each other,

you are in her personal space. The kiss should come easily while you dance.
All you need to do is, while you dance, start breathing for
her neck in a slow and sexy way to excite you.

Then, as your faces are right in front of each other, you use the
eye triangulation technique and look into your eyes and into your
mouth. She will feel the sexual tension and the magnetic attraction will make her
you kiss each other. Voilá!

Second example: you went to have a drink with a woman. They are already talking.

Some time ago, I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk.

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You pass by a viewpoint with a fantastic view or by the beach.

As you wish. But something with a view would be nice.

As you continue to speak, you start to get closer to her and test the...
the way she reacts. If she doesn't move away and continues to look at you, then
You can kiss her. Voilá!

Handshaking method

Now I will give you two more techniques that you can use to test interest.
of a woman in you.

The first is the 'handshake method', which I have mentioned before.

To test the interest using this method, you just have to take her hand.
at any time, and squeeze it gently. If she squeezes back, then she
I like you.

Simple, right? Subconsciously, she starts to press again because of the

reciprocity. It's not a big secret, actually. What is the
reciprocity, questions you?

Reciprocity is a term used to describe how people treat and

They engage with each other based on their mutual interests.

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It is a subconscious phenomenon that occurs when both parties

involved are interested in each other. When you shake her hand, the
her brain thinks:

This person is interested in me, and I am also interested in her,

"So I will tighten it back." It's very simple.

If you are a little insecure about yourself, or if you don't want to

embarrass the girl by trying other methods, so you can still use
this.

There is another method which is simply to take her hand and see if she
continue to hold her hand. If she feels comfortable with her hand
in your case, or even continuing to hold your hand, it is very likely that I will be

interested.

Qualification

Another way to test her interest is to make her herself...

qualify for you, when asking qualifying questions.

You can ask him something like: "And what good do you have besides
"about appearance?" If she starts to make an effort to impress you,
talking to you about your deeds, attractive personality traits, etc., then it is
a sign of interest.

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If she doesn't make an effort in the answer, then she probably isn't.
interested. I really like this one because it also shows that you are a
a man of high status, and you have more women in your life - that's why
that you are qualifying.

You are demanding and you have to make sure that she is worth your time.

Attention! As in everything in life, use common sense here. You should not take

a decision based solely on behavior. You should always

interpret each of your behaviors as a word in a
phrase.

And, as you know, a word by itself has no meaning. You have to

join some 'words' to form a sentence, and only then you take one.
decision.

Let me give you an example: you see a woman standing by the bus stop
bus with arms crossed in front of the chest.

You think to yourself, "Well, that's a body language position"

closed, that's why she probably doesn't want to be approached by anyone.
This may not be correct. You have to consider that the weather is freezing and
that she is probably just cold.

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So this behavior is just a word, and to take away any

you need to observe other behaviors of hers to conclude if
she wants to be approached or not.

Therefore, to use the above techniques effectively, you should look at.
they are like unique "words" that will help you put together a sentence.

If she has been giving you a lot of positive body language and has shown you
a lot of interest, so you can use one of these techniques as the 'cherry on top'

"cherry on the cake" to be sure that she is really interested in you.

If, for some reason, you don't feel like using this technique, don't you
Don't worry. Eric is here for you. Now I'm going to teach you another technique that is

even safer. This is literally rejection-proof, and it can even

lean in to kiss you first!

The First Irresistible Kiss

I call it the 'Irresistible First Kiss'. This is how it works:

First, make sure you are alone and in a place where you can kiss.
se confortavelmente. Depois, enquanto ela fala e faz contato visual,
She asks you, 'Do you want to kiss me?'

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A) If she says yes, she will probably kiss you. If she doesn’t kiss, you kiss her.
to you.

B) If she says something like 'Maybe', 'I don't know', 'Why?' or something like that,

It means that she wants to kiss you but is shy about it.
Basically, anything that isn't a "No" means she wants you.
to kiss, but she is shy about it. So what do you do? Do you say
Let's see

C) If she gives you a "NO", you respond with something like "Great,
it seemed so.

Pretty simple, right? Using this technique it's almost impossible to be

rejected. But please remember to use common sense and to apply everything
What have you learned so far? You should only use this technique after it has taught you.

showed a lot of interest. I can't do everything for you.

Take her to bed

If you have done everything I have taught you so far, then you are very close to it.
to the bed. This is where everything culminates.

There are two important factors that should have already been taken into account: sufficient comfort

between you two and the escalation of the touch.

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If one of these is missing - then your work will be much more difficult.

The lack of comfort will make her resist you a lot and have that "remorse of
"buyer" that will make it more difficult to have a relationship with her. The lack of

touch will make climbing for sex super difficult.

Almost impossible, I would say. Touch is one of the most important things that
you must do it, and YOU MUST start early. You have to get her used to your touch

logo following the stick.

Why? Imagine this: You meet this fantastic woman, you think she is the
your soulmate and that this feeling is mutual. That's great. They talk
about all kinds of topics and genuinely laugh at each other's jokes
you begin to build some comfort with her.

Everything is happening exactly as it should. So, on your 3rd

meeting, you decide to invite her to your house. Since she is enjoying the
your company, she accepts it. That's great. Now, they are both sitting in
your sofa.

And now? Damn! You just realized that you have this opportunity
even in front of you, but you don't feel comfortable approaching and
you will touch her - especially because you have not touched her until this point.

You start to feel nervous because you don't know what to do. She starts to sense it.

and to feel uncomfortable too.

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So what really happened in this hypothetical situation? (although

happens more often than you think).

Well, since you hadn't touched him until now, none of you are
physically comfortable with each other. Your relationship is not physical, which
it makes climbing super difficult for sex.

Remember rule #1: start touching her as quickly as possible and in

all opportunities.

In an ideal situation, you have already built enough comfort and touch before
you will try to take her to bed. But there is still one last obstacle that
you need to know how to overcome. In this ideal situation, both are
accustomed to each other's touch and have a spectacular night.

You sit on the sofa, put your arm around her and start having a good time. It's
everything is going according to plan. But as soon as you start doing
sexual advances, she takes your hand out of your pants and says, 'We can't do this.'
or "I'm not ready".

GODAMMIT!

I'm almost sure this has happened to you before. And it can happen
while you try to take off her bra, the pants, the panties, the fingers, oral sex,
etc. It can happen at any time. And you must be ready to fight.

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against this like a true ninja. But there is a secret to overcome

this.

Hyper-Emotional State (and the 2 words that cut you off)

brain

Pay special attention to what I'm going to tell you. The secret is... to put her in a

hyper-emotional state. "What do you mean by that, Eric?" Well, let me

to explain.

When women say something like this, we call it resistance.

They are resisting your advances. But not because she wants to resist.
consciously. She wants to have sex as much - if not more - than you.

The problem is that your brain is programmed to have this mechanism.

of filtering, as I taught you, and women must be very careful
who they sleep with because the risk for them is too high.

Then their brain starts to scream "STOP! STOP!", causing her to verbalize.
also these concerns. But here is the trick: by putting it in a state
hyper-emotional, your emotions take over your logical brain -
weakening him to the point of no longer being able to hear him.

To put you in this hyper-emotional state, you need to build more.

tension and sexual desire. When you start to enjoy, you need to spend more

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take the time to excite her before you advance. You can try to breathe slowly in the

her neck. You can whisper something in her ear.

You can run your fingers over her body. You can rub your knee against
her legs (this is an advanced technique because it's almost like inserting
the fingers, but with a very low resistance from her part.

In other words, the first step is to get her super excited.

Then, when you start to climb and move forward if she still resists and
verbalize your concerns, what you should do is SUPER SIMPLE. You have
to help turn off your own brain.

Because she wants to disconnect him and just enjoy the moment. Let's say that
she begins to say 'We can't do this' and tries to take your hand away from the
underwear of hers. All you need to do is...

You are right.

I know this may seem counterintuitive, but in fact it is very

simple. If you start agreeing with her with "You are right, we cannot
do this... you are calming his brain. All you need is to say these
two words "you are right" and continue to do exactly what you were doing
to do.

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You are telling him what he wants to hear. The difference is: you are not going to stop doing

What are you doing? Are you going to keep moving forward and doing your thing? Everything is

what you need to do is keep strumming it and repeating what it says.

Eventually, her brain will shut down and she will simply surrender.
se a ti. E... é isso mesmo, meu! Conseguiste.

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Conclusion: Now you are a Master in

Sexual Attraction

I hope you enjoyed reading about some of the different techniques and
skills you can use to have more success with women. I
I would like to finish this book with some personal thoughts about
trust and how it changed my life.

Trust is a very special word that few people define.

the same way, but I realized that trust is what you make of it.
trust is an intrinsic equation for each individual that requires adjustments
and constant adaptations throughout life.

Most people tend to think that confidence has everything.

to see how to have a positive perspective and never give up. Although this is
true to a certain extent, trust also has to do with acting, and doing the
What is needed to win.

In your career, family relationships, and personal life - If you play with confidence,
If you plan each movement with confidence, then success will become
inevitable.

There is a great saying: "Success comes from action. If you want success... take

action now." This is where the rubber meets the road.

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You cannot be too hesitant or sit idly until the

things start to happen.

Instead, you need to have enough confidence in yourself to take action -

even when you don't have a clear action plan. I've been there many times.
times; we all have.

We have one of those days when you simply feel lost and not
do you know what is happening with your life.

At this point, confidence is not being positive and optimistic, but rather acting and doing.

the things we know will make us feel better.

Remember: It is the people who take action and move towards

to your goals that ultimately build the trust you need
to achieve your dreams.

However, this action is not always easy. For many people, it can
to demand to go against your parents, society, or even against the people who
but they love. Requires breaking with what others believe and practicing self
sacrifice to achieve the success and happiness we want.

Think of those moments when you felt lost - adversity is what

it awakens us and makes us realize that our life is important. It is a
gift of the universe that only appears once in a lifetime; we need to take off the

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his maximum party, or we will be kicking ourselves during

anos.

I have had many experiences where I was in a discomfort - a 'happy stupor'

when I felt that everything was going well, pleasures came easily
and I didn't have to be happy all the time. And suddenly, one day, things
start to crumble.

Suddenly, I become uncertain about my future, my life turns sour,

and I start to question why life is so hard. The worst part is
that this happens at the most unlikely moments - when least
we expect, with few warnings or preparation for this.

Until the moment when things start to crumble, we are

always the last to know that this is happening. Fear is an enemy
sneaky one that hides in the shadows of our minds and attacks when
the less we expect.

When you feel that this is happening, take a moment to

re-examine your reality.

Are you doing something productive? If not, then why not? Is there something else?

important that you should be doing right now? Is this some kind of
test that requires us to go through difficult times to be well
happenings in life?

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It is hard to wait for answers - and I don't always have them immediately - but
I learned over time that trying and failing is better than doing nothing.

absolutely nothing.

To try, to fail, and to do something about it is the formula for success. To try
it is what keeps us punished, keeps us under control, and allows us
grow through adversity.

Take measures when things are not going well for you - that's how it is.
that you end up becoming a winner. This is how you transform your
dreams into reality. No matter how difficult it is, take action NOW - before
make it harder!

Try new things that help you grow and remember: sometimes
we need to take a few steps back to move forward...

That said, I really hope you apply everything I taught you because I have the
surely it will help you achieve more success not only with women but
in life as a whole.

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