Consent or Privacy form
Please print, read the procedures, sign, and send email to patropatrinorthamerica@[Link] as soon as
possible to start the next step. (The Purpose of this form is to protect your privacy)
*Our next steps procedures*
1. Assign a coordinator to manage the process.
2. The coordinator will assess the proposals by speaking to both the groom and bride.
3. The coordinator will organize a Zoom/in person meeting with the bride, groom, parents, and
coordinator. At this stage, only nicknames should be used (no full names, phone numbers, or
addresses exchange).
4. After each meeting, the groom, bride, or parents must update the status to the coordinator within
24 hours.
5. If the initial meeting is successful, the coordinator will arrange another (Zoom/in person)
conversations between the bride and groom (maximum of one hour per conversation). A
coordinator or Mahram of the bride must be present during these meetings.
6. After two conversations, two in-person meeting between the bride and groom is required. (groom
meets the bride’s family and also bride visit the groom’s family) The coordinator will facilitate
this meeting.
7. After two conversations and two in person meetings, parents can exchange phone numbers to get
to know each other’s families.
8. If there are any additional questions, send a maximum of two texts to the coordinator, who will
relay them to the other party.
9. Direct communication (calls or texts) between the bride and groom is not allowed; all
communication must go through the coordinator.
10. If either party feels the match isn’t suitable, they should stop further discussions.
11. If the match progresses well, the parents must arrange additional in-person meeting as needed
12. Before finalizing the Marriage, organize a zoom meeting among Admin, Coordinator, parents,
groom and bride
13. In successful wedding ceremony, please announce the Patro-Patri Matrimonial group's name to
help others seeking matches.
14. After your successful marriage, share your experience with us and success stories
I read, understand, and agree with the above procedures and time limit to conclude. I will abide by
the rules above and will not try break any rules.
Signature: Bride/groom Bio-data Number:
Name: Phone Number:
Father, Signature: F. Name: Phone number:
Mother, Signature: M Name: Phone Number:
Meeting Guideline for Groom and bride will talk
First Introduction Meeting
➢ Zoom or In Person Meeting
➢ Coordinator Introduce yourself (Works, Education, Family) and make sure they will not share
their personal information1 min
➢ Explain today’s meeting procedures and ask them to let you know if they want to move to the
next step by 24 hours
➢ The coordinator will make sure Groom and Bride if they read and signed the Consent form
➢ Parents to Introduce themselves (works, Education, family) 2 min each family
➢ Parents to ask questions 15 min
➢ Groom and Bride to Introduce 1min each
➢ Parents if they have questions to Groom or Brides 5 Min
➢ parents to leave the meeting except Mahram of the bride
First of Meeting groom and brides ask (after leaving parents)
➢ What is your daily routine?
➢ What are the things that you do in your free time?
➢ How do you select your friends?
➢ How important of your friends?
➢ What is your concept of marriage?
➢ What are you expecting of your spouse?
➢ What are your goals in life? Long term and short-term plans.
➢ What is the role of religion in your life – now?
➢ What is your relationship between yourself and the Muslim community in your area?
➢ Do you drink or smoke?
➢ Do you want to say anything else?
➢ Finally remind them if they want to move forward by 24 hours
Second Meeting
➢ Groom and Bride ask questions to each others
➢ Family background.
➢ Finance and money.
➢ Property and assets.
➢ Education.
➢ Employment.
➢ Religion value
➢ Having any affair.
➢ Health.
➢ Having any lethal disease.
➢ Finally remind them if they want to move forward by 24 hours
3rd Meeting
➢ Eating habits, vegetarian or non vegetarian.
➢ The person believes in God or is atheist.
➢ Past Life
➢ View about working after marriage.
➢ Expectations
➢ Dream life
➢ Likes & Dislikes
➢ Fear
➢ Financial Expectations
➢ Having children or not.
➢ Joint family or nuclear family.
➢ Whether he smokes cigarettes, whether drink or use liquor.
➢ Finally remind them if they want to move forward by 24 hours
➢ Next meeting should be in person
