Loving BDSM Checklist
We wish we could list every single kinky act and fetish out there, but since almost anything can
be made a little kink, it’s impossible to list everything. This, however, should be a good starting
point if you’re new.
How to use the checklist:
● Print as many copies as you need
● Read each activity
● Choose how you do or might want to interact with the activity: give (G), receive (R), or
both (B)
● Write Y or N whether you’ve tried it or not
● Check whether like it, feel “meh” about it (neutral), or dislike it
● For things you haven’t done, write Y or N on whether you’d be willing to try it
● If you know you’re a hard no on an activity, check the hard limit box at the end.
● Use the notes section at the back to write down ideas. items not on the list, things to
research, and any topics you want to discuss with your partner.
Once you and your partner(s) are done, it’s time to compare notes. Talk about what you love
and hate. Research anything you’re unsure about. For anything that’s new to you and you want
to try together, consider this your first kinky bucket list.
You don’t have to like everything your partner does in order to have kinky fun. You don’t have to
be really experienced, either. BDSM and D/s are about growing as individuals and together.
This is simply a tool to help you on your path.
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Kink/Fetish G/R/B Tried It Like Meh Dislike Willing to Try Hard Limit
Anal - Rimming
Anal - Prostate
Massage
Anal Play - Plug
Anal Play - Sex
Bondage - Rope
Bondage -
Handcuffs
Bondage - Duct
Tape
Bondage -
Mummification
Bondage - Hood
Bondage - Bondage
Tape
Bondage - Honor
Bondage - Public
Bondage - Outdoor
Bondage - Cock/Ball
Bondage - Hair
Bondage -
Predicament
Cock Torture
Clit Torture
Caging/Using a
Cage
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Ball Gag
Bit Gag
Cloth Gag
Spider Gag
Phallic Gag
Orgasm Control
Forced Orgasms
Edging
Orgasm Denial
Permission to
Orgasm
Public Masturbation
Masturbation with
Toys
Mutual Masturbation
Masturbating for
Partner
Nipple Clamps
Clitoral Clamp
Cock Cage
Chastity Belt
Forced Abstinence
Under the Bed
Restraints
Tickling
Spanking - Bare
Hand
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Spanking - Paddle
Spanking - Wooden
Spoon
Spanking - Over the
Knee
Spanking -
Punishment
Spanking -
Therapeutic
Spanking -
Funishment
Impact Play -
Flogging
Impact Play - Crops
Impact Play - Tawse
Impact Play -
Dragon Tail
Impact Play -
Punching
Following Rules
Setting Rules
Punishment -
Cornertime
Punishment -
Removed privileges
Punishment -
Spanking
Punishment - Other
Name Calling
“Good girl/boy”
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Boot Licking
Slapping
Nipple Torture
Hair Pulling
Using Tongue to
Clean
Urethra Play
Wax Play
Violet Wand
Wartenberg Wheel
Vibrators
Dildos
Anal Plugs
Wand Massagers
Cock Rings
Oral Sex
Handjob/Fingering
Sex in Public
Threesome (or
more)
Cuckold
Sexting
Phone/Skype Sex
Massage
Biting
Licking
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Sensory Deprivation
Ankle Restraints
Long-term Restraint
Collar
Cuffs
Sleeves for
Legs/Arms
Metal/Chain
Restraint
Leather Restraint
Latex Clothing
Sex Swing or
Wedge
Objectification
Bimboification
Breath Play
Knife Play
Blood Play
Needles
Golden Shower
Scat
Age Play
Puppy Play
Kitten Play
Pony Play
Zippers
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Canes
Spanking Bench
St. Andrew’s Cross
Cupping
Notes:
(Feel free to jot down notes in this section.)
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More notes:
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