Dominant & Submissive Contract
This contract outlines the agreed-upon dynamic between (Dom) and
(Sub), emphasizing a semi-controlling structure with clear boundaries
around humiliation, degradation, rules, and consensual punishments that have been
established and agreed to by both parties on July 11th, 2025.
Consent & Safe Words:
1. All activities, especially involving humiliation, degradation, and sexual acts, are fully
consensual
2. Safe Words/Signals that have been established:
○ Green: Continue and/or 3 fingers (makes Ok sign)
○ Yellow: Check-in and/or 1 finger (pointer)
○ Red: Stop Immediately and/or 5 fingers (makes stop sign)
3. Either party can pause or stop activities at any time
Dominant Responsibilities:
1. Dom will provide the required aftercare to the submissive after all scenes and sexual
experiences including punishments.
2. Dom will respect all of the submissive’s limits and safewords.
3. Dom will ensure that all humiliations, degradations, and sexual punishments are
consensual and safe.
4. Dom will communicate honestly about expectations and punishments.
Submissive Responsibilities:
1. Sub agrees to follow the Dom’s instructions and requests unless otherwise negotiated.
2. Sub will respect daily rituals/check-ins as agreed in the contract.
3. Sub agrees to be honest and forthcoming about limits, feelings, and needs.
4. Sub will accept punishment for misbehavior or rule-breaking as determined by Dom.
Daily Rituals & Rules:
1. Sub will complete a journal entry that includes what she did that day, her mood, and a
daily journal prompt/entry that was assigned by the Dom.
2. Sub will check the obedience app daily to complete daily tasks assigned by Dominant.
3. Sub will NOT lie.
4. Sub will NOT consider “Nothing” as an appropriate response to “What’s Wrong?”.
5. Dom will NOT punish Sub for any matters contained inside their journal.
6. Sub will wear their necklace or some other form of ownership at all times unless
otherwise informed by Dom.
7. Sub must inform Dom if she needs space by communicating through text or phone call
prior to ghosting.
8. Sub is allowed to masturbate but should communicate prior, to avoid punishment Sub
must come up with a good excuse or reason why to inform the Dom.
9. Sub must send a two sentence “Good Morning” text every morning after waking up.
10. Sub is allowed to openly challenge one of her Dom’s rules every week but if caught she
must accept her consequences.
11. If Sub is dramatically pushing the limits/buttons of her Dom then it is punishable.
12. Dom will not add or remove punishments and/or rules unless a prior discussion and
agreement has been made.
Brat Emergency Cards
Pull one at random if your feeling risky
1. Edge me then deny me
2. Make me wear something humiliating
3. Treat me like a dumb toy until I say red
4. No safewords for 15 minutes (only if you have discussed and consented beforehand)
5. Obey Doms every command for one scene
Punishments:
1. Write a short brat poem or story and send to Dom
2. Wear a plug in an uncomfortable position for 15 minutes
3. Edge yourself until your about to cum and then stop completely
4. Clothespins or nipple clamps
5. Paddled, flogged, Spanked, and/or whipped
6. Wear what Dom says for 1 hour while alone
7. Forced orgasams controlled by Dom
8. Perform oral while receiving verbal humiliation
9. Denial of sexual pleasure with assigned chores/tasks
10. Sensory deprivation
11. Waterboarding
12. Complete a listed chosen punishment while in public:
○ Wear a buttplug out and about
○ Wear a vibrator
○ Take thong off while in public
○ Wear chosen piece of lingerie in public under clothes
Humiliation & Degradation:
1. Write “I am an obedient, respectful little brat” 50 times in journal
2. Text “I am your filthy little thing” 50 times throughout the day
3. Say something degrading while holding a toy in your mouth
4. Write “I am your chaotic delight” or Dom’s choice 10 times on your body
5. Embarrassing signs (“punish me please”, “owned brat”)
6. Humiliation prop
7. Choker/collar that says “slut, brat, whore,used”
8. Objectifying name tag (“hole #2”)
9. Hood with a hole/gag with a hole
10. Corner time
11. Bathroom usage control
12. Eye contact control/restrictions
13. Kneeling on doms command
14. Serving as art for Dom’s choice of time period
15. Serving as maid for extended period of time
16. Posing for erotic photos
Aftercare:
1. Favorite snack or candy
2. Waterbottle
3. Blanket
4. Comfy clothing
5. Note from Dom reminding sub how important, loved, amazing, and cared for she is
6. Dom will give reassurance
7. Dom will allow for time together or alone depending on what the Sub wants or needs.
Hard & Soft Limits/Boundaries:
Hard Limits/Restrictions Soft Limits/Restrictions
1. Non-Consensual Penetration 1. Arm/Leg Sleeves
2. Permanent Physical Marks Or Injuries 2. All Day Bondage
3. Humiliations Involving Family/Friends/Social 3. Cages/Closet
Media 4. Chastity Devices
4. Pet Play (Muzzles, Leash) 5. Collars In Public
5. Alien/Cosplay/Fantasy Cocks Or Toys 6. Inflatable Gage
6. Age Play Humiliation (Teddy Bear, Pacifier) 7. Manacles And Irons
7. Psych Ward Play (Straight Jackets, Etc.) 8. Suspension
8. No Foot Play 9. Swallowing Urine
9. Phallic Gags 10. Swallowing Cum
10. Chamber Pot 11. Human Toilet For Pissing
11. Brown Shower/Scat Play 12. Cock Worship
12. Throw Up Play 13. Humiliation In Public
13. Milking 14. Electrical Toys
14. Crossdressing 15. Strapping
15. Mummification 16. Kicking
16. Shaving Head Hair 17. Severe Pain
17. Enema Play 18. Riding The Horse
18. Piercings (Permanent/Temporary) 19. Suction Cups
19. Blood Play 20.Caning
20.Religion Play 21. Rape Play
21. Servicing Other Doms Or Subs 22. Fear Play
22. Forced Exercise 23. Casting Couch
23. Weight Control 24. Kidnapping Play
24. Lecturing 25. Switching Roles
25. Tickling 26. Contract Servant
26. Zippers 27. Anal Sex
27. Punching 28. Dildos/Pussys
28. Speech Restrictions 29. Anal Fisting
29. Public Nudity 30.Fire Play
Duration & Review Policy:
1. This contract begins on: July 11th, 2025
2. This contract will be reviewed every 2 weeks to discuss changes and/or concerns,
Signature:
By signing below, both parties agree to uphold this contract’s terms, maintaining respect,
safety, and consensual fun with their dynamic.
Dominant Signature: Date:
Submissive Signature: Date:
