Unit 1
Unit 1
DEVELOPMENT, PSYCHO
SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Structure
1.0 Introduction
1.1 Objectives
1.2 Psychosocial Development: Definition
1.2.1 Psycho Social Development
1.3 Erickson’s Theory of Psycho Social Development
1.4 Major Factors Contributing to Psycho Social Development
1.4.1 Child Rearing Practices
1.4.2 Temperament
1.4.3 Relationship with Peers
1.4.4 Pro Social Behaviour and Aggression
1.4.5 Gender
1.4.6 Play
1.4.7 Sibling Relationships
1.5 Physical Development
1.5.1 Early Childhood
1.5.2 Late Childhood
1.5.3 Major Changes
1.5.4 Late Childhood or Preteen Years (9-12 Years of Age)
1.5.5 Motor Development
1.6 Let Us Sum Up
1.7 Unit End Questions
1.8 Suggested Readings
1.0 INTRODUCTION
The optimal development of children is considered vital to society, so it is important
to understand the physical, motor and social development of children as they
grow up from an infant to a toddler to an adolescent to an young adult to an adult.
A human child is unique in that unlike other species, they are dependent on adults
for many years until they become adults. This is not so in the case of animals
amongst whom, the moment they are born or a few days later they are almost
independent of their parents. Increased research and interest in child development
has resulted in new theories and strategies, with specific focus on strategies that
would promote development of the child in different domains. In this unit we are
going to deal with definition of child development, the process and growth of child
development, the various factors that influence growth and development etc.
1.1 OBJECTIVES
After going through this unit, you will be able to:
describe key developmental concepts that impact the social, physical and
motor development of children; 5
Development During Early describe the elements of social and emotional wellness in children;
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explain Erickson’s eight stages of psychosocial development;
identify key social and emotional needs of children; and
analyse the role of socialising agents in creating self-awareness about the
positive psychosocial and emotional development of children.
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4) School Age: 6 to 12 Years: Charact erised by Industry vs. Physical and Motor Develop-
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Inferiority Development
Basic Strengths: Method and
Competence
5) Adolescence: 12 to 18 Years : Characterised by Identity vs. Role
Confusion
Basic Strengths: Devotion and Fidelity
6) Young adulthood: 18 to 35 : Charact erised by Intimacy and
Solidarity vs. Isolation
Basic Strengths: Affiliation and Love
7) Middle Adulthood: 35 to 55 or 65: Charactgerised by Generativity vs. Self
absorption
Basic Strengths: Production and Care
8) Late Adulthood: 55 or 65 to Death: Characterised by Integrity vs. Despair
Basic Strengths: Wisdom
Let us take up each of these stages and deal with them and understand them.
Stage 1: Infancy : (Birth to 18 months). Trust vs Mistrust
The first stage of Erik Erikson centers around the infant’s basic needs being met
by the parents. The infant depends on the parents, especially the mother, for food,
and comfort. The child’s understanding of the world and society comes from the
parents. If the parents expose the child to warmth, regularity, and dependable
affection, the infant’s view of the world will be one of trust. If the parents fail to
provide a secure environment to meet the child’s basic needs, a sense of mistrust
will result. According to Erikson, the major developmental task in infancy is to
learn whether or not other people, especially primary caregivers i.e. parents,
regularly satisfy basic needs. If parents are consistent in providing food and not
make the child go hungry etc., if they are also considstent source of comfort, and
affection, an infant learns to trust them as the child experiences that he can trust
the mother figure to give the needed comfort as and when needed. This leads to
the development of trust in the mother figure or the care giver person and generalises
to others and other aspects in the environment including the self.. Thus the child
not only trusts the mother, but the world and one’s own self also. If on the other
hand the parents or the caregiver are not dependable or reliable, if they are
neglectful, the infant instead learns mistrust, that is that the world is an undependable,
unpredictable, and possibly dangerous place. The child, well - handled, nurtured,
and loved, develops trust and security and a basic optimism. Badly handled, the
child may become insecure and mistrustful.
Stage 2: Toddlers, (2 to 3 years): Autonomy vs. Shame & Doubt
As children gain increased muscular coordination and mobility, they become
capable of satisfying some of their own needs. They begin to feed themselves,
wash and dress themselves. If parents encourage self-sufficient behaviour, they
develop a sense of autonomy, a sense of being able to handle many problems on
their own. But if parents demand too much too soon, refuse to let children
perform tasks of which they are capable, or ridicule early attempts at self-sufficiency,
children may instead develop shame and doubt about their ability to handle
problems.
If the parents take good care of the child and bring up the child to croiss the stage 9
with ease and successfully, the child would emerge from this stage sure of self,
Development During Early elated with the new found control, and proud rather than ashamed. As the child
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gains control over eliminative functions and motor abilities, it begins to explore the
surroundings. The parental encouragement and patience help foster autonomy in
the child. Highly restrictive parents, however, are more likely to instill the child
with a sense of doubt and reluctance to try out or take up or face new challenges.
Stage 3: Pre school: (4 to 6 years). Initiative vs guilt
The young child is learning to master his surroundings and learning the basic skills
such as throwing things down, see the things will fall, pick up and again throw
down and enjoy that feeling of seeing things falling down with or without noise.
They learn to have good grip on holding to toys and objects, manipulating them
etc. They also learn that if they push things, they will move and if they roll things
they will roll and if they spin things they would spin. They enjoy these discoveries
and repeatedly do these things and get a control over the action of gripping,
squeezing, pulling, pushing, rolling and spinning. These provide the child confidence
that many things can be performed by one’s own self and that they need not
depend on parents for the same. They learn to clothe themselves, even take bath
and take care of many of their personal hygiene and thus are ready to go to
school. At this time the child needs considerable support from parents who should
encourage the child’s initiatives and make sure that the child’s efforts are praised
where it is due. At this time there is so much of exploratory activities in the child
that certain actions may be harmful or injurious to the child which fact has to be
kept in mind and parents must ensure that the child does not get into any such
situation. They have to politely stop the child from doing certain things that are
harmful by making him understand at his own level and in his own language. At
no time the parent should make things so harsh and negative that the child starts
feeling guilty at his initiatives. Also remember the child may feel guilty when his
initiative does not produce the desired results.
According to Erikson psychosocial crisis occurs during the “play age,” or the later
preschool years, during which the developing youngster learns the following:
i) to imagine, to broaden his skills through active play of all sorts, including
fantasy
ii) to cooperate with others
iii) to lead as well as to follow.
If at this time the child is made to feel guilty the result would be that the child may
grow up into a fearful youngster who depends heavily on parents and adult
figures, and does not develop the needed play skills and imagination. This is the
result of feeling guilty for taking so much initiative. That is the reason Erikson
termed this stage as Initiative versus Guilt.
This is also the time when the child has to learn to judge, plan and deal with
certain degree of complexities in life. Erikson says that this is the time the child
learns to take initiative and prepares for leadership and goal achievement roles.
Accordingly the child chooses activities which are somewhat at the level of risk
taking behaviour. For example, going out of the home alone without any escort
or trying some complex task which may entail injury to himself, etc. All these
behaviours such as the risk taking behaviours could be encouraged under strict
supervision of parents and care givers who should be able to make the child
understand why it is risky and how it should be handled rather than admonishing
and stopping the child from the activity. These would discourage the child to take
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any initiative and may also produce guilt in the child that he or she had offended Physical and Motor Develop-
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the loving parent. Some times as a reaction to the parents stopping the child from Development
these risky activities such as not being allowed to go out etc. on one’s own, it
causes considerable frustration to the child who in turn may manifest aggressive
beahviours, such as throwing objects, hitting, or yelling.
Sometimes children take on projects they can readily accomplish, but at other
times they undertake projects that are beyond their capabilities or those which
interfere with other people’s plans and activities. If parents and preschool teachers
encourage and support children’s efforts, at the same time helping them make
realistic and appropriate choices, children develop initiative and independence in
planning and undertaking activities. But if, instead, adults discourage the pursuit
of independent activities or dismiss them as silly , children develop guilt about their
needs and desires.
Stage 4: Childhood (7-12 years) Industry versus Inferiority
Children at this age are becoming more aware of themselves as individuals. They
work hard at being responsible, being good and doing it right. They are now more
reasonable to share and cooperate. Children understand the concepts of space
and time, in more logical, practical ways, beginning to grasp, gain better
understanding of cause and effect and understand calendar time. At this stage,
children are eager to learn and accomplish more complex skills: reading, writing,
telling time. They also get to form moral values, recognise cultural and individual
differences and are able to manage most of their personal needs . Children might
express their independence by being disobedient, using back talk and being
rebellious.
Erikson believes that if this psychosocial crisis is handled, successfully, the child
will learn how to master the more formal skills of life such as the following:
i) Relating with peers according to rules
ii) Progressing from free play to play that may be elaborately structured by
rules and may demand formal teamwork
iii) Mastering social studies, reading, arithmetic.
iv) Homework is a necessity, and the need for self-discipline increases yearly.
If the earlier stages of development had been mastered successfully the child will
grow up confidently and will be able to master the tasks of this developmental
stage which are relatively more difficult than the earlier ones as considerable
cultural and familial expectations are involved. Such children grow up to be come
industrious, disciplined and confident of what they are doing. They are less rebellious
as compared to the frustrated children. Where the developmental tasks of the
earlier period have not been successfully managed, the child will grow up with
timidity, fearfulness, lack of confidence and high dependency on parents and adult
figures, thereby showing poorer performance in the school and also in their
relationship to their peers. The shame and guilt filled child will experience defeat
and inferiority.
Erikson viewed the elementary school years as critical for the development of
self-confidence. Ideally, elementary school provides many opportunities for children
to achieve the recognition of teachers, parents and peers by showing creativity
and innovation in many activities such as drawing , painting etc. drawing pictures,
solving addition problems, writing sentences, and so on. If children are encouraged 11
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to demonstrate industry by being diligent. If children are instead ridiculed or
punished for their efforts or if they find they are incapable of meeting their teachers’
and parents’ expectations, they develop feelings of inferiority about their capabilities.
Stage 5: Adolescence (13 – 19 years) Identity vs. Role Confusion
It is well known that the stage of adolescence is relatively more stressful than all
other stages of development and this is not different in the case of Erikson’s
stages of development. During the fifth psychosocial crisis the individual, that is,
who is now in the adolescent stage of development, can answer who he or she
is. However there appears to be considerable role identity confusion.
At this time the adolescent has clear ideas about what all he or she wants, what
are future plans and what are the goals that need to be achieved and what kind
of roles that they would like to play in the society etc. At this time the peer
influence is also higher which assists in the adolescent to develop a clear identity
about self. According to Erikson at this time a clear time perspective develops in
adolescents, is more self confident and self assured and not to self conscious and
self doubting as in the early years. They tend to experiment with different roles
which are more positive than negative. He actually anticipates achievement, and
achieves, rather than being “paralyzed” by feelings of inferiority or by an inadequate
time perspective. In later adolescence, clear sexual identity, that is, manhood or
womanhood is established.
Erikson is credited with coining the term “Identity Crisis” This turning point in
human development seems to be the reconciliation between ‘the person one has
come to be’ and ‘the person society expects one to become. What is unique
about the stage of Identity is that it is a special sort of synthesis of earlier stages
and a special sort of anticipation of later ones. Youth is a bridge between childhood
and adulthood, and thus has certain special significance to the young person.
Stage 6: Young adults( 20-34 years) Intimacy vs. Isolation
As the identity confusion is resolved and the individual is clear about who he or
she is, what the individual wants to do, what are the goals, and how to achieve
the same etc. As this stage of development proceeds, the individual is ready to
enter into the adult stage and master those developmental tasks which are
characteristic of that period. This is the time when the person experiences true
intimacy and true love. The person is now ready to start a long term relationship
with a member of opposite sex and settle down to raise a family. At this time
earning a steady income and an occupation become important for the individual.
The intimate relationship has to be reciprocal and in this relationship the individual
will be ready to make any kind of sacrifice and compromises that such a relationship
requires.
This is the time according to Erikson one feels isolated due to intimacy. We are
afraid of rejections such as being turned down or our partners breaking up with
us. We are familiar with pain, and to some of us, rejection is painful; our egos
cannot bear the pain. If people cannot form these intimate relationships, a sense
of isolation may result
Stage 7: Middle adulthood (35-65 years) Generativity versus Stagnation
Generativity is the concern of establishing and guiding the next generation. Socially
valued work and disciplines are expressions of generativity. During middle age the
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future generations. When a person makes a contribution during this period, perhaps Physical and Motor Develop-
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generativity or a sense of productivity and accomplishment result. On the other
hand, a person who is self centered and unwilling to help society, feel left out and
stagnated. Such a person feels dissatisfied and frustrated with the lack of
productivity and meaningfulness.
Stage 8: Seniors, (65 years and above ) Ego Integrity versus Despair
The developmental task of this age is retrospection. People look back on their
lives and accomplishments. They develop feelings of contentment and integrity if
they believe that they have led a happy, productive life. If their life has not been
productive and satisfying, they may develop a sense of despair if they look back
on a life of disappointments and unachieved goals. As the person grows older and
looks back on his life in the past and finds that it had been successful, productive
and meaningful, one feels good about it and feels a pride over the achievements.
This leads to the development of integrity , whereas if a person finds that his life
had been rather unsuccessful etc., he may become dissatisfied with life and develop
despair leading to hopelessness and depression.
Thus in all the eight developmental stages, there are eight psychosocial crises and
these have to be successfully resolved, the mature adult develops the peak of
adjustment, that is, integrity. Such a person is able to trust others and self too, and
is independent and dares the new. Such a person works hard, and has a self
concept about which the person is happy and proud. Such persons are proud
parents and grand parents and are proud of their grand children and help them
too to grow in the healthiest possible manner both physically and psychologically.
If on the other hand the psychosocial crises of the past have not been resolved,
such a person may feel disgusted and depressed.
14.2 Temperament
This is the pattern of arousal and emotionality that are labeled as consistent and
enduring characteristics of an individual. Temperament refers to how children
behave. Temperamental differences among infants appear from the time of birth.
Temperament shows stability from infancy through adolescence.
Research shows three profiles of temperament, viz., (i) easy babies (ii) difficult
babies and (iii) slow to warm up babies.
Easy babies have a positive disposition, their body functions operate regularly and
they are adaptable, while difficult babies have negative moods and are slow to
adapt to new situations.
The third category that is the slow to warm up babies are inactive, showing
relatively calm reactions to their environment. Their moods are generally negative,
and they withdraw from new situations, adapting slowly.
No temperament is inherently good or bad and in most cases there is a combination
of all these temperaments though one is more dominant than others. How well
a person adjusts to the environment depends on the degree of match between
children’s temperament and the nature and demands of the environment in which
they are being raised.
1.4.5 Gender
The sense of being male or female, has effects on psychosocial development
throughout life. It produces dissimilar worlds for members of each sex, even
during infancy!
Infants’ behaviour is interpreted differently depending on gender. Male infants are
considered to be more active and fussier than females. Also it is well known that
there are typical gender related roles that one has to play in life depending on
whether one is a male or female. This can be seen in children’s play, where boys
are encouraged to play more vigorous games while girls are expected to play
more docile and soft games. Depending upon the role a male or female is expected
to take up in society, the play also is influenced by these factors.
Also girls and boys between the ages of 6 and 12 actively avoid interacting with
one another and show strong favoritism toward their own gender and negative
stereotyping of the opposite gender . Why is this preference for same gender
playmates so very strong at this age? Eleanor Maccoby (1990), one of the
leading researchers and theorists in this area, suggests two reasons.
i) Girls appear to be “put off” by the typical boy’s rough-and-tumble play style
and by the strong emphasis on competition and dominance that is so much
a part of boy-boy interactions.
ii) Also girls find it hard to influence boys.
iii) Girls make polite suggestions to each other, a style of influence attempt that
school-aged boys simply do not comply with very often.
iv) Girls tend to withdraw into their own pairs or groups where their own “rules”
of behaviour are familiar and effective. Indeed, boys’ preference for same-
gender playmates is, even stronger than that of girls.
Furthermore gender segregation is even more pronounced in friendships among
school-aged children. School-aged children spend more time with their friends
than do preschoolers, and they gradually develop a larger collection of reciprocal
friendships and pairs in which each child names the other as a friend or as a “best
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friend” .This number gradually rises through elementary school.
Development During Early Also the qualities of the friendships girls and boys create differ. Boys’ relationships
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are extensive while that of girls are intensive. Boys’ friendship groups are larger
and more accepting of newcomers than are gir1s’. Boy friends play more outdoors
and roam over a larger area in their play. Girl friends are more likely to play in
pairs or in smaller groups, and they spend more playtime indoors or near home
or school.
Gender differences in actual interactions are also evident . Boys’ groups and
boys’ friendships appear to be focused more on competition and dominance than
are girls’ friendships (Maccoby, 1990). In fact, among school-aged boys, there
are higher levels of competition between pairs of friends than between pairs of
strangers, the opposite of what can be observed among girls. Friendships between
girls also include more agreement, more compliance, and more self-disclosure
than those between boys.
1.4.6 Play
Play in the young children contributes to all domains of development. Through
play, children stimulate the senses, learn how to use their muscles, coordinate sight
with movement, gain mastery over their bodies, and acquire new skills. As they
sort blocks of different shapes, count how many they can pile on each other, or
announce that “my tower is bigger than yours,” they lay the foundation for
mathematical concepts . Researchers categorise children’s play by its content and
its social dimension.
Types of Play: There are three types of play, viz., (i) Make believe or Pretend
play (ii) Functional play (iii) Constructive play
Nitu at 3, arranged for marriage of her doll. Nitin at 4, wore a kitchen towel and
flew around as Batman. These children were engaged in ‘make believe’ play
involving situations. They develop problem solving and language skills and
experience the joy of creativity. They make “tickets” for an imaginary train trip or
use doctor set to play doctor patient. The make believe play is one of four
categories of play identified by Piaget and others as showing increasing levels of
cognitive complexity (Piaget, 1951). In pretend play, children do the following:
i) Try out roles
ii) Cope with uncomfortable emotions
iii) Gain understanding of other people’s viewpoints, and
iv) Construct an image of the social world.
Pretend play is also called fantasy play, dramatic play or imaginative play.
Functional play involves repetitive muscular movements such as rolling or bouncing
a ball. As gross motor skills improve, preschoolers run, jump, skip, hop, throw,
and aim.
The constructive play is one in which the child uses objects or materials to make
something, such as a house of blocks or a crayon drawing. Four-year-olds in
preschools may spend more than half their time in this kind of play, which
becomes more elaborate by ages 5 and 6 years.
The Social Dimension of play
As children get older, their play tends to become more social that it is more
interactive and cooperative. At first children play alone, then alongside other
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Children become more social during the preschool years in imaginative play, Physical and Motor Develop-
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which shifts from solitary pretending to dramatic play involving other children. Development
Young children follow unspoken rules in organising dramatic play, i.e. I’m the
daddy; you’re the mommy . As imaginative play becomes increasingly collaborative,
story lines become more complex and more innovative. Dramatic play offers rich
opportunities to practice interpersonal and language skills and to explore social
roles.
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Physical Needs and Challenges Physical and Motor Develop-
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Because they’re growing, preteens have a huge appetite and always seem to be Development
hungry. Preteens have a greater need for sleep and may sleep later on weekends
than when they were younger. Their skin starts to become oily, and acne may be
a problem. As sweating increases, most preteens start using deodorant. Also,
because of rapid growth, preteens can be clumsy and lack coordination.
Physical Skills
Many older children enjoy physical challenges in competitive games. By fourth
grade children are more physically coordinated, able to kick, bounce, throw and
catch balls. They can perform various rhythmic movements while following a
pattern, as in line dancing. Children at this stage are expected to be able to
perform in all the areas of fitness with some proficiency, exhibiting skills such as
balance, coordination, speed, power and reaction time.
Sexual Development of Preteen Boys
Preteen boys go through rapid growth spurts in both height and weight. Their
muscles start filling out and strength dramatically increases. The voice deepens
and both underarm and pubic hair begin to appear and then thicken. Overall body
hair also increases. Sexual organs including the penis, testes and scrotum enlarge,
and preteen boys often experience their first nocturnal emissions.
Sexual Development of Preteen Girls
Although preteen girls continue to grow taller, they do so at a slower rate than
earlier in their lives. Breast development begins. Most preteen girls experience
their first menstrual period during this time. Underarm hair develops and thickens.
Pubic hair starts to take on an adult triangular pattern. Preteen girls notice their
hips start to widen. Fat deposits develop on the legs and buttocks.