How To Make Your
Relationship Strong
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Introduction
Anyone who has been in a relationship
knows how hard it is to keep things
afloat. It takes a lot more than feelings
of affection and attraction to keep the
flame alive.
If there is one thing you and your
partner can count on, it is the fact that
there will be many relationship
problems along the way. With so many
colossal disasters befalling couples
everywhere, it's not a bad idea to seek
out different ways to make your
relationship stronger.
Think of these are relationship tips that
will ensure you last long beyond the
honeymoon phase. Of course, every
couple has their own way of navigating
down the route to a healthy
relationship. But with these in your
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arsenal, you should be able to keep your
relationship strong.
Ways To Make Your
Relationship Strong
1. Don’t be afraid to disagree
As long as your disagreements are
constructive, they will make your
relationship strong. Disagreeing is one
way to get to know each other better.
Make sure you don’t aim for the
jugular so the argument won't
become a long term problem.
2. Never stop dating
It’s easy to stop seeing your spouse as a
conquest, but that will hurt your
relationship. Don’t forget how
wonderful your love felt when you first
met each other; make sure you hold
onto those feelings.
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3. Appreciate the little things
A vital part of every relationship is
doing cute things that make your love
life more pleasurable. Things like
holding hands, taking walks, stealing
kisses in public, or simply showing
appreciation for little favors you do for
each other’s help.
4. Share details about your day
It may seem like small talk, but sharing
the details of your day is a great way to
maintain the connection you share. It
also shows a level of commitment; if you
can still discuss little things with your
significant other, you’ll maintain a
strong relationship.
5. Don’t be too dependent
Yes, you need to be able to depend on
each other; emotionally, financially,
physically, and spiritually. Altogether,
relationships bear long term
consequences when the parties involved
cannot function on their own.
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6. Don’t put your partner on a
pedestal
If you want to know how to make your
relationship strong, see your partner for
who he is. It’s easy to be blinded by all
the romance, but it's vital to focus on
who he is.
7. Be silly together
Sometimes you need to let your hair
down and play like a child every once in
a while. It does the soul worlds of good
for couples to show their silly side when
the occasion calls for it.
8. Show appreciation
A lot of resentment is built when you
cannot show appreciation for the things
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your partner does for you. Sure, you do
not have to say something about every
little effort, but if you want to make
your relationship work saying ‘thank
you’ will suffice.
9. Date night should be a ritual
Going out on dates every now and then
is a wonderful way to focus on your
partner. With the hustle and bustle of
life, it's hard to stay on the same
wavelength all the time. Going on
dates will give you the opportunity to
connect with each other.
10. Don’t hold grudges
Grudges are like cankerworms. They
can dig deep into the foundation of your
relationship and unravel everything.
Open communication is a must if you
want to keep your cool. Don't let things
fester and grow out of control, because
grudges don't make a relationship
strong.
11. Have other interests
When you finally find 'the one', don't be
under the impression that he's meant to
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be your everything. Make an effort not
to constantly do things as a couple.
Focus on yourself sometimes.
12. Make communication a must
If you don't talk to each other, then
you're never going to know what's
going on with your partner. Don't
assume that you know what's going on
with him, only open communication can
assure that.
13. Listen
Both you and your partner need to be
willing to listen to each other if you are
going to keep your connection alive.
Many times, people get lost in what’s
being said and they don’t take the time
to listen.
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14. Apologize when necessary
The thing about apologizing is that it’s
easier said than done, especially when
emotions are running high.
Relationships thrive when each partner
cares enough to apologize to the other
when the need arises.
15. Respect each other’s boundaries
The fact that you are in a relationship
does not mean that instantly meld into
one single person. Don't encroach every
time your partner pulls away,
sometimes people need space.
16. Be honest with your partner
A couple that tells each other the truth
is sure to lead to a long and fruitful
relationship. Being honest is one of the
best ways to be supportive,
nevertheless, be sure to have a good
bedside manner, especially if it's about
a sensitive matter.
17. Be a solid support system
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Everybody wants that ride or die that
stands by them through thick or thin.
Be that partner that supports his
dreams, gives him pep talks, cheers him
on, etc.
18. Don't forget to be his friend
If you aren't friends, then it goes
without saying that you won't have a
very good relationship. Couples need to
find ways to build a good friendship
outside all the mushy stuff.
19. Agree to disagree
In relationships, it's often misconstrued
that the couple needs to be on the same
page before things work out.
Nevertheless, you often have to agree
to have different opinions so you can
focus on building a solid relationship.
20. Try new things together
Think of being in a relationship as an
adventure that you get to embark on
with your partner. Don't stop trying
new things together, it'll keep you
young and happy.
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21. Look for hobbies you share
You don't have to share everything in
common, but relationships often thrive
when the parties involved have hobbies
in common. Couples who can find one
or two things they can enjoy together
are bound to stay together.
22. Don't assume
Assumptions can eventually land your
relationship in a hole you can't dig
yourself out of. If the aim is to keep the
love and affection alive, don't assume
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you know what's on your partner's
mind.
23. Listen to what they don't say
Everyone has non-verbal cues and the
truth is that your partner probably
won't vocalize every single issue they
have with you. It's important to look a
little closer once in a while because
that's how relationships thrive.
24. Keep things alive in the
bedroom
Relationships are not all about sex, but
if you leave that aspect out, it'll
undoubtedly crumble. Learn what he
enjoys and likewise teach him what you
enjoy. This is your partner, you should
not have to pretend with each other.
25. Don't try to win all the time
In relationships, you win some, you lose
some, there's truly no other way for
couples to navigate. Sometimes you
need to let things go because the
argument is in no way worth the peace
within your relationship. That doesn't
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mean you should suppress your voice,
just learn to let some arguments slide.
26. Be forgiving
If you don't forgive your partner, then
you'll end up with enough resentment
to wreck your relationship altogether.
To move forward after a disagreement,
it's important to develop a forgiving
spirit because you're going to need it.
27. Be empathetic
If you can't put yourself in your
partner's shoes, you won't be able to
put a finger on what makes them tick.
You don't have to completely
comprehend what's going on in their
heads, but at least you'd be able to
relate.
28. Make your partner a priority
Of course, you have other aspects of
your life to concentrate on, but you
need to make time for your partner.
Show them that they are an integral
part of your life.
29. Buy him gifts
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Only recently has it become normal for
women to spoil their men with gifts. But
some people are still trying it on for
size. Don't wait for your partner to ask
for things, take the initiative, and buy
him something nice every now and
then.
30. Learn new skills together
Your relationship shouldn't simply be
about bumping uglies and merging
accounts, you should be able to acquire
new skills with your partner. You can
take a cooking class, join a book club,
or learn how to play golf.
31. Openly show that you care
If you cannot openly show that you care
about your partner, then why are you in
a relationship? Even if you aren't a big
fan of PDA, you can still seek out ways
to show that you wouldn’t trade his
company for anything.
32. Know when to take a break
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Spending every waking hour together
can become too much. If you truly want
the relationship to work out give each
other space when you can. It’s healthy
and will even make you miss your
partner.
33. Tell him why you love him
In every relationship, it is essential to
constantly reassure one another. Sure,
your man knows that you love him, but
he needs to hear it.
34. Ditch the screens
Yes, it’s the 21st century and there are
screens everywhere, nevertheless,
every relationship needs a breather
from technology. Take a day out to
enjoy your man's company without a
screen in sight.
35. Don't pretend
A relationship riddled with pretense is
already doomed from the start. He does
not have to know every single detail
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about you, but there are some issues
you should never pretend about.
36. Don't push other people away
It's easy to lose yourself in your
relationship, especially when it's still
relatively new. Try your best not to
push everyone else away just because
you have a man. Your partner should be
your friend but he can't be your only
friend.
37. Think of yourselves as a 'we'
As much as you're both individuals, it's
crucial to act like you're a team. In fact,
don't just act like it, simply know that
he's part of your team. It's not a 'you
against the world' situation, but if
you're going to be together, you have to
learn to exist together.
38. Be positive
Negativity can drain your relationship
of all its allure, so try to adopt a positive
outlook on life, it'll make it easier to live
together.
39. Admit when you're wrong
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You can't be right every single time,
that's something you need to accept
from the get-go. Be sure to accept it
when you are wrong.
40. Don't fight dirty
It's human nature to try to hurt
someone who hurt you, but it's not the
best way to handle issues.
41. Don't expect him to read your
mind
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Use your words, especially when he
annoys you, he can't read your mind
and you shouldn't expect him to.
42. Don't stew in your issues
Try your best not to keep tabs on
everything he does wrong only to fling
it back at him when you have a fresh
argument.
43. Don't take him for granted
Value every single day you get to spend
with your man, especially if he's 'the
one', not everybody gets to experience
that.
44. Don't be over-possessive
This is not an attractive look on anyone,
be confident in the fact that your man
loves you and you alone.
45. Remember his birthday
It's a cardinal sin to forget your S.O's
birthday; remembering details like this
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shows that you are interested in his
life.
46. Be there when it counts
You should be partners through thick
and thin, so when the cards he's been
dealt are not great ensure that you
aren't off somewhere having a drink.
47. Take constructive criticism
This is a sore point for most people who
are romantically involved, but you
should be able to take a few pointers
from one another and ultimately
become better people.
48. Set health goals
Being healthy together should be one of
your major goals. Don't just spend your
days scarfing down fast food and rolling
around in the sheets. Adopt a healthy
diet and workout together.
49. Try to make his life easier
Life is stressful, your man is probably
going to face adversity at work, on the
streets, and everywhere else. Don't be
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another problem to him, instead be his
safe haven.
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50. Be open to new experiences
You can't go through life without
learning and unlearning, so why limit
yourself with your man. Seek out ways
to amass new experiences that make
your lives richer.
51. Check out your partner's
hobbies
You don't have to be interested in
everything your S.O likes, but it won't
hurt to explore his world.
52. Don't underestimate “me time”
There's nothing like some good old me
time to reboot your system and
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revitalize you. Spend time together, but
spend time apart, it's good for the soul.
53. Take care of yourself
It's easy to let yourself go when you
finally bagged the man, but that's not
going to end well. Look good, not just
for your man, but for yourself.
54. Don't try to be perfect
No one is perfect, and if you try to do it
you'll most likely exhaust yourself. I'm
not telling you not to work on yourself,
but know your limits.
55. Don't raise your voice
Your man is not a child that you can
scold when he behaves badly, so
whenever you argue try not to sound
condescending.
56. Learn from your arguments
Don't argue just to hurt the other
person's feelings, ensure that your
arguments lead somewhere. If you're
upset about the same thing 5 times in a
row, then there's no growth.
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57. Try to be cordial with his friends
and family
You don't have to be best friends, but
it'd help to be on good terms with
anyone close to him, be it a friend or
family member.
58. Talk about your future
If you don't take out time to plan your
next step as a team, many issues will
throw you off.
59. Don't apply too much pressure
Pushing your man to take certain
actions when he's not ready often
comes off as nagging. No one is asking
you to sit around and waiting for him to
make all the moves, convince him, don't
push him.
60. Be guarded with information
What happens between you two should
mostly remain between you. All your
social media friends should not know
what's happening in your relationship.
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61. Let your actions match your
words
Saying you love him is not enough, your
actions have to mirror those
sentiments.
62. Be kind
It seems simple enough, but you'd be
surprised at how many people treat
their partners badly. Simply be
conscious of your delivery.
63. Brace yourself for trying times
It's not always going to be peachy, no
matter how much you adore him. So
understand that there will be
disagreements, don't take it personally.
64. Set goals together
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You obviously have your personal goals,
but relationships are partnerships, so
endeavor to set goals as a team.
65. Compromise
You can't have it your way every single
time, that's not a sustainable plan. Once
in a while, let him have a win.
66. Trust
As you may have heard before, this is a
two-way street. If there's no trust,
there's no amount of love that can
sustain you.
67. Be vulnerable
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No, don't walk around baring it all,
simply know exactly when to let your
S.O see you for who you are.
68. Build healthy boundaries
It's good to be close to your man, but
don't encroach on each other's space to
a weird extent. You should still be
individuals, together.
69. Don't be passive-aggressive
Sometimes you want people to just
sense how upset you are, so you put up
an attitude. Try to vocalize your
annoyance, your S.O won't always know
what he did wrong.
70. Accept help when needed
Don't be deceived, there is no
condensed handbook on how to
navigate a romantic coupling.
Nevertheless, there are people that can
make it easier for you to settle serious
disputes. Seek therapy or counseling
before it's too late.
71. Don't leave arguments hanging
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Always seek resolutions when you have
a lover's squabble. Keeping cases
closed simply means that one of you will
bring it up when there's a fresh
argument.
72. Watch your tone
It's easy to come off as rude, even when
you were simply trying to make an
honest observation. Be conscious of
your tone, it could make all the
difference.
73. Don't shy away from difficult
conversations
If you are in it for the long haul, you'll
need to get ready to hear some harsh
truths. Don't take it too personally, just
take what's needed and leave the chaff.
74. Treat them with respect
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Always remember that your man is a
human being with valid feelings, be
respectful in all your dealings.
75. Admire
The same way you get dolled up for
him, he grooms himself for you. So, let
him know when he looks or smells
good.
76. Do something nice periodically
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It could be anything ranging from
preparing his favorite meal to buying
him a PS4.
77. Make decisions together
If you're looking to build a future
together, then you have to make
decisions together. You see, what one
person does affect the other.
78. Learn from experienced people
Don't model your relationship after
someone else's, but have people you
can draw inspiration from.
79. Find happiness from within
Giving one person the sole
responsibility of making you happy
mounts a lot of pressure on you. S.O.
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Most times you have to make your own
happiness.
80. Don't neglect him
Trying to secure your own happiness
does not mean you should do so at the
expense of your man. Create happiness
without being selfish.
81. Figure out how they
communicate
As much as we'd all love to be able to
bear our minds at all times, it's not
possible. Learn how your partner
communicates, which could save you
from many arguments.
82. Remember that you're a team
Teammates often have to work together
regardless of the fact that they have
different strengths. The same goes for
you and your S.O.
83. Have his back
It may not always be convenient, but try
as much as you can to be on his side.
Standing together in solidarity bonds
people.
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84. Don't try to change them
You can't expect him to bend to your
will, he spent years developing who he
is present. Some aspects of his
character will change, others won't and
that's OK.
85. Ask
Again, your S.O is not a mind reader, if
you want to know or need something,
simply ask.
86. Do some soul searching
You aren't perfect and you don't have to
be, but you can look inwards to figure
out what you can let go of.
87. Be open
Sometimes we tell white lies to keep
our partners happy, it's not necessarily
bad, especially when sentiments are
involved. Just don't lie to them about
everything.
88. Improve yourself
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Don't hide behind the excuse of being
true to who you are, grow out of some
childish attitudes.
89. Don't try to control everything
Life is full of surprises. If you try to
control everything you'll end up gravely
disappointed. Plan to an extent and
leave the rest to fate.
90. Don't keep a scoreboard
If you keep track of how many times
you did him a favor or let issues slide,
you'll get tired really quickly. Life is not
a game, simply live it.
91. Be a solution person
Life is sometimes like an unsolvable
math problem, you're both going to
need solutions as you go forward. Try to
be his solution person and not another
problem to tackle.
92. Don't walk on eggshells
If you're scared of ruffling a few
feathers, you're going to get frustrated.
You should be able to be yourself within
respectful limits.
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93. Pick your battles
Sometimes you know you're right, and
so does he if he wants to be honest. But
you just need to let issues slide to
maintain the peace.
94. Don't compare him to others
No one wants to be constantly
compared to your ex or some random
movie star. Keep your eyes on stuff that
makes him special and let him know.
95. Don't approach everything with
logic
Not everything lovers do make sense,
with that in mind, you should try to
understand him on his level, not from
your POV.
96. Stay faithful
Needless to say, sexual immorality has
killed more marriages than you can
imagine. Try to limit your bedroom
needs to your S.O.
97. Kiss!
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There's something extremely intimate
about kisses, they make you feel closer
to your beau.
98. Laugh
Laughter is food for the soul and who
better to do it with than your S.O.
99. Flirt
No matter how far down the line you
are, take your time to flirt with
yourselves like teenagers. It sweetens
the deal.
100. Talk about the big stuff
If something is vital to your life
together, don't hesitate to talk about it.
101. Be dedicated
For anything to work, dedication is a
vital ingredient. Being together is a full-
time job, be dedicated enough to see it
through.
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