Frustration - University Exam Notes (10 Marks)
Frustration - University Exam Notes (10 Marks)
Introduction:
Frustration is a common emotional experience in human life. It occurs when a person is trying to reach a goal
or fulfill a desire, but something or someone stops them. This leads to emotional tension, dissatisfaction, and
sometimes anger or sadness. Frustration is a part of daily life, especially in situations where we face failures
or obstacles.
Definition:
Frustration refers to the blocking of goal-directed behavior. When a person wants to achieve something, but
cannot do it due to internal or external barriers, he or she experiences frustration.
Causes of Frustration:
1. Withholding Reinforcement: Expecting reward but not getting it. Example: Studied hard but did not get
good marks.
2. Thwarting: Someone physically or socially stops a person. Example: Wants to play football but coach says
no.
3. Conflict: Person is confused between two or more opposite desires. Example: Study or attend a party.
Types of Conflict:
1. Approach-Approach Conflict:
- Choose between two positive goals.
- Example 1: Friend's party or school picnic.
- Example 2: Two job offers.
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2. Avoidance-Avoidance Conflict:
- Choose between two negative things.
- Example 1: Homework or cleaning room.
- Example 2: Tooth pain or dentist.
3. Approach-Avoidance Conflict:
- One goal has both positive and negative sides.
- Example 1: Stage performance (fame vs fear).
- Example 2: Ice cream (taste vs weight gain).
4. Multiple Approach-Avoidance Conflict:
- Many choices, each with pros and cons.
- Example 1: Choosing a career.
- Example 2: Choosing a college.
Related Emotional Reactions:
1. Restlessness:
- Feeling of no peace.
- Moving or thinking too much.
- Example: Student restless before exam.
2. Aggressiveness:
- Expressing anger through words or actions.
- Types: Verbal, Physical, Passive.
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- Example: Student blames others after failing.
Sources of Frustration:
1. Environmental: External issues like traffic.
2. Personal: Internal like low confidence.
3. Conflicts Among Motives: Two needs clash.
Psychological Effects:
- Anxiety
- Stress
- Irritability
- Depression
- Anger
- Loss of motivation
Positive Side:
Frustration can lead to creativity and growth if managed well.
How to Manage Frustration:
- Stay calm
- Break goals into steps
- Talk to someone
- Rest and sleep
- Manage time
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Example Scenario:
A student wants to watch a movie:
- Motive: Enjoy with friends
- Withheld: No ticket
- Thwarting: No permission
- Conflict: Movie or birthday
- Result: Restlessness and aggression
Conclusion:
Frustration is natural when goals are blocked. It can lead to negative outcomes but can be controlled and
used for personal growth with the right approach.
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