Spiritual Midwifery: Birthing God's Promises
Spiritual Midwifery: Birthing God's Promises
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Book Description
In every believer's life, God has promises waiting to be fulfilled—visions, callings, dreams, and
destinies destined for greatness. But just as every physical birth requires assistance, the spiritual
birthing of God’s promises also needs guidance, support, and intercession. This is where spiritual
midwives step in.
In this book, you will discover why spiritual midwives are essential in the process of bringing
God's promises to fruition. Just as a physical midwife assists in the delivery of a child, spiritual
midwives partner with God to nurture, protect, and guide His promises to full maturity. They
offer encouragement, intercession, wisdom, and protection in the face of spiritual warfare,
ensuring that God's plans are not hindered but come to pass in due season.
This book dives into the biblical foundations and practical roles of spiritual midwives, equipping
you with the tools to step into this sacred calling. Whether you are a spiritual midwife helping
others or an individual standing in faith for your own promises, this book will:
Reveal the Role of the Spiritual Midwife: Understand the vital role spiritual midwives
play in intercession, encouragement, guidance, and protection. Learn how they help
others navigate the spiritual challenges that arise when promises are on the verge of being
birthed.
Guide You Through the Birthing Process: Explore the stages of spiritual labor—from
recognizing the promise, through the waiting season, to the moment of delivery. Learn
how to stand firm in faith and intercede with power to see God's promises come to
fruition.
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Equip You for Spiritual Warfare: Understand how to recognize and overcome the
obstacles that the enemy places in your path. Learn how to wield the armor of God and
engage in prayer, fasting, and prophetic declarations to break through the barriers of
doubt, fear, and opposition.
Build a Supportive Community: Discover the importance of having a network of prayer
partners and mentors who can stand alongside you in your journey. Find strength and
encouragement as you work together to see God’s promises fulfilled.
Surrender and Remain Faithful: Learn how to surrender to the call of spiritual
midwifery and remain faithful in the labor, trusting in God's perfect timing and guidance.
"This book is an invitation to step into a divine partnership with God, to walk alongside others
in the fulfillment of His promises, and to see His kingdom advance in powerful and tangible
ways. Whether you are called to be a spiritual midwife or are simply seeking understanding of
this sacred role, this book will equip you to birth the promises of God and watch them come to
full fruition.
CHAPTER 1...........................................................................................................................................3
WHAT ARE SPIRITUAL MIDWIVES?.......................................................................................................3
CHAPTER 2...........................................................................................................................................6
THE JOURNEY FROM PROMISE TO FULFILLMENT..................................................................................6
CHAPTER 3...........................................................................................................................................8
THE ROLE OF THE SPIRITUAL MIDWIFE.................................................................................................8
CHAPTER 4.........................................................................................................................................12
SPIRITUAL LABOR AND DELIVERY.......................................................................................................12
CHAPTER 5.........................................................................................................................................15
SPIRITUAL WARFARE IN BIRTHING GOD’S PROMISES..........................................................................15
CHAPTER 6.........................................................................................................................................17
PRACTICAL TOOLS FOR SPIRITUAL MIDWIVES.....................................................................................17
CHAPTER 7.........................................................................................................................................20
ANSWERING THE CALL OF A SPIRITUAL MIDWIFE...............................................................................20
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These are individuals divinely called to assist others in bringing forth God’s promises, purposes,
and plans into reality. They serve as spiritual guides, mentors, encouragers, and intercessors,
walking alongside others through seasons of growth, challenges, and spiritual labor.
Much like physical midwives aid in the delivery of new life, spiritual midwives help birth God’s
work in individuals and communities. They discern the potential and calling in others, nurture
their faith, and provide encouragement during times of doubt or struggle.
Spiritual midwives are not self-appointed but are positioned by God through their relationship
with Him and their sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. Often, they are individuals with a history of
their own spiritual breakthroughs, giving them the insight and empathy needed to guide others
effectively.
These are individuals who can see the plan of the enemy and pray against it.
One of the key characteristics of these intercessors is that they fear God and obey him.
The concept of spiritual midwifery finds its roots in the Bible, where individuals played pivotal
roles in helping others fulfill God’s plans. These spiritual midwives were encouragers, mentors,
and intercessors, standing in faith during critical moments of spiritual "labor."
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Spiritual midwives stand firm against opposition to protect what God is bringing forth. They
have the grace for intercession to defend the promises of God and birth the purposes of God.
Shiphrah and Puah were midwives who defied pharaohs orders to kill the Hebrew babies.
Similarly, Spiritual intercessors have been graced for spiritual warfare to see the plan of the
enemy and oppose it in prayer.
Shiphrah and Puah stood against the spirit of death and released the spirit of life. Spiritual
midwives, as intercessors they stand in the gap against the spirit of death and cause the release of
life.
Spiritual midwives affirm and encourage others to trust in God’s promises, especially in
moments of doubt or fear.
Spiritual midwives mentor and empower others to step into leadership and fulfill God’s
assignments.
Spiritual midwives nurture the spiritual gifts in others and embolden them to walk in their calling
without fear.
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Spiritual midwives provide the confidence and clarity needed to overcome fear and engage in
spiritual battles.
Spiritual midwives guide others through seasons of transition and align them with God’s
redemptive purposes.
The Apostle Paul exemplifies the role of a spiritual midwife in his relationship with the early
church. He labored tirelessly in prayer, teaching, and mentoring so that Christ might be fully
formed in the lives of believers.
Key Scripture:
"My little children, for whom I labor in birth again until Christ is formed in you..."
— Galatians 4:19 (NKJV)
In this passage, Paul likens his efforts to the pains of childbirth, emphasizing his deep
commitment to the spiritual growth and maturity of the Galatian believers.
Epaphras, a lesser-known but deeply impactful figure in the New Testament, embodies the role
of a spiritual midwife through his fervent prayers and dedication to the spiritual maturity of
others. His commitment to seeing believers stand "perfect and complete in all the will of God"
highlights his labor as an intercessor and encourager.
Key Scripture:
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"Epaphras, who is one of you, a bondservant of Christ, greets you, always laboring fervently for
you in prayers, that you may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God."
— Colossians 4:12 (NKJV)
Epaphras is described as "laboring fervently" in prayer, which in the original Greek conveys the
idea of intense struggle or wrestling. His prayers were not casual but deliberate, persistent, and
focused on the spiritual growth of the believers in Colossae, Laodicea, and Hierapolis
(Colossians 4:13).
Spiritual midwives labor in prayer, contending for God’s purposes to be fully realized in the lives
of others.
Epaphras understood that spiritual growth involved more than surface-level faith; it required
depth, assurance, and full alignment with God’s will.
Spiritual midwives focus on guiding others toward a deep, transformative relationship with God,
where they fully align with His purposes.
These examples reveal the heart of spiritual midwifery: walking alongside others with faith,
wisdom, and encouragement to bring forth God’s plans. Each example shows that spiritual
midwives play a vital role in birthing spiritual breakthroughs, confirming callings, and equipping
others to fulfill their destiny in Christ.
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God's promises often begin as small seeds—dreams, visions, prophetic words, or a still, quiet
whisper in the heart. These initial glimpses of His plan may appear insignificant or even
uncertain, but they hold the potential for tremendous spiritual growth and breakthrough. The role
of a spiritual midwife is to help discern these promises, ensuring they are grounded in Scripture
and aligned with God's will.
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Dreams and Visions: Like Joseph’s dreams (Genesis 37:5-11), God often reveals His
promises in symbolic or prophetic forms that require discernment.
Prophetic Words: In 1 Timothy 1:18, Paul urges Timothy to "wage the good warfare"
based on the prophetic words spoken over him. A spiritual midwife helps validate and
protect these words through prayer and reflection.
Quiet Whisper: Sometimes, God’s promises come as a quiet impression in the heart, like
the still voice Elijah heard in 1 Kings 19:12.
The journey from promise to fulfillment rarely happens overnight. The waiting season can be
one of the most challenging periods, often marked by spiritual warfare, doubt, and frustration.
Yet, this season is essential for preparation and refining. A spiritual midwife helps others stay
anchored in faith by reminding them of God's faithfulness and encouraging them to persevere.
Doubt and Disappointment: Like Sarah waiting for the promise of a child (Genesis
18:10-14), the waiting season can provoke questions and doubts.
Spiritual Warfare: The enemy often attacks the promise with discouragement, lies, or
distractions. This is where intercessory prayer and spiritual warfare become crucial.
God’s Timing: Learning to trust in God’s perfect timing, as seen in Ecclesiastes 3:1
("To everything there is a season..."), is a vital lesson during the waiting period.
A spiritual midwife walks alongside others, offering encouragement, prayers, and reminders of
past testimonies of God’s faithfulness. They also help individuals recognize that waiting is not
wasted time but a season of growth and preparation.
3. Laboring in Faith
When the time is right, the spiritual birthing process begins. Labor, in the natural sense, requires
effort, endurance, and focus. Similarly, spiritual labor involves steadfast prayer, fasting, and trust
in God's timing. The spiritual midwife’s role during this phase is to provide support,
encouragement, and intercession, helping others remain strong and focused on God’s promises.
Prayer and Intercession: Just as a mother might need help during the labor process, so
too do believers need the support of prayer and intercession. Romans 8:26-27 speaks of
the Holy Spirit interceding on our behalf when we don’t know how to pray.
Fasting and Sacrifice: As Luke 2:37 shows, Anna the prophetess fasted and prayed for
years, awaiting the Messiah's arrival. This devotion mirrors the intense spiritual focus
required during labor.
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A spiritual midwife helps individuals remain committed to prayer, fasting, and trust, knowing
that God's promise will come to fruition in His perfect time.
Through each of these stages—recognizing the promise, enduring the waiting season, and
laboring in faith—the spiritual midwife plays a crucial role. They provide counsel,
encouragement, and prayer, helping others stay faithful to God’s process. A spiritual midwife
nurtures the promise and helps the individual prepare spiritually for the fullness of God’s will.
Discernment and Guidance: Helping the individual discern the truth of God’s promises
and distinguish them from personal desires or external influences.
Intercessory Prayer: Carrying the burden of prayer, interceding for the individual’s
strength and focus during the waiting and laboring periods.
Encouragement and Patience: Reminding the individual of God’s faithfulness and
encouraging them to trust His timing, even when it seems delayed.
Just as a mother endures the pain of labor in order to bring forth new life, believers often go
through spiritual labor to bring forth the promises of God in their lives. With the help of a
spiritual midwife, they can remain steadfast in faith, trust in God’s timing, and experience the joy
of seeing the promise fulfilled.
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1. As Encourager
Spiritual midwives are called to speak life, truth, and encouragement into the lives of others.
They are the ones who lift up those in despair, combating fear and doubt with the solid
foundation of God's promises. Their words are life-giving, affirming, and filled with hope,
helping others to press forward in their journey of faith.
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Scriptural References:
Ephesians 4:29 (NKJV): “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is
good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.”
Spiritual midwives speak words that build up, not tear down, offering encouragement and
hope to those they serve.
1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NKJV): “Therefore comfort each other and edify one another,
just as you also are doing.”
Encouragement is a key part of the spiritual midwife’s role, ensuring that believers are
strengthened in their faith.
Isaiah 41:10 (NKJV): “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your
God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right
hand.”
Spiritual midwives combat fear and doubt with reminders of God’s promises, such as His
presence, help, and strength.
Prayer is at the heart of spiritual midwifery. A spiritual midwife intercedes fervently on behalf of
others, standing in the gap and engaging in spiritual warfare. They pray without ceasing,
contending for the promises of God to come to fruition, and battling the forces of darkness that
seek to thwart God’s work.
Scriptural References:
Romans 8:26-27 (NKJV): “Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do
not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession
for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.”
The Holy Spirit empowers the intercessor, providing the strength and guidance needed
for effective prayer.
Ephesians 6:18 (NKJV): “Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit,
being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints.”
Spiritual midwives are vigilant in their prayer lives, standing in the gap for those they are
called to serve.
Colossians 4:12 (NKJV): “Epaphras, who is one of you, a bondservant of Christ, greets
you, always laboring fervently for you in prayers, that you may stand perfect and
complete in all the will of God.”
Epaphras’ intercession serves as an example of how spiritual midwives labor in prayer to
see others grow and fulfill God’s will.
3. As a Guide
Spiritual midwives offer wisdom and direction, helping those they serve navigate challenges and
obstacles. They provide guidance based on Scripture and their own experiences, helping
individuals discern God’s voice and move forward in faith. A midwife's wisdom can illuminate
the path ahead and offer clarity during times of confusion or uncertainty.
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Scriptural References:
Proverbs 3:5-6 (NKJV): “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your
own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”
Spiritual midwives encourage others to trust in God for guidance, helping them
understand that His wisdom will direct their lives.
James 1:5 (NKJV): “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all
liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.”
Midwives point others to God as the ultimate source of wisdom, encouraging them to
seek His guidance through prayer and Scripture.
Psalm 119:105 (NKJV): “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
Spiritual midwives rely on the Word of God to provide direction and clarity to those they
serve, helping them navigate challenges with biblical wisdom.
4. As a Protector
Spiritual midwives protect the promises of God from spiritual attacks, discouragement, and
distractions. Like the midwives Shiphrah and Puah in Exodus, who preserved the lives of the
Hebrew children, spiritual midwives fight to ensure that God’s promises remain unharmed by the
enemy. They stand guard over what God is doing, interceding and offering protection from
spiritual harm.
Scriptural References:
Exodus 1:15-21 (NKJV): “Then the king of Egypt spoke to the Hebrew midwives... ‘If it
is a son, then you shall kill him; but if it is a daughter, then she shall live.’ But the
midwives feared God, and did not do as the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved
the male children alive.”
Shiphrah and Puah demonstrated great courage and wisdom, choosing to obey God rather
than a king’s decree. Spiritual midwives stand against forces that seek to abort or hinder
God’s work.
Isaiah 54:17 (NKJV): “No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue
which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the
servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is from Me,” says the Lord.
Spiritual midwives protect God’s promises through spiritual warfare, knowing that God
promises protection and victory over every weapon the enemy forms.
1 Peter 5:8-9 (NKJV): “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks
about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Resist him, steadfast in the
faith...”
Midwives are vigilant, constantly on guard against the enemy’s attacks, and help others
resist temptation and discouragement.
5. As a Mentor:
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Offering wisdom, guidance, and accountability to help others stay aligned with God’s plan.
Spiritual midwives as mentors guide and support others in their spiritual growth and calling,
much like a midwife assists in bringing new life into the world. They intercede, encourage,
and help individuals navigate spiritual challenges and transitions, mentoring them toward
maturity in Christ. A biblical example of this is Paul mentoring Timothy:
Scriptural reference:
2 Timothy 1:6-7 (NIV): "For this reason, I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God,
which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For the Spirit God gave us does not
make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline."
Paul acts as a spiritual midwife, encouraging Timothy to step into his calling with
boldness.
Another example is Elizabeth mentoring and encouraging Mary, the mother of Jesus, during her
pregnancy:
Luke 1:41-45 (NIV): Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, affirmed Mary’s calling and
blessed her for believing God’s promises.
These examples show mentors as spiritual midwives who nurture, affirm, and guide others in
fulfilling God’s purposes.
6. Discernment Helper
Assisting in recognizing God’s voice and confirming His direction in challenging moments.
Spiritual midwives as discernment helpers are those who assist others in recognizing and
aligning with God’s will, offering guidance and prayer to discern His purposes. They help
others birth spiritual maturity, calling, or breakthroughs by providing wisdom,
encouragement, and intercession.
Scriptural Reference:
1. Ecclesiastes 3:1: "To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under
heaven."
o Spiritual midwives help discern the right time and season for God’s purposes to
unfold.
2. Proverbs 27:17: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."
o They provide accountability and sharpen spiritual insight.
3. Exodus 1:17-21: The Hebrew midwives, Shiphrah and Puah, discerned God's will over
Pharaoh's decree and protected the Hebrew babies, standing as examples of obedience to
God’s purpose.
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These helpers are vital in encouraging others to remain faithful and steadfast as they wait for
God's promises to come to fruition.
7. Supporter in Labor
Providing strength and reassurance when the spiritual “delivery” feels painful, delayed, or
overwhelming.
Spiritual midwives are individuals who support others during times of spiritual labor, helping
them bring forth God’s purposes and promises. This role involves intercession,
encouragement, and guidance during critical spiritual breakthroughs or challenges.
This verse emphasizes God's faithfulness in completing what He starts and serves as an
assurance for spiritual midwives as they stand in the gap, supporting others in birthing God’s
promises. They labor alongside in prayer and encouragement, helping others persevere until
God's purposes are fulfilled.
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signs of spiritual labor, overcome obstacles, and ultimately bring forth the promises God has
given them.
In the natural realm, labor begins with contractions—rhythmic, intensifying pains that signal the
approaching birth. Similarly, in the spiritual realm, contractions can manifest as intensified
challenges, opposition, or a growing sense of urgency. These signs often indicate that God is
preparing to bring forth His promises and that fulfillment is near. Spiritual midwives help others
recognize these contractions, encouraging them to press through the pain and challenges with
faith and perseverance.
Scriptural References:
Isaiah 66:7-8 (NKJV): “Before she was in labor, she gave birth; before her pain came,
she delivered a male child. Who has heard such a thing? Who has seen such things?
Shall the earth be made to give birth in one day? Or shall a nation be born at once? For
as soon as Zion was in labor, she gave birth to her children.”
This passage illustrates how the birthing of God’s promises can happen quickly and with
intensity. The labor pains represent the challenges that come right before the fulfillment
of the promise.
Romans 8:22 (NKJV): “For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with
birth pangs together until now.”
Creation itself groans in anticipation of redemption, much like a woman in labor.
Spiritual contractions are an indication that something is being birthed in the spirit.
Galatians 4:19 (NKJV): “My little children, for whom I labor in birth again until Christ
is formed in you.”
Paul speaks of his laboring for the spiritual maturity of believers. Similarly, spiritual
midwives recognize the intensity of the spiritual contractions signaling growth or
transformation in someone’s life. Spiritual midwives help others understand that these
"contractions" are not a sign of defeat, but rather a sign that something significant is
about to be birthed. They encourage perseverance and trust in God’s timing.
2. Overcoming Obstacles
Labor is not without its obstacles. Fear, weariness, doubt, and distractions are common
hindrances in the spiritual birthing process. Just as a mother in labor needs encouragement to
press through the pain, those walking out God's promises need spiritual midwives to help them
overcome these obstacles. Midwives stand with individuals during their moments of doubt, fear,
or weariness, reminding them to keep faith and stay focused on the end goal—God’s fulfillment.
Scriptural References:
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Spiritual midwives remind others that challenges are a part of the process and that every obstacle
is an opportunity to trust God more deeply. They help individuals focus on God’s faithfulness,
encouraging them to keep moving forward despite the difficulties.
When the time comes, the promise is birthed. This is a moment of celebration, where the
fulfillment of God’s promise is finally realized. However, just as in natural childbirth, the work
does not stop once the promise is delivered. Spiritual midwives help ensure that the new season
is properly nurtured and aligned with God’s purpose. They assist in the transition, ensuring that
the promise is tended to and protected so that it continues to grow and bear fruit.
Scriptural References:
John 16:21 (NKJV): “A woman, when she is in labor, has sorrow because her hour has
come; but as soon as she has given birth to the child, she no longer remembers the
anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world.”
The fulfillment of God’s promises brings great joy, but spiritual midwives ensure that the
new season is supported and protected, so that it thrives.
Luke 1:57-58 (NKJV): “Now Elizabeth’s full time came for her to be delivered, and she
brought forth a son. When her neighbors and relatives heard how the Lord had shown
great mercy to her, they rejoiced with her.”
The birth of John the Baptist was a moment of celebration, but it was also a time of
nurturing. Spiritual midwives ensure the new promise is cared for and protected.
Isaiah 66:9 (NKJV): “Shall I bring to the time of birth, and not cause delivery?” says
the Lord. “Shall I who cause delivery shut up the womb?” says your God.”
God promises to bring about the delivery of the promise in His timing. Spiritual
midwives celebrate the fulfillment but are also vigilant in ensuring the new birth is
nurtured.
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When the promise is birthed, spiritual midwives help celebrate God’s faithfulness while ensuring
that the new season is not prematurely abandoned. They assist in guiding and protecting the
promise through continued prayer, wise counsel, and encouragement.
Spiritual labor is a process of waiting, enduring, and birthing the promises of God. Spiritual
midwives play a vital role in this process—helping others recognize the signs of spiritual labor,
overcome obstacles, and ultimately bring forth the promises God has given them. Their support,
wisdom, and prayer ensure that the new season of fulfillment is properly nurtured, guarded, and
aligned with God’s will.
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The enemy does not want God’s promises to be birthed. He works to hinder the process through
various tactics, including fear, confusion, discouragement, and distractions. Just as physical labor
can be interrupted by external circumstances, spiritual labor can be sabotaged by spiritual forces.
Spiritual midwives must be discerning to recognize these tactics and be proactive in opposing
them.
Scriptural References:
John 10:10 (NKJV): “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to
destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more
abundantly.”
The enemy’s ultimate goal is to steal, kill, and destroy—especially the promises of God.
Spiritual midwives must recognize these attacks as they attempt to steal joy, peace, and
progress.
2 Corinthians 10:3-5 (NKJV): “For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war
according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God
for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts
itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the
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obedience of Christ.”
The enemy often attacks through lies, arguments, and deceptive thoughts. Spiritual
midwives must recognize these mental and emotional strongholds as part of the spiritual
battle.
Matthew 13:25 (NKJV): “But while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares among
the wheat and went his way.”
The enemy subtly sows confusion and deception, trying to undermine the promises of
God. Spiritual midwives must remain vigilant and alert, ensuring the integrity of the
promise is not compromised.
Midwives must be spiritually alert and discerning, recognizing when the enemy is attempting to
sow fear, doubt, or confusion into the process. They help others resist these tactics by reminding
them of God’s truth and His ultimate control.
To stand against the enemy’s attacks, spiritual midwives must engage in spiritual warfare using
the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18). This includes prayer, fasting, and wielding the Word
of God, which is the sword of the Spirit. Midwives fight on behalf of others, declaring God’s
promises, resisting the enemy’s schemes, and standing firm in faith.
Scriptural References:
Ephesians 6:10-18 (NKJV): “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the
power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand
against the wiles of the devil.”
The armor of God equips spiritual midwives to stand firm against the enemy’s attacks.
Every piece of armor has a specific purpose in helping believers resist temptation and
fight against opposition.
Matthew 17:21 (NKJV): “However, this kind does not go out except by prayer and
fasting.”
Certain spiritual strongholds can only be overcome through prayer and fasting. Midwives
engage in these disciplines to break through spiritual resistance.
Hebrews 4:12 (NKJV): “For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than
any two-edged sword...”
The Word of God is a powerful weapon against the enemy. Midwives speak and declare
Scripture over situations, using the truth of God’s Word to combat lies and deception.
Midwives must be equipped with the armor of God, knowing how to use prayer, fasting, and
Scripture to wage spiritual warfare. They stand in the gap for others, ensuring that they have the
spiritual tools needed to overcome the enemy.
3. Standing Firm
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In the face of delay, adversity, or unexpected challenges, spiritual midwives stand firm in faith.
They trust in God’s faithfulness and timing, even when circumstances seem to suggest otherwise.
Midwives encourage those they serve to hold onto hope, continue to pray, and trust that God’s
promises will not fail.
Scriptural References:
Standing firm requires trust in God’s timing and faithfulness. Spiritual midwives remind those
they serve that the labor is not in vain and that God will fulfill His promises at the appointed
time.
Spiritual warfare is an integral part of the process of birthing God’s promises. The enemy will try
to thwart God's plans with fear, doubt, and confusion. Spiritual midwives must be discerning,
wielding the weapons of spiritual warfare—prayer, fasting, the Word of God, and the armor of
God—so that God's promises come to fruition. In the face of adversity, spiritual midwives stand
firm, trusting in God’s timing and faithfulness.
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A prayer strategy is essential for spiritual midwives to stand in the gap for those they serve.
Midwives should tailor their prayers to address the specific needs, challenges, and promises
involved in the birthing process. Prayer should be saturated with Scripture, aligning with God’s
will and purpose. Additionally, prophetic declarations can strengthen faith and reinforce God's
promises.
Scriptural References:
Ephesians 6:18 (NKJV): “Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit,
being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints.”
Spiritual midwives must be persistent and diligent in their prayers. They should pray for
the saints, using diverse forms of prayer—intercession, supplication, and thanksgiving.
Romans 8:26-27 (NKJV): “Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses; for we do
not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession
for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.”
The Holy Spirit helps spiritual midwives in their intercession, guiding them when they
don’t know what to pray.
Isaiah 55:11 (NKJV): “So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not
return to Me void, but it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing
for which I sent it.”
When midwives incorporate Scripture into their prayers, they can be confident that God’s
Word will accomplish His purposes.
Develop a specific prayer plan for each individual or situation you are interceding for. This may
include focused prayer on specific promises, Scripture declarations over the situation, and
consistent, fervent intercession. Midwives can also establish prayer points that align with the
individual’s needs, such as praying for strength, perseverance, protection from spiritual attack, or
revelation from God.
A spiritual midwife does not labor alone. Building a supportive community of prayer partners,
mentors, and fellow believers is essential for the birthing process. These relationships provide
strength, wisdom, accountability, and encouragement throughout the journey. A well-connected
community helps sustain spiritual midwives through the difficult times and ensures that the
birthing process is covered in prayer.
Scriptural References:
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (NKJV): “Two are better than one, because they have a good
reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion; but woe to him
who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.”
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Spiritual midwives need community to provide strength and support when the labor
becomes challenging. No one is called to labor alone.
Galatians 6:2 (NKJV): “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
A key part of the supportive community is bearing one another’s burdens in prayer and
through emotional and practical support.
Hebrews 10:24-25 (NKJV): “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love
and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of
some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day
approaching.”
Spiritual midwives benefit from the encouragement and support of a community that
consistently builds them up, helping them to stay focused on God’s work.
Establish a network of prayer partners who can intercede alongside you. Regularly meet with
mentors who can offer guidance and wisdom as you walk others through their spiritual birthing
process. Engage with your local church or spiritual community to offer support to others in the
process, sharing wisdom and strength during times of challenge.
Spiritual midwives cannot effectively help others unless they are continually growing in their
own faith. Just as a physical midwife must maintain her health and strength to care for others,
spiritual midwives need to cultivate a vibrant relationship with God through prayer, Bible study,
and fellowship. Without personal spiritual growth, the effectiveness of a spiritual midwife in her
ministry will diminish.
Scriptural References:
Romans 10:17 (NKJV): “So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of
God.”
The Word of God is a key tool for spiritual growth. Midwives must prioritize the Word in
their own lives, allowing it to deepen their faith and understanding.
1 Timothy 4:7-8 (NKJV): “But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise
yourself toward godliness. For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable
for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.”
Just as physical exercise strengthens the body, spiritual exercises like prayer, worship,
and studying Scripture strengthen the spirit.
2 Peter 3:18 (NKJV): “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever. Amen.”
Midwives must continually grow in grace and knowledge of Christ, as this will enable
them to serve others more effectively.
To grow in your personal faith, prioritize regular time for Bible study, meditation, and prayer.
Attend church services or participate in study groups to build your relationship with God and
other believers. Engage in spiritual practices like fasting or worship to increase your spiritual
strength. Taking time for rest and spiritual renewal is also crucial to avoid burnout.
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In Conclusion, Spiritual midwifery requires practical tools and strategies to ensure the fulfillment of
God's promises. Developing a tailored prayer strategy, building a supportive community, and growing in
personal faith are essential components for sustaining and strengthening this calling. A spiritual midwife
who is equipped, supported, and continually growing in faith will be effective in helping others navigate
the birthing process of God’s promises.
Chapter 7
The first step in becoming a spiritual midwife is surrendering to God’s call. This requires a
willing heart, one that is open to His leading and ready to serve His people. Spiritual midwifery
is not a role chosen out of personal ambition or desire for recognition, but a divine calling to
partner with God in the birthing process of His promises. Surrendering means laying down
personal plans, ambitions, and fears, trusting that God will equip and guide you.
Scriptural References:
Isaiah 6:8 (NKJV): “Also I heard the voice of the Lord, saying: ‘Whom shall I send, and
who will go for Us?’ Then I said, ‘Here am I! Send me.’”
The willingness to say, “Here am I, send me” reflects the heart of surrender and
availability to God’s call.
Luke 1:38 (NKJV): “Then Mary said, ‘Behold the maidservant of the Lord! Let it be to
me according to your word.’ And the angel departed from her.”
Just as Mary surrendered to God’s will for the miraculous birthing of Jesus, spiritual
midwives must be willing to submit to God’s purposes, even when the path is unknown
or challenging.
Romans 12:1 (NKJV): “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that
you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your
reasonable service.”
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Examine your heart and ask God for a willing and surrendered spirit. Spend time in prayer,
asking Him to reveal His purposes for you as a spiritual midwife. Surrender your personal plans
and desires to His will and commit to His leading.
To serve effectively as a spiritual midwife, one must seek continual training and equipping in
areas such as intercession, counseling, and biblical knowledge. A spiritual midwife should be
well-versed in Scripture, able to pray strategically, and equipped to offer wisdom and guidance
to those they serve. It’s also essential to seek training in emotional and spiritual care, as the
birthing process often involves emotional healing, comfort, and support.
Scriptural References:
Pursue knowledge and growth in areas such as intercessory prayer, counseling, spiritual warfare,
and biblical study. Seek mentorship from seasoned spiritual leaders and engage in training
opportunities—whether through books, courses, or workshops—that can help equip you for the
call.
3. Remaining Faithful
Faithfulness to God’s call as a spiritual midwife requires patience, perseverance, and trust in His
guidance. The role of a spiritual midwife is not always easy, and it may involve long seasons of
waiting, intercession, and hard labor. There will be moments of discouragement and times when
progress seems slow, but it is in these moments that faithfulness is most crucial. A spiritual
midwife must continue to press forward, trusting that God’s timing is perfect and that He will
bring the promise to pass.
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Scriptural References:
Remain faithful to the calling, even when the path seems unclear or difficult. Trust that God is at
work, even when progress isn’t immediately visible. Stay grounded in prayer, continually
trusting that God’s timing will bring the promise to full fruition.
In Conclusion, the ministry of spiritual midwifery is both a sacred and vital calling. As a spiritual
midwife, you are partnering with God to help birth His promises into the lives of others, helping
His kingdom advance through faith, perseverance, and intercession. Answering the call requires
a surrendered heart, ongoing training, and a commitment to remain faithful.
Whether you are already serving as a spiritual midwife or seeking to understand this calling, this
journey is one of deep purpose and great reward. May this book inspire and equip you to walk
faithfully in God’s purpose and fulfill the role He has called you to.
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