Value Education Digital Notes
Value Education Digital Notes
MASTER OF TECHNOLOGY
COMPUTER SCIENCE AND ENGINEERING
Note: The regulations hereunder are subject to amendments as may be made by the Academic
Council of the College from time to time. Any or all such amendments will be effective from such date
and to such batches of candidates (including those already pursuing the program) as may be decided
by the Academic Council.
VISION
To acknowledge quality education and instill high patterns of discipline making and
the students technology superior and ethically strong which involves the
improvement in the quality of life in human race Mission
MISSION
To achieve and impart holistic technical education using the best infrastructure,
outstanding technical and teaching expertise to establish the students into
competent and confident engineers.
Evolving the center of excellence through creative and innovative teaching learning
practices for promoting academic achievement to produce internationally accepted
competitive and world class professionals.
UNIT II:
Importance of cultivation of values
Sense of duty, Devotion, Self-reliance, Confidence, Concentration, Truthfulness, Cleanliness,
Honesty, Humanity. Power of faith, National Unity, Patriotism, Love for nature, Discipline
UNIT III:
Personality and Behavior Development
Soul and Scientific attitude, Positive Thinking, Integrity and discipline, Punctuality, Love and Kindness
,Avoid fault Thinking, Free from anger, Dignity of labour, Universal brotherhood and religious
tolerance, True friendship, Happiness Vs suffering, love for truth, Aware of self-destructive habits,
Association and Cooperation, Doing best for saving nature
UNIT IV:
Character and Competence
Holy books vs Blind faith, Self-management and Good health, Science of reincarnation, Equality,
Nonviolence ,Humility, Role of Women, All religions and same message, Mind your Mind, Self-
control, Honesty, Studying effectively
TEXT BOOKS:
1. Chakroborty, S.K. “Values and Ethics for organizations Theory and practice”, Oxford University
Press, New Delhi
INDEX
Type of Values
Value may be classified in different ways. Fraenkel (1976) classified as:
Spranger classified as
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Major values prevailing
1. Importance of described status
Status of individual in a group is decided by the group to which he belongs. There is an
established order of hierarchy of casts in Indian society.
2. Recognition of inequality
Still exists on caste basis
3. Patrilineal tendency
Eldest male member of the family has supreme power and tends to act automatically
4. Status of women
Though there is tendency to give greater respect they are still inferior to men.
5. Charity
There is religious significance and approval for giving of aims. A person with a
charitable disposition is respected.
6. Tendency of non-violence
Killing of animals except for the purpose of food is considered to be immoral. It
sometimes brings conflict.
7. Respect to old age and elders
They are generally given respect and recognition.
8. Religious attitude
People in rural areas are religious Desired new values
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desired changes in the direction deemed desirable by the government in the rural society
only when extension workers are involved the change agents.
Scientific understanding of culture of people among whom extension work
operate helps the effective functioning by these workers. This is particularly significant in
countries like India. For instance, piggery is not introduced in Muslim areas, poultry
farming in Brahmin areas, and the like. Thus, the study on caste structure would reveal
certain types of improvements of change.
Religious festivals and other local functions form important part of village life.
Extension workers can look upon these festivals and meals as potentially useful for
technology transfer through exhibition, demonstration, etc.
It is generalised that greater success may be anticipated when a new improved
practice is introduced in familiar terms something that is already present in the culture.
Change is more likely to occur where there is lack of adjustment. For example when
village fields are wiped out by flood or fire, that would be the right opportunity to
introduce a technology. Several model villages and model settlements have been
established with little resistance on the part of people under such conditions. The point is
not such calamities are desirable, but when they happen the full advantage can be taken
up for development. Some of the recent high yielding varieties of wheat and rice could
not make head way due to the colour of the wheat which is not liked by the buyers, poor
cooking quality etc. When the extension workers bring this to the researcher's knowledge
the reseacher would evolve new varieties which do not have these drawbacks. This is a
good example of how the value factor can influence both the extension worker and
researcher.
Attitude
Attitudes involve some knowledge of a situation. However, the essential aspect of the
attitude is found in the fact that some characteristic feeling or emotion is experienced and, as we
would accordingly expect, some definite tendency to action is associated. Subjectively, then, the
important factor is the feeling or emotion. Objectively it is the response, or at least the tendency
to respond. Attitudes are important determinants of behaviour. If we are to change them we must
change the emotional components. All part has defined attitude as a mental and neutral state of
readiness organized through experience, exerting a directive or dynamic influence upon the
individual's response to all objects with which it is related.
A farmer may vote for a particular political party because he has been brought up to
believe that it is "right" party. In the course of experience he may learn some thing about the
policies of that party. In that case his attitude will probably change. As a result, he may be
expected to vote in a different way. Knowledge, attitude and behaviour are then very closely
linked.
Measuring attitudes
Attitude scales: It is meant for scientific studies. Scales have been developed for measuring a
great number of attitudes. Each scale consists of a group of statements related to a particular
attitude. Some scales ask the person to respond by indicating whether he agrees or disagrees with
each statement. Other scales ask the person to specify the degree of his agreement with a
statement. The degree of agreement will be given predetermined values.
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Public opinion poll: A large number of people are asked only a question or two because they
don't have much time to respond too many items.
There are two major problems in public opinion poll (i) wording of questions and (ii)
sampling.
For the poll be accurate, the sample must be representative. For this we have to use
stratified sampling. In stratified sampling, the polling agencies set quotas for certain categories
of people based on Census data. The most common categories are age, sex, socioeconomic
status, and geographical region, all of which are known to influence opinions. By seeing to it that
the quotas in the sample are in proportion to the categories in the general population, the sample
is made more representative.
Attitude change
Well established attitudes tend to be resistant to change, but others may be more
amenable to change. Attitudes can be changed by a variety of ways. Some of the ways of attitude
change are as follows.
1. By obtaining new information from other people and mass media, resulting in changes in
cognitive component of a person's attitudes.
2. Attitudes may change through direct experience.
3. Attitudes may change through legislation.
4. Since person's attitudes are anchored in his membership group and reference groups,
one way to change the attitude is to modify one or the other.
5. Attitude change differs with reference to the situation also.
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[Link] factors Clinical psychologists have generally recognized that physical health and
vitality are important factors in determining adjustment, and frequently it has been found that
malnutrition or disease or accidents have interfered so seriously with normal development that
serious behaviour disturbances have followed.
3. Home influences
It is generally accepted that attitudes are determined largely by social environmental and
that home influences are especially important.
4. The Social Environment
The home environment is of primary importance in the formation of early attitudes, but friends,
associates and the general social environment come to have an increasing influence as the child
grows older has wider social contacts.
5. Government
The form of the government seems to be an important factor in determining attitudes both
towards government itself and towards other things.
6. Movie pictures
Attendance at movie pictures constitutes another important possible influence in
determination of attitudes. Thurston concluded that films definitely change social attitudes,
although only about 10 per cent of the attitudes studied seemed to be affected by movie
attendance.
7. The Teacher
Brown asked 300 graduate and undergraduate students in educational sociology to
evaluate the various factors in their school experience that had been influential in the formation
of personality and character traits. According to their judgement, the personalities of their
teachers had been the most important single factor, 65.3 per cent thought this influence had been
good, but 33.3 per cent thought it had been unfavourable. Only about 10 per cent did not
consider, the teacher's influence is important.
8. The Curriculum
Thorndike asked 155 teachers to rate eleven subjects and activities on the basis of what they
considered the value of these to be or the training of character. Teaching has the highest rank, but
athletic sports come next. English literature and history have the best ranks for the regular school
subjects; mathematics and foreign languages are ranked much lower. This indicates that, in the
opinion of this group of teachers, literature and the social sciences have more influence than
other subjects on the determination of attitudes. This seems a reasonable view and it suggests
that the units of work and the readings in these areas should be selected with particular reference
to their probable influence on the attitudes formed by the students.
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9. Teacing Methods
One of the categories in Brown's study was "manner of presentation" of subject matter.
This was judged to have a favourable effect by 8.0 per cent of the students and an unfavourable
effect by 17.7 percent.
Development of Attitude
Attitudes are not mere accidents of individual experience. They result from day- today
living in home, in school, and in the community. Whatever attitude children develop can be
traced, in part atleast, to the effect upon them, of teacher precept and example. The challenge to
teacher is that of helping the learner retain his identity, develop his individuality and absorb a
background of democratic culture. Theoretically all education is aimed at helping learners
develop to the full extent of their ability and those attitudes that fit them for living constructively
in a democratic society.
Attitudes are formed without direction and also by direction as the result of careful
planning by a person or persons who desire to encourage the development of certain attitudes in
others. One function of school is that of stimulating young people towards acquisition of
attitudes that are individually and socially desirable. It is through initiation, emotional experience
and deliberate efforts on the part of the individual himself, teacher, and other and new attitudes
arise.
Child is a great initiator and builds its most of attitudes in that way. Adolescent develops
attitude by his enlarging adjustment problems with expanding groups. The environment to which
he is exposed influences the attitude either desirable or undesirably. Radio, television, film and
printed matter contribute to the attitude development. Thus, there are so many factors that
influence the adults to develop attitudes.
Work Ethics
Types of Ethics
[Link]: Professionalism isn’t just a set of appearances-neatness, good grooming,
“shop talk” and the like. Nor is it just technical skill; many technically skilled people are not
really professional.
Professionalism defined by who you are(inner character), what you do (behavior
exhibited) and how others perceive you (image projected) to be professional needs a strong work
ethics.
[Link] of Ethics: Work ethics are a set of standards and rules that are required by an
individual by an individual for satisfactory work performance.
Work ethics have two types:
1. Personal(i.e. Sincerity, respect for the job, regularity, punctuality, serioiusness)
2. Specific to a work situation
Keeping certain information confidential
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Maintaining cordial relation with clients and agencies
Being prepared to take up new tasks
Work
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Loyalty
Honesty
Trustworthiness
Dependability
Reliability
Initiative
Self-discipline
Self-responsibility
[Link] Work
4. Appearance
“A person makes their first impression of someone in three seconds.”
Dress Appropriately
Personal hygiene
Good manners
5. Attitude
6. Productivity
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supernaturalism and divine intervention in human affairs. It helped the people to break free of
superstitions and taught them not to hope for happiness in a world
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service of man. Buddha does not liberate men, but he teaches them how to liberate themselves as
he was liberated himself. He endeavored to rid himself of all legitimate of speculation build from
the raw material of experience and assist the spiritual growth of suffering humanity by an honest
and unbiased expression of the results of his thought and experience. Buddha explores the
possibilities for the conquest of human suffering and misery. He was convinced of the four noble
truths, that there is suffering and it has a cause that it can be removed and that there is a way to
accomplish this. The first noble truth is concerning the suffering. Buddha has made an appeal to
the men who were longing for a way of escape, to resort to Nirvana. Never in this world does
hatred cease by hatred – hatred ceases by love. Victory breeds hatred, for the conquered is
Unhappy. One may conquer a thousand men in battle; but he who conquers himself is the
greatest victor. Let man overcome anger by kindness, evil by good not by birth. Buddhism is
humanistic in a sense that it is a religion of love and values. Buddhism represented a progressive
world outlook and expressed in its won distorted manner the discontent of the oppressed people
and their aspirations for social equality and a better life. It believes in the ability of the individual
to achieve ethical goals in this world without non human aid. “Not to do any evil (papa), to
cultivate the good (kusala), to purify one’s mind (citta); this the teaching of the Buddha’s.”
Humanistic approach of Jainism:
The ethics of Jainism is humanistic. Jainism held that it was possible for any human
being to realize absolute knowledge and attain absolute bliss through the intense human effort.
The faith in self-reliance for achieving perfection was an integral part of Jainism. The Jainism
teaches claim that the teachings of the Jainas only can stand the scrutiny of reason.9The Jainas
attached great importance to the five vows – nonviolence (ahimsa), truth (satya), non-stealing
which implies not to take anything to which one was not entitled (asteye), celibacy or abstention
from self-indulgence (brahmacharya) and non-possession or renunciation (aparigraha). Non-
violence was accorded utmost importance among these principles. The three doctrines of Right
faith, Right knowledge and Right conduct which were known as three jewels constituted the
foundations of Jainism. Jainism believes that man is capable of controlling his own moral life.
He can make ethical decisions and find ethical goals without non-human assistance of
intervention. Jainism and Buddhism attached great importance to character but not to one’s birth.
It believes in the inherent potentialities of all men and their abilities to realize them to become
perfect.
The Bhakti Movement and Humanistic reforms:
The Bhakti Movement is remarkable of its kind for the religious unity and for the
emancipation of poverty. They have advocated humanism, equality between men and women.
They condemned the social evils like casteism and Sati. They have preached the oneness of God.
This great humanistic movement of the middle Ages has not only helped the development of a
composite Indian culture embracing different linguistic and religious communities but also paved
the way for united struggle against feudal oppression.
Humanistic reforms of Ramananda, Kabir, Ravidasa, Tulasidas, Tukaram:
Ramananda made no distinction between Brahmins and members of the degraded castes.
He wanted to promote the ideal of inter-dining. He took people as disciples from all the castes
including the degraded castes.11Ramananda started a religious renaissance: According to him all
men and women are equal. He had Muslims and Hindus as his followers. He had Sudras – the
outcaste or untouchables as his disciples. The chief aim of the teaching of Kabir was to find an
acceptable means to reconcile the differences between diverse castes and religious communities.
Kabir preaches for the harmony, love, understanding of Hindus and Muslims. His concept of
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non-violent (ahimsa) society is indicative of a peaceful community living in virtue and goodness.
He has set before the world an idea of love and universal brotherhood. Ravidasa criticizes
teachings of religion which did not appeal to the human reason. He stands against those religious
actions that are contrary to human nature. He opposed Continence, Yogic control, and fasting
and termed them as unhumanistic tendencies. His hospitality and service to the poor and needy is
worthy to be noted. Lord resides in everybody’s hearts is not knowable through rites or
performances. Highest expression of religion in life is the service of man. Ravidasa exhorts the
people to rise above evils of pride, anger, greed, attachment, jealousy and lust.12 Tulasidas
writing, Ramacarita manasa relating to the life story of Rama stood as a great force in preventing
disintegration of the Sanatana Dharma. Tulasidas says that man is responsible for his sorrows
and joys in life. He attaches great importance to the man associating with the good and holy.
Tukaram attaches utmost importance to character and values. In Tukaram’s teachings we find
emphasis on the point of no compromise for those who successively wish to follow the path of
truth, “Blessed in the world are the compassionate. Their true home is Vaikuntha, but they have
come here to serve mankind. They speak no false word, sweet is the speech on their lips, there is
room within their hearts. Man has to treat others as ends in themselves but never as means to his
own ends. To treat others as his means is to reduce the source of human value and dignity
Philosophy of Indian renaissance humanists Raja Ram Mohan Roy, Dayananda Saraswati,
and Swami Vivekananda:
Raja Ram Mohan Roy has totally rejected the dogmas prevalent in Hindu society in
regard to their numerous Gods, rituals, the doctrine of rebirth; avatars, their practice of idol
worship, animal sacrifices and above all the evil practice of sati prevalent in those days which
inhumanly forces widows to commit suicide by plunging into funeral pyres of their husbands. He
continues to fight against this evil practice and could be successful in arousing the public opinion
through the wide spread campaign. He stands for the granting of equal property rights to women
and supported widow remarriage and against child marriages, advocates the women education.
Through Brahma Samaj, he opposes the social discrimination and played a great role in
quickening the forces of national humanistic regeneration towards progress and freedom.
Dayananda Saraswati was one of the leaders of the Indian renaissance humanism. His attack on
casteism is most noteworthy. The suffering women folk whose social position is similar to the
untouchables also have drawn the attention of Dayananda. He stands for the equal and just
treatment of women and his scheme envisages a free and compulsory education for all.
Dayananda strives hard for the happiness of man, explores possible human ways for the radical
removal of the human suffering. He wants people to live in harmony and co-exist peacefully. He
upholds human values and emphasis the need for the regeneration of man and restoration of the
cultural values. Swami Vivekananda is one of the greatest humanist thinkers of Indian
Renaissance. He criticizes strongly the evil practice of untouchability, the feeling of caste
superiority, priest craft and religious tyranny. He prefers to see the people as confirmed atheists
rather than as superstitious fools, so it holds good if the mankind become atheist by relying on
reason rather than blindly believing in two hundred millions of Gods. Emancipation of women
and uplift of the masses are the two important items in Swami Vivekananda’s programme of
social regeneration of India. He promotes the common interests of people, which can bring
justice, honesty, peace and goodness. “The basis of all systems social or political rests upon the
goodness of man. No nation is great or good because Parliament enacts this or that, but because
its men are great and good.” Thus in Indian tradition from Vedas up to the renaissance, certain
values directed towards the realization of the inherent potentialities of man and concerned with
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development, welfare and happiness of man were cherished and propagated which are
humanistic in content and spirit. Of course Indian humanism has not developed as a systematic
philosophy with a sound Metaphysics and Epistemology as in the case of western tradition.
Society disseminates values, religion, culture, politics, and economy in an individual. People
tend to pick up certain things from societal opinions and the dynamics of life from society. The
community disseminates moral values. Moral values are habits and values that provide great
importance in a person’s life.
Society and culture determine moral values. Moral values remain without any change; however,
in time, people leave behind their ethics and values. The modern-day generation sees no time in
building their character through moral values. It is often forgotten that these values reflect a
person’s overall attitude and personality.
Role in society
A society holds multiple interactions for which Moral values are highly essential to build
relationships. Moral values teach an individual the right and wrong in society. For instance,
while talking with elders, one uses reverence, love, and compassion that molds good moral
character.
Moral values play the role of peacemaker through conflict resolutions and prevention. It builds
good relationships and helps to resolve conflicts. Through the establishment of relations, a
society’s economy is also established. It conducts smooth trade business transactions among the
people of the nation. Thus, in a community blooming with peace sees the improved quality of
life and productive development.
Challenges
Society is established through moral values. However, the growth and development of these
values remain challenged by interactions and migration from diverse cultures and societies.
These interactions dissolve morals leading to the assimilation of multiple or a hybrid culture.
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Education and Poverty are the two main challenges to moral values. While school gives a child
the option between good and wrong values, Poverty creates vices such as deceit, theft, struggles,
and a strive for survival.
Non-moral value
non-moral standards are standards of etiquette by which we judge manners as good or bad,
standards we call the law by which we judge something as legal or illegal, and standards of
aesthetics by which we judge art as good or rubbish.
Nonmoral in ethics
1. "Non-moral" actions would be those actions where moral categories (such a right and
wrong) cannot be applied (such as matters of fact in scientific descriptions). ... From this
point of view, amoral actions would be without concern or intention as to moral
consequences.
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Branches of Ethics
First of all, comes the descriptive branch of ethics. Descriptive ethics involve what people actually
believe to be right or wrong. On the basis of this, the law decides whether certain human actions are
acceptable or not. Most noteworthy, the moral principles of society keep changing from time to
time. Therefore, descriptive ethics are also known as comparative ethics. This is because; it
compares the ethics of past and present as well as ethics of one society and another.
Normative ethics is another important branch of ethics. Moreover, Normative ethics deals with
certain norms or set of considerations. Furthermore, these norms or set of considerations dictate
how one should act. Therefore, normative ethics sets out the rightness or wrongness of actions or
behaviours. Another name for normative ethics is prescriptive ethics. This is because; it has
principles which determine whether an action is right or wrong.
Meta-ethics consists of the origin of the ethical concepts themselves. Meta-ethics is not concerned
whether an action is good or evil. Rather, meta-ethics questions what morality itself is. Therefore,
meta-ethics questions the very essence of goodness or rightness. Most noteworthy, it is a highly
abstract way of analyzing ethics.
Applied ethics involves philosophical examination or certain private and public life issues.
Furthermore, this examination of issues takes place from a moral standpoint. Moreover, this branch
of ethics is very essential for professionals. Also, these professionals belong to different walks of
life and include doctors, teachers, administrators, rulers.
Applications of Ethics
Bioethicists deal with the ethical questions that arise in the relationships among life sciences,
biotechnology, medicine, politics, and philosophy. Furthermore, Bioethics refers to the study of
controversial ethics brought about by advances in biology and medicine.
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Ethics also have a significant application in business. Moreover, business ethics examines ethical
principles in relation to a business environment.
Military ethics involve the questions regarding the application of ethos of the soldier. Furthermore,
military ethics involves the laws of war. Moreover, it also includes the question of justification of
initiating military force.
Public sector ethics deals with a set of principles that guide public officials in their service.
Furthermore, the public sector involves the morality of decision making. Most noteworthy, it
consists of the question of what best serves the public’s interests.
Ethics is certainly one of the most important requirements of humanity. Furthermore, without ethics,
the world would have been an evil and chaotic place. Also, the advancement of humanity is not
possible without ethics. There must be widespread awareness of ethics among the youth of society.
Value judgments
For reasons that will become clear below, it is very important to understand what a value
judgment is. Roughly speaking a value judgment is a claim about something's moral, practical, or
aesthetic worth. Value judgments do not simply describe the world; they prescribe certain
attitudes or behaviors toward the world. When you say things like:
That's good.
That's bad.
That's wonderful.
That's a bummer.
That's not right.
That's sick.
That's not fair.
That's obligatory.
That's admirable.
That's shameful.
That's despicable.
That shouldn't be.
That's ok.
That's just wrong.
you are usually making a certain kind of value judgment. We often say that value judgments
are normative, which means they evaluate things with respect to certain standards or norms.
One way to get a quick handle on the nature of value judgments is to see that any statement of
fact can easily be converted into a value judgment by introducing a value term. In the table
below, the statements on the left are labeled descriptive. The corresponding value judgments on
the right are labeled prescriptive.
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Descriptive Prescriptive
The U.S. invaded Iraq. The U.S. shouldn't have invaded Iraq.
Jeremy is a student. Jeremy is an excellent student.
Sally is frightened. It's ok for Sally to be frightened.
The doctor should not be blamed for accidentally
The doctor accidentally killed the patient.
killing the patient.
Our teacher takes forever to return It's not fair of our teacher to take forever to return
homework. the homework.
José is in so in love with Brittany . It's wonderful that José is so in love with Brittany.
I am ashamed of myself. You ought to be ashamed of yourself.
Picasso was one of of the greatest painters of the
Picasso was a 20th century painter.
20th century.
Those pants are tight on you. Those pants are way too tight on you.
It's hard to find a job. You haven't tried hard enough to find a job.
Ambiguous cases
Sometimes statements will seem like value judgments when they aren't, and vice versa. Here
are some examples that can be confusing.
A. Statements that provoke value judgments but are not value judgments themselves
Some statements cause us to make value judgments even though they do not contain value terms
and are not value judgments themselves. For example:
The prisoner risked his life to save that little boy.
Grandma was so happy that you remembered her birthday.
Damien enjoys torturing helpless creatures.
Lt. Craven ordered his unit to kill all the women and children in the village.
All of these sentences are purely descriptive, but they describe things that normal people regard
as obviously good or bad. The important thing to see here is that a statement is a value judgment
only if it expresses a value judgment, not if it simply provokes one.
B. Statements that use value terms but which do not express value judgment
Sometimes value terms are used to express statements that are more descriptive than
prescriptive. That's because value terms are often used simply as a shorthand for more involved
descriptive statements. Consider:
It's hard to find a good husband.
The patient suffered a bad blow to the head.
Genetically modified plants are good for the environment.
Tommy says lots of bad words.
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Although statements like these can be used to express value judgments, they can also be just
compact ways of saying the following:
It's hard to find a husband who is faithful, loving and strong.
The patient suffered a blow to the head that caused brain damage.
Genetically modified plants require fewer environmental resources to grow.
Tommy says lots of words like 'shit' and 'asshole'.
These statements do not express value judgments. There is no real method for determining when
statements of these kind express value judgments and when they don't. You simply have to pay
close attention to the context.
In logic we distinguish between using a word to make a statement and just mentioning the word
within the statement for other purposes. This is a distinction children learn pretty early. For
example, if Bernie says to his mother:
Mom, Sarah said "you little bastard!"
he does not expect to have his mouth washed out with soap because he only mentioned the
offensive expression, he didn't actually use it. Sarah used it.
We often mention value terms when we attribute value laden beliefs and statements to other
people. For example, we say things likeL
Christians think atheists are evil.
Obama said a change is needed in Washington.
Some Catholics don't think Mother Theresa should have been beatified.
Homer doesn't see anything wrong with using torture to extract information.
These statements mention value terms in order to describe people as making value judgments,
but the statements do not make or express the value judgments themselves. In other words,
someone who says "Christians think atheists are evil," isn't thereby expressing the value
judgment that atheists are evil. She may think that but that is not what her statement
communicates.
Statements that attribute value judgments to others can express value judgments, however. For
example, the sentence:
It's bad for you to constantly assume the worst about people.
expresses a value judgment (bad) about the tendency to make a certain kind of value judgments
(that people are inherently bad.)
Reasons and conclusions are always statements. Neither commands nor questions literally
express statements, but they are often properly interpreted as expressing value judgments. For
example,
Stop hitting your sister.
is literally a command, not a statement. But, depending on the context of utterance, it might also
be interpreted as expressing the value judgment.
You ought to stop hitting your sister.
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Similarly, rhetorical questions like:
Are you crazy?
What the hell did you do that for?
may be interpreted as the value judgment:
You shouldn't have done that.
The reason it's important to be able to identify value judgments is that normative language
provokes contradictory intuitions about whether the reasoning involved is explanatory or
argumentative in nature. To see this, consider the following example:
It's wrong to eat meat because animals have just as much right to live as you do.
Is this an argument of an explanation? It seems like you can make a case for both. You could
say that it explains why you shouldn't eat meat. Or you could say that it is arguing that you
shouldn't eat meat. This ambiguity is typical of reasoning in support of value judgments.
Consider another example.
President Bush did his best to defend the country from terrorism, so I think he deserves
more respect.
It seems like this could be read as an explanation why the President deserves more respect or an
argument that he deserves more respect.
Another way to grasp the convention is this. Consider a value judgment together with it's
descriptive core:
It is good that Bernice studied hard for her test.
Bernice studied hard for her test.
We could be skeptical of either of these claims, so a request for an argument may be appropriate
to both in either case. We might also completely agree with either of these claims, so you you
would think a request for an explanation should be appropriate in both cases as well.
But now notice this. While it makes perfect sense to ask what caused Bernice to study for the
test, it does not really make sense to ask what caused the goodness of her studying for the test.
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The goodness of her studying is something that we might accept as a fact, but it is not really the
sort of fact that can enter into causal relations.
Philosophers sometimes say that value terms like 'good' and 'bad' express non natural properties.
They disagree on what sort of status these properties have, but they typically do agree that non
natural properties do not have causal relations. For us, this means that whenever you are
reasoning in support of a value judgment, you are giving an argument. So, to repeat, our
convention is:
If the conclusion of a rationale is a value judgment, then the rationale itself is an argument.
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UNIT-II
Importance of cultivation of values
Sense of duty:
Everyone has come across the terms duty and responsibility. Duty is a moral commitment to
something or someone.
According to Cicero, duties come from four sources. Duty is a result of human beings, one’s
particular place, one’s character and one’s own moral expectations. His philosophy of duty has
been depicted in his famous work ‘On duty’.
As duty refers to moral commitment, it denotes an active feeling for doing something. Once a
person engages himself with some duty or if he has been entrusted with a duty, then that person
fully commits himself to it. In the case of duty, the person will be involved in activity without
any self-interest. As a citizen of a country, a person has many duties to perform. It is his duty to
adhere to the constitution.
Duty is a word that has been derived from Old French Deu meaning ‘which is owing Duty is a
moral commitment to something or someone.
2. As duty refers to moral commitment, it denotes an active feeling for doing something.
3. In case of duty, the person will be involved in activity without any self-interest.
6. Once a person engages himself with some duty or if he has been entrusted with a duty, that
person fully commits himself to it.
Devotion
Devotion means:
We need God’s word daily. “Man shall not live {and} be upheld {and} sustained by bread
alone,but by every word that comes forth from the mouth of God.”
Dependancy on God. “Learn on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart
and mind and do not rely on your own insight or understanding. In all your ways know,
recognize, and acknowledge Him, and he will direct make straight and plain your paths.”
To improve our relationships with God, ensuring we are inside His will every day. This is
to know His will in our life.
To draw closer to God. God longs to hear our voices. Talk to Him like you would to a
close friend. Treat Him as the most important persons in your life. Devotional life makes you
grow in Shiva. It prevents us from being stagnant. There will be times that we don’t want to pray
or read. Regardless how it feels, we must have our devotion.
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When we do devotional: We do devotionals first thing in the morning.
Primary way to invite God into our day. It is a way to make sure he is our top priority before
family, work, or anything. God must be our first.
“But Seek (aim at and stirve after) first of all His Kingdom and His righteousness (His
way of doing and being right), and then all these things taken together will be given you
besides.”
How do we do Devotionals:
We learn also by doing and sharing. What we have been given is usually not meant for us
solely, it is a gift that keeps on giving as we, in turn, help others! A willing heart, a teachable
spirit, the willingness and availability to share are essential for a disciple of our Lord! Freely
we received, freely give! Others may benefit from what you have learned from the Lord
Self-reliance
At some point, every individual realizes that “imitation is suicide.” One’s own powers of
perception and creativity are the most important gifts, and one can only be happy by putting
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one’s heart into the work at hand. Great individuals have always accepted their position in the
age in which they lived and trusted their own ability to make the best of it. Children, and even
animals, also have this enviable power of certitude in their undivided minds.
If one conforms, it is impossible for others to know one’s deeper self. One becomes like a
lawyer speaking on someone else’s behalf, and everything one says is predictable and
inauthentic. Conformity is tempting, because nonconformity angers others, but also because
people want to be consistent, which means sticking to former opinions rather than thinking
independently. However, one should not be any more concerned with what one used to think
than with what others think now. “A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds,” as
Emerson puts it. One should not fear being misunderstood, for this was the fate of many of the
greatest individuals in history. “To be great is to be misunderstood.” An individual should aim to
be great on their own terms, rather than trying to gain the approval of others who have achieved
greatness. However magnificent a building, book, or work of art may be, one should not be
overwhelmed by it but consider it an object to be judged and appreciated. “The picture waits for
my verdict: it is not to command me, but I am to settle its claims to praise.” People have
generally paid great respect to kings, such as Alexander the Great, but the best lesson to learn is
not to venerate such people but to adopt their attitude to the world.
The source of the self on which one must rely is generally called Spontaneity, Instinct, or
Intuition. It might also be described as the Soul. It is the means by which one may discern justice
and wisdom and receive inspiration directly from God, without recourse to texts, teachings, and
traditions, which only confuse matters and prevent one from perceiving the truth clearly. People
generally do not have the courage of their convictions and prefer to quote some authority rather
than saying what they think. Even plants are not so timid: roses are simply themselves, without
making any references to former or better roses. To be happy and strong, people must live in the
present, as roses do.
The authorities that people quote did not themselves rely on authority. Those like King
David lived with God, as everyone else should. The highest truth and the greatest good cannot be
learned from books or teachers, and when one encounters them, they will be unfamiliar. Such
transcendent matters cannot be expressed in words, which is why the term “self-reliance” is itself
inadequate. They cannot be encountered in a mob, either, but require solitude and contemplation.
The quiet of a church before the service begins is of more value than the preaching.
Most people think that to reject society’s standards is to reject all standards. However,
one’s own standards will be more exacting than popular ethics. There is something godlike in the
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individual who can trust their own mind completely. The ethics society professes are primarily
based on fear, and what it calls prayer is either a begging for favors or an expression of regret.
Emerson concludes by saying that most of the things people care about are ultimately
unimportant, and relying on them merely demonstrates a failure of selfreliance:
A political victory, a rise of rents, the recovery of your sick, or the return of your absent
friend, or some other favorable event, raises your spirits, and you think good days are preparing
for you. Do not believe it. Nothing can bring you peace but [Link] external events which
are the result of good or bad fortune affect what is essential in the individual. What is vital is to
remain true to oneself and follow one’s own principles
Self-Reliance was first published in 1841 in his collection, Essays: First Series.
However, scholars argue the underlying philosophy of his essay emerged in a sermon given in
September 1830 - a month after his first marriage to Ellen (who died the following year of
tuberculosis) - and in lectures on the philosophy of history given at Boston's Masonic Temple
from 1836 to 1837.
The essay, for which Emerson is perhaps the most well-known, contains the most
thorough statement of Emerson’s emphasis on the need for individuals to avoid conformity and
false consistency, and instead follow their own instincts and ideas. The essay illustrates
Emerson's finesse for synthesizing and translating classical philosophy (e.g., self-rule in
Stoicism, the Bildung of Goethe, and the revolution of Kant) into accessible language, and for
demonstrating its relevance to everyday life.
While Emerson does not formally do so, scholars conventionally organize SelfReliance
into three sections: the value of and barriers to self-reliance (paragraph 1- 17), self-reliance and
the individual (paragraph 18-32), and self-reliance and society (paragraph 33-50).
Emerson opens his essay with the assertion, "To believe in your own thought, to believe
that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, - that is genius." His statement
captures the essence of what he means by "selfreliance," namely the reliance upon one's own
thoughts and ideas. He argues individuals, like Moses, Plato, and Milton, are held in the highest
regard because they spoke what they thought. They did not rely on the words of others, books, or
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tradition. Unfortunately, few people today do so; instead, "he dismisses without notice his
thought, because it is his."
If we do not listen to our own mind, someone else will say what we think and feel, and
“we shall be forced to take with shame our own opinion from another.” Emerson thus famously
counsels his reader to "Trust thyself." In other words, to accept one's destiny, "the place the
divine providence has found for you, the society of your contemporaries, the connection of
events." If such advice seems easier said than done, Emerson prompts his reader to recall the
boldness of youth.
Their mind being whole, their eye is as yet unconquered, and when we look in their faces
we are disconcerted. Infancy conforms to nobody; all conform to it; so that one babe commonly
makes four or five out of the adults who prattle and play to it. So God has armed youth and
puberty and manhood no less with its own piquancy and charm, and made it enviable and
gracious and its claims not be put by, if it will stand by itself.
The difficulty of trusting our own mind lies in the conspiracy of society against the
individual, for society valorizes conformity. As a youth, we act with independence and
irresponsibility, and issue verdicts based on our genuine thought. We are unencumbered by
thoughts about consequences or interests. However, as we grow older, society teaches us to curb
our thoughts and actions, seek the approval of others, and concern ourselves with names,
reputations, and customs. What some would call "maturity," Emerson would call "conformity."
To be a self-reliant individual then, one must return to the neutrality of youth, and be a
nonconformist. For a nonconformist, "No law can be sacred to me but that of my nature. Good
and bad are but names very readily transferable to that or this; the only right is what is after my
constitution; the only wrong what is against it.” Emerson does not advocate nonconformity for
the sake of rebellion per se, but rather so the world may know you for who are, and so you may
focus your time and efforts on reinforcing your character in your own terms.
However, the valorization of conformity by society is not the only barrier to self-reliance.
According to Emerson, another barrier is the fear for our own consistency: "a reverence for our
past act or word because the eyes of others have no other data for computing our orbit than our
past acts, and we are loth to disappoint them.” Rather than act with a false consistency to a past
memory, we must always live in the present. We must become, rather than simply be. Emerson
famously argues, "A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little
statesmen and philosophers and divines." While acting without regard to consistency may lead to
us being misunderstood, the self-reliant individual would be in good company. "Pythagoras was
misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton,
and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood."
Self-Reliance and the Individual In this section, Emerson expounds on how individuals
can achieve selfreliance. As mentioned earlier, to live self-reliantly with genuine thought and
action, one must "trust thyself." In other words, one must trust in the nature and power of our
inherent capacity for independence, what Emerson calls, "Spontaneity" or "Instinct" - the
"essence of genius, of virtue, and of life." This Spontaneity or Instinct is grounded in our
Intuition, our inner knowledge, rather than "tuitions," the secondhand knowledge we learn from
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others. In turn, Emerson believed our Intuition emerged from the relationship between our soul
and the divine spirit (i.e., God). To trust thyself means to also trust in God.
To do so is more difficult than it sounds. It is far easier to follow the footprints of others,
to live according to some known or accustomed way. A selfreliant life "shall be wholly strange
and new. It shall exclude example and experience. You take the way from man, not to man." As
such, one must live as courageously as a rose.
Man is timid and apologetic; he is no longer upright; he dares not say, “I think,” “I am,”
but instead quotes some saint or sage. He is ashamed before the blade of grass or the blowing
rose. These roses under my window make no reference to former roses or to better ones; they are
for what they are; they exist with God today. There is no time to them. There is simply the rose;
it is perfect in every moment of its existence… But man postpones or remembers; he does not
live in the present, but with reverted eye laments the past, or, heedless of the riches that surround
him, stands on tiptoe to foresee the future. He cannot be happy and strong until he too lives with
nature in the present, above time.
To live in the present with nature and God, one must not worry about the past or future,
compare oneself to others, or rely on words and thoughts not one's own.
Emerson also believes true prayer involves an avoidance of regret and discontent, which
indicate a personal “infirmity of will,” as well as of sympathy for the suffering of others, which
only prolongs their own infirmity, and instead should be handled with truth and health to return
them to their reason. As for creeds, his critique focuses on how those who cling to creeds obey
the beliefs of a powerful mind other than their own, rather than listen to how God speaks through
their own minds. In this way, they disconnect with the universe, with God, because the creed
becomes mistaken for the universe.
In regard to education, Emerson asserts the education system fosters a restless mind that
causes people to travel away from themselves in hope of finding something greater than what
they know or have. Educated Americans desire to travel to foreign places like Italy, England, and
Egypt for amusement and culture. They build and decorate their houses with foreign taste, their
minds to the Past and the Distant. Artists imitate the Doric or the Gothic model. Yet, Emerson
reminds us, “They who made England, Italy, or Greece venerable in the imagination, did so by
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sticking fast where they were, like an axis of the earth.” One should not yearn for or imitate that
which is foreign to oneself, for “Your own gift you can present every moment with the
cumulative force of a whole life’s cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another you have only
an extemporaneous half possession… Every great man is unique.” (Emerson develops these
ideas further in his essay, The American Scholar, which calls for the creation of a uniquely
American cultural identity distinct from European traditions.)
Finally, Emerson addresses the “spirit of society.” According to Emerson, “society never
advances.” Civilization has not led to the improvement of society because with the acquisition of
new arts and technologies comes the loss of old instincts. For example, “The civilized man has
built a coach, but has lost the use of his feet… He has a fine Geneva watch, but he fails of the
skill to tell the hour by the sun.” Society merely changes and shifts like a wave. While a “wave
moves onward… the water which it is composed does not.” As such, people are no greater than
they ever were, and should not smugly rest on the laurels of past artistic and scientific
achievements. They must instead actively work to achieve self-reliance, which entails a return to
oneself, and liberation from the shackles of the religious, learned, and civil institutions that
create a debilitating reliance on property (i.e., things external from the self). Emerson concludes,
“Nothing can bring you peace but yourself. Nothing can bring you peace but the triumph of
principles.”
Confidence
Confidence means feeling sure of yourself and your abilities — not in an arrogant way, but in
a realistic, secure way. Confidence isn't about feeling superior to others. It's a quiet inner
knowledge that you're capable. Confident people: ... know they can rely on their skills and
strengths to handle whatever comes up.
5 Kinds of Confidence
Change is inevitable in life and happens a lot more than we usually like it too. However, we have
to be confident that change will ultimately lead us to adapt.
Self-Confidence. "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't
matter, and those who matter don't mind." ...
Confidence in Others. ...
Confidence That Things Happen For A Reason. ...
Confidence That Change Can Be a Good Thing. ...
Confidence to Know It's Going to Be OK.
Self-Confidence: Creating confidence in yourself in easily one of the most important life
qualities to have. I am the biggest believer in confidence in yourself. You need to create the
image that you are truly a beautiful and accomplished women in whatever you do. You need to
believe that you have something to bring to everyone and everything. You need to believe that
your voice is worth hearing. If you can honestly believe in yourself, your life will take the best
turn possible. You do not need to be perfect (nobody is!), but you do need to be proud of who
you are.
Confidence in Others: You need to believe in others the way that you want others to believe in
you. Having confidence in others has nothing to do with being dependent on them, but rather
knowing they are always capable. Life cannot be accomplished alone so you need to create
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quality relationships and have confidence in others. When believing in others it has a lot to do
with trust. Just think, view and believe others the way you want to be viewed and believed by
people. Compliment, reach out to and follow up with people and they will appreciate your kind
words which will in return boost their confidence.
Confidence That Things Happen For A Reason:
Everything happens for a reason: You can plan life to your fifth future child's middle name or to
your dream job, but you have to accept that life is out of your hands. You have to believe and
grow confidence in the unknown. Life is a crazy thing and is a complete rollercoaster, but it has a
greater purpose for you to grow as a person. You can try to manipulate life's plan however you
want, but just being confident in your decisions and the path ahead is a lot easier.
Confidence That Change Can Be a Good Thing:
Everything happens for a reason: You can plan life to your fifth future child's middle name or to
your dream job, but you have to accept that life is out of your hands. You have to believe and
grow confidence in the unknown. Life is a crazy thing and is a complete rollercoaster, but it has a
greater purpose for you to grow as a person. You can try to manipulate life's plan however you
want, but just being confident in your decisions and the path ahead is a lot easier.
Confidence to Know It's Going to Be OK:
The confidence to know it's going to be OK. The confidence to continue living when something
horrific occurs, this can be the hardest confidence to gain. Building confidence after something
terrible happens is very difficult but also very necessary. As the Beetles would say, " Ob-la-di
ob-la-da life goes on,"and life does go on, but not until you decide it does. You need to create the
confidence to start living again. People can influence you to make this decision, but it is 100%
up to you.
Concentration
Concentration Concentration has been defined as "the ability to direct one's thinking in
whatever direction one would intend”.
We all have the ability to concentrate some of the time. But at other times our thoughts
are scattered, and our minds race from one thing to another. To deal with such times, we need to
learn and practice concentration skills and strategies. To concentrate, we have to learn a skill,
and as with any skill this means practice repeated day after day until we achieve enough
improvement to feel that we can concentrate when we need to.
Our ability to concentrate depends on
• commitment
• enthusiasm for the task
• skill at doing the task
• our emotional and physical state
• our psychological state
• our environment
Commitment
We need to make a personal commitment to put in the effort needed to do the task in the way
which we realistically plan to do it. If we just play at it in a half-hearted manner then it is much
more difficult to take the task and ourselves seriously.
Enthusiasm
If we are interested in the task and enjoy doing it, then we find it easy to motivate ourselves to
start. Once started, our feelings of involvement in the activity keep us going - we want to do it.
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Skill
Knowing how to do something gives confidence that our efforts will be successful, so we don't
have to deal with anxiety about will this work or not. Anxiety tends to impair concentration.
Our emotional & physical state
When we are in good physical condition - i.e. feeling rested, relaxed and comfortable - and our
emotions are calm and benevolent, then we tend to be positive about things. This in turn raises
self-esteem, which makes us more able to concentrate, if only because we don't have to worry
about how awful we are or life is.
Our psychological state
For example, if we are in an obsessed or distracted state, our thoughts are pre-occupied, leaving
little mental space to think about anything else. Environment It is much more difficult to
concentrate if our surroundings keep intruding on our awareness, perhaps because it is noisy, too
hot or too cold, the furniture is uncomfortable or the people around us are stressing out.
Expanding your concentration span
People sometimes refer to a concentration span: this is the time we can concentrate on a specific
task before our thoughts wander. In learning concentration skills, we aim to extend our
concentration span - bearing in mind that we will have a different span for different tasks. It
cannot be expanded to infinity! Most people find their level for most tasks is about an hour; but
for some people and some tasks, it will just be a few minutes, while for others it might be two or
three hours.
The main barriers to concentrating are boredom, anxiety and day-dreaming. Thus in improving
our concentration skills, we need to counteract these barriers. The following three skills are basic
to concentration: if you want to improve your concentration, start by practicing them. They will
be followed by further strategies which will allow you to build onto the basic skills.
1. STOP!!!
This sounds very simple, but it works. When you notice your thoughts wandering, say to
yourself STOP and then gently bring your attention back to where you want it to be. Each time it
wanders bring it back. To begin with, this could be several times a minute. But each time, say
STOP and then re-focus. Don't waste energy trying to keep thoughts out of your mind
(forbidden thoughts attract like a magnet!), just put the effort into STOP and re-focus. To begin
with you will do this hundreds of times a week. But you will find that the period of time
between your straying thoughts gets a little longer each day, so be patient and keep at it.
2. Attending
This is about maintaining concentration and not giving in to distractions. It could be described
as a sort of tunnel-vision, or as being focused: you keep your concentration on what is in front of
you. If you are distracted, use the STOP technique to regain concentration. You can practice
attending in many situations: • e.g. in a lecture, if people move or cough, ignore them, don't look
at them, actively exclude them from the link or tunnel formed between you and the lecturer. •
e.g. in a social situation, keep your attention solely on one person - what they say, how they look
etc. - and ignore what is going on round about.
3. Worry time
Set aside one or more specific periods in the day when you are allowed to worry. It can help to
set them just before something that you know you will do, to ensure that you stop worrying on
time - e.g. before a favorite TV program, or a meal-time. Whenever an anxiety or distracting
thought enters your mind during the day, banish it until your next worry time, and re-focus on to
what you are supposed to be doing. Some people find it helpful to write down the banished
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thought: it is easier to banish a thought if you are sure you won't have forgotten it when you get
to your worry time. It is important that you keep your worry time(s), and make yourself worry
for the full time. If you find that you can't fill the time available, and then make a conscious
decision to reduce it. You may notice, particularly if you keep a list, that certain things keep
reappearing: this is a fairly clear indication that you need to do something about them.
4. Active Learning
Everyone has their own distinct learning style. Some learn by reading and then asking
themselves questions, others learn by making condensed notes and memorizing them, others
learn by the associations they make to the material, and yet others retain a pictorial image of the
material. Once you know your learning style, organize the material to suit it; if you don't,
learning will be more of a struggle than it needs to be, and your concentration will suffer.
Having your own learning style involves having your own internal 'language'; briefly, this
means the words you use to translate and understand the material so that it has meaning for you.
If you don't know how you learn best, try to analyze your experience either with someone who
knows how you work, or with someone with expertise in this area.
Other things that can help
• Once you know what your concentration span is for a specific activity, decide whether
it is acceptable or whether you need to train yourself to expand it - e.g. a listening concentration
span of 10 minutes and a lecture of 50 minutes is a mismatch! To expand your concentration
span, just try to keep focused for a little longer each time by using STOP! and Attending.
Practice with something that doesn't matter in terms of the task: you could expand your lecture
concentration span by practicing listening to the news on the radio.
• In between periods of concentration, do things to change your physical and mental
activity. You could move around to boost your circulation if you have been sitting, or you could
think about something completely different - and fun - to give your brain a new focus. • Give
yourself incentives and rewards appropriate to the level of concentration you have had to
maintain. Quite often they can be linked to the things that usually distract you. If you dream of
sitting out in the sun when you are in a library trying to study, make your reward a period of
sun-worship (with the appropriate sunscreen cream).
• Be 'active' in mental activity! Use a hierarchy of questions to help you focus when
reading reference material or listening to a lecture, rather than passively reading through it or
listening and hoping that something will stick - and then write brief notes about the answers to
your questions. Ask yourself how you will use the material, where it fits into what you already
know, what new questions it triggers.
• Ensure that your environment aids concentration - reduce distractions but don't be so
comfortable that you nod off. • Do tasks that need most concentration at times when you are
mentally and physically fresh: concentration is harder to maintain when you are tired. This
means you need to know the times of day when you work best; people vary as to when is their
best time.
• Experiment and see whether working with another person helps you keep focused on
the task. It can often refresh interest in the subject by sparking off new trains of thought which
then re-involve you in the task.
• Check if you feel stuck whether the problem is one of poor concentration rather than
lack of the necessary knowledge or understanding - and if it’s the latter, do something about it.
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• Don’t look for an easy answer in stimulants such as caffeine. They only have a short-
term effect of making you feel alert, and too much or too long an exposure can have serious
effects on your physical and mental health.
Combating specific problems with concentration
1. When you have been concentrating well but your brain now feels saturated.
Take a short break and then recharge your mental batteries by reviewing what you have done so
far, considering whether it might help to switch to a new topic now. If you feel too tired to
restart after a short break, review what you have done and where it fits into the overall task, and
define where you need to pick it up again. If necessary make a note of this. Then decide, before
you stop, when you will restart the task.
2. How to concentrate on a topic which you hate or which bores you.
Actively search in the material for aspects of the subject that can be turned into useful
information (and might even be interesting!): you could do this by focusing on finding five
central, important ideas to think about. Use mind-maps or spider diagrams to record the search,
and write test questions to summarize your learning after each study session. Focus on the
personal rewards of completing the topic satisfactorily (even if it’s only to be rid of the task)
build in treats to reward yourself as you progress through the task. If all else fails, see it as a
personal challenge - don't let it beat you.
3. Day-dreaming
Use the STOP! technique and Attending to counteract it. Perhaps, make being allowed to
daydream a reward after a period of concentration.
4. Negative thinking
Loss of concentration can lead to negative thoughts about yourself. Deal with them as with other
distractions, and banish them into your Worry Time, when you can check out their reality.
5. Being vague
If you are not quite sure what you are supposed to be doing or why you are doing it, it will be
difficult to maintain concentration. You could try to define the task in terms of its content and
purpose, and then to make a realistic estimate of how much time and effort will be required to
do it.
6. Feeling overwhelmed
Sometimes what we have to do is just too much for us to get our heads around. When we think
about it, it is too huge a task to contemplate and our feelings of inadequacy take over. Both
contribute to losing concentration because it all feels impossible. In such circumstances, look for
ways of breaking the task up into smaller discreet parts that feel manageable. Treat them as
individual tasks, summoning up your concentration for each of them separately. It then doesn't
need so much effort to fix them all together later on to make a complete whole.
7. Self-doubt
Intellectual activity takes place mainly in the brain and is thus not shared without making a
special effort. If we don't discuss what we are doing with others, it is very easy to wonder
whether what we are doing is OK. This can lead us to feel ineffective and fragile, which in turn
can become self-doubt. You need to reduce or banish your doubts if they are not to interfere
with concentration. If it isn't possible to discuss what you are doing with others, you could try
using the four steps mentioned under Negative Thinking to check out the worth of what you are
doing.
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Truthfulness
Importance Of Truthfulness
Truthfulness is the greatest and most important of all human virtues. Truthfulness means to
speak the truth habitually. A truthful man will never tell a lie. He always says what he means. He
acts as he says. He does not tell a lie even in jest.
Truthfulness is important to build up the character of a man. A man whose character is not good
is not loved by anybody. So we should always speak the truth. Our society cannot exist if we all
be liars. A truthful man keeps his word. So, people depend upon what he says. They give him
responsible work. A truthful man has strength of mind. He is not afraid of any body. He is never
ready to suffer by speaking the truth. A truthful man attains success in business. He may be poor,
but he lives a peaceful and happy life, because he knows that he is pure in mind and he is right.
In fact, the word of a truthful man has great value. Sometimes his words carry more weight than
documents. A truthful man, on the other hand, has a clear conscience and does not fear anybody.
So his mind is free from the anxiety that constantly troubles a liar. Even his enemies respect him,
and this respect is more important than any costly Jewel.
Ancient Indians were noted for their truthfulness. We know the examples of Judhisthira and
Harishchandra. Harishchandra sacrificed everything for the sake of truth.
It is, therefore, the duty of every person to practice truthfulness front childhood.
Cleanliness
Cleanliness is the task of keeping our body, mind, dress, house, surroundings and another
work area clean and hygienic.
Cleanliness of the body is very important for our physical and mental health.
Cleanliness of the surrounding areas and environment is very essential for social and
intellectual health.
We should bring cleanliness in our habits and remove the dirt from everywhere forever
because dirt is the mother who gives birth to various diseases.
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If he does not bathe daily, wears dirty clothes, keeps the house and surrounding
environment dirty, etc.
Dirty things in the vicinity of house cause germs, bacteria, viruses and fungus.
People with dirty habits also cause the spread of dangerous and deadly (fatal) diseases.
Infectious diseases spread over vast areas and cause people to become ill and sometimes
death.
Therefore, we should take care of our hygiene regularly. Whenever we eat something we
should wash our hands thoroughly with soap.
We always keep our face and whole body clean and hygienic by repeated bathing. We
should take care of our clothes and wear clean washed clothes only for our good physical
and mental health.
Cleanliness improves confidence level and self-esteem as well as respect for others. It is a
good habit that always keeps us happy.
This makes us feel very proud in the society. Cleanliness is very important to maintain
our healthy lifestyle and standard of living.
It plays a great role in popularizing a person. Various programs and civil laws have been
run and implemented by the Government of India to promote awareness about cleanliness
among the general public across India.
Honesty
Honesty implies being truthful. Honesty means to develop a practice of speaking truth throughout
life. A person who practices Honesty in his/her life, possess strong moral character. An Honest
person shows good behavior, always follows rules and regulations, maintain discipline, speak the
truth, and is punctual. An honest person is trustworthy as he always tends to speak the truth.
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Benefits of Honesty
Honesty is always admirable in the family, civil society, friends and across the globe. A person with
honesty is respected by all. For one to build the character of Honesty entirely depends on his/her
family values and ethics and his/her surrounding environment. Parents showing honest behavior and
character in front of their children create an impact on the children and we say “Honesty lies in their
genes”. Honesty can also be developed practically which requires proper guidance, encouragement,
patience, and dedication.
An honest person is always known for his/her honesty just like a sun is known for its eternal light
and unlimited energy. It is a quality which helps a person to succeed in life and get much respect. It
gives identification to the moral character of a person. Dishonest people may easily get trust and
respect from other people. However, they lose that forever whenever they get caught.
Being dishonest is a sin in all the religions, however, people practice it for their short time benefits
and selfishness. They never become morally strong and their life becomes miserable. An honest
person moves freely in society and spread his/her fragrance in all directions. Being honest is never
mean to bear the bad habits of others or bear ill-treated activities. Everyone has rights to reveal and
take action against what is going wrong with him.
Home and school are the places where a child learns moral ethics. Thus, the education system
should ensure to include some essential habits and practices to keep a child close to morality.
Children must be instructed right from the beginning and their childhood to practice honesty.
Youths of any country are the future of that country so they should give better opportunities to
develop moral character so that they can lead their country in a better way.
For all human problems, Honesty is the ultimate solution. Corruption and various problems are
everywhere in society. It is because of the decreasing number of honest people. In today’s fast and
competitive world, we have forgotten about moral and integral ethics. It is very important and
necessary for us to rethink and remodel, that we bring the honesty back in society so that everything
goes in a natural manner.
Moral ethics of a person is known through Honesty. In a society, if all the people seriously practice
getting honest, then society will become an ideal society and free of all the corruptions and evils.
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There will be huge changes in the day-to-day life of everyone. It can happen very easily if all the
parents and teachers understand their responsibilities towards the nation and teach their children and
students about moral ethics.
People should realize the value of honesty in order to manage social and economic balance. Honesty
is an essential requirement in modern time. It is one of the best habits which encourages an
individual and make capable enough to solve and handle any difficult situation in his/her life.
Honesty acts as a catalyst in strengthening our will power to face and fight any odds in life.
Humanity
When we say humanity, we can look at it from a lot of different perspectives. One of the most
common ways of understanding is that it is a value of kindness and compassion towards other beings.
If you look back at history, you will find many acts of cruelty by humans but at the same time, there
are also numerous acts of humanity. An essay on humanity will take us through its meaning and
importance.
Importance of Humanity
As humans are progressing as a human race into the future, the true essence of humanity is being
corrupted slowly. It is essential to remember that the acts of humanity must not have any kind of
personal gain behind them like fame, money or power.
The world we live in today is divided by borders but the reach we can have is limitless. We are
lucky enough to have the freedom to travel anywhere and experience anything we wish for. A lot of
nations fight constantly to acquire land which results in the loss of many innocent lives.
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Similarly, other humanitarian crisis like the ones in Yemen, Syria, Myanmar and more costs the
lives of more than millions of people. The situation is not resolving anytime soon, thus we need
humanity for this.
Most importantly, humanity does not just limit to humans but also caring for the environment and
every living being. We must all come together to show true humanity and help out other humans,
animals and our environment to heal and prosper.
Mother Teresa was a woman who devoted her entire life to serving the poor and needy from a
nation. Rabindranath Tagore was an Indian poet who truly believed in humanity and considered it
his true religion.
Similarly, Nelson Mandela was a great humanitarian who worked all his life for those in needs. He
never discriminated against any person on the basis of colour, sex, creed or anything.
Further, Mahatma Gandhi serves as a great example of devoting his life to free his country and
serve his fellow countrymen. He died serving the country and working for the betterment of his
nation. Thus, we must all take inspiration from such great people.
The acts and ways of these great humanitarians serve as a great example for us now to do better in
our life. We must all indulge in acts of giving back and coming to help those in need. All in all,
humanity arises from selfless acts of compassion.
As technology and capitalism are evolving at a faster rate in this era, we must all spread humanity
wherever possible. When we start practicing humanity, we can tackle many big problems like global
warming, pollution, extinction of animals and more.
Power of faith
Faith and belief is a way of considering or believing in anyone. Mostly faith word is used
for God or any unseen power or any spiritual person. Since its origin of this earth, human used to
follow the faith system or God or any blind faith.
People have different faith in different power from time to time. Faith depends upon their belief
and understanding. Faith always plays a crucial role in our day-to-day life.
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What is Faith?
This word “faith” can be explained in many ways. The meaning of faith is different according to
the uses of the word. In a simple concept, we know faith as confidence or belief, which can be on
anyone or anything.
Is most of the cases it faith refers to a religious system in the world. In old times and current
time, belief and faith are common, and people have faith in God, and some do not have faith in
God.
Types of Faith
Nowadays, there are various types of faith and belief in the world. Many religions and non-
religious people also have faith and trust in someone. The trust and faith is an idea of believing
to anyone without seeing that.
1. Blind Faith
The term of blind faith used when someone believes with no reason and evidence and any logic.
There are some reasons on the side but not having any base of that. This is a traditional faith
which people follow.
For example, if someone says that this doctor is right, then others will believe in their statement
without checking and with no reason. Mostly in blind faith, it happens, and people follow
blindly.
We observe this blind faith in the religious field. If any spiritual leader explains anything to their
follower with no philosophy and reason, their followers will trust and trusts him blindly. If
anybody raises the cross-question against him, they become an enemy of that person. So it is
called that blind faith is perilous.
In Indian reference this is common. We usually see that a person killed someone or his kids as a
sacrifice before the idol goddess on the advice of any priest. This is because he has faith in that
person blindly. Here, they not used their mind and logic.
2. Religious Faith
We relate this faith and belief to any religion. In this faith, people of a particular religion have
faith in their system of religion and its natural or supernatural power. This is a spiritual belief of
this faith. There is a unique type of religion in the world. Followers of this religion follow their
system and believe in God and its power.
In religious belief, people follow the rules because they have faith. For example, Christians wear
the cross symbol mostly because of having faith in it. In Islam, also people use a cap or cover his
head during the prayer and having a beard. Women used to wear a unique dress to cover the
complete body as they believe in the ruling of a religious system.
The population of having faith in religion in the world is increasing fast. In this futuristic time,
you’ll find a vast number of people who follow Christianity and Islam in the world. In religious
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faith and belief, people of that religion accept the spiritual and supernatural power. They believe
in the holy books of those religions.
Benefits of faith
Faith, whether it is religious faith or blind faith, it has some common positive characteristics
which provide the right thing and guidance to the followers.
1. Increase Unity
If some people or group of people having faith in anything, then their unity increases. They
collect at a place on a particular time for any meeting, spiritual conference and teaching classes.
They discuss together and solve the issues related to their belief and their group or community.
So we can see it that unity increases the unity between the people.
2. Increase Hope
Hope increases the hope is the key to faith. If faith has its existence, then the hope exists there.
Without hope, faith is not valid and meaningless. Followers or believers accept the rules and
religious cultures because they see the glimpse of hope it.
Hope is there in many faiths. In blind also people keep their promise. In religious, also people
have great faith for their wishes and betterment of the world and humanity.
Importance of faith
Faith is essential in life. Nobody can ignore faith. People have faith, and trust in any object,
people, natural or supernatural powers, religion. Faith and belief are a natural and God gifted
quality and requirement of the human.
Faith is essential for life. The human came in the world and living here for any definite purpose,
and they have the faith they by doing this, they can go ahead. They always keep a hope of faith
that this thing will help him or will support him.
Faith is essential for development. Faith is a pillar of growth. If people have faith in any system,
they follow the policy of that object conscientiously to fulfill the purpose of that task. Suppose if
anybody has the principle that by listening to any poem or verses of any teaching of any religion,
then he will seriously with great hope.
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National Unity
People of many religions, castes and languages live in India. Unity in diversity is the main
feature of India. National unity means people of all religions, castes and languages living
together in the country.
In order to maintain the unity of the country, the Constitution of India has conferred the right that
any citizen of the country can adopt any religion of his choice. Everyone is at liberty to follow
religion with their faith.
Unity is an emotional word meaning the feeling of being one. The real meaning of unity is that
the country is united in social, cultural, geographical and literary terms.
Communalism: The biggest obstacle in the path of national unity is the feeling of
communalism. Communalism is an evil that divides man and society.
Language dispute: India is a multilingual nation. Different provinces have different dialects and
languages. Everyone considers his language superior and considers his literature great. If a
person disrespects and disregards another language due to the attachment of his mother tongue,
he attacks national unity.
Provincialism: The feeling of provincialism also obstructs the path of national unity. Sometimes
residents of a particular region demand their separate existence. Making such a demand removes
the idea of national unity and integrity.
Casteism: Casteism badly affected Indian unity. Each caste considers itself superior to another
caste. After independence, the policy of reservation for the Scheduled Castes and Scheduled
Tribes at all levels was strongly opposed by the economically weaker upper castes. On this
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dispute, people influenced national unity by spreading sabotage, arson, anarchy. Thus casteism is
an obstacle in the path of national unity.
Corrupt politics: For some years, the environment of our country is becoming toxic due to
corrupt politics. The national sentiment is being affected by feelings of selfishness, regionalism
and linguism. Political leaders are involved in corrupt conduct for their own benefits.
Work that encourages people and national unity must be respected. Artists and litterateurs should
write unitary literature. Newspapers, Doordarshan, films can do many things in this sacred work.
Patriotism
Patriotism refers to the passionate love one has for their country. This virtue pushes to citizens of a
country to work for their country selflessly and make it better. A truly developed country is made up
of true patriots. In other words, patriotism means keeping the country’s interest first and then
thinking about oneself. Patriotism can be specifically seen during times of war. Moreover, it helps in
building the nation stronger. There are other significances of patriotism as well.
Significance of Patriotism
Usually, we refer to our country as our motherland. This further proves that we must have the same
love for our country as we have for our mother. After all, our country is no less than a mother; it
nurtures us and helps us grow. Everyone must possess the virtue of patriotism as it makes it better.
In addition, it also enhances the life quality of the citizens. It does that by making people work for
the collective interest of the country. When everyone works for the betterment of the country, there
would be no conflict of interest. Thus, a happier environment will prevail.
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After that, peace and harmony will be maintained through patriotism. When the citizens have the
spirit of brotherhood, they will support one another. Hence, it will make the country more
harmonious.
In short, patriotism does have great importance in developing the country. It eliminates any selfish
and harmful motives which in turn lessens corruption. Similarly, when the government becomes
free of corruption, the country will develop faster.
The history of India’s freedom struggle shines through the immortal courage of the heroic
personalities like Veer Damodar Savarkar, Mahatma Gandhi, Bal Gangadhar Tilak, Pandit
Jawahar Lal Nehru, Bhagat Singh, Chandra Shekhar Azad, Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel, and many
more who lived in the age of national upsurge and sacrificed their lives for the sake of their
beloved country. Such great patriots fought for the country and against the atrocities that were
being perpetrated on the countrymen.
Singing slogans of ‘Vande Mataram’, ‘Bharat Mata ki Jai’, ‘Jay Hind’, these patriots went to the
cross for the country with a smile on their faces and pride in their hearts. A very inspiring quote
by Swami Vivekanand, says, “Do you love the country? Then, come, let us struggle for higher
and better things; look not back, no, not even if you see the dearest and nearest cry. Look no
back, but forward!”
The gist of Swami Vivekanand’s thought is that when you have started your journey on the path
of the country’s welfare, then there must not be any looking back. All you need is to create a list
of the priority things that you want to do for your country. Once you accomplish one thing just
move ahead with the next one. The slogans like Jai Hind or Bharat Mata ki Jai work as your
motivation on the path of doing something for the country. So, are you prepared for doing
something special for the nation?
Indian soldiers are role models for the youth of India. Highly scrupulous, positively secular,
completely apolitical, with an ethos of working hard, simple needs and frugal habits, a soldier is
the epitome of courage and unflinching devotion to country.
Mangalyaan or Mars Orbiter Mission is one of the best examples of scientists' devotion toward
the country. In the pandemic situation, the hardship of doctors and nurses proves their devotion
towards their country.
Patriotism does not always mean that you have to sacrifice your life for your country;
contributing good service towards the country and its people is also equivalent to your sacrifice.
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Mathunny Mathews has set a great example of patriotism. Mathews was an Indian, a resident in
Kuwait, and was one of the people credited with the safe airlift evacuation of about 1, 70,000
Indians from Kuwait during the 1990 invasion of Kuwait. Only celebrating the flag hoisting
ceremony on 15th August and 26th January, posing for photos with the flag, and posting on
social media doesn’t imply that you are a true patriot. A real patriot is a person who has a true
love for his country. He fights against the atrocities upon his countrymen by insiders or outsiders
of the country.
Patriotism is the most important thing for the development of a country. As patriots think about
the country, its growth, and countrymen’s improvement, it positively impacts the development of
the country. A sense of patriotism helps to reduce corruption and riots hence the country
develops effectively.
While writing an essay on patriotism, we must remember that these freedom fighters gave us all
the rights to roam outside our homes and enjoy happy moments. When every Indian was facing
brutal behaviour of Britishers, these were the people who stepped out to head held high and gave
us what we all wanted.
The need for revolution for Independence was felt all over India, and revolutionaries like Subhas
Chandra Bose, Rani Laxmi Bai, Chander Shekhar Azad, and many more started their journey to
get the country from the atrocities of Britishers. The stories of these heroes enlighten our path for
patriotism.
Nature refers to the interaction between the physical surroundings around us and the life within it
like atmosphere, climate, natural resources, ecosystem, flora, fauna, and humans. Nature is
indeed God’s precious gift to Earth. It is the primary source of all the basic necessities for the
nourishment of all living beings on the Earth. Right from the food we eat, the clothes we wear,
and the house we live in is provided by nature. Nature is called ‘Mother Nature’ because just like
our mother, she is always nurturing us with all our needs.
Introduction
Whatever we see around us, right from the moment we step out of our house is part of nature.
The trees, flowers, landscapes, insects, sunlight, breeze, everything that makes our environment
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so beautiful and mesmerizing are part of Nature. In short, our environment is nature. Nature has
been there even before the evolution of human beings.
Importance of Nature
If not for nature then we wouldn’t be alive. The health benefits of nature for humans are
incredible. The most important thing for survival given by nature is oxygen. The entire cycle of
respiration is regulated by nature. The oxygen that we inhale is given by trees and the carbon
dioxide we exhale is getting absorbed by trees.
The ecosystem of nature is a community in which producers (plants), consumers, and
decomposers work together in their environment for survival. The natural fundamental processes
like soil creation, photosynthesis, nutrient cycling, and water cycling, allows Earth to sustain life.
We are dependent on these ecosystem services daily whether or not we are aware.
Nature provides us services round the clock: provisional services, regulating services, and non-
material services. Provisional services include benefits extracted from nature such as food, water,
natural fuels and fibers, and medicinal plants. Regulating services include regulation of natural
processes that include decomposition, water purification, pollution, erosion and flood control,
and also, climate regulation.
Non-material services are the non-material benefits that improve the cultural development of
humans such as recreation, creative inspiration from interaction with nature like art, music,
architecture, and the influence of ecosystems on local and global cultures.
The interaction between humans and animals, which are a part of nature alleviates stress, lessens
pain and worries. Nature provides company and gives people a sense of purpose.
Studies and researches have shown that children especially have a natural affinity with nature.
The regular interaction with nature has boosted health development in children. Nature supports
their physical and mental health and instills abilities to access risks as they grow.
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Save Our Nature
Earth’s natural resources are not infinite and they cannot be replenished in a short span of time.
The rapid increase in urbanization has used most of the resources like trees, minerals, fossil
fuels, and water. Humans in their quest for a comfortable living have been using the resources of
nature mindlessly. As a result, massive deforestation, resultant environmental pollution, wildlife
destruction, and global warming are posing great threats to the survival of living beings.
Air that gives us oxygen to breathe is getting polluted by smoke, industrial emissions,
automobile exhaust, burning of fossil fuels like coal, coke and furnace oil, and use of certain
chemicals. The garbage and wastes thrown here and there cause pollution of air and land.
Sewage, organic wastage, industrial wastage, oil spillage, and chemicals pollute water. It is
causing several water-borne diseases like cholera, jaundice and typhoid.
The use of pesticides and chemical fertilizers in agriculture adds to soil pollution. Due to the
mindless cutting of trees and demolition of greeneries for industrialization and urbanization, the
ecological balance is greatly hampered. Deforestation causes flood and soil erosion.
Earth has now become an ailing planet panting for care and nutrition for its rejuvenation. Unless
mankind puts its best effort to save nature from these recurring situations, the Earth would turn
into an unfit landmass for life and activity.
We should check deforestation and take up plantation of trees at a massive rate. It will not only
save the animals from being extinct but also help create regular rainfall and preserve soil fertility.
We should avoid over-dependence on fossil fuels like coal, petroleum products, and firewood
which release harmful pollutants to the atmosphere. Non-conventional sources of energy like the
sun, biogas and wind should be tapped to meet our growing need for energy. It will check and
reduce global warming.
Every drop of water is vital for our survival. We should conserve water by its rational use,
rainwater harvesting, checking the surface outflow, etc. industrial and domestic wastes should be
properly treated before they are dumped into water bodies.
Every individual can do his or her bit of responsibility to help save the nature around us. In order
to build a sustainable society, every human being should practice in heart and soul the three R’s
of Reduce, Reuse, and Recycle. In this way, we can save our nature.
Discipline
Discipline is something that keeps each person in control. It motivates a person to progress in life
and achieve success. Everyone follow discipline in his/her life in a different form. Besides, everyone
has his own prospect of discipline. Some people consider it a part of their life and some don’t. It is
the guide that availability directs a person on the right path.
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Importance and types of discipline
Without discipline, the life of a person will become dull and inactive. Also, a disciplined person can
control and handle the situation of living in a sophisticated way than those who do not.
Moreover, if you have a plan and you want to implement it in your life then you need discipline. It
makes things easy for you to handle and ultimately bring success to your life.
If talk about the types of discipline, then they are generally of two types. First one is induced
discipline and the second one is self-discipline.
Induced discipline is something that others taught us or we learn by seeing others. While self-
discipline comes from within and we learn it on our own self. Self-discipline requires a lot of
motivation and support from others.
Above all, following your daily schedule without any mistake is also part of being disciplined.
Moreover, the meaning of discipline changes with the stages of life and priority. Not everyone can
be disciplined because it requires a lot of hard work and dedication. Also, it needs a positive mind
and a healthy body. One has to be strict to discipline so that she/he can successfully complete the
road of success.
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Advantages of Discipline
The disciple is a staircase by which the person achieve success. It helps a person to focus on his/her
goals in life. Also, it does not let him/her derivate from the [Link], it brings perfection in a
person life by training and educating the mind and body of the person to respond to the rules and
regulation, which will help him to be an ideal citizen of the society.
If we talk about professional life then, the disciplined person gets more opportunities than the
person who is undisciplined. Also, it adds an exceptional dimension to the personality of the
individual. Besides, the person leaves a positive impact on the mind of people wherever she/he
goes.
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UNIT-III
Personality and Behavior Development
Soul and Scientific attitude
Soul
soul, in religion and philosophy, the immaterial aspect or essence of a human being, that which
confers individuality and humanity, often considered to be synonymous with the mind or the self.
In theology, the soul is further defined as that part of the individual which partakes of divinity
and often is considered to survive the death of the body.
Many cultures have recognized some incorporeal principle of human life or existence
corresponding to the soul, and many have attributed souls to all living things. There is evidence
even among prehistoric peoples of a belief in an aspect distinct from the body and residing in it.
Despite widespread and longstanding belief in the existence of a soul, however, different
religions and philosophers have developed a variety of theories as to its nature, its relationship to
the body, and its origin and mortality.
Among ancient peoples, both the Egyptians and the Chinese conceived of a dual soul. The
Egyptian ka (breath) survived death but remained near the body, while the spiritual ba proceeded
to the region of the dead. The Chinese distinguished between a lower, sensitive soul, which
disappears with death, and a rational principle, the hun, which survives the grave and is the
object of ancestor worship.
The early Hebrews apparently had a concept of the soul but did not separate it from the body,
although later Jewish writers developed the idea of the soul further. Biblical references to the
soul are related to the concept of breath and establish no distinction between the ethereal soul
and the corporeal body. Christian concepts of a body-soul dichotomy originated with the
ancient Greeks and were introduced into Christian theology at an early date by St. Gregory of
Nyssa and by St. Augustine.
Ancient Greek concepts of the soul varied considerably according to the particular era and
philosophical school. The Epicureans considered the soul to be made up of atoms like the rest of
the body. For the Platonists, the soul was an immaterial and incorporeal substance, akin to the
gods yet part of the world of change and becoming. Aristotle’s conception of the soul was
obscure, though he did state that it was a form inseparable from the body.
In Christian theology St. Augustine spoke of the soul as a “rider” on the body, making clear the
split between the material and the immaterial, with the soul representing the “true” person.
However, although body and soul were separate, it was not possible to conceive of a soul without
its body. In the Middle Ages, St. Thomas Aquinas returned to the Greek philosophers’ concept of
the soul as a motivating principle of the body, independent but requiring the substance of the
body to make an individual.
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From the Middle Ages onward, the existence and nature of the soul and its relationship to the
body continued to be disputed in Western philosophy. To René Descartes, man was a union of
the body and the soul, each a distinct substance acting on the other; the soul was equivalent to
the mind. To Benedict de Spinoza, body and soul formed two aspects of a single
reality. Immanuel Kant concluded that the soul was not demonstrable through reason, although
the mind inevitably must reach the conclusion that the soul exists because such a conclusion was
necessary for the development of ethics and religion. To William James at the beginning of the
20th century, the soul as such did not exist at all but was merely a collection of psychic
phenomena.
Just as there have been different concepts of the relation of the soul to the body, there have been
numerous ideas about when the soul comes into existence and when and if it dies. Ancient Greek
beliefs were varied and evolved over time. Pythagoras held that the soul was of divine origin and
existed before and after death. Plato and Socrates also accepted the immortality of the soul, while
Aristotle considered only part of the soul, the noûs, or intellect, to have that quality. Epicurus
believed that both body and soul ended at death. The early Christian philosophers adopted the
Greek concept of the soul’s immortality and thought of the soul as being created by God and
infused into the body at conception.
In Hinduism the atman (“breath,” or “soul”) is the universal, eternal self, of which each
individual soul (jiva or jiva-atman) partakes. The jiva-atman is also eternal but is imprisoned in
an earthly body at birth. At death the jiva-atman passes into a new existence determined
by karma, or the cumulative consequences of actions. The cycle of death and rebirth (samsara) is
eternal according to some Hindus, but others say it persists only until the soul has attained
karmic perfection, thus merging with the Absolute (brahman). Buddhism negates the concept not
only of the individual self but of the atman as well, asserting that any sense of having an
individual eternal soul or of partaking in a persistent universal self is illusory.
The Muslim concept, like the Christian, holds that the soul comes into existence at the same time
as the body; thereafter, it has a life of its own, its union with the body being a temporary
condition.
Scientific attitude
The major aim of science education is to develop scientific attitude among the learners in proper
way.
In such condition, no teacher or person can perform the function of imparting science to the
students without understanding the proper meaning and true nature of scientific attitudes. Some
experts are of the view that problem solving in all of its elements is closely linked with a group
of attitudes or mind set-ups, which are important outcomes of science teaching.
To understand the concept of scientific attitudes, it is necessary to take into recognition some of
the definitions put forwarded by some experts. In view of some experts, scientific attitudes can
best be defined as open mindness or a desire for getting or gaining accurate kind of knowledge.
It also implies gaining confidence in procedures for seeking knowledge and the expectations that
by making use of verified knowledge, solutions of all the problems will be find out. Likewise,
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some experts are of the view that kind of attitudes which are free from all kinds of biases,
prejudices and superstitions are known as scientific attitudes. Open- mindness, intellectual
honesty and critical mindness are considered to be some of the main features of such kind of
attitudes.
Thus it can be said that a person who possess scientific attitudes have the natural tendency to
look for the basic cause which led to development of the situation. Such person will not rely on
other people’s believes and knowledge. No consideration will be paid by such person to the
superstitious views and to the thing like fate or luck.
Such person is curious concerning the things he observes. He does not get satisfied only by
witnessing the happening, but tries to find out the reason for the happening. He will try to get
answer of various questions get arising in his mind. Such a person has an open mind, because of
which he will try to collect opinions of other persons and will attempt to relate their opinions
with his own views. Such person must possess the view that truth never gets changed, however,
as soon as he gains better understanding of that truth, his ideas of what is true will get changed.
A person with scientific attitudes does not remain stick on his views and ideas, but keep on
revising them in accordance with the new findings. He gives proper consideration to the views
and opinions of the other persons and does not accept any kind of conclusion as final till all
findings are not done by him.
Before analysing the kind of information obtained, such person will make use of best method
available to him and then will plan out a programme for finding out the way by which situation
can be analysed. Such a person will seek to adopt various techniques and procedures with the
help of which he can solve the existing problem in minimum possible time.
Such person does not rely on observations and informations gathered by other persons or through
other sources, rather believes in analysing all the facts personally. Before drawing any kind of
conclusion, such person infers whether the evidence he is relying on is sound and sensible in
itself.
Person with scientific attitude keeps himself aware of the latest developments done in the field of
science and on basis of such knowledge make use of most recent and authoritative method for
gathering information relating to the problem. Conclusion is drawn out by such person after
providing due consideration to the valid of and sound evidences and he does not base his
decision on views and opinions of others.
He does not accept any such fact for which there are no convincing proofs. He makes use of
various sources and bases his conclusion upon evidences obtained through such sources. Such a
person tries to find out most satisfactory explanation for all the observed phenomenon.
After drawing conclusions, he remains stick to his belief and avoids all kinds of exaggeration.
While drawing conclusions, such person does not allow his personal pride and biases to change
the truth and he remains stick to the path of truth. Conclusions drawn by such persons are based
on true and valid evidences, as a result of which they are valid and true in nature.
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Positive Thinking
Positive thinking refers to a belief or mental attitude which makes us think that good things will
happen eventually and our efforts will pay off sooner or later. It is the opposite of negative thinking
which makes our mind full of stress and fear. Thus, an essay on positive thinking will show us how it
reinforces thoughts like optimism and hope and works wonders.
Let it be clear that positive thinking does not mean you do not notice the bad things in life. It means
you try to find a solution in a productive way instead of whining about it. There are many benefits
of positive thinking.
The first one is better health. Negative thinking gives rise to anxiety, stress, frustration and more.
However, positive thinking helps you avoid all this and focus on staying healthy and doing better in
life.
Further, it is essential for us to fight depression which positive thinking helps with. Similarly, it will
also help us to relieve stress. Positive thinking overwhelms stress and it will allow you to get rid of
stress.
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As a result, positive thinking helps you live longer. It is because you will be free from diseases that
form due to stress, anxiety and more. Moreover, it is also the key to success. Meaning to say,
success becomes easier when you don’t bash yourself up.
Similarly, it also gives us more confidence. It boosts our self-esteem and helps in becoming more
confident and self-assured. Therefore, we must certainly adopt positive thinking to make the most of
our lives.
There are many ways through which we can build positive thinking. To begin with, we must
inculcate the habit of reading motivational and inspiring stories of people who are successful.
All this will help in motivating and inspiring you and showing you the right path. Moreover, it is
important to never let negative thoughts thrive in your mind and work towards putting end to this
habit.
You can do so by replacing your negative thoughts with constructive and positive reviews. Start to
pay attention to your ideas and don’t pay heed to negative thoughts. Further, it is helpful to use
affirmations.
These positive statements will truly sink into your subconscious mind and guide you to take better
action. It will also help in visualizing your dreams and getting the right means to achieve them fast.
Finally, always stay guard and gate keep your mind to make important changes in life. In other
words, do not be afraid to take actions. Keep yourself busy and do different things to avoid
becoming cynical and remaining positive.
There is a famous saying which perfectly describes integrity. “Honesty is telling the truth to other
people, integrity is telling the truth to myself.” The word ‘integrity’ itself has a Latin origin. It is
derived from the word ‘integer’ and means to feel whole, i.e. a complete person. So it refers to the
sense of completeness and togetherness one enjoys when they live their lives honestly and morally.
So a person that has integrity will act and behave as per set values and believes they hold dear. Let us
explore this concept more in this integrity essay.
Academic Integrity
Academic integrity refers to the ethical policies and moral code employed in the academic world by
all members – the students and the teachers. So as we saw previously in this integrity essay, it
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involves being honest and doing the right thing even if you get no recognition for doing so. It
involves being honest and correct when no one is watching.
Academic integrity is important to lay down a good foundation for the student, so he can follow the
same principles for the rest of his life. Integrity leads to trust-building among colleagues and friends.
It is also the sign of a good future leader. It is a good habit to develop early in your life, it will hold
you in good stead as you progress in your life.
So basic things like doing your own homework, writing your own papers, not plagiarizing your
essays or dissertations, not cheating on home tests, never cheating on any assignments, and
generally doing your work ethically and honestly are the all essential. They are the building blocks
of academic integrity.
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Professional Integrity
Next, we shall explore professional integrity in this integrity essay. As we know, integrity is one of
the essential value an employer always seeks in his employees. So professional integrity is when a
person adopts his values and integrity to his chosen profession and job.
Sound moral and ethical beliefs and basic honesty are highly valued characteristics in an employee.
Such an employee behaves morally with his co-workers, his superiors and all other stakeholders of
the organization. Acting with integrity and honesty is an actual advantage in the workplace. It
builds trust and people are drawn towards such honest and dependable behavior. Integrity in a
workplace also promotes a positive environment which encourages higher productivity.
Not only students and professionals, but integrity is also a value that everyone should strive for.
Integrity is a trait that goes a long way in making people a better version of themselves, better
human beings in general. And a person with true integrity does things because it is the right thing to
do, and never for any praise or recognition. True integrity is never practiced for recognition or
praise but to fulfill personal values.
On many occasions self discipline and integrity have been excluded as vices in society.
Self discipline molds and creates a society with men and women of integrity. With years the
vices of integrity and self discipline are been eroded in society. The modern society does not take
integrity as a vice that needs seriousness which was different about a century ago. Promises and
agreements are bound by law failure to which compensation is never an option. This begs the
questions; does self discipline apply to individuals in the modern society? Does integrity have a
chance to flourish in the modern society? However, the erosion of these two vices cannot be
fully blamed on individuals but also to the fact that the world and society is changing. Some may
argue that with such a tough society, one has to be tough to survive. The issue of self discipline
should however be a vice adhered to by all individuals.
For the past two weeks I had promised myself that I would keep time in all my important
appointments in my life. For example, I will never be late for school and I will never go back
home at very late hours of the night, past ten in the evening. With this being my own decisions
with no other party involved I was obligated by all means to keep the promises and uphold self
discipline. At first the decisions were not of importance to me until I realized that that keeping
these promises meant a lot than just mere rules and regulations. I needed to prove that I had self
discipline and integrity. In the first week I had difficulties fulfilling these promises since I meant
that I had to adjust from my past life which was characterized by lateness and insensitivity.
The conditions of adjustment were not favorable. However, with time and self discipline
I finally started to adhere to the promises. It was at that instant that I realized how much life
became easier when I was punctual to my schedules. In the second week adjustments I had made
were more of a routine than promises that I had to fulfill. With the realization of these promises
my vices of self discipline and integrity were fully tested and I realized that with the will to
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achieve everything might be possible. At the moment I easily meet deadlines, I am punctual at
school and I have greatly improved on my home coming hours up to seven in the evening.
With integrity and self discipline one can be able to achieve whatever behavior they want
to change in their lives. Behavior change, self discipline and integrity go hand in hand.
Additionally, the will to change also guides individuals towards the required behavior change or
improvement. It is amazing to notice how two weeks can easily transform one’s life for the
better. If the whole society can honor their words for two weeks, we can experience a major
transformation in behavior in our societies.
Punctuality
Punctuality refers to the habit of a human being completing their tasks on time. We can say that
punctuality is a great habit which surely results in success. All the leaders have punctuality in
common as the habit is such. In other words, when you are on time, you will maintain the discipline
and order in your life. It will, in turn, help you achieve your goals faster within a set time period.
Moreover, it also makes you a man of habit. This creates a very good impression in front of others.
Punctuality is an etiquette which encourages us to complete our work in a timely fashion. It also
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makes us realize the importance of time. A person who is punctual will always know how to respect
their time and others as well.
Importance of Punctuality
Punctuality is of great importance, it is truly underestimated and must be given utmost importance.
When a person becomes punctual, everything else falls into place. You get discipline in life and also
earn the respect of the others.
Subsequently, a punctual person works on time without any hindrance. The people who are
employed in armies and navies are given rigorous training to become disciplined and punctual.
They pay no heed to any circumstances be it rain or thunder, they care about their punctuality.
Furthermore, punctuality pushes the person to achieve success at faster rates than others. We must
develop this quality in children from an early age which will make it easy for everyone to lead a
better life. When a person is punctual, they get utmost respect and admiration by society and reach
greater heights than an unpunctual person.
Key to Success
We can now safely say that punctuality is definitely the key to success. As we know everything else
falls in order when we become punctual, likewise, success will too. When you become successful,
you know that you can arrive at your destination easily.
This may only happen when a person works on time and achieve their time goals. In addition to
punctuality, hard work is also important. If you ask all the successful people of the world, you will
see that it is their secret to success as well.
Why so? Because a successful person knows very well how to make use of their time and act
accordingly. Similarly, everyone must adopt this habit to reach great heights in life. It is correctly
said that ‘time and tide wait for none’, thus we must remember it well.
We cannot stop time or turn it back, every second is precious. That is why it is important to be
punctual in life at all times, so you never miss out on opportunities. Moreover, you will also become
happier when you get punctual.
Therefore, we see how punctuality plays a major role in anyone’s life. If we are not punctual, we
cannot be as successful as others. In addition, this competitive world demands punctuality so that all
of us can be successful in life.
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Love and Kindness
Love is the most significant thing in human’s life. Each science and every single literature
masterwork will tell you about it. Humans are also social animals. We lived for centuries with this
way of life, we were depended on one another to tell us how our clothes fit us, how our body is
whether healthy or emaciated. All these we get the honest opinions of those who love us, those who
care for us and makes our happiness paramount.
What is Love?
Love is a set of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs with strong feelings of affection. So, for example, a
person might say he or she loves his or her dog, loves freedom, or loves God. The concept of love
may become an unimaginable thing and also it may happen to each person in a particular way.
Love has a variety of feelings, emotions, and attitude. For someone love is more than just being
interested physically in another one, rather it is an emotional attachment. We can say love is more of
a feeling that a person feels for another person. Therefore, the basic meaning of love is to feel more
than liking towards someone.
Need of Love
We know that the desire to love and care for others is a hard-wired and deep-hearted because the
fulfillment of this wish increases the happiness level. Expressing love for others benefits not just the
recipient of affection, but also the person who delivers it. The need to be loved can be considered as
one of our most basic and fundamental needs.
One of the forms that this need can take is contact comfort. It is the desire to be held and touched.
So there are many experiments showing that babies who are not having contact comfort, especially
during the first six months, grow up to be psychologically damaged.
Significance of Love
Love is as critical for the mind and body of a human being as oxygen. Therefore, the more
connected you are, the healthier you will be physically as well as emotionally. It is also true that the
less love you have, the level of depression will be more in your life. So, we can say that love is
probably the best antidepressant.
It is also a fact that the most depressed people don’t love themselves and they do not feel loved by
others. They also become self-focused and hence making themselves less attractive to others.
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Society and Love
It is a scientific fact that society functions better when there is a certain sense of community.
Compassion and love are the glue for society. Hence without it, there is no feeling of togetherness
for further evolution and progress. Love, compassion, trust and caring we can say that these are the
building blocks of relationships and society.
Love is the greatest wealth in life because we buy things we love for our happiness. For
example, we build our dream house and purchase a favorite car to attract love. Being loved in
a remote environment is a better experience than been hated even in the most advanced
environment.
Love or Money
Love should be given more importance than money as love is always everlasting. Money is
important to live, but having a true companion you can always trust should come before that. If you
love each other, you will both work hard to help each other live an amazing life together.
Kindness
The world we live in today has been through a lot of things from world wars to epidemics, but one
thing which remained constant throughout was resilience and kindness. Moreover, it was the spirit to
fight back and help out each other. Kindness must be an essential and universal quality to make the
world a better place. Through an essay on kindness, we will go through it in detail.
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Importance of Kindness
Kindness towards nature, animals and other people has the ability to transform the world and make
it a beautiful place for living. But, it is also important to remember that kindness towards you is also
essential for personal growth.
Kindness is basically being polite, compassionate and thoughtful. Every religion and faith teaches
its followers to be kind. Most importantly, kindness must not limit to humans but also to every
living creature.
Even nature has its own way of showing kindness. For instance, the trees grow fruits for us and
provide us with shade. One must not see kindness as a core value but as a fundamental behavioural
element. When you are kind to your loved ones, you create a stable base.
As people are becoming more self-centred today, we must learn kindness. We must try to integrate
it into ourselves. You might not know how a small act of kindness can bring about a change in
someone’s life. So, be kind always.
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Kindness Always Wins
There is no doubt that kindness always wins and it has been proven time and again by people. Sid is
a greedy man who does not share his wealth with anyone, not even his family members.
He also does not pay his workers well. One day, he loses his bag of gold coins and loses his temper.
Everyone helps him out to search for it but no one finds it. Finally, his worker’s little son finds the
bag.
Upon checking the bag, he sees all the coins are there. But, his greed makes him play a trick on the
poor worker. He claims that there were more coins in the bag and the worker stole them.
The issue goes to the court and the judge confirms from Sid whether his bag had more coins to
which he agrees. So, the judge rules out that as Sid’s bag had more coins, the bag which the
worker’s son found is not his.
Therefore, the bag gets handed to the worker as no one else claims it. Consequently, you see how
the worker’s son act of kindness won and paid him well. On the other hand, how Sid’s greediness
resulted in his loss only.
Negative thinking appears to be more prevalent than positive thinking. It seems that with most
people, positive thinking requires some effort, whereas, negative thinking comes easily, and
often uninvited.
This has much to do with education and the environment one has been living in.
If you have been brought up in a happy and positive environment, there is more probability that
it will be easier for you to think positively. However, If you have been brought up under poor or
difficult situations, you will more probably be inclined to negative thinking.
We view the world through our predominant mental attitude. If our thoughts are positive, that is
fine, but if they are negative, our life and circumstances would probably mirror these negative
thoughts.
If you believe that you are going to fail, you might unconsciously sabotage every opportunity to
succeed.
If you are too shy of meeting new people, or avoid having close relationships, you will do
everything to avoid people and relationships, and then complain that you are lonely and nobody
loves you.
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Instead of becoming more positive and overcoming your fears, you think how difficult it is
succeed or to connect with people, and you expect to be failure or stay lonely.
Often, the mind does not judge or examine thoughts and opinions before accepting them. If what
it hears, sees and reads is always negative, it accepts negativity as the standard mindset.
he media constantly bombards the mind with a lot of information about disasters, catastrophes,
wars and other unhappy events. This information sinks into your subconscious mind, and then,
manifests as your habitual manner of thinking. It is okay to watch and hear the news, because
you need to know what is happening in the world. However, be careful not to overdo that. Be
craeful not to let what you hear and see on the news affect you too much.
If you occupy the mind with depressing and pessimistic thoughts you radiate negative energy
into the surrounding world, and therefore, create and recreate more negativity, failure and
disasters.
The mind is neutral energy. The way you think determines whether the results are positive and
beneficial, or negative and harmful. It is the same energy acting in different ways.
The good news is that persistent inner work can change habits of thinking. You must be willing
to put energy and time to pursue positive thinking, in order to change your mental attitude. The
power of negative thinking is quite strong, but with some effort on your part you can overcome
it.
1. Every time you catch yourself thinking a negative thought, replace it with a positive one.
2. If you catch yourself visualizing failure, immediately visualize success instead.
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3. If you hear yourself using negative words in your conversation, switch to positive words.
4. Instead of saying, “I cannot”, say, “I can”. Most of the time you can, but choose to say
“cannot”, due to fear, laziness or lack of self esteem.
5. Do you repeat negative words and phrases in your mind? Change them to positive ones.
Yes, this requires you to be more alert, and to put forth some effort. You want to change
negative thinking into positive thinking, don’t you?
6. Allow more positive attitude into your life. Have more faith in yourself and expect positive
results. Affirmations and visualization can take you a long way in this direction.
7. Decide that from today, from this very moment, you are leaving negative thinking behind
you, and starting on the way toward positive thinking and behavior.
Negative thinking has a great affect on everyone’s life. It leads to failure, unhappiness and lack
of satisfaction, to worries and to fears. However, there is no reason to let it to affect your life.
You can set yourself free from it by following the tips suggested here.
The power of negative thinking is a mighty power that affects everyone. You need to be aware of
it and stop it whenever you find yourself let it infiltrates into your mind and into your thoughts.
It is a habit of the mind, and often it is a strong habit. However, you can get rid of it,
through positive thinking and taking positive action.
We all know what anger is, and we've all felt it: whether as a fleeting annoyance or as full-
fledged rage.
Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control
and turns destructive, it can lead to problems—problems at work, in your personal relationships,
and in the overall quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you're at the mercy of
an unpredictable and powerful emotion.
The Nature of Anger
Anger is "an emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage,"
according to Charles Spielberger, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in the study of anger.
Like other emotions, it is accompanied by physiological and biological changes; when you get
angry, your heart rate and blood pressure go up, as do the levels of your energy hormones,
adrenaline, and noradrenaline.
Anger can be caused by both external and internal events. You could be angry at a specific
person (such as a coworker or supervisor) or event (a traffic jam, a canceled flight), or your
anger could be caused by worrying or brooding about your personal problems. Memories of
traumatic or enraging events can also trigger angry feelings.
Expressing Anger
The instinctive, natural way to express anger is to respond aggressively. Anger is a natural,
adaptive response to threats; it inspires powerful, often aggressive, feelings and behaviors, which
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allow us to fight and to defend ourselves when we are attacked. A certain amount of anger,
therefore, is necessary to our survival.
On the other hand, we can't physically lash out at every person or object that irritates or annoys
us; laws, social norms, and common sense place limits on how far our anger can take us.
What is Anger
People use a variety of both conscious and unconscious processes to deal with their angry
feelings. The three main approaches are expressing, suppressing, and calming. Expressing your
angry feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner is the healthiest way to express anger.
To do this, you have to learn how to make clear what your needs are, and how to get them met,
without hurting others. Being assertive doesn't mean being pushy or demanding; it means being
respectful of yourself and others.
Anger can be suppressed, and then converted or redirected. This happens when you hold in your
anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. The aim is to inhibit or suppress
your anger and convert it into more constructive behavior. The danger in this type of response is
that if it isn't allowed outward expression, your anger can turn inward—on yourself. Anger
turned inward may cause hypertension, high blood pressure, or depression.
Unexpressed anger can create other problems. It can lead to pathological expressions of anger,
such as passive-aggressive behavior (getting back at people indirectly, without telling them why,
rather than confronting them head-on) or a personality that seems perpetually cynical and hostile.
People who are constantly putting others down, criticizing everything, and making cynical
comments haven't learned how to constructively express their anger. Not surprisingly, they aren't
likely to have many successful relationships.
Finally, you can calm down inside. This means not just controlling your outward behavior, but
also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself
down, and let the feelings subside.
Anger Management
he goal of anger management is to reduce both your emotional feelings and the physiological
arousal that anger causes. You can't get rid of, or avoid, the things or the people that enrage you,
nor can you change them, but you can learn to control your reactions.
Are You Too Angry?
There are psychological tests that measure the intensity of angry feelings, how prone to anger
you are, and how well you handle it. But chances are good that if you do have a problem with
anger, you already know it. If you find yourself acting in ways that seem out of control and
frightening, you might need help finding better ways to deal with this emotion.
Why Are Some People More Angry Than Others?
According to Jerry Deffenbacher, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in anger management,
some people really are more "hotheaded" than others are; they get angry more easily and more
intensely than the average person does. There are also those who don't show their anger in loud
spectacular ways but are chronically irritable and grumpy. Easily angered people don't always
curse and throw things; sometimes they withdraw socially, sulk, or get physically ill.
People who are easily angered generally have what some psychologists call a low tolerance for
frustration, meaning simply that they feel that they should not have to be subjected to frustration,
inconvenience, or annoyance. They can't take things in stride, and they're particularly infuriated
if the situation seems somehow unjust: for example, being corrected for a minor mistake.
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What makes these people this way? A number of things. One cause may be genetic or
physiological: There is evidence that some children are born irritable, touchy, and easily angered,
and that these signs are present from a very early age. Another may be sociocultural. Anger is
often regarded as negative; we're taught that it's all right to express anxiety, depression, or other
emotions but not to express anger. As a result, we don't learn how to handle it or channel it
constructively.
Research has also found that family background plays a role. Typically, people who are easily
angered come from families that are disruptive, chaotic, and not skilled at emotional
communications.
Is It Good To "Let it All Hang Out?"
Psychologists now say that this is a dangerous myth. Some people use this theory as a license to
hurt others. Research has found that "letting it rip" with anger actually escalates anger and
aggression and does nothing to help you (or the person you're angry with) resolve the situation.
It's best to find out what it is that triggers your anger, and then to develop strategies to keep those
triggers from tipping you over the edge.
Strategies to Keep Anger at Bay
Relaxation
Simple relaxation tools, such as deep breathing and relaxing imagery, can help calm down angry
feelings. There are books and courses that can teach you relaxation techniques, and once you
learn the techniques, you can call upon them in any situation. If you are involved in a
relationship where both partners are hot-tempered, it might be a good idea for both of you to
learn these techniques.
Some simple steps you can try:
Breathe deeply, from your diaphragm; breathing from your chest won't relax you. Picture your
breath coming up from your "gut."
Slowly repeat a calm word or phrase such as "relax," "take it easy." Repeat it to yourself while
breathing deeply.
Use imagery; visualize a relaxing experience, from either your memory or your imagination.
Nonstrenuous, slow yoga-like exercises can relax your muscles and make you feel much calmer.
Practice these techniques daily. Learn to use them automatically when you're in a tense situation.
Cognitive Restructuring
Simply put, this means changing the way you think. Angry people tend to curse, swear, or speak
in highly colorful terms that reflect their inner thoughts. When you're angry, your thinking can
get very exaggerated and overly dramatic. Try replacing these thoughts with more rational ones.
For instance, instead of telling yourself, "oh, it's awful, it's terrible, everything's ruined," tell
yourself, "it's frustrating, and it's understandable that I'm upset about it, but it's not the end of the
world and getting angry is not going to fix it anyhow."
Be careful of words like "never" or "always" when talking about yourself or someone else. "This
!&*%@ machine never works," or "you're always forgetting things" are not just inaccurate, they
also serve to make you feel that your anger is justified and that there's no way to solve the
problem. They also alienate and humiliate people who might otherwise be willing to work with
you on a solution.
Remind yourself that getting angry is not going to fix anything, that it won't make you feel better
(and may actually make you feel worse).
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Logic defeats anger, because anger, even when it's justified, can quickly become irrational. So
use cold hard logic on yourself. Remind yourself that the world is "not out to get you," you're
just experiencing some of the rough spots of daily life. Do this each time you feel anger getting
the best of you, and it'll help you get a more balanced perspective. Angry people tend to demand
things: fairness, appreciation, agreement, willingness to do things their way. Everyone wants
these things, and we are all hurt and disappointed when we don't get them, but angry people
demand them, and when their demands aren't met, their disappointment becomes anger. As part
of their cognitive restructuring, angry people need to become aware of their demanding nature
and translate their expectations into desires. In other words, saying, "I would like" something is
healthier than saying, "I demand" or "I must have" something. When you're unable to get what
you want, you will experience the normal reactions—frustration, disappointment, hurt—but not
anger. Some angry people use this anger as a way to avoid feeling hurt, but that doesn't mean the
hurt goes away.
Problem Solving
Sometimes, our anger and frustration are caused by very real and inescapable problems in our
lives. Not all anger is misplaced, and often it's a healthy, natural response to these difficulties.
There is also a cultural belief that every problem has a solution, and it adds to our frustration to
find out that this isn't always the case. The best attitude to bring to such a situation, then, is not to
focus on finding the solution, but rather on how you handle and face the problem.
Make a plan, and check your progress along the way. Resolve to give it your best, but also not to
punish yourself if an answer doesn't come right away. If you can approach it with your best
intentions and efforts and make a serious attempt to face it head-on, you will be less likely to
lose patience and fall into all-or-nothing thinking, even if the problem does not get solved right
away.
Better Communication
Angry people tend to jump to—and act on—conclusions, and some of those conclusions can be
very inaccurate. The first thing to do if you're in a heated discussion is slow down and think
through your responses. Don't say the first thing that comes into your head, but slow down and
think carefully about what you want to say. At the same time, listen carefully to what the other
person is saying and take your time before answering.
Listen, too, to what is underlying the anger. For instance, you like a certain amount of freedom
and personal space, and your "significant other" wants more connection and closeness. If he or
she starts complaining about your activities, don't retaliate by painting your partner as a jailer, a
warden, or an albatross around your neck.
It's natural to get defensive when you're criticized, but don't fight back. Instead, listen to what's
underlying the words: the message that this person might feel neglected and unloved. It may take
a lot of patient questioning on your part, and it may require some breathing space, but don't let
your anger—or a partner's—let a discussion spin out of control. Keeping your cool can keep the
situation from becoming a disastrous one.
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Using Humor "Silly humor" can help defuse rage in a number of ways. For one thing, it can help
you get a more balanced perspective. When you get angry and call someone a name or refer to them
in some imaginative phrase, stop and picture what that word would literally look like. If you're at
work and you think of a coworker as a "dirtbag" or a "single-cell life form," for example, picture a
large bag full of dirt (or an amoeba) sitting at your colleague's desk, talking on the phone, going to
meetings. Do this whenever a name comes into your head about another person. If you can, draw a
picture of what the actual thing might look like. This will take a lot of the edge off your fury; and
humor can always be relied on to help unknot a tense situation.
The underlying message of highly angry people, Dr. Deffenbacher says, is "things oughta go my
way!" Angry people tend to feel that they are morally right, that any blocking or changing of
their plans is an unbearable indignity and that they should NOT have to suffer this way. Maybe
other people do, but not them!
When you feel that urge, he suggests, picture yourself as a god or goddess, a supreme ruler, who
owns the streets and stores and office space, striding alone and having your way in all situations
while others defer to you. The more detail you can get into your imaginary scenes, the more
chances you have to realize that maybe you are being unreasonable; you'll also realize how
unimportant the things you're angry about really are. There are two cautions in using humor.
First, don't try to just "laugh off" your problems; rather, use humor to help yourself face them
more constructively. Second, don't give in to harsh, sarcastic humor; that's just another form of
unhealthy anger expression.
What these techniques have in common is a refusal to take yourself too seriously. Anger is a
serious emotion, but it's often accompanied by ideas that, if examined, can make you laugh.
Changing Your Environment
Sometimes it's our immediate surroundings that give us cause for irritation and fury. Problems
and responsibilities can weigh on you and make you feel angry at the "trap" you seem to have
fallen into and all the people and things that form that trap.
Give yourself a break. Make sure you have some "personal time" scheduled for times of the day
that you know are particularly stressful. One example is the working mother who has a standing
rule that when she comes home from work, for the first 15 minutes "nobody talks to Mom unless
the house is on fire." After this brief quiet time, she feels better prepared to handle demands from
her kids without blowing up at them.
Dignity of labour
Introduction : Everything has its own dignity whatever it may be. It is dignified in accordance
with its utilization and utility. It is the most valuable powerful element of success in life.
Kinds of labor: Labour is of two types-manual and intellectual. Each of them should have a
dignity of its own. But unfortunately, most of our educated persons have a wrong idea of
manual labour. Consequently, they look down upon the people engaged in manual work. In such
a context we should keep in mind that manual labour has noting debasing about it.’
Manual labor: Manual labor is at the root of our livelihood. The food, drink, clothes, and houses
without which we cannot live are all the gifts of manual labor. It is manual labor that drives the
plow and reaps the harvest. It grinds the corn and turns it into bread. It spins the thread and
weaves our clothes. It lays brick upon brick and builds our houses. Manual-workers are thus the
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backbone of a nation. In western countries, all house-hold works are done by the people
themselves. They have to clean their own floors and wash their own bathrooms. There is no
porter to carry their pieces of luggage. A passenger has to carry his own bag. A carpenter, a
mason or an electrician has his own dignity.
Intellectual labor: Labour of this type is dignified to many. Working in the office, bank,
insurance company etc is regarded as intellectual labor. It has a touch with manual labor. The
country’s development in the international field depends on it. Science, literature, culture,
technology etc are intellectual labor. But unfortunately, many people in our country still think
that manual labor is not dignified. It is ridiculous to think that a clerical job is more dignified
than manual work in agriculture, horticulture, carpentry, pottery, tailoring, book-binding,
spinning, weaving, dairy, poultry etc. This false notion should be changed. It is especially
important in the context of the economic realities of the country. Indeed this dignity of labor may
be a powerful means of combating the problem of unemployment which is becoming large in our
country.
Importance: Dignity of labor has an important role in the country. No nation can develop unless
her people undergo any labor. If we consider the developed countries, we find that the people of
those countries did not hesitate but labored hard. Labour of any kind is dignified as it can give
everything to society. The nation’s development depends largely on labor. All the great men in
the world labored hard and achieved dignity.
Difficult to provide employment: We cannot expect that every educated young man would be
given a secured and comfortable job with a chair and a table and a fan in an office or in a bank.
We must admit that no government can provide employment to all the unemployed youths.
Labour gives dignity: Hence self-reliance and dignity of labor may be the only reasonable way
to solve the problem of unemployment. We should remember that God has given us not only the
head but hands also. We should fully utilize these gifts to enrich our lives. Moreover, those who
are engaged in intellectual jobs should do some manual works for keeping a balance between the
two for a normal and healthy life.
Teaching dignity of labor: Thus we should have an ideal position of manual labor in our
society. And for this, the dignity of labor should be taught from childhood. If every child is asked
to do his or her own work as much as possible, it will be good for the future struggle of life. We
should all bear in mind that work is worship and in this way, the dignity of labor should be
recognized in its due importance.
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Chicago to the delegates of the World Parliament of Religions. The speech is popularly
remembered for its opening words – ‘Sisters and brothers of America.’
It was a short speech of five hundred words. But its impact was instantaneous. It is said that
after hearing those opening words, the entire assembly gave him an extended standing ovation.
That thundering applause must have been unexpected and very humbling for the young sanyasi
who was speaking for the first time to a gathering of that scale and grandeur. In a way it was a
divine act in the sense that he was the chosen medium to deliver the idea whose time had come.
And that idea was ‘the idea of toleration’. During the speech he says, “These men from far-off
nations may well claim the honor of bearing to different lands the idea of toleration.”
Toleration is the act of putting up with something that one disapproves of. Swami Vivekananda’s
speech was a turning point of the Parliament, because it changed the idea of toleration, Swamiji
added the dimension of acceptance to it and made it more comprehensive and real. ‘Tolerance’ is
a state of mind that implies non-judgmental acceptance of different lifestyles or beliefs.
Swamiji further said in that speech, “I am proud to belong to a religion which has taught the
world both tolerance and universal acceptance. We believe not only in universal toleration, but
we accept all religions as true.” This idea of acceptance and inclusive had set him and his speech
apart. During the course of his stay in the West, he further elaborated this idea. In one of his
speeches in that parliament itself he said, “The seed is put in the ground, and earth and air and
water are placed around it. Does the seed become the earth, or the air, or the water? No. It
becomes a plant. It develops after the law of its own growth assimilates the air, the earth, and the
water, converts them into plant substance, and grows into a plant….Similar is the case with
religion. The Christian is not to become a Hindu or a Buddhist, nor a Hindu or a Buddhist to
become a Christian. But each must assimilate the spirit of the others and yet preserve his
individuality and grow according to his own law of growth.”
Essentially, he advocated the right to follow one’s unique nature and disapproved imposing
changes on anyone. This he applied from macrocosm to microcosm, which is from nations to
individuals. His idea of toleration is the solution to the discords between nations, religions and
cultures on one hand, and discord in families and smaller groups on the other. The way forward
to diplomatic and domestic peace is then to follow Swami Vivekananda’s idea of toleration -
accept the other person in totality and make peace with all. This would be the ideal
commemoration of Universal Brotherhood Day.
True friendship
Friendship is an essential part of everyone’s lives. One cannot do without friends, we must have
some friends to make life easier. However, lucky are those who get true friendship in life. It is not
the same as friendship. True friendship is when the person stays by you through thick and thin.
Through true friendship essay, we will look at what it means and its importance.
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Importance of True Friendship
Friendship has a significant value in our lives. It is responsible for teaching us a lot of unforgettable
lessons. Some are even life-changing so we must cherish friendship. It is not common to find true
friendship in life.
But when you do, make sure to hold on tightly to it. True friendship teaches us how to love others
who are not our family. Ultimately, our friends also become our family. A true friendship makes life
easy and gives us good times.
Thus, when the going gets tough, we depend on our friends for solace. Sometimes, it is not possible
to share everything with family, that is where friends come in. We can share everything with them
without the fear of being judged.
Moreover, true friendship also results in good memories. You spend time with friends and enjoy it
to the fullest, later on, the same moments become beautiful memories. Only a true friendship will
cheer on you and help you do better in life.
Through true friendship, we learn about loyalty and reliability. When you have a true friend by your
side, nothing can stop you. Your confidence enhances and you become happier in life. Thus, it
changes our life for the better and keeps us happy.
It is essential to keep in touch with your friends so they know you are there for them. Most
importantly, we must give our friends the love and respect they deserve. It is essential to treat them
nicely so they never forget their worth.
Further, we must also remain honest with our friends. If you do not offer them all this, your
friendship may begin to fade. Thus, make sure to pour equal shares of love, respect and honesty.
Happiness Vs suffering
Happiness
Happiness is something which we can’t describe in words it can only be felt from someone’s
expression of a smile. Likewise, happiness is a signal or identification of good and prosperous life.
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Happiness is very simple to feel and difficult to describe. Moreover, happiness comes from within
and no one can steal your happiness.
And if money can buy happiness then the rich would be the happiest person on the earth. But, we
see a contrary image of the rich as they are sad, fearful, anxious, stressed, and suffering from
various problems.
In addition, they have money still they lack in social life with their family especially their wives and
this is the main cause of divorce among them.
Also, due to money, they feel insecurity that everyone is after their money so to safeguard their
money and them they hire security. While the condition of the poor is just the opposite. They do not
have money but they are happy with and stress-free from these problems.
In addition, they take care of their wife and children and their divorce rate is also very low.
In addition, true happiness comes from within yourself. Happiness is basically a state of mind.
Moreover, it can only be achieved by being positive and avoiding any negative thought in mind.
And if we look at the bright side of ourselves only then we can be happy.
Happiness in a Relationship
People nowadays are not satisfied with their relationship because of their differences and much
other reason. But for being happy in a relationship we have to understand that there are some rules
or mutual understanding that keeps a relationship healthy and happy.
Firstly, take care of yourself then your partner because if you yourself are not happy then how can
you make your partner happy.
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Secondly, for a happy and healthy relationship give you partner some time and space. In addition,
try to understand their feeling and comfort level because if you don’t understand these things then
you won’t be able to properly understand your partner.
Most importantly, take initiative and plan to go out with your partner and family. Besides, if they
have plans then go with them.
Suffering
Humans can feel abundant amounts of emotions and sensations throughout a lifetime. Many
emotions are considered to be real and occur because they are distinct and prevalent. There are
positive emotions, like happiness and glee, but there are negative emotions, like pain and suffering.
Pain and suffering are feelings that occur by multiple times in a person’s life, but many people feel
that pain and suffering are not real; they think we only feel pain and suffering because there is an
absence of something else. I believe that, because pain and suffering are distinct sensations, they
have to be real and not just the absence of other emotions like happiness. Through multiple real
world situations that can occur in a person’s lifetime, I will
Pain and suffering are strong, negative emotions that a person can feel at a time. Like happiness,
pain and suffering can occur at any time. Pain and suffering are distinct feelings. A person can feel
pain and suffering just like they can feel happiness or laughter. Pain and suffering are both
emotions that are normal for human beings and should be felt during a person’s lifetime. How can
a person argue that pain and suffering are not distinct sensation? Is it possible that a person can not
feel pain, or suffer? If a person were to think about his or her past, is it possible that any person in
the world deny that pain and suffering is not distinct? Many people can state that pain or suffering
is strong and prevalent, and people can remember how bad that pain had been. Whether it is a
physical pain such as getting stabbed or whether it was an emotional pain like a death of a loved
one, the pain is very much distinct. Suffering is especially evident after a death of a loved one.
Some people who have dealt with a loss of a family member or friend suffer through the days after
their loved one had.
To love truth for its own sake means that at some point you give yourself over to the truth. This,
however, is not a consequence, not a matter of cause and effect. It’s not that you give yourself
over to the truth and then the truth reveals itself. It’s not even that you give yourself up to the
truth because you love the truth. Loving the truth is giving oneself up to the truth. To love the
truth for its own sake means that in the very instant of loving the truth, your self-centeredness
has vanished. This is very profound, yet it can be very, very subtle. It means that in the moment
I’m exploring, in the moment I’m investigating, I am in an attitude of giving. I am in a non-self-
centered attitude. All of my consciousness, all of my attention, is sacrificed for the truth. Even
“sacrificed” isn’t correct—it’s more like, “Whatever needs to happen, I am willing to do it.”
Frequently, that doesn’t mean sacrificing anything. It’s more that loving the truth for its own
sake means an implicit readiness to let go, to give up the self. To give up the self means, “I am
willing to not protect myself against the truth. I am willing to not defend or resist.” Most of the
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time, giving ourselves up to the truth means giving up our defenses, manipulations, positions,
and strategies—all the things we use to shore ourselves up or to continue to preserve ourselves.
And because loving the truth arises from a place where we are willing to be selfless, we cannot
try to figure out how to be selfless. The self cannot figure out how to give itself up, because in
the very act of thinking, the self keeps on preserving itself.
If We Really Love the Truth for Its Own Sake We Will Want to Behold the Objective
Truth
Our exploration is not only into the nature of our experience or state, but also into the totality of
who we are, including the nature of the part of us that observes or explores. All of this must
become an object of study and inquiry. This means that to be objective about a situation, we, as
the inquirer, will need to become objective—free from subjective influence. For when we
inquireinto what prevents our understanding from being objective, we find that it is the fact that
we bring our subjectivity to our experience. The truth arises as the truth, but we do not see it as it
is because of our own unclarity, our own positions, prejudices, identifications, limitations,
preferences, and goals—the totality of which we call subjectivity. However, if we really love the
truth for its own sake, we will want to see it as it is, we will want to behold the objective truth.
This will translate into the wish and passion to discern all our subjective positions that are
preventing objective perception. So, for instance, I do not just realize, “I’m feeling angry,” but I
also observe and discern how I feel in response to seeing my anger. Do I have a judgment about
it? Do I believe that it’s okay to be angry or not okay to be angry? What are my opinions and
prejudices about anger? I explore everything I bring into the experience of anger. In other words,
we always need to be aware of our subjective reaction to our experience in order to see how we
interfere with it.
If You Really Love the Truth, then You Will Automatically Want to See All of It
I say loving the truth instead of seeking it, because if you are seeking truth you might seek to
avoid feeling pain. You might seek truth for another purpose, which will then make you not see
the truth. But if you really love truth, then you will automatically want to see all of it, not for any
particular reason but because you like seeing the truth. So loving the truth is not exactly seeking
the truth, even though it might include seeking the truth sometimes. Loving the truth is the
attitude of the heart. The heart falls in love. It falls in love with the truth, with an aspect of
reality. The heart falling in love with the truth is one of the most important realizations, the most
important change, that can happen in a human being. The heart really turning toward the truth is
the most far-reaching realization because if you really love the truth, you’ll realize everything.
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However, if you love one particular state, then you might realize that state and not others. The
truth is not just one thing. The truth is all that there is, whether or not you know it. Loving the
truth does not mean you love the truth because it is going to help you realize everything. That is
an ulterior motive. That is not included in loving the truth. You don’t care if it is going to lead
you to this or that. You just like it. You can’t help it.
Love of Truth May be Hidden Behind Veils of Emotion, Instinct and Identification
One particular identification is especially challenged by the love of the truth: our identification
with being small, deficient, inadequate, incapable, and not up to the task. This belief in our
deficiency can prevent us from opening to the love of truth because this love will expand us in a
way that we are afraid we won’t know how to handle. It seems much easier to stay with the
status quo and its cozy familiarity. If we allow the love of truth to become powerful, we will be
confronted with this identification with inadequacy. The love of truth is a subtle and refined
quality in our consciousness. It tends to be hidden behind many veils of emotion, instinct and
identification. It may not be easy for you to contact this deep movement of the heart. Yet without
the experience of loving truth for its own sake, regardless of the consequences – without the
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willingness to completely open your heart to the fullness of your own truth – you will not have
the energy or the motivation to go beyond your familiar reality.
Loving the Truth That is Happening Every Second is the Natural State
If you love truth for its own sake, the truth will free you. But if you hope the truth will free you,
you cannot be free. You must love the truth for its own sake, without hope. Then there is no
question of freedom/no freedom, no question of Essence/no Essence, no question of
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enlightenment/no enlightenment. It's just love of truth, and that's it. Nothing else is there.
Anything else will bring discord. Accepting what is, understanding what is there, loving the truth
that is happening at every second is the natural state, the state without personality, the state of no
mind, is the state of no division.
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The Animal Soul Doesn't Love the Truth
At some point, we recognize the libidinal soul as one of the main barriers to the love of truth.
Love of truth is a subtle thing; it is the illumination, the radiance, and the melting sweetness of
the heart. The animal soul, however, doesn’t love the truth. Not only that, it doesn’t even
recognize love. This soul is dominated by cravings, by animal desires... We need to deal with
this level of our soul if we are to liberate our heart, for our heart can truly love only when it is
free. The heart exists at the level of the human soul rather than at the level of the animal soul.
And unless the instinctual drives in the animal soul are confronted, they will confine – and
ultimately control – the human soul and heart.
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not less. Thus we use the mind to go beyond the mind’s limitations; we use the capacity of
discrimination to reveal subtler levels of mind. But here, the heart’s innate love for beauty and
truth is a guiding principle: The marriage of heart and mind is a must on this spiritual journey,
for it is the segmentation of our experience that keeps them limited and restricted to conventional
reality. The love of truth allows the mind to open to new possibilities that mental logic alone
cannot reveal or consider entering. And the heart can be clarified of its historical and emotional
content through the mind’s clarity and precision, making available the energy liberated from the
trapped structures of our personal history, so it can nurture and enliven our evolving spiritual
development. This is the hidden tantra within the work of this path.
To Love the Truth for Its Own Sake Means Also to Live According to the Truth
Sincerity is an attitude or a capacity of the heart that orients us toward recognizing the truth and
loving the truth for its own sake. But loving the truth for its own sake does not simply mean
feeling love for the truth. Although that is part of it, feeling love for the truth will not actualize a
real life. To love the truth for its own sake means also to live according to the truth. If we really
love the truth, we gladly live according to the truth regardless of how difficult the situation might
get. We actively choose truth as our priority, not in terms of what we experience but in terms of
what we do. Our love of the truth determines how we interact with people, how we run our life,
how we conduct ourselves, how we maintain our living environment. So doing the work is a
serious matter. It’s not for tourists who want small tastes of everything, who want to learn a little
something here, a little something there, and then go off and get married and have kids and
forget about the work. If that’s what you want, the work will make your life miserable. If you
come to the work because you’re looking for a wife, you’re in the wrong place. If you come to
the work because you want a better job, you’re in for trouble. The work is not contrary to those
things, but it will make our life satisfying only if we value the truth above those things, only if
we value the principles of the work.
We Need to Apply Our Love of Truth to Our Love of Truth and Find Out What it Means
to Us
On deeper levels of realization, as on the boundless levels of Being, where everything is a
manifestation of true nature, loving the truth becomes even more subtle. Here we feel we love
everything, but that doesn’t mean that we love crimes and diseases and so on. We are aware of
the reality that pervades everything and that reality is what we love. At the level of the boundless
dimensions, we do not love an individual form but rather the immaculate nature of the
wholeness. As we go deeper into our journey of discovering truth, we will see the meaning of
truth change. At the beginning, truth is finding out about relative phenomena and space-time
events: our emotions, our feelings, the world, conflicts, and relationships. But that is only one
kind of truth, where the love is not of these elements but of the process of revelation of the truth,
for this revelation is the essential truth penetrating our ordinary experience. In the next stage,
essence becomes the truth. The various essential states are truth, various manifestations of truth.
Here, we love both the process and what we discover. However, it is tricky to love the essence
itself, because this can lead to the reification of essence and to the attachment to experiencing it,
which is antithetical to loving the truth for its own sake. In the following stage, we go beyond
essential aspects to something that is beyond essence and personality, the truth that is the
essential ground, transcendent true nature. As you see, we need to investigate even our love of
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truth. We need to apply the love of truth to our love of truth and find out what it means to us. We
need to find out what love is and what truth is. In the beginning you probably do not know what
truth or love is. Who said love and truth are good? You need to find out for yourself. Truth is one
of the elements of reality that, like a thread, goes all the way through all of the levels of reality
because truth is what is actuality, what is present. If you really want to find out the truth, you can
find out everything. So truth becomes the guide. Truth becomes a light that can guide you
everywhere.
Aware of self-destructive habits
Self-destructive or dysregulated behaviors provide relief or even pleasure in the short-term, but
ultimately get in the way of living a life that feels satisfying and fulfilling. These behaviors can
include alcohol/drug abuse, binge eating, compulsive computer gaming, self-injury, smoking,
chronic avoidance, or a host of other behaviors that feel helpful in the moment but harmful over
time.
People who struggle with dysregulated behaviors can differ dramatically, but tend to share some
common traits. The following description is oversimplified; it might not fully apply to you, but it
provides a general idea:
If you struggle with dysregulated behaviors, you probably were born with a tendency to feel
emotions a little more strongly than other people do. This is not a negative trait. In fact, you are
likely to be more creative and/or empathic.
Unfortunately, you also may have grown up in an adverse or invalidating environment. Adverse
environments may include:
These behaviors can seem so effective in the short term that you might have never learned
adaptive ways to handle negative emotions. In addition, using a dysregulated behavior to turn off
uncomfortable emotions is like putting an air-tight lid on a pot of boiling water:
The emotions are still there, just like the boiling water and steam.
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The behavior provides relief for a short time, but the emotions keep building – just like the
steam and pressure keep building in the covered pot. Eventually you may feel as though you
are almost always under pressure.
If the emotions are never experienced or processed (if none of the steam is released from the
pot), the pressure will keep building until the pot eventually explodes.
The emotions, in other words, will feel especially unbearable.
As a result, you may try even harder not to feel the emotions – possibly by engaging in the
dysregulated behavior (putting the lid back on the pot).
If so, you will feel relief for a short time, but the pressure will almost always start building
again.
... and the cycle will likely repeat, and repeat.
One woman said she knew her drinking led her to feel worse in the long run, so she vowed never
to drink again. The next evening, she felt bored and a little anxious, and she realized she had
strong cravings for alcohol. She tried her hardest to get through the night without drinking, but
she eventually felt like it was impossible to resist the cravings. So she drank, despite knowing
she’d regret it later.
That feeling of lack of control can seem depressing, scary, and hopeless. It may also lead you to
decide that something about you is inherently wrong.
However, if you only know one primary method of reliably stopping pain or discomfort, it makes
sense that you will have strong urges to engage in that behavior when experiencing pain or
discomfort (or cravings, which can feel painful and uncomfortable). It also makes sense that you
will have extreme difficulty stopping the behavior.
Upcoming posts will provide further research-consistent explanations about why you may find
certain behaviors to seem impossible to resist, and discuss methods that can help you overcome
these behaviors and move toward a life that feels more fulfilling. None of these methods are
quick-fixes. Moving past dysregulated behaviors is often extremely difficult and painful.
However, methods exist that can improve the odds.
Until then, please remember that struggling with self-destructive or dysregulated behavior
does not mean you are weak or selfish, or that something about you is inherently wrong.
We use the words association and institution very commonly in our daily talks.
Sometimes, these words are used interchangeably to mean one and the same. But these words are
used in a specific way in sociology. Hence it is necessary for us to know the meaning and nature
of and difference between these two terms.
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Association as a Means of Pursuing Ends:
Men have diverse needs, desires and interests and ends which demand their satisfaction. They
have three ways of fulfilling their ends. Firstly, they may act independently, each in his own way
without bothering about others. This is unsocial and has its own limitations. Secondly, men may
seek their ends through conflicts with one another.
One may clash with another or others to snatch things or objects which one wants from others.
Finally, men may try to fulfill their ends through co-operation and mutual assistance. On the
basis of this co-operative effort each individual will be contributing to the ends of his fellow-
men.
Definition:
(1) An association is “an organisation deliberately formed for the collective pursuit of some
interest, or a set of interests, which its members share”.
(2) An association is “a group of social beings related to one another by the fact that they possess
or have instituted in common an organisation with a view to securing a specific end or specific
ends”.
(3) An association is a group of people organised for the achievement of a particular interest or
interests.
(4) An association is “a group organised for the pursuit of an interest or group to interests in
common”.
Men have several interests. Hence they establish different associations to fulfill them. They have
a number of associations of different kinds. Some examples may be cited here.
Examples:
(1) Political Associations. The Bharatiya Janata Party, The Congress Party, The Communist
Party, The Bharatiya Janata Yuva Morcha, etc.
(2) Religious Associations’. The Vishwa Hindu Parishad, The Ramakrishan Mission, The Arya
Samaj, The Society of Jesus, etc.
(3) Students’ Associations : The Akhil Bharatiya Vidyarthi Parishad, Delhi University Students’
Association, The National Students Union of India, Chhatra Yuva-Sangharsh Vahini, etc.
(4) Labourers’ Associations: Bharatiya Mazdoor Sangha, The Hind Mazdoor Panchayat, Indian
National Trade Union Congress, All India Trade Union Congress, etc.
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(5) Professional Associations: Karnataka State College Teachers’ Association, Indian Medical
Association, The Indian Bar Council.
(7) International Associations: The Rotary Club. The Lions’ Club. The Y.M.C.A., Y.W.C.A.,
The Amnesty International, Friends of India Society.
The Associations may be found in different fields. No single association can satisfy all the
interests of the individual or individuals. Since man has a bundle of interests, he organises
various associations for the purpose of fulfilling his varied interests.
It follows then that a man may belong to more than one association. He may be member of a
political association, religious association, a professional association, a cultural association, an
entertainment club, a sports club, a rotary club,. And so on.
(iv) Organisation:
Association denotes some kind of organisation. An association is known essentially as an
organised group. Organisation gives stability and proper shape to an association. Organisation
refers to the way in which the statuses and roles are distributed among the members.
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Associations are means or agencies through which their members seek to realise their similar or
shared interests. Such social organisations necessarily act not merely through leaders, but
through officials or representatives, as agencies. Associations normally act through agents who
are responsible for and to the association. This fact gives association a distinctive character and
its peculiar legal status. Further, association may have its own methods of operation peculiar to it
as an association.
It is clear from the above, that an association is not merely a group, it is something more than
that. It is a group expressly organised around a particular interest. The qualification “expressly
organised”, helps us to distinguish between associations and other social groups. Social groups
like class, crowd, mob, public, etc., in this way, are not associations.
In modern society, the number of associations is on the increase. Not only their numbers is
increasing, but their varieties are also increasing. In almost all the fields of our social life we
have associations. The rapid changes that are taking place in different fields of our social life
have necessitated the birth of a large number of associations.
In modern democratic countries associations have a distinct role to play. Their role in
strengthening the democratic set-up can hardly be exaggerated. The modern age today, is really
an age of organisations or associations. Man’s life is, today, to a very great extent, lived and
controlled by the larger association (The state).
Co-operation is one of the most fundamental and associative process of social life. No society
can exist without this. It is the root of human life. The term cooperation is the product of two
Latin words i.e. ‘C o’meaning ‘together’ and ‘operari’ meaning ‘To work’ Hence co-operation
means ‘.joint work’ of working together . In other words, co-operation literary means working
together for the achievement of common goal or goals.
“Co-operation” says A.W. Green is the continuous and common endeavor of two or more
persons to perform of a task or to reach a goal that is commonly cherished”. Fair Child writes,
“Co-operation is the process by which individuals or groups combine their effort, in a more or
less organised way for the attainment of common objective”. Herrill and Eldredge says, ” co-
operation is a form of social interaction wherein two or more persons work together to gain a
common end”.
Thus, co-operation is a process of social interaction which takes place between two or more
individuals or groups for the achievement of common cherished goal or goals. Co- operation
involves reciprocity, common goal, awareness about the consequences of co-operation, the spirit
of working together, sharing the result and the required efficiency and skill. C.H Cooley also
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enlisted some elements of co-operation. They are common goal, rationality, self control and the
capacity to organise etc. Thus, the main characteristics of co-operation are as follows:
3. It is a personal process in which the parties personally meet and work together.
4. It is a continuous process.
5. It is a universal process.
6. It has mainly two elements i.e. common end and organised efforts.
Types of Co-operation:
Different sociologists have classified co-operation into various types MacIver has classified in to
two types i.e. direct and indirect co-operation. [Link] has classified in into three types: They
are (I) Primary; (ii) Secondary and (iii) Tertiary co-operation. Some other sociologist classified
co-operation by taking into account the nature and size of the cooperating groups, forms of
relationship involved in the co-operation and the system of regulating behaviors etc. Thus taking
into account the above considerations, co-operation can be classified into the following types:
Direct Co-operation: It is just opposite of direct co-operation. Here, the people do different
work towards a common goal. In other words, the objective is common but every individual
performs a specialised and differentiated function to achieve the end. This type of co-operation is
prominent in modern city and industrial society, more particularly in large organisations where
there is lack of personal tie or intimacy. This sort of co-operation is also seen in the organistion
where the behaviors of the individuals are regulated by customs, tradition, and moored folk-ways
or by law.
2. Indirect Co-operation:
It is that type of co-operation in which people directly co-operate with each other by doing a
similar cavity to achieve common goal or goals. This type of co-operation is either due to the
intimacy or closeness or due to small group tie because the face to face situation is itself a
stimulus to the performance of the work. The contribution of the family members towards
bringing up and rearing of children, house building, playing together, worshipping together,
tilling the field together etc. are the examples of direct co-operation.
3. Primary Co-operation:
It is that type of co-operation in which there is no selfish interest and there is an identity of ends
between those who co-operate. Blood relation, mutual obligation are the bases of primary co-
operation. This type of co-operation is generally found in primary and small groups like the
family, neighborhood and small communities. In the family and within the kin groups sharing
each other’s happiness and sorrows.
4. Secondary Co-Operation:
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It is that type of co-operation in which individuals co-operate with each other for the
achievement of their selfish interest. That is why this type of co-operation. Is very much present
in secondary groups. It is also found among the members of large economic, political and
religious [Link] these organisations although the people are not fully known to each
other still they co-operate each other. This type of co-operation is seen in trade Union, in
industry and in government.
6. Directed Co-operation:
This type of co-operation is found in such organisations where the co-operation is demanded and
the individual has to co-operate under the framework of written or oral laws. The modern
bureaucratic co-operation is the best example of directed co-operation.
7. Un-directed Co-operation:
This type of Co-operation is automatic, spontaneous unplanned or un directive by nature rather
the manifestation of human nature. Various types of help we render in our day-to-day-life,
helping a blind to cross the road, helping the driver by pushing a motor car out of the mud etc.
are the examples of un-directed co-operation.
ROLE OF CO-OPERATION
As an associative social process, co-operation plays significant role in the social life. Kropotkin
termed co-operation as mutual aid and viewed that human life is difficult to survive without co-
operation.
History has witnessed the value of co-operation. Egyptian’s pyramids the Great Wall of China,
the Taj Mahal and other such site signifies the end result of co-operation. In modern society,
progress in the field of science and technology, art and literature, agriculture and industry,
transportation and communication, trade and commerce etc. would not have been possible in the
absence of co-operation.
Human being cannot able to lead a happy and comfortable life without co-operation. What to
speak of human being, co-operation is exhibited by some animals like ant, monkeys, tiger,
elephants etc. Hence co-operation is the foundation to the living animals and so also to human
society. Society exists because of co-operation. It is both a psychological and social necessity for
human beings; they cannot lead a solitary life.
Social unity and integration depends upon co-operation. It is the co-operation which mitigates
the mutual differences, mental conflicts and inspires people to render possible help to maintain
solidarity.
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In the family co-operation is indispensable. Without co-operation between husband and wife,
happy conjugal life will be a dream. Procreation, up-bringing, protection to newly born child will
be impossible. This signifies the role of co-operation to family life.
In the field of production & distribution of goods and services, everybody realises the value of
co-operation. In modern times, even to produce the smallest article like (pin) we require the co-
operation of a series of workers.
Co-operation is needed to the human being for the satisfaction of his innumerable wants both
existed and derived. Further, co-operation is the urgent need of the modern world. Its utility is
felt both by the small groups and communities. It has contributed a lot to sort out the ways and
means to settle international problems and disputes. Without it the world might not existed at
least peacefully. Hence, co-operation is essential in every sphere of individual and social life.
Nature has provided us numerous gifts such as air, water, land, sunlight, minerals, plants, and
animals. All these gifts of nature make our earth a place worth living. Existence on Earth would not
be possible without any of these. Now, while these natural resources are present on Earth in plenty.
Unfortunately, the necessity of most of these has increased extremely over the centuries due to
growth in the human population.
Thus, it is essential to conserve these resources in order to retain the environment integral. Here is a
look at the types of natural resources existing on Earth and the ways to conserve these:
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Types of Natural Resources:
Renewable Resources: These are resources such as air, water, and sunlight that refill naturally.
Non-Renewable Resources: These are resources like fossil fuels and minerals that do not
restock reform very slowly.
Biotic: These originate from living beings and organic material like plants and animals.
Abiotic: These come from non-living things and non-organic material. These comprise air,
water, and land as well as metals like iron, copper, and silver.
Natural resources are also categories such as actual resources, reserve resources, stock resources and
potential resources based on their development stage.
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Spread Awareness
Spreading awareness about the conservation of nature is always a necessary step. It can be achieved
only when more and more people understand its importance and the ways in which they can help.
Besides this, it is essential to plant more and more tress. It is necessary to contribute towards
lowering air pollution. We must use shared
Nature comprises of everything that surrounds us. The trees, forests, rivers, rivulets, soil, air all are
the part of nature. Keeping nature and its resources integral. So, it is very important for the
continuation of life on earth. It would be difficult to imagine life on earth, which has a spoiled
natural environment.
Therefore, taking appropriate steps to conserve nature in its untouched form. It must be a priority for
the human race. Only human beings with their power and ability can save nature in its purest forms.
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UNIT-IV
Character and Competence
Monotheistic Religion
Monotheistic religions believe in the existence of one God. Some of the monotheistic religions are:
Islam: The people who follow are Muslims. Moreover, Islam means to ‘ surrender’ and the people
who follow this religion surrender themselves to ‘Allah’.
Furthermore, the holy book of Islam is ‘ QURAN’, Muslims believe that Allah revealed this book to
Muhammad. Muhammad was the last prophet. Above all, Islam has the second most popular
religion in the entire world. The most important festivals in this religion are Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-
Adha.
Christianity: Christian also believes in the existence of only one God. Moreover, the Christians
believe that God sent his only Jesus Christ for our Salvation. The Holy book of Christians is
the Bible.
Furthermore, the bible is subdivided into the Old Testament and the New Testament. Most
Importantly, Jesus Christ died on the cross to free us from our sins. The people celebrate Easter on
the third day. Because Jesus Christ resurrected on the third day of his death.
However, the celebration of Christmas signifies the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. Above all
Christianity has the most following in the entire world.
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Judaism: Judaism also believes in the existence of one God. Who revealed himself to Abraham,
Moses and the Hebrew prophets. Furthermore, Abraham is the father of the Jewish Faith. Most
Noteworthy the holy book of the Jewish people is Torah.
Above all, some of the festivals that Jewish celebrate are Passover, Rosh Hashanah – Jewish New
Year, Yom Kippur – the Day of Atonement, Hanukkah, etc.
Polytheistic Religion
Polytheistic religions are those that believe in the worship of many gods. One of the most believed
polytheistic religion is:
Hinduism: Hinduism has the most popularity in India and South-east Asian sub-continent.
Moreover, Hindus believe that our rewards in the present life are the result of our deeds in previous
lives. This signifies their belief in Karma. Above all the holy book of Hindus is ‘Geeta’. Also,
Hindus celebrate many festivals. Some of the important ones are Holi-The festival of colors and
Diwali- the festival of lights.
Buddhism: Buddhism religion followers do not believe in the existence of God. However, that does
not mean that they are an atheist. Moreover, Buddhism believes that God is not at all the one who
controls the masses. Also, Buddhism is much different from many other religions. Above all,
Gautam Buddha founded Buddhism.
Blind faith
Faith and belief is a way of considering or believing in anyone. Mostly faith word is used
for God or any unseen power or any spiritual person. Since its origin of this earth, human used to
follow the faith system or God or any blind faith.
People have different faith in different power from time to time. Faith depends upon their belief
and understanding. Faith always plays a crucial role in our day-to-day life.
What is Faith?
This word “faith” can be explained in many ways. The meaning of faith is different according to
the uses of the word. In a simple concept, we know faith as confidence or belief, which can be on
anyone or anything.
Is most of the cases it faith refers to a religious system in the world. In old times and current
time, belief and faith are common, and people have faith in God, and some do not have faith in
God.
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Types of Faith
Nowadays, there are various types of faith and belief in the world. Many religions and non-
religious people also have faith and trust in someone. The trust and faith is an idea of believing
to anyone without seeing that.
1. Blind Faith
The term of blind faith used when someone believes with no reason and evidence and any logic.
There are some reasons on the side but not having any base of that. This is a traditional faith
which people follow.
For example, if someone says that this doctor is right, then others will believe in their statement
without checking and with no reason. Mostly in blind faith, it happens, and people follow
blindly.
We observe this blind faith in the religious field. If any spiritual leader explains anything to their
follower with no philosophy and reason, their followers will trust and trusts him blindly. If
anybody raises the cross-question against him, they become an enemy of that person. So it is
called that blind faith is perilous.
In Indian reference this is common. We usually see that a person killed someone or his kids as a
sacrifice before the idol goddess on the advice of any priest. This is because he has faith in that
person blindly. Here, they not used their mind and logic.
2. Religious Faith
We relate this faith and belief to any religion. In this faith, people of a particular religion have
faith in their system of religion and its natural or supernatural power. This is a spiritual belief of
this faith. There is a unique type of religion in the world. Followers of this religion follow their
system and believe in God and its power.
In religious belief, people follow the rules because they have faith. For example, Christians wear
the cross symbol mostly because of having faith in it. In Islam, also people use a cap or cover his
head during the prayer and having a beard. Women used to wear a unique dress to cover the
complete body as they believe in the ruling of a religious system.
The population of having faith in religion in the world is increasing fast. In this futuristic time,
you’ll find a vast number of people who follow Christianity and Islam in the world. In religious
faith and belief, people of that religion accept the spiritual and supernatural power. They believe
in the holy books of those religions.
Benefits of faith
Faith, whether it is religious faith or blind faith, it has some common positive characteristics
which provide the right thing and guidance to the followers.
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1. Increase Unity
If some people or group of people having faith in anything, then their unity increases. They
collect at a place on a particular time for any meeting, spiritual conference and teaching classes.
They discuss together and solve the issues related to their belief and their group or community.
So we can see it that unity increases the unity between the people.
2. Increase Hope
Hope increases the hope is the key to faith. If faith has its existence, then the hope exists there.
Without hope, faith is not valid and meaningless. Followers or believers accept the rules and
religious cultures because they see the glimpse of hope it.
Hope is there in many faiths. In blind also people keep their promise. In religious, also people
have great faith for their wishes and betterment of the world and humanity.
Importance of faith
Faith is essential in life. Nobody can ignore faith. People have faith, and trust in any object,
people, natural or supernatural powers, religion. Faith and belief are a natural and God gifted
quality and requirement of the human.
Faith is essential for life. The human came in the world and living here for any definite purpose,
and they have the faith they by doing this, they can go ahead. They always keep a hope of faith
that this thing will help him or will support him.
Faith is essential for development. Faith is a pillar of growth. If people have faith in any system,
they follow the policy of that object conscientiously to fulfill the purpose of that task. Suppose if
anybody has the principle that by listening to any poem or verses of any teaching of any religion,
then he will seriously with great hope.
People in religious faith follow the rules of their religion because of faith. But some people or
group of people change the system and rule in the manner as per their wish. Faith is always
giving hope and confidence, whether it is blind faith or religious faith.
Self-management skills boost your productivity and performance at work, which helps in
achieving professional goals. It is a soft skill that increases your employability and gives you
more control over your career path. These skills are essential to showcase that you will be a
reliable employee.
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Self-management skills allow people to control and regulate their emotions, thoughts and
behaviour effectively in different situations. Employees with strong self-management skills can
set independent goals and do everything possible to achieve them. Such employees know the
importance of controlling emotions and behaviour at the workplace.
Employers prefer candidates with strong self-management skills because when someone finds it
difficult to control their thoughts and emotions, they might end up snapping at a customer or
saying hurtful things to their colleagues. People with self-management skills are better at
managing their behaviour, which leads to smarter workplace actions.
Self-Management Skills
Developing these skills not only helps you speed up your career graph, but they are helpful
throughout your life. Here are a few reasons why you should master these skills:
Help you set goals and prioritise things to achieve the best possible results at the
workplace
Here are 6 examples of self-management skills you should master for achieving success at the
workplace:
1. Stress management
Stress not only shows in your physical appearance but adversely affects the way you function at
your workplace. With stress hampering logical thinking and rational decision-making, it is
essential to manage workplace stress proactively. Often, employees under stress are incapable of
achieving their goals because they constantly worry about things. This reduces productivity and
affects mental health. Coping up with stress helps you self-manage your emotions. For de-
stressing, follow these simple tactics:
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2. Time management
Everyone has the same 24-hours. The way you manage your day-to-day activities decides your
ability to meet deadlines. With strong time management skills, you prioritise tasks, maintain
focus, work in an organised manner and avoid potential distractions. Always remember that your
time belongs to you; make the best use of it. For effective time management, follow these simple
tactics:
Prioritise tasks
Delegate responsibilities
Reduce the use of your phone and social media at the workplace
3. Organisational skills
Organisational skills help create a structure, boost productivity and help prioritise tasks requiring
immediate completion against those you can postpone. Maintaining organisational skills at the
workplace ensures you do not develop poor work habits like clutter, inefficiency and
miscommunication. From planning a project to keeping your workstation free from piles of
documents, organisational skills help you achieve workplace responsibilities. For exceptional
organisational skills, follow these simple tactics:
Create a to-do-list
Set up calendar reminders for deadlines
Set a routine and stick to it
Ensure your computer and workstation are free from clutter
Plan your time
4. Self-motivation
Self-motivation is the ability to encourage yourself to achieve a goal, even when it feels
challenging. Once you achieve the goal, it gives a sense of satisfaction and pride. It helps to
develop the determination to complete various tasks and achieve goals in the workplace. External
factors do not affect self-motivated employees as they are driven by their desire to excel. Self-
motivation at the workplace results in promotions, builds trusting relationships with colleagues
and increases chances of working on projects of your choice. To self-motivate yourself, follow
these simple tactics:
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Set goals and build a plan
Develop a reward system for yourself
Challenge yourself to learn new things
Think positively
Surround yourself with motivated and high-spirited people
Come out of your comfort zone
5. Accountability
Accountability is about employees taking ownership of their thoughts, actions and behaviour.
Mastering this skill ensures you do not blame others for mistakes you commit in your work. It
empowers you to trust yourself. Accountability in the workplace is about building trust and
staying committed to doing the right things to achieve a common business goal. Employees with
this skill set are more committed to their work, are high on morale and deliver exceptional
results.
6. Adaptability
Adaptability means learning new skills, policies, procedures and behaviours in response to
changing work environments. The more you can adapt to changing circumstances, the better
employee you will be. Adaptability also drives productivity and showcases your ability to be
resourceful. Adaptable employees are flexible and effectively respond to their work conditions
even when things do not go as planned. Moreover, adaptability is a critical leadership skill and
mastering it would make you better equipped to face challenges.
Good health
Health was earlier said to be the ability of the body functioning well. However, as time evolved, the
definition of health also evolved. It cannot be stressed enough that health is the primary thing after
which everything else follows. When you maintain good health, everything else falls into place.
Similarly, maintaining good health is dependent on a lot of factors. It ranges from the air you
breathe to the type of people you choose to spend your time with. Health has a lot of components
that carry equal importance. If even one of them is missing, a person cannot be completely healthy.
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Secondly, you must exercise daily. It may be for ten minutes only but never miss it. It will help your
body maintain physical fitness. Moreover, do not consume junk food all the time. Do not smoke or
drink as it has serious harmful consequences. Lastly, try to take adequate sleep regularly instead of
using your phone.
Next, we talk about our mental health. Mental health refers to the psychological and emotional well-
being of a person. The mental health of a person impacts their feelings and way of handling
situations. We must maintain our mental health by being positive and meditating.
Subsequently, social health and cognitive health are equally important for the overall well-being of
a person. A person can maintain their social health when they effectively communicate well with
others. Moreover, when a person us friendly and attends social gatherings, he will definitely have
good social health. Similarly, our cognitive health refers to performing mental processes effectively.
To do that well, one must always eat healthily and play brain games like Chess, puzzles and more to
sharpen the brain.
Parents always take care of their children’s physical needs. They feed them with nutritious foods
and always dress up their wounds immediately. However, they fail to notice the deteriorating mental
health of their child. Mostly so, because they do not give it that much importance. It is due to a lack
of awareness amongst [Link] amongst adults, you never know what a person is going through
mentally.
Thus, we need to be able to recognize the signs of mental illnesses. A laughing person does not
equal a happy person. We must not consider mental illnesses as a taboo and give it the attention it
deserves to save people’s lives.
Science of reincarnation
One of the mysteries puzzling human mind since the origin of mankind is the concept of
“reincarnation.” It is derived from Latin and literally means “to take on the flesh again,” in other
words, “to take on the fleshy (physical) body.” Discussion of the subject appears in the
philosophical traditions of India and Greece from about the 6th century BC. What exactly is
reincarnation? It simply means that we leave one life and go into another; it is all for the sole
purpose of soul development and spiritual growth. The soul may take the form of human, animal,
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or plant depending on the moral quality of the previous life's actions. This doctrine is a central
tenet of the Indian and Greek religions. However, reincarnation implies that the person remains
essentially the same, while occupying a new body. Reincarnation is also known by other terms
like “rebirth,” “metempsychosis” (Greek word), “transmigration” (English equivalent of
metempsychosis), “disambiguation,” “palingenesis” and so on.
HINDUISM
Reincarnation is the religious or philosophical belief that the soul or spirit, after biological death,
begins a new life in a new body that may be human, animal or spiritual depending on the moral
quality of the previous life's actions. The entire universal process, that gives rise to the cycle of
death and rebirth, governed by karma, is referred to as “Samsara.” “Karma” is action, which may
be good or bad. Based on the type of karma one does, he chooses his subsequent birth. For
example, if one has done lot of divine service and has a desire to do more service at the time of
death, his soul chooses a family that is supportive for his desire, for rebirth. According to
Hinduism, even Devas (Gods) may also die and be born again. But here the term “reincarnation”
is not strictly applicable. Lord Vishnu is known for his 10 incarnations – “Dasavataras.”
In Hinduism, in the holy book Rigveda, the oldest extant Indo-Aryan text, numerous references
are made to rebirths. One verse says:
“Burn him not up, nor quite consume him, Agni: Let not his body or his skin be scattered. O
Jatavedas, when thou hast matured him, then send him on his way unto the Fathers… let thy
fierce flame, thy glowing splendour, burn him With thine auspicious forms, O Jatavedas, bear
this man to the region of the pious. Again, O Agni, to the Fathers send him who, offered in thee,
goes with our oblations. Wearing new life let him increase his offspring: Let him rejoin a body,
Jatavedas.”
The Bhagavad Gita states: “Never was there a time when I did not exist, nor you, nor all these
kings; nor in the future shall any of us cease to be. As the embodied soul continuously passes, in
this body, from childhood to youth to old age, the soul similarly passes into another body at
death. A sober person is not bewildered by such a change;” and “Worn-out garments are shed by
the body; Worn-out bodies are shed by the dweller within the body. New bodies are donned by
the dweller, like garments.”
According to the Hindu sage Adi Shankaracharya, the world-as we ordinarily understand it-is
like a dream: Fleeting and illusory. To be trapped in samsara (the cycle of birth and death) is a
result of ignorance of the true nature of our existence. It is ignorance (avidya) of one's true self
that leads to ego-consciousness, grounding one in desire and a perpetual chain of reincarnation.
The idea is intricately linked to action (karma), a concept first recorded in the Upanishads. Every
action has a reaction and the force determines one's next incarnation. One is reborn through
desire: A person desires to be born because he or she wants to enjoy a body, which can never
bring deep, lasting happiness or peace (ānanda). After many births every person becomes
dissatisfied and begins to seek higher forms of happiness through spiritual experience. When,
after spiritual practice (sādhanā), a person realizes that the true “self” is the immortal soul rather
than the body or the ego all desires for the pleasures of the world will vanish since they will
seem insipid compared to spiritual ānanda. When all desire has vanished the person will not be
born again. When the cycle of rebirth thus comes to an end, a person is said to have attained
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liberation (moksha). All schools agree this implies the cessation of worldly desires and freedom
from the cycle of birth and death, though the exact definition differs. Followers of the Advaita
Vedanta school believe they will spend eternity absorbed in the perfect peace and happiness of
the realization that all existence is one Brahman of which the soul is part. Dvaita schools perform
worship with the goal of spending eternity in a spiritual world or heaven (loka) in the blessed
company of the Supreme Being.
JAINISM
Jainism is historically connected with the sramana tradition with which the earliest mentions of
reincarnation are associated. In Jainism, the soul and matter are considered eternal, uncreated and
perpetual. There is a constant interplay between the two, resulting in bewildering cosmic
manifestations in material, psychic and emotional spheres around us. This led to the theories of
transmigration and rebirth. Changes but not total annihilation of spirit and matter is the basic
postulate of Jain philosophy. The life as we know now, after death therefore moves on to another
form of life based on the merits and demerits it accumulated in its current life. The path to
becoming a supreme soul is to practice non-violence and be truthful.
Karma forms a central and fundamental part of Jain faith, being intricately connected to other of
its philosophical concepts like transmigration, reincarnation, liberation, non-violence (ahimsā),
and non-attachment, among others. Actions are seen to have consequences: Some immediate,
some delayed, even into future incarnations. So the doctrine of karma is not considered simply in
relation to one life-time, but also in relation to both future incarnations and past lives. “Karma is
the root of birth and death. The souls bound by karma go round and round in the cycle of
existence.” Whatever suffering or pleasure that a soul may be experiencing in its present life is
on account of choices that it has made in the past. As a result of this doctrine, Jainism attributes
supreme importance to pure thinking and moral behavior.
The Jain texts postulate four gatis, that is states-of-existence or birth-categories, within which the
soul transmigrates. The four gatis are: Deva (demi-gods), manussya (humans), nāraki (hell
beings), and tiryañca (animals, plants, and micro-organisms). The four gatis have four
corresponding realms or habitation levels in the vertically tiered Jain universe: Demi-gods
occupy the higher levels where the heavens are situated; humans, plants and animals occupy the
middle levels; and hellish beings occupy the lower-levels, where seven hells are situated.
Depending on its karma, a soul transmigrates and reincarnates within the scope of this
cosmology of destinies. The four main destinies are further divided into sub-categories and still
smaller sub-categories. In all, Jain texts speak of a cycle of 8.4 million birth destinies in which
souls find themselves again and again as they cycle within samsara.
In Jainism, God has no role to play in an individual's destiny; one's personal destiny is not seen
as a consequence of any system of reward or punishment, but rather as a result of its own
personal karma. Violent deeds, killing of creatures having five sense organs, eating fish, and so
on, lead to rebirth in hell. Deception, fraud and falsehood leads to rebirth in the animal and
vegetable world. Kindness, compassion and humble character result in human birth; while
austerities and the making and keeping of vows lead to rebirth in heaven. Each soul is thus
responsible for its own predicament, as well as its own salvation.[14]
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BUDDHISM
The Buddhist concept of reincarnation differs from others in that there is no eternal “soul,”
“spirit” or “self” but only a “stream of consciousness” that links life with life. The actual process
of change from one life to the next is called punarbhava (Sanskrit) or punabbhava (Pāli), literally
“becoming again,” or more briefly bhava, “becoming.” The early Buddhist texts discuss
techniques for recalling previous births, predicated on the development of high levels of
meditative concentration. Buddha reportedly warned that this experience can be misleading and
should be interpreted with care. He taught a distinct concept of rebirth constrained by the
concepts of anattā, that there is no irreducible atman or “self” tying these lives together, which
serves as a contrast to Hinduism, where everything is connected, and in a sense, “everything is
everything.”
In Buddhist doctrine the evolving consciousness (Pali: samvattanika-viññana) or stream of
consciousness (Pali: viññana-sotam), upon death (or “the dissolution of the aggregates”)
becomes one of the contributing causes for the arising of a new aggregation. At the death of one
personality, a new one comes into being, much as the flame of a dying candle can serve to light
the flame of another. The consciousness in the new person is neither identical to nor entirely
different from that in the deceased but the two form a causal continuum or stream.
Transmigration is the effect of karma (Pali: kamma) or volitional action. The basic cause is the
abiding of consciousness in ignorance (Pali: Avijja, Sanskrit: Avidya): When ignorance is
uprooted rebirth ceases.
Vipassana meditation uses “bare attention” to mind-states without interfering, owning or
judging. Observation reveals each moment as an experience of an individual mind-state such as a
thought, a memory, a feeling or a perception that arises, exists, and ceases. This limits the power
of desire, which, according to the second noble truth of Buddhism, is the cause of suffering
(dukkha), and leads to Nirvana (nibbana, vanishing [of the self-idea]) in which self-oriented
models are transcended and “the world stops.” Thus consciousness is a continuous birth and
death of mind-states: Rebirth is the persistence of this process.
SIKHISM
Sikhism preaches the path of “Bhakti” to achieve salvation. Sikhs believe that the soul is passed
from one body to another until liberation. If we perform good deeds and actions and remember
the creator, we attain a better life while, if we carry out evil actions and sinful deeds, we will be
incarnated in “lower” life forms. God may pardon wrongs and release us. Otherwise
reincarnation is due to the law of cause and effect but does not create any caste or differences
among people.
ISLAM
Reincarnation is refuted by all the main monotheistic religions of the world. The reason for this
is that it is against their basic teachings of a finite life for the human upon which he/she is judged
and rewarded accordingly. If the human is to go through numerous life on which life is he/she to
be judged? The first life? The last life? Considering this, Quran rejects the concept of
reincarnation, though it preaches the existence of soul. The principle belief in Islam is that there
is only one birth on this earth. The Doomsday comes after death and will be judged as to one has
to once for all go to hell or be unified with God. However, the idea of reincarnation is accepted
by a few Muslim sects, particularly of the Shia sect (Ghulat), and by other sects in the Muslim
world such as Druzes. Ghulat Shia Muslim sect regards its founders as in some special sense
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divine incarnations (hulul). Historically, South Asian Isma’ilis performed chantas yearly, one of
which is for sins committed in past lives. Further, Sinan ibn Salman ibn Muhammad, also known
as Rashid al-Din Sinan, (r. 1162-92) subscribed to the transmigration of souls as a tenet of the
Alawi, who are thought to have been influenced by Isma’ilism. Modern Sufis who embrace the
idea of reincarnation include Bawa Muhaiyadeen.
JUDAISM
Reincarnation is not an essential tenet of traditional Judaism. It is not mentioned in the Tanakh
(“Hebrew Bible”), the classical rabbinical works (Mishnah and Talmud), or Maimonides’ 13
principles of Faith, though the tale of the Ten Martyrs in the Yom Kippur liturgy, who were
killed by Romans to atone for the souls of the 10 brothers of Joseph, is read in Ashkenazi
Orthodox Jewish communities. Medieval Jewish Rationalist philosophers discussed the issue,
often in rejection. However, Jewish mystical texts (the Kabbalah), from their classic Medieval
canon onwards, teach a belief in Gilgul Neshamot (Hebrew for metempsychosis of souls:
Literally “soul cycle”). Other, Non-Hasidic, Orthodox Jewish groups while not placing a heavy
emphasis on reincarnation do acknowledge it as a valid teaching. The 16th-century Isaac Luria
(the Ari) brought the issue to the center of his new mystical articulation, for the first time, and
advocated identification of the reincarnations of historic Jewish figures that were compiled by
Haim Vital in his Shaar HaGilgulim.
CHRISTIANITY
The major Christian denominations reject the concept of reincarnation. Christians believe that
when a person dies their soul would sleep in the grave along with their corpse. This soul sleep
continues until a time in the future known as the “last day” or also known as the “final
judgment.” But there is evidence in Bible of Jesus himself teaching reincarnation. However,
there was a schism about understanding Jesus himself in early Christian history. Was he a man
who became God? Was he God born as a man? The struggle was between the Church established
by Paul in Rome and the remnants of the Jerusalem Church who fled to Egypt after Rome
invaded Israel in 70 AD. The Roman faction rejected pre-existence and reincarnation and
believed Jesus was God become man. The Jerusalem faction knew Jesus was a man who
achieved the human-divine at-one-ment, which is the goal of everyone to escape reincarnation
cycle of birth and death and have eternal life. However, Rome won the political battle and the
orthodox definition of resurrection was reduced to an end-of-time “Night of the Living Dead.”
However, the Christian sects such as the Bogomils and the Cathars, who professed reincarnation
and other gnostic beliefs, were referred to as “Manichean,” and are today sometimes described
by scholars as “Neo-Manichean.” Recent studies have indicated that some Westerners accept the
idea of reincarnation including certain contemporary Christians, modern Neopagans, followers of
Spiritism, Theosophists, and students of esoteric philosophies such as Kabbalah. The belief in
reincarnation is particularly high in the Baltic countries, with Lithuania having the highest figure
for the whole of Europe, 44%. In a survey by the Pew Forum in 2009, 24% of American
Christians expressed a belief in reincarnation. Geddes MacGregor, an Episcopalian priest who is
Emeritus Distinguished Professor of Philosophy at the University of Southern California, Fellow
of the Royal Society of Literature, a recipient of the California Literature Award (Gold Medal,
non-fiction category), and the first holder of the Rufus Jones Chair in Philosophy and Religion at
Bryn Mawr, demonstrates in his book Reincarnation in Christianity: A New Vision of the Role
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of Rebirth in Christian Thought, that Christian doctrine and reincarnation are not mutually
exclusive belief systems.
All spiritual schools accept the concept of reincarnation. They admit, with some differences, that
the purpose of reincarnation is for the soul to get purified and gain wisdom, so that it comes out
of the cycle of birth and death. The only spiritual guru who has given a different explanation for
reincarnation is “Osho”. Osho, also known as Bhagvan Rajaneesh, says that the life is born when
the existence looks upon itself. An individual is a consciousness localized in a body. The mind of
an individual exists as a set of memories, both good and bad. Of course more of bad memories
than good, as we always tend to remember the insults and criticisms more than praises. Memory
is nothing but energy in a very subtle form. Being energy, it cannot be destroyed even at death. It
is liberated into the cosmos and dissolved. Just like riches attract more riches, such memories are
pooled up, only to enter another womb. Thus when a person is born, he gets the bits of memories
from many people. So he cannot remember his past birth. Nevertheless, in exceptional cases,
when a new born gets the entire memory system of another individual, he can easily recall his
past birth, though it is not actually his birth. So in true sense, the person is not born again, only
his memories are expressed in another individual. An enlightened person is not born again. This
is because; his mind contains no memories, neither good nor bad. He lives in a moment to
moment existence. He doesn’t carry forward any memory of his life i.e., no importance is
attached to any event in his life. It is like the path of a fish in water or a bird in the sky. They do
not leave any track behind. Thus when an enlightened person dies, he leaves no memories, to be
picked up by other beings. Thus he is not born again.
Equality
In a society, everyone has the right to lead his/her life accordingly without any discrimination.
When this state is achieved where all individuals are considered to be equal irrespective of their
caste, gender, colour, profession, and status, we call it equality. Equality can also be defined as
the situation where every individual has the same rights and equal opportunity to grow and
prosper.
Every individual of society dreams for equal rights and access to resources available at their
disposal, but there is a lot of discrimination. This discrimination can be due to cultural
differences, geographical differences, the colour of the individual, social status and even
gender. The most prevalent discrimination is gender inequality. It is not a localised issue and is
limited to only certain spheres of life but is prevalent across the globe. Even in progressive
societies and top organisations, we can see many examples of gender bias.
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Gender equality can only be achieved when both male and female individuals are treated
similarly. But discrimination is a social menace that creates division. We stop being together and
stand together to tackle our problems. This social stigma has been creeping into the underbelly of
all of society for many centuries. This has also been witnessed in gender-based cases. Gender
inequality is the thing of the past as both men and women are creating history in all segments
together.
In this century, women and men enjoy the same privileges. The perception is changing slowly
but steadily. People are now becoming more aware of their rights and what they can do in a free
society. It has been found that when women and men hold the same position and participate
equally, society progresses exclusively and creates a landmark. When a community reaches
gender equality, everyone enjoys the same privileges and gets similar scopes in education,
health, occupation, and political aspect. Even in the family, when both male and female members
are treated in the same way, it is the best place to grow, learn, and add great value.
A nation needs to value every gender equally to progress at the right place. A society attains
better development in all aspects when both genders are entitled to similar opportunities. Equal
rights in decision making, health, politics, infrastructure, profession, etc will surely advance our
society to a new level. The social stigma of women staying inside the house has changed.
Nowadays, girls are equally competing with boys in school. They are also creating landmark
development in their respective profession. Women are now seeking economic independence
before they get married. It gives them the confidence to stand against oppression and make better
decisions for themselves.
The age-old social structure dictated that women need to stay inside the home taking care of all
when men go out to earn bread and butter. This has been practised for ages when the world
outside was not safe. Now that the time has changed and we have successfully made our
environment quite safer, women can step forward, get educated, pursue their passion, bring
economic balance in their families, and share the weight of a family with men. This, in a
cumulative way, will also make a country’s economy progress faster and better.
Gender equality can be measured and a country’s growth can be traced by using the following
methods.
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Global Gender Gap Index assesses the level of gender inequality present on the basis of
four criteria: economic participation and opportunity, educational attainment, political
empowerment, health and survival.
According to the Gender Gap Index (GGI), India ranks 140 among 156 participating countries.
This denotes that the performance of India has fallen from the previous years, denoting negative
growth in terms of closing the gender gap. In the current environment where equality and equal
opportunities are considered supreme, this makes India be at a significant disadvantage.
Indian society is still wrecked by such stigmas that dictate that women are meant to manage the
home and stay indoors. This is being done for ages, leading to neglect of women in areas like
education, health, wealth, and socio-economic fields.
In addition to that, the dowry system is further crippling society. This ill practice had led to
numerous female feticides. It has created a notion that girls are a burden on a family, which is
one of the primary reasons a girl child cannot continue her education. Even if they excel in
education and become independent, most of them are forced to quit their job as their income is
considered a backup source, which is not fair. New-age women are not only independent, but
they are confident too. The only thing they demand from society is support, which we should
provide them.
Along with dowry, there is one more burning issue that has a profound impact on women's
growth. It is prevalent in all kinds of society and is known as violence. Violence against women
is present in one or another form in public and private spaces. Sometimes, violence is
accompanied by other burning issues such as exploitation, harassment, and trafficking, making
the world unsafe for women. We must take steps to stop this and ensure a safe and healthy place
for women.
Poverty is also one of the major roadblocks towards gender equality. It has led to other
malpractices such as child marriage, sale of children, trafficking and child labour, to name a few.
Providing equal job opportunities and upliftment of people below the poverty line can help bring
some checks onto this.
Any kind of discrimination acts as a roadblock in any nation’s growth, and a nation can only
prosper when all its citizens have equal rights. Most of the developed countries has
comparatively less gender discrimination and provide equal opportunity to both genders. Even
the Indian government is taking multiple initiatives to cut down gender discrimination.
They have initiated a social campaign called “Beti Bachao, Beti Padhao Yojana” to encourage
the education of girl children. Besides this, the government runs multiple other schemes, such as
the Women Helpline Scheme, UJJAWALA, National Mission for Empowerment of Women,
etc., to generate awareness among the people. Moreover, as responsible citizens, it is our
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responsibility to spread knowledge on gender discrimination to create a beautiful world for
women
Once all these menaces will be eradicated, every family will understand the value of a woman
and our country will achieve gender equality in a real sense. Women are creating examples
everywhere and we all should highlight them to change the scenario and give them equal rights.
In the end, the performance of India in the Olympics 2021 is the current example where India has
won seven medals. Out of those seven medals, six came in individual events and out of those six
medals, female athletes won three. It shows that even after facing such hardship, their
performance is at par with male athletes. With so much potential, it is only a matter of time when
women will overtake men and have all their abilities on display for the world to see!
Nonviolence
Non-violence as a doctrine has been preached by all wise men from time immemorial.
The saints and sages all over the world have preached the gospel of love and
understanding. All differences among people can be solved through love without resorting
to violent means. Mahatma Gandhi, the greatest champion of non-violence, defined it as
Ahimsa, that is showing goodwill and love to an antagonist while protesting in spirit
against his unjust act. It is fundamentally based on the spirituality of man. It is
synonymous with moral courage. It is not mere passive courage, but is the driving force
of a spirit which seeks redress of moral grievances. In today’s world, non-violence has to
be practised if mankind, is to survive. Non-violence can-prove a panacea for all the ill
of the present-day world.
All wise men down the ages have preached the doctrine of non-violence and love. The
chief principles -enshrined in the teachings of Buddha Mahavira, Christ, Nanak, Zoroaster
primarily Jay emphasis on a moral code in which there is no place for violence to others
for ones, personal gains. Non-violence is a philosophy of life. It has been accepted in the
East as well as in the West as an article of faith.
Mahatma Gandhi was the greatest apostle of peace, and non-violence in this century. He
defined his principle as Ahimsa, that is showing goodwill and love to an antagonists
while protesting .in spirit against injustice and violence. It was in South .Africa that he
for the first time experimented with this technique of peaceful protest. He was pained to
see the second class treatment meted .out to Indians by the British. There was a terrible
colour prejudice which made the life of the Indians miserable. He was deeply hurt to see
the sorry plight of Indians and their working and living conditions. He became
preoccupied with the question of how to change these conditions. He decided to adopt.
the path of peaceful agitation and persuaded Indians to join him in his struggle for the
restoration of their rights. His success in his crusade only strengthened his belief in non-
violence.
The first article of non-violence is avoidance of physical force and pain on others. The
other aspect lays emphasis on the moral courage and attitude towards life of an
individual. It implies that everyone, who is a seeker of truth must be ready to undergo
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any trial of hardship in pursuit of his inquiry. In this sense, non-violence implies that
man must face or resist the evil in his adversaries in a calm manner and not resort to
violence in thought or action at any time. It requires rigorous training both of mind and
body. Obviously, non-violence is based on the fundamental goodness of man .and is
deeply grounded in the belief that given suitable opportunity the conscience of man
which is basically good is likely to prevail over evil.
In his Experiments With Truth, Mahatma Gandhi was convinced that non-violence was
not the religion of the coward but of the strong and morally determined. He certainly did
not advocate, as is often misunderstood by his critics, cowardly self-surrender. On the
contrary he advised people to resist evil with determination in self-defence. He once said,
non-violence does not imply running away from danger, leaving near and dear ones
unprotected. In fact, given a choice between cowardice and violence, he chose Violence
any way. It is only the truly brave who can defy the others without inflicting injury on
them. A non-violent person gives patient hearing to his opponent; reasons with him
respectfully and if need be, expresses his opinion on the subject and firmly refuses to
compromise on his principles. He adopts the technique of non-violence and non-
cooperation to fight injustice of any kind.
Today, when the world is almost on the verge of a nuclear holocaust, non-violence as a
means of solving differences among civilized people is extremely relevant. Pandit Nehru,
one of greatest disciples of Gandhi, had admitted that he was convinced about the futility
of violence in the aftermath of war and partition of the country on the eve of
independence. The human agony and suffering that the world had been Witness to after
the partition of India seem Meaningless today. The communal passions which Were
aroused in the hearts of the people still have not been resolved. They continue to raise
their ugly heads and lead to countess deaths without resolving the issues at all. Violence,
therefore, cannot yield any positive result. It never has Sooner the mankind realises it,
better it is for its own preservation.
Super powers boast possessing weapons which can destroy the entire continents at one
stroke. One constantly lives under the feat. of .a third world war .breaking out, which many
strike the death toll for the entire human race. The amount of money that. is spent on
developing military Weapons and acquiring most, sophisticated aunts by almost all the
countries all over the world is simply outrageous. If only one were to consider the use
this colossal wealth of the world could be put to for the benefit of the mankind! It is
never too late to learn from the lessons of history. Aggression and violence have never
brought about any permanent solution to issues. They only end up in causing misery and
suffering. So far violence has been the history of man. It cannot be allowed to continue.
The vain, power-hungry people Who indulge in wars simply for the satisfaction of their
ambitions and greed must be curbed.
The world is desperately in need of a Messiah of peace, who can once again preach the
gospel of love, understanding and universal brotherhood. Man must awaken from his
slumbet and take stock of the explosive situation he is living in. Before the time runs
out, man must come to his senses and realise the folly of indulging in wars and
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violence. Ultimately, non-violence alone can provide freedom from all the ills of the
society and bring about harmony in the life of the people. It is the only means of
restoring sanity in the world.
Humility
Humility is one of the most important qualities for a successful person. It’s the ability to be
aware of one’s own weaknesses and try to correct them. Humility also allows people to be
grateful for what they have, even when things are tough. And lastly, humility is a great quality
for leaders because it allows them to take charge in difficult situations and make decisions that
will benefit their people.
What is humility? Humility is the ability to be aware of one’s own weaknesses and try to correct
them. Humility also allows people to be grateful for what they have, even when things are tough.
And lastly, humility is a great quality for leaders because it allows them to take charge in
difficult situations and make decisions that will benefit their people.
What are some benefits of being humble? There are many benefits to being humble. For
example, it can help you be more effective in your work. Humility allows you to see your
weaknesses and correct them. It also allows you to be grateful for what you have, even when
things are tough. And lastly, humility is a great quality for leaders because it allows them to take
charge in difficult situations and make decisions that will benefit their people.
How can you become humble? There are several ways to become humble. One way is to simply
be aware of your own weaknesses and try to correct them. Another way is to be grateful for what
you have, even when things are tough. And lastly, humility is a great quality for leaders because
it allows them to take charge in difficult situations and make decisions that will benefit their
people.
What makes a successful leader? A successful leader is someone who is aware of their
weaknesses and tries to correct them. They are also able to be grateful for what they have, even
when things are tough. This allows them to take charge in difficult situations and make decisions
that will benefit their people.
Why should you be humble? Humility is important because it allows people to connect with you
on a personal level. When people are humble, they feel more comfortable talking to you. They
also feel less pressure to have an opinion and share it with you. This makes it easier for you to
have a conversation and to understand them. And finally, humility allows leaders to take charge
in difficult situations. Leaders can make decisions that will benefit their people even when the
other members of the team are not happy with the decision.
Humility is a good quality to have in a leader. A successful leader is someone who is humble and
has the ability to listen to their team and take input. A successful leader is someone who knows
how to be humble and have the ability to apologize if they make a mistake. A successful leader is
someone who knows that they are not perfect and that the team can help them be better.
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Role of Women
This is a famous quote by Jawaharlal Nehru on women. The status of women depicts the social,
economic and mental condition in a nation. Women have been regarded as a symbol of
spirituality in our scriptures. Yet, they have been treated badly and unequally to men. Social evils
such as dowry, sati-system, child marriage, and female infanticide were widely prevalent in the
early ages. The spread of education and self-consciousness among women has led to their
progress over the period. Women of today are empowered. Also, women are gaining
advancements and success in each and every field.
Women, in the early ages, were very educated but suffered from the evils of society. Some open-
minded citizens like Raja Ram Mohan Roy, Swami Vivekananda, Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar,
and others worked for the wellbeing of women. Thus, the practices of sati, child marriage, and
others were abolished. Various acts such as the Child Marriage Restraint Act were passed in this
direction. Mahatma Gandhi also emphasized on the abolition of child marriages.
Women were also provided training in martial arts. Moreover, women acquired a significant
position in politics. Sarojini Naidu was a key figure in this context. She was the first Indian
woman to become a President of Indian National Congress and the governor of a state in India.
Gender equality
Women today are eager to take up professions and work. Thus, they enjoy equal respect and
dignity in the family. Women in free India also enjoy equal pay for equal work in comparison to
men. Also, there are provisions of maternity leave for them. Furthermore, females are provided
equality of opportunity under Article 16 of the Constitution of India.
Educational Status
The girls in urban areas are almost at par in education with the boys. But there is a less educated
female population in rural areas. This has also affected the social and economic development of
rural India. The poor (hygienic facilities) facilities at school and lack of female staff have
affected education. Kerala and Mizoram have a universal literacy rate.
The maximum figure of female politicians in the world is from India. Women have occupied
significant positions i.e. of President, Prime Minister, Speaker of the Lok Sabha and other high
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offices. “Indira Gandhi”, is the first female who held the office of the Prime Minister for 15
years.
The violence against women in India includes kitchen fires for want of dowry, sexual assaults,
cases of rape, prostitution, throwing of acid. Also, evils of child marriages are also widespread
even today. Female infanticide, indecent behavior, and honor killings add to the misery of the
women. Also, sex-selective abortion is a deep-rooted evil leading to inequality in sex ratio.
There has been a steady transformation in the status of the women in comparison to earlier
periods. Women of today take part completely in areas such as politics, status, military sectors,
economic, service, and technology sectors. Moreover, they have contributed wholly in sports too.
Thus, they have occupied a dignified position in family and society.
However, ending crimes against women is still a challenge. We can prevent ills by ensuring
women autonomy, also increased participation and decision making power in the family and
public life both.
Religion is an almost universal institution in human society. It is found in all societies, past and
present. All the preliterate societies known to us have religion. Religion goes back to the
beginning of the culture itself. It is a very ancient institution. There is no primitive society
without religion.
Like other social institutions, religion also arose from the intellectual power of man in response
to certain felt needs of men. While most people consider religion as universal and therefore, a
significant institution of societies. It is the foundation on which the normative structure of
society stands.
It is the social institution that deals with sacred things, that lie beyond our knowledge and
control. It has influenced other institutions. It has been exerting tremendous influence upon
political and economic aspects of life. It is said that man from the earliest times has been
incurably religious. Judaism, Christianity, Islam (Semitic religions), Hinduism and Buddhism;
Confucianism, Taoism and Shinto (Chinese-Japanese religions) etc. are examples of the great
religions of the world.
Meaning of Religion:
Religion is concerned with the shared beliefs and practices of human beings. It is the human
response to those elements in the life and environment of mankind which are beyond their
ordinary comprehension. Religion is pre-eminently social and is found in nearly all societies.
Majumdar and Madan explain that the word religion has its origin in the Latin word Rel (I) igio.
This is derived from two root words.
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The first root is Leg, meaning “together, count or observe”. The second root is Lig, meaning ‘to
bind’. The first root refers to belief in and practice of “signs of Divine Communication”. The
second root refers to the carrying out those activities which link human beings with the
supernatural powers. Thus, we find that the word religion basically represents beliefs and
practices which are generally the main characteristics of all religions.
Central to all religions is the concept of faith. Religion in this sense is the organisation of faith
which binds human beings to their temporal and transcendental foundation. By faith man is
distinguished from other beings. It is essentially a subjective and private matter. Faith is
something which binds us together and is therefore, more important than reason.
Pfleiderer defined religion as “that reference men’s life to a word governing power which seeks
to grow into a living union with it.”
According to James G. Frazer considered religion as a belief in “Powers superior to man which
are believed to direct and control the course of nature and of human life”.
As Christopher Dauson writes, “Whenever and wherever man has a sense of dependence on
external powers which are conceived as mysterious and higher than man’s own, there is religion,
and the feelings of awe and self-abasement with which man is filled in the presence of such
powers is essentially a religious emotion, the root of worship and prayer.”
Arnold W. Green defines religion as “a system of beliefs and symbolic practices and objects,
governed by faith rather than by knowledge, which relates man to an unseen supernatural realm
beyond the known and beyond the controllable.”
According to Maclver and Page, “Religion, as we understand the term, implies a relationship not
merely between man and man but also between man and some higher power.”
As Gillin and Gillin says, “The social field of religion may be regarded as including those
emotionalized beliefs prevalent in a social group concurring the supernatural plus crest and
behaviour, material objects and symbols associated with such beliefs.”
Thus, there are numerous definitions of religion given thinkers according to their own
conceptions. As a matter of fact the forms in which religion expresses itself vary so much that it
is difficult to agree upon a definition. Some maintain that religion includes a belief in
supernatural or mysterious powers and that it expresses itself in overt activities designed to deal
with those powers.
Others regard religion as something very earthly and materialistic, designed to achieve practical
ends. Sumner and Keller asserted that, “Religion in history, from the earliest to very recent days,
has not been a matter of morality at all but of rites, rituals, observance and ceremony”.
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Religion, in fact, is not a mere process of mediations about man’s life; it is also a means of
preserving the values of life. While it is possible to define religion as belief in God or some
super-natural powers, it is well to remember that there can also be a Godless religion as
Buddhism.
Nature of Religion:
In sociology, the word religion is used in a wider sense than that used in religious books. A
common characteristic found among all religions is that they represent a complex of emotional
feelings and attitudes towards mysterious and perplexities of life.
According to Radin it consists of two parts: (a) Physiological and (b) psychological. The
physiological part expresses itself in such acts as kneeling, closing the eyes, touching the feet.
The psychological part consists of supernormal sensitivity to certain traditions and beliefs. While
belief in supernatural powers may be considered basic to all religion, equally fundamental is the
presence of a deeply emotional feeling which Golden Weiber called the “religion thrill”.
If we analyse the great religions of the world, we shall find that each of them contains, five basic
elements: (1) belief in supernatural powers, (2) belief in the holy, (3) ritual, (4) acts defined as
sinful and (5) some method of salvation.
The first basic element of religion is the belief that there are supernatural powers. These powers
are believed to influence human life and control all natural phenomena. Some call these
supernatural forces God, other call them Gods. There are even others who do not call them by
any name. They simply consider them as forces in their universe. Thus, belief in the non-sensory,
super-empirical world is the first element of religion.
There are certain holy or sacred elements of religion. These constitute the heart of the religion.
There are certain things which are regarded as holy or sacred. But a thing is holy or sacred not
because of a peculiar quality of thing. An attitude makes a thing holy. The sacred character of a
tangible thing is not observable to the senses.
Sacred things are symbols. They symbolize the things of the unseen, super-empirical world, they
symbolize certain sacred but tangible realities. When a Hindu worships a cow, he worships it not
because of the kind of animal the cow is, but because of a host of super-empirical characteristics
which this animal is imagined to represent.
3. Ritual:
Religious ritual is “the active side of religion. It is behaviour with reference to super empirical
entities and sacred- objects”. It includes any kind of behavior (such as the wearing of special
clothing and the immersion in certain rivers, in the Ganga for instance), prayers, hymns, creedal
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recitations, and other forms of reverence, usually performed with other people and in public. It
can include singing, dancing, weeping, crawling, starving, feasting, etc. Failure to perform these
acts is considered a sin.
Each religion defines certain acts as sinful and profane (unholy). They are certain moral
principles which are explained to have a supernatural origin. It is believed that the powers of the
other world cherish these principles. The violation of these principles creates man’s sense of
guilty. It may also bring upon him the disfavour of the supernatural powers. If the behaviour is
not in accordance with the religions code, the behaviour or act is considered as sinful.
A method of salvation is the fifth basic element of religion. Man needs some method by which
he can regain harmony with the Gods through removal of guilt. In Hindu religion Moksha or
Salvation represents the end of life, the realisation of an inner spirituality in man.
The Hindu seeks release from the bondage of Karma, which is the joy or suffering he undergoes
as a result of his actions in his life. The ultimate end of life is to attain Moksha. The Buddhist
hopes to attain Salvation by being absorbed in the Godhead and entering Nirvana. The Christian
has a redeemer in Christ who gave his life for man’s sins.
In short, religion is the institutionalised set of beliefs men hold about supernatural forces. It is
more or less coherent system of beliefs and practices concerning a supernatural order of beings,
forces, places or other entities.
Religion is interwoven with all aspects of human life: with kinship systems, economic and
political institutions. Prior to the advent of what may be called as “the age of reason”, religion
has been the chief supporter of the spiritual and moral values of life. It has shaped domestic,
economic and political institutions. Hence, it is obvious that religion performs a number of
functions both for the religious group and for the wider society. These functions of religion are
discussed bellow.
Religion may be said to help in the struggle for societal survival. Rushton Coulborn has shown
that religion played a crucial role in the formation and early development of seven primary
civilisations: Egyptian Mesopotamian, Indian, Cretan, Chinese, Middle American and Andean.
Religion in each of these societies gave its members the courage needed for survival in an
unfavourable environment, by giving explanations to certain aspects of the human conditions
which could not be explained in a rational manner. In present societies religion also performs this
role.
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By relating the empirical world to the super-empirical world religion gives the individual a sense
of security in this rapidly changing world. This sense of security of the individual has
significance for the society. Since religion helps man to forget the suffering, disappointments and
sorrows in this life’, social dissatisfaction and social unrest become less frequent and the social
system continues functioning.
Religion acts as a unifying force and hence, promotes social integration in several ways. Religion
plays an important part in crystallising, symbolising and reinforcing common values and norms.
It thus provides support for social standards, socially accepted behaviour. Common faith, values
and norms etc. are significant in unifying people.
As the individuals perform rituals collectively their devotion to group ends is enhanced. Through
a ritual individual expresses common beliefs and sentiments. It thus helps him to identify himself
more with his fellows, and to distinguish himself more from members of other groups,
communities or nations.
By distinguishing between holy and unholy things, religion creates sacred symbol for the values
and this symbol becomes the rallying point for all persons who share the same values. The cow
as a sacred symbol of the Hindus, for example, is a rallying point which gives cohesion to Hindu
society.
Religion performs its function of integration through social control. It regulates the conduct of
individuals by enforcing moral principles on them and by prescribing powerful sanctions against
them for violation.
3. Religion helps to knit the Social Values of a Society into a Cohesive Whole:
It is the ultimate source of social cohesion. The primary requirement of society is the common
possession of social values by which individuals control the actions of self and others and
through which society is perpetuated. These social values emanate from religious faith. Religion
is the foundation upon which these values rest.
Children should obey their parents, should not tell a lie or cheat, women should be faithful to
men; people should be honest and virtuous are some of the social values which maintain social
cohesion. It is religion that asks man to renounce unsocial activities and requires him to accept
limitations upon his wants and desires. All the religions have preached love and non-violence.
They have emphasized sacrifice and forbearance.
It is one of the means of informal means of social control. Religion not only defines moral
expectations for members of the religious group but usually enforces them. It supports certain
types of social conduct by placing the powerful sanctions of the supernatural behind them.
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It makes certain forms of social behaviour as offences not only against society but also against
God. Hence, any violation of the acceptable norm is punishable not only by God but by society.
Hinduism gives sanction to the caste system which regulates social relations of various classes in
India.
Religion encourages people to render services to the needy and poor and promote their welfare.
It develops philanthropic attitude of people. Help and assistance are rendered to poor and
destitute persons due to religion inspiration. It is believed that one can obtain the cherished goal
of religion by way of giving alms and assistance to the helpless and needy persons. In this way
religion promotes the welfare of individuals, groups and community.
6. Priestly Function:
The priesthood often was dedicated to art and culture. The priests laid the foundations of
medicine. Magic supplied the roots of observation and experimentation from which science
developed. It also inculcated the habit of charity among the people who opened many charitable
institutions like hospitals, rest houses, temples to help the needy and the poor.
Religion serves to soothe the man in times of his suffering and disappointment. In this world
man often suffers disappointment even in the midst of all hopes and achievements. The things for
which he strives are in some measure always denied to him. When human hopes are blighted,
when all that was planned and striven for has been swept away, man naturally wants something
to console and compensate him.
When a son dies man seeks to assuage his grief in ritualistic exchanges of condolence. On God
he puts faith and entertains the belief that some unseen power moves in mysterious ways to make
even his loss meaningful. Faith in God compensates him and sustains his interest in life and
makes it bearable. In this way religion helps man to bear his frustrations and encourages him to
accept his lot on earth.
It expands one’s self to infinite proportions. Man unites himself with the infinite and feels
ennobled. Through unity with the infinite the self is made majestic and triumphant. Man
considers himself the noblest work of God with whom he shall be united and his self thus
becomes grand and luminous.
Besides this, religion shapes domestic, economic and political institutions. Religion supports
institutional pattern more explicitly. All the great religions of the world have attempted to
regulate kinship relations, especially marriage and family. Political institutions are often
sanctioned by religion: the emperor of China or Japan was sacred; the ruling caste of India was
sanctioned by Brahmanism; the kings of France were supposed to rule by divine right.
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Religious rites are performed on many occasions in relation to vital events and dominant
interests: birth, initiation, marriage, sickness, death, hunting, animal husbandry and so on; and
they are intimately concerned with family and kinship interests and with political institutions.
Religion is the central element in the life of civilisation.
Religion has also performed some other services to humanity among which Sumner and Keller
included the provision of work, the spread of education, the accumulation of capital and the
creation of a leisure class.
For thousands of years, religion has exerted a great influence over economic and political life.
Even today religion is called upon to support rulers, contacts and other legal procedures.
Dysfunctions of Religion:
In addition to positive functions of religion, there are some negative aspects of its social
functions. Although religion is an integrative force, it may be disruptive for the society as a
whole. Sumner and Keller, Benjamin Kidd, Karl Marx, Thomas F. O’ Dea and others have
pointed the dysfunctions of religion. The dysfunctions of religion are as follows.
According to Thomas F. O’ Dea, religion inhibits protests and impedes social changes which
may even prove to be beneficial to the welfare of the society. All protests and conflicts are not
always negative. Protests and conflicts often become necessary for bringing out changes. Some
changes would certainly lead to positive reforms. By inhibiting protests and preventing changes
religion may postpone reforms.
Social values and norms emanate from religious faith. Some of the norms which lose their
appropriateness under changed conditions may also be imposed by religion. This can “impede a
more functionally appropriate adaptation of society to changing conditions.”
For example, during the medieval Europe, the Church refused to grant the ethical legitimacy of
money lending at interest, despite the great functional need of this activity in a situation of
developing capitalism”. Even today, traditional Muslims face religio-ethical problems
concerning interest-taking. Similar social conflict is evident in the case of birth control measures
including abortion, in the Catholic world.
Religion often makes its followers dependent on religious institutions and leaders. But it does not
develop an ability in them to assume individual responsibility. For example, a good number of
people in India prefer to take the advises of priests and religious leaders before starting some
ventures. But they do not take the suggestion of those who are competent in the field.
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4. Promotes Evil Practices:
In its course of development religion has supported and promoted evil practices such as
cannibalism, slavery, untouchability, human and animal sacrifice etc.
As religion interprets misfortune and suffering in this world as manifestations of the supernatural
order itself, it sanctifies the existing social structure. Religion preaches submission to the
existing socio-economic condition and to fate.
It is this control function of religion that caused Marx to call religion as “the sigh of the
oppressed creature, the sentiment of a heartless world, and the soul of soulless conditions. It is
the opiate of the people.” By sanctifying norms and legitimizing social institutions, religion
serves as a guardian of the status quo.
6. Promotes Superstitions:
Religion is the source of many superstitions. These superstitions have caused harm to human
being. Superstitions like evil spirits and ghosts cause diseases; poverty is the desire of the God
etc. hinder the welfare of human beings.
7. Results Conflicts:
Religion results in inter-group conflicts by dividing people along religious lines. It is deeply
related with conflicts. Wars and battles have been fought in the name of religion.
Sumner and Keller are of the opinion that religion often causes economic wastes. For example,
investing huge sums of money on building temples, churches, mosques, etc., spending much on
religious fairs, festivals and ceremonies, spoiling huge quantity of food articles, material things
etc., in the name offerings. It leads to waste of human labour, energy and time.
Religion creates diversities among people. It creates a gap among them. In the name of God and
religion, loot, plundering, mass killing, rape and other cruel and inhuman treatments have been
meted out to people.
Religion has made people blind, dumb and deaf to the reality. They have faith without reasoning
which is blind. On the contrary, it has often made people to become bigots and fanatics. Bigotry
and fanaticism have led to persecution, inhuman treatment and misery in the past.
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Religion preserves traditions. It preaches submission to the existing conditions and maintenance
of status quo. Religion is not readily amenable to social change and progress.
Religion has tried to prevent the scientists from discovering new facts. For example, it tried to
suppress the doctrines of Darwin, Huxley and others.
By placing high premium on divine power religion has made people fatalistic. They think that all
events in life is due to some divine power and hence due to fate. As a result, his power and
potentiality is undermined. Thus, religion affects the creativity of man.
Marx has strongly criticised religion. For Marx all that was fundamental in the science of society
proceeded from the material and especially the economic sphere. For him therefore religion is, to
be sure, superstition, but to stop at this point is to limit religion to merely abstract belief.
It leaves the impression that religion may be dislodged simply by new, rational belief. Marx’s
sense of the matter is more profound. Merely changing beliefs is not enough. The transformation
of an entire social order is required, for belief is deeply rooted in the social relations of men.
Religion, writes Marx, “is the ‘self-consciousness and self-feeling of man who either has not yet
found himself or has already lost himself. But man is no abstract being, squatting outside the
world. Man is the world of man, the state, and society. This state, this society produce religion, a
perverted world consciousness, because they are a perverted world.
Religion is the compendium of that world, its encyclopedic, its enthusiasm, its moral sanction, its
solemn completion, its universal ground for consolation and justification. It is the fantastic
realization of the human essence because the human essence has no true reality.
Marx believed, like Luduig Feuerbach, that what man gives to God in the form of worship, he
takes from himself. That is, man is persuaded through suffering or through false teaching to
project what is his to a supernatural being. But he was convinced, unlike Feuerbach, that what is
fundamental is not religious forms – against which Feuerbach had urged revolt-but the economic
forms of existence.
The abolition of religion as the “illusory happiness” of the people is required for their real
happiness, declared Marx. But before religion can be abolished the conditions which nurture it
must be done away with. “The demand to give up the illusions about its condition is the demand
to give up a condition which needs illusion”.
Marx’s criticism of religion is thus deeply connected with the criticism of right and the criticism
of politics. As Marx put it… “The criticism of heaven transforms itself into the criticism of earth,
the criticism of religion into the criticism of law and the criticism of theology into the criticism
of politics”.
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Marx was an atheist as well as a great humanist. He had profound sympathy for all who look up
to religion for salvation. This is amply clear from his following observation: “The criticism of
religion ends with the teaching that man is the highest essence of man, hence with the categorical
imperative to overthrow all relations in which man is debased, enslaved abandoned…”
Changes in Religion:
Change is the very essence of a living thing. A living religion must grow, must advance and must
change. No form of religion is static. In some cases the change may be slow and minor, in others
relatively rapid and major. Every religion claims its first principle supreme, original and eternal.
Hence, there is also an element of censure for change.
Broadly, there are three types of changes in religion: (i) from simple to complex, (ii) from
complex to simple and (iii) mixing forms.
Contact with complex form of religion adds many new elements in the simple form of tribal
religion. For example, with the gradual spread of Vaishnavism in chhotanagpur, the Oraons tribe
which lives in that region, began to reorganise traditional faith.
There are also examples of simplification of complex form of religion, specially of rituals and
ceremonies. Buddhism for instance, came as a revolt against the Vedic ritual which was both
complex and expensive, and also beyond the common man’s reach. In the 19 century, Brahmo
Samaj again tried to simplify the complex nature of Brahmanic Hinduism.
Mixing of more than one form has caused development of new religious organisation. The most
excellent example is of Sophism. It has evolved from Persian, Zoroastrianism and Arab
Islamism. Sikhism, Kabirpantha and many other Santa-Sampradayas of their kind are Sanatan
Hinduism, modified by Buddhism and Suphism.
The history of the development of religion shows that as mankind moves from small isolated
village towards large, complex, urban, industrialised society the character of influence of religion
on man and his life changes. In the earlier phases of religion the primary needs of mankind, those
concerned with the necessities of life, played a dominant part. As man’s knowledge of natural
forces grows, he learns to control them by natural methods, that is, by a detailed scrutiny of their
causes and conditions.
Thus secularisation as Bryan Wilson has defined, refers to the process in which religious
thinking, practice and institutions lose social significance. In Europe, secularisation is held to be
the outcome of the social changes brought about by urban, industrial society. It means that
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religious beliefs and practices have tended to decline in modern urban, industrial societies,
particularly among the working class in Western societies.
Religion in Western societies has tended to place less emphasis on dogma and more on social
values. It has tried to reconcile its doctrine with scientific knowledge. As Barnes has pointed out
religion adapted to our changed conditions of life is worth preserving and it must seek to
organise. The masses and guide their activities for the benefit of the society rather than for the
purpose of pleasing the God.
Secularism as an ideology has emerged from the dialectic of modern science and Protestantism,
not from simple repudiation of religion and the rise of rationalism. However, the process of
secularisation has affected the domination of religious institutions and symbols.
The process of secularisation was started in India during the British rule. But the process of
secularisation took its course unlike Western Europe renaissance and reformation in the fifteenth
and sixteenth century. The process was very slow.
However, this worldly outlook, rationality and secular education gradually affected various
aspects of religion in India. Various laws of social reformation, modern education, transport and
communication contributed towards decline in religiosity among the Hindus.
No doubt we are moving from religiosity to secular way of life. But evidences show that
religious beliefs have not declined in West as well as in our society. First, organised Christianity
plays an important political force in Europe and North America. Second, the vitality of Zionism,
militant Islam (Islamic fundamentalism), radical Catholicism in Latin America and Sikhism,
fundamentalism and communalism in India suggest that no necessary connection exists between
modernisation and secularisation.
All these criticisms are formidable indeed. But it should be noted that the diversity of religious
sects and cults in modern societies demonstrates that religion has become an individual matter
and not a dominant feature of social life. It can also be argued that, while religion may play a
part in ideological struggles against colonialism (as in Iran), in the long run modernisation of
society brings about secularisation.
Secularisation:
The history of the development of religion shows that as mankind moves from small isolated
villages towards large, complex, urban, industrial society; the influence of religion on man and
his life changes. In the earlier phases of religion the primary needs of mankind were very much
influenced by it. As man’s knowledge of natural forces grows, he learns to control them by
natural methods, that is, by a detailed scrutiny of their causes and conditions.
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conception of God as power over man and his society loses its importance. This movement is
sometimes referred to as secularization.
Secularism as an ideology has emerged from the dialectic of modern science and Protestantism,
not from a simple repudiation of religion and the rise of rationalism.
‘Secularisation’, in the words of Peter Berger, refers to ‘the process by which sectors of society
and culture are removed from the domination of religious institutions and symbols.
Brayan Wilson argues that the following factors encouraged the development of rational thinking
and a rational world view. Firstly, ascetic Protestantism, which created an ethic which was
pragmatic, rational controlled and anti-emotional. Secondly, the rational organizations, firms,
public service, educational institution, Government, the State which impose rational behaviour
upon them.
Thirdly, the greater knowledge of social and physical world which results from the development
of physical, biological and social sciences. He says that this knowledge is based on reason rather
than faith. He claims that science not only explained many facts of life and the material
environment in a way more satisfactory (than religion), but it also provided confirmation of its
explanation in practical results.
The term ‘secularisation’ has been used in different ways. Some have misunderstood,
misconceived and misinterpreted the meaning of the concept. Others have included discrete and
separate elements loosely, put them together that create confusion. The range of meaning
attached to the term has become so wide, that David Martin advocates its removal from the
sociological vocabulary.
There are two meanings of the word current in modern and modernizing India and even in the
whole of this subcontinent. One of the two meanings is found by consulting any standard
dictionary. But there is the difficulty in finding the other, for it is non-standard, local meaning
which, many like to believe, is typically and distinctively Indian or South Asian.
The first meaning becomes clear when people talk of secular trends in history or economics, or
when they speak of secularizing the State. The word secular has been used in this sense, at least
in the English-speaking West, for more than three hundred years.
This secularism chalks out an area in public life where religion is not admitted. One can have
religion in one’s private life. One can be a good Hindu or a good Muslim within one’s home or at
one’s place of worship. But when one enters public life, one is expected to leave one’s faith
behind.
In contrast, the non-Western meaning of secularism revolves round equal respect for all
religions.
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In the Indian context the word has very different meaning from its standard use in the English
language. It is held that India is not Europe and hence secularism in India cannot mean the same
thing as it does in Europe. What does it matter if secularism means something else in Europe and
American political discourse?
As long as there are clear and commonly agreed referents for the world in the Indian context, we
should go ahead and address ourselves to the specifically Indian meaning of secularism.
Unfortunately the matter cannot be settled that easily. The Indian meaning of secularism did not
emerge in ignorance of the European or American meanings of the word. Indian meaning of
secularism is debated in its Western genealogies.
New meaning is acquired by the word secularism in India. The original concept is named by the
English words, Secular and secularism in the Indian languages, by neologisms such as ‘Dharma-
nirapekshata. This is translation of those English words and dharma-nirapekshata is used to refer
to the range of meanings indicated by the English term.
Besides, the State is not to give preference to any religion over another. But this term is
irrelevant in a democratic structure and it bears no application in reality because three principles
are mentioned in the liberal-doctrine (Liberty which requires that the State, permits the practice
of any religion, equality which requires that State not to give preference to any religion and the
principle of neutrality).
Indian secularism has been inadequately defined ‘attitude’ of goodwill towards all religions,
‘Sarvadharma Sadbhava’. In a narrower formulation it has been a negative or a defensive policy
of religious neutrality on the part of the State.
Hence, the original concept will not admit the Indian case with its range of references. Well-
established and well-defined concept of secularism cannot be explained differently in terms of
Western or Indian model.
To Herberg, ‘authentic religion’ means an emphasis on the supernatural, a deep inner conviction
of the reality of supernatural power, a serious commitment to religious teaching, a strong element
of the theological doctrine and a refusal to compromise religious beliefs and values with those of
the wider society.
If there is any trend of decline in any aspect of religion mentioned above, then it is indicative of
the process of secularisation. Thus secularization, as Brayan Wilson has defined, refers to the
process in which religious thinking, practice and institutions lose social significance. Religion in
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America is subordinated to the American way of life. It means that religious belief and practices
have tended to decline.
Secularism is taken to mean that one’s religious ideals and beliefs should not interfere in general
with social, economic and political field. Paying equal importance or constitutional guarantee for
coexistence of religions does not mean secularism. There are other aspects of secularism.
Secularism is related to rationalism and empiricism.
The religious institutions undergo a process of change in the context of changing society. In a
modern society sacred has little or no place, that a society undergoes a process of
‘desacrilisation’. This means that supernatural forces are no longer seen as controlling the world.
Action is not directed by religious beliefs.
People in a modern society increasingly look upon the world and their own lives without the
benefit of religious interpretation. As a result there is a ‘secularisation of consciousness’. Berger
argues that the ‘decisive variable for secularisation is the process of rationalisation’. That is the
pre-requisite for any industrial society of the modern type.
Secularisation also implies rationality. Wilson argues that a rational world view is the energy of
religion. It is based on testing of arguments and beliefs by rational procedure, on asserting truth
by means of factors which can be quantified and objectively measured.
Religion is based on faith. Its claim to truth cannot be tested by rational procedures. A rational
world view rejects faith which is the basis of religion. It removes the mystery, magic and
authority of religion. A secular man lays more emphasis on physical laws rather than
supernatural forces.
The process of secularisation as the most important component of the process of modernisation is
occurring in different forms in various contemporary societies. Like modernisation, this process
is good and desirable for the welfare of mankind. Finally, it is both a product and a process.
Human Mind is the sum-total of various mental processes such as observing, knowing, thinking,
reasoning, feeling, wishing, imagining, remembering, judging and others. It is not a separate
object which has or possesses these mental processes. Mind is these mental processes. If we take
away these mental processes. No mind is left, just as no chair is left if we take away its back,
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seat, arms and legs. Therefore, mind is another name for those mental processes and activities
put together.
Our Human mind grows just as our body grows. It becomes more complex with advancing years.
In other words, our mental processes become richer and more complicated day by day. For
example, there is a difference between thinking and reasoning of an adult and those of a child of
three years.
The human mind is not only the sum-total of all conscious mental processes, as it was believed
earlier; it includes preconscious and unconscious processes, as well. It must be noted, however,
that mind is one and is a unity. There are three levels at which it functions. At one level, we are
aware of our mental processes; this is the ‘conscious’.
At another level, we are not conscious of our mental processes; this gives us the “unconscious’,
still at another level, we are not aware of our mental processes at a certain time, but we were
aware of them before, and can, again, be aware of them if we try. This is our preconscious.
The Unconscious:
The unconscious processes constitute the unconscious or the unconscious mind. It is the
processes of which we are incapable of becoming conscious unless special methods of psycho-
analysis are used. These processes lie buried deep down in the hidden recesses of our mind, very
much below the level of consciousness.
It was Freud and his earliest followers Jung and Adler who strongly advocated the existence of
the unconscious which could be understood and known through psycho-analysis – a method of
unearthing and analysing the unconscious. Due to the discovery of the unconscious, our
knowledge of the human mind is very much extended.
These thinkers have told us that the unconscious includes all forgotten past experiences, our
repressed wishes and desires, our fears and phobias for which we do not know the reason, or our
eccentric likes and dislikes. Many of these unconscious mental processes appear in and cause our
dreams, slips of pen or tongue. They cause abnormal behaviour in the form of neuroses and
psychoses.
It must be noted that there are no pigeon-holes or compartments in our mind which store the pre-
conscious or unconscious processes separately. The preconscious and unconscious are a part of
the same mind to which the conscious processes belong. The former are simply those mental
processes which we have forgotten, either temporarily or more or less permanently. Their
connections with our conscious process are broken for the time being.
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unconscious. In it are stored and found millions of infantile wishes, unsatisfied desires, cravings
and urges, many of which are legacies from childhood.
Freud proves the existence of the unconscious by referring to many phenomena such as our
experiences that we cannot recall, the phenomenon of somnambulism, post-hypnotic suggestion,
dreams, morbid forgetfulness and slips of pen and tongue.
(ii) The second tenet of this system is the dynamic aspects of mind the – Id, the Ego and the
Super ego. Freud believed that all behaviour is the resultant of the dynamic conflicts between the
forces of the Id, the Ego and the Superego at the conscious, and unconscious levels of mind.
The Id is the primitive undifferentiated basis of the whole human mind. It is completely
dominated by the pleasure principle. It has no idea of time or reality. Its strivings are originally
impulsive and uncontrolled out they are controlled by society and the reality principle in the
course of development.
The Ego represents the self or the conscious intelligence. It is the integrating part of the
personality. It is an adjuster between the wishes of the Id on the one hand and the demands of
external reality on the other. It has to face the three sets of forces e.g., external reality, the
instinctive pressure from the Id and inhibition or control from the Superego.
The Superego is the chief force that makes for the socialisation of the individual. It is primarily
sociologically and culturally conditioned. It corresponds to the idea of conscience. It represents
the social and moral ideal which society sets up for our behaviour.
Within it reside the forces of repression and censorship, self-observation and self-criticism.
Mitchell says, ‘By means of identification with the parents or one of the parents and Ego-ideal is
set up within the Ego, and as a Superego, adopts and critical and condemnatory attitude of the
parents towards the libidinal impulses.
(iii) The third tenet of psychoanalysis is that of conflict, repression and complexes. As said
above, according to Freud, all behaviour is the resultant of the dynamic conflicts between the
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forces of the Id, the Ego and the Super-ego. The Id impulses which are largely sexual and
aggressive in nature want to be satisfied, but these come in conflict with the Ego and the Super-
ego. In other words, there is a clash between the primitive impulses and social and moral taboos,
prohibitions and obstructions.
Our conflicts may be conscious or unconscious. When we are aware of the conflict and sources
causing it, the conflict is at the conscious level. But there are times, when we are not aware of the
real motives causing conflict. We experience feelings of strain, stress and anxiety but why? We
cannot easily tell. The motivations of the conflict are unconscious. We are not aware of them.
This is the endopsychic or unconscious conflict.
This is how it happens. The conflict even at the conscious level, is a painful affair which creates
tension in the human mind. It should end as soon as possible. It can be ended by following the Id
impulses and by ignoring the claims of the Ego and the Super-ego or the external world. It can be
ended by consciously denying the impulses or urges completely and following the demands of
the Ego or Super-ego.
Another method of ending the conflicts is by throwing those impulses into allied channels
sanctioned by society and thus obtaining for them a vicarious satisfaction. For example , many
women who do not marry, satisfy a fundamental wish by becoming nurses or by directing their
own energies to the care and welfare of children. But most people follow neither of these
courses, it is very difficult to endure the ideas of defeat which result from the denial or our Id,
desires.
Again, the Id impulses cannot be satisfied in the face of social opposition. Even throwing them
into other social sanctioned channels is not an easy task. We need suitable potentialities,
education, guidance and environment for that. Normally, the conflict is resolved or ended, in an
average individual, by an actual forcing down of these wishes into the unconscious.
This unconscious forgetfulness of the Id impulses or throwing down of these impulses into the
unconscious is called repression. Thus, “what is unpleasant abnoxious, embarrassing or offensive
is vanished from consciousness”. With repression, the conflict shifts from the conscious into the
unconscious.
These repressed wishes or desires remain active in the unconscious regions of our mind. They
slowly gather strength by making alliance with other allied repressed experiences, thus forming
an active group. This group of repressed desires working with a common end, i.e. to come back
to the level of consciousness, is called a complex. As soon as complexes are formed, they give
rise to a conflict in the unconscious, known as the endosychic conflict.
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These complexes are just like exiles whose presence back in the conscious is not tolerated. But
they do strive to regain consciousness. The forces of the Ego and Super-ego would not permit
this. If they come back to the conscious, they would again create conflict and tension.
The mental force that keeps the repressed undesirable wishes confined to the unconscious is
technically known as the censor. The censor is not an outside agency implanted in us, but is a
part of our own personality. It represents the moral and social aspects of the Ego and Super-ego.
But the censor is not uniformly vigilant at all times, its activities are considerably weakened
during sleep as also during such moments that the repressed wishes seek to regain consciousness.
At times, they may come in mask or in disguise and thus elude the vigilance of the censor. Such
disguise may take the form of dreams, slips of pen and tongue, forgetfulness, mannerism of
speech and others.
(iv) The fourth principle of psychoanalysis is Freud’s theory of instinct and libido. According to
him, there are two decidedly inmates psychological urges or instincts. These urges may be called
‘Eros’ of life or love instinct and Thanatos or the death instincts or aggression. They work
through the existing structure of a person’s being in his environment and determine what he is
and what he does.
They are modified by the life experience of the individual, particularly those of the earliest years
of life. These instincts are not opposed and mutually independent forces. They fuse and intermix.
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The intermixture of the two instincts leads to the Freudian principle of ambivalence loving and
hating the same person.
Libido is the energy that works throughout the whole psychic system the energy of the life
instinct. It is the source of sexual love, self-love, parental affection, friendship and of love for
humanity in general. It causes the infantile sex-life; when the libido flows outward, it causes
object-love; when it flows inward, it causes self-love or narcissism.
(v) The fifth tenet of the psycho-analytical theory is the principle of psycho- sexual genesis or
infantile sexuality. Sexual life, according to Freud, does not start at puberty. Its first
manifestations may be clearly seen after birth. Sexuality embraces many activities which have no
connection with genitals. The fundamental functions of sexuality is to obtain pleasure from zones
of the body. During the infancy and childhood period, this sexuality has three phases (a) oral, (b)
anal-sadistic and (c) phallic.
At first the child derives libidiual satisfaction from the mouth; at three or four this pleasure is
given by anal movement. After this we have the phallic phase when the child evinces interest in
his genitalia. It is in this phase when the development of the Oedipus Complex takes place. The
libido is directed towards an external love object of the opposite sex.
The latency period (5 to 12 years) is essentially one of psychic consolidation and synthesis. The
psyche has a respite from infantile urges and the Super-ego develops. The pubertal period
extends from 12 years onwards. There is a revival of sexuality and its passes through auto-erotic
and homosexual phases before it is allowed its normal outlet in heterosexual behaviour.
Self-Control
Self-discipline means self-control, which gives you inner strength and a way to control yourself,
actions, and reactions. It is one of the most important and useful skills to achieve success and
everyone should possess this quality. Self-discipline comes naturally to some people. And some
people can achieve it with some effort. The effort made is worth it as it changes life for the better. It
just means exercising self- control. A person who stays in control has the ability to take charge of
his/her actions and reactions.
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Tips to Achieve Self-discipline
1. Set your goals: – The first step towards leading a disciplined life is to set goals. Goals give
you a clear idea about what needs to be achieved. One must always set a timeline for your
goals. This serves as a driving force and motivates you to work hard. It is a good idea to set
both short term and long term goals and create a well thought out plan to achieve them.
2. Do meditation:- Meditation is one of the best ways to channel our energy in the right
direction. It helps maintain focus, acquaints us with our inner self and furthers better self-
control. It is the stepping stone for a disciplined life. Meditating for half an hour every day
can help in inculcating self-discipline.
3. Set a Routine:- Those who set a routine and follow it daily lead a more disciplined life. It is
suggested to list all the tasks that you require accomplishing in a given day. Write them in the
order of their priority, set a timeline for each and act accordingly. This is a good way to lead
an organized and disciplined life.
4. Stay away from distractions:- In this technology-driven world, there are numerous things
that can distract us and take charge of our lives. Our mobile phones, television, and chatting
apps are some of the new age things that are a big hindrance in practicing self-discipline. No
matter how determined we are to study, work or sleep on time, we tend to get distracted at
the beep of our phone. Social media platforms, chatting apps and web series are extremely
addictive and hamper work. In order to practice self-discipline, it is important to stay away
from these distractions. Put your phone on silent or keep it at a distance when you sit to study
or work. Similarly, just put your phone away at bedtime and instead pick a book to read.
5. Reward yourself:- Reward yourself for every goal you achieve. This will motivate you to
work harder to achieve more. This is a good way to trick your brain to inculcate self-
discipline.
6. Take proper sleep:- You can inculcate self-discipline only when you are well-rested. So, it
is essential to sleep for eight hours each night. Maintaining a good sleep cycle is also
essential. This means that you should try sleeping and waking up at the same time each day.
A power nap during the afternoon can help further.
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7. Stay Positive: – Many people want to inculcate self-discipline but are unable to because they
somehow believe that it is difficult to achieve. They feel that it is too much to ask for and that
they shall not be able to practice it. This is the wrong approach. You can achieve anything in
life if you stay positive and believe in yourself. So, you should stay positive. It is a pre-
requisite for inculcating self-discipline.
Self-discipline helps you to overcome the bad habits by meditating regularly. It gives you the ability
not to give up after failure and setbacks, develop self-control, provide the ability to resist
distractions, helps you to motivate yourself until you accomplish your goals.
Achieving self-discipline may be difficult but in order to lead a healthy personal and professional
life, it is very important. A self-disciplined person makes optimum use of the time. Hence, he can
achieve more and do more work as compared to a person who is not self-disciplined. We should,
therefore, make some efforts to achieve it.
Honesty
Honesty implies being truthful. Honesty means to develop a practice of speaking truth throughout
life. A person who practices Honesty in his/her life, possess strong moral character. An Honest
person shows good behavior, always follows rules and regulations, maintain discipline, speak the
truth, and is punctual. An honest person is trustworthy as he always tends to speak the truth.
Benefits of Honesty
Honesty is always admirable in the family, civil society, friends and across the globe. A person with
honesty is respected by all. For one to build the character of Honesty entirely depends on his/her
family values and ethics and his/her surrounding environment. Parents showing honest behavior and
character in front of their children create an impact on the children and we say “Honesty lies in their
genes”. Honesty can also be developed practically which requires proper guidance, encouragement,
patience, and dedication.
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An honest person is always known for his/her honesty just like a sun is known for its eternal light
and unlimited energy. It is a quality which helps a person to succeed in life and get much respect. It
gives identification to the moral character of a person. Dishonest people may easily get trust and
respect from other people. However, they lose that forever whenever they get caught.
Being dishonest is a sin in all the religions, however, people practice it for their short time benefits
and selfishness. They never become morally strong and their life becomes miserable. An honest
person moves freely in society and spread his/her fragrance in all directions. Being honest is never
mean to bear the bad habits of others or bear ill-treated activities. Everyone has rights to reveal and
take action against what is going wrong with him.
Home and school are the places where a child learns moral ethics. Thus, the education system
should ensure to include some essential habits and practices to keep a child close to morality.
Children must be instructed right from the beginning and their childhood to practice honesty.
Youths of any country are the future of that country so they should give better opportunities to
develop moral character so that they can lead their country in a better way.
For all human problems, Honesty is the ultimate solution. Corruption and various problems are
everywhere in society. It is because of the decreasing number of honest people. In today’s fast and
competitive world, we have forgotten about moral and integral ethics. It is very important and
necessary for us to rethink and remodel, that we bring the honesty back in society so that everything
goes in a natural manner.
Moral ethics of a person is known through Honesty. In a society, if all the people seriously practice
getting honest, then society will become an ideal society and free of all the corruptions and evils.
There will be huge changes in the day-to-day life of everyone. It can happen very easily if all the
parents and teachers understand their responsibilities towards the nation and teach their children and
students about moral ethics.
People should realize the value of honesty in order to manage social and economic balance. Honesty
is an essential requirement in modern time. It is one of the best habits which encourages an
individual and make capable enough to solve and handle any difficult situation in his/her life.
Honesty acts as a catalyst in strengthening our will power to face and fight any odds in life.
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Studying effectively
Getting yourself ready for exams might seem terrifying. With the help of our easy tips and tricks,
you can effectively avoid all the stress and lack of sleep that the majority of students face when
studying for their finals.
The main rule that you, as a student, should remember is that studying for a long time does not
equal studying effectively. The longer you try to stay focused, the less information you retain as
your brain seeks a little rest and makes you distracted. But that is just what the majority of students
do when they try to catch up and get ready for exams. You can often see students pulling all-
nighters before their finals, drinking lots of coffee.
So, should you do the same? Certainly, not! Of course, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have to spend
time reciting your notes at all. It just means that you can achieve much more in less time.
Here are a few things that will help you spend your time studying more productively:
Pay attention to the note-taking method that you are using. Change it if you think that your
notes are not convenient to navigate through. It might take a while to define what method
suits you the best (or even a few of them for different classes), but you will thank yourself
later when getting ready for your exam.
Create a schedule for every day that includes hours that you dedicate to studying. Stick to it.
Have breaks. Even a short 15-minute break can make a lot of difference.
Create a mind map.
Minimize distraction. Many students think that they are quite productive, while not even
noticing that the majority of the time they spend on studying and doing their homework,
they are procrastinating. Scrolling through social media or texting with your friends is not
the way to get ready for the exam. You can do it later.
Have a comfortable place to study. Having a desk with a comfortable chair is not always
possible. But you can still have a place to do your homework. Keep this area clean, and you
will notice that your mind is much sharper.
Set goals. You will definitely need the motivation to study, so pay attention to the goals that
you are trying to achieve. Break them into short-term and long-term goals and divide them
into even smaller tasks that you can complete every day.
Though many students know that taking notes is essential, not all of them actually pay attention to
the method that they are using. However, if you want to be successful in your studies, this is the first
thing that you should work on.
There are a lot of various note-taking methods that you should try. Each of them has pros and cons.
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For example, you might try out the Boxing method and find out that it is pretty convenient for
classes that are split into sections. At the same time, the Mapping method is great for lectures that
contain a lot of structured information and also helps you out if you are a visual learner.
Try out the Cornel method, as it is effective for various lectures and classes. Once you make your
notes work, you will be able to navigate through them easier and retain information better.
Create a Schedule
The schedule is an important part of the study routine of any student. It’s crucial to be able to
dedicate enough time to do your homework and be disciplined when it comes to procrastination.
When you need to get ready for your exams, it’s important to plan your studies beforehand. Create a
schedule and put in your classes and your study sessions. For example, three or four hours every
evening. Be ready to study through the weekends, too, if you have a lot to catch up. Make sure you
write down the dates of exams so that you are able to see how much time you have left.
Have Breaks
Even the sharpest mind needs breaks. It’s crucial to have rest in order to stay focused and organized.
Take short breaks every 40-50 minutes of studying and spend them on snacking, listening to music,
etc. You will definitely see the difference, as it will be easier for you to get back to studying.
There is also a method that is called the Pomodoro technique that every student should try. This is
basically a time management method that implies working on short but intensive intervals alternated
with breaks. For example, you can study for 30 minutes straight and then have a short five- to ten-
minute break. Set the timers, so you stick to the schedule and have longer breaks (around 20
minutes) every 3-4 intervals.
Minimize Distractions
We all know that studying might be boring. That’s why a lot of students try to make this time a little
bit more amusing by texting, watching TV, etc. However, this is just another form of
procrastination.
Turn off your TV, and you might notice that it is actually much easier for you to stay focused on
your studies. Mute your phone, and you will spend less time completing the same task.
Moreover, not all music is great for background noise. For example, if you are listening to songs
that contain lyrics, it distracts your brain as it has to process the information that it receives through
your hearing. That means that the information that you are reading at that moment won’t be retained
as well as it could be. If you can’t focus in complete silence, you should definitely choose classical
music or chill ambient music as they don’t create such a distraction.
One more thing that you should pay attention to is to be concentrated on one task only. Multitasking
isn’t effective when it comes to studying. As there is a lot of information that your brain needs to
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retain, try not to mix it up, or else your studying won’t be productive. So, end the topic or section
first and then start another one.
Having a comfortable and clean space is essential to have your thoughts organized too. It’s tempting
to stay with your notebooks in your bed; however, try avoiding this. You will feel much more
concentrated when sitting at the desk or in the library.
But why is it important to keep your place clean and neat? Some studies show us that cluttered and
messy spaces tend to affect our concentration, mood, and productivity. So, just cleaning your desk
from unnecessary things can boost your studying routine.
Moreover, your brain constantly makes associations with the setting around you. If you have a
particular time and place for studying, your brain will get used to it, and study sessions will be much
easier to handle.
Getting ready for the finals also means that you should stay motivated and goal-oriented through
this time; otherwise you might not be as successful in your studies as you wish. That’s why we
always recommend setting your priorities and goals when it comes to studying. For example,
complete all the assignments on time, succeed in the finals, etc.
What can you do? Create a list of all the topics and questions that you need to cover. Many
professors are honest about their tests and even tell you that particular information is going to be in
your final, but not many students listen. So, pay attention to the information that your lecturer
emphasizes as it is most likely to appear in the test.
After you create such a list, make sure to put it into your schedule and daily to-do lists, so that you
can see that you are on time. Don’t try to manage big chunks of information at the time – better
spread it over a few days. For example, you can write down that the next weekend you will dedicate
to the first section of the course. You should also divide bigger assignments, e.g. a term paper, into
smaller parts and work on them slowly.
When you have clear goals and tasks, it’s easier to keep track of your progress and your
achievements. You can reward yourself with some treat or anything else that brings you joy every
time when you complete another task.
It’s also crucial to set your priorities and stick to them while getting ready for the finals. Prioritize
your studies and plan your study sessions first. We know that it’s hard, but this is what actually
works for the majority of students.
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