The Banality of Empathy
The Banality of Empathy
Narrative is an incredible vehicle for virtual experience—we think and feel with
characters. It simulates empathy, so we believe it stimulates it. But if witnessing
suffering firsthand doesn’t spark good deeds, why do we think art about suffering will?
Every time I restarted the “game” to explore another fork in the path, I got a
little less squeamish about drug abuse, about self-harm, about murder.
Gradually, something became apparent to me. My empathy for the hero was
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This viewing experience finally undid for me what I have long suspected to be
a meaningless platitude: the idea that art promotes empathy. This idea is
particularly prevalent when it comes to those works of art described as
“narrative”: stories, novels, TV shows, movies, comics. We assume that works
that depict characters in action over time must make us empathize with them,
or as the saying goes, “walk a mile in their shoes.” And we assume that this is
a good thing. Why?
The idea goes back at least to the eighteenth century, when the philosopher
Adam Smith placed “sympathy” (meaning something closer to what we would
now call “empathy”) at the center of ethical relations, leading the novelist
George Eliot to claim, a century later, that “if Art does not enlarge men’s
sympathies, it does nothing morally.” This concatenated belief is now
everywhere: art encourages empathy and empathy will save us all. We see it
in lay summaries of neuroscience, in the use of virtual reality to foster
empathy, and lately, in sporadic calls for us to read fiction about those
especially under threat in our time: refugees, victims of mass shootings,
transgender people, etc.
Karl Ove Knausgaard’s acceptance speech for his 2015 Welt Literaturpreis,
published as “The Vanishing Point” in The New Yorker, doesn’t use the word
empathy but typifies the general tenor of the claim. Musing on the photo of a
“dead little boy on the beach”—Alan Kurdi, a young Syrian refugee who
washed up drowned on the shores of the Mediterranean—Knausgaard is
shocked into a realization: “Are people dying? While this insight may be
banal, its repercussions are not.” He goes on to compare the news media,
which he thinks takes a remote, drone’s-eye view of other people, with an
idealized version of the novel:
There is a vanishing point in our humanity, a point at which the other goes from
being definite to indefinite. But this point is also the locus for the opposite
movement, in which the other goes from indefinite to definite—and if there is an
ethics of the novel, then it is here, in the zone that lies between the one and the all,
that it comes into force and takes its basis. The instant a novel is opened and a
reader begins to read, the remoteness between writer and reader dissolves.
The other that thereby emerges does so in the reader’s imagination, assimilating at
once into his or her mind… This space—that is, the novel’s—is idiosyncratic,
particular, and singular: in other words, it represents the exact opposite of the
media, which strives toward the universal and general.
Knausgaard captures how our concept of empathy has shifted. This isn’t just
putting another person’s shoes on. Rather, the space between people
“dissolves”; the reader “assimilates” the other into his or her mind. It’s a kind
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Empathy is, in a word, selfish. In his bracing and persuasive 2016 book
Against Empathy, Paul Bloom writes, “Empathy is a spotlight focusing on
certain people in the here and now… Empathy is biased… It is shortsighted.”
Bloom helpfully distinguishes between the more useful cognitive empathy—
understanding what’s happening in other minds and bodies—and emotional
empathy, trying to feel like or even as someone else. With a simple thought
experiment—you pass by a lake where a child is drowning—Bloom shows
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that emotional empathy is often beside the point for moral action. You don’t
have to feel the suffocation, the clutch of a throat gasping for air, to save
someone.
The slippage between emotional empathy and the good in our public
discourse also presumes that when we do feel the suffering of others, we are
prompted to relieve it. But this is not always true. Sometimes, we just want it
to go away. Bloom cites a German woman who wrote a letter complaining of
the concentration camps near her home: “One is often an unwilling witness to
such outrages… I request that it be arranged that such inhuman deeds be
discontinued, or else be done where one does not see it.” Other times, we
empathize with suffering as a kind of amusement that has no bearing on our
ethical behavior. A case in point: white American football fans may wince
with vicarious pain as they watch black players ram into each other, but that
doesn’t mean they care about the state-sanctioned violence to which those
players are susceptible when they walk off the field.
The philosopher Candace Vogler takes this assumption apart. She notes that
fictional characters lack two qualities fundamental to humans: a capacity for
change and a resistance to being known. In fact, she argues, “I will be making
an ethical mistake if I take myself to have the kind of grasp of a person that
fiction makes available to me in my engagements with imaginary people…
No human being will be knowable in the way that any literary character worth
repeated readings is knowable.”
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My two assassins took their time in killing me. The slowed-down pace at which
they raised and fired their guns, the lack of concern or interest this seemed to
imply, the total absence on my part of any attempt to escape although I had plenty
of time to do so—all these made our actions passive. We weren’t doing them: they
were being done. The guns were being fired, I was being hit, being returned to the
ground. The ground’s surface was neutral—neither warm nor cold…. When I let
my head roll slightly back, a bollard hid all these words except for one of the two
Escapes. Would my man have seen this, just before the life dribbled out of him
towards the puddle? Escape?
The possessives, “my two assassins” and “my man”; the conscription into a
willful passivity; the mechanical quality of the sequence, absent of concern or
interest or survival instinct; the supposed neutrality of the usurped ground; the
ironized “Escape”: Isn’t this creepy, fugue-like occupation of the dead a truer
picture of contemporary empathy than the older cliché of walking a mile in
another’s shoes?
The fact that it’s a rich white man taking a poor black man’s death for a spin is
no coincidence. The empathy model of art can bleed too easily into the
relishing of suffering by those who are safe from it. It’s a gateway drug to
white saviorism, with its familiar blend of propaganda, pornography, and
paternalism. It’s an emotional palliative that distracts us from real inequities,
on the page and on screen, to say nothing of our actual lives. And it has
imposed upon readers and viewers the idea that they can and ought to use art
to inhabit others, especially the marginalized.
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This may sound a lot like empathy but Arendt insists that it isn’t. Rather than
virtually becoming another, she asks you to imagine using your own mind but
from their position. It’s a matter of keeping your distance, maintaining
integrity, in both senses. It has some affinity with Bloom’s emphasis on
cognition rather than feeling. This need not be cold, just less… voracious. I
find that the best way to grasp the distinction between “representative
thinking” and emotional empathy is Arendt’s lovely phrase, “one trains one’s
imagination to go visiting.” This way of relating to others is not just tourism.
Nor is it total occupation—there is no “assimilation” of self and other. Rather,
you make an active, imaginative effort to travel outside of your circumstances
and to stay a while, where you’re welcome.
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It’s no surprise that when Arendt turns to literature, she sees it as rooted in the
“disinterested pursuit of truth”: “The political function of the storyteller—
historian or novelist—is to teach acceptance of things as they are. Out of this
acceptance, which can also be called truthfulness, arises the faculty of
judgment.” Arendt does not mean “acceptance” as a form of political
quietism. She means “truthfulness,” as opposed to propaganda, which is
partial—biased, incomplete information.
What would this model of art as “representative thinking” entail? Well, for
one thing, literally more representation. One can only bring the experiences of
others to mind if they are made imaginatively available to us. Perhaps, instead
of the current distribution—portrayals of “default humans” (that is, straight
white men, good and evil) vs. empathy vehicles (that is, everybody else)—we
could simply have greater variety of experience represented in our art. The
part of the hero has been dominated for so long by what is actually a world
minority that this kind of change is almost hard to picture. But there’s a reason
the “Bandersnatch” episode of Black Mirror felt anachronistic to me, beyond
its nostalgia for Eighties-era music and games. Its London is lily-white.
Things have shifted enough in pop culture, and what we expect from it, for
that partial and implausible representation to be newly noticeable to me. We
can offer a fuller, deeper, rounder picture of human experience simply by
casting characters in a different shade, so to speak. But we can also make
more interesting—more daring—art.
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A remarkable sci-fi story by Violet Allen entitled “The Venus Effect” is, to my
mind, one of the best recent depictions of the struggle to reimagine art
centered around someone other than “the default.” The story, which first
appeared in Lightspeed and was selected for The Best American Science
Fiction and Fantasy 2017, is divided into subsections, most of which are
subtitled with potential versions of an adventure tale about a black superhero.
The first, “Apollo Allen and The Girl from Venus,” features a rooftop party, at
which Apollo catches sight of a love interest just as she accidentally falls off
the roof. He watches in shock as she speeds toward the ground, then “just
stops and hangs in the air.” The girl from Venus lowers herself gently and
races off. Intrigued, he chases after her, but then, an unexpected twist:
There is a man in a police uniform standing at the corner. Apollo does not see him
in the darkness, does not know that he is running toward him. The man in the
police uniform draws his weapon and yells for Apollo to stop. Inertia and
confusion do not allow Apollo to stop quickly enough. Fearing for his life, the
man in the police uniform pulls the trigger of his weapon several times, and the
bullets strike Apollo in his chest, doing critical damage to his heart and lungs. He
flops to the ground. He is dead now.
Here, a wry voice intrudes: “Uh, what? That was not supposed to happen…
Dudes aren’t supposed to just pop off and end stories out of nowhere.” This
writerly voice reflects on their narrative choices—“He was a pretty unlikeable
protagonist, anyway, a petty, horny, pretentious idiot with an almost palpable
stink of author surrogacy on him”—and decides to start over: “This time,
we’ll go classic. We’ll have a real hero you can look up to, and cool action-
adventure shit will go down.”
The next version of the story, “Apollo Rocket vs. The Space Barons from
Beyond Pluto,” gives us a goody-two-shoes type, a star basketball player
whose words are edited into anodyne cheese on the page (“ ‘Holy shit Golly,’
he says”). This time, Apollo discovers the alien woman after her ship has
crashed. But while gathering supplies to heal her wounds, he is again accosted
by a police officer. Apollo reaches for his wallet. You know the drill. The
story again breaks into a metafictional aside, this time puzzling out why the
story keeps hitting a wall with this specific character:
To be honest, I don’t really get the whole “relatability” thing. Isn’t the point of
reading to subsume one’s own experience for the experience of another, to crawl
out of one’s body and into a stranger’s thoughts? Why would you want to read
about someone just like you? Stories are windows, not mirrors. Everybody’s
human. Shouldn’t that make them relatable enough?
The writer figure tries another tack: “Everybody loves children, and
everybody was one. Plus, it’s really easy to make them super-relatable.” But
even with softening edits like “a fantastic-looking gun object that in no way
resembles a gun or any other real-life weapon,” our next hero Apollo Kidd
reaches an untimely end at the hands of a cop. As does Apollo Young,
member of a “multicultural, gender-inclusive” justice league, and
Apollonia Williams-Carter (“Why not a lady-protagonist? Women are
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empathetic and non-threatening and totally cool”), and on and on. The writer
figure begins to despair: “It’s the same story every time. Again and again and
again.”
I won’t spoil the rest of Allen’s story—you should read it yourself—but its
chilling end makes a deft formal turn that takes our contemporary faith in the
power of fictional empathy and twists it like a knife. The story as a whole
offers an object lesson in how empathy is beside the point when respectability
politics neutralizes the kind of hero we can “relate to.” It makes us question
which kinds of murder we represent and which we censor. It challenges the
buoyant, frictionless illusion of choice in representations of the eternal return
of death in works like “Bandersnatch.” Most importantly, “The Venus Effect”
gives the lie to the idea that art can somehow save us from the violence that
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still permeates people’s lives, shockingly unevenly. “I was just trying to find
some meaning, the moral of the story,” the writer figure says. “But murder is
inherently meaningless.”
Namwali Serpell
Namwali Serpell is a Zambian writer and Professor of English at Harvard. She is the author
of The Old Drift, a novel, and Stranger Faces, a nonfiction book. (March 2021)
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