BDSM

Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, Masochism

WHAT IS BDSM?
BDSM is a term used to describe sex that involves dominance, submission, and control. The practice typically involves
one partner taking on a more dominant role during sex, while the other is more submissive.

According to a 2016 study, nearly 47% of women and 60% of men have fantasized about dominating someone in a
sexual context. The same study found that BDSM sex was slightly more prevalent in couples on the LGBTQ spectrum,
but researchers otherwise determined that BDSM sex was practiced across different ages, genders, and ethnic
backgrounds.
IIs there a light BDSM?
Yes and some “light” BDSM practices may be a good starting point for beginners. These can include:

● Hair pulling
● Handcuffs
● Scarf or tie bondage
● Blindfolds
● Light spanking
● Role-playing
What is a dom and a sub?
In a relationship with two partners, one will typically play the dominant (dom) role,
while the other will play the submissive (sub) role. This dominant and submissive
dynamic is often referred to as a top/bottom dynamic. While the dominant partner, or
top, is typically the one taking control in spanking, bonding, whipping, or other sexual
scenarios, the submissive, or bottom, may also keep control by demanding the top
perform certain roles or insist on switching roles.
What is a switch?
A “switch” is a person who shifts between the dominant and submissive roles,
depending on the partner and the context.
What are the BDSM Category?

● Bondage
● Discipline
● Dominance
● Submission
● Sadism and masochism
BONDAGE
This involves limiting a partner’s freedom of movement, with, for example, ropes,
handcuffs, or other restraints.
DISCIPLINE
Through agreed-upon rules and punishments, a dominant partner can exercise control
over a submissive partner.
DOMINANCE
This is showing authority over a physical partner, either during sex or outside of the
bedroom.
SUBMISSION
A partner shows obedience to the dominant partner's actions and wishes.
SADISM & MASOCHISM
This involves pleasure that a partner may feel from either inflicting pain (sadism) or receiving pain (masochism) –
either physical or emotional.

While these are the broader categories, there is no one way to practice BDSM. Different types can include power play,
role-playing, pain play, bondage, wax play, edging, sensory deprivation, or humiliation.
IS THERE MORE ON BDSM
Yes, there are a lot of kinks on BDSM in example: Sissy, Findom, Cock and ball
torture, Cuckolding, Erotic asphyxiation, Foot fetish, Impact play, Knismolagnia,
Lactation, Pregnancy, Role play, Sensation play, Tentacles, Urethral sounding,
Voyeurism, Wax play,Hosiery, Urophilia, Humiliation, Female-led relationships,
Age play, Orgasm control (edging), Consensual nonconsent, Gags, Praise kink,
Degradation kink, Mummification, and more
Kinks vs. fetishes
Kink is something that one may or may not include in their sexual behavior as a way to enhance pleasure and
subjective experience. A fetish is something that primarily defines and is inextricably linked to one's sexual
behavior
What are the common fetishes of BDSM in OF
● Dominance and Submission
● Financial Domination
● Sissyfication
● Female domination
● Cuckolding
● Degradation

These are the common kinks/fetishes that you will encounter on OF, let me
explain each of them.
Dominance and Submission
There are subs that wants to be the submissive when it comes to playing with the
model, but there are a lot of fans that wants to be the dominant one, now let’s do
an example on how you will know if the fans wants to be the submissive or wants
to be the dominant.
Financial Domination
Financial domination are not too common on OF, but you will encounter some fans
that has this kinks, now how are you going to handle this kind of kinks?
Sissyfication
Sissyfication is a kind of kind that the fans wants to be treated as a girl and they
want to be humiliated by being a girl, give me an example of chat that you can
think if you experience this kind of Kinks?
Female Domination
Female Domination is the kind ofkinks that the fan wants to be the submissive,
and willing to submit himself to the model, now try to come up with one chat and
be like the model.
Cuckolding
Cuckolding is a type of kink that the fan wants to see the model having sex with
other man, or they love to watch their “wife” to have sex with other man, now if I’m
the fan and you found out that it was my kink, what will you tell me to turn me on?
Degradation and Humiliation
A degradation kink can be considered the opposite of a praise kink. A person with this kink is
turned on by being denigrated and degraded by their partner either through words or through
actions (i.e., being spit on). This kink might do something for you if you lean toward being
submissive and like your partner to take control and tell you what to do in a sexual situation.

A humiliation kink is about being put in your place by a partner. Someone with a humiliation kink
might, for example, get off on being told that their penis is too small or that they're pathetic or a
slut. Humiliation kinks can also be enacted through different kinds of power play such as
bootlicking or facials. It's all about the meaning that the people ascribe to certain acts. Often this
kink is theorized to be found in people who live in "high-respect, high-power" positions by day
and who want to explore the opposite position
PRACTICE
Now after knowing the most commons kinks on BDSM, let’s practice and partner
up