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01 July 2021

Building a family requires discipline.

Integrity requires discipline.
Peace of mind requires discipline.
Investing requires discipline.
Fitness requires discipline.
Wisdom requires discipline.
Creating a business requires discipline.
Discipline buys true wealth

Women: "I don't care about money."

Is the lie that most women tell. When a problem arises then here is
the question.
Women: "So...What do you do?"
Women always want patriarchal protection. Do not listen to what
they say watch what they do.
Never let a woman lead in the relationship

THE PARADOX OF SOLITARY CONFINEMENT

The writer's pen is limited to vomit its ink when it comes to political
matters. However, the Redpill and politics are stubborn twins that
are intertwined. The events that have unfolded in South Africa this
week during the trial and incarceration of its former leader Jacob
Zuma is not only embarrassing but, heart wretching especially for
some of us who have strong passion for Pan-Africanism. Zuma was
incarcerated at the age of 2 for ten year and is not a stranger to
political gimmicks.

Whether he is wrong or right my grandfather always told me that;

"kutonga uroi" literally translating once you are on the helm you
can't rule without making mistakes. Msholozi has been nabbed for
what is regarded as constitutional delinquency but the questions

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are; Jacob Zuma was being ignored when he requested that
Reymond Zondo recusal himself because he felt his past friendship
with him might compromise everything that's why he didn't show up
at Zondo commission.Were his submissions unconstitutional?
Secondly, was it just for Zuma to be tried without being heard?
Lastly, there is a legal principle which is food for thought "nemo
judex in causa sua maxim": translating, no one should be judge in
his own cause. In the interest of self convictionPresident Zuma
chose to be jailed and live a solitude life in prison rather than giving
in on situations where he felt Justice wasn't served. In solidarity
with Msholozi the writer serves you with the paradox of solitary
confinement.

It is common that one can be alone but not lonely. If you feel bad in
your own company or giving up on your goals and what you think is
right for the purpose of avoiding solitude dear brother a painful
lesson is coming for you. Nomatter how much you love her there
must be time you have to choose yourself over anyone else and
never give a shit on that. Long term commitments can be terminated
for the benefit of oneself and for the creation of an unbreakable
legacy. Hypergamy does not care the sacrifices you do to make her
happy remember this whenever you are doing something for
someone whom you consider to be your lover. Every women will be
waiting for the winner on the finishing line to dine with him.

If you are popular once she gain popularity by being in love with you
definitely she will dump you. Train yourself through solitary
confinement in your own apartment and enjoy the best of your life
without considering anyone else.

A caveat, of course, is that solitude should involve choice. It is

positive when seen as a chance to retreat, reboot and reconnect
with ourselves.

"Being solitary is being alone luxuriously immersed in doing things

of your own choice, aware of the fullness of your own presence
rather than the absence of others," author Alice Koller says.
"Because solitude is an achievement."

An extended sense of isolation or loneliness, on the other hand, can

be extremely detrimental to both our physical and psychological
health, research shows.
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However, a man should pay a piece of price on his trip to hell for him
to become the prize. Hence pain is necessary especially when you
want to grow. Sometimes heartbreaks, toxic families and social
neglects lead us to choose solitude. I have to mention lockdown
currently was one of the most unexpected social setup that was a
perfect time for solitary confinement. The first basic is how to
survive alone. When you find out yourself in aloof, you will surely
discover the more stronger, contended self- loved version of you.
Solitary confinement beats out the beast that is within you.

More importantly, solitary confinement is a vaccine against

depression anxiety disappointments. Since you know that you are
stronger alone and there are a lot of silent battles you fought and
won alone it is Takesure Mandivengerei who wrote a letter to me
strengthening me when I was faced with imprisonment; "You are
the person who comforted you when you were brokenhearted. You
are the person who loved you when you were despised. You are the
person who encouraged you when everything was going against
you. You are the person who was with on those sleepless nights.
You are strong alone. Take that time to introvert and communicate
with your soul and heart seek guidance from it definitely some of
the unresolved questions in life will be answered take that time to
write your journey and plan it. If you are convicted which I know
you are innocent thank your God and ancestors you will come back
stronger. It is not my wish for you to be jailed but if it happens take
it with courage and pride"

Director of Ethics and Moral Foundation Ambaisi Masai has

sensationally claimed that men who marry when they are financially
stable are likely to settle with women who are seeking economic
refuge. �‍♂️

"Most women are in marriages because they cannot handle life

alone, but most men are in marriages because they love their wives.
If a man leaves, a woman will go to court. If a woman leaves,
a man will fight alone."

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"Ask any woman what she wants in a man, and 'financially stable'
will be first on her list. Ask any man what he needs in a woman, and
'love and loyalty' will be the first thing on his list."

"Be cautious if you start dating when you are financially stable.
Chances are very high that you will marry an economic refugee in
the name of a wife. And truth be said, when all women will become
empowered, marriages will never stand. Marriages stand because
men can provide. A marriage where a woman alone provides can
never stand."
Copied from another forum. What are your thoughts on this?

This girl bought an iPhone, when the father saw it, he asked
her"what was the st thing you did after buying the phone"?

She said"I put an anti-scratch sticker and bought a cover for the
phone".
Did someone force you to do so? She said "No".

The father asked her"did you think it was an insult to the

manufacturer?" She said "No that it was recommended that a cover
be used on the phone".
Did you cover it because it was cheap and ugly?

"No daddy, actually I covered it because I did not want any damage
to it or what would devalue the phone".

"When you put the cover,did it reduce the iPhone beauty?"

"Daddy I think it looks better and worth it for the protection it gives
to my new iPhone".
The father looked lovingly at his daughter and said"if I had asked
you to cover your body which is much more precious than your
iphone,would you have readily agreed?".

She was mute....

Indecent dressing and exposure of your body reduces your value

and respect.
Am I talking to somebody???

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Wearing short clothes is a woman's personal choice. Rejecting her is
yours.

The best men, the best husbands, and the best fathers don't watch
porn.

Hurts to hear but you needed to hear it.

One mistake you should never make in this life is to allow yourself
to be recruited, by someone, to hate another person who hasn't
wronged you. Only a fool inherits other people's enemies as a sign of
loyalty.

A strong man is like a colossal compulsion of dominance in a world

pervaded by weaklings. Fragile man are splintered by dominance;
the very quality they desperately necessitate for their prosperity. Of
course, many of them disdain it because they stand in need of it yet
don't know how to cultivate it. It leaves them in a tight spot where
their deprivation and lack of knowledge compels scorn more than
incentive. If they're not taught, they'll remain tied.

When she complains about you always busy

What she really means is "let's see if you choose me over your
purpose"

And when you choose her she knows you're weak

Weak men simp to women

Strong men simp to purpose.

If she knows she can manipulate you, she will. You will not get an
exclusive pass and extra points for agreeableness. You must be

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difficult to deceive and unsettle; clever, composed and aggressive.
Weakness will be trounced upon; strength submitted to.

Keep your personal issues away from women.

they‍don’t‍want‍their‍man‍to‍be‍weak‍or‍show‍signs‍of‍uncertainty.

Always stay on top on your shit.

Find a confidant (a brotherbrotherhood you can rely on)if you

cannot solve your issues on your own.

Women are natural rebels.

They want to constantly prove their independence by doing the

opposite of what you tell them to.

If she tries to challenge you by saying "I'm leaving, it's late"

Tell her " Of course, it's way past your bedtime anyway"

and MEAN IT.

To be masculine is to be defiant. If you know nothing of defiance,

you’re‍a‍doormat.‍To‍be‍a‍man‍in‍a world of effeminacy is a
deliberate and inherent act of rebellion against the modern world. It
takes real integrity to stand firmly amidst the hostility of weak men,
who concemn the very righteousness of masculine sovereignty. If
there’s‍any‍time‍to‍stand‍firm,‍it’s‍right‍now.‍For‍the‍world‍has‍
never seen so much backlash, so much corruption.

I dare every man to die a few times before his death. There is
nothing more productive than rebirth, since it transforms your
psyche itself and renews your vital vigour with which you will serve
the world. Rebirth is might and vitality. Die in every aspect of life
you become an immortal. If you haven't been heartbroken you won't
understand the female nature such heartbreaks are a ticket to hell
that forges you into a complete masculine man.

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One of the duties of a man in a society is to avoid fucking every
cheap skirts that come your way a woman's value in society comes
from being associated w a male chenjera kushandiswa uchiti ndiwe
ukushandisa�

Men,

There are two rules in life,

never give out all the information.

Men,

If your woman cheats on you, forgive her.

A small mistake like sleeping with another man should not take away your
love for her.

She is human. She won't cheat again.

Forgive and forget.

This is the gospel of desperate men.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

A woman who is older than you is a mature woman.

She brings maturity and leadership in the relationship.

If she is older by 5 years, the better.

She is like wine, the older, the better.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

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Do not fuck every woman you meet. Do not cum in any hoe. Now, more than
ever, vet the mother of your kids like rocket scientists checking a rocket
before a space flight. What is her background, family, sisters, friends,
dreams. This is life or death.

Men,

What is wrong if she aborts your pregnancy?

There is nothing wrong.

She is being mindful that you don't have enough resources to be a father,

This is a sign of love.

Love her more.

The more she aborts, the more you love.

DON'T BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

Always be around your woman.

Don't leave her.

Escort her to work, go with her to the market.

If you don't do this, another man will snatch her from you. Be around her all
the time.

Resign from your work to be with her.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

Once you get some good money,

Buy her flowers & chocolate.

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Why save? What the hell is a Sacco?

You only live once. Entertain her.

Make her happy. She will remember your sacrifices.

Because women remember your sacrifices.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

If your woman is earning more than you, celebrate!

You are the luckiest man alive.

Why even bother to provide yet she can do it effortlessly?

Just sit in the house, warm the sofas as you watch TV.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

Argue with your woman.

Keep arguing until she loses the argument.

If she shouts, just shout back the loudest.

She will respect you.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

You want her not to leave you?

Beg her for attention.

Cry. Kneel.

Use more thanquestion mark

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“Babe‍why‍do‍you‍want‍to‍leave‍me??????”

Be as needy and as pathetic as possible.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

If she comes home drunk at 3 AM, open the door & forgive her.

If she disrespects you, please tolerate her.

If she tears your certificate or smashes your car, just pray for her. It is
satan tempting your relationship not her.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

If you spot a cute woman but a man is seducing her,

Start digging about this man, share his negatives with this girl. Betray the
man.

If you are their boss, then sack this man, promote the girl. POWER!

She will love you more.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Men,

You cannot elongate your penis.

Why are you struggling so much to please her?

If your sex game is not awesome, just calm down and start fixing your
health.

Stay away from shortcuts, masturbation and blue pills.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

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Men,

Do not be a desperate man.

Know your worth.

Don't orbit around women showing neediness and clinginess.

Respect yourself and guard your masculine frame.

A sought-after man leaves a compelling, almost intoxicating impression on a

woman, and once captured by his charm, her collectedness is quickly
unsettled. Be this men

Young Men,

If you have a dating app in your phone, you are a mumu man. Delete that
shit right now. Stop approaching women on Instagram Facebook WhatsApp
or Twitter DM. Do it once in a while, but if it is the only way you are
approaching women, then you are a mumu man. Approach women
physically.‍Your‍ancestors‍fought‍bears‍just‍to‍get‍food.‍And‍you‍can’t‍
approach someone with a pair of boobs like she has a gun? How are you
going to‍be‍the‍leader‍of‍your‍household‍when‍you‍can’t‍even‍cold‍approach‍
women?Women fall for confident & courageous men! Weak, timid men
masturbate

Young Men,

You can not afford to waste your time thinking about if a girl likes you or
not. You can not waste your time analyzing whatever she said or what her
actions mean. Spend that time writing a business plan for your next
investment or go to the gym. Comeon!

Do‍not‍give‍a‍woman‍so‍much‍power‍over‍you‍in‍your‍mind.‍Don’t‍you‍love‍
peace in your life. She said‍“this‍or‍that”‍orshe‍did‍“this‍or‍that”‍,‍does‍that‍
mean she likes me? No one gives a fuck dude. Go get a job or some shit.
Start a side hustle. Learn a new skill. Fuck you

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Above all, be a man. You have your own time, your own dreams, and your
own plans, and you should almost never compromise them to make
someone else happy (romantic interest or not). For instance, if you don't
like something, don't pretend to like it. Be confident about your likes and
dislikes - this will naturally attract like-minded people.
Discover your values. What do you like? What do you hate? What is unique
about you? What makes you happy? Know your self, or you'll find yourself
faking values in order to "fit in." Can you really be happy if you're
pretending to be someone you're not?

2
Become the center of your world. You exist primarily to make yourself
happy - others are secondary. Make yourself and your life a priority. If you
treat yourself like you're important, other people, including women, will see
you as important too. Most people are naturally attracted to important
people - being important is cool!
With very rare exceptions, never sacrifice your self-image when pursuing a
romantic interest. Do you like a girl who doesn't seem interested? Forget
about her - you're too valuable to waste time trying to appease her.
Women will appreciate your self-interest. It shows that you know what you
want and you're not afraid to go for it.

3
Stop caring about everything. Nothing's less sexy than someone who's
constantly stressed out about every minor aspect of his life. Bad boys don't
sweat the small stuff because they're sure that they have it all under
control. For instance, in a situation where you're around women that you
find attractive, while you won't necessarily want to act like a complete slob,
you'll want to try to remain as relaxed as if you were at home watching TV.
Doing this gives the signal to the people around you that you're cool,
confident, and in-control of your situation, which, for bad boys, can be
downright sexy.

It's pretty tough to go from being a nervous, worried person to a smooth,

confident player overnight. If you're still working at being relaxed, try
slowing down your movements and actions — this is a great first step that
will make you look (and feel) much calmer. Walk with slow, sure strides.
Speak slowly but confidently. Avoid flinching whenever you can.
Even for bad boys, things don't always go as planned. In the event that
something does go wrong, try not to stress. Instead, play it off with a low-
key joke. For instance, if you spill a drink all over yourself, don't spend time
worrying about how you'll need to bleach it when you get home. Instead,
just say something like, "Whoa! Looks like I have a new tie-dye to add to my
collection." It's a little cheesy, but it shows that minor problems don't phase
you.

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4
Stop asking for permission or approval. So-called "nice guys" are always
waiting for a sign that it's safe to proceed before taking action. That sign,
however, often doesn't come, so they appear indecisive. Be decisive
(especially with women) and handle objections as they come. Don't look to
others to determine if you're acting "right". Do what feels right for you. You
might be surprised by what you've always had permission to do!
With women: instead of asking "Can I kiss you," just go for the kiss. The
same goes for "Will you go on a date with me?" Start talking to her, and say
"We need to hang out. What's good for you, Friday or Saturday?" Even if
you're shot down, your decisiveness is much more attractive than if you
simply asked for her attention.
Have an opinion on everything, from the restaurants you eat at to how you
spend your free time. Know what you want, and take action to achieve it -
not only will you be more attractive, but you'll be happier.[]
Disclaimer: Real men aren't creeps or pervs. Be confident, but also be very
aware of your partner's needs. Never, ever force a kiss (or worse) on
someone who doesn't want it. Just as you are keenly aware of your own
desires, so are they. Respect their decisions.

5
Lead. As a man, always lead. Don't wait for someone to tell you where to go
or what to do. If your group can't make a decision, make it yourself. Being a
leader becomes natural once you stop worrying about other people and go
and do what you know you need to do. You're not being selfish. Rather,
you're taking care of your own life because you don't expect anyone to do it
for you.
Be the leader of your life in every situation - If you want to talk to that girl,
or want to get that job, go do it.
Also be a leader to your peers - If a friend is too chicken to talk to a girl, you
can tease him a little as long as you're not cruel and your goal is to help
motivate him to gain confidence. Your friends will appreciate your help and
women will go crazy for you.

6
Be honest with everyone, especially yourself. One reason girls love bad boys
is because they're honest. "Nice guys" often aren't. If a bad boy likes a girl,
he will show her. A nice guy tends to hide his interest or beat around the
bush. A nice guy tries to be a girl's friend as a stepping stone to becoming
her boyfriend, but winds up just being her friend. Most girls know when
guys like them. A bad boy knows this and has no problem showing this to a
girl. In order to be a bad boy, be honest about your intentions. Most girls
will appreciate the honesty - no one likes wading through friendly BS to find
a potential partner.
Girls can even appreciate relatively crude signs of interest. For instance,
both bad boys and nice guys will look at a girl's chest. However, a bad boy
won't care about being caught. This is much more attractive than trying to

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sneak a peek but being caught. The bad boy is honest about what he wants
and he knows he has no reason to be ashamed.

7
Be independent. Never "need" anyone else - other people are nice to have
around, but not necessary for your happiness. Learn to enjoy yourself and
your own company. You will realize that the less you need other people, the
more other people will need you. Always create your own fun and
entertainment. Have a strong passion, and find hobbies and other interests
that you would like to spend your time.
Never make a relationship your first priority or your only source of
happiness. Stop looking for others, especially women, to make you happy -
you don't need them. Men all over the world waste time trying to find
happiness in everything except themselves. When you're happy on your
own, others will naturally want to be around you.
Have a hobby - anything that uses your time and makes you happy. If it's
something that lets you come in contact with new, young, sexy people, all
the better. It should be something that you're passionate about, something
you like, and something that you can build on! If you don't have or want a
hobby, at least volunteer. Use your time to better the world - you're a bad
boy, but you're

📰5 things you must say goodbye to after you get married

One of the greatest things about being single, and something married folks
would always miss, is having the leverage to do whatever pleases you.

We bring you 5 things you must say goodbye to after you get married.

🚫Being self-centred
A marriage is between two people. A core point the lot of you miss is
‘compromise’.‍Marriage‍is‍compromising.‍If‍you‍can’t‍do‍that,‍you‍two are
going‍to‍butting‍heads‍and‍into‍the‍divorce‍attorney’s‍office.‍It’s‍not‍all‍
about‍you,‍honey.‍It’s‍about‍what’s‍beneficial‍to‍you‍both.

🚫Sleepovers

Leaving‍your‍matrimonial‍home‍for‍sleepovers‍at‍your‍friends’‍must‍be‍
trashed‍out.‍Unless‍you’ve told your husband in advance, a spontaneous
sleepover is out of the question.

🚫Taking marriage advice from single friends

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It’s‍a‍completely‍different‍relationship‍— the structure is different and
single‍friends‍don’t‍have‍any‍idea‍what‍married‍life‍is like. The politics of
marriage — you’ll‍just‍have‍to‍experience‍it‍when‍you‍get‍married.

🚫Solo dinner dates with the opposite sex

It may be done for business purposes or with a long-time friend with the
best of intentions, but it gives off the wrong vibe—especially to outsiders.
Outsiders, who may see you out, call your partner and bring drama to your
home. Not worth it. Lunch is much more appropriate and professional for
solo male-female meetings.

🚫Posting sexually provocative photos on social media

Posting semi-nude photos on social media is an outcry for male attention

and public reassurance and for some men, shirtless pictures especially when
you have a well-cut physique also sparks a recipe for temptations.

Equality only applies when womanwants to manipulate Yu into cooking n

washing or property sharing after divorce.if equality ever existed their
parents Wldnt charge Lobola as if they were selling Earth movers.

The dating pool for a young man in 202

•social‍media‍junkie‍- thinks she's a celeb coz of her followers

•pizza‍bandits‍- women using men for free meals
•single‍moms‍- expects 00% responsibility & 0% authority to her funny
looking bastard

...•ghetto‍rats‍- economic refugees from the ghetto

•i'm‍strong‍&‍independent‍- educatedcareer women who think a degree or
job is what keeps a man
•slay‍queens‍- chicks living above their means
•amatuer‍pornstars‍- OnlyFans

...•feminazis‍- women who hate men but want to be like men (penis envy)
•hopeless‍romantics‍- women who leave stable relationships because
they're bored & not "happy"
•drama‍queens‍- they even brag about it saying "I'm a psycho" when they
should be in counseling

...•reformed‍hoes‍- after a lifetime of jumping from dick to dick, she goes to

church & becomes a born again virgin
•damaged‍goods‍- on anti depressants or alcohol due to abortions
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•woke‍brigade‍- women with useless degrees but somehow think they're
intelligent

•••Man,‍it's‍like‍stifling‍through‍the‍garbage‍just‍hoping‍you'll‍find‍
something not too dirty & damaged. Just low quality women with so much
entitlement.

Men with higher testosterone are more disagreeable, assertive & bolder.
They usually know what they want & look better than most men. They tend
2b detested by the weak, but admired by those of the same cloth. These are
the kind of men worthy of your brotherhood. Their vigour will leave an
impression on your soul & their discipline will stimulate your own. People
mock them from behind, but still respect them because they stand above
the fray. Even when you're not in their presence, you unconsciously long for
that camaraderie among superiors who have their life together. By their
admirable character, they dig up d encourage your potential, because
victors like 2 see other triumph

Fastest way for young men to become ambitious is to start lifting weights.

Hard to explain.

But the pain & suffering that leads to to rewards (sculpted body & attraction
from women),

is parallel to being ambitious & suffering for power & wealth.

‘Tell‍Son’

Don't show her you are a nice guy. She will show you she is a bad girl.

Show her you can be a bad guy. She will be a good girl for you.

Men,
As a man, you need to pursue greatness not women. Work towards leaving
a legacy. Men create, we do not consume. Stop wasting your time on
dopamine hits like porn, alcohol, parties etc. Focus on creating anything
that your grandkids & their kids will look back on and marvel. No man has
ever been remembered in history for anything other than becoming the best
version of himself. No one will remember that you fucked 0,000 women or
drank m gallons of alcohol or attended 60,000 parties. Men are remembered
for greatness.

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Men,

A relationship is not a partnership,

It is not a democracy,

The man is the leader, the woman is the follower,

There can never be two equal partners.

Don't allow her to challenge this natural order,

If she does, then end it.

YOU DESERVE THE BEST

Men,

If her mother is meddling in your relationship,

If‍her‍mother‍is‍controlling‍your‍woman’s‍decisions,

This is no longer your relationship, you are just a pawn

Just keep off, end it.

YOU DESERVE THE BEST

Men,

A dirty woman is a dirty relationship,

Don't waste your time with a dirty woman.

She will be throwing her sanitary pads in the toilet bowl,

Or‍she‍will‍be‍dumping‍your‍baby’s‍diapers‍in‍the‍kitchen‍bin.

YOU DESERVE THE BEST

Men,

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Keep your boundaries sealed.

Never be permissible to contempt.

Stay away from your mother in law, she is not your relative. Do not
entertain her.

She will meddle in your marriage and scatter it.

DONT BE THIS DESPERATE

Red pill is like the force of gravity. You can either use it to fall off a cliff or to
generate electricity for an entire nation with a damwall. It's really up to the
practitioner. The phenomenon on its own bears no responsibility for your
outcomes.

Men,

Do not team up with your woman to trash your parents or insult your
siblings.

If she doesn't like your people, abandon her immediately or she will dump
you once she isolates you from your people.

SHE IS NOT YOUR RELATIVE.

Men,

I have an assignment for you,

Just go silently to her place of work and ask the HR to show you in whose
name‍did‍your‍woman‍declare‍as‍her‍‘next‍of‍kin.’

Go back home,

Sip a glass of water.

Lie down.

- and die.

SHE IS NOT YOUR RELATIVE.

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Men,

Once she starts sending you texts like

“‍...now‍you‍are‍treating‍me‍as‍an‍option.‍Just‍know‍one‍day‍you‍will‍miss‍
me.”

It means you have refused to be manipulated.

She is testing the resilience of your frame.

Be firm.

SHE IS NOT YOUR RELATIVE.

Men,

I hope the fridge, TV, beds, cooker, sofas, curtains, carpets belong to you.

- She may buy sheets & cups.

The day she gets angry to leave, let her pack her cups & sheets.

Never allow her to furnish your house.

START from zero.

NOT YOUR RELATIVE.

Men are forged in hell from being boys

Iron is forged in to steel in the furnace

I guess some need to read the paradoxes first before they argue

We have more men committing suicide than women in marriages because of

simping

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Men,

A reminder:

Never be in a relationship with a woman older than you.

Be the oldest.

Why?

Because women look up to men for wisdom, protection and leadership.

If she sees you as a boy, she will never respect you.

YOU DESERVE THE BEST

Fellas;

Once in a while during sex

Call out her name

Then ask her

"What's my name?"

Be strategic about this

Ask her when she's really into it

If she hesitates to answer or mumbles some other strange name

End of the relationship!!!

Women chase men who are chasing their purpose. If you're in your
twenties, your will to achieve something will make women chase you.

If it's late, women need results from you, not your will.

"HONA VAMWE VANA VEZERA RAKO"

this statement has pushed many young people into prisons, unhealthy,
marriages, hospitals and even graves.😒

Move at your own pace..

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Have a wonderful Sunday!! ❤🙏

Fellas, when she tells you about a guy hitting on her;

•she's‍planning‍to‍cheat‍&‍wants‍to‍see‍how‍you'll‍react‍if‍you‍find‍out‍(at‍
most they may already be fucking)

•to‍give‍you‍a‍false‍sense‍of‍security‍(you‍trusting‍her‍for‍her‍honesty)‍so‍
she can cheat in peace

OR it's a shit test

•wants‍to‍see if you're intimidated by other guys (best way to answer this is

- never get emotional - divert & talk about something else)

Either way, you never entertain talking about another dick with your
woman.

Remember:

Girls don't care about the details.

They only care about your results.

They wait to dine with the winners on the finishing line

Things become easier when you don't focus on women who are not
interested in you

When you walk away without hesitation as soon as you realise that she
doesn't feel you anymore

When you don't cling and try to revive dead flames and only focus on what
lies ahead

During semen retention routine when a sensual thought strikes your mind,
stop it right there.

Kill the thought when it is just starting to create itself.

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If you will keep imagining stuff because of the dopamine hit you are gonna
end up masturbation.

No it's not about how to keep relationships. You can never be able to keep
someone if they themselves don't wanna be kept

This group is about teaching a man to BE A MAN💪. Don't be the weaker

species. Don't chase women , know your worth ,value and then your women
will follow you . That's all

Here’s‍what‍they‍don’t‍teach‍you‍at‍school-

You’re‍either‍a‍Predator‍or‍a‍Prey.

You’re‍either‍hiding, trying to protect yourself from a self-created danger,

or‍you’re‍actively‍seeking‍out‍prey‍to‍feast‍and‍conquer,‍so‍you‍can‍
DOMINATE your path.

The Good news?

YOU decide.

Semen retention or abstinence boosts yor testosterone levels

Testosterone boosts male performance u will also find out tht steroids are
designed in such a way bt have detrimental side effects

What are steroids?

Anabolic-androgenic steroids (AAS) are a synthetic form of testosterone,
which is the primary male sex hormone (Trusted Source).

They affect various parts of your body, such as your muscles, hair follicles,
bones, liver, kidneys, and reproductive and nervous systems.

Humans naturally produce this hormone.

In men, its levels increase during puberty to promote the development of

male sex traits, such as body hair growth, a deeper voice, sex drive, and
increased height and muscle mass.

Though traditionally thought of as a male hormone, women also produce

testosterone but in much smaller amounts. It serves several functions for

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women, primarily promoting bone density and a healthy libido (2Trusted
Source)

Masculinity is toxic until:

•‍She‍can't‍open‍a‍jar
•‍Her‍car‍breaks‍down
•‍She‍wants‍to‍start‍a‍family
•‍A‍cockroach‍is‍in‍the‍kitchen
•‍She‍needs‍you‍to‍protect‍her
•‍She‍wants‍you‍to‍build‍a‍house
•‍She‍wants‍you‍to‍provide‍for‍her
•‍She‍hears‍a‍weird‍sound‍at‍3‍am

Men,

- and when you pay dowry,

Pay in instalments.

Don't be a simp trying to impress strangers.

If they ask for 9 cows -

Pay 3 this year ( 202)

Pay 3 after 3 years ( 2024)

The rest you pay during funerals and ceremonies.

Don't rush.

SAVE A MAN

A woman can say a man Is too short for her until he becomes rich,then all
height requirements are out of the window..

Men,

Your mother in law is NOT your relative.

She doesn't like you.

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The thought of you seeing her daughter naked every night drives her mad.

She pretends to like you but if you eavesdrop how she describes you in your
absence, you will faint.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

If you see a man wearing matching clothes withhis woman,

That‍is‍a‍man‍in‍his‍woman’s‍deep‍pockets,

He is already a pussified slave and his frame is becoming loose,

Talk to him,

If he ignores, give him time, he will look for you.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

If you see a man clinging to his woman like a tick, bring that man here.

A man who is always with his woman in the house gossiping is a slave to
her.

Tell‍him,‍“familiarity‍breeds‍contempt”

He will be disrespected and dumped soon.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Stay away from prostitutes.

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All kinds of men - thieves, murderers, urchins, drunkards and retarded
politicians are sleeping with her.

Keep off brothels.

Sleeping with a prostitute leaves you with a dirty soul and troubled esteem.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Your apology is useless to women.

They don't value it, they use it as an opportunity to manipulate you and
conquer your frame.

Never apologise in public or private,

You may do it through subtle actions but not your mouth,

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Stay away from pornography.

Keep it off completely.

Pornography numbs your ability to approach women and have meaningful

sexual bonding.

Pornography addiction leads to erectile failure and early ejaculation.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Sponsoring‍your‍woman’s‍education‍may‍look like a noble idea but it is the

last thing you should do.

She will begin seeing you as a guardian.

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Then, the sexual polarity dies and she will dump you.

Save that money in stocks and shares.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Listen to some reggae or rap music or classic rhumba music instead of

arguing with feminists online.

Instead of arguing with your woman on Whatsapp, why not learn some web
development skills online?

Your attention is your currency.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

When she shouts at you, never shout back.

Remain stoic.

Sometimes she is just seeking attention,

Pin her to the wall, kiss her deeply and dickmatize her so hard.

After that, she will go cook your favourite meal without drama.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

If your woman packs and leaves,

- because of her own irrational decisions

Never follow.

Stay put. Did you chase her? Then, why beg?

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Let her learn the hard way or monkey branch to the next available branch.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Sex is the glue that holds a relationship.

Why do you think she left other men (brothers) at her home?

Did she leave them to come be your sister in bed?

Build your sexual fortitude.

Be the erotic beast she saw on your first date.

SAVE A MAN

Young Men,

I want to remind you to invest in yourself. Buy yourself nice clothes, take
yourself out, go on trips. Learn a new money making skill every 3 months,
perfect it. Start a side hustle. Go and get educated. Get certificates or
degrees. Stop investing in women. Become a selfish man. Take care of
yourself first. Stop trying to save other people before you save yourself.
Some of you buy women gifts that you have never bought for yourself. What
kind‍of‍mental‍prison‍is‍this?‍Women‍don’t‍care‍about‍your‍sacrifices.‍She‍
will leave you. But you can never leave yourself. So why‍don’t‍you‍invest‍in‍
yourself? Make yourself the best version of you. An investment in yourself
will yield a good ROI. You can never make a loss when you invest in
yourself. Stop being mad!

Treating a woman good isn't simping

Treating a woman good when she doesn't act right & treat you right, that's
simping

When it's said don't be a nice guy, it doesn't mean be a jerkass

It means value yourself & how she treats you!!!

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Young Men,

Women are looking for leadership from you. She wants to follow your lead.
She is not looking for flowers, fancy dinners, poems and heartfelt long
messages when she is asleep so that its the first thing she reads in the
morning. Stop this incompetence.

A woman can want you, but she will never approach you. She wants you to
take the lead. Come over, ask her for her name and get her contact. She just
wants to do what you ask her to do. Show some leadership. Approach
women. She is waiting for you. Have some balls

A woman wants you to come up with the next plan. So you have got her
contact. She doesn't want you to text her good morning and good night
every day. Take her out. Go have a small date somewhere and get to know
her. She wants to feel like you are building up to something, fast

She wants you to show her what you want. She knows you don't want to be
a friend. So go ahead and tell her. I want you and I like you. Me and you can
build something together. Just come with me. You go where I go. Take her
to your house and bang her senseless

A woman will want a relationship with you. She will talk to you about it if
she feels you are worth it. She will seek your permission for it. She will ask
you, "what are we?" she wants something much bigger than sex. If you feel
she is worth your commitment, commit.

When dating, she wants you to be the yang to her yin. She will be volatile,
calm her down. She will be emotional, be stoic. You are her everything. She
looks up to you. She wants to please you. She cant do anything without
consulting you, because, your opinion matters to her.

She will be submissive to you only if you are worthy of submission. She will
enter your frame. You have to be the CEO of the relationship and she will be
like a deputy CEO or some shit like that. The relationship is the company.

But most of you are very incompetent TikTok and Instagram lip lickers in
dance video idiots. You fear to approach women. You treat like she is a
queen and you are a peasant in her palace. Women will seek leadership
from men and if you cant provide it, she will substitute you

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A woman wants to respect you. She wants to enter your world. She wants to
help you in your pursuits. She just wants to be a small piece to your puzzle.
The relationship is the company, you are the CEO and she is the deputy CEO.
do not do anything a CEO wouldn't do in a rship.

So, be a leader. Lead her in everything. Allow her to recoil back into her
childish self. Because she knows, you are there. She will serve you like a
crown prince.

BE A LEADER, not a fucking simping clown

If your woman's adding to the burden you're carrying...

Dump her.

A good woman will ALWAYS give you her best, regardless of where you are
in life or whether you're winning or failing.

If she's been doing the opposite? You've been warned.

She isn't the one.

The paradox of truth

You can measure a person's maturity by their appetite for truth and their
capacity to endure it. A certain willingness to confront ugliness and be upset
is fundamental to embracing the truth.

You cannot do this with a mind so fragile it has to be propped up by

fantasies. Let me be clear in stating that a willingness to be upset is not a
desire to be upset, more an acceptance that some things will be distasteful,
unappealing or even horrific, and just because something strikes you in that
way, that this does not detract from its truthfulness. Nobody ever said the
truth had to appeal to you or make you feel good to be correct. Its
correctness does not make it kind. Inversely, pretty lies appeal to all and are
accepted by the great many without real scrutiny, for no real reason other
than they are convenient to believe.
Sometimes the truth serves you, sometimes it undermines you. You have
games that you play and you wield truth as necessary in the furthering of
your interests. That is a separate thing, that isn't this. Do not lose the ability
to be honest with yourself in order to deceive others.

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It is not worth losing the ability to grow through self-evaluation just so you
can more effectively manipulate others.

This is not a wise trade-off

Of course, your life, your choice - assuming you are cerebral enough for this
to be a matter of choice rather than one of impulse.
I am of course of the opinion that the majority of those who are not capable
of being honest with themselves were never cerebral enough to begin with
for this to ever be a choice for them. Most would have developmentally
grown into it due to too little or too much stress. People who aren't
challenged enough live in fantasies because nothing ever disproves them,
and people who are taken past what they can endure live in fantasies
because their lives are too intolerable.

Both have a tenuous relationship with reality and thus an unreliable

honesty. Hiding in fantasy rather than confronting reality is a coward's
instinct, and most people are cowards.

Most people want you to lie to them, but they want to think you're telling
the truth and that they deserve to know it.

Save your honesty for those who will appreciate it. If a man can soberly
accept hearing why he's failing without getting angry - there is hope for
him. He is strong enough to handle reality.

If he makes excuses and rushes to defend himself, he is a lost cause and

you are wasting your time.

Most women are in the latter category.

Truth is an army of thorns surrounding a beautiful rose. No plant hands you

a rose without the pierce of a thorn in the flesh.

Lies are an ocean of comfort. They enable one's escape from reality by
drowning them.

The paradox of falsehoods in just being yourself

One of the most fabricated lies people are fed today is 'just be yourself' - the
notion that if you simply be yourself, things will ultimately fall in place and
your hopes and dreams shall be delivered to you.

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This is self-deception at its finest. There is nothing more destructive than
compelling people to feel more comfortable in their own inadequacy,
instead of encouraging their deliverance, you reinforce their destruction.

You can spoil a person by refraining from being truthful with him. The weak
comfort the weak and thus they mutually affirm 'being yourself' to each
other so they are both doomed to the same fate.

Frankly, a blind person can't be truthful to someone alike, since what he

deems truthful is falsified by poverty. That said, the weak push such a
misleading affirmation from ignorance as much as from comfort.

Since they don't know and don't want to know what lies beyond their
ignorance, they resort to these foolish devices to make up for their lack of
awareness. Telling a poor person to simply be himself is not going to do
anything for him, it simply rouses wishful thinking that has no causal
relationship whatsoever with the situation he finds himself; the ignorant
simply fool other fools - crab bucket mentality.
Funnily, they don't necessarily fool other fools because they want to, but
because they're foolish themselves. Thus, the insecure are all mutually
affirming falsehoods to themselves to preserve a condition of perpetual
doom and duplicity. Slaves in a bucket. Man should, at all costs, evade such
people, immediately. There are no compromises with people of this sort,
they will corrupt you and drive you to misfortune.

Man must let fall such affirmations, they will do him more bad than good.
Man should know that the majority's natural propensity tends towards
relaxation and ease, and if being yourself means sustaining such a
condition, then he is liable to squander much potential for excellence.

Don't resort to false premises, they are vain. People like the idea of being
themselves because it puts their anxieties at ease, it gives them permission
to indulge once more and rid themselves of their duty - to 'be yourself'
becomes an act of submission to self-gratification.

Conclusively If you desire indulgence over temperance, if you desire being

yourself over being what you could be, you are yielding to degeneracy not
accuracy.

Stop consoling your insecurities and tend towards acceptance rather than
denial.

Men, do not lead a woman who doesn't know how to respect leadership.

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Her hotness is of no worth is she is gonna be a boss lady. Leave retired hoes
for the streets

Do you know that marriage is the cheapest way of having sex.With an

average lobola peg of $5000,for a period of 40 years is equals to 34 cents
per day having sex paunodira and how much are prostitutes per night?

Siyai chihure and save money guys�

Advice for Young Men:

- Quit Porn.
- Read books.
- Lift Weights.
- Learn a skill.
- Avoid Junk Food.
- Drink More Water.
- Love Your Parents.
- Embrace Networking.
- Wake up before sunrise.
- Love God and PRAY ALWAYS

Your future self will Thank You.

The man who's always flashing cash or talking about his assets is the same
as the woman always flashing her boobs, thighs & ass. Over compensation a
symptom of Attention Seeking Disorder!!!

You’re‍afraid‍of‍losing‍your‍girlfriend‍because‍you‍think‍she’s the best thing

that‍has‍ever‍happened‍to‍you‍and‍you‍know‍you‍won’t‍find‍a‍better‍woman‍
other than her.

When given the opportunity, she would never hesitate to replace you with a
better option for herself. This mindset is the reason why so many guys will
put‍up‍with‍a‍woman’s‍bad‍behavior‍and‍justify‍her‍actions‍all‍because‍they‍
have‍convinced‍themselves‍that‍relationships‍require‍“hard‍work”‍for‍them‍
to work.

You‍can’t‍save‍them‍all‍at‍the‍end‍of‍the‍day.

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Men,

Before you get deeper into the relationship,

Ask about her age,

Ensure you know her correct age,

Do not disclose your age before you know her age.

This is very important.

ALWAYS THE PRIZE

Men,

Never seek sympathy from women,

Writing paragraphs of texts crying like a whimp while adding dysphoric

emojis (😭😫😢) makes it worse for you.

She will despise you & block you further.

Ignore her and focus on your masculine goals.

ALWAYS THE PRIZE

Men,

Don't‍ask‍her‍“will‍you‍marry‍me?”

Leave that feminine question to emasculated men.

She is the one to ask you that question.

If‍you‍like‍her,‍simply‍tell‍her‍“I‍want‍to‍marry‍you”

Then make her pregnant and start a family.

ALWAYS THE PRIZE

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Men,

She is the price,

You are the PRIZE.

Note the difference?

She is the price that nature pays you for being the PRIZE.

ALWAYS THE PRIZE

Young Men,

Women are the true reflection of what a slippery slope is. For those of you
that don't know what a slippery slope is, I will explain it all and how it
relates to women.

Have you ever seen a woman do shit to a man, and in you wonder how it got
to that bad? No woman wakes up one day and abuses her mean or beats
him up in public just out of the blue. For a woman to disrespect you boldly
and fearlessly, its because of a chain of events

A slippery slope is where a relatively small step that goes unchecked leads
to a chain of related events culminating in a significant effect. For a woman
to disrespect you boldly, she must have started a long time ago and you did
nothing. She becomes more confident with time

A woman will give you those small "cute" slaps and you will laugh about it.
She will upgrade to pushing you around and punching you small, small
when you have an argument at home. Then she will progress to pointing at
you and warning you like a kid in public.

She is becoming more confident in her disrespect because she is getting

away with it. And then one day, she will land a hot slap on you in front of
your friends and scream at you. She has been doing this for a long time and
now she is that bold.

Your woman will fuck a dude and tell you about it then you forgive her. She
will then fuck your best friend or your brother or someone you know and
that shit will hurt you real bad. When a woman knows she can get away
with something, she will do more and more.

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Your woman will abuse you in private. Then she will call you funny
nicknames. Before you know it, she will call you shit when talking to her girl
crew. One day, she will shout, "You fool, come and we go home!" infront of
everyone. The slope becomes more slippery

Never tolerate disrespect from a woman. If she doesnt respect you, she
can't love you. Women respect men who stand their ground. They respect
men who are not afraid to lose them. They respect men who call them out
on their bullshit. Men that say, "Never do this shit again"

You are the authority in the rship. Exercise your rights. You lead her. Never
let any disrespect slide. Shut that shit down. The slope only gets more
slippery, not less. If you respect yourself, she will not have any room to
disrespect you in the first place.

Learning to be alone may be initially scary, but once mastered, serves as the
cornerstone for your development. Being alone allows you to think for
yourself. You may be able to make better choices and decisions about who
you are and what you want without outside influence.

People‍think‍being‍alone‍makes‍you‍lonely,‍but‍I‍don’t‍think‍that’s‍true.
Being in love with a wrong woman is the loneliest thing in the world.

A season of loneliness and isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings.
Remember that next time you feel alone. Have that courage to walk away.

Learn to love yourself regardless if you felt loved by others.

Being able to enjoy your own company is a strength that more people need
to learn.

Never buy used cars with full price.

This Text is not about Cars.

A dog whose been through multiple owners will never be loyal.

This Text is not about dogs.

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Never‍ask‍a‍girl‍out‍on‍a‍date‍the‍answer‍will‍usually‍be‍“I’ll‍let‍you‍
know...”‍or‍“No‍thanks”.‍Instead‍invite‍her‍out‍to‍where‍you‍are‍going‍to‍
be.

That way if she she does reject you, you will still be doing what you were
going to do. Dates are overrated. Save your money.

A child would test the waters by doing something they know is wrong, then
look over at the parent to see if they would do something about it. Almost
like they want to see if they can try it again

Understand this, and you understand shit tests

This text is not about children. Be ruthless to shit behavior

Young men of this generation are financially drained because of young

women who want the lifestyle & standards of social media.

"I don't want to rush things. I just got out of toxic relationship"

Translation: I'm still love with my ex & I'm waiting to see if he wants to get
back together.

Word Of Advice: Never play a woman's waiting games, you'll be used

WOMANESE 0

"My ex was a piece of shit"

Translation: My ex put himself first & our relationship operated under his
terms

Word Of Advice: Be an even bigger piece of shit

"We are moving too fast, I still need to know you better"

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Translation: I'm not sexually attracted to you, but we can continue as I wait
for a better option

Word Of Advice: If she makes you wait for sex, when married she'll deny
you it

"I don't need a man"

Translation: I can't keep a man

Word Of Advice: Social distance from such women

"I normally don't do this"

Translation: I do this all of the time with guys that I'm physically attracted
to & can't resist

"I need some space"

Translation: I now find you boring, there's this new guy he seems exciting.
But if the grass isn't greener, I'll come back

Word Of Advice: Give her the space but never let her back in

"Don't judge me"

Translation: Don't hold me accountable for my bad decisions

Word Of Advice: That's an immature woman who likes playing victim

instead of being responsible

"You're so controlling"

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Translation: You have boundaries & won't tolerate my bad behavior

Word Of Advice: The day you start being"understanding" is the day you lose
her. Either she obeys or leaves

A woman disrespecting you is the same as the world disrespecting you

That's why she does that

She wants to know how you allow the world treat you

This is a bigger test than most guys realise

THE PARADOX OF EMOTIONAL ILLUSION

DUMPED VARSITY STUDENT KILLS SELF

A 22-year-old man committed suicide after his girlfriend decided to end

their relationship.

Desire Mungoma, a Great Zimbabwe university student was found lying

dead with a poisonous liquid in a bush in Ashdown Park.

I write this paradox with a heavy heart after receiving news of a tragic
incident; we continue to lose young men on the account of failing to deal
with life disappointments. Only the university of life can teach us such
lessons. Unfortunately the spirit of camaraderie between brothers is fast
coming to an extinction as most of these young boys have made women the
center of their universe. Consequently, they lack adequate learning from
fellow men who are lucky to have visited hell. Where their souls have been
forged to be man.

Life at times brings so much pain. We just need to remind ourselves that we
are men; there is no new burdenthat hasn'tbeen seen by our ancestors and
bore it. We must not let effeminate world prescribe emmotional counseling
to our problems. It requires subjugation by masculinity and bear it.

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Emotional illusion

Emotions are strong feelings that controls our way of thinking. They are
responsible for our social interactions as well as adjustments. Paradoxically,
if we do our decisions based on our emotions they might have a permanent
damage on our lives especially if they portray a wrong impression. Emotions
oftenly misfires. Paradoxically, they paint a bigger picture of things that
normally doesn't exist thereby creating fear of innocuous things if not
developing phobics; if not transmuted their manifestation might be
extremely inimical to the point of taking life.

Infatuations

Infatuations are short lived strong emotions towards a woman. There are
that our brain is fed during this period which are not only dangerous for
men but lead to emotional harm. Vasopressin and oxytocin are essential but
misleading neurotransmitters that forms a bond during infatuations period.
They lead to dependency syndrome and create the soulmate myth which
Rollo Tommassi referred to as Oneitis paralysis.

As the world is growing effeminate most men are centralizing their time on
attaching themselves on woman there by receiving heavy doses of oxytocin
and Vasopressin thereby creating an illusioned bond which explains why
they are so attached to the extend of commiting suicide. Historically, when
men plans to commit suicide the percentage of it's successfulness is very
high due to their aggressiveness in nature which is driven by testosterone.
As explained in the paradox of feminized men; masculinity is under attack
and its spirit which is testosterone is receiving assault from all fronts.
Consequently, the overdose of oxytocin and Vasopressin is leading to
emotional illusion which can be transmuted through raising testosterone.
Paradoxically, men must be amicable and hostile by nature, fuelled by the
balance of testosterone, oxytocin and vasopressin. He must be unfriendly by
wickedness and congenial by character.

ANGER

Dare you may say you are unencumbered by for having to deal with the
immorality of others. Paradoxically, judgement you abominate the sinful or
follow their example in retaliation. Consequently,one can not be immunized
from the rage of anger inmisjudging. Accordingly, emotional illusion will be
at work since the emotion is negative. Anger is an intense emotion you feel
when something has gone wrong or someone has wronged you. It is

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typically characterized by feelings of stress, frustration, and irritation.
Everyone‍feels‍anger‍from‍time‍to‍time.‍It’s‍a‍perfectly‍normal‍response‍to‍
frustrating or difficult situations.

Anger‍only‍becomes‍a‍problem‍when‍it’s‍excessively‍displayed‍and‍begins‍
to affect your daily functioning and the way you relate with people. Anger
can range in intensity, from a slight annoyance to rage. It can sometimes be
excessive or irrational. In these cases, it can be hard to keep the emotion in
check‍and‍could‍cause‍you‍to‍behave‍in‍ways‍you‍wouldn’t otherwise
behave. Paradoxically, Anger is the most powerful emotion for men. Left
untouched and it turns into depression. Transmuted and it can build
empires. If she breaks your heart turn that pain to develop yourself into a
monster.

CONCLUSION

Both love and anger are two strong emotions that can lead to illusion and if
not well-calculated they are destructive by nature.For men, anger is that
feeling of aggression that need to be nursed and can be controlled by
solitude. For love again which in reality are infatuations, solitude is the
answer too, giving yourself a time to be alone and have self-honest
conversation. We must relieve ourselves to make our pleasure to depend on
someone we end up over-value them which is emotional illusion. You were
born alone and you will die alone both the journey to earth and the journey
to depart from earth is a like a that of a lone rancher and thus nature. To
disagree with nature is to grow potent. Do not paralyse yourself by being
ensnared in other people's discourse.

Forgive me for being blunt on this. Don’t‍ever‍consider‍marrying‍a‍single‍

mom.
Nothing signifies you're a SIMP than marrying a single mom. You're a
scavenger, talking about "another man's trash is another man's treasure".
Imagine all the single women with no kids but you still decide to pick a
single mom.
You're a pathetic excuse of a man, an embarrassment to your whole lineage.
You're a cuck, it's an admission of your own inferiority, raising another
man's kids knowingly. The baby daddy is superior (gave her kids) & you're
inferior (raising his kids).
Marrying a single mom is like eating leftovers from 6 months ago. Marrying
a‍single‍mother‍automatically‍defines‍you‍as‍wounded‍or‍desperate.‍You’re‍

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a comfort-giving‍robot‍who’s‍willing‍to‍compromise & put your needs last,
everyone‍else’s,‍first.
Why do you have no consideration for single mom, you may ask. Simple,
historically they are debits, not credits. And despite their claims, unless she
is a widow, her unilateral life choices directly led to her becoming a single
mom.
Why assist someone in raising someone else's legacy when you can just
raise your own with an upstanding woman of good character who has no
children other than the ones you two create.
No, she's not a victim, she was expressing her sexual freedom as promoted
by feminists, that child is the consequence. The majority of them were
untouchable before they had babies, listening to no one. Even their own
parents, because they were so "woke".
Don't be bamboozled by their victimhood & fall for their gobbledygook.
She's a loser who failed to maintain her value as a woman. Women are the
gatekeepers of sex & fertility. Meaning that woman isn't responsible, she
lets a deadbeat inside her, it says a lot about her choice.
Single moms are screaming "my baby daddy ain't shit" yet expect you to
work for pussy that an ain't shit dude smashed. And don't automatically
believe the man is a deadbeat, most of these women have babies as a way
to trap men into commitments.
But still, either way, when you marry a single mom, you're confirming you're
inferior to the baby daddy. Willing to raise another man's child so you can
be given pity affection as a reward for your efforts. Real man, they'll call
you, just to appease your ego for being a cuck.
A manipulated man, just the type of man a single mom wants in her life, one
who has no sense of worth, she can manipulate him to be an efficient tool.
Know this, her kid(s) will always come st, you'll only know 00%
RESPONSIBILITY & 0% AUTHORITY to that kid.
Because authority is given to he who is respected, no one respects a simp.
Deep down she'll never respect you, she's only with you for her kids. She'll
even feel like she's cheating on her baby daddy when she's with you.
You don't arouse her, that's why she'll always let the baby daddy smash
once in a while. If it's not the baby daddy smashing, it's someone else out
there. Have some self-respect, don't save single moms!!! If you want to
have fun, good but you don't commit, it's not worth it.
Sidenote
(And before the bullsht defensive brigade comes with NONSENSE, the single
mom in discussion doesn't include widows or rape victims + won't waste my
time responding to "who hurt you", "you're bitter", "heal")

Money you give her is a GIFT

Money she gives you is a LOAN

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Things you do for her is your JOB

Things she does for you are FAVORS

She wants sex you must GIVE HER

You want sex you must BEG HER

See a pattern

Selfish creatures

90% of the times, Only our dicks are involved when we cheat ... 90% of the
times women involve their hearts, emotions, mentality, soul, blood, sweat,
orgasm, vagina, cervix, kidneys, oesophagus, DNA, anti bodies, nerve
endings, weave, nails, pancreas and bile duct when they cheat.

Dear ladies. One thing about men is that they never forgive. If you hurt him.
Men‍don’t‍forgive‍we‍just‍hang‍around‍whilst‍looking‍for‍someone‍to‍move‍
on‍with.‍Plus‍the‍other‍thing‍man‍don’t‍dump‍ladies‍even‍if‍they‍are‍done‍
with them. Only strong ones and intelligent would do that after looking into
the future.

As you become physically fitter, you have a much stronger aura that attracts
women naturally.

This is not something that can be worked on, it just happens naturally as a
byproduct of levelling up.

Strong person has a choice to be kind whereas weak has no choice other
than to be nice. Don't be a nice guy. Be strong and later kind.

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Ever noticed how in all these life insurance and funeral cover adverts the
man‍is‍the‍one‍who’s‍dead‍and‍the‍woman‍claims‍the‍money.‍Men‍is‍
constantly under attack. Feminism is a dangerous combination of business
and politics to drain men's strength using women as shield. Never think
gynocentric systems will save you. Politicians fears masculine men because
they don't want accountability.

A man who isn't hard on himself doesn't know how to be hard on others,
and hasn't earned the right to be. But when he is, he is in all the wrong
ways, without a correct sense of place or degree, he is fierce but impotent,
and arbitrarily so.

Lust is the biggest weakness for young men. Overcome it, do not let
attractive women have the power over you. An attractive woman is a good
addition to your life. You are more important than her. You must have
discipline and focus on yourself

Every woman is replaceable

- no matter how good her vagina feels.

Every woman is just practice for the next one

- no matter how "special" the moment seems.

Every woman is just one of many that you will have

- regardless of the illusions your emotions create.
Every woman is a flawed creature with serious issues
- regardless of the Halo Effect and lust blinding you from seeing the truth.

Every woman has an agenda of her own

- despite her best attempts to appear altruistic and benevolent to make you
trust her.
The point is not to become a bitter, resentful and paranoid man.

The point is to appreciate women for who they actually are, not for who you
wish them to be.

Have goals, & personal boundaries. Do not play the role of a willing victim,
secretly wishing to be duped and exploited.

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The sweetness of love, of intimacy, lures you into losing your sense of
reason and self-control, it precisely hits you where you ought not to be hit,
it trips you and makes you its slave, if you let it. Don't be a desperate man-
slut who is held at ransom by his sexual thirsty. Sometimes you just need to
say no to deep attachment and focus on creating wealthy.

Men,

A woman is her past.

A man is his future.

WILL NOT EXPLAIN

Men,

I have two questions

. List the 3Fs of dating for a man.

2. A man who is 30 years wants to marry. What is the ideal age of the
woman he should date?

(2 marks = 2 books.)

WILL NOT EXPLAIN

Men,

Raise your Testosterone:

+ Stop consuming sugar and junk.

+ Stop masturbating.

+ Stop watching Pornography.

+ Get laid.

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+ Lift weights.

+ Walk in the sun.

+ Sleep for 8hrs.

Your Testosterone will automatically rise.

WILL NOT EXPLAIN

3Fs are⬇️

Fossils - You must be older than her.

Fitness - You must be physically and mentally fitter than her.

Fortune - You must be more wealthy financially and resources wise than her

MasculinitySaturday

Men,

Keep your secrets to yourself.

If you want to do something, DO IT.

Don't seek approval or validation from her.

Remain mysterious.

WILL NOT EXPLAIN

Men,

Never lose sleep because of the expensive cars, drinks, designer wear &
houses being flaunted online & offline,

Don't compare yourself with simps,

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Flamboyant simps con to fund their fake lives.

Appreciate the little you have.

Live an honest life.

Men,

Never compare yourself with the success of fellow men,

Learn to better yourself today than who you were yesterday,

Success doesn't come overnight. Appreciate steps.

Be patient.

Men,

You cannot fix a broken woman.

Once a slut, always a slut.

Once a cheat, always a cheat.

You cannot rescue a thot,

You cannot rescue a harlot,

Unless you are an idiot,

Or a maggot.

Rescue yourself instead.

WILL NOT EXPLAIN

Men,

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Sluts are dirty mortals,

Sluts have dirty spirits.

Avoid them.

WILL NOT EXPLAIN

Dear Men

You don't have business in arguing with women both on line and offline

Men,

Avoid the friend zone.

A man in the friend zone is a weak, boring slimebucket.

Don't be in her friend zone.

WILL NOT EXPLAIN

Men,

Keep your mother in law away from yourself,

Let her learn that you married her daughter, not her,

Enforce boundaries

Stay very far away from her and respect yourself.

Men,

Don't succumb to the liabilities of early marriage,

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Don't succumb to the accountabilities of societal pressures,

Don't succumb to the responsibilities of early fatherhood.

Control the direction of your life.

WILL NOT EXPLAIN.

THE PARADOX OF ONLINE HOOKERS

The internet in general and social media in particular has made it possible
for women to make a living simply based on having a hole between their
legs. They constantly advertise it through Instagram and Facebook.
Unfortunately most men who are not redpilled consume their time
validating and simping these girls online

Keep‍this‍in‍mind‍next‍time‍someone‍talks‍to‍you‍about‍“male‍privilege”.‍
There is nothing like that under the sun. When man goes on these platforms
they lure women using their wealth. These woman are promiscuous and
there is nothing that differentiate them from thigh vendors. That is why
they flaunt their semi nudity and adulterous dressing which is designed to
lure man won't talk about filters though.

I'm not even talking about porn and OF here. There exist female influencers
who are famous ONLY because they are pretty. They have booty curves and
lighter in complexion and since they know they capture man's attention
easily some have gone a bit wider into bleaching their skin and using some
enlightening creams to ensnare men who are not disciplined who feed what
Shadaya referred to as hungry ghetto rats which fake life on social media
but deeply they are living in squalor and poverty.

These women offer nothing of value in terms of intellectual content or

entertainment. However they talk about wealthy and money but what they
can only bring on the table is a drilled and panel beated hole with different
pussy tightening creams these sluts deserves even no respect from man of
Valor and integrity.

Given the so called gender equality is fussy. I know this war with sluts and
Simps will not end well but will not hesitate to fully fledged it and knock
some senses into the society's minds. For men doing the same is simply
impossible for most men."Yeah but what about this guy". You're giving me
an exception, not a rule.

A man needs to be in the top 0.00% of looks to pull something like this off.
This translate that the possibility of man attracting women using looks are

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just juvenile infatuations that is why nature always dictates the rate of
getting older and exhaustion between men and women.

With the help of makeup and filters, a woman needs only be in the top 50%.
The more attractive she is the more she gets followers and range of dating
pool which makes her selfish and failure to lure men who needs to settle
with her because of her high egoistic desires which are pressured by the
attention and validation she gets from online Simps. Dear if we stop
validating these women who are using technology to be thigh vendors we
can restore the moral and sanity of the society. This requires highest level of
discipline and integrity. Dear men if your girl constantly posts herself on
social media uploading Pics with different filters allow me to tell that she is
marketing herself no two words about that and that a redflag.

Lesson:

As a man, you need to work hard to make something of yourself.

Nothing is going to fall into your lap because you were born with good looks
or certain talents. Your entire success rests on your shoulders. This is why I
always say purpose over your sexual desires will make you a better man
tommorow

https:chat.whatsapp.comJvfmGMX6U4RHXxaSkDvJ3

Never argue with woman.

Whether online, WhatsApp, or out here.

It's a waste of time.

She doesn't care about the logical context in the argument.

She only cares how the argument will feed her emotional preferences.

Speak up or suffer

When a man holds back his true opinions from a woman, he's only hurting
himself as a result.

Fearing a woman's reaction will leave you taken for granted & (easily)
manipulated.

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Your inhibitions only further enables her undesirable behavior to persist.

Two ways to be happy in life: Never give the help of tears to your emotions;
Never give the help of words to your anger

"My boyfriend would literally end the relationship if I...

•have‍&‍hangout‍with‍male‍friends
•post‍seminude‍pics‍online
•go‍out‍to‍a‍party‍without‍his‍approval"

Is a healthier relationship than "my boyfriend is very understanding"lead or

be LED

Gentlemen do not express your emotions through WhatsApp Statuses,

Messages,& behavior.

No matter how devastated you are just be a man and don't you ever share it
to anyone maybe your male friends,the ones you believe won't use it
against you after.

Women view emotional & nice guys as weak men,the moment you cry or
show your weaknesses to a woman she will view you as a weak man cause
women melt for men who are less reactive ,hard to manipulate, strong,solid
as a rock,less emotional they trust those to be the leaders.

Don't cry "😭�💔" women will lose respect for you.

Remember you want women but you don't need them. Show interest but
never chase.

In a relationship Time is your main value. Don't be too much available

because she drains your balls whenever you want.

Don't lose your frame to her. Give her no freedom. Let her earn your
attention.

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Self-discipline is the art of doing what you know you should be doing -
regardless of how you feel like in the moment.

It's sticking to your goals NO MATTER What.

Woman: I want a RICH guy

Feminists: Yes, stop forcing women to love broke men

Man: I want a VIRGIN

Feminists: You dirty pig, stop sexually objectifying women

Women's dating standards are regarded as PREFERENCES whilst a man's

dating standards are frowned upon as SEXIST

What many men fail to perceive, is that although perfectly possible to get
women if you focus on that, you can spend the time actually creating value
for yourself: either sculpting the self or building your own empire.

Women naturally follow after such superior men.

Each man should leave their mark on this world, one sufficient enough in
transcending their own existence, in order to serve as a beacon of light for
others to follow out of the darkness.

Women should be treated as the byproduct of success, not the reason to

chase success.

When you are the loneliest on your journey. When you feel that no one else
believes as much as you do. This is the moment when you realize that it is
you and you alone who can make your dreams come true. The is the
moment when you become your strongest self. Detachment is powerful
never centralize your purpose on women.

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The‍hardest‍walk‍is‍walking‍alone,‍but‍it’s‍also‍the‍walk‍that‍makes‍you‍the‍
strongest.

Don’t‍be‍afraid‍of‍outnumbered.‍A‍lion‍walks‍alone‍while‍the‍sheep‍flock‍
together.

If‍you’re‍searching‍for‍that‍one‍person‍that‍will‍change‍your‍life,‍take‍a‍look‍
in the mirror.

You come alone & you will go alone. In this journey, only a few meant to
walk along side. Few will teach you lessons why you had to do it alone at
first. Because by nature we are societal, the very thought of surviving alone
is‍scary.‍Yet,‍once‍u‍learn‍how‍to‍do‍that,‍it’s‍kinda‍addictive.‍Learn‍the‍
power of walking away.

We all have an unexpected force inside us. which occurs when life puts us to
the test. Don't let nature test you. Instead, test nature that's how you kill
oneitis.

Only A Man Can Love A Person With No Education. No Money. No Car. No

Driver's License. Only A Man Can Do That. That's Why I Say A Man's Love Is
The Closest Thing To God's Love Because It Loves Without Judgment.
Women Can't Do That. Women Won't Do That. A Woman's Love Is
Conditional. You Must Have This Or That. You Must Have Potential To Be
This Or That. That's Why I Teach Men Not To Chase Love From Women.
Women Can Only Love Their Children Unconditionally. You As A Man Need
To Be Above Her Level Before She Can Love You. No Woman Will Love A Man
Under Her Level. Only Men Do That. That's Why The Only Thing You Need
From A Woman Is Respect. They Don't Know How To Love. They Just Don't
Know & They'll Never Change. If You Ever Go For A Woman Go For The One
That Respects You.

Even the Bible says man love your wives and women respect you
your husbands
If she can't respect you she can't love you

Being an alpha is a mindset and you show through behavior.

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You don't have to have money or status.

Women don't love money,looks or status.they love the mindset that comes
with it..you can clearly see,rich, attractive,high status men getting divorced
& dumped (eg Mudiwa Hood)

It's mindset of putting yourself first, understanding female nature,

understanding you are above women..

Alphas have egoes,are self centered, cocky, dominant, unapologetic,

aggressive & violent if necessary.

Remember the guy who always gets laid,he 00% has some or all the above
mentioned characteristics....

Women say they hate this kind of guys but they will wear his clothes & jump
on the bed when he is near him

The reason women are the main proponents of the "the past is the past"
philosophy is because they are the only ones that are judged by their past.
Men, on other hand, are judged by their future. When a woman meets a
man she intends to get serious with, she uses what she Sees in the present
as a yardstick to predict what will become of him in the future. She assesses
the likelihood of him being a provider and offering security for her and her
offspring.

A heartbreak fixes a man.

A heartbroken man is stronger and wiser than a man without heartbreak.

It is a turning point in every man's life. A heartbreak is therefore a

necessary evil that transforms a man into subjugation by solitude.

everything starts being blamed on men... Like a very tiny proportion of men
(less than 0.%) becomes successful in business, politics etc... and then
twabam, ... toxic masculinity and oppressive patriarchy .... not looking at
the stats where men are the majority .... like on people committing suicides,
people working rough jobs in mines, bricklayers, plumbers etc, people who
die in wars people who die on work abt 97% are man people who end up
losing their kids and assets in divorce settlementsyor wife can cheat on you
divorce u and take away your children and 50% of yor property

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80% divorces are initiated by women man are the victims of most violent
crimes etc the list is endless the bro

And they still cry to be victims

The gospel of victimhood is just propaganda to act as victims so their
supremacy won't be really questioned

Men,

BEER is highly OESTROGENIC,

It promotes the aromatization of testosterone to oestrogen.

It leads to

- Man boobs

- Obesity

- Feminine emotions

- Hips and Buttocks like a woman

- Low libido

- ED and PE

- A Fatty liver

Keep off beer.

Men,

No woman dates below her sexual ladder,

None.

She dumps because she wants to date upwards. i.e 3Fs.

- Fitter

- Fortune (wealthier)

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- Fossil (Older)

Don't be her emotional tampon.

Refuse to be used as her ladder for a better reproductive mate.

Men,

You we're loved when you were born, you will be loved when you die.

In between you have to manage. Never live to impress women at the

expense of your masculinity.

Men,

In any sexual relationship,

You are either the source or the target.

Be the source.

Have the power to call it off.

If she calls it off before you do it, then you werethe target.

Learn & be better in your next.

Don't repeat the same mistakes

Men,

5 KILLERS of MEN

+ Gambling

+ Masturbation

+ Pornography

+ Alcoholism

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+ Smoking and Substance abuse.

Fight them off your life.

Men,

Don't text her about lack of response.

Nothing shows intense neediness like confronting her & asking why she
hasn’t‍replied.

Don’t‍reference‍the‍unreplied‍text‍again,‍start‍a‍new topic.

She's selfish & flaky but shaming her only hurts you.

Men,

Once you understand these concepts,

•‍Hypergamy‍(She‍only‍dates‍up)
•‍Solipsism‍(Her‍feelings‍are‍her‍reality)
•‍Briffault's‍Law‍(No‍value,‍no‍relationship)

It's very easy to predict her behavior and target.

Just laugh it off. Avoid her drama.

WOMEN'S NATURE

. Hypergamy: she will seek the highest value male to mate with

2. Briffault's Law: if you have no moneyfame to offer, she doesn't even

know you exist

3. Solipsism: nothing else matters to her except her own decisions &
desires. This is a step past narcissism.

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Men,

The 4 Ps of POWER in a relationship

- Protection: Protect her

- Providence: Provide for her

- Penetration: Dick her so hard

- Precedence: Lead her

If you fail in the 4Ps, you will lose your POWER, and that will be the end of
that relationship.

Men,

If you nag her, she will nag someone else

Why?

The one with power, doesn't need the one without power,

You are powerless, that's why you are nagging her.

The one with the power, controls the game.

Don't lose your power (4Ps),

Learn the game.

Women Are Like Cats, Men Are Like Dogs

No‍matter‍what‍you‍do‍with‍a‍dog,‍he‍is‍man’s‍best‍friend.‍A‍dog‍will‍never‍
leave you, no matter what happens. Dogs will come right up and demand
attention from anyone, even a friendly-looking stranger that appeals to
them

Women are like cats, They come and go as they please. They do what they
want, when they want, and with who they want. You can
call a cat, but it will only come to you if it feels like it.

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If‍a‍cat‍doesn’t‍know‍you,‍it‍will‍often‍run‍and‍hide.‍At‍the‍very‍least,‍it‍will‍
stay back and watch you carefully before it decides you are worthy of its
approach and attention. Cats might kind of stroll byand look over and see
you, and then pretend to ignore you and move on. Then the cat may come
back a minute or two later, come into the room and walk around and look at
you, and then turn around and leave.

The cat may come back again a few minutes later and walk a little circle
around you, maybe brush up against your leg and then take off.

A few minutes later the cat may come back and go around in between
your legs, rubbing up against you with its tail in the air, and then all of
the sudden sit down and start purring. Cats are a lot more particular
about who they will give their affection to. For some strange reason, they
will‍even‍decide‍that‍the‍only‍person‍in‍the‍room‍that‍doesn’t‍like‍cats‍is‍the‍
only one deserving of their attention.

Until the cat is coming to you, and letting you know it is okay to engage it,
you have to stand fast and hold your ground. No matter what the cat does,
or how it tests you, you need to be indifferent. You need
to let it roll of you as though it does not bother you, or that you could
care less one way or another what it does.
The cat is testing you, much like a woman tests you. If you are aggressive (a
sign of neediness), then you are chasing after the cat, andit is going to run
away. If you come off as weak and needy, then you are no longer worthy of
their time.

Women are very much like cats. You have to get to the point where no
matter‍what‍a‍woman‍does,‍it‍doesn’t‍move‍you‍off‍center.

You also have to treat

the beautiful woman just like you would treat the woman you have
absolutely no interest in. It is not about being rude to her, but you have to
not let her beauty affect you. Like the cat, she is drawn to the one that
seems to be least affected by her.

The old saying goes:

Curiosity killed the cat.

Cats are curious creatures. They will keep checking something out as long
as they are curious about it. Once they have figured out just what that
something is, they become bored and walk away. The same thing is true
with
women. You need to keep them wondering. You need to keep them curious.
If you tell them everything about you and they can see all

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there is to know, the mystery is gone and they move on.

MEN are not boys.

MEN look for purpose and production.

Boys look for instant, quick satisfaction.

Eg -

+ Gambling.

+ Alcoholism.

+ Racing cars like teenagers.

+ Dating cougars for sex.

+ Masturbation & pornography.

+ Wash Wash

Men,

Your wife was attracted to your POWER.

Her DESIRABILITY for you emanates from your POWER on her.

Once you lose this power through ALCOHOLISM, PROMISCUITY & a

sedentary lifestyle,

That marriage is down the drain.

Maintain the POWER.

FIX your FRAME.

Men,

She is replaceable,
- No matter how good her vagina feels.

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She is just practice for the next one,
- No matter how "special" the moment seems.

She is just one of many that you will have

- Regardless of the illusions your emotions create.

Stay taliban

Men,

Women will never admit this,

but they enjoy a challenging men,

who teases and challenges them,

much more than the desperate nice guy,

who hands away his heart and balls on a silver platter.

Everything you think you will achieve by arguing with her,

You will achieve it by ignoring her,

Attention is currency.

A horny woman can lose her virginity,

A horny man can lose everything.

Fellas, learn to control your sexual urges. A man who has control of his
sexual urges has solved half of his problems!!!

If she wants to keep her options open, treat her like an option that she is.

Women would show you who they are, and how much they respect you
when they're comfortable. Absolutely zero need to control or force them to
change, just treat them the way they come.

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She comes in contact with simps all day who constantly beg for her
attention.

But‍you’re‍different.

You hold your frame and treat her just like any other girl in your life.

She‍feels‍curious,‍almost‍frustrated‍because‍you’re‍not‍chasing‍her.‍

You’re‍a‍Man.

Forget‍about‍that‍ex.‍She’s‍going‍to‍come‍running‍to‍you‍when she notices

the‍radical‍changes‍you’ve‍made‍in‍your‍life,‍be‍it‍physically‍or‍financially.‍
Don’t‍chase.‍There’s‍an‍abundance‍out‍there.

Weak men respect women simply for being attractive

Those men are usually single

No one gets the respect of a quality‍man‍until‍they’ve‍worked‍to‍earn‍it

Least of all a women simply for being pretty.

Remember that.

When she has genuine desire (lust) for you, you will not be playing the
waiting game or doing pussy tryouts. Think about it from a common sense
perspective, if a woman wants to have sex with you, do you think she will
wait?

Do you know why most people never become successful?

Because they don't have anybody to look up to.

A man can only go as high as he can imagine.

When you look up to unsuccessful people, you become them.

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Lust‍is‍perhaps‍man’s‍greatest‍weakness,‍his‍achilles‍heel,
And women are adept at exploiting it to devastating effect.

But if that energy is effectively managed and re directed,

his greatest weakness can become his greatest strength.

Feminine traits that a lot of men have:

•gossiping
•pettiness
•neediness
•whining
•complaining
•irresponsibilty
•passive‍aggressiveness
•apologizing‍a‍lot
•indecisiveness
•not‍taking‍the‍lead

That is a defective male!!!

The easiest way to spoil a man is to give him what he wants without earning
it. If you teach your son that he can have anything he wants without having
to work for it, you strip him of ambition, potential and necessity.

Soy boy is a pejorative term often usedto describe men lacking masculine
characteristics. The term bears many similarities and has been compared to
the slang terms cuck and low-T, two other terms popularly used as an insult
for male femininity.

ONETis the belief that they is a soulmate one meant for you and you only
mostly propagated by Hollywood bullshit ....it creates a scarcity mentality in
your head wotofunga kuti akakusiya zvadhakwa yet the thruth is ladies
have an emotional tampon and a fuck boy.....at least be both now look baby
rakatoita nhumbu coz raitodawo yeke but the guy was to churchy ....this
was a classic Save A Hoecampaign

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When you think about committing ask her "what can you offer me, that you
haven't already given to another man?" Listen carefully to her answer.

Men,

By the time your son turns 6,

He should

+ Do gardening

+ Construct something

+ Repair a machine or furniture

+ Lift weights and do cardio

Not, sitting on a couch munching crisps, watching cartoons and playing

video games.

Mentor a leader.

Men,

There is a boy crisis and it is alarming,

Just go throughtimeline,

- young men who are dad deprived.

- Pussified jokes

- Unnecessary emojis

- Crooked grammar, no punctuations, spelling mistakes

These are signs of a careless generation.

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Men,

If your son is not in any clubsports team in his school, then you are failing.

Force him to

+ Join a club. Maths, Drama,Chess.

+ Join schoolestate sports team

+ Do community service

+ChurchMosque

You are his FATHER.

LEAD. He will follow.

Your son's dressing must conform to the tenets and principles of

masculinity.

He must depict attractiveness, strength and dignity.

Any abnormalities to the norms must be corrected with radiating pain in the
ass.

Men should teach their sons,

Don't pretend he know what to do. You are the one to help him know these.

Pretending to be morally pious is unworth.

Call spade a spade not big spoon.

Raise responsible sons.

Tell them even as they grow up to approach hot girl

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Men,

Teach your son good morals and be unapologetic about it.

These lessons remains ingrained in his head as long as he leaves.

Be The Leader. Be His Heroe. Be His Father

Demonstrate how to lawn the pubic area. Make it moist & neat.

The boxer must be gleaming,clean & comfortable.

Your Hiv status must be inscribed at palm of your hands & phallus.Don't
take it lightly.

Be in full armor of your drench coat before drowning.

Fatherless is a chronic desease in today's families.

The child need a direct bond with herhis biological father for guidance and
teach them how to be responsible in life.

Thats why fatherless men have a lot of challenges as far as being an alpha
man is concerned

The father gives IDENTITY.

And if he is banished from the picture.

The son will look for identity in other male figures:

1. Gangs.
2. Wash wash cartels.
3. Drug cartels.

A male MUST find identity within amasculine space.

It won't matter if it will be positive or negative

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New young parents nowadays,

"I want to give my kid everything,

I won't bring up my kids tha way i was brought up"

You can withstand the world ruthlessness now because your parents gave
you

education & taught you to be tough.

Pass that to your kids

The character of a kid is determined by the discipline of his father.

Weak fathers create weak children.

Don't bow down to everything your child demands.

Teach him to earn his share and he'll thank you for life.

Mother can never give teachings and punishment to a child which Father
can.

Because mother and father differ on emotional management when it comes

to children.

Above holds when fathers are strong.

We need strong fathers that raise a strong son.

1. Stay calm and remember that Kids use tantrums to test the limits of
hisyour power.
2. Use a few gentle but firm words to calm the child.
3. Do not Ignore the behavior.
4.‍If‍the‍child‍can’t‍calm‍down,‍take‍himher‍to‍a dressing room work on
himher.

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AVOID THE ENTITLEMENT TRAP.

No one owes you anything, just as you don't owe anyone else.

You must fight for everything that you earn. Accept the fundamental truth
and so many doors that seemed closed will open in front of you.

Hustle Harder, Hustle Smarter.

Men should always guide their son to be masculine.

A man who can defend and protect your family when you are already old

Their is difference by being a father, husband and the leader of the family.

Be the father and the family leader

A father has to be strict and give rules.

Men,

You cannot teach your son what you are NOT.

You cannot teach your son about what you don't believe in.

You must DISCIPLINE yourself first.

Start TODAY.

Men,

Your are a FATHER.

Your woman and children want to see a FATHER. - not a spineless punk.

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You are a SEED. Your woman is a farm.

You are the SOURCE.

You transmit.

If you are a thief, your son will be a thief.

Be a good seed. Look for a good farm.

Men,
You are a SEED your women is the farm

Be a father not a husband.

A father to both your children and your wife.

All of them follow your footsteps.

Give them all they need to absorb because they are looking up to you

Seeds need good farm to thrive in

Men,

Dad deprivation does not affect boys only,

It affects girls too.

Fatherless teenage mothers raise children who will also become teenage
mothers.

A daughter who has good bonding with her father remains feminine till
marriage.

Raise a feminine girl

Maximize your testosterone production:

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•‍Get‍8‍hours‍of‍quality‍sleep
•‍Avoid‍alcohol,‍especially‍beer
•‍Decrease‍your‍bodyfat‍percentage
•‍Eat‍more‍broccoli,‍raw‍garlic,‍and‍salmon
•‍Get‍enough‍Zinc,‍Magnesium,‍and‍Vitamin‍D3

The earlier the bond the better.

Let the child "Daddy" you as early as possible.

The child need you once heshe is born.

Sicio-personal development is recommended during child borngrowth

period.

Men,

The more interaction a boy has with his dad before six months,

- The higher the mental competence.

- The greater their ability to create meaningful trust with others.

- The quicker the developmental milestones.

Raise a son. Bond.

The bond between the son and his Dad influences the son subconsciously.

The boy learns to make leap of faith from what his Dad does.

The Dad signifies the battlefields for his fortitude and stoicism.

Teach your sons to be fierce and brutal. The world doesn't stomach bullshit.

Men,

Roughhousing with your son:

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- Your son will have fewer signs of uncontrolled and unwanted behaviours

- Regulates unwanted aggression

- Masculine bonding

Don't be a cowardly, weak effeminate father,

Roughhouse your son.

"Admitting‍fault‍is‍not‍a‍strength‍that‍inspires‍women.‍It’s‍still‍about‍the‍
fault.‍It‍may‍be‍the‍honorable,‍necessary,‍truthful‍thing‍to‍do,‍but‍don’t‍
believe for a moment women will value you more in the confession of fault."
- Rollo

One day you'll kiss your bride in front of her 6 exs, 3 besties who have also
hit it, thenight stand guy who only bought her a cider, an old dude who
she'll introduce as her uncle. They'll all eat your food recklessly like they did
your wife...
And she'll shed tears, tears of joy, shocked that even after all those d🍆cks
ran through her, there was still some foolish out there willing to pay for
what others got for free. And some tears of sorrow as well, that she's now
expected to ride justd🍆ck...

But does it really matter

Her past doesn't matter. It really doesn't matter that somewhere in some
dudes phone gallery they're pics & videos of her nude. It doesn't matter that
your d🍆ck will always be compared to other dudes...
It doesn't matter that everytime you have sex, she sees visions of another
man on top of her. It doesn't matter that she'll have to hold herself back
from enjoying the sex cause she'll end up screaming another dudes name...
Yes all that doesn't matter. What matters is true love. You're that guy she
was waiting for all that years inorder to switch off her ho3 phase. May glory
be to God, for giving you a queen. May you live happily forever & ever.

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"Nobody cares about your story until you win, so win."

~ Unknown

If you wanna own a place in her mind & heart don't be a nice guy stay
Toxic..

TEASE HER

1.Give her a silly nickname.

2.Mimic her in a funny way.
3.Tell her she is old if she is really young.

DISAGREE WITH HER

4.Say "no"
5.Say "I bet you can't xyz."
6.When you are asked to do something , don't comply & instead ask her
"why."
7.Plan to take her out and cancel the plan when the day arrive.
8.Dislike something she likes.
9.If she is not investing challenge her on it "come-on don't be gay"

KEEP HER GUESSING

10.Saying you like a trait she doesn't have eg "I like girls with fat ass" & she
is a slender.
11.Have her see you talking to beautiful women
12.Mention your "girlfriend" &later recover by explaining your girlfriend is
actually a girl friend & tell her you have a lot of them.
13.5 minutes after meeting her tell her you just received an important
message,give her a hug & tell her you are going.
14.Make her jealous,post pictures with beautiful women wishing them a
Happy Birthday (even if you lying).

Be Exciting, Mysterious & Unpredictable.

Don't tell her everything about yourself.Leave some mystery,be a mystery

man & leave the rest to her imagination.

When it comes to telling her about yourself,less is more.Also don't spend

every minute with her & don't text her all the time.

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Alpha males are too busy chasing ambitious goals not wasting excessive
amount of their time on women.

Do you think high value alpha males have time to sit around with some
chicks all day ? No of course not..they have better things to do..

You see too many "Simps" make the mistake of assuming that if Only they
were nicer,if only they could spend more time with a chick,text her
more,talk to her more & go on some shopping trips with her then she would
be more attracted to him...NO....

Less is more,stay busy.That which scarce is valuable.If you spend too much
time with her,she will inevitably take you for granted.👑💯

Buyers are like females, sellers are like males.

Buyers are hypergamous. Sellers are polygamous.

The top 20% of sellers dominate the market, taking 80% of the buyers.

Briffault's Law: a buyer will branch swing...will leave a seller, if they find
another they think is better.

The way she assumes how u myt feel for her is the exact way she is feeling
shez juss using reverse psychology called transverse of stress

Even she dumps u u wl still feel bad abt urself thinking you are the
cause����

Men,

If your business is struggling,

- hire a man (not a simp or a mangina)

Hire a man, he will do the job.

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He will fix the mess.

You may hire a woman in the marketing department if the business is

growing fast.

She will attract simps and orbiters.

Men,

A man initiates a date not the woman,

“Tomorrow‍at‍3‍PM,‍I‍will‍take‍you‍for‍lunch‍at‍Java,‍Mombasa‍Road.‍“

Straight forward and to the point.

If she initiates it, then turn it down because she will pocket you.

Don't fumble like a loser.

Men,

When you invite her for a date,

Arrive earlier than her,

Value your time.

This is how you begin enforcing boundaries.

This also allows you to observe her as she walks in then decide to continue
or abort the mission after the date.

THE PARADOX OF GYNOCENTRIC SYSTEMS

A cabal of elite wealth, powerful and intellectual men betrayed the average
men by using women as a weapon of milky-way to increase their power and
profit. This has been achieved through institutional para-legal and
effeminate institutions that waged an assault towards the physical

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advantages of men over women. If we think that politicians and businesses
personnel will soon support the our conviction to fight for men, definitely
we must wake up from a deep sleep because it is the elite that benefit from
these gynocentric systems.

Man’s‍physical‍and‍mental‍advantage‍has‍been‍outlawed‍by‍the‍legal‍
systems,‍while‍woman’s‍deceptive‍and‍cunning‍advantage‍has‍not‍been.‍
This is not by coincidence that, the shenanigans by yet another institution of
condemning DNA shows that exposed women's ruthless behavior has been
relentlessly attacked, while there is no any voice from the same institution
that question partenity fraud. There is a Shona proverb that says "kana
uchida kuona mai vekuturu tsika muswe we mwana wacho" meaning, if you
want to see the mother dog step on the puppy's tail. Women have been
exposed by DNA Shows and gynocentric systems have to deploy para-legal
framework to tame the short lived victory for men.

What is gynocentric?

It is a theory that analyze how men have been hated and disadvantaged
because they are men. It can also be defined as the dehumanisation of men
by demanding a very narrow range of behaviour from men with absolutely
no tolerance for their strength and this has been achieved through
institutional para-legal systems. Failure to adhere institutional violence is
inevitable.

Christina Hoff Sommers has argued that, gynocentricism is anti-intellectual

and holds antagonistic view of traditional scientific and creative disciplines,
dismissing many important discoveries and artistic work as masculine".
Nathanson and Young also viewed it as prioritization of females
hierarchically and as a result is interpreted as misandry (hatred and
prejudice towards men). Hence gynocentric systems are 'de rigueur' behind
the scenes in law courts and government institutions, resulting in
systematic discrimination against men.

Who benefit from gynocentric systems?

Gynocentric systems are engineered by elitists in general and business

corporations in particular. The collusion between business and political elite
has created a system that has waged an assault towards men. They have
becomes successful in the sense that they control media and government
institutions. They have managed to program the way average men and
women thinks through the framing and priming of facts. The content has
been sold as liberation for women.

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Feminism has reaped off the intellectual capacity for men and women we
are only left with few wise people who can unpack the assault that
communities are facing right now as a result of celebrating the berating and
belittlement of men. Misandrists have failed to realise that their
resentfulness have blinded them to see that the autonomy and
responsibility given to women without accountability has driven the world
in to a deep end.

The systems have regulated men to be women and women to be men while
it goes against science and biological wiring of the said gender.Autonous
women are prone to exploitation and predation because they lack both
emotional and physical stability. They fall as prey from these most powerful
elitists and at the end they will be thrown under the bus.

They have achieved gynocentric systems through social engineering and

destruction of family institutions which are gatekeepers of social and moral
fabric and this has been achieved through media and education systems
that are effeminate. The syllabus system will never teach the political right
and other masculine principles but the women and girl child have been
promoted and an incentive have been put to lure mental slaves to continue
pushing the gynocentric agendas while punishments has been
systematically put in place whenever you try to hold women accountable for
their actions.

Why do they hate men?

Men have the ability to be dangerous which is exactly why you want the
men close to you to be on your side as protectors. A father, brother, or
husband will generally be protective to you and dangerous to those who
want to hurt you. Hence the business and political elitists know if they
weaken the men you will left vulnerable without protectorship hence you
will be exploited. The writer offers an excellent analysis and the root of
many civilizational problems we face today. Family is the foundation upon
which a civil society is built — it has been destroyed and this has resulted in
a myriad of problems. Fatherlessness, promiscuity, nudity to mention a few.

The few powerful men have manipulated women and average men who
thinks that one day they might wake up being on top and also exploit the
same women and weak men. The so called rights and freedom are defined
by the ruling class using laws and social configuration.

Men because of their inherent strengths and capability of being dangerous,

they can carry out uprising against the elitists. So they should be kept under

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check and balance of the law. This has been peddled by the western society
in order to ammase wealth of third countries since there will be no
accountability.

Women are given the so called rights by the elite men and if they wake up
and think to withhold those rights it is upto them. A case study of Taliban in
Afghanistan is a good current one. The installation of powerful masculine
men doesn't protect only their families but are also capable of building
empires and protect their sweat.

Conclusions

The vagueness, ubiquity and complex of gynocentricism have caused a lot of

confusion among scholars and other social academic fields hence they have
failed to unpack it. The elitists are not ready to relinquish power and
benefits they enjoy from status quo and at no point in the near future these
elitists will reform for the advantage of men. We only need Arch-Bishops
who spread the word and encourage men to remain committed to
themselves and raise their children through the university of life that will
teach them to disrespect anything that goes against their value. The
misandrists will call you all hosts of unpleasant names and shame you for
desseminating such insiteful truth. The Mosaic laws are needed to
reconfigure degeneracy the society is suffering. Unfortunately, the religion
has been corrupted by the elitists to guard their agenda against the public
at large.

General Luverty is a men's rights activist, poetry, writer, journalist, public

speaker and a correctional officer based in Murehwa. He can be contacted
on 077243682 and can also be contacted on [email protected]

Men,

If she does not turn up for the date,

Ignore her and go on as if nothing happened,

Never call, never text, never respond.

No woman should waste your time.

Don't be a spineless punk begging for attention from a woman who thinks
you are a joke.

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Men,

When you are on a date:

Body language:

1. Sit on the opposite side of the table. Don't cross legs.

2. Look at her directly.

3. Don't shuffle legs.

4. Don't lean towards her. Don't lean back on the seat. Don't hunch your
back. Sit upright.

While on a date

let her talk more. Talk less

Don't disclose your materialistic life to her, don't say My land, my car etc

be keen on how she carry out herself

always try to ask her her past indirectly be smart.

Bonus :Maintain eye contact. NO unnecessary phone calls

Let her speak more than that you speak!

Don't give too much information about who you'refriends are, don't give too
much information about your hobbies,...

Keep information away from your social media, don't share too much
pictures

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Be unavailable sometimes without reason

Men,

When on a date,

1. Don't talk politics. She is not interested.

2. Be point-blank.‍Don't‍waste‍her‍time.‍“You‍are‍a‍cute‍woman,‍I‍want‍to‍
date‍you‍and‍make‍love‍to‍you”

3. If she says NO, tell her to go and think about it.

She can make stories and gossip with her fellow women. NO unnecessary
stories during dates

Let her know your intentions. Say it don't coil around.

Women have PHds is sensing weak and emasculated men. Don't be one

Talk with courage.

Don't waste her time.

MasculinitySaturday

Be Realistic and straightforward.

Never be afraid to lose her.

If she is gone then so be it!

Men,

Still on the date,

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1. Never take any woman seriously. She even doesn't know anything about
herself.‍That’s‍why‍she‍desperately‍needs‍you.

2. They are all the same. They will give you the same fantasy. None is
special to you.

3. Remain the PRIZE.

Men,

Still at the date;

When you order food, order for her too.

Own her immediately.

Don't‍ask‍her‍“What‍will‍you‍eat?”

Tell‍her,‍“I‍want‍you‍to‍try‍this‍meal,‍you‍will‍like‍it.”

She expects you to know everything.

Show leadership.

Don't be a punk!

If you drink water only for a date,order only water for her too. Leadership
starts the first day you meet

Men,

Still at the date;

1. Don't talk while eating. Chew, swallow then talk.

2. However, don't be pretentious. Eat!

3.‍Don't‍ask‍her,‍“how‍was‍the‍food?”,‍you‍are‍not‍her‍gastroenterologist.‍
You‍are‍the‍men‍who‍ask‍“how‍was‍the‍sex?”‍- Useless!

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Let her talk about the food if she liked it or not

After the date don't call her asking how was the date. Leave that to her if
she doesn't appreciate it then okay.

The same way after yourruthless penetration (after conquering her 4Cs)
don't talk about it.

A man who asks how Sex was has insecurities.

Underperformer.
Dick her too deep and let her rate your work from experience!

MasculinitySaturday

Men,

At the end of the date,

1. Pay the bills. Be the MAN.

2. Don't hug her. Just give a firm handshake.

3. Don't request a taxi for her. Let her pay her fare back home. Don't drive
her in your car.

4. Remain the PRIZE.

Men,

After the date,

- Don't fantasize,

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- No texting, let her text first.

She‍will‍text,‍“‍Thanks,‍I‍arrived‍safely”

Respond with‍“🙏 “‍and‍ignore.‍

- No‍‘Good‍morning’‍texts.

- Avoid‘my‍queen’,‍‘my‍dear’‍texts. Unplug from this matrix.

A man shouldn't idolize his woman. Be precise and brutal if you intend to
communicate.

To much texting create familiarity that kill seduction and eventually break
up.

Swim her through a pool of mysticism and be the magic man. Your woman
will die and ressuract for you.

Don't Send Her Texts Like

You ware Looking So Beautiful

You Voice was so Charming

YourEyes wareBeautiful

Keep Away From This

Let Her Text You are a MAN OF MY DREAM

Men,

Bombarding her with texts after the date is a bad idea.

Remain the PRIZE

Be patient.

A lion takes time timing a gazelle, then it pounces.

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2 weeks after the date, pounce!

“Hi‍Debra,‍I‍want‍to‍see‍again‍you‍this‍weekend.”‍

Text and wait.

Men,

Don't introduce your new woman to your friends yet,

That's a bad idea.

Introduce her after the second sex date.

Why?

Because some of your friends who are simps and orbiters will begin feeding
her your weaknesses.

Keep your woman away from your friends. They will snatch her from you.
Keep her as a state secret.

Introduce her when she is heavyly pregnant. With the twins the better.

They can only have time to appreciate your plumbing skills.

Men.

Abstain from "my queen" "my boo" and such.

Those are for pussified men and desperate MANGINAS.

Remember..
Failing to be the MAN..

makes you her FAN.

Focus!!

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Men,

Once she begins frequenting your house,

Don't allow her to leave her personal articles in the house,

- earrings

- panties

- handkerchiefs

- Lip balm

These belongings give her a reason to come back, mark her territory and
repel other women.

They use this to make a "landmark" in your house

A man with options will not let her leave behind her belongs.

This will make her more suspicious and and simp more for you.

As A man always have ability to maneuver her thoughts and be tough in

your order and actions.

Men

Don't allow her to leave her personal belongings in your house, stay taliban
and thank me later

Men,

Let me remind you about BLITZ WORDS

“You’ll‍die‍a‍lonely‍man”

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“You’ll‍never‍meet‍a‍caring‍woman‍like‍me‍again”

“No‍woman‍will‍date‍such‍a‍stingy‍narcissist”

Women use blitz words to coerce you to submit to her just when you are
about to dump her.

Men,

Living with a girlfriend in your house is like living with a snake in your
bedroom,

You must always be on guard,

Be vigilant,

Make sure the snake is tightly under your control where you can see its next
move.

Stay tough!

Or she gets rough.

Never cohabit with a snake. It will feed on your heels.

Cohabiting with a woman who is not your wife. I.e 'soft Prostitution'. Each
time yu elope, yu ensure your gun is on a trenchcoat.

Get a wife. The real pleasure is achieved when you plumb your wife without
a membrane

She's always on a mission to invade your kingdom.

Keep her on guard.

Do not reveal your vital secrets to her

Men,

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In the end,

Your woman will always disappoint you.

She will file for divorce,

Or monkey branch to the next orbiter,

Or when you retire, she will abandon you for your children.

Therefore, build your value.

Your value will protect you forever.

Never trust a manwoman whose friends you're not comfortable with.

Sooner or later, you'll be deceived.

Remember, every person is average of their friend circle.

The characteristics will show up, sooner or later.

Therefore never focus on her

Keep your focus on your goals!

Build your value with determination and recilliance.

You are the most important person to yourself

Madzimai, Nemi Tanhai Dzamunosvikira:

Nyaya yekutanha dzaunosvikira doesn't apply to Gents only, it's an issue

that ladies must put in practice also.

My sisters, besides being sexy what else can you offer?

What value do you have? Are you an Asset or a Liability?

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Be very careful pamunoshora men of your level muchida vasiri veLevel
renyu, you end up being sex objects kune vanhu vane vanhu vavo

If you are humble enough to appreciate men of your class, muchadzidza kuti
true love exists. Problem yenyu munoda zvinhu not munhu.MaRelationship
mazhinji haana kupindwa nemoyo une Rudo, akapindwa neruchiva
rwezvinhu.

Shandai vasikana so that when you enter into a relationship, unopinda

uchitsvaga love not material things

Its better to be a priority in a poor man's life than to be an option in a rich

man's life. Mazvinzwa here vana vehanzvadzi?

Revenge is a dish served cold but Machiavellian men take it a notch higher.
Very manipulative, calculative and they lack empathy. Prepare for the
Paradox of revenge

Feminine innocence is a scam, women must be held accountable for their

actions. Don't fall for their suicidal threatening messages.

You're not horny, you're just lonely

You're not lonely, you're just bored

You're not bored, you don't have a mission

Men, 16-25: Low value, hard life

Women, 16-25: High value, easy life

Ages 26-30: Transition phrase

Age 31 and beyond: Basically the opposite.

This used to be common sense, now it has to be taught.

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Either ways, truth is truth - if you don't get it, you'll pay the price. Meaning
work hard in investing between 6-24 that is education or career foundation.
25 to 30 focus on yourself developing. 31 and above you will attract the
best women for yourself. If you do it vice-versa you will pay the price

35-50 Year Old Men Cheat? Why?

Many marriages are shaken when men are between 35 to 48 years old.
When men are between 35 to 48 many things happen. This is the stage
when small houses are usually created when divorce usually takes place.
Not all marriages will survive this stage. But why 35-48 range. Don't get me
wrong infidelity problems can happen at any stage but for married people, I
found this age range to be the most challenging one. They are many factors
that make things go this way. This is the stage when many married men
would have achieved their goals like building a house, buying cars of their
dream, and they would have accomplished financial freedom.

They would have achieved what they might never have experienced before,
so they become idle and start exploring pleasure. They start drinking
heavily and start going places they shouldn't be going. It is at this stage
that they start looking attractive to many single women out there that are
looking for stable men to take care of them.

Their cars, this new level of stability and their financial freedom will attract
women to them. The church becomes less attractive for many men during
this phase as they stop going to church, or they keep going but will become
resistant to the holy teachings. So, they join different clubs. Then they start
entertaining evil counsel from these clubs, from different men that appear
to be doing better than them. These men become their role models. Some
women married to these men would have become too complacent. As they
stop taking care of themselves. leading to losing shape and becoming
unattractive by their own doing. Some will stop caring for their husbands.

Some women will become very disrespectful. They develop a sudden bad
mouth, and they become very militaristic in nature. They stop honoring their
husbands, and they start addressing them as if they are children. This
relaxing is very common. People usually forget what made them "loved" in
the first place. To make matters worse many women start losing interest in
sex when men are at their peak. This is why PlatoAristotle suggested an age
gap between men and women(husbands 33 wives 20). Because a man
would be at his peak at 40 whilst a woman would be adjusting to
menopause at 40. If they are of the same age a crisis might happen. One
partner becoming more interested whilst the other losing interest.

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When men are between 35 to 45 the level of lust becomes very abnormal. If
lust was contained between 25 to 35 just because they were working on
different goals, it will come back strongly between 35 to 45 when they are
now relaxed and celebrating a certain level of success.
If your husband happens to be between 35 to 45 then this article is for you.
Maybe you have already started dressing like a Chinese Monk, you are at
ease,‍you‍are‍saying‍“we‍now‍have‍0‍years‍of‍marriage."‍Let‍me‍warn‍you.‍
For many men, this phase 35-48 will trouble them. They will do drama.
Though for some it will pass as they will return to being good husbands.
Though they might be wild for a season.

The only dangerous thing is determined by the kind of women they will fall
for outside marriage during this stage. If they fall into the hands of those
women that are too caring, that use certain juju, that are very submissive
and‍too‍“providing”‍then‍such‍an‍affair‍may‍become‍a‍second‍marriage‍or‍
just a permanent affair that might result in the creation of children when it
was meant to be just a one night stand sort of relationship. Many women
with men that fall under this age range know what I am talking about. I
said men because I am focusing on men, I know women have their own
gwans. Those men that grew up righteous and upright might suddenly
change at this stage. They start having thoughts like " but I have slept with
just one woman that happens to be my wife can I die like this? What does it
feel like to have a different woman? I have never experienced coloreds now
I have money will I not try? I don't know what a threesome is like can I at
least try it just once, what does it feel like to date a beautiful 8-year old of
this generation my generation never had fine women like this new
generation."

Many times we handle these problems as spiritual problems, but they are
not always spiritually related. Negligence in any area can cause much harm.
Women‍must‍never‍relax‍and‍say‍things‍like”‍we‍now‍have‍5‍years‍in‍
marriage I can now do whatever I want." Such thinking will bring too much
harm in different marriages. This is a stage when HIV is usually introduced
in a relationship. Couples might have survived it the time they got married.
But it will resurface during this stage (35-48). Many women target men that
fall under this stage. They do different tricks to woo them. The competition
will become a reality again at this phase. Maybe you won when your
husband was 28 but as he gets to 35 another battle resurfaces again.

“Love‍relationships‍are‍like‍soccer‍if‍you‍win‍the‍league‍this‍season‍you‍
might lose it the next‍season,‍so‍always‍train‍never‍relax”

Semen constitutes the strength of the body, its life, and the light of the
eyes. Its emission to excess causes physical decay, debility and diminished

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vitality. Sperm retention is like depositing in the bank of masculinity and
accumulation of strength.

Thus Solomon, in his wisdom, says:

"Do not give your strength to women" (Proverbs 3:)

When‍she‍says‍“i‍am‍not‍ready‍for‍a‍relationship”‍the‍“with‍you”‍part‍is‍
silent.

Take your rejection in peace and try the next girl.

How could she cheat on me after I had told her & was showing her how
much I loved her"

Yeah that's exactly why she cheated on you. You initiated the relationship,
not her. You acted weak. Genuine attraction was lost the moment you
confirmed you wanted her ONLY....
You submitted to her by basically saying, "I don't want to sleep with other
women", meaning you are putting her above all other women i.e. pedestal.
You're telling her she's the prize...
She might appreciate that gesture in the beginning but her heart will always
be‍on‍the‍look‍for‍that‍guy‍that‍won't‍submit‍to‍her.‍⁣⁣She'll‍cheat‍with‍a‍
guy who doesn't want a relationship & ironically, she'll contemplate asking
that guy to be in a relationship with her....
Don't be a sucker & believe in the bullshit they show on TV. Never, ever ask
or‍even‍mention‍anything‍about‍being‍in‍a‍relationship‍with‍a‍woman.⁣⁣‍
Just hit the pu$$y & have fun, leave the relationship titles thing to her.
@Shadaya

WHAT IS A SIMP

st n foremost, you can be rich, famous, status & still be a simp. A simp is a
man who compromises his integrity to please a woman. This means that he
values women more than he values anything else in his life....
...and will sacrifice these things to obtain the attention & affection of a
woman⬇️⬇️⬇️
To a simp, the most important thing in life is the love of a woman. Simps are
taught that their happiness depends on a woman's happiness, hence the
reason they always say "happy wife, happy life." Simps do not have a
backbone. They're "yes men". They do whatever their woman says

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They spend their time trying to find new ways to make women like them.
They often pander, and every time they speak it's usually about something
that benefits women. They will throw the next man under the bus to gain
the attention of a woman...
They look at every other man as competition instead of comrades. They will
use every asset at their disposal to get women including tricking. Simps
have no real identity. They become the man that the woman they are
pursuing likes...
Simps are soft. Simps are cowards. And when women date them, they
realize that simps are not leaders. They are followers. "Whatever you want
baby". That's not what leaders say....
A simp buys a woman's affection. He is always over compensating for his
lack of masculine energy by spending money. He spends ridiculous amounts
of money on women because he believes money has the power to buy a
woman's affection....
A simp is a man who lacks integrity & simply does what a woman wants so
he can be in good favor. He doesn't know how to say no. He will do things
that are against his best interests to make her happy....
He will lie on other men & try to make himself look better than other men so
that women will like him. He panders to women to get their approval. Most
of them are always online virtue signaling, trashing their own gender for
likes from women...
But simps never win in the end. They are never completely happy because
they are always worried that their woman will leave them. They get broke
trying to buy her affection. They never progress further in life, as they put
their passions on hold for hers....
It never pays to be a simp. Be a man of value. Be a man of principle. Be a
man of morals. That way you can attract the woman who are truly attracted
to you & not women you have to "impress" 😒😒😒 @Shadaya

Most married women don't love their husbands

Most men in serious relationships, their girls aren't.

Because when women reach "maturity" they choose provision over

attraction.

When a woman is past her sexual market value peak she realises she needs
to settle downAnd when it comes to settling down, she won't look for the
same qualities she looked for in her hoe phase

There's a big difference between the guys she dates for fun & the guy she
marries

The guy she dates for fun

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•dominant
•unapologetic
•sexually‍attractive

The guy she marries

•weak
•apologetic
•sexually‍unattractive

The fun guy gets to have the best of the woman & the serious guy gets
what's left of herShe'll not be sexually attracted to the guy she marries but
will convince herself that she'll eventually grow to love him. Which is bs,
because if a woman isn't attracted to you now, nothing changes in a month
or years later...

Attraction for women is instant. That same girlfriend of yours telling you
let's take things slow OR that wife of yours whom you haven't slept with for
months, back in the day, she gave up that pussy on the st date, raw too, no
questions asked...If a woman isn't genuinely sexually attracted to you, the
relationship is a scam.

You're simply her target, providing her with her needs & wants whilst she's
not giving you 00%. You're simply a means to an end, nothing more.
@Shadaya

Fellas;

Stop telling your current woman about your previous women & how they
hurt. Your logic in telling her this, is that it will ignite sympathyempathy
from her but in reality it does the opposite....
It's such a turn off for women, it makes you look weak. Because now in her
mind, she's asking herself, if he allowed all these other women to treat him
as such, why should I treat him any different. In her mind she's like if he's
such a catch why nobody ever see that...
And as her mind keeps spinning, she's now thinking so if we ever break up,
this guy is going to be talking about me to another woman. This is a
feminine trait, women are the ones who do that, talk shit about their exs &
bask in victimhood...
Victimhood never looks good on a men, for she seeks a protector in a man &
it's obvious you can't. Stop that nonsense, she doesn't need to know about
your previous women & how they treated you. Deal with the present, learn
from the past.

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When a woman gives you a hard time, give her the celebrity test.

If she cancel a date with you. Ask yourself would she cancel a date with a
celebrity

If she wants to take it slow, ask yourself would she take it slow with a
celebrity
Whatever a woman seems to not be willing to give or do for you, always ask
yourself. Would she do the same to a celebrity.

If the answer is NO then she ain't worth your time. Know this, a woman will
always say YES to any man she regards as high value...
For the right guy she will do anything, no sweat. If your woman isn't willing
to do shit for you, drop her immediately. She doesn't see you as worthy of
her submission, so why do you think she's worth your resources, attention &
validation.

Women fall for experienced men.

•PRESELECTION‍- a man who has been with many women

Men fall for untouched women.

•PURITY‍- a woman who hasn't bonded with other men

Learn to say "NO" to her

When you say "YES" to her every request,

You reduce her attraction towards you.

Why? Because she gets everything she wants without having to earn it.

Want her to cheatdump you - GIVE HER EVERYTHING.

Want her to stay - DISAPPOINTHER.

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Just stop with the texting nonsense, if you're really interested in the chick,
call her, let her hear your voice. Command her to your will if you're truly an
alpha not this thing of texting her 247.

Don't even get me started on the emojies especially the dysphoric emojis (
😭😢😞) that's weakness at it's peak. Then those cringe heart emojis, total
turn off. And then when you say something sexual you put a joking emoji
😂� she knows you're pretending to be confident...

Imagine‍your‍kids‍sucking‍tits‍that’s‍that‍have‍been‍suckled‍by‍50‍grown‍
men before.

Maybe poverty is a choice. I mean you can't blame me for thinking such
when every Monday I come across a caption "cows came home" & looking
at the woman, red flags all over. Chicks past their prime, reformed thots,
single moms getting royal treatment...
Stupidity in the name of love, splashing U$4k & above just to be given
periodic use of something that has been used & abused for free. Think of
how far one can go with such money invested in a business or even crypto
currency....
Nywe nywe it's risky investing such sums of money in business, fxck that, at
least there's a possibility of profit. A female isn't an investment whatsoever,
just a liability that'll drain you till the day you die....
Oh come on man, she'll give me kids, a family. I'm like hellooo earth to
Dave, don't you read articles everyday of paternity fraud. Maan stop being
love blinded, that funny looking kid looks nothing like you. Come on you
couldn't have bred that kid...
And even if those funny looking kids are your kids, they only yours as long
as you with her, when she finally divorces you, she gonna take them but you
still gotta take care of them. You're gonna be given visiting days, shit
sounds like prison break. Visits are for prisoners...
Maan, now you get to visit your own kids in your own home that you
boughtbuild. But hey it's no longer yours, it's hers now. Some useless bum
ass is now fuxking her in your own house. On one of your visits you even
see this bum ass reading a newspaper on your garden chair...
Shit is sad maan, why did you have to be stupid & think with your little
head. Maan you should have wised up, in these times, you don't commit to
women, they're far too damaged for that, just smash & pass. Spend your
money on you not these women.
@Shadaya

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Ladies, these simp & feminist so called relationship experts be selling you
lies, saying don't date "broke" men, go for rich men. Lemme tell you this, an
ideal to be in a serious relationship with a man is when he is "broke", that
hustling phase...

Because by men's biological design, it's inevitable that they become more
interested in SEX not COMMITMENT when they have made it. Marriage is
the last thing on the mind of a rich man. Polygyny activates itself in rich
man...

That's why you find rich dudes not settling that easily, some even die as
bachelors. Why would a man with the privilege to sleep with every
attractive female deprive himself of such freedom over one female. What's
so special about you that he'd want to settle down with you...

Rich dudes know this exactly, that the major reason why all these females
throw themselves at them is because they made it. If they were still "broke"
the situation would be different. That is why rich dudes, simply fuck & toss
females...

It's actually those "broke" men you hate so much, who think about
marriage. As a woman if marriage is what you desire, then pick those
"broke" dudes & guess what he'd appreciate you more even when he finally
makes it are higher than a rich dude you weren't with in his broke days

Think about it, the only time you see an average looking woman married to
a rich dude, 90% of the time, it's that woman he was with in his broke days.
It's because that woman gave him something, no beautiful woman can offer
- loyalty, hope, support...

However this advice is for females of virtue, with genuine feelings &
intentions. Not materialistic parasites, as such will only end up putting
unnecessary financial pressure on an already over pressured guy trying to
make ends meet.

Always seek opponents whose strength, speed and skill exceeds your own

Because‍you’ll‍never‍learn‍or‍improve‍by‍beating‍inferior‍men

A superior opponent will expose your weaknesses and push you harder

He will teach you

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by beating you.

A man who cannot be ruthless is not a man

Judicious heartlessness is part of the job description.

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The Paradox of Revenging

Hypergamy doesn't care about your sacrifices

The money he wasted investing in his wife he could have bought something
better for himself or started business

However if they have children together his children will benefit somehow

Some don't deserve the luxury of being forgiven.

Empathy, forgiveness and kindness should be given to those who deserve it.

Paradox of revenge

Don't get too attached to women. Not everyone will make it to your future.
Some women are just passing through to teach you lessons in life.

You can't hold on to them or force them to be there always.

But you can believe that people who are meant to be in your life will
somehow gravitate back towards you.

Solitude in nature is a supreme gift that so few modern men take the
opportunity to enjoy.

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The Paradox of revenge

"I will hurt you for this. I don't know how yet, but give me time. A day will
come when you think yourself safe and happy, and suddenly your joy will
turn to ashes in your mouth, and you'll know the debt is paid."

George R.R. Martin

The religion has been used to manipulate the innocent and has been quoted
mostly when one does something wrong and does not want to be held
accountable. The writer always acknowledges the richness of shona and
African wisdom "tsvaru akadana tivu" meaning once you do something
expect to receive that two folds. That being said, after revenge preach it in
the mountains and valleys create a sophisticated continual assault on your
adversaries such that you always hang them in suspension.

The writer himself is cunn when it comes to revenge, especially when

dealing with umujolo or love triangles, every painful punishment is
deterrent and once known for being firm and punish any stupid behavior
you sheild yourself from disappointments and unnecessary disrespect. I
have always mastered the art of revenging through using the same
gynocentric systems. My movements are like that of a tiger they are slow
but very calculated. The writer won't reveal that much about two revenges
he once did after being disrespected and cheated and the other one is still a
in place where the writer will on the day of wedding or Lobola of his now
ex-girlfriend who is under spie the police will take her to the cells. That will
be an embarrassing moment while the General will be always in cloud nine
of striking.
Never believe in feminine innocence, the world has created a 50-50 equality
for both men and women hence the gynocentric systems created by
politicians must also be used to punish women.

The writer would equate revenging as a move that is taken to show your
muscles over both your adversaries and those who have failed to respect
you. Those people never deserve your forgiveness and never be
manipulated for not to hold people accountable for their actions.

Women don't deserve the luxury of being forgiven. Empathy, forgiveness

and kindness should be given to those who deserve it. Given that they have
demanded equality they must nolonger be treated with kid's gloves

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Business corporations and the state itself uses laws and rules to revenge
once you go off rail and they call it discipline or charge, when you do the
same its called revenge. Hell no its not revenge its about holding people
accountable for their behavior.

Even God himself said vengeance is mine in the scriptures. Meaning revenge
is necessary especially disappointed by those who you love and trust. After
that make it known to everyone that you revenged. It helps you to regulate
those who might think to tripp you.

The question that must always be in your head is how to carry out
vengeance mission? Use the the gynocentric systems to make vengeance a
men must always be very cunning in nature you must let her commit crimes
like abortion, fraud and other crimes that they can't resist befriended with
police officers and other workers within these gynocentric systems and
make her pay for her betrayal.

Revenge is for the strong, once you carry out revenge mission make sure
that you do it without leaving your adversaries with any thought of coming
back for you.

Remember what Cyril Connolly said "A woman's desire for revenge outlasts
her emotions"When a woman thinks of revenge remember they have a
ruthless savage mentality then why not treating them with the same
measurement, it's always women who goes to courts after being cheated,
its always women who claim mantainance after divorce those moves are
meant to punish you why not revenging them once you are disappointed
using the same gynocentric systems?

Conclusively one can put it as what Saad Hariri said "Justice is revenge" you
can't just let one get away with unpalatable behavior without paying the
prize. Once man realizes this definitely we will force women to self-regulate
themselves. I believe in serving cold justice and make stupid people pay for
their bad behavior.

Men,

Avoid dating a woman who is unhappy and full of misfortunes or misery,

A woman who is always sad, negative with misery will suck you into her
misfortune and you will equally live an awful, stagnant, broke life.

Avoid her because she is NOT A KEEPER

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When you choose a woman,you choose the energy you allow in your life.

You live with it.

If she is corrupted then she will affect your life negatively.

Save yourself.

A happy woman builds a happy home.

A happy home breeds loving, healthy children.
When choosing a wife think long term, some of these decisions affect your
children, workmates, parents, siblings and relatives.

You can never save a reject, she must fix herself.

Think longterm.

Negative attitudes and feelings just like positive feelings are transmittable.

Keeping a toxic, sad and unhappy woman will make you more or less the
same.

Find a woman that match your synergy and energy. A woman who
complements who you are not complicate

She needs a therapist NOT YOU,

Because after you help "heal" her,

She will have no use for you,

And go for the man who will bring her more joy.

Don't be an emotional tampon

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Be careful of the women you invest in, misery and drama are contagious.

Easier to avoid troubled women than to have to deal with their bullshit.

Vet the women you allow into‍your‍life‍from‍a‍position‍of‍power,‍don’t‍fall‍

victim to desperation.

Men

It means if she is always sad and unhappy, she will never see any meaning
of your happiness,

Stay away

Stop being Mr.Nice guy,otherwise you will spend the rest of your life fixing
the mess created by others.

Men,

Avoid shylocks,

Your financial calamity begins when you borrow money from shylocks,

Easy come, Easy go!

Shylocks will sink you into a cycle of endless debts.

Stay away from them.

Having a shylock partner is like having a narcissists as a lover. They will

never reciprocate your love back. Cut ties with them and build up your
financial muscles.

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Note‍to‍self:‍Your‍procrastination‍is‍someone‍else’s‍opportunity.‍We‍mostly‍
procrastinate what we constantly talk about

but we never actually get to do.

When you talk about it, another hears about it and act

on it while you still wait for later.

Men,

If you cannot buy it twice,

You cannot afford it.

Spend more time securing your financial freedom.

Don't just look rich. Be rich.

A man must choose character over charisma. It's character that gets you
going up in the hard days.

Build up your financial empire slowly with determination & patience. Avoid
these financial savages on streets, they will rip you apart if you borrow their
money. Hence no growth

Men, do you know the Bible gives a warning against debts? Sort out your
debts men.
Romans 3:8
[8]Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one
another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.

When faced with a challenging situation, ask yourself:

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What can I learn from this?

Men,

I‍will‍never‍stop‍reminding‍you‍to‍stay‍away‍from‍another‍man’s‍wife.

You will be killed and we shall use you as an example.

A‍man‍who‍is‍killed‍for‍sleeping‍with‍another‍man’s‍wife‍is‍buried‍like‍a‍
skunk by the riverside at 3 AM.

Numb the urge to lust for a woman whose duty has been paid through
foreign currency or in kind.

Even if her curvaceous physique is getting you vertigo by glaring at her hips.
Resist the urge.

Don't faint for her voluptuous aesthetic. Die with your dignity intact.

Men's market value increases with age.

Women's market value decreases with age.

Men's value is determined by their power, wealth and physical

attractiveness.

Women's value is almost entirely determined by their physical

attractiveness.

Never associate yourself with a woman who's committed to another man,

even if she's showing you signs.

Men are always willing to kill for money, power and women.

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A desperate man with no options feels it's right to seduce & sleep with
another man's wife.

There are many young, single women out there desperate for your
attention.

Hit on them, seduce them & they'll lay you often.

Another Man's Wife is a No Go Zone

You will be Killed

You will be Injured

You Will Be Jailed

DONT

Be A Man

Respect Your Manhood

Only men who are low-value eye on someone else's wife.

She belongs to another man, skip her.

There are 000s of women out there.

Do not devalue yourself.

Men,

Don't be a Manstress.

A manstress is a male equivalent to a mistress. A married woman's side

piece. A second dick she get when the firstdick isn't satisfying her. The man
she use, abuse, & throw away on top of the man she goes home to every
day.

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That is a Brocode

NEVER DATE YOUR BRO'S EX

Go Out Chase Yours

And If Rejected

Go Work on Yourself

DON'T BE A SIMP

BE A MAN

Real men don't salivate for leftovers.

Going after your friends' ex promotes chaos &undermines your

consciousness & sub-consciousness.

No simping , no dating sluts.

Going back to your ex is like a dog going back to its vomits.

Erase her completely from your life. Inscribe and erect her epitaph in your
heart.

Turn your back on unrequited love with a narcissists.

Unless you're waiting her to inflict painful boils on your ass.

Men are Born To Lead

Not to be Led

Go Lead

Go manage

Go make Decision

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Go make Guideline

Be Firm

Be Strong

Don't Be Swayed

A man can only be replaced by a man.

Be the man in your house.

Be able to fill the shoes your father left.

Grind and be better.

Lead or perish.

Men,

If you are a father,

Unplug your son from her mother,

Remind him that he is a man who must learn to be hardworking, committed

and responsible,

Instil in him masculine ideals as early as possible.

Your son is your heir apparent.

Go Teach Him How to Till The Land

Teach Him How To Construct Something

Teach Him Craft

Teach Him How To approach Beautiful ladies

Teach Him How To wearthat Rubber

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Teach Him How to wash Boxer

Don't forget to teach him that

There's nothing for free he must for it.

Have mental strength

Learn how to communicate with others.

He should fight for his space in this world or else he will be a weak man.

Good Dad should always make sure his son is in the right path

Immediately punish any effeminate misbehaviour he potrays

Watch him and teach him on how to work hard and be masculine.

Be a good Dad

Your son is your heir apparent.

Men,

A‍perfect‍woman‍doesn’t‍exist,

If you think she is perfect or born again therefore she won't cheat or
disrespect you,

You are mistaken.

Keep a stern eye on her, show her through actions that you are a no-
nonsense man who doesn't tolerate bulshit.

Be direct about your boundaries.

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What you will‍tolerate‍and‍what‍you‍won’t.

Clears up a lot of trash around you.

If

she cooks your your favourite meal

cleans your house and clothes

drains your ball whenever you want

Thats okay, that's what she is meant to do for you

Don't have a mentality that she is irreplaceable.

NO woman is perfect or faithful. Stay ruthless and watch her.

Women like children need guidance,

Women by default must make mistakes ,

It is in their womanhood to make mistakes,

Likewise it is in Manhood to correct mistakes by problem solving,

Percive all women as same,

None Is Different,

No woman is perfect.

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All women are hypergamous

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That's there operating system

Yes both the deep religious and the striper you met in a bar

So don't waste your time looking your perfect match

She does not exist

Men,

If you want to lose her,

Answer to all her demands,

Take heed of her advice,

Cut out all other options

Make her the ONE.

Be the beta stop-over male.

You accept the love you deserve.

Women will treat you the way they see you.

Constantly failing her shit test is showing her you have no spine and you
deserve less.

She will treat you like trash while drawing resources from you like a leech.

Stand firm.

Yes,

Women are wired to disrespect.

A no-nonsense man will require her to be obedient, caring and furthermore

give you unrestricted sex.

But first, gain real VALUE as a Man.

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A woman just like a kid, will always look for an opportunity to outsmart you.

Do not open any window or door opportunities for such bulshit.

Stay tough on her and so must she acknowledge you're the leader who must
be respected and feared.

Men,

Scrutinize her friends & the company she keeps,

If her friends are sluts who disrespect marriage, she will do the same to
you,

If her friends cheat, she will cheat,

Do not date a woman who keeps a company of sluts, liars, degenerates and
drunkards.

Her company and friends matters alot

She will definitely do what her friends does

Be vigilant on her moves and the kind of friends she has.

She should have a network of femininely natured women.

Men,

Avoid apologies to your women

"sorry honey" "sorry baby won't do it again"

Real men accept the mistake from within and dont show the acceptance,

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Say "okay. I get it"

Keeps you respect and command in the house

Don't be simps

Men,

"I think we should be friends"

"I need some space"

RUN.

Why do you think the zebra though attractive & beautiful stays in the wild?

But her cousin the donkey is reliable, hardworking & domesticated?

There is no graffiti on Rolls-Royce and Bentley.

You decide your prestige and you don't settle for anything less and when
you give commitment, you don't back off till the last

Men,

Women do NOT know what they want.

Never follow her words.

Do the opposite.

You're welcome.

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Men,

When you're arguing,

Don't complain

Don't raise your voice,

Don't be the woman in the argument.

Be firm. Make decisions and correct the situation.

Women are so ruthless on simps and orbiters

They have no mercy on simps

She will come to you, talk bad things about her "jerk" boyfriend but trust
me she will go back to him. Why because he is an alpha.

Let your frame surpass her shit test to you.

Be stoic.

Men,

Send her to the shop,

If she doesn't give you feedback on how she spent the money,

That's a huge red flag,

It doesn't matter if she has her money or not,

How a woman behaves with your money is a vital character you should take
into consideration.

Listen bro😎,

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Giving a woman money will put her on a magnifying lense. You will see all
her characters.

Just give her money and learn �!

Men,

Your woman should not grow FAT under your watch.

A fat woman faces a difficult motherhood & birthing process which can kill
her or the baby,

Be firm about a healthy lifestyle. She can cry the much she wants.

Your house is not a pharmacy store.

You as a man must have standards for yourself and her.

She as your woman must match your standards.

She must be willing to put in the work.

Keep her in check.

Your Kingdom, your Rules.

Do not encourage gluttony.

Do not encourage FATNESS.

Be RUTHLESS on your family'sFITNESS.

You have to take her with you at the gym.

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NO man should date a fat woman

Women should doexercises even during their pregnancy for easy delivery.

Fat women are lazy and gossip left right center

Give zero fucks about fat women

She should be fit at any cost.

Men,

Your woman and children will respect you if

- You are not FAT,

- You are not lazy,

- You don't sit in the house watching politicians ,

- You are committed to your purpose,

They will respect you because you are a competent leader.

UNFAT

Men,

If you become successful or accomplish something,

Don't associate your success with your woman,

This is where effeminate men get it wrong.

“We‍won‍this‍war‍because‍our‍women‍cooked‍for‍us”‍,‍said‍no‍soldier‍ever.

Own your success. Be selfish.

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Own your success. Be selfish

Selfish to your wife too

A successful man has a strategy and a tactic. Make out with your strategy
and tactic.

Soldiers don't go to war with their women. Wars are not love affairs. Wars
don't give orgasm like women.

Orgasm reinforces our virility but not our success.

Its healthy being selfish.

Generosity is expensive.

THINK.

Anything a woman says, just add NOW at the end.

I love you, NOW.

We are meant to be together, NOW.

I miss you,NOW.

Her words only means something at that immediate moment.

Her actions are all that matters.

Never take her serious.

Nice to know.

And when she texts

"How are you"

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Respond with just, "Fine"

Do not, and I repeat DO NOT add, "and you?"

Needness is not attractive either in relationship or business.

Needness is the sign of lack of options.

Many call it love.

Here, we call it losing your frame.

The day you get recruited into sharing her domestic chores, her outlook
towards you changes.

She starts seeing you as a fellow girlfriend.

Resist.

Unplug!

Men, scrutinize you woman past. Judge her on her past. Her bad behavior
today will be her past tomorrow. And she will expects not to be judged by
her past.

Old habits die hard.

Men,

Health indicators to consider before getting into a Long Term Relationship

- Blood Group

- History of sickle cell disease

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- Abortion

- Menstruation

- Weight

Sounds petty but when you will shuttle from one hospital to the next, you
will know.

You’ll‍learn‍more‍in‍the‍company‍of‍a‍dangerous‍man
Than in the company of a safe, but inconsequential man.
Pay attention, observe and listen carefully,
but remain cautious
Dangerous men are dangerous for a reason
The prize is greater, but the risks are higher.

That’s‍the‍thing,‍that‍lust‍is‍a‍man’s‍weakness‍and‍women‍use‍it‍to‍entice‍
and tempt, to confuse and abuse it to satisfy their hypergamous instinct. If
only‍most‍men‍knew‍that‍a‍woman’s‍weakness‍is‍her‍vanity;‍things‍may‍be‍
more sane.

Dating Hack:

No matter how attractive she might be...

Don't abandon your dreams for any girl.

Instead of worrying if your girl is cheating...

Worry about your lack of options.

Unpopular opinion:

Men cheat to save relationships.

Women cheat to end them.

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Few will understand this.

Modern women find it so wrong for a man to ask for 5050 when it comes to
bills & other responsibilities BUT will gladly advocate for 5050 when
divorcing.

Make it make sense!!!

I will continue to say this, relationships are the major medium through
which HIV is spread. But we will be pointing and laughing at sex workers.
Sex workers who actually take their sexual health serious. Be cautious
about sexual relationships, if your partner is cheating on you they are
risking your health, most men don't trust sex workers automatically they
use protection unlike on your partner

Stop giving women second chances. She wasn't meant to be in your life in
the first place. Leave while you still have your dignity intact. Learn lessons
from the experience you have with them don't regret, the former improves
your character the later degenerates your soul

Modern women aren't taught how to TREAT a man only what to EXPECT
from him.

Whilst modern men are being taught how to TREAT women but not to
EXPECT anything from them.

SLAVERY OF MEN BY WOMEN

German writer Esther Villar In her book "The Manipulated Man" that caused
outrage and hostile criticism from women explains how women since the
earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they
have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the

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oppressors. She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by
steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying "a man chases a
woman until SHE catches him".

In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all
his lifeand her offspring. He rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets
rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure. We can, by observing Esther
Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses
and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man
chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.

She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the
powerful urge andneed to own a male for herself. Like a slave owner
shedetests any move the man would make to offer his services to another
woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself andher offspring
alone.

Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer,
Chinweizu Ibekwein his book,"The Anatomy of Female Power"(AFP) andWill
Farrel's, "The Predatory Female. They all push the theory that all societies
are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe.
Matriarchy has rulednot through brawn but wits and tricks; women feigning
weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited
sex in human history,(in wars the man is always ready to die for the
woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of dating and courtship, training, like that of a
horse. It is during this time that a woman having kept the man on a leash by
denying him sex and getting him addicted to her by false charms,trains and
breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.

The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the woman and her
friends, and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting
herself a slave. A man on that wedding day waves goodbye to his
independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a Sisyphean
life,rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having society and the
government checking onhim and always ready to jail, shame or exile him for
absconding his duties.

Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her slave in
check.

Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs

to tame men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own
mother. A man is shamed for cooking for himself and other domestic chores
by his own mother who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule.

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By getting the man to hate domestic works and having it enforced by
culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing laundry etc.,
the mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when
the time comes she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man
addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in bed and in the kitchen.
With those two weapons she manipulates the man and turns him into her
plaything.

In the "Myth of the Male Power", Esther Villar's " A Man's Right to the Other
Woman"; "The Polygamous Sex",the authors of thosebooks challenge the
narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across
African,Western and Eastern both in ancient and modernsocieties, the
authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that
rules the world.

Presidents, Emperors and Kings are all puppets of the matriarchy forces
that rule the Worldby pulling the strings from behind the curtains

"Those who doesn't set the pace for change become the victims of change"

Train your mind to be wise,

yet cunning when required

Your body to be strong,

yet gentle when required

Your heart to be kind,

yet ruthless when required. A man must be a Paradox

5 TRICKS THAT PORNOGRAPHERS USE TO GET YOU ADDICTED

Written By Arthur

We all know too well the risks that come with watching pornography.

The brain rot, the cuckold training, the dopamine addiction and even the
erectile dysfunction.

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Countless articles and videos have covered the dangers of jacking off to
porn.

But there is nobody talking about exactly why pornography is so addictive

(to certain kinds of men) and what techniques pornographers use to get
those people hooked.

When‍you‍know‍why‍you’re‍falling‍for‍the‍pornography‍trap,‍you’ll‍know‍
exactly what you need to do to eliminate your porn consumption forever.

Here are 5 sneaky tricks that pornographers use and why they work:

1. THEY MAKE THE WOMEN IN PORN VERY FORWARD

Most men complain about the seduction process and how difficult it can be
to get a new woman into bed, or even their own wife.

Sexually incompetant men will say that women only want a man with
money, height, muscles or a giant dick.

So rather than argue with these men, pornographers simply give these men
an easy escape through porn.

In‍a‍porno‍the‍women‍don’t‍ever‍turn‍the‍man‍down‍and‍they‍even‍
instigate a lot of what goes on.

The‍women‍never‍say‍“not‍tonight‍dear”‍or‍“my‍stomach‍hurts”‍as‍a‍lot‍of‍
pornography‍viewer’s‍wives‍do.

So in short, porn allows these frustrated men to skip the difficult part and to
see‍what‍an‍eager‍and‍willing‍woman‍really‍looks‍like…‍through‍a‍screen.

2. THEY USE (MODERATELY) ATTRACTIVE WOMEN TO ENHANCE THE

FANTASY

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Women in porn are usually average or a little over average looking but they
get them‍all‍dolled‍up‍in‍revealing‍outfits‍and‍“fertility”‍makeup‍to‍make‍
them seem more impressive and alluring.

The women in porn may not always be more attractive than your own
partner, but 99 times out of 00 they will be dressed more enticing than your
partner ever would be.

Making the women in porn look the way they do is just another way that
pornographers trick you into preferring them over your own partner who is
(currently) too uncomfortable to dress that way for you in the bedroom.

3. THEY ALSO USE MEN WHO ARE IN GOOD SHAPE

Of‍course‍you’re‍not‍watching‍porn‍for‍the‍men,‍but‍pornographers‍use‍
guys‍that‍are‍in‍shape‍and‍well‍hung‍simply‍so‍it’s‍more‍enjoyable‍for‍you‍
to imagine yourself as them.

It allows you to skip all of the hard workouts in the gym and just be a top
tier man with a few clicks of a mouse.

4.‍THEY‍SHOW‍“EXTREME”‍AND‍“UNNATURAL”‍SEXUAL‍ACTS‍TO‍BLOW‍UP‍
YOUR DOPAMINE SENSORS

The majority of people would not think of half the sexual acts that
pornographers can think up.

So when you see women shoving cupcakes into places and pushing them
back out and eating them, it absolutely fries your dopamine sensors (even if
you‍aren’t‍turned‍on‍by‍it).

The psychology behind all of this is fascinating.

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These are activities that should make you nauseous but instead get you
hooked‍on‍how‍“extreme”‍they‍are‍and‍it‍sends‍you‍on‍a‍never‍ending‍hunt‍
for ever more intense scenes.

5. THEY MAKE THE WOMEN IN PORN OPEN TO ANYTHING

We touched on this in pointbut think about it, because porn is an act and
the women are being paid, they will do literally anything they are instructed
to do.

But real, unpaid women only behave this way for men who they are
obsessed with and want to keep around for as long as possible.

Which‍doesn’t‍apply to most women, because most women find their

partners very dull and predictable.

They would never be open to anything with that particular version of their
partner.

So once again pornographers allow you to skip past the part where you
make a woman obsessed‍with‍you‍and‍give‍you‍it‍for‍free…‍behind‍a‍screen‍
that it is.

It’s‍a‍cheap‍imitation‍of‍a‍woman’s‍pure‍passion‍and‍lust‍for‍you.

WHAT GOES ON IN PORN IS NOT THE PROBLEM.

The‍problem‍is‍that‍it’s‍not‍happening‍for‍you‍in‍real‍life.

Yes, some‍of‍what‍goes‍on‍in‍porn‍could‍be‍considered‍“extreme”‍and‍
“unnatural”‍but‍if‍it’s‍something‍you‍want‍to‍enjoy‍for‍yourself,‍by‍all‍
means‍go‍ahead…

But stop watching it on a screen and start watching it happen in real life
right in front of you.

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What goes on in pornography can go on in your own bedroom, without
having‍to‍pay‍your‍partner‍for‍her‍“scene”.

You can have a woman that is so eager for you that she will allow you to
“humiliate”‍her‍and‍do‍whatever‍you‍like‍with‍her‍for‍your‍own‍pleasure.

And to top it off, she will get pleasure from it all too.

So‍if‍you’d‍like‍to‍remove‍pornography‍from‍your‍life‍by‍replicating‍it‍in‍real‍
life with an eager partner, take a look at the Complete Submission program.

The only program of its kind, designed to get you what you want in the
bedroom without having to ask for it.

Get the program HERE.

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him in peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements
6. Clean the house
7. Wash his clothes
8. Always pray for him.

So what's so hard about that?

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only
needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father

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6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healerprayer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎:

44. give her compliments regularly

45. go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. not stress her out
48. not look at other girls

𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐒𝐎:

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49. give her lots of attention
50. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
51. give her lots of space, allow to visit her family members and your
relatives.
52. Valentines treats.
53. Her Birthdays shopping and surprises.
54. Easter holiday trips.
55. Mothers day treat.
56. Father's day treat.
57. Irregular bashes.
58. Regular sex
59. Remembering to honour all her children with good parties and gifts.

𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓:

60. To learn not to ask for change when u give money for shopping.
Whatever u give out becomes rightly hers no matter how big the note is.
.........
𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐀 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐈𝐒 𝐀 𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒 𝐁𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 😄😀😃😜🌹 Send this to
everyone on your list. Make a happy home. Wishing you all a 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐅𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐘.

No matter how good you treat a woman, if you aren't the man who she has
feelings for, she'll never appreciate your efforts. Women are loyal to their
feelings, they don't care about sacrifices...
If you're not the guy who makes her feel things then the reason she's with
you is sinister. It's not genuine desire, it's either she's playing nice because
she needs something (provision) from you or she has no other options other
than you...
And the day she gets a chance to be with a man who really makes her feel
things, she'll definitely cheat or dump you, regardless of all the sacrifices
you've done for her. To top it off she'll justify her actions because of her
feelings.

Observe, a woman will make excuses as to why she's with a toxic man but
be quick to find a reason why she dumpedcheated a good man. She'll get
cheated on, even getting hit by a toxic man & be telling her family & friends
"he'll change"..."he didn't mean it"....
But will be quick to find a reason why she can't be with a good man. She'll
cheatdump him with zero guilt believing he deserves it. Why? Because she'll
always defend evil in a man before she forgives weakness in him....

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A woman will reward the sins of strength & punish the good deeds of
weakness. Yes if she views you as weak, even your good gestures will
repulse her & if she views you as strong, even your bad traits will excite her.

Strength‍isn’t‍limited‍to‍your‍physical‍capabilities

It is a mindset, an attitude, a way of thinking and a way of being.

A virtuous man is a strong man

A disciplined man is a strong man
A courageous man is a strong man

Always let strength guide you in thought, word and deed.

Have a reputation that no one dares to mess with your family.

Raise your son well so he can keep it that way after you. Read the Paradox
of Revenge

Don't take advice from the guy who was born privileged and never
struggled in life

Take advice from the guy who started from rock bottom and built his way to
the top

He understands the process better than anyone else.

No matter how good u treat a woman, If u are not the man who she has
feelings for, she'll never appriciate yr efforts. Women are loyal to their
feelings, they don't care about sacrifices.

The‍women‍complaining‍that‍‘men‍only‍want‍one‍thing’‍

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Are also the ones that clearly demonstrate they have little else to offer.

THE PARADOX OF SINGLE MOTHERS

Forethought must be an exaltation and logical quality that must be

possessed by every man who is under-transformation to win the medal of
valor in life. This helps one to unfold events that are likely to happen in the
future and shield himself against unnecessary loss, stress and avoidable
costs. Hence, one should pour out cold bitter truth concerning single
mothers. It is an undeniable fact that the society has normalized
degeneracy which resulted in sluttery, disrespect and disharmony amongst
families, While this generation has normalized it. We are failing to hold
women accountable for failing to be the gatekeepers of sex. In fact there is
a shift in the narrative, single mothers have been celebrated as modern
heroes which the writer now refer to as a generation of absurdities.

Having a kid is a greater responsibility that any women can't bear alone.
She needs a provider and emotional support for the upkeep of the child,
failure to get it she trades her feminine with nature and become an
emasculated soul with a destroyed heart. Single mothers are always tired
and stressed out to do a lot of things, failure to have protection she pays her
journey of life with feminity. She becomes loose and sleeps around for
comfort hence monogamous bond will be very difficult.

Most women and the society at large want the blame to be equally shared
between men and women when divorce occurs, however it is a fact that
women are gatekeepers for sex and they can easily decide which man can
be a good ideal for being a good father. Failure to vet definitely, she must be
held accountable for such a mistake. However, the writer acknowledges
widows who have been left by their husbands as a result of death however
the is difference on this approach, one suffers bitterness and the other is
affected by sadness. The resentment by the former is dangerous. Hence
they need to treated differently.

Single mothers are vulnerable to emotional pain confusion about how other
people will see them and finally they develop an I don't care attitude that's
reaping off both humanity and femininity hence feminism will be loading.
The results are promiscuity and selfishness and that's when they develop a
very cunning and manipulative behavior. The price will be paid by low value
man. A weak man must not chase a big cat without a distinct edge, he will
be haunted by the nemesis of prison or death. A man of conviction must not
be dribbled past. In fact, if he let lust drive his logic he will be turned into a
slave of sexual passion. One must release himself from the transitory joy by
doing so, one will yield greater honor and advantage tomorrow.

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There is a common statement that single mothers offers affection and good
sex, really? These are sentiments peddled to justify simping. There are
problems associated with single mothers that a man need to pay in such a
relationship which most do not want to hear. However the writer is not a
stranger to critics and insults so he will not hesitate to point some of the
problems which include, parenting child that doesn't belong to you, financial
and emotional support for both the wife and the children. You are obliged to
put effort and strength to help her and make her enjoy, in respect to that
you will spend a lot of time focusing on developing kids that doesn't belong
to you and worse if the partner later decide to disappoint you.

A compensatory behavioral syndrome will later develop especially for man

and the weakness that took him by surprise at first will also take him at
last, translating he will later need to enjoy the fruits of his sweat during his
support to the kids that doesn't belong to him. He will literally start to
abuse the step kids. This issue has triggered the topic in question after the
writer reported a lot of stories where men raped their stepdaughters. The
writer is not justifying such deplorable behavior however understand the
biological wiring of men and how their predatory behavior. By unpacking
the Paradox in question he is trying to remind fellow men just to focus on
childless women though single mothers also deserves to be loved but it
comes with costs which in most cases have higher prices at last.

Most single mothers date for financial and emotional comfort including co-
parenting their kids once the kids are independent and grow definitely the
mission will be over and it is likely you will be left to die a lonely man or you
will later languish in prison or get killed when compensatory behavior
syndrome grips you by the balls.

Evil is useful at first to prevent being taken advantage of by low quality

women.
The next phase is attaining wisdom to become a complete noble masculine
man who doesnt need to be evil to set boundaries with people and can
calmly face whatever life throws at him.

Women can smell testosterone. They can instantly know who has got a lot
of it and who has got little of it.

Notice how every woman on earth is attracted towards confidence.

This is because the more testosterone you have, the more confident you will
be.

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Testosterone leads to masculinity
Masculinity turns on aggression turns on beast turns on patriarchal
protection

WEIGHTIER MATTERS OF LOVE

1. The problem with most Ladies is that they think sex is the most valuable
gift they can give to a man.
2. No doubt sex is important and has weight but there are weightier matters
of love that weigh far weightier than sex.
3. Let me shock you! Do you know that sex can be bought with cash as low
as k or be gotten from some street chick?
4. Ladies, stop exergerating sex. Don't overrate the sex issue. Sex is NOT
the most valuable gift a woman can offer a man.
5. You can be a sex machine yet be a total failure with a man. There are
weightier matters of Love. There is THINGS that are far more expensive
than sex, and not every lady can give that.
6. To succeed in your relationship, you must find out the weightier matters
of Love no prostitute or any other girl on the street can give.

A woman is having an affair during the day while her husband is at work.
Her nine-year-old son comes home unexpectedly,
sees the illegal lovers and hides in the bedroom cupboard to watch.
Then the woman's husband unexpectedly comes home.
She hides her lover in the cupboard, not realizing that her little boy is in
there already.
The little Boy says:
"Dark in here."
The Man says:
"Yes, it is."
Boy:
;I have a soccer ball, do you want to buy it?"
Man:
;No, thanks."
Boy:
;My dad's outside, I'll call him if you don't buy it!"
Man:
"OK, how much?"
Boy: 😜😜😜
"$,000."
A few weeks later it happened again , and the boy and the lover were in the
cupboard together again.
Boy:

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"Dark in here."
Man:
;Yes, it is."
Boy:
"I have soccer boots."
The Man, remembering the last time, and asks the boy:
"How much?"
The Boy says 😜😜😜
"$5,000."
The Man says:
"Fine, I will buy them."
A few days later, the Father says to the boy:
"Grab your ball and boots,
let's go outside and have a game."
The Boy says:
"I can't, I sold them for $ 6,000."
The Father says:😳😳😳😳😳
"That's terrible to overcharge your friends like that... $ 6,000 is way more
than those two things cost.
I'm going to take you to church and make you confess your "SINS."
They go to church and the father makes the little boy sit in the confession
booth and he closes the door.
The Boy says:
"Dark in here."
😜😜😜😜😜
The Priest says:
"Don't start that shit again!"
😜💥🎈😜💥🎈😜💥🎈😜💥🎈
THIS IS MY CHURCH, NOT YOUR FATHER'S HOUSE !
😂😂😂😂😂.....to be continued

Most Men have become Sheep.

They listen to simp music, watch weak movies that pedestalize women, and
"support" movements that they don't even fundamentally agree with.

Why?

In a hope that women will give them some attention.

Truly Tragic.

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Keep your relationship conflicts away from your mother.

Your wife and your mother operate on the same feminine wavelength
fighting for your attention.

Your mother will meddle into your issues and scuttle it.

Talk to your dad, uncle or a tribe of men, not your mum.

ManDay

Taking the knee is a universally recognised act of submission and surrender

Men would kneel before their kings to offer loyalty and obedience
Defeated men would kneel before their conquerors
Men also take the knee to propose for marriage.
Nothing romantic about stupified behavior.

Men must learn to be disciplined, how can you part ways with your hard
earned money for cheap and dirty sex. You suffer twice if you lack moral
sanity sluts drains you physically, mentally and spiritually.

Men,

Don't complain about lack of energy if you're not not taking care of your
body and mind.

Don't complain about lack of time if you procrastinate on social media every
day.

Don't complain about money if you're not finding ways to earn more.

IDENTIFY your problems, but devote your time and energy to SOLUTIONS,
not complaints.

"A Man either fixes his problems or he accepts with grace that nothing can
be done, and gets back to work."

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Take responsibility for your life and your problems and try to make the most
of them.

"I AM STRONG & INDEPENDENT"

This has to be the most insulting thing a woman can ever say. Modern
women are always on social media, talking about how they don't need men.
About how men don't even matter. The saying privilege is invisible to those
who have it is true...
In the comfort of modern society, women don't have any respect towards
men, forgetting how we as a species reached this point. The modern
civilisation that exists, with all it's scientifictechnological advancement
came to be because of MEN...
It’s‍because of the hard work put in by men to get the society to this point.
Educated‍women‍saying‍“I‍don’t‍need‍a‍man”,‍using‍their‍phones‍all‍day‍
built by men, on social media platforms designed by men, powered by
electricity that is provided by men working at power stations..

In the comfort of their houses built by men. They will go on to talk about
how the future is female, how they now have all these amazing
achievements. How independent they're of income from men. How they're
achieving more than men, calling men lazy & stupid...

All that time forgetting they're living in a society that is 00% dedicated to
cater to their frailties. In education, they're given preferential treatment - in
universities, for the same program a male has to have the best results, a
woman just has to be average...

Not even considering they're offered scholarships for the sake of being
women, men don't have that privilege. In STEM programs, for every woman
studying such a program she has at least 3 men helping her with the
assignments...
But when she finally graduates, she'll go on to say "I'm strong &
independent". Then when it comes to employment, she is more likely to be
employed than her male counterpart, all because she's a woman. They
actually have policies that demand a certain number of women be hired...

The quota system they call it. In political spaces, it's the same, in some
countries you have parliamentary seats reserved for women, women
empowerment they'll say. The very same laws that are made in these
parliaments are biased towards women...
You have women saying they don't need a man raising a family. How can
they need one when all the lawspolicies in place make sure a man is

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rendered useless. In the case of a divorce, a woman stands to gain half of
everything the man owned...

He will have to pay her child support (despite her being equal) & also
alimonyspousal support. Even the ones with fatherless babies, they're
offered social grants, in the form of money for the kids, food
stampsvouchers, freecheap accomodation...

All this paid for by taxes being paid by men as well. But do women ever care
to think about that? Hell noo. They'll call men weak for not being able to
cope with the world like them, despite the fact that society literally is built
around their well being...

All the major organisations cater to women's mental health, infact women's
health in general. Despite the fact that prostate cancer is actually more
deadly than breast cancer, you'd think only breast cancer is the cancer that
exists. Major funding goes towards that...

And even in times of war, the first preference is women & children (to be
more specific the girl child). The world will be cautious about the girl child
being raped (rightfully so) but will not bait an eye about the boy child being
used as child soldiers...

In times of disasters, the message is save the women & children first,
because males are regarded as expendable. There's something about seeing
a woman's dead body that causes alarm but something about seeing a
man's dead body that makes it seem normal...

This is the kind of society we're living in, where men despite everything
they have done & continue to do, they're not given the due respect they
deserve. All thanks to feminism...
Feminism is bs, it puts all the responsibility on men & takes away the
authority that should come with those responsibilities. For the women, it
provides them the authority while absolving them from taking any
responsibility

The feminine is like the ocean.

Her mood keeps changing within minutes.

Most of‍the‍time,‍it’s‍hasn’t‍got‍anything‍to‍do‍with‍you.‍

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Yet‍most‍men‍think‍it’s‍them‍and‍they‍start‍explaining‍themselves,‍probing‍
for more information.

Bro, she just needs a kiss on the forehead.

A woman's behaviour changes according to the man she is with.

She acts differently with different men.

She can be rude to one but polite to the other.

Her good behaviour to a man depends on how much confident and

masculine he is. Be ready to walk away and be ready to punish her for bad
behavior. Stay Taliban

A man is better off spending his time alone

Than in the company of weak, effeminate or otherwise low quality men. If

you spend your time consuming redpill you are likely to be successful with
women and in life. You will be amoured against disappointments

Attention is man's currency in a relationship, never spoil a woman with too

much attention.

When‍she‍does‍receive‍it,‍she‍must‍feel‍like‍she’s‍worked‍to‍earn‍it.‍

By‍working‍to‍earn‍it‍she’ll‍value‍it‍more,‍have‍a‍greater‍respect‍for‍your
time, and continue to work hard to remain in your favor. By constant supply
of currency in an economy money becomes valueless.

Re write your goals everyday. Make a commitment & never break it.
Anything you set your mind to, you will succeed at it. Have enough reasons
to do what you want, you will do whatever it takes. He who has a "why" to
live for can bear almost any "how".

Men,

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As a father,

Ensure you de-characterize your son every evening when he comes from
school,

Remind him that he is a MAN, not a girl.

Disconnect him from the feminine manners he picks from school.

Raise a MAN, not a defective girl.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Never apologize.

Or - maybe in subtle actions.

She is not interested in your apology, but your power.

Once you lose your power, it is over for you in that arrangement.

Refuse. Deny. Ignore. Move on.

Remain unapologetic.

SAVE A MAN

Once she know that you are apologetic, then you are working under her
frame.

Men only apologise by actions not words.

Women are always sincere with there feelings not words

She need powerful and stoic man

Not a nagging and apologetic man

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Why do girls endure the poverty of their parents but can't endure the
poverty of their boyfriend😨😨😨😨🤷🏾‍♂️🖤💔💙✍🏾💥🔥🇿🇼

Armstrong

Men,

If she calls you toxic,

Or narcissistic,

Or stubborn,

You are pulling the right strings.

She likes the emotional thrills.

A relationship that never triggers her emotional plugs is boring to her, she
will swing to the next branch.

Men,

It is your KINGDOM.

It is not a business partnership.

That's why she picks your name (nee) - Mrs XY

That’s‍why‍your‍children‍have‍your‍name.

It is your relationship.

OWN it.

If she does not respect your authority, end it and close the door.

Take charge of your kingdom.

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There's no room for negotiation about the rules & orders of the kingdom.

Those who try to balk them, send them to exile.

If you don't do this, your woman will impeach you once she gains control
over you.

SAVE A MAN

Men,

Remain firm in your decisions.

Make painful choices and stick with them.

Once a relationship ends, never salvage it.

Let it die.

A better one is waiting for you.

Live in a world of options and possibilities.

It's only a dead man who doesn't have options.

If you can breath oxygen into your lungs without a ventilator then your
options are infinite.

Don't be at mercy of your woman for whatever reasons.

The power to fire her is in your hands. Exercise your absolute powers.

Men,

If you are successful or your venture is making profits,

Please, share with your fellow men.

Do not spend your money on promiscuity, alcohol, sluts and simps.

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Don't spend your money fighting other men because of sluts. It will
backfire.

Men,

If she likes you, she will never play hard to get,

She will facilitate easier access to her privacy and freedoms.

If‍she‍is‍‘playing‍hard‍to‍get’,‍she‍doesn't‍want‍you.‍You‍are‍her‍option‍in‍
case her current one fails.

Don't be an orbiter.

Men,

We must all respect & support men,

Walk across a construction site,

Men are:

- a top a precarious 0th floor beam,

- fixing that dangerous lift,

- a top a dangerous electric pole

The houses (including the feminist’s)‍were‍all‍built‍by‍men.

Set boundaries such that women won't disrespect you. Being tolerant is the
first step to getting disrespected. If you open that door, don't be surprised
of the consequences. Never expect a change when you are doing the same
thing over and over again

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There was a misunderstanding on Zimbabwe social media about lobola, the
women thought that the Government had ruled that lobola had been
banished, prompting a wild panic among the Zimbabwean women. The
women‍of‍Zimbabwe‍were‍crying‍that‍they‍cannot‍be‍married‍“for‍free”,‍
whatever that means.
The craziest thing about this lobola and the women fighting for it is that
none of the women will be virgins. They spend years opening their legs to
anything‍with‍a‍trausers‍but‍will‍only‍remember‍their‍“value”‍and‍“worth”‍
as a woman when someone decides to marry them.
I do not support the loloba ritual at all, I believe its barbaric and should be
totally abolished. But if there is any money to be charged at all for a woman,
then it can only be justified if the woman is a virgin. If you want to fight for
the culture of the Zimbabwe lobola, then you can not pick and choose the
“nicest”‍part‍which‍is‍your‍father‍charging‍money,‍and‍neglect‍the‍most‍
important part which is that a woman has to be a virgin before marriage.
That is the culture of Zimbabwe in its truest essence, a woman should keep
herself‍pure‍and‍wait‍for‍her‍husband.‍It‍doesn’t‍matter‍if‍the‍husband‍
already has wives, or has been married before, there is no requirement for a
man to be a virgin, only a woman has to be pure for her husband. If you
want to talk culture and tradition, it can not get any deeper than that.
Nowadays‍the‍women‍of‍Zimbabwe,‍just‍like‍the‍rest‍of‍the‍world,‍don’t‍
feel the need to be chaste before marriage, yet this is the biggest
importance of paying the bride price lobola. They will tell you that the
importance of virginity is outdated, but they can not comprehend the
payment of Lobola being also outdated. They want to be paid for, even for
more than what their ancestors were paid for, yet their ancestors were
virgins at marriage. Where is the logic in that?
A Zimbabwean woman will sleep with 5 men, giving it freely, even begging
the man to deflower her, a man with no intentions of marrying her, then
after she has finished giving it freely to the whole village, a man comes
along‍and‍decides‍to‍redeem‍her‍and‍marry‍her,‍and‍that‍woman‍will‍say,‍“I‍
cannot be married for free, (handingaroorwe mahara) I know my worth. I
want‍my‍Lobola‍to‍my‍father.”‍The‍man‍who‍choose‍to‍do‍right‍by‍a‍
daughter who did not even value her own body is then punished by the
father of the bride. The man then pays thousands for the non virgin bride,
literally paying for the sins of every Tom, Dick and Harry who lay with his
“wife”‍before‍him,‍that’s‍actually‍what‍he’s‍paying‍for‍if‍you want to be real
enough.
If you feel its so important for men to pay for you, then surely you have to
be worth the money. And because today virgins are rare, then no man
should be charged for a woman who is not a virgin.
I remember watching a video years ago, of young girls from a private school
in Zimbabwe, Chisipite, bragging that they love raw unprotected sex. These
girls were barely 6 years old. Today they are the ones who go to boys and
beg to be deflowered, even in classroom toilets, even in a bush, they will
beg to have their dignity stripped by boys who have no interest in their well
being whatsoever. And these are the women that will later be charged $20
000‍by‍their‍fathers‍because,‍“they‍went‍to‍good‍schools‍and‍were‍raised‍

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posh.”‍Yet‍its‍poor‍garden boys who would have deflowered them in their
boys quarters on a dirty mattress on the floor.
If you are a woman, and you see it fit to disrobe and be humbled by a man
in‍a‍bush‍or‍in‍a‍filthy‍place‍on‍the‍floor‍because‍you‍just‍can’t‍help‍yourself‍
and you cannot wait, then your body is of no value at all. You do not deserve
Lobola. Most women today are feminists anyway, feminism is against
women being treated differently to men, and that includes lobola. If you
don’t‍want‍to‍be‍virgins‍at‍marriage,‍then‍you‍shouldn’t‍be‍paid‍for‍either,‍
you cannot have your cake and it too.
You say men are not virgins when they marry, so why should we? Yet you
are‍the‍one‍who‍are‍the‍first‍to‍say,‍“I‍want‍a‍man‍to‍pay‍thousands‍to‍my‍
father‍for‍me.”‍What‍then‍is‍the‍man paying for?

THE PARADOX OF EGOISM

Every man has a moral duty to cut the umbilical cord between himself and
the wide community shared views and burst the borders of subjugation to
uncover and regain his masculinity and regarded as a hero. It is not so much
about being optimistic as it is about your belief to shoulder a threatening
endeavour in the grand scheme, confronting danger provokes the desirable
transformation. A journey towards success consists of loneliness, pain and
hardships. Egoism is only the sole driver to thrive through the unknown
jungle where you fall and you have to pick up yourself knowing that your
own interests matters.

What is egoism

Whenever you feel like beating your chest and declare "I" to do justice to
my chosen topic; when ever you beat your chest and swear "I am a man"
that is the moment you create true honour which is found in the mind and
will, that's where man's merit and character are established. Theoretically,
it is a desire that accounts and identify self-interest with the satisfaction of
one’s‍desires.‍Often,‍and‍most‍plausibly,‍these‍desires‍are‍restricted‍to‍self-
regarding desires. Hence, it is important or rationale yo say egoism is one of
human biological wiring which everyone serves himself at his own interest
without being forged in to submission.

Egoism‍is‍a‍man’s‍compass.

A man cannot move forward in life if he does not actualise his desires.
Hence, if there is no defining of direction, there is scarcely any progress.
Ambition, then, is defining a higher purpose and having the capacity to
fearlessly pursue it, in spite of the odds.

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Only egoism can be such a driver against the wider and popular views. No
any great invention that was a result of a group. Most groups work on
things that have been socially accepted while egoism gives you a chance to
make bold decisions that doesn't require any societal approval.

Why egoism has been demonized

We are living in a world where there is a continual of onslaught of man's

masculinity. Hence, anything that is associated with mankind is considered
to be damaging and toxic. Evidently, no one can deny the truth that most
men that occupy society lack boldness, among other things. This does not
come as a surprise to anyone who has perceived the breakdown of gender
roles; as men grow increasingly effeminate, their capacity for boldness
assuages. The is need for more ego in order for one to be pure masculine.
However this only works for man and the disenfranchisement of men must
be denied at all costs.

Men are earners while women are spenders. Hence, business community
has heavily invested in stripping off the power of man and give it to women
for the purpose of business. Consequently, the few corporate world benefits
from altruism that is why they frequently choose to demonize man's nature.

Self-importance

The selfish, self-centeredness is an essential part of man's life especially in

the early twenties. If a man fails to consider his needs first he will be
heading for self-destruction if not shooting himself on the foot. Man owns
the family in the marriage of life remember patriarchal protection is
essential especially on the financial security of the family hence when a man
fails to be selfish in building himself definitely his foundation will be on
sandy and will be heading for a doom. Focus on yourself is one of the
important motto in our own campaign once you have the capacity of
enriching yourself. You automatically become magnet that attracts power
and quality women at the end. Hence being selfish and self-centeredness
triggers self-esteem which will run a roller-coaster for self-development.

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Conclusions

It is an inherent duty for the men to explore the unexploited path for the
benefit of the society and egoism triggers such adventurous journeys
coupled with aggressive adversities will be met with equal response. Yet,
dependency is insecurity: if you were self-governing, your chief concern
would‍be‍your‍opinion‍of‍yourself,‍not‍others’‍of‍your‍own.‍You‍wouldn’t‍lie‍
to or misdirect yourself to escape a troublesome reality. Other people are
not the problem, how you deal with them and what you think are the seed
of misfortune. Out of egoism you have the potential to beat the beast that is
resting unexploited in you let it out and conquer the world.

congratulations if you have finished reading this paradox it is my wish that

all men and women read and understand the importance of men in the
society for them to stop the disenfranchisement of men your feedback is
very important to me it helps to look at the current problem with a broader
spectrum.

Suffer the pain of discipline, or suffer the pain of regret.

BORN AGAIN VIRGINS

When they've had their fun, they will now turn to faith. That's why I always
say modern religion is simp feminist infested, all her trifling ways are totally
forgotten, she's a new being, born again...
Modern females have found a way to rig the system, they can fuxk whoever
they want in their prime years, do all kinds of stupid things & when they're
close to being or actually washed up, turn to religion. Having your cake &
eating it too...
As she goes past 25 she begins to realize her sexual market value is
diminishing, now fully aware of the biological clock that eviscerates beauty.

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The alpha guys who used to fuxk her will now be fuxking younger fresh
women....
And women being the opportunists they're, that's when they'll try to
bamboozle these church guys, to save them from their lifetime of bad
choices. That's when she'll start being religious, quoting bible scriptures &
all that other holy holy stuff...
And as you can see on the TL right now the church guys are already
defending her past. On some "come on that was in the past, she was young,
she is now a new person". What load of bs, women never change, they just
get good at hiding whom they really are...
There's no such thing as a hoe phase, once you start hoeing it never stops,
rather as you age the ones to hoe with decrease. The urges to be jumping
from one dixk to another will always be there. If the opportunity presents
itself, she will...
Yes, a woman will be judged by her past, it gives a pattern of future
behaviors. Honestly, the modern man is beyond saving, he will still see a
dime, even when the very same chick is on video, fuxking another dude,
praising another dude's dixk, stripping naked, twerking naked...
Thirsty ass dudes, are the problem, they're the reasons why women are the
way they are. We have dudes who are breaking the bank paying lobola for
f3mal3s that got fuxked in cars, street corners, bushes, res bunk beds, club
toilets for FREE...
Crushing on these women on social media, pedestalizing them like some
Goddesses. Taking these women on expensive dates & vacations, all in an
effort to impress them. Yes, the very same ones who were fxcked for
Maggie noodles in res, Savannah in clubs...
Where's your pride as a man, wanting to commit to someone who's beyond
damaged. Oh yes, once a woman has had at least one strong boyfriend,
she's damaged with an insane degree of mental baggage, that it's near next
to impossible to have anything wholesome or pure with her...
She's now an alpha widow, that guy will have imprinted himself on her. Like
that chick on the TL, any other dude will always be in the shadow of the guy
she was worshipping for having a magic dixk. That's your woman bro,
praising another man's dixk...
Think about it, this very same woman won't even know your totem praise.
She won't even serve you food on her knees. But she was on video speaking
in incantations all because of someone's dixk. You just don't measure up...

When it comes to choosing a wife -

Nice‍just‍isn’t‍good‍enough.

Your selection and vetting process must be orders of magnitude more

rigorous than choosing a girlfriend

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Every aspect of her character must be scrutinised extensively

A mistake at this stage could cost you dearly. Only University of life will
teach you this

The smartest couples plan time for their own agendas, and pursue their own
separate goals.

You need to keep the surprise and excitement up, and this is next to
impossible if you're around each other all the time.

The man desire and the woman admires

Men,

Here are the 5 Ms of masculinity

- Mind

- Muscle

- Men

- Material

- Money

Work on the first 4, the 5th one (Money) will follow you.

Men,

Be selfish with your money.

Let women call you stingy and broke, that's their opinion.

Keep your money close to your chest.

Never reveal your networth to your woman.

No free money. She must work for it.

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Be savagely strict with your expenditure.

Men,

Be mysterious.

Be stingy.

Be hard to milk.

Master the power of moving in silence.

Dangerous is the man whose moves cannot be predicted.

Don't parade your wealth online.

Like a duck, remain calm above the water, but paddle your legs underneath
the water like hell.

Men,

If your woman wants to be part of your business,

- employ her and pay her a salary like the rest.

Strictly supervise her.

Keep your love life and emotions away from your business.

Run the business like a ruthless emperor.No favours.

Men,

It is your role to name your newborn.

Do not allow your woman and her relatives to do it.

Newborns will cry endlessly unless the father gives it a befitting name.

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There is something in our African culture that we ignore, we think we are
clever.

Men,

Here is a reminder:

No joint ownership.

- No joint bank accounts.

- It is your title deed. Own it alone.

- It is your house. Own it alone.

You are not relatives.

When shit hits the fan, you will be safe.

Come beat me if you feel offended.

Men,

Own a dog.

Don't make it a pet, let it remain a dog.

City dogs have been feminized. They are cowards, cannot bark, cannot run
and are obese.

Raise a ferocious, tough dog.

Dogs will teach you a lot about being a master of a loyal servant.

MEN love dogs because dogs are loyal, cheerful and obedient

WOMEN love cats because cats are arrogant, mysterious and difficult to
control : Rivelino

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A dog will go out of the rains at night to check ☑ a possible assailant.
Notwithstanding the risk it is posing to its life and the rain.

Be loyal
Be one.

Men,

Dogs are masculine,

Cats are feminine,

Nowadays it is unbelievable to see dogs cower and run away from cats.

As the system weakens the man, it weakens man's best friend.

A dog should not run away from a cat.

Raise a dog that will fight for you.

Modern dogs and modern men have one thing in common: cowards.

Just as women run the show, cats now run the show. Its not unusual to see
a cat seriously beating a dog.

In the past dogs were ruthless and tough.

Men,

Stay away from masturbation.

Apart from causing premature ejaculation, erectile failure, hair loss and
backache,

Masturbation wastes your sperm.

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Your sperms are a source of life.

Guard them.

Channel your sexual energy into something productive.

Men,

A man who is able to control his sexual urge is a strong man. Toughen up
your mentality and direct that energy to other activities that will build your
frame. Refrain from masturbation.
CHANGE or PERISH.

Avoid masturbation at all times.

It weakens your sex power.

Kills your transformer.

Stay Away.

There is power in Semen Retention, I've been practicing it!

As a man, if you are releasing this powerful substance every day you are
hamstringing your MASCULINE POWER AND ENERGY.

Once you start practicing Semen Retention;(5

+ Your level of creative power increases exponentially the more you

withhold your creative life force

+ Your eyes brighten, life becomes easier and everything flows

effortlessly(25

+ You become more attracted to women in general, more passionate in the

way you live your life, vibrancy becomes your default

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+ You also become more ATTRACTIVE to women too - they notice a
resonant level of energy within that was being sucked away before.(35

THE PARADOX OF EMOTIONAL BANKRUPTCY

“Never‍was‍anything‍great‍achieved‍without‍danger.”

Machiavelli

The beauty of heartbreaks is, things that used to affect you a lot, now the
very same things happenrepeatedly without bothering you at all. The writer
refers this to as an emotional bankruptcy. Paradoxically, pain depression
anxiety and other silent battles you fought because of lies betrayal cheating
disappointments treachery and other unholy anointments that are
intertwined with heartbreaks are lessons which are vital to prepare a path
for a boy to become a man.

Man is inherently characterized with some traits which are driven by higher
levels of testosterone. Those traits helps man to fight since he was born a
fighter this include aggressiveness, lack of empathy, selfishness, self-
centered and overprotectiveness.

However, the effeminate world has fought the inherent natural characters
of the man and was discussed in the paradox of feminized man. There is
social reconstruction of roles and nature of man that goes against his
biological nature. The results are social, political and economically inimical.
They include fatherlessness, paternity fraud, celebrated nudity, venereal
diseases and promiscuity. The said social ills drains economically through
social welfare which is funded by taxpayers which drains the public at large
which will be a topic for another day in the paradox of gynocentric systems.
Hence man is suppose to regulate this and the writer finds out that
emotional bankruptcy can be a natural remedy to the said problems.

EMOTIONAL WITHDRAWALS

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Emotional withdrawal can be defined as using up the emotions or physically
by bottling up your feelings or disconnecting from your partner. Emotional
withdrawal is more far more complex at times. It is comparable to a
breakup, in every way but physical. It is a bank monetary issue that has
been idealized in a way that all emotional feelings have been used up. Once
someone continue to suffer pain he grows resilient and a thick skin to
withstand the heat that might be caused by frustrations. Paradoxically,
resilience can come with skills that might be adopted for future use which is
the major or core topic of the paradox. Hence it is important for a man to
through process of detachment and face the ugly side of the world in order
to beat out the beast that lies in him and regulate the chaos that the world
is facing. Like iron is forged in to steel in the furnace, boys are transformed
into man through emotional withdrawal. Emotional bankruptcy is a
condition that results from an excessive amount of stress. When suffering
from this condition, which may also be referred to as emotional depletion or
burnout, a person tends to feel as if her inner resources have been drained.
This condition can have psychological, physical, and social effects. The
effects of emotional bankruptcy;

Aggressiveness

Patriarchal‍society’s‍pillar‍of‍strength‍men‍inherently‍offers‍protection.‍
Hence aggressive is necessary especially in defense. Relatively once a man
is emotionally bankruptcy aggression is a key imperator for emotional
bankruptcy.

Biologically, man has higher levels of testosterone and is their natural trait
from creation which might be trempled upon by effeminate world and
simping. Testosterone plays a role in certain behaviors, including aggression
and dominance. It also helps to spark competitiveness and boost self-
esteem. Just as sexual activity can affect testosterone levels, taking part in
competitive‍activities‍can‍cause‍a‍man’s‍testosterone‍levels‍to‍rise‍or‍fall.‍
Low testosterone may result in a loss of confidence and lack of motivation.
It‍can‍also‍lower‍a‍man’s‍ability‍to‍concentrate‍or‍cause‍feelings‍of‍sadness.‍
Low testosterone can cause sleep disturbances and lack of energy. The path
to manliness requires pain that drains positive emotions. Paradoxically,
emotional bankruptcy results in anger, hatred, lack of empathy and and
self-centered these attributes has been taken as toxic when heavy
handedness is used to punish the misbehavior of women which lead to
chaos. The whole world has been fighting the traits of man to make him
weak depressed sad and lack of ambition in life literally destroying him at
an early age. Hence, emotional bankruptcy can be a good regulator for
manliness.

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Self-centered

"If a person is always signing "me me me" and they aren't singing we we
we" - Houston. Being self centered has been described as a button for self
distraction by most motivators however it is not true. Once you start to
believe in yourself, you will be even able to move mountains. A hyena who
has believed himself, will naturally intimidate a true lion who crosses his
path. Hence if self-centered is a result of emotional bankruptcy it is a
requirement for a boy to become a man. That is why I advice most man to
marry at the age of 30 after experiencing the pain of being hurt and
betrayed.

Selfish

One ofbanter is FOCUS ON YOURSELF, hence when one is selfish with his
financial resources while in relationship makes it very easy to invest the
little that he has and enables him to enrich himself rather than pampering
ladies with goodies that he will never recover. It is not only financial
resources that one must be selfish with also time is one of the most
important resource that is taken for granted by most young men however
their time will be ticking and ritirement age will be coming after them.
Hence they will be forced to work until they die which is very detrimental to
their health especially at old age. Hence, emotional bankruptcy during
heartbreaks teaches a man a painful but unforgettable lesson of being
stingy with resources.

Lack of empathy and anger

The ability to inflict pain especially on things that you love most is kinda
hard. However, when you lack empathy it is possible to cause pain
especially when you regulate someone for their wrong doing and it grants
you the ability to be dangerous forcing your women to self-regulate herself.

Resilience

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Resilient people are able to experience tough emotions like pain, sorrow,
frustration, and grief without falling apart. Resilient people do not deny the
pain or suffering they are experiencing; rather, they retain a sense of
positivity that helps them overcome the negative effects of their situation.
In fact, some people are able to look at challenging times with optimism
and hope, knowing that their hardships will lead to personal growth and an
expanded outlook on life. Paradoxically, when you suffer emotional
bankruptcy you will be detached from everyone and you will be alone in
those sleepless night and you outgrow the effects of this mental trauma.

Conclusions

Relationships are hard enough to cope up with especially in these

gynocentric systems where the man is not protected by institutions. He
need to grow a thick skin which is made in hell. A man must outgrow the
social constructs and configuration of the society which limits his potential.
He must be ready to deal ruthlessly with disappointments only that will
force both socio-cultural benefit. The said results of emotional bankruptcy a
tools for self-protection. When the society preaches simping and respecting
women without making them accountable for any bad behavior and
entitlement without working is a dangerous precedence. Men must be
unforgiving for the society to stop degeneracy. Forgiveness breeds a host of
immorality‍that‍destroys‍the‍nation‍at‍large.‍Paradoxically,‍when‍you’re‍too‍
forgiving, you encourage those you forgave to betray you, and worse, to get
away with ever sharper betrayals. Unelss you guard youself, even the
ordinary man is ruthless with the vulnerable.

Message worth reading

Bill‍Gates‍explains‍why‍his‍daughter‍can’t‍marry‍a‍poor‍man.

A few years ago I attended a conference in the United States on investment

and finance.

One of the speakers was Bill Gates and during the question and answer
phase, I asked him a question that had everyone laughing
If he, the richest man in the world, could accept that his daughter marry a
poor or modest man.

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His answer changed something in me.

Bill
First of all, understand that wealth does not mean having a fat bank
account.

Wealth is primarily the ability to create wealth.

Example: Someone who wins the lottery or gambling. Even if he wins 00

millions is not a rich man: He is a poor man with a lot of money, that's the
reason why 90% of the lottery millionaires become poor again after 5 years.

You also have rich people who have no money. For example, most
entrepreneurs.

THEY are already on the road to wealth even though they have no money,
because they are developing their financial intelligence and that is wealth.

How are the rich and the poor different?

To put it simply: The rich may die to become rich, while the poor may kill to
become rich.

If you see a young person who decides to train, to learn new things, who
tries to improve himself constantly, know that he is a rich man.

If you see a young person who thinks that the problem is the state, and who
thinks that the rich are all thieves and who criticizes constantly, know that
he is a poor man.

The rich are convinced that they just need information and training to take
off, the poor think that others must give them money to take off.

In conclusion, when I say that my daughter will not marry a poor man, I am
not talking about money. I'm talking about the ability to create wealth in
that man.

Excuse me for saying this, but most criminals are poor people. When they
are in front of money, they lose their mind, that's why they rob, steal etc...

For them it is a grace because they don't know how they could earn money
by themselves.

One day, the guard of a bank found a bag full of money, he took the bag and
went to give it to the bank manager.

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People called this man an idiot, but in reality this man was just a rich man
who had no money.

One year later, the bank offered him a job as a receptionist, 3 years later he
was a customer manager and 0 years later he manages the regional
management of this bank, he manages hundreds of employees and his
annual bonus exceeds the amount he could have stolen.

Wealth is first of all a state of mind my friend.

Get everyday tips to save your time and also money.

You‍won’t‍die‍so‍dumb,‍but‍then‍you’ll‍die‍anyway...

To tell the priest to throw away theology and impress us with his
personality, is exactly like telling the doctor to throw away physiology and
merely hypnotize us with his glittering eye. The same way with telling a
man that masculinity is toxic he should be gentle the same way with telling
a man is equal to a woman we really need a deep conversation about this.

“Men‍just‍can’t‍handle‍a‍strong‍woman”

No,‍men‍just‍don’t‍want‍to‍‘handle’‍an‍entitled‍and‍obnoxious‍woman‍that’s‍
devoid‍of‍feminine‍charm,‍because‍that’s‍what‍experience‍has‍taught‍him‍
he’ll‍be‍getting

That’s‍the‍difference.‍
And‍men‍don’t‍want‍that.

She’s‍more‍likely‍to‍notice‍you‍if you ignore her

So stop liking everything she does, jumping at every opportunity to help

her, attending her every whim like a fawning servant

Every man around her is doing exactly the same

Just ignore her, you have more important things to do.

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Thus the problem that we are having as males we are deeply pussified we
will defend pussy with everything that we have unfortunately hypergamy
will never care about your deep attachment towards her, focus on yourself
she will focus on you! Ask yourself why are we having more of marriage
blisters Nowadays it's because we are solely centered on pussy

The simping behaviour must be totally eradicated

Marriage isn't about sex and money but at the end a man is a creator and he
needs to create value while by nature a women is a nurturer she needs to
nurture the value you created unfortunately, we have been deeply pussified
and we are working against nature and the results are inimical

Women don't care whether you are giving her attention or not she will cheat
if you ignore redflags!!

Men can be turned to fools by a pretty face

And often confuse beauty with virtue

So the capacity to critically evaluate the quality of her character is essential

Especially since attractive women are rarely compelled to cultivate their

character beyond the rudimentary basics.

One morning at our Law Faculty, when our new Lecturer for "Introduction
to Rights" entered the lecture hall, the first thing he did was to ask the
name of a student who was seated on the first bench: "What is your name?"

"My name is Justin, Sir."

"Leave the classroom and I don't want to ever see you in my class ever!"
screamed the unpleasant lecturer.

Justin was bewildered. When he got hold of his senses, he got up quickly,
got hold of his books and left the classroom.

All were scared and angry; however nobody spoke anything.

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"Well, let's start the class," said the new lecturer. "What purpose do the
enacted laws serve?"

We were afraid, but slowly gained confidence and we began to answer his
questions.

"So that there is order in our society."

"No!" the teacher shouted.

"So that people pay for their wrong actions?"

"No! Doesn't anybody here have enough brains to know the answer to this
question?!" asked the teacher, sarcastically.

"So that there is justice," said a girl timidly.

"At last! One person who is not a complete moron! That's correct.... so that
there is justice. And now, what is the use of justice?"

All of us were extremely uneasy with his rude attitude. However, we

continued trying to answer....

"To safeguard human rights."

"Well, what more?" asked the teacher.

"To differentiate right from wrong and to reward the good."

"Ok, that's not bad. However, answer this question: Did I act correctly when
expelling Justin from the lecture hall?"

All were quiet, nobody answered.

"I want a decisive and unanimous answer!" he shouted.

"No!" we all replied in unison.

"Then could you say I committed an injustice?"

"Yes!"

Then his voice softened and he asked, "And why did nobody do anything in
that respect? So why do we need rules and laws if we don't have the
necessary will to practice them? Each one of you has an obligation to do
something when you witness an injustice. ALL of you! Do not stay quiet,
never again! Go and call Justin," he said staring at me.

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On that day, I received the most practical lesson in my course of Law. When
we don't defend our masculinity rights, we lose our dignity, and dignity is
not negotiable....

Love was always a beautiful thing, until the other gender started dating to
fight poverty.

Men,

You are the PRIZE

She is the price.

Every woman wants to be a man,

Because a man is a tool of value,

Be proud of yourself.

A man without value ain't a PRIZE.

You can't be the PRIZE if you aren't pursuing your goals, if you're simping,
you're drunkard etc.

Invest in yourself and your value will appreciate.

Men,

Many think that the "I pursued her for LONG before she said YES"
shenanigan is a heroic narrative.

The fact that you did the pursuing puts you in an inferior position as a MAN.

INVEST IN YOURSELF and let women chase you.

YOUR VALUE is your BARGAINING CHIP.

SAVE A MAN.

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Men,

You're the prize

Tag yourself with value

The more valuable you are the more she gets attracted.

Do not waste all your timepersuading her.

Find time to create your brand.

Beautiful women are abundant.

High value men are scarce.

You are the prize, not her.

Just work on your frame. You'll attract quality in your life, including women.

The mysterious prize that every lady needs to own.

The Prize whose value heightens on quotidian basis.

The person with the most power needs the other least in any relationship.

Men,

Consumer loans are the pit to financial decay.

If you can not buy an item twice, you can not afford it. Do not take a loan to
buy a new TV.

Rather, take a loan to expand your business.

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Men,

Remember this:

You are one payslip away from poverty.

Your employer has given you an umbrella on a sunny day, he will take it
away on a rainy day,

He can sack you anytime.

What are you doing now, to cushion yourself tomorrow?

Think!

This is a pregnant reminder,

Your employer is not your relative. He can fire you without notice.

The only certain thing in this matrix is your investment portfolio if you have
any.

If you don't have, get one soon. Get more income streams into your
investment arsenal.

Men,

Being employed is like dwelling in a makeshift tent.

Employment will not weather all your desires.

You are only better when you learn a new skill better to make you survive
outside Employment.

Being employed isn't something to make a brag.

You have surrendered your weapons to your employer, he is the one to

decide your fate.

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Step back and build up your investment portfolio.

When you Are Employed

Always Think of an Exit plan

You are Not There to Say

Do Something

Save Invest Earn Spend

No one Will Tell You This

Men,

Stay away from pills, concoctions, drinks, tablets, powders that claim to
enhance your sex stamina or sperm quality,

They are useless.

As long as you are fat, eat like a pig, masturbate, watch porn and have poor
sleep; you will continue suffering.

Skip That Porn

Skip That Masturbation

Skip That Pill

Hit the Gym

Eat Well

Drink Water

Avoid Sugars

AvoidSimple Carbs

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Sun Ball

Cold Showers

Enjoy Life

Men,

Be mentally, emotionally, and physically fit and strong.

A man's chest should enter the room before his stomach does.

YOU'RE THE PRIZE

Observe your diet.

Get fit not fat.

Avoid artificial boosters

Rather

Intermittent fasting
Lifting weights
Sun
Steak and eggs
Keeping off porn and masturbation
These are the keys to a strong sexual stamina. There is no magic pill or
concoction.

Men,

Keep off another man's marital or relationship tribulations,

Do not rejoice when your fellow man is being persecuted by his woman,

Do not sit in cahoots with women to gossip about other men's failures,

Do not be a woman.

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Be a MAN!

Bro code

Never ever indulge into breakups, misunderstanding & messy goings

onbetween your friends & their women.

The stench that will follow you won't go away even with foreign exotic
perfumes & scents.

Keep off from their chaotic mudslides. Let's call out fecal matter

Men,

Don't sit in a sacco of women BADMOUTHING your fellow man even if you're
not in good terms with that man.

Don't gossip about other men to get the YAM.

Gossiping makes a man appear like a desperate and needy sissy.

A gossipping man is a BABYGIRL

Don't be a babygirl.

Men,

Before you commit to your woman,

Scrutinize her,

Comb her past with the keenness of a squirrel,

Analyze her family & her close relatives.

If her background & family are dysfunctional, please abandon that mission,

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Or, ignore and suffer.

Check On Her past

Check on her Friends

Check on her Company

Check on her Mother

Check on Her Anties

If You won't

Be Ready To Suffer

Know her past.

Know about her family.

Know about her inherited disorders.

Know about her mother.

Study her mother's behavior towards her father.

Think long term.

Before you commit,

Check her close friends.

If they have been in several failed relationships and aborted marriages,

Don't commit.

SAVE YOURSELF.

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Men,

Any woman with daddy issues is a no go zone. Her relationship with her dad
is a direct image of how she will treat you and your kids.

Strutinize, observe and make proper decisions.

Else, ignore and suffer!

Men,

If she has grown up without a father or a father figure,

There is a 90% chance that she will raise her children without THEIR
FATHERS,

Fatherlessness is a woman's biggest chronic disease.

It is a huge problem.

Women are needy. That's their nature.

They are active consumers.

They consume everything from your money, to stories, to enzymes &

hormones.

A man should never be needy and clingy to a woman.

She will dislike you because you are an irritant.

A man should engage in logic based games such as chess. They're known to
skyrocketing your memory, keep you young & sustain a stronger erection.

This will give you authority to crush feminism & clinging behavior.

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Fix your TESTOSTERONE and redeem yourself.

Men,

Your woman will be attracted to you more when she knows you have
OPTIONS.

She'll work hard to please you when you're a HIGH-VALUE MAN.

She'll SIMP for YOU.

She'll be CLINGY to you.

A jealous MAN is a WEAK MAN.

A jealous WOMAN is a HORNY WOMAN.

YOU'RE THE PRIZE.

Men,

Do not send nudes to women.

Do not ask for nudes from women.

Your media gallery should be as clean as a whistle.

Respect yourself.

A phone is meant to facilitate communication, facilitate business and life in

general.

Phone helps you to keep good photos for good memories.

Stop asking for nudes.

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Short term pleasure is a red flag.

It leads to a lack of motivation and drive.

Practice semen retention and stop following hoes on Instagram�

Watch your life change for the better💪🏼

Men,

Avoid church girls,

Especially if she is above 30.

- End of Message -

Men,

Church girls who comes with a condition of "Must Marry " are not for keeps.

These are exhausted lot whose past is murky.

Avoid them for the best.

Men,

Too much attention pisses her off.

Be belief and to the point.

Avoid monotony and attract respect.

Text with outright and call with dare purpose.

Do not itch or derange.

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The power to walk away is your biggest asset.

It signals abundance of women as your options.

She will never respect you if you can't walk away.

Men,

Running daily is not recommended.

In men, it raises cortisol, lowers testosterone and lowers libido.

The body needs rest.

Lift weights 3 - 4 times a week, (40 minutes per session)

Run once a week.

Men,

- and when you write texts to your woman,

Write properly like a man.

Don't write long paragraphs like a teenager.

Be specific, precise & succinct.

Stick to the point and press send.

If she doesn't respond, ignore her.

Leave her on the read.

Be concise and epigrammatic with the way you pass information.

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Clarity is key. Otherwise, she will miss your intent.

Press send

Being direct and specific is key�

No,”Umm,ahh,‍uh”

Clear, concise and congruent communication is the mark of a high value

man�

Men,

Don't comprise on bad manners.

Don't reward bad behaviour.

If you reward her bad behaviour, it will mutate to disrespect and

consequently physical conflicts.

Read the riot act.

Avoid dating 25+ woman. Why? Because no woman goes past that age
without having been tired up by some dudes for at least 3 years. You're
competing with history. She's still attached to that man. That's 3 years of
fucking with this dude and you think you can erase all that?

At most whenever this relationship ends, whoever she settles for next is
either to get her mind off this lover of hers. Or to actually get him jealous.
Or to settle down with the biological clock running against her but her heart
will always belong the the lover of hers

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 Be real, they've had sex im all positions and in almost all places imaginable.
They've had beautiful moments of all kinds and the worst arguments for
those years. And you think all that just goes away like that??

You're competing against her memories and whats she's familiar with. If he
were to pop up back in her life. She'd cheat or dump you without hesitation.
A woman would rather give her best ex 2nd, 3rd and even 00 chances than
to deal with the unknown (you)

Doesn't matter how good you treat her, women are loyal to their feelings
not the logic. In love there's no rules, the heart wants what it wants. You
can be 0 times better than this lover of hers but in her eyes, you're 0
compared to him

Every single day, hundreds if not thousands if women are turning 8, why are
you busy chasing these 20 something old woman who are fast approaching
the wall, past their prime time, dickmatized too much with so much trauma
that even a Clinical Psychologist can't even deal with. Respect yourself bro!!

Let these old ladies go and be miserable by themselves. You can't saveher...
she's too damaged than to be healed. Respect yourself and deal with
woman who carry no baggage. Be with the woman you'll make memories
with not with the woman who will compare you to her previous memory

Women were born and given all the rights, respect, value. Their duty is to
preserve it

Men were born and they have to fight and work hard to get all of that.
Focus on developing yourself. After that go for pure feminine women who
preserved their value. Stop chasing repackaged branded woman. They are
sluts in making or retired hoes definitely they will finish you off. Excessive

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make up, Piercings tight revealing clothes, semi-nudity and those who take
time doing make up. Save yourself from drama

Gents you've tolead, nurture & tame yr wife. Otherwise they'll read a
revolution & impeach you.

Women & kids crave for masculine leader.

A woman is allured by a man of focus and virility. She can't get enough of
you on top of her each night.

Your the breath & the soul of their livelihood

Choosing a good mother for your children is more important than choosing a
beautiful wife for your self
👂 Read that again

A woman with brain can turn a broke man into a millionaire, but beauty
with empty head can turn a millionaire into a beggar

SaveAman

A man becomes dangerous when his back is against the wall

When‍he’s‍trapped,‍desperate‍and‍has‍nothing‍to‍lose

Never face such a man unless you absolutely must

But if that man is you, leverage that power to the maximum

Become a beast with a single vision - to win. Turn on the beast mode

Never date a woman that has a toxic past.

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She needs you, but you do not her. You are not Jesus Christ to save her by
rewarding his worn out couchie.

The pursuit of wisdom is no longer a common endeavour in modern times.

Where once a man might spend a significant part of his life studying the
greatest books and wisest minds,

he now squanders it on porn, video games and mindless entertainment.

Have the courage to put yourself first

To choose the life you want - not the life society wants for you
To say no to a woman - and do what you want instead
To walk away from toxic friends - and seek brothers of quality
Doing what YOU want is an act of courage
So have the courage to fulfill your ego and be selfish

He was very sick.

His friends took him to the hospital.

He was admitted and the doctor advised him to run series of tests including
HIV to ascertain what the problem was.

Malaria and typhoid tests came back positive that same day.

While they were expecting the other test results, the doctor started treating
malaria and typhoid.

As he was recovering very fast, the HIV test result came and it was also
positive.

The doctor broke the news to him.

He was devastated and broken.

Within hours, all his body systems broke down.

He couldn't eat and he couldn't sleep.

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Within one week, he emaciated seriously to the extent he couldn't walk by
himself again.

Then something dramatic happened after two weeks.

The lab discovered that they made a mistake with the results.

They had swapped his sample with another person's own.

He is HIV - negative.

The doctor got the news and summon the courage to break the news to the
patient.

Doctor: Sir, we are sorry

Patient: For what doctor?

Doctor: There was a mistake with your blood sample submitted for the HIV
test.

Patient: What do you mean doctor?

Doctor: They discovered you are HIV - negative.

Patient: What! Are you serious, doctor?

Doctor: Yes sir! We are very sorry.

The guy that couldn't walk for days, jumped out of the bed and started
running around the ward in excitement.

Everyone in the hospital was shocked at the scene.

What happened?

What changed?

Where did the strength come from?

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The power of the mind.

We live and die first in our minds.

We are poor first in our hearts.

We are rich first in our hearts.

We are failures first in our hearts.

We are successful first in our hearts.

You can't become in life what you have not become in your mind.

Train your mind and heart to be positive and progressive-minded.

JUST A REMINDER

"Buy one - get one free"

It may be a marketing gimmick.

But it is true in real life in many sense and ways.

We buy anger and get high blood Pressure free.

We buy jealousy and get headache free.

We buy hatred and get ulcer free.

We buy stress and get heart diseases, liver diseases, stroke and diabetes
free‍(‍many‍options)…and‍so‍on.

Conversely,

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If we buy trust, we get friendship free.

If we buy exercise, we get health free.

If we buy peace, we get prosperity free.

If we buy honesty, we get a good sleep and many great virtues for free.

If we buy positivity, we get hope free.

It is for us to decide what we want to buy inlife, as whatever we buy in

life….the‍life‍automatically‍gives‍us‍something‍free🎁 with it.
the choices are yours.

Good night and sweet dream

"Poverty has made some women to believe that if a man doesn't give them
money, he doesn't love them".
SavaAman

A man is judged by the maturity of his children, the femininity of his wife
and the discipline of his dog. Man are natural commanders, woman are
natural rebels if not tamed children will turn into terrorists.

Playing pornographic materials is a most shameful self-distruction.

Men,

Do not send Good ood morning text to a woman who didn't sleep next to
you.

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Your text is a laughter somewhere else.

Guard your Frame.

You are the PRIZE.

Men,

When you double text, she doesn't notice the actual words.

She notices that needy guy inside you that wants more of her attention and
validation.

Avoid.

Men trap themselves in an endless cycle of transient and short term

pleasures, devoid of inherent value or meaning.

And the thing they really need - authenticity, connection and the experience
of being valued for who they are, remains forever beyond their reach.

TWO WIVES CHATTING IN THE OFFICE :

Wife : I had a fine evening, how was yours?

Wife 2 : It was a disaster. My husband came home, ate his dinner in 3 mins
and fell asleep in 2 mins. How was yours?

Wife: Oh mine was amazing ! My husband came home and took me out for a
romantic dinner. After dinner we walked for an hour. When we came home
he lit the candles around the house. It was like a fairy tale !

At the same time, their husbands are talking at work.

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Husband : How was your evening?

Husband 2: Great. I came home, dinner was on the table, I ate and fell
asleep. What about you ?

Husband : It was horrible. I came home, there was no dinner, they cut the
electricity because I forgot to pay the bill; so I took her out for dinner which
was so expensive that I didn't have any money left for a taxi. We walked
home, which took an hour and when we got home I remembered there was
no electricity so I had to light candles all over the house !!!!!!

MORALS ; be careful, not to be deceived by others. You may end up

destroying your marriage.

Divorce is more destructive for a woman than a man.

That is why most attach monetary value on their daughter's marriage it's
sort of an insurance against divorce! Man must learn to pay Lobola in
installments

Men,

Do not sleep with promiscuous women.

They are dirty with malodorous spirits,

They will contaminate you with their contagious character and distract you
from your purpose.

Do not be a promiscuous man,

Respect yourself.

Men,

Learn to use a condom.

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Never trust women, and that includes your 'lovely wedded wife',

The sex market is dreadfully dirty and critically contagious.

Have a cache of condoms in your closet.

"I am allergic to condoms."

That's a red flag.

Run.

- end of text -

Women are submissive to their feelings not logic that's why I am against
long distance relationships in most cases are a scam.

A lot of women are in wrong homes bcz of money💵, A lot of men are in
wrong marriages because of beauty �

saveAman

The more chances you give someone, the less they value you. Never be too
much available for someone; otherwise, you will lose your importance.
Know‍your‍self‍worth‍and‍don’t‍give‍people‍discounts.‍Self‍love‍must‍come‍
from self.

The‍more‍chances‍you‍give‍someone‍the‍less‍respect‍they’ll‍start‍to‍have‍for‍
you.‍They’ll‍begin‍to‍ignore‍the‍standards‍that‍you’ve‍set‍because‍they’ll‍
know another‍chance‍will‍always‍be‍given.‍They’re‍not‍afraid‍to‍lose‍you‍

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because‍they‍know‍no‍matter‍what‍you‍won’t‍walk‍away.‍Be‍firm‍on‍your‍
boundaries.

Men,

Always plan ahead in terms of finances.

Know exactly what to invest on and what not.

Carry out distinctive researchs on savings and investment.

The future also matters.

Men,

The reason why most people are poor is due to financial illiteracy.

Think and grow Rich!

Study and learn the science of Cash- flow management.

Investing is not risky, lack of financial knowledge and training make

investing risky.

Ref:Financial Quadrant by Robert K

Don't be excited by the looks of a spruced up vintage car.

Well fitted tight clothes & half naked clothings that exposes her good
looking curves,
an indicator of an overworked ineffective engine.

When you plan to purchase a car, check the mileage first.

Men,

If you see your fellow men dating a slut,

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Kindly alert him that he is about to dive into a crocodile-infested river,

Don't sit and watch your brother drown,

If he doesn't want to listen to you,

Let him drown.

Men for men.

UBUNTU.

Men must must remain open to ideas and opinions that are in conflict with
their own.

It's a man business to understand the world he inhibits ie maintaining a

knowledgeable and informed perspective of greater many things he likes or
dislikes.

Men for Men!

Men,

Tell your brother about the slut,

He will go back and discuss you with the slut,

Because he is in love,

That should not worry you,

Do your part,

Save a man.

Men,

Don't cheat your fellow man that the woman he is about to date is
'beautiful'.

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Tell him the truth.

If you know the woman, tell him the truth.

"Though I know you like this woman but she is our village broom, with 3
children back at home."

UBUNTU

There are things you can't hide for long;

🔹The truth
🔹The sun
🔹The moon
🔹Love
🔹Pregnancy

Tell the truth and you'll be vindicated with time.

Tell the truth no matter who it's for, or against.

Tell your fellow man, "you've fallen for a murder. You shook hands with a
murder

The truth hits differently.

A few people will accept to hear the truth.

Majority are stuck in their world of fantasies, sunk in the world of illusions.

Keep your domain as clean as possible.

Can't give a second thought of allowing sluts to invade my domain.

How can you enjoy consuming contaminated water?

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Dear Men,

Low quality women have nothing to lose.

But

You have everything to lose.

So,

Don't chase random women.

Instead attract a quality woman.

Men,

If someone invites you to his house or you are visiting them,

Follow the rules and procedures of the house,

Don't complicate your visit,

Don't be the one with the TV remote flicking channels and playing your
favourite music,

No feet on the table,

When you pay homage for a friend restrain yourself to the menu. Lest you
will be accused of acting "ultra viresly"

In you house you're at liberty to do what you want.

Rule of thumb, don't honor every invitation. Availability & familiarity breeds
contempt.

Have basic mannerisms.

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You're not there for watching tv.

Spend time with them,

Talk,
Discuss,
Interact.

Provide value and ask for value.

Men,

Even if it is your brother or sister's house show respect,

You should not feel entitled to touch everything in their house just because
of being siblings,

There should be boundaries,

Learn to keep and maintain them,

Lest you ruin your perfect relationship.

Men,

Never allow the sister of your woman to infiltrate your relationship,

Worse if she is a single mother or is having a troubled marriage,

If she continues interfering and manipulating your woman, then your future
is a mess.

Dump the relationship.

The moment you allow her family members to get involved in your
relationship,‍it’s‍game‍over.

The relationship is now in their control.

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Single mothers have huge baggage, are depressed souls and a major red
flag.

Stay. Away.

Men,

Minimize the contact between your woman & her mother,

Make their connection as narrow as possible,

If she visits her mother all the time & anytime she wants,

Trust me, that's a red flag.

Put a stop immediately or tell her never to come back.

Break the bond between your woman and her mother if you want to climb
the mountain effortlessly.

Her mother will escalate your death. Ignore this wise counsel and you're
done.

They are not your relative. Sick

Men,

Don't be a mama's boy.

Unplug from your mother.

The biggest threat to your existence as a man is the continuous attachment

to your mother like aparasite.

"Mummy"

"Mummy my girlfriend ispregnant"

"Mummy, that job is not good"

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"Mum"

Stop it!

A mothers love is special but long term it will hold you back.

She‍doesn’t‍want‍you‍taking‍risks‍because‍you‍might‍fail‍or‍“hurt‍yourself”.‍

Love your mother, but live your life as you want to, her love will always
remain the same.

Men,

Don't be mesmerized by her face and pelvic curvature.

Check her feet. This is important.

Check her fingers.This is also important.

Her feet and fingers will tell you a lot about her character.

I will not explain.

Men,

A home without a FATHER is like a river without a source.

A FATHER is the pillar of his family.

Be a tough father.

Narcissistic when enforcing boundaries and altruistic when defining your

leadership principles.

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Men,

The biggest enemy of the man is not a woman but an effeminate man.

An effeminate man will:

- betray you,

- throw you under the bus,

- fire you for no reason,

- steal public funds

All in the name of pleasing women.

Most of them are FAT.

One of the differences between people & dogs is that dogs would never
allow the weakest or the dumbest to lead the pack.

The effeminate man tend to thrive in a morally corrupt society.

Let's learn from Dogs🐶.

Women date simps for leisure, but the Alpha male has the key for her inner
sanctum.

Don't be needy. Don't be clingy. Women are attracted to men who are
emotional unavailable.

Law 48: Assume Formlessness

Sink her into mysticism and she will work hard to discover you.

Dear Men,

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Women will always prompt you to be talkative. But if you give in to her
demands, she will throw you under the bus.

Yes. Women are like that.

Be strong and hold your frame.

They will throw away weak man like a trash.

Avoid using simp emojis like boys.

Be a man.

Men,

Be that father whose presence is felt and whose absence is missed.

Be firm on your decisions that can impact that necessary change.

Being an authoritain that retains those boundaries of influence.

We must embrace complementary roles.

A man is a rock that shelters a woman with dignity & love.

Conversely, a woman should submit, nurture & soothes a man.

Unfortunately, we are competing instead of complementing each other.

Where did the rains started beating us?

Men,

A busy woman will have no time embellishing her feet and fingers.

She keeps it low but smart.

She knows her achievements and her imminent results.

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Go for results oriented woman who trusts the process.

Modern women have forgotten how to be beautiful.

They pursue a shallow vision of beauty concerned only with physical

appearance, neglecting completely the quality of their character.

Approach and commit to women who extensively cultivatetheir character.

Men,

Don't make the mistake millions of others have made

Never be more focused on your mother than on your purpose

Don't lose sight of what's truly important

The term 'Mummy' is responsible for the ballooning number of effeminate

boys channeled into the society.

A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to make leaning

unnecessary.

Be you own man. Stand on your own foot. Create your unique footprints.

Men,

Always learn to be independent,

Seek advice from your fathers and grandfathers.

Unlearn,
Hiding under your mother's wings,
The world is ruthless to weak men,
Stay strong.

Change or perish.

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Men,

Do not argue with deranged women online or offline,

Arguments are fodder for her drama.

Remember she loves unnecessary commotion to attract attention.

Ignore and block her online.

Ignore and dump her offline.

Never unblock.

Men,

Back to your woman's sister,

Avoid her.

She is not your relative.

Entertain her at your own risk.

The day there will be disagreement between you and your woman, that is
the day you will learn a lifetime lesson.

Men,

A man needs enough cholesterol.

Ignore the bulshit peddled by the simple carbs industry.

Luteinizing hormone converts Cholesterol into Testosterone inside the

testes.

Low cholesterol = low testosterone.

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Low testosterone = weakness & depression!

If You Ever Feel WeakHit the gym

If you Ever Feel Depressed Hit the gym

If you ever Feel Angry Hit the gym

If you Ever Feel low hit the gym

Boosttestosterone

Testosterone = Man.

You are only as strong and confident as your T-Levels.

The HVM has high T-Levels.

Always ensure your lifestyle is tailored around increasing your T-Levels.

Cholesterol is a great source of Testosterone.

Dear men,

When you talk to women,

Don't let your hormones do it instead of your brain.

Always Wash Your Beddings(3-7days)And Air Your mattress

Always Leave Your windows Open for 0 Hours

Don't Cheat Your Fellow man that The Woman is Beautiful Tell him the
Truth

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Appearing common will make people disrespect you, use absence to
increase honor & respect.

Always act like a king to be treated like one.

The behavior of others is often a function of our behavior, if we value

ourselves, surely others will treat us with respect. Start the day by valuing
yourself.

If a woman gets too comfortable with disrespecting you they will just keep
pushing the boundaries. Eventually you will hopefully realise what is
happening & decide if now is the time to walk away. Create boundaries and
fiercely protect them.

Power is having options -

The option to walk away

To make another deal
To get another girl
To say no.

Options give you leverage

And leverage gives you power.

Before you send that long paragraph, Know this

The girl you are crying over is busy getting pounded by another nigga,
afterwards she mentions you andhow annoying you were including all the
fucked up things you ever did

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That nigga then chuckles before going for another round

Female beauty grants access to male power

Male power grants access to female beauty

Therefore, men aspire to power

Women aspire to beauty. However, the consequences of original sin

destroyed men's power.

It ultimately is that balance of composure that is true wisdom and self

control. Train your mind to be wise,
yet cunning when required. Your body to be strong,
yet gentle when required. Your heart to be kind,
yet ruthless when required. A man must be a Paradox.

Men have become emotionally impulsive because life has become

comfortable.

When there's no hardship, there's no challenge to the emotions of man. Men

learn to master and control emotions by understanding them through
hardships.

A female is her past, a male is his future. Don't be manipulated, as I

promised last week that I will post an audio of a girl who was later
impregnated who started engaging sex at 3 I will today I was kinder busy
that's why you missed Paradox this week, hopefully you will find during the
weekend as I am left with some touch ups and write now I am filtering out
names to protect the identity of the minors who who were mentioned

THE PARADOX OF LOBOLA

Millennials‍may‍have‍popularized‍hookup‍culture‍and‍the‍notion‍of‍“friends‍
with‍benefits,”that‍is‍promiscuity.

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Karen Kaplan

There is nothing desirable for modern man to part with his money in the
name of paying Lobola. The Gynocenteic systems have ruined family
institutions by striping off man's masculinity and as protector and provider
of the family. Modern man has been enslaved and imprisoned in these
modern destroyed once sacred institutions. Traditionally, marriage was a
sign that man was willing to commit in return the wife will be faithful and
submissive to his man. Polygamy was for the wealthy class who were able
to pay bride price as well providing their families. Hence Lobola was for two
reasons commitment from men and submissiveness from women.

Traditionally, lobola had a far deeper significance than simply the

acquisition of cattle money photo sessions and other material things.
However, there is a twist of fate recently Lobola has become extortion.
Daughters are seen as a means of financial gain, and parents can be known
to‍charge‍exorbitant‍amounts‍as‍“bride‍prices”.‍This‍exploitation‍has‍led‍the‍
the writer to speak out against lobola, in light of the approved and
protected social behavior it has thrown a lot of men into depression anxiety
and death.

Given the sexual rampage by a lot of married women, for financial support.
Why modern men would go to secure a loan or invest in a women who has a
number of abortions and has tried all sort of contraceptive tablets who has
been promiscuous at her youthful age. The writer believes that Lobola must
be considered as a grace for virgins, unfortunately thus not the case we still
have town doormats and man sluts who can do everything in order to get
laid. The writer now in his book 62 days in January has argued that Lobola
must be legally attached to compensation once a women break the
agreement that should be tied on Lobola payments and that is submission
and being faithful.

Culturally, lobola was a token of appreciation to the in laws for up bringing

a daughter with values and in most cases the "price" fixed was in proportion
to the reputation of both the girl and the family status. A lot of women are
in support of this custom. One finds very few opposed to it. It gives pride to
women that they have been paid for large sums of money. However, in
return they do not want the same culture to be reciprocated through being
submissive and faithful. This makes the whole process of Lobola as a culture
of extortionism. The argument that is often raised is that they are well-
educated, they have been raised well and all sorts of things that are
included in the negotiating process. I always fail to understand this logic;

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raising a daughter well is not so that she can find a good man, it is so that
she can be a great human being. An education is to benefit her too; it is not
there to serve her future husband. Especially given the liberalization of
marriage institutions.

It is not wise for modern man to reward sluttery by paying Lobola for a non-
virgin woman. It must be a reward for abstaining from sex. The same
cannot be said for men. More importantly how can modern man pay for
something he can get for free it is not a wise trade-off. Imagine after paying
large sums of money as dowry the same wife can file a divorce and claim
mantainance on top of that. In persuit of peace of mind modern man must
pay Lobola in installments as a reward for good habits and behavior after
living with a women for a particular time.

Most men have committed to women not because of love but due to
attachment because she is only the available source of cheap sex. Your
focus as man must not be centralized on making "your" woman happy
especially at an early age, Infact create a lot of streams that provides you
sources of income. Most men committed suicide because they think of what
they sacrificed for their woman.

Women who do degenerative fun in their teenage and destructive fun in

their 20s usually come up with the concept that "This Society is not good for
women" in their 30s.

Bro Code 101

Never date a girl who has tattoos and nose piercing for marriage

Bro Code 101

Never commit to a girl who forces you to know her relatives at an early
stage of your relationships

Bro Code 101

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If she asks you your mother or relative's phone numbers please run away
you are the gatekeeper of commitment

Dairies of the General

Bro Code 101

If she has bleak past and bad relationship with her parents it's not your
duty to give her honor

Bro Code 101

Don't gang up with your woman to discuss her ex

Bro Code 101

Have the courage to walk away, if she disrespect you

Bro Code 101

Never allow her to go through your phone, you must have your family
secrets kept away from her, when you separate she will use that to insult
you

Bro Code 101

If she cries or threatens to kill herself, ignore her she is manipulative

Bro Code 101

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If she saves your number as husbae sweetheart and other names for you to
see, she wants to manipulate you

Bro Code 101

Don't discuss about your ex with your girlfriend you give her leverage to
disrespect you

Bro Code 101

Let her know you can replace her anytime and have the courage to do so,
she will submit

The only man worth admiring is he who is representative of his own ideal,
for that's indicative of his steadfastness and rectitude. A man who embodies
his own principle is not only true to his good, but stable within himself;
trustworthy and faithful.

Fellas;

We are living in a female biased society.

Never‍be‍the‍one‍to‍judgecrucify‍a‍man‍because‍of‍a‍woman’s‍accusation.

These characters have a history together.

Tomorrow, your woman (ex or current) will accuse you & you will want the
world to believe you.

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Dear young man

Your fellow age mates are hustling to make some savings and investments,
while you busy hustling for pussy, you spend the whole and little of your
savings on photo shooting and presents in order to get laid. Nothing is
desirable about that, at a later age after thrilling fun with you she will leave
you poor brokenhearted with the aid of gynocentricism you will pay her
mantainance. Work up young men never commit to a woman before the age
of 25 Infact create a stream of financial revenue at an early age and later
enjoy in your early 30s

Have a reputation that no one dares to mess with your family.

Raise your son well so he can keep it that way after you. Read the Paradox
of Revenge

Unpopular Opinion:

Flirting‍with‍other‍women‍when‍you’re‍in‍a‍relationship is completely
normal.

Nobody’s‍telling‍you‍to‍cheat.‍

But‍it’s‍important‍to‍use‍that‍muscle‍and‍display‍sex-worthiness.

“I‍can‍get‍her‍but‍I‍CHOSE‍YOU”

She will love you more for choosing her.

When she cheats you and you find out, she chooses the weaker side, Don't
concider yourself a winner concider yourself weak! Women are manipulative
they settle for weaker men and cheat with stronger personalities. Once she
cheat she must leave on a borrowed time. Loyalty is the key. If you forgive
for cheating you are rewarding her. It will catch up with you at a later
stage.

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Men,

Your woman should never wake up and leave you on the bed,

Wake up earlier than her.

Even if you were in a night shift, wake up, do something then come back
later.

Be the first to seize the day, - carpe diem!

Show leadership all through.

Men,

Do not entertain disrespect.

Your peace of mind comes first.

Men,

After leaving a bad marriage,

Be very frugal and selfish on your money,

If she asks for child upkeep money,transfer through the bank and file
transaction.

Don't use mobile money.

Your financial footprints are your tools of defence.

Men,

Refuse to get stuck in a bad relationship,

If it is not working, don't think it will work.

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Once she loses desire & attraction, you will not salvage it.

Just end it.

Always have the power to call it off.

Men,

At 20 - 26 years of age,

You should be thinking about building an empire,

NOT thinking about 'settling down for marriage'

There is no 'settling' in marriage for men.

Marriage is an endless battle between a hostage and a terrorist.

Men,

Marryinga woman older than you sounds like fun at first,

But as the relationship gets deeper,

She begins seeing you as her son.

She will lose attraction, becomes irritated and gets bored.

A woman looks up to a man not the other way round.

Men,

Her education doesn't matter.

She could be a neurosurgeon & you are a mason. ~ Nothing wrong.

As long as your 4P's are intact. - that's OK.

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But,

Be wealthier than her.

If she earn 300K as a neurosurgeon. Go make 600K as a mason.

Men,

Once the relationship begins getting messy,

Hide your academic and professional documents.

Put them in a safebox or take them to a bank for safekeeping.

Protect your computers.

Terrorists use your personal valuables to punish you.

Men,

Have a bank account that she doesn't know about,

Own a companyshe doesn't know,

Rent or own a house that she doesn'tknow,

Create a backup plan.

A man in a relationship sleeps with an eye open.

Sounds weird, but that's a lesson you will learn.

Men,

Red flags on the first date:

When she start demeaning her ex-boyfriend,

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" My ex-boyfriend abused me."

"My ex-boyfriend was a tyrant."

All those sob stories are smokescreens meant to distract you.

Run. Never look back.

Men,

Red flags during the first date:

Placing the phone on the table upside down. - Screen facing down.

- Usually on silent mode or flight mode.

Don't commit to such a woman.

If she talks ill of her EX, guess who she will talk ill about next.

Do not wait for the results.

A woman who cannot take accountability for the role played in the collapse
of her relationship will be a burden.

Do not be an emotional tampon.

Life advice:

Women just want to talk and rant and spill their heart out.

They don't want solutions.

Just listen to them and comfort them. She just wants to be heard.

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If her first date consists only of painting her ex-boyfriend in a negative
light. Run. Because she will do the same for you if you have problems later.

Girls who make excuses rather than checking themselves to see if they are
the issue should be avoided.

"When you're far away make your enemies believe that you're nearer, and
when you're nearer, make them believe you're too close" - Art of War.

Don't let your enemies know your moves and intentions.

Never allow her to knew More about You

Be dynamic

Keep changing

Show her what she want to see

Be secretive

Be sceptical.
Always be in doubt.
Never trust someone blindly.

Have a Plan B.
Always.

At least, you can have a different bank account of your own.

That account should be a secret.

Women hate nothing more than open book.

The more mysterious you appear, the more hooked on she is.

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Be unpredictable & hard for her to guess your next move.

Stay as calm as possible like a lion who is figuring out when and how to
take down its prey.

In any war, only the smarter one triumphs.

Keep your finances private.

Keep your bank accounts private.

Never share the sensitive information with anyone.

Be it your friends or your partner.

Always be on the safe side when it comes to valuable docs.

Anyone can use them against you.

Beware.
Be safe.

When a Man loses his FRAME, the woman will wear the pants in the
relationship.

In order for a woman to successfully wear the pants she has to whip you to
submission.

She does this by hitting where it hurts the most.

Anything you consider valuable.

Keep it secure.

This world is about to drastically!.

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Men hv to train themselves in every kind of trade...frm carpentry to food
storage!...even hunting!

Cities are fast becoming prisons & it will be almost impossible to dwell in
them!

Havea plot upcountry.. learn to grow ur ownown food!

Pay the bills of your kids directly to the organisation.

Be it school, college or any other institution.

Keep a track on your hard earned money!

Do not rewind a movie you already know the ending expecting a different
closure.

A woman's currency is attention.

Cut it off and she has nothing.

Set clear boundaries on how you will co-parent.

Do not be dragged into her chaos.

Entertaining a mad and noisy woman is aiding and abetting chaos and
discordance. Don't stomach unrequited love.

Going for a lunch date with a toxic person is like planning your own funeral.

If a woman ever cheats on you...

She stops existing.

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Stop talking to her and don't give her "closure".

There are no second chances.

Don't even think about giving her one.

Erase her from your life.

men,

When your dog starts to bark at you, someone is feeding it.

If that relationship is is in the death bed , do not think you will revive it.

She will show signs that it is not working by losing interest in you.

Let that relationship die and rethink.

An insecure man apologizes for being himself.

A secure man will never apologize for speaking his mind.

No girl is too busy to respond to your texts.

Girls are on their phones 247.

If she takes longer than a few hours to respond to you...

Newsflash: She doesn't care about you.

No matter what excuse she makes.

Work on yourself and move on - completely.

Men,
Always invest the prime years of your age in self development.

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Work more and more.
Earn a lot.

Do not settle for marriage before 28.

Before that it's your own battle.

Thrive to be better.
Settle after that.

An average Man at 20-26yrs cannot compete with an average woman in the

same bracket.

She has more value than Him.

The Man should best spend his time working on himself and his future, than
chasing women.

Once he has gained enough value, women will chase him.

Men,

A lot of people fail to forecast on future turnaround of things and focus on

makeshifts.

Letting a woman older than you in your life and making her center of
attention is a miscalculation.

She will get used to you as first and try to dominate you.

A woman's beliefs are as malleable as water; they take the form of the
container they are in.

The container is the most powerful man in her life, whether her husband, or
father she worships

You cannot be this powerful container if she's older than you

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No woman want to be with a man she outclasses in all domains- financial,

social, intellectual et al.

A woman want a man she looks upto, respects and perceives as superior.

Women need men not only to be successful but more successful than them.

This is why equality doesn't work

When she's old,

She looks for young men.
Never fall in this trap.

She starts dominating you.

She becomes your mama.

And this kinda dominace is always hated by men.

You're her husband,

Her partner,
Not her son.

Every woman is looking for a Man she can commit to.

Her elevated situation does not matter, if you are worth committing to.

Position yourself as that Man.

He is a value giver.

She is a value consumer.

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Man,
She is your wife. Kids learn alot from seeing.

Staying firm and Taliban doesn't mean intentionally treating your woman
"worse".

Women love VALUE.

PS: We are entitled to our interpretations though.

Every Man deserves peace of mind.

A disturbed Man is a danger to himself and the society.

Prioritize peace of mind in every engagement.

Never create room for arguments with her, if you see the discussion is
heading to the wrong direction, call one of your boys and discuss football.

Don't be ok with disrespect.

Or people will feel safe to disrespect you.

And you will face even more disrespects.

When you date women above the age of 2425, you will notice that they lean
towards "security".

They are more likely to pressurise you into settling with them. Why?

Women have a limited prime. Upto the age of 2728 is when they know
they've hit their best years.

Date younger.

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Men,

A man is an asset- men age like fine wine.

Build your value, your value is your frame.

Don't contaminate your value by consuming low hanging fruits.

Don't rush- direction is more important than speed.

Focus.

A woman who leads a man automatically dries up her coochie.

The man should obey his erection and wake up. The day is conquered in the
morning. Don't strangle your day with laziness and wishes.

Leaders are readers. Lead with your magic stick and be indomitable

The Paradox of revenge

"I will hurt you for this. I don't know how yet, but give me time. A day will
come when you think yourself safe and happy, and suddenly your joy will
turn to ashes in your mouth, and you'll know the debt is paid."

George R.R. Martin

The religion has been used to manipulate the innocent and has been quoted
mostly when one does something wrong and does not want to be held
accountable. The writer always acknowledges the richness of shona and
African wisdom "tsvaru akadana tivu" meaning once you do something
expect to receive that two folds. That being said, after revenge preach it in
the mountains and valleys create a sophisticated continual assault on your
adversaries such that you always hang them in suspension.

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The writer himself is cunn when it comes to revenge, especially when
dealing with umujolo or love triangles, every painful punishment is
deterrent and once known for being firm and punish any stupid behavior
you sheild yourself from disappointments and unnecessary disrespect. I
have always mastered the art of revenging through using the same
gynocentric systems. My movements are like that of a tiger they are slow
but very calculated. The writer won't reveal that much about two revenges
he once did after being disrespected and cheated and the other one is still a
in place where the writer will on the day of wedding or Lobola of his now
ex-girlfriend who is under spie the police will take her to the cells. That will
be an embarrassing moment while the General will be always in cloud nine
of striking.
Never believe in feminine innocence, the world has created a 50-50 equality
for both men and women hence the gynocentric systems created by
politicians must also be used to punish women.

The writer would equate revenging as a move that is taken to show your
muscles over both your adversaries and those who have failed to respect
you. Those people never deserve your forgiveness and never be
manipulated for not to hold people accountable for their actions.

Women don't deserve the luxury of being forgiven. Empathy, forgiveness

and kindness should be given to those who deserve it. Given that they have
demanded equality they must nolonger be treated with kid's gloves

Business corporations and the state itself uses laws and rules to revenge
once you go off rail and they call it discipline or charge, when you do the
same its called revenge. Hell no its not revenge its about holding people
accountable for their behavior.

Even God himself said vengeance is mine in the scriptures. Meaning revenge
is necessary especially disappointed by those who you love and trust. After
that make it known to everyone that you revenged. It helps you to regulate
those who might think to tripp you.

The question that must always be in your head is how to carry out
vengeance mission? Use the the gynocentric systems to make vengeance a
men must always be very cunning in nature you must let her commit crimes
like abortion, fraud and other crimes that they can't resist befriended with
police officers and other workers within these gynocentric systems and
make her pay for her betrayal.

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Revenge is for the strong, once you carry out revenge mission make sure
that you do it without leaving your adversaries with any thought of coming
back for you.

Remember what Cyril Connolly said "A woman's desire for revenge outlasts
her emotions"When a woman thinks of revenge remember they have a
ruthless savage mentality then why not treating them with the same
measurement, it's always women who goes to courts after being cheated,
its always women who claim mantainance after divorce those moves are
meant to punish you why not revenging them once you are disappointed
using the same gynocentric systems?

Conclusively one can put it as what Saad Hariri said "Justice is revenge" you
can't just let one get away with unpalatable behavior without paying the
prize. Once man realizes this definitely we will force women to self-regulate
themselves. I believe in serving cold justice and make stupid people pay for
their bad behavior.

General Luverty is a men's rights activist, public speaker, poetry, writer,

journalist and a correctional officer based in Murehwa. He can be contacted
on 077243682 and can also be contacted on [email protected]

THE PARADOX OF MARRIAGE

Marriage is a sacred institution that involves a union of two or more people

people unconditionally with an intention of raising a family. However, in
recent times marriage was clandestinely bastardized by laws which is
another confirmation of how gynocentricism is destroying the community in
the name of rights.

There is nothing left desirable for modern men if he is focused, to celebrate

marriage as success, men need to straightening their ego and disconnect
themselves with the illusionment from statements like "he who finds a good
wife finds a good thing", Infact the modern societies and gynocentric
systems are protecting the ego of women while continuing to punish men.
One must not be puzzled by the reaction of people when a law was gazetted
that paying of Lobola should be abolished before a marriage can be
abolished. Strong points were amplified interms of culture however, the
same can not be said when we talk of dressing and other patriarchal
privileges for men.

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Men has been violently through para-legal systems forced into submission.
If ever a man tries to escape marriage which are modern prisons for men,
he is forced to pay hefty fines inform of mantainance. The writer has been
impelled from self-evoke to question, why would modern men commit
himself to these modern unions?

The answer doesn't need a supernatural science rocket, it is simple and

straight forward women are a necessary evil. However, Forethought must
be an exaltation for a men before committing. The writer himself has once
been held at ransom by his baby mama inform of revenge for the
disappointment that has happened, fortunately he escaped the clutches by
offering his own daughter more than what the system has designed. The
paralysis of family as an institution by these systems cannot be underrated
one should take note of it before splashing a lot of money for these modern
unions.

Most men are pressured by what the writer referred to as marriage blitz
where a woman gives you a time frame for paying Lobola and having a
white wedding. Why should modern man pay heft price for abortionist
reformed sluts and later have a white wedding where maybe her six exes
will be enjoying the baggages you will be carrying.

It is axiomatic that a marriage is an endless war between men and women

living together; tautologically, the woman is equipped with an extra-bullet
from the gynocentric systems and governments. Hence, men will be facing
bullets from many fronts and failure to dodge them he surrenders his
masculinity. The best way to be equipped against this war is to endure
hardships and painful during your early to mid 20s by accepting rejection
and going after young and feminine women.

I have seen most young men being bombarded with marriage blitz by
retired hoes who want to be paid for their worn out tired couchie. Men must
have principles which must be their compass before thinking of any
commmitment, how can you settle for an abortionist? A slut and think you
can turn her into a housewife someone who once killed definitely you are
preparing for a disaster in the later stages of life.

Master Eric From Kenya described a marriage a a war between a terrorist

(wife) and the government (men) once the government is weaker it will be
overpowered that is you are going to lose children respect from your family
friends relatives and other financial muscles.

We should be very suspicious of the sincerity of females and debunk the

mythology of feminine innocence since it is a non-instrumental belief. Men
must truly believe in things that serves them first as marriages and family

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institutions has been greatly destroyed by the laws. No person can make
another happy. Happiness is a personal responsibility. Hence, a man must
create value that makes him honorable and get submission from wife. This
subjective equality is disingenuous. Women must be honest, submissive,
kind and feminine for them to qualify marriage and later raise a family.

Submissionand other feminine qualities are inversely proportional to the

money, favors, pedestalization that is what I regarded as intersectionality
of inconveniences.

However, thus not the case; gynocentric have advanced the issue of
equality while women are found between hard rocks of needing patriarchal
protection and marriage have become a bone of contention between
societal values and morden woman. Ultimately, women need to choose
what they want between responsibility and powerlessness.

Hence she must choose side and stick with it. If she can handle
accountability then she need the power however looking for accountability
from these morden women is like looking for a virgin in Tutani Bar. Hence,
you can't expect leadership when you when she doesn't want
accountability. Responsibility without accountability creates a vaccuum and
when trying to fill it fighting for power is inevitable when marriage should
be a teamwork based on complementing each other.

Women are a necessary evil that is needed for the smooth functioning of the
society. Negatively, the corporate society and politician have taken
advantage of weak men to advance an agenda that is meant to destroy the
harmony between nature and human beings. Positively, we are witnessing
the rise of redpill and men's rights activists who are advancing the
awakening campaign against the assault against once a sacred institution
and equip men with enough armory that is required to enter into the battle
zone of marriage with strong mentality.

General Luverty is a men's rights activist, journalist, poetic writer public

speaker and a correctional officer based in Murehwa. He can be contacted
on [email protected] and on WhatsApp 077243682.

What is the redpill position on wet dreams in context of semen rentention?

[26, 3:5 PM] General Luverty: Wet dreams are a natural phenomenon and
definitely if you expirienced them it shows you have adequate sperms and
definitely higher testosterone
[26, 3:55 PM] +263 78 374 7936: Thank you for clarity but in our culture
says you'll have sex with a witch craft ( a woman ) what yr take on that

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[26, 3:58 PM] General Luverty: That's a lie and it's myth sometimes if you
retain sperms for 90 days you can see semen flowing out after urinating I
have expirienced this

THE PARADOX OF SOLITUDE

The realisation that you are not the voice in your head, but the observer is
seismic and transformative, the start of an incredible journey of discovery,
without any end. This voice connects the soul the mind and the universe to
give some answers to problems of life. This can only be realized when one
chooses solitude over company of anyone.

Jesus Christ himself when he was about to start his mission he chose
solitude and spend forty days and forty nights alone. This is not about
biblical stories even the writer himself after being disappointed by once his
confidante he chose solitude for about sixty two days that is when he
discovered some of the problems which he target to answer using
paradoxes. Most men fear to be alone thinking that being alone is
loneliness. However, once you master the courage of accepting that you
started the course of life being alone and unique without any company you
will appreciate the beauty of the universe and how the universe can help
you to answer some of the unresolved questions you may have in your
subconscious.

Learning to be alone may be initially scary, but once mastered, it serves as

the cornerstone for personal development. Being alone allows you to think
for yourself. You may be able to make better choices and decisions about
who you are and what you want without outside influence. Solitude tames
away peer pressure among other groupie delinquencies.

Being alone allows you to drop your social guard, thus giving you the
freedom to be introspective, to think for yourself. You are able to make
better choices and decisions about who you are and what you want without
outside influence. Most men of the day have failed to leave alone they fear

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the unknown unfortunately they really don't know association paralyze the
soul and it disconnect them from their dreams and aspirations.

Once you learn to be comfortable with yourself, you will never feel lonely in
life. If you want to gain wisdom, learn to spend time alone. Reflect,
contemplate, and introspect and you will come out as a winner every time.
Most men have been stuck into abusive relationships and marriages
because they cannot see their potential and they have already surrendered
their purpose of life because they fear solitude. Nothing great was achieved
without sacrifice. There is absolute ataraxis in seclusion.

If you cannot imagine yourself and training yourself living alone there is a
greater lesson that is coming for you. Most people suffer depression anxiety
and mental disorders not because they have been left but because they
have never trained themselves to be alone. Solitude transcend to spiritual
growth too. If you can not enjoy the company of yourself then ask yourself,
who will enjoy your company?

Dear men, there is nothing called soulmate. If you only find yourself when
you find a woman, not only are you weak and effeminate, but your
happiness will always be dependent on her fleeting faithfulness to you. You
have an unhealthy attachment because she comfortably fills the void of
inadequacy. This can be only be minimized once you train yourself to live a a
lone warrior. Or else depression is coming for you.

You were born alone and you will die a alone. It's hogwash and fallacy to
follow an old saying that says he who finds a wife finds happiness you are
being misled into shooting yourself direct on the feet. The void of feeling
inadequacy without a woman is not filled for long, if you lack self-reliance
and‍integrity,‍you‍are‍bound‍to‍brush‍with‍women’s‍iniquity‍because‍such‍a‍
dependency is not her burden to bear, but yours. You should be the one who
consoles‍her,‍not‍vice‍versa.‍Mutual‍emotional‍support‍doesn’t‍work,‍your‍
emotional‍vulnerability‍is‍not‍strength‍in‍her‍eyes,‍it’s‍frailty.‍She‍seeks‍in‍
you what she lacks, if she doesn’t‍find‍it,‍she‍will‍resent‍you‍in‍contempt.‍It‍
is not your role to be emotional, it is a feminine trait which
needsextermination.

If a woman know that you cannot sail without her or you are emotionally or
you have banked on her she will take that advantage to manipulate you and

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your happiness and life will be hanged on intimacy with her. Women want a
strong hand, not a submissive one. Why would they seek submission from
men?‍It’s‍not‍our‍duty‍to‍follow‍her‍lead,‍nor‍her‍duty‍to‍listen‍to‍our‍
problems. A man resolves his own problems and hers aswell, he carries both
his burden and hers. And these problems most of the time requires solitude
and unrelenting spirit which can only be achieved when you are alone.

Juzi has become a hit and emotional song which most ghetto efiminate
youths played and some Simps however such type of music destroys the
spirit of manhood. I would rather go for the likes of handichina basa newe
they make sense and once a women knows that you are not afraid of being
alone definitely‍she‍will‍submit.‍Most‍‘love’‍songs‍written‍nowadays‍are‍
demonstrations of effeminacy from the side of man, he sings about his
uncontrollable yearning, desperation, approval and all the other despicable
feeings that women will never resolve for him. Cries of pity.

Truthfully, women will pretend to care and sympathize with weakness, but
they will still act in contradiction to their seeming pity because her words
are rarely in accordance to her actions. Only finding peace in solace and
constantly stop flirting with her and taking time without communicating
with her makes her aware that your life is not centered on anyone but you
alone.

Whenever you feel something goes wrong you need to go back to the
drawing board. Configuring and reconfiguration of the mind soul and heart
and this can only be realized in solitude. It offers the chance of recharging
yourself through introspection. Even an enemy will find it difficult to attack
you when you have the strength of working alone. Big names have been
betrayed by their companions and camaraderie while those who always
chose solitude have survived attack since they are always unpredictable.

��Word of Wisdom��

5 WAYS OFINSPIRE MANNERS IN YOUR CHILDREN.

. When entering the house greet your children or even hug them. This
should help develop their sense of love and self worth.

2. Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of other
drivers when on the road. Your children would listen, absorb and emulate.

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3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them.
When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see
you take care of your parents the more they will learn to take care of you.

4. When driving them to school, don't always play albums or cds in the car.
Rather, tell them some motivational stories yourself. This will have a
greater impact - trust me!

5. Read to them a short story and even a scripture a day – it doesn't take
much time, but very good in creating strong bonds and wonderful
memories.

6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable clothes even if
sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need to learn that being
clean and tidy has nothing to do with going out!

7. Try not to blame or comment on every word or action they say or do.
Learn to overlook and let go sometimes. This certainly builds their self
confidence.

8. Ask your children's permission before entering their rooms. Don't just
knock and enter, but then wait for a verbal permission. They will learn to do
the same when wanting to enter your room.

9. Apologize to your children if you made a mistake. Apologizing teaches

them to be humble and polite.

0. Don't be sarcastic or make fun of their views or feelings, even if you

"didn't mean it" and was "only joking". It really hurts.

. Show respect to your children's privacy. Its important for their sense of
value and self-esteem.

2. Don't expect that they will listen or understand the first time. Don't take
it personal. But be patient and consistent.

3. Pray with them. Show them how to pray. Lead by example.

4. In addition, ask them to discuss their daily plans after the morning
prayers. Children without concrete daily plansusually join others in
executing theirs. They fall easy to peer pressure.

5. Hold them and bless them specially every morning.

Remember other parents may need this, why keep it to yourself...! Share it
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May our labor over our children never be in vain
🙏🏽

Never give the grace of marriage to a woman who

once cheated on you

2 you know her two exes
3 who once aborted
4 who once did partying (alcohol
5 A woman of your age

If you have done that mistake before the age of 30 mantainance is a

cheaper option

You can ignore these redflags and later cry people will always people the
human behavior will never change, the truth is if she gets a chance to do
what once she did definitely she will do it again! Make painful decisions
today that will create peace of mind in the future, or find temporary comfort
of pleasure today and later brush off with death. Always be ahead of her.
This gospel started with the likes of Rollo Tommassi Kelvin Samuels and
other fathers of redpill remember these guys also date and get married but
the issue is about marrying the right candidate. Not all woman deserves the
grace of marriage!! Some are just sign posts who direct you in life and they
are there to teach us lessons.

No matter what happens between you and your wife or girlfriend never use
physical violence on her, you will rot in prison and someone will come and
cock her

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Never allow yourself to be involved in a fight your woman started let her
finish it off you will be arrested for violence and courts are linient for
women

Never allow yourself to be involved in a crime with your woman they easily
sell out when they are in corner. You will get arrested she will get a linient
sentence.

Never compete with a woman she can open legs if chances avails itself at
work, you will die stressed. Just make sure your connections are and make a
lot of financial streams.

Never allow her mother to meddle in your relationship, she will give her
advices that will ruin you.

Never seek relationship advice from a woman, be it your mother, your sister
or friend instead tell your father brother uncle they will help you.

Marriage is a life time commitment take time to vet a perfect women for
yourself. This include age, her past, her family and also her hobbies.
Marriages are mini battles where you sleep with your enemy everyday.

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Never involve yourself in any deal with your wife, especially that puts you at
risk. When you have an entanglement she will go on top of the mountain
and say it loud.

If‍a‍girl‍rejects‍you,‍don’t‍chase‍her.

Accept the L, learn game, lift weights. work on becoming the best version of
yourself.

trust me, she will come around- only this time, she will do the chasing.

It’s‍a‍small‍world.

A man must set high and rigorous standards for himself

Only then is he suitably qualified to demand high standards of others

It is only by making those stringent demands of himself, that he can truly

appreciate and understand the nature of the demands he is placing on
others.

"I've never done this before"

Lies, she has done it countless times. What she's doing is manipulating you.
See women understand a man's nature - his need to be the best & first.
They know how intoxicating that feeling is to a man & they use it to their
advantage. It's all lies!

Shadaya

Leviticus 2:3-4 ESV0

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And he shall take a wife in her virginity. A widow, or a divorced woman, or a
woman who has been defiled, or a prostitute, these he shall not marry. But
he shall take as his wife a virgin of his own people,

This quote feels relevant:

“The‍worst‍form‍of‍inequality‍is‍to‍try‍to‍make‍unequal‍things‍equal.”

- Aristotle

THE PARADOX OF DEFLOWERED WOMAN IN RELATION TO MAN

After I had known she was in an affair with a married man. I supported her
thinking she was duped, looking at her face and deeds she was innocent.
Fast forward she dive bombed me with feminine energy and a marriage blitz
fortunately I am that person guided by principles. I pushed her to go and
attain a higher level of education personally buying time to access her level
of sincirety, loyalty and trustworthy, guess what any girl whome you did not
deflower cannot monogamously bond to you as she become a sexual
machine, unfortunately most man do not realize this because they are
stereotyped to the assumption that women are faithful and innocent while
in reality are deceptive and very cunning in nature.

I applied highly sophisticated technology and state apparatus to unpack the

paradox in question, which most men are not at privilege to master such an
art.

One must understand that if you fall in love with such type of girls youpay
for the sins of every guy who had an intimacy relationship and disappointed
her before you met each other. After such deflowering she becomes loose as
she knows that there is nothing more sacred on her body as her value has
already been trampled upon. Her relationship with her father is also
important as it guides for better understanding of the masculinity value

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unfortunately most men have developed femine traits resultant the father's
voice will always be overshadowed and secretly the mother will be the
leader of the kids in such a setup. Because the trauma from her suffering
typically overshadows the wisdom from her experiences. Women do not
improve with use. They deteriorate. Deep down everybody knows this. But
they will never acknowledge this fact.

The notion of an empowered and independent women have done more harm
than good to the society at large. The only blessing left is to be the first love
of a woman with a strong masculine good father and is the best shot you'll
ever have. This is why traditionally women were married off young as
virgins. Because women are fragile, and as they accumulate experience they
accumulate trauma that ruins them for romance.

The feminine is not built for stress. It is the masculine that is forged
through the traumas of suffering, not the feminine. Women who actively
have to work on being feminine aren't ascending to a higher stage, they're
trying to get back something they had but lost to suffering. The feminine is
in its natural state, complete. The same cannot be said for the masculine.
The masculine undergoes a journey which requires the integration of the
shadow and the shedding and loss of innocence to truly self-actualise.
Women attempting the same journey will implode.

There is no man you would truly consider a man who hasn't paid a trip to
hell. Which the writer himself had gained wisdom after an adventure
mission with highly educated and a professional who had shown the actual
brutal savage mentality of woman. Those are the fees we pay. That's the
cost of being man.

A woman who went to hell is a shadow of her former self because hell
destroys femininity. Which is why it strengthens men and destroys women.

Not every man survives hell. The weak ones suicide, or become sociopathic -
highly emotional, unbalanced and destructive men who lash out at
everything aggressively in the same way your typical feminist woman does.
But men can make the trip and be better for it. Women cannot. Men do
"need to get in touch with their softer side" but not until they've been to
hell, survived, made peace with it and come out the other end free of
resentment and bitterness, but fortified by their experiences into a man.
And its a good woman's love that brings that out.

The reason for this is simple. If you've been to hell, you became a monster
to beat a monster, and if you're not careful, that monster will possess you

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(sociopathy). Connecting with your softer side is thus a counterbalance to
the evil that lurks within you and helps centre you.But if you have not made
the trip to hell, never triggered your shadow, let alone even integrated it,
and you're already "connecting with your softer side" - then you'll never
survive the trip necessary to hell. You're taking steps back rather than
forward. This is self-sabotage. You could define a healthy masculine man as
a man who has unlocked his inner darkness, but does not wish to be
consumed by it. Such a man benefits from feminine warmth as it balances
him rather than feminises him

The same cannot be said for men who haven't unlocked the darkness. Put
another way, a boy who spends a lot of time around women too much is
coddled and becomes feminised, never properly developing.

But the unpossessed man who can wield evil who spends time with women
who care for him will only become kinder, not weaker. Thus the difference.

The men who have been to hell but didn't make the trip successfully are the
ones who know how to be evil but can't control it, and thus become
tyrannical and abuse that power to send their women to hell rather than to
protect them from it. Never be that guy. This is failure.

She's either going to hell because you're a sociopath, or she's going to hell
because you're a weakling who cannot protect her from the predatoriness of
life. Either way, you've failed - because you haven't preserved her
femininity. Femininity is fragile and easily snuffed out.

Warm eyes, a coy stare, a gentle smile, a general cheeriness, a shy giggle,
modesty, grace and a pure heart - when's the last time you observed the
captivating beauty of healthy femininity? That's what's hard to cultivate &
easily snuffed out. Their spiritual beauty is fragile. And when they lose their
spiritual beauty, all that remains is their quasi impersonation of the
masculine, and the negative elements of the feminine. And you know what
this looks like, because you've met plenty of feminists. They are all
damaged, failed women. It's very sad. This is the intersection of femism and
lack of masculine man who can provide and protect hence leading the
promiscuity and degeneracy

A lot of men aren't interested in being patriarchs anymore. They're forever

teenagers. Just want to have sex all the time and socialise with their
friends. They're not building anything. They're not sacrificing anything.
There's no greater goal. It's just perpetual adolescence.

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Just pleasure seeking for its own sake - at the cost of everything else.
Hedonistic materialism as the ultimate value. A spiralling path to nowhere
that consumes many years, a journey full of exhilaration that leads to a
destination comprised of emptiness.

A modern day malady.

So it strikes me there are different classes of men, who can be

differentiated by their connection to the transcendent as marked by their
willingness to sacrifice. Call this metric "heroism" - the desire to transcend
one's self by living for something greater than the self.
Heroes + extreme individualists thus inhabit opposite sides of a spectrum.
The former are rooted in something greater than themselves, whilst the
latter live only for themselves. One plants a tree to provide shade he won't
enjoy, the other logs forests so he can party in Cancun.

Thread by at Tell your sons

Non of your relative will give you pussy! Only that shows it kills,

Be it vision
Be it focus
Be it purpose

It kills

Take as many risks as you can, as early as you can.

It becomes harder to do so when more people are dependent on you.

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starts happening...no further explanation..dig it up those who can
[20, 8:40 PM] General Luverty: Even Jesus started his ministry at the age of
30!!

Joseph started his work under Pharaoh at 30

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Dear Men,

There is nothing bad with rejecting a woman you impregnated, the

mainstream media is also encouraging women to leave you once she feels
you no longer worth and she will get a shoulder from gynocentric systems.

Become Selfish.

You don't reach the top without making sure you get things done your way.

Being Selfless doesn't enable you to create an impact in anybody's life

significantly.

Achieve your goals first.

Help others through them.

A healthy amount of selfishness is critical.

You‍can’t‍be‍a‍good‍fatherbrotherfriendemployeeetc.‍If‍you‍don’t‍take‍care‍
of yourself first.

Selfishness only means prioritizing yourself first. It does not imply egotism.
Be stingy with your resources

Wake up hit the gym bath cold shower that is way to raise testosterone.
Don't be a deformed man.

Good morning,

4 Bs of a GOOD MORNING.

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+ Benediction 📚

+ Bed 🛏️

+ Body 🏋️‍♂️

+ Bath 🚿 COLD.

Refuse to be ordinary,

Organize your military,

Colonize your day!

Go hard.

There's no Karma

If there was, every time a Lion hunts a deer, it would face equal retaliation.

Nature rewards Ruthlessness.If you just want to do it just without

hesitating that is what nature rewards.

If you feel like you have been manipulated do not think twice about the
concequencies just move on.

Where punishment is required just punish simple

"Combat Deaths - 97% Men, 3% Women

Industrial Deaths - 93% Men, 7% Women
Suicide victims - 80% Men, 20% Women
Winners of Custody - 6% Men, 84% Women
Scholarships - 30% Men, 70% Women
Social Grants - 0% Men, 90% Women

But somehow women are OPPRESSED

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Women are the only oppressed group that is able to spend billions on
cosmetics & fashion. The only oppressed group suffering more from eating
too much food (obesity). The only oppressed group that watches more TV.
All this, more than their oppressors, men...

Oh... Right. The oppressors pay for all that. Women are delusional, they
have no idea what it is, to be a man They try to compare & contrast it with
the pain of child birth & monthly flow of blood from their grave yards. That's
it nothing else, pregnancy & periods, that's all...
That's not oppression, you're not oppressed. The society protects you.
Literally we have built a society that is centered around women's
vulnerabilities but they still find something to complain about.
Ungrateful!!!"

Shadaya

If you are worried to leave her, then you have a scarcity mindset. Create an
abundance mindset talk to a lot of beautiful young feminine women who are
not damaged. You proof yourself from oneitis paralysis

Truth over feelings always. Feelings are temporary, the truth is permanent.
Your friends will thank you in the long term. And they will appreciate it
heroes are those who have stood up for truth when it is not fashionable to
do so.

When you hear the truth, it may hurt your feelings, but if you never hear the
truth, you miss an opportunity to learn and grow. Speak the truth, but also
be receptive to hearing the truth. I have lost those I love I have lost friends
but I still don't care, but those who are with me in this cause are true
comrades. The camaraderieship we are creating will make a bond that is
everlasting.

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According to psychology, You become unstoppable when you realize that
you can do it alone.

Someone that can do things alone is a dangerous person and must be feared
cos they can achieve anything without seeking permission.

Read the Paradox of solitude

Kenyatta dead, wife alive.

Mandela dead, wife alive.
Mangufuli dead, wife alive.
Saitoti dead, wife alive.
Mugabe dead, wife alive.
Odinga dead, wife alive.
Akuku Danger dead, wives alive.
Mutula dead, wife alive.
Nkaissery dead, wife alive, etc.

No wife, Pope Francis alive.

Whatever you do with the above information is up to you.

Don't get me involved in it

The moment you get attached to her is the moment she loses interest in
you. Don't get too attached leave space for her self-actualization. She will
try to please you until she gets exhausted.

NEVER date somebody you see every day.

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This includes- workplace, being in the same class, having the same social
circle, etc.

Why?

Seduction requires space.

Space creates mystery and excitement.

Without space, attraction disappears & you become friends.

You are the leader not a friend know this

HUGE RED FLAG:

When a girl talks about her toxic past relationship(s), ask her HOW LONG
they lasted.

If the relationship lasted for more than a couple of months, RUN the fvck
away.

Won't explain.

Unpopular Opinion:

Men,
Spend‍your‍20’s‍building‍your‍career,‍businesses,‍wealth,‍etc.

Women,
Start‍a‍family‍in‍your‍20’s‍with‍a‍man‍in‍his‍30’s‍that‍has‍done‍the‍above.

This is the optimal arrangement -

With each at the peak of their value.

"She religiously follows the lives of Mai TT, Madam Boss, Tatelicious,
Ndinyengeiwo Girl, Olinda = social media junkie

He idolizes Java, Tawaz, Mudiwa = attention seeking simp

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Sadly these are the role models for our youths & we wonder why we have
an unfocused generation"

Men must operate in the cold hard world of truth and reality

Comforting lies and fantasies are for the weak and simple minded

A man faces the truth despite the pain

He faces reality despite its harshness

He faces the facts despite his feelings.

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11. Well-trained in home management and hospitality

12. Must have a great character of a wife material (according to Shona

culture)

13. No previous record of relationships cheating

14. Demonstrated ability to make a man successful

15. Must not practice Slay queenism.

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1. Body Count

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Women deep down know that men prefer women with low or no body
count.

That's why they will lie about it.

2. Faking Orgasms

When a woman isn't satisfied in the bed, she would rather fake it than tell
you honestly.

She either doesn't want to hurt you, or she expects you to know it by
yourself.

3. "I don't normally do this."

Or "You're the first guy I've let do that to me."

This usually means that she DOES this, but she doesn't want you to know
that.

4. She's Not In The Mood

Women are horny but she'll fake having low libido only because she's not
enjoying sex with you.

5. "I have a boyfriend."

This can be true, but women know it's the fastest way to get rid of a guy
who is boring her.

6] "I'm fine."

This means that she's not and she's lowkey wanting you to find out what's
wrong.

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7. "I don't care about her."

If she's talking about your ex or a female friend?

Yeah, she cares about her a lot.

9. Weight

Just how men lie about their size of their dkies, that's how women will lie
about their weight!

Men,

I have seenmen add their women as co-directors,

It's fine,

But, give her less than 20% shares. - have an open clause that these shares
shall automatically be transferred to your sons once they reach 8 years.

Sounds awkward? Yes, I know.

The art behind this is simple!

- She will not handle your business with her full potential
- Mixing the professional life with personal life is lethal
- You may end up destroying her and your business

The solution:

- Let her run her own business

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How many time should we say this

Don't make your wife a co-director

Even ondrugs

And if by any chance you do

Treat her like any other employee

Pay her like any other employee

Correct her like any other employee

My wife is nowhere near my next of keen.

She is not my relative.

I treat her as a pirate.

Staying Taliban.

Men,

Allocating 40% or 50% of your business to heris committing a grave error,

Once you signal that you are equal partners in business, she automatically
seeks equality (and more control) in marriage,

You will be terrorized to the end.

Ask Bill!

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Why do you want to run your household this inefficiently because you to be
hailed for championing women empowerment or for being blinded by love

She can't handle equal partnership

She isn't looking for equal partnership
You can ignore if she says otherwise - It doesn't matter

Men,

About your children,

They MUST work hard to earn a piece of your business,

No easy way for them, too!

Employ them as ordinary employees and they must show loyalty,

commitment and sacrifice in the business.

No entitlement. No favours.

They must learn the hard way to make money.

They must be aware of the struggles involved in setting up a business.

He should never be a spoilt brat.

He should value each and every penny you've made.

Giving your children whatever they ask for is evidence of short term
thinking.

This only creates entitlement and they start to despise the efforts taken to
get to where you are.

This exactly why many wealthy families lost their wealth after the second or
third generation.

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Show your children the way and they will forever be greatful for you.

This is the biggest investment you can offer to them

No favors.

Let them work as others.

On point.

Most businesses collapse because once children inherite them, they eat the
money without paying suppliers and their employees.

Teach them the better.

Men need to be committed to the work of their fathers

Men lose inheritanceof there fathers to the world by squandering it because

no one is there to ask why.

Sons need to be responsible.

Men,

Still on children & business:

Unplug them from their mother.

Lead them ruthlessly as you enjoin them in business.

Failure to do this,

They will squander, gamble and sell your business when you die.

Teach them leadership & entrepreneurship early.

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Leadership and entrepreneurship is a man's domain.

Men are a monopoly and bedrock of leadership.

Remember, your children carry on your name and DNA.

Transfer those traits and your name will live on after you have passed on.

Always be in a close proximity with the nature.

Your ancestors lived a long life,

Had a better immune system,
Had more power.

Believe in basics.

Men,

You are either a member of 'a church' or a member of THE CHURCH.

Most men are members of 'a church', only a handful are members of THE
CHURCH.

'a church' is a religious congregation.

THE CHURCH is a spiritual communion.

Few will understand.

Men should learn to be spiritual and not religious. Once you understand how
to seperate the two, you'll live a peaceful life.

Men,

Every question she asks is a frame test.

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For example, you are married, you come late from work & find her sleeping,

Then she says "today there is no food, go and cook or go eat where you
came from"

What is your action?

READ BETWEEN THE LINES

Men,

You are always running on tests after the other.

When she does not do for you she attracting violence.

Just go back and eat from outside as she wishes and avoid her meals for a
week.

She will learn.

Don't be emotional in such a situation

She is testing if she can trigger your emotions

Just stay cool, cook, eat and sleep.

Never in any day raise this story again.

Doing this will keep her gausing your actions

Women‍test‍you‍to‍see‍if‍you’re‍her‍best‍possible‍option.

She tests you to see if you will maintain your frame at all times.

Each time you reaffirm to her that your frame is not to be wavered, her love
grows for you.

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She wants the best possible man for herself.

Men,

She asks you

"So, why did you leave your previous relationship?"

What is your response?

READ BETWEEN THE LINES

Men,

It's not an interview.

"Just wanted to focus on myself"

Is the best response

The only discussion you can entertain, is her previous relationships.

Never discuss your previous relationships with her or anybody else.

If she asks such a question, ignore her. If she insists, tell he you got better
things to do.

Men,

NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of

women‍you’ve‍slept‍with‍or‍explain‍any‍detail‍of‍your‍sexual‍experiences‍
with them to a current lover.

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Men,

After weeks of dating, she asks

"Darling, what are we?"

What is your response?

READ BETWEEN THE LINES

Men,

After weeks of dating, you dont cease to be a man.

Always have that question first to avoid fabling with words whens she asks
first.

But incase, give the answer she expects and change the topic.

Under no circumstances would you validate your woman to know that she is
your world.

Two weeks?

Two weeks you should not even tell her you love her.

This is a shit test

Response : laugh off and tell her "what do you think"

She is seeking validation.

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Men,

She asks you

"Do you like me?"

What is your response?

READ BETWEEN THE LINES

In response to her,

I will incorporate both love and hate in between my lines. Here it's
illustration

"You have just said it yourself woman but your character should make you
worth to be like".

You may ask what are the signs?

- When she starts behaving differently

- When she starts giving alibis
- When she is not loyal with you

These are some of the signs.

Never ignore them!

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LOBOLA: THE IMPENDING CONFLICT

By Desire Murire

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Soon after attaining independence from the West, many African nations
ditched their culture one way or the other in favour of western culture.
Africa experienced cultural erosion drastically and the spirit of Ubuntu (
morality, good ethical values and well-mannered behaviour) departed from
the Africans especially in urban centres all in the name of embracing the
Western way of living. Many African adopted the practices of engagement
and white weddings which are western in terms of marriage.....many things
changed in terms of culture in Africa which raised yet to be answered
questions about marriage in terms of LOBOLA.

Many people especially men have asked how asked pertinent questions as
far as lobola is concerned as an African cultural practice. Lobola is a
situation where a man pays the parents of his yet to be wife either in terms
of money or cows so that they stay together as husband and wife officially.
A lot of people do say this practice denotes appreciating the family of the
woman for raising her in a good manner. Some say lobola was paid to thank
the family of the woman for keeping the woman safe in terms of virginity
and imparting in her morals and values which are expected of every woman
to possess to be wife material.

Nonetheless, in this day and age, the rise of feminism changed everything in
terms of the reasons why men paid lobola to their wives upon marrying
them. Feminism caused women to be or claim to be equal partners in
marriage ( 5050 scenario ), to be promiscuous, to be immoral, alcoholic etc
which made a lot of men asking is it fair to them to pay lobola to today's
women. Lobola is a patriarchal system practice in many women are against,
but when it comes to lobola women embrace it saying " it's our culture ".
This raised a lot of criticism and questions from men asking how women or
society become selective when it comes to cultural practices.

People say lobola is to appreciate the parents of the woman ( in-laws ) but
how come the in-law's gazette amount of money and cows to be paid as a
token of appreciation? Do people appreciate each other where the recipient
chooses how they want to be appreciated or the person who is appreciating
must express freely how heshe want to appreciate? This only tells how
people tried to sugarcoat this but the reality women are being sold, treated
as commodities something which is against the Ideology of feminism. If
African women don't want a patriarchal system then they should voice
against lobola because it's something that denotes their exploitation but
sadly there is money involved so they can't do away with lobola.

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I know and I'm aware, some will say people pay lobola to express love, to
thank the wife's parents etc but do you do that freely or in a coerced
manner? It is now meaningless to pay lobola to a woman who claims
equality with men in marriage, who doesn't recognize the man as the head
of the family this is how many men are seeing it ridiculous to pay lobola
under those conditions. Women want the matriarch system to flourish at the
same time expecting men to provide, to protect the family, to care for the
family doing to be stripped of their powers of authority as the head of the
family. Forget the Bible and other religious teachings about family because
many feminists don't agree with the teachings so it is baseless to tell a
feminist that a man is the head of the family taking it from the Bible or
another religious book. This is quite meaningless and controversial to men
that's why many young black men are not marrying because they're caught
up in a situation they should provide and protect the family but at the same
time denied the benefits which come with those responsibilities. It is
understandable and logical for the women in western nations to claim
equality because they're not bought or purchased into marriage as what
happened to African women although it is not practical for men and women
to be equal.

Lobola entails that a woman is a product, a commodity to the man. Fake

woke people will say I'm objectifying women, I'm rendering women inferior
but the truth is those women who take lobola still endorse lobola at the
same time advocating for women empowerment and emancipation are
indeed products to men. To simplify it lobola means to buy a woman so that
she becomes your wife where money, cows, groceries and clothes are used
as a form of payment. This is why you hear a lot of men say " I have the
right to do ABCD to you because I paid lobola in full to your parents ". A lot
of women are abused in the name of lobola but they can't speak against it
because there is money involved. Lobola gives men powers to have
authority over women, to have a say over her but all that is now stripped by
feminism ideology that's why many men are seeing it difficult to pay lobola.

A lot of young men are now just taking women into marriage without
paying lobola. A lot of them realised that their careers were robbed by the
existing system of marriage which is gynocentric. A lot of girls are married
not virgins, without morals and values, with high body counts so it's an
embarrassment and serious humiliation to a man to pay lobola to such type
of woman yet in the same vain she claims marriage equality.

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The western culture of feminism which African women embraced promotes
immorality, nudity, promiscuity, and lack of respect in women. All this is
against the meaning or the purpose of paying lobola that's why it is now
meaningless to pay lobola to a woman who has these traits because they
render her a valueless commodity. Who wants to pay for a commodity which
is damaged or which was once consumed by someone else for free? Who in
their right mindset wants to pay for services a lot of people got for free? All
these questions make it hard for men to pay lobola because according to the
feminist ideology women should not claim lobola to fully enjoy the equality
they want in a marriage. Women should provide and protect the family if
they want marriage equality and this will make the practice of lobola null
and void since it is a patriarchal system practice.

However, will this happen? Will African women agree to say no to lobola
because it objectifies and renders them products? Will they consider saying
no to lobola because many of them are abused in marriages because of
lobola? This conflict raised many endless debates to the extent that a guy
called Shadaya knight tweeted asking why Africans left other cultural
practices except lobola. This manifests how many men out there are seeing
it unfair to their side to pay for lobola where their masculinity power is not
recognized.

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A man is a nonentity unless he's SUCCESSFUL

•men‍are‍judged‍based‍on‍their‍achievements

A woman is a nonentity unless she's BEAUTIFUL

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•women are judged based on their looks. When a woman is telling her
friends about her new man, the st question is

"What does he do for a living?"

And when it's the man, his friends will ask

"What does she look like?" In real terms:

A man is a SUCCESS object in the eyes of a woman

A woman is a SEXUAL object in the eyes of a man

That's why the perceived value of men increases as they age, while the
value of women decreases.

I didn't make the rules, nature did.

Bro Code 101

Never commit to a girl who forces you to know her relatives at an early
stage of your relationships

Bro Code 101

Never allow her to go through your phone, you must have your family
secrets kept away from her, when you separate she will use that to insult
you

Bro Code 101

Don't gang up with your woman to discuss her ex

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Bro Code 101

If she cries or threatens to kill herself, ignore her she is manipulative

Bro Code 101

If she saves your number as husbae sweetheart and other names for you to
see, she wants to manipulate you

Bro Code 101

Never gang up with your wife to discuss your family members and despise
them, she is not your relative

Bro Code 101

Let her know you can replace her anytime and have the courage to do so,
she will submit

Women are masters of deception. There is no such thing as finding the right
girl. Girls mirror you, they act right when you are worth acting right for. She
just sell a perfect wife for you.

Parents,

Keep your babies away from shoes.

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Let them walk barefoot.

Walking barefoot:

- improves their balance & proprioception.

- they won't delay walking.

- strengthens their joints, feet and legs.

Raise your baby in accordance with nature.

BetterTogether

Your mouth must be never near pussy. You dishonor yourself the moment
you lower your head to be below her. Eating ass is the most degrading thing
a man can do. Pornography was used to program your subconscious mind to
be docile. To make you degrade yourself willingly. There is nothing more
beta, degrading, & submissive than putting your mouth where someone
shit. Imagine she has been a cummin bucket for a certain man and you are
putting your mouth there. You are a disgrace.

Learn the language of command. Masculinity requires you to lead and a

good leader is able to command. Don't say will you marry, rather say I am
going to marry you!!!

Time is very misleading when you are in pain. Endurance is necessary

knowing you have failed to heal through logic time will heal but down spiral
should be avoided. Transmute those negative emotions into breaking the
barriers you feared before. Isolation prepares you for the worse times that
requires logic over emotions.

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Men,

Don't date or marry a woman older than you,

Refuse to be a victim of your scarcity mindset.

Men,

Don't rush to marry,

"You will die single"

These are words they use to scare andmanipulate you.

It is women who are scared of being alone because they need protection.

A man should be comfortable living alone and enjoying his singularity.

Men,

Marry a woman from your tribe,

Or from a tribe that has similar beliefs with your tribe,

Marriages today are chaotic and shambolic because we have discarded our
cultural beliefs,

- and we have adopted retarded western cultures.

Wokeness is shit.

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Men,

Be in charge of conception.

Don't allow your woman to dictate how many babies she wants,

Take control of your sperms because it is you who will shoulder the burden
of responsibility,

NOT her.

Let her cry as much as she wants, but guard your seeds.

Men,

On workplace romance:

Don't date or marry a colleague.

Avoid.

Don't sleep with a colleague,

Respect yourself.

Dating a workmate unmasks your availability & displays your weaknesses.

This will expose you to disrespect, manipulation & terrorism.

THE SINGULARITY OF THE MAN

The MAN was born alone.

He was born without any value.

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When a baby boy is born, it will either send a loud SOS cry or get
strangulated by the birthing process and then it ends up in the incubator to
fight for its life.

For your information: the highest prevalence of prematurity is in boys. More

boys are in the newborn unit than girls.

This is nature's way of informing the boy that it has joined a world that is
cruel for the man.

But,

A man is born alone, without any value.

He therefore must learn to create his value alone.

No one will do it for you. Not even your mother will do it.

It is you against yourself forever.

So, you must learn to live alone and enjoy living in your singularity.

The man of today is running away from his singularity because he has been
conditioned to hate his masculine spirit.

His mother tells him to get married because 'he will die single.'

His peers tell him to get married because 'he will miss out'

The media bombards him with 'sexualized content and pornography.'

Religion tells him 'he will leave his father and mother...'

He, therefore, begins running away from his singularity.

He begins pursuing unimportant goals that don't propel him forward

towards his higher masculine purpose.

He begins thinking that he needs awoman to complete his singularity.

He gets into marriage, gets into it and realizes it is just a boring institution.
His woman begins sounding petty and uninspiring. He regrets and begins
looking for freedom away from his chaotic and dramatic wife to whom he
lost his frame.

A man remaining in the depth of his singularity will competently build

himself to the apex of his actualization.

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A man must firmly root his frame in his singularity. A man who lost his
frame had abandoned his singular existence. He unknowingly or even
knowingly donated his frame to his woman.

Every man must live in his singularity. He must use his singularity to
connect with his masculinity, that is his body, mind and spirit.

It is in his singularity that a man discovers his potential, his talents, his
beliefs and his capacity.

When I mentioned that a man should secretly have a house away from his
wife and children, I was heavily chastised.

But a man must have his private residence.

A man must mysteriously disappear into his private house and stay there for
a while.

In this residence, he should connect with his singularity.

- Cook his food

- Fast

- Semen retention

- Read masculine books

- Meditate

- Journaling and writing

- Cold baths

- Work out (Gym, running, HIITs)

- Walking barefoot

- Sleeping on the floor regularly.

A man's private space is not a room in his family's house.

A man's private residence is his sanctuary. It is not a place for sex and
parties.

A man's private residence is his abode for gathering his thoughts and
sharpening his vision.

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A man's private residence is his space of connecting with the depth of his
singularity.

A man must live in his singularity.

Men,

Every time you see a man recording his relationship on social media or
Youtube,

Just know it is a sad marriage.

The man has lost his frame and he has accepted to embarrass himself to
continue winning her affection.

It will eventually end.

Men,

Women are very loyal followers,

Once you invite her into your relationship,

Make the rules and strictly follow them.

If you refuse to follow your own rules, how do you expect her to respect &
follow you?

Be strict with yourself before faulting her.

Men,

"Marriage is work" is a lie.

Once you find yourself 'working hard' for the relationship to survive,

You are lowering your standards to fulfil her femicentric demands.

Focus on your value, if she doesn't like you, that's her problem.

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We must not subscribe to things that makes us feel good when we are bad.
We must not cheer to words that makes us think we are strong while we are
weak. We must start by being ruthless with ourselves before trying to
impose bounderies on other. When you are weak you attract weak and less
valued women. Most men fail to heal and they remain hurt there by using
emotions unwittingly over logic. Learning from our past experiences boosts
our wisdom.

You are a greater man when you are dangerous and harmful but without
being malicious to those whom you must protect. You need to design best
possible ways for whipping those you love especially women and children
when they are delinquent. States train soldiers and police to keep you in
check as well as safe and they use restrains when necessary thus how
powerful it is over you learn from the state.

Women must come as a byproduct of your purpose. The day you put your
woman above your purpose is the day you lose both. Focus on your growth
young man.

Never let an old flame burn you twice. A leopard will never change its spots.
Be wise enough to accept rejection. It's better to punish than to persue
learn the game and how to rig it. Life rewards those who are brutal with
themselves first.

GENUINE DESIRE

Most guys don't understand what Genuine desire is, they understand the
phrase but still don't grasp the concept

Today I'll explain with a Thread.

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Genuine Desire is when a woman wants to fuck you just because she is
attracted to you

It's that simple

This means that she isn't there because of your money, clothes fame or
whatever external thing you have.
She just wants to fuck you because the thought of fucking you makes her
pussy Wet

This is a powerful concept to grasp because once you do, You will never
waste your time ever again with women who don't show you genuine desire

Most guys got fooled by mainstream media to make them think they need to
wine and dine a woman to make her want to fuck them

Nothing could be further from the truth

A guy would spend money on food, hotel reservations and whatever ideas
he think will make her adore him but some random guy she meant once at
party would fuck her in the toilet without ever having to spend a cent on her

Some boyfriends would be spending a ton of money pampering their girl

and a some dude on her whatsapp ONLY sends her come thru texts

Guys who go through the route of spending are trying to Negotiate Desire

Guys who ask for retweets in order to take a girl out are trying to Negotiate
Desire
And After that they'll spend more money on the Date to further impress her
(Double Negotiation)�🏾‍♂️

Anytime you ask a girl what you gotta do for her to appreciate you YOU ARE
NEGOTIATING DESIRE

And there's a famous phrase in TRP community that states that Genuine
Desire Cannot Be Negotiated

You cannot make a girl truly want to fuck you if she doesn't want to fuck
you

Yes maybe you can have sex with her but the sex will never sterm from her
Genuine Attraction for you

And the sad part is that most guys never had a girl truly want to fuck them
because they always get her by first negotiating desire

A woman will fuck you anywhere, anytime, would travel a thousand miles
and would put up with alot of your bullshit because of Genuine Desire
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A woman can cut off her closet friends go to live with you in another
country, do anal and swallow your babies all because she truly wants you
and there's no room for her to think about anything else

This is something most guys will never experience

She will leave u for the stupidest reasons if she never truly desired you

You need to realise that u can't spend or ask her what is it you need to do
for her to truly want to desire you

You can't do the dishes and 50% of the choirs for her to want to fuck you
like she used to

"Competition anxiety" where she realises that other women still desire you
and that you can go to them at any second can help spark back up Genuine
Desire in your relationship

Either than that there's littel you can do and having a long boring
conversation ISN'T ONE OF OPTIONS

Before you get into a relationship first Seek GENUINE DESIRE

Don't spoil your way into her pussy because the thought of you when she's
alone will Never maker her Wet

She will be swept away by a guy she is truly sexually attracted to even if it
means fucking him behind your back

She will never respect you as a man and your word will never be law

She will give you rules like she doesn't suck dick or she only does certain
things and got others because deep down she doesn't wanna do those
things with you

She makes rules for betas and breaks them for alphas thus is the true
nature of Genuine Desire

Gentlemen I believe the thread is clear

Never settle for less
And never waste your time trying to Negotiate your way into a woman's
pants

Young men, you must do this;

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) Start your transformation with a grand gesture. A grand gesture is
something that increases the perceived value of an action (cal Newport)
Make a promise, set a date and start. Use your emotions - angry, sad,
disgusted. They are your fuel. Use them for strength and intensity.

2) Identify bottlenecks. Write down the major pitfalls that contribute to

most of your problems. Health, finances and relationships - evaluate all
aspects and find out what you are lacking and where. Be ruthless, don't
sugarcoat. This will lay the foundation for your action plan.

3) Shoulder responsibility. Its all your fault. Don't play the blame game,
dont pass the buck. You are where you are now, because of what you have
done so far. Its the brutal truth. Once you accept this, you will find courage
to say 'I fucked up, I'll fix it'. This is important.

4) Define point A and point B. Keep it simple, who am I now and who do I
want to be in 6 months time. Be specific, don't fantasize, be realistic. I want
to be a man who does not need to watch porn, who has lost 20 pounds of
body fat and who has a full time job. Don't be vague.

5) Design a blueprint. Write down the kind of man you want to be. Your
purpose, what values will you embody, what principles do you want to live
with. Focus on this first. Values and principles are what will lay foundations
to build something robust. Discipline comes from here.

6) Instant gratification. This is your biggest enemy. It robs you of your

sharpest sword - your drive to conquer. Forego instant dopamine hits. These
will keep you soft and lazy. The junk food, the porn, the sugar, the alcohol..
cut everything out. You have a mission. Focus.

7) Delayed gratification. This is what you will embrace. Do more of things

that will require you to pay the price of effort now, to give you results later.
It is a grind but you have to crawl through the trenches. Success never
comes if you're always on the bench. Get obsessed.

8) Set goals. SMART goals. Specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, time

bound. I will lose fat is not a goal, it's a wish. So is I will make money. I will
make 5000$ in 30 days by selling a skill to 20 people is a goal. Be smart.
You are here to win. Don't be mediocre.

9) Start small and progressive overload. As with all things start small, pick
one habit, start with minimum weights, one line of code, one page of
writing, one mile a day.. and keep adding to it everyday. Never taking a step
back. Always progressively loading on what you have.

0) Stop watching porn. You need to understand the truth, go read Gary
Wilson's work YBOP. As porn ⬆️ grey matter in the brain ⬇️ It will destroy

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you. I have 7 year olds reaching out because they can't get erect. Its
terrible. Harness and channel your sexual energy. Its powerful

) Kaizen. Continuous improvement. Compounding effect is powerful. %

improvement EVERYDAY is all you need to completely transform your life in
6 months. You will be unrecognisable. Stop fantasizing about the end goal.
Focus on the daily systems to get there. You will not fail.

2) Track and Celebrate. Don't forget to track your progress. You need to see
results to believe in the process. Once you start seeing it, you're hooked. Its
a drug like nothing else. You want dopamine? Get it from here. Life
transformation is a high like nothing else. Enjoy it.

3) Find allies. If you do this alone more than likely you will fail. Find a
brotherhood, find support. We all are too arrogant to admit we need help.
Be humble, find a mentor, a brother, a friend. Find someone with the same
vision. Walk the path together as allies.

4) Build structure. Do not foster chaos. Have structure, have a schedule.

Wake up and sleep at the same time. Plan your day the night before and
optimize for efficiency. You are young, time is your greatest ally. Respect
father time. He stands above all.

5) Document. Have a record of what you go through and what you do. This
is good for introspection and understanding. Write, make a video, journal.
Develop an understanding of your psyche as you face and beat adversity.
You will have more respect for yourself as you look back.

6) Mastery. There is only one way to reach the pinnacle of any hierarchy.
Mastery. It takes time, it takes effort, it takes relentless dedication. You
want to be the best at something? You can not cut corners. There is no
other way. Mastery is supreme. Always strive for mastery.

7) Read and study. Upgrade your intellect and understanding of the world
and it's intricacies. Not everything is as it appears. Read from people who
have unique perspectives. Study people who are ahead of you. This is how
you grow. By absorbing like a sponge.

8) Rest and sleep. Work hard in the day, get a good night's sleep with a
clear conscience. You need to refuel and recuperate before you begin the
next day. Think of it as a save point on a video game. All progress is lost if
you don't do it right. Good sleep is crucial.

9) Mindfulness and meditation. Do this purely for that calmness and

tranquility you feel after a meditation session. Your happiness frequency
will be tuned to perfection. No need to be a monk, just find a simple
technique that works for you and stick with it everyday.

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2) Confront failure. Do not think it's all victories on this journey. You will
fail. Fail often and fail fast. Then learn and adjust to move on again. Failures
are essential. You learn nothing if you don't fail. Do not run away from
them, transcend them.

That's it. Bookmark this thread, follow this for 90 days and see how your life
changes significantly. No need to complicate things. Simplicity is clarity and
clarity drives focused action.

There's just nothing a woman can do that a man can't do better. Including
being a woman. Apparently.

Jordan B Peterson

Your soulmate is someone who will be there when the sun goes down and
your demons appear. He will not run. He will stand by you and tell the
universe that he sees the darkness but he chose you! And when you can't
look on the bright side he will sit with you in the dark!! That person is you
only you

Women disrespect men who are younger than them.

Women look up to men for wisdom, guidance and leadership.

She doesn't see much in a man younger than her.

She is using him as her emotional tampon or a smokescreen for social

validation.

Trust me,

She is receiving genuine love, guidance, leadership and strokes secretly

from another man whom she values.

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10 REASONS NOT TO DATE AN OLDER WOMAN.

First,

Acquaint yourself with 3Fs of dating.

1. SHE IS DISRESPECTFUL

An older woman won't respect you because she sees you as her junior or a
boy not mature enough to guide her. She is probably funding your lifestyle
and this makes her disrespect you even more.

2. SHE IS ANGRY

Since she is older, she will not plug into your masculine energy. This leaves
her empty, deprived and frustrated. What follows is a series of drama and
chaos including alcoholism. She hates her life, she is angry at herself and
therefore she will project this anger towards you.

3. SHE IS REBELLIOUS

An older woman believes she is more mature and experienced than you in
the marriage. She will openly refuse your instructions and order. She will
ridicule your actions and defy you both in public and private.

4. SHE IS MANIPULATIVE

An older woman will manipulate you for her own egocentric needs. She will
trick you to make wrong decisions that fulfil her temporary desires then
when things backfire she will blame you and call you out this will again
make you make further wrong decisions to appease her.

5. SHE SUFFERS SEXUAL NUMBNESS

An older woman has seen more ceiling boards than a painter. Her sensory
areas that excite her sex experience are numb. She will therefore resort to
masturbation or using dildos to jump-start her dead erotic zones.- When
having sex with her, she will be rubbing her clitoral end or use a dildo to
excite her.

6. SHE IS INFERTILE.

An older woman is probably a retired war veteran. She has a history of

abortions or prolonged use of hormonal contraceptives and other
clandestine gynaecological procedures or hormonal therapies. Her chances
of conception are very narrow or even zero.

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7. SHE WILL CHEAT.

An older woman will openly cheat on you and there is nothing you will do.
She is deprived of solid masculine power and therefore she will be looking
for a man older than her to fulfil the deprivation.

8. SHE IS A BABY MAMA

She has a baby and therefore she is looking for a 'father figure' to her child.
She knows that no serious man will accept her with the baby therefore her
surest bet is a younger man she can pocket and manipulate. If you don't see
her baby, probably the baby is with her mother. The one she calls 'my niece'
or 'my nephew'.

9. SHE WILL ISOLATE YOU

An older woman will isolate you from your parents, siblings, relatives and
friends. She will not allow them near you because they will pump sense into
you head.

10. SHE WILL DUMP YOU

Eventually, after sucking every value from you, she will dump you. She will
leave you devastated and shattered. Your life will be on a downward spiral
and consequently, you will be depressed or commit suicide.

Avoid dating a woman who is older than you. Look for a younger woman
and shape her to your preference.

ManDay

My Cheek Slaying Disciples always remember this

There is no woman out there more beautiful than your freedom

Discipline at early age will never make you regret in the future.
Uncontrolled appetite will make you miserable for the rest of your life. To
sacrifice short-term pleasure for long-term stability is how a man prospers.
If‍you’re‍incapable‍of‍sacrificing‍the‍fruitless‍for‍the‍fruitful,‍whether‍by‍
ignorance or indulgence, you will endure a life of struggle that lacks
fulfillment.

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Men,

If your son falls asleep on the sofa,

Wake him up, chase him to go sleep on his bed.

If he repeats, ignore him. Let him sleep there till morning.

Don't allow his mother to carry him to bed.

That's how he gets emasculated & attached to his mother.

Without discipline money and power can easily corrupt you. Intense
discipline, courage and consistency is what makes you a great man. Other
men will respect you and remember women love a who is respected by
other men.

Building your life is your most important duty as a man.

Men are to become, women just are.

Build it and they will come.

Men,

Stop betting and gambling.

Betting is an addictive and destructive habit.

It drains your energy and sucks your income.

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Betting companies will lure you with stories of overnight success to make
you their slaves.

Refuse to be a slave.

Betting is lethal.

People have lost their entire lifetime income because of gambling and
betting.

It will lead towards a net loss.

It's a process which will drain all your money.

You'll think that you'll gain more by investing more.

But the reality is the other way around.

LAW 27: PLAY ON PEOPLE'S NEED TO BELIEVE.

LAW 37: CREATE COMPELLING SPECTACLES.

These companies execute these laws with precision.

When you tell people they have a 0.% chance they can win
KSHS.00,000,000.

And they see other people win.

It is so compeling they believe.

Men,

Detach your son from his mother as early as possible,

Send him to go play with other boys,

Let him learn to fight there,

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Let him learn team-building there,

Let him learn creativity there,

Do not allow him to cling to his mother.

Raise a son!

Masculinity Saturday

Men,

Masturbation destroys your divine masculine energy,

Addiction to masturbation makes you

- Compose nothing

- Create nothing

- Command nothing

You'll become a useless, docile weak man with low self-esteem & zero
masculine drive.

Don't masturbate.

Men,

Date a woman who appreciates the beauty of her natural skin.

A woman with loads of makeup, piercings, rings and tattoos has low self-
esteem,

She is using these ugly cosmetic accessories to distract you from noticing
the baggage in her life.

Men,

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Don't be part of your woman's career,

I see men always going to their women's offices,

"Babe, I have come to check on you. Here is your lunch."

This is stupidity!

She can't tell you but get it from me:

YOU ARE A NUISANCE TO HER.

Men,

Don't commit to a church girl,

Especially if she's above 30 years.

Church girls are diabolical, duplicitous & hypocritical.

When they pray, they cry so loudly because they regret wasting their 20s
kneeling for blowjobs instead of kneeling for God.

Uchiri Kurangarira Uchimusvina MaPimples. Uchizviita Gentle Magic?

Aripi Manje?

Don't judge her by her physical attraction. The devil loves to hide behind
beautiful faces

You must be careful of females who come into your life just to drain you of
your energy.

Women are human beings and they are humanely judged. They express
their emotions and that's what they care about most. The female mind
swings between pain & pleasure, not between right or wrong. Give her the
full range of emotions. And she'll be addicted to you.

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Discipline is consistently doing what you are required to do even if it is
painful and that's being responsible. Men grow due to responsibility.
Women grow due to authority.
As in broder observation.
Important thing to note is this difference in learning behaviour become
more prominant in an open environmental without any external influence
on subjects. The more you are in SaveAman that's how you inwardly
change.

Discipline is doing what you are required to do irregardless of pain.

Suffering is inevitable. But every man has a choice to make. Suffer now or
suffer forever. Most will choose the latter. Be different.

Calm waters never created a skilled sailor. Let the stom strengthen you and
never give up the fight remember...

We wouldn't see the stars �‍if‍there‍was‍no‍darkness...

"Through every dark night, there's a bright day after that

So no matter how hard it get
Stick your chest out, keep your head up, and handle it" 2pac

"I have been neglected at a tender age. I have been despised at my

adolescents. I have been rejected at my manhood development. These were
challenges Just like steel is molded in the furnace. I was forged into being
an ultra-Alpha male by the challenges of life. A man with scars has a lot to
tell than a man with certificates on the wall. Life teaches all men but some
are unwilling to learn"

Interesting Fact:

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Disagreeable men get more promotions.

Be friendly and kind, but don't be a yes man.

Most have discipline & work ethic

Only on their good days

But once a little bit of stress, pain and chaos occurs

They lose their focus & become intoxicated with fear

Understand

Be effective regardless of how you currently feel

You won't wake up "motivated" daily.

Last night,

Real Madrid's striker Karim Mostafa Benzema honoured his IFTAR (broke
Ramadan Fast) 3 minutes before facing Chelsea in a Uefa Champions
League quarter-final match.

He scored 3 goals.

Last year on the 8th of May,

CHELSEA‍FC's‍central‍midfielder‍N'Golo‍Kanté‍was‍named‍‘Man‍of‍The‍
Match’‍during‍their‍UEFA‍Champions‍League‍semi-final clash with Real
Madrid.

This is despite him being on a 2 hour Ramadan fasting.

What does that tell you about fasting?

Fasting raises your energy levels by increasing the production of growth

hormones, mitochondria and ketones.

All these raise your energy levels hence efficiency at work.

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UNLEARN.

Good morning.

BetterTogether

Good morning,

Session 40 of 2022,

4 Bs of a GOOD MORNING.

+ Benediction 📚

+ Bed 🛏️

+ Body 🏋️‍♂️

+ Bath 🚿 COLD.

Consistency over intensity.

Go hard!

"The purpose of knowledge is action, not knowledge."

- Aristotle

Instead of arguing with her using logic,

•‍Tickle‍her‍
•‍Kiss‍her‍on‍the‍forehead‍
•‍Pick‍her‍up,‍swing‍her‍around‍

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•Change‍the‍topic‍to‍what‍you‍want‍to‍talk‍about.‍

She is like a child.

Always focus more about your family and do not involve yourself in your
woman's family matters.

SHE IS NOT YOUR RELATIVE

Men,

Never receive your mother in law's phone call.

If she wants to talk to you, let her do it through her daughter.

When there is a disagreement between you and your woman, don't call your
mother in law, you will regret it.

Call your father or uncle.

Do not be friendly with inlaws.

They will learn your weakness and use it against you.

Be rigid,static and hawk eyed

The day her daughter will turn against you is the day you will know that
your mother in law was not your relative.

Men,

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It is one thing to marry a single mother,

It is tragic to marry a single mother who is the daughter of a single mother,

Why dig your grave so early yet nature has already shown you the red flags?

Don't go that route bro.

Have some respect.

Dear Men

Don't be out here seducing every woman

Resist from having sex with random women

Be a man of high value and standards

Even pure breed dogs Don't mate with mongrels!

Men,

Finally on mothers in law,

If you disagree with your woman and then her mother calls her back

"Come back my daughter"

End that relationship. Her mother is the source of her rudeness & chaos.

A sane mother will send her back & propose solutions.

Your in-law is not your therapist.

If you're constantly expressing your woes...

She is going to lose respect for you.

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Don't force her to play the masculine part.

Find a better place to vent.

Men,

Learn to wear a condom.

This is very important.

If you don't,

You will be infected with STIs or be forced to raise a baby you did not plan
for.

Don't be mesmerized by a bootylicious booty and a warm, moist vagina.

You will pay a heavy price.

Men,

Also,

If your woman gets angry or chaotic because you are wearing a condom,

Dump her right away.

She is a neurotic woman who wants to trap you with a pregnancy.

Refuse to be manipulated.

Wear a condom, save yourself.

WHY MEN DUMP WOMEN AFTER SEX

A lady was asking why most guys dump ladies after they finish having sex
with them.

My answer to her was; that is because men realise that it's only sex some
ladies can offer.

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No man will dump a woman who can offer more than sex and unfortunately
the only thing most women can offer is sex and nothing else.

A man has sexual desires so he will please himself even with a "mad
woman" it doesn't mean he should keep her after that, no way.

However, if the man realises that there is more that even the mad woman
can offer he will shun what society will say and be with her.

This is why most women who get married are in most cases not so special
looking but quite a number of the beautiful ones don't get married.

A man wants more than sex, someone that will make him complete, not a
sex symbol.

Sex is only for at most 30 minutes in a 24 hours day so what can the woman
offer to the man with the remaining 23 hours 30 minutes left in the day?
This offering is what will make a man keep you. Most girls who think they
are beautiful think sex is the only thing a man wants. For many potential
husbands, if you don't have a future and they don't see you to be the kind
that can help them to be great in life, it doesn't matter how beautiful you
are, you will be dumped.

If you depend so much on your beauty so you fail to learn the rudiments of
life and how to make a man better, you become useless to any man and the
fake prophets will tell you that your mother is responsible for your lack of
marriage or woes in marriage. No normal thinking man will allow an
industrious lady to go out of his life whether she is beautiful or not, never!
The not so beautiful are humble to learn in life and humble themselves to
men so you will always see them happily married and displaying their shiny
gold wedding rings to the beautiful ones who are unmarried but are being
played by men like table tennis balls, they hop from one man to another like
grasshoppers.

Sister how long will you be hopping from one man to another?Sex does not
even constitute % of a human's entire life. Learn how to help a man to be
great with the remaining 99% of his life.

My father once called me and told me to sit down next to him. He gave me a
lecture and told me that the greatest men on earth died because of women.
Since then am always struggling to die a great man.

ABUSIVE HUSBANDS DIDN'T FALL FROM THE SKY....

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.
Your 3years old son gets angry whenever you give him a food he doesn't
want and throws it on you, you laugh and say "😃😃 children ehh"

Baby boy will lift his hands and slap you when he wants you to drop him...
All you'd say is "you're beating mummy 😃"

No other child in that area messes with him... And you're calling him "A no-
nonsense boy"

He picks up things from the ground and hits people whenever he's stopped
from doing something... You smile and call him "action boy😃🤾🏿‍♂️�🏽‍♂️"

You expose him to all manner of violence and say "He's a man, man suppose
get mind"

Few years down the line the teenage boy bullies his sisters, commands them
around, shares slaps as souvenirs to anyone that dares to challenge him.
You call him "man of the house"😃

He grew up having his way all through. Now he's a full grown man in the
society. And it's not funny anymore

Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly.

Charity begins at home

It's easier to train a son than to correct a husband.

We could address a lot from the root.

Just saying

If you want to grow as a man,

put yourself in extreme situations.

Extreme sports,hit the gym, mountain climbing, MMABoxing, High risk

situations.

These are also the best places to develop lifelong bonds with other men

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Higher testosterone is the fuel of masculinity. Semen retention is the
factory for replenishing testosterone. Semen retention will not work fully
until the energy travels up your spine and into your crown. Since
masturbation has destroyed your genitalia, the energy cannot travelupward
easily anymore. So try handstands to allow the semen to drain up your spine
and into your brain

Art of solitude is the cheat code for oneitis paralysis and attachment.
Remember attachment is the root of suffering. A man has to go through a
period of time when he is a lone wolf, so that he can grow.

During that period, he will attract like-minded people who will want to
follow him and his teachings.

Never allow your girlfriend to spend a lot of time at her home. His will
ruthlessly chew her. If married I advise you not to let her stay at her
parent's home for more than a week protect your territory.

PARADOX OF DETACHMENT

Teach your son detachment, he will forever be indebted to you for it; he will
be a dependable man, one who carries grace and gratefulness and stability
without corrupting neither himself nor others. That's masculine virtue,
that's composure.

Imbuing in your son this level of recognition and impartiality is an

invaluable endowment that puts him ahead of his peers, while appealing as
a man of superior self-restraint, immovable in his integrity, level-headed in
his judgement.
While everyone is losing his shit, struggling to make sense of one's
emotional disorder, the level-headed man acts as a calm watcher, neither
blinding himself nor allowing disturbing thoughts to contaminate his
awareness. Like the samurai, he's unphased.Alongside his detachment, that
man is now in an advantageous position to cultivate his ruthlessness, so

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that he is not only dependable, but dangerous and threatening enough to
protect his family. Both of which grant him respect and veneration.
If you've suffered the pangs of attachment, you will understand the
undeniable necessity of detachment, for it is man's shielding mechanism,
but more than that, it is his means of preserving his soundness of mind
without falling victim to treachery. And treachery is but one of many
tortures, attachment can be utterly catastrophic, robbing one of sanity and
reason while making a miserable slave of him. You can't sustain this degree
of misery without suffering a serious discontentment.
Don't make the supposition that there isn't a solemn price to be paid for
destroying yourself to this extent; attachment, since it is liable to swiftly
grow severe, turns into an act of dire self-abandonment. Then all you have
is misery, nothing else. I don't wish for my son to live in this kind of
servitude, and neither should you, since our chief aim should be to put our
children in the most advantageous position for self-government and solidity,
which are ultimately to every man's favour. I am also inclined to think that a
detached man is in a better position to cherish really good things without
allowing it to get to his head. In other words, it allows him to brace his
modesty while keeping excesses of self-conceit at bay. What's better than a
modest man who's not incessantly swayed by his pride, who is gracious,
stable and dependable, who is willing to exercise his barbarity to serve his
function, who lays the necessary foundation for prosperity and triumphs?
This is it.

By Art of Purpose on Twitter

A dog had it's leash tied onto a tree for a long time. Cats passed by and the
dog would race the cats but sadly, the dog would immediately stop where
it's leash ended. The cats used to the game and they would walk where they
knew the dog would not reach to. The owner then felt pitiful for its dog and
he unleashed it from the tree. It came to pass that one day a cat was
passing by and the dog started racing the cat !. Remember this time the dog
was free from the leash.Guess what happened !! As the dog was chasing the
cat, it immediately stopped where it used to stop when it had leash. It only
needed one step to catch the cat but due to the programmed mindset ,it
could not move further. This is how oppressed we are in the mind as
Africans. We are free from colonial oppression but not on colonial mindset.
We have every resource needed to create whatever we want in Africa but
due to programmed mindset of colonialism , we wait for the Western
countries to create goods for us then we buy. Physically, like this dog, we
are free but mentally, we are oppressed. Let's remind ourselves that if we
want more, lets be more !!. We can't create the Africa we want with the
same colonial mindset. When we free ourselves from colonial mindset, we

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can easily create the Africa we want. I CAN do it, you CAN do it, we CAN do
it. Remember you are anafriCAN not an afriCAN'T !!.

REPOST

A baby mama is a woman with whom you've had a relationship with, sired
children together but the relationship never materialized or it collapsed.

However, the connection may still be there because of the child or children
despite the relationship not being active.

The baby mama still gets privileges from the father of her child or children
like food, shelter and fees. - and SEX.

They may be in constant communication especially on the welfare of the

childchildren.

A baby mama is culturally a wife to the man who sired the child with her. In
case the woman dies, she will be buried by the father of her child in
accordance with customary rights.

She is therefore a wife, albeit in silence.

In most African societies, when the man dies, you will see baby mama being
recognized and her child given an opportunity to be with the other children.

Therefore, stay away from a baby mama. She is not a single woman, she is
not a widow, she is not divorced. She is someone's wife.

Modernism and fempowerment have misled us to think baby mamas are

illegal and therefore they should sleep with any available man. So,
nowadays baby mamas want the privileges of a wife but the freedom of a
slut because modernism which is adopted from retarded western ideologies
has indoctrinated them and unplugged them from our socio-cultural order.

The loss of understanding on the words 'baby mama' is because of two

reasons

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. Young men nowadays get into relationships without a solid purpose. They
jump into relationships to fulfil their mundane pleasure which is just sex.
While in these infantile relationships, they sire a child and that's where they
learn that they jumped into a furnace.

This is when the man discovers that it was not about sex but about
responsibilities.

The woman realizes the man she involved herself with is just a boy who is
struggling to be a man. She, therefore, becomes bored, chaotic and leaves.

So, they bolt out.

This is the reason we have so many young women with babies but absent
fathers.

When you read my posts, I ask men to avoid rushing into sexual
relationships but to channel their sexual energy into building their value.

Our grandfathers married early because they already had built their wealth
at 20 years old.

2. The other reason is the erosion of our socio-cultural code of order. I

spend most of my weekends in rural areas attending funerals or meeting my
uncles. We have abandoned our cultures. We have adopted alien cultures
and behaviour which is creating confusion and disorder in our African
communities.

'Baby mama' is a softer word for the other wife. She could be the first or the
second or even the third. There is nothing wrong with a woman being the
second or third or even the fourth wife. We have been misled by
gynocentrism and femicentric religion to throw a slur at the other wives
calling them "home wreckers" etc,

This slur always come from the 'legally' accepted wife and her children
whom she is using to manipulate her husband. If you are a child of the 'first'
wife, do not be part of the lynch mob. Don't be used by your mother because
she is egocentric like any other woman yet you don't know how your future
will turn out.

In our African culture which we are all running away from, the father of a
woman's first child is the one who has a right to claim or bury her. If you
marry someone's baby mama, you will be living with her on borrowed time
and frame. When your marriage with her goes bad, she will always go to her
firstborn's home for burial.

We are hiding from our culture because our culture is strict, it lays clear
framework to protect the family from disintegration.

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We run away from our culture, - by running away from the village to go to
the city where there is no cultural order but debauchery and uncouth life of
indiscriminate sex, promiscuity, alcohol, incest and other uncouth
behaviours.

Therefore, when I write that a baby mama is still someone's wife, take it
seriously.

The one who got a child with an irresponsible campus student or after a
night out of drinking, is still described as 'unmarried' and she must go back
to her parents, seek forgiveness and let her child grow with its
grandparents and cousins. Any man who wants to marry her, should go to
her parents, and pick her from there, without her child. The child remains
the custody of its grandparents supported by its mother.

If the woman keeps clinging on her child whom she sired with an
irresponsible man, then she is not fit for marriage and is considered
rebellious for marriage. Because for such a woman, she is considered to
have sold her purity and therefore for her to be considered 'pure' for
marriage, she must depart from her past by releasing her child to its
grandparents and uncles.

I agree times have changed and these cultural frames appear primitive but
also divorce rates, fatherlessness and single motherhood are on the steep
rise.

Our cultures are not stupid.

Never disrespect a man in public. Always avoid it unless it is the only option.
A man's respect is what he earns through hard work and good deeds. Do not
attack it. Tommorow you might need the same man

Using the word trauma is considered being cool.

Yet it is nothing buta sign of weakness.

90% of the people you will see claiming to be traumatized are just seeking
attention and sympathy.

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NO MAN should eat noodles, Weetabix, pasteurized milk and juices.

A MAN should eat foods that have come directly from the soil or from an
animal. - Not foods from a factory.

Eat meat, eggs, arrowroots, sweet potatoes, pumpkins etc.

Take care of your testosterone.

ManDay

Never allow your impulses to control you.

If‍you’re‍impulsive,‍you’re‍likely‍to‍be‍a‍slave‍to‍pleasure‍and‍if‍you’re a
slave to pleasure then women will take you for an absolute ride.

Baby boys should be unplugged from their mothers as early as one year.

Resist the attempt to attach them to their mothers.

Atyear, they should be sleeping in their bedding and learning how to be self-
reliant.

Also,

Generally, about babies, toilet training should be naturally oriented.

Don't put them on potties.

Spread a newspaper on the floor and direct them to poop while squatting.

You will notice that when they squat, they poop comfortably within a
minute but when they sit on potties, they can sit there for 5 minutes trying
to empty their bowels.

Potties are bad for children.

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- and children hate them just the way they hate shoes.

Dira rizare shamwari

BetterTogether

You say depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain

But if someone came to your house every day, put a gun to your head, and
forced you to do what's good for you,

Your depression would be gone in a week.

You don't have a chemical problem - you have a discipline problem

Never rely on anyone other than yourself.

Even if they don't have ill intentions, people will always prioritize
themselves over you

Your needs are always secondary to their own, even if that person really
cares about you

You are the only person on Earth you can 00% depend on

The‍easiest‍way‍to‍get‍revenge‍on‍someone‍who’s‍trying‍to‍get‍on‍your‍
nerves is to ignore them.

No insults, no witty comebacks, nothing.

Just‍pretend‍they‍don’t‍exist.

Drives them crazy

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As‍a‍man,‍if‍you‍can’t‍control‍your‍sexual‍urges,‍you‍won’t‍be‍able‍to‍control‍
much else in your life.

Learn the practice of semen retention, put yourself alongside the greats of
history

A feminine woman always seeks the validation of her man.

Even if she knows the solutions for her problems, she wants her man to
listen and validate her.

CLASSIC

A 70 year old retired Military officerhad one hobby - he loved to fish.

He was sitting in his boat the other day when he heard a voice say, 'Pick me
up.' he looked around and couldn't see anyone.

He thought he was dreaming when he heard the voice say again, ''Pick me
up. '

He looked in the water and there, floating on the top, was a frog.

The retd officer said, 'Are you talking to me?'

The frog said, 'Yes, I'm talking to you. Pick me up, then kiss me; and I'll turn
into the most beautiful woman you have ever seen. I'll make sure that all
your friends are envious and jealous, because I will be your bride!'

The retired offr looked at the frog for a short time, reached over, picked it
up carefully and placed it in his shirt pocket.

The frog said, 'What, are you nuts? Didn't you hear what I said?'
I said, 'Kiss me, and I will be your beautiful bride.'

He opened his pocket, looked at the frog and said,

'Nah. I'd rather like have a talking frog than a nagging wife..

With age - comes wisdom!

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A woman will keep trying to change you, and the more you can resist and
refrain from caving in, the longer she will stick around; it's an absurd mind
fuck, but it's true. The moment she can reshape you to her liking, you no
longer hold power over her. And isn't your task to assume the dominant
position – if she can adapt your temperament to her liking, you're clearly
not dominant in her eyes. Because it was never your duty to suit her ideals,
and that's what she likes about you. Mantain your frame

If you want to grow as a man...

Learn how to become non-reactive.

Men,

Do not eat soy and soya.

Protect your testosterone.

Unless you want to have:

-Manboobs
- Big buttocks,
- Low libido
- Feminine voice

- Effeminate behaviours eg anger, drama and chaos

Men,

If you work in the corporate environment,

Don't be part of female groups.

Don't gossip with female colleagues in the office or on Whatsapp. She will
betray you.

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Avoid sexual conversations or jokes.

Work. Finish. Go home.

Respect yourself.

Men,

Women get depressed because they lost the value of their self-worth.

Men get depressed because they don't value their self-worth.

Go figure.

Your son must be prepared to fight in this world. Everything in a man's life
is a test or struggle. It's inherent competition and the burden of
performance. There is no escaping. The only thing we get without effort is
our mother's love. Even your mother can give up on you if it goes worse.

Men,

Don't pick women at the bar,

Don't sleep with random women you meet at the bar.

Your house is not a brothel.

Respect your life.

Respect yourself.

Men,

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Women are the gatekeepers of sex,

Therefore they use sex as a tool to manipulate & conquer you.

Show her that your priority is to focus on your purpose, not sex.

Women respect and adore men who are self-aware of their values.

Men,

The rising number of single mothers in Africa is due to the entry of uncouth
ideology into our culture.

Women don't respect the sanctity of matrimonial institutions.

Men don't respect themselves. Alcoholics, promiscuous, corrupt &

irresponsible.

Men,

Whatsapp is a crime scene.

Avoid Whatsapp chats with her.

Avoid DM chats.

Avoid text chats.

Romantic chats should be oral. - Face to face.

Men,

DO NOT lick her vagina!

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RESPECT YOUR FRAME.

- The end -

Men,

A man who puts his sexual urges under control has solved 80% of his
problems.

Become this man.

Men,

DO NOT send fare.

GUARD YOUR FRAME.

- The End -

How are you people?

As we are starting a new month you know that there are some things you
don't need in your life, make a choice to adopt just one habit that can make
your life better.

You can change your time of sleeping and waking up.

You can decide to save a dollar every day or $5 every week.
You can decide to invest in your time by doing product things.
You can decide to help others with your talent.

There is a lot we need to change but as we all know a journey of thousand

miles starts with a single step.

Start a business and employ your wife.

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Pay her a salary and allowances like the rest.

No joint ownership.

No joint bank account.

Ignore and perish.

ManDay

Never let a person show you that they don't want you twice have some self-
respect and walk away

Savemen

Female Psychology:

"He has set clear boundaries with me. I've seen him throw people out of his
life; even his once closest friends."

"I must behave carefully and respect him or he will throw me out too"

Hate and Resentment has ZERO upside.

If your brother gets a major W, celebrate and get inspired

If your friend starts a business, pay full price & spread the word.

If your colleague gets in shape, make him your gym partner.

Bless that which you want.

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Confidence Hack:

Dress well, even when you are alone.

Treat yourself with the respect you deserve.

The Biggest Simp Mistakes Men make:

•‍Dropping‍everything‍for‍her‍when‍she‍calls
•‍Staying‍friends‍after‍being‍rejected
•‍Being‍too‍afraid‍to‍flirt‍with‍her
•‍Never‍saying‍No‍to‍her
•‍Paying‍for‍her‍bills

What did I miss? Best replies get retweeted.

Unpopular opinion:

No matter what you decide to do,

no matter where you decide to go...

If a girl truly loves you, she will come along.

Don't give up your dreams for any girl.

Happy Relationships 0:

- Reward good behavior.

- Punish bad behavior.

If she has a temper tantrum, ignore her until she apologizes.

If she does things that please you, don't be afraid to give her validation.

You are the prize, and you are in control.

Act accordingly.

Men will always be judged by their actions and success.

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No one gives a fuck if you're a lonely loser.

No one cares that you feel unfairly treated.

No one loves you "for who you are".

Maybe your mom does.

Men need to work for their value.

Accept this fact and you will prosper.

How to speak with confidence:

•‍Slow‍yourself‍down
•‍Cut‍out‍nervous‍laughter
•‍Eliminate‍"umm"s‍and‍"uhh"s
•‍Really‍believe‍what‍you're‍saying
•‍Breathe‍into‍your‍gut‍to‍deepen‍your‍voice

How you speak matters more than what you say.

Remember this and apply accordingly.

If you want to grow as a man...

Choose long-term growth over short-term pleasure.

Approaching Girls Hack:

After you've asked her what her name is...

Pause to see if she asks your name back.

If she does, you've caught her interest.

If not, she probably doesn't care about you.

Remember this and apply accordingly.

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Alpha Male Mindset:

•‍I‍lead‍a‍fulfilling,‍exciting‍life‍all‍by‍myself
•‍If‍she‍wants‍in,‍she‍has‍to‍fit‍the‍mold
•‍I‍do‍as‍I‍please‍- with or without her
•‍I‍don't‍care‍if‍she‍decides to leave
•‍Getting‍girls‍is‍not‍my‍priority

Internalize these thoughts

Men,

Your woman should never wake up and leave you on the bed,

Wake up earlier than her.

Even if you were in a night shift, wake up, do something then come back
later.

Be the first to seize the day, - carpe diem!

Show leadership all through.

The Biggest Simp Mistakes Men make:

•‍Not‍prioritize‍himself‍over‍her
•‍Always‍available‍for‍her
•‍Fall‍into‍her‍frame
•‍Make‍her‍priority‍to‍his‍happiness
•‍let her dominant the relationship

Dating Hack:

Make yourself more exclusive.

Never let a girl take you for granted.

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Never‍trust‍a‍man‍who‍is‍thirsty‍for‍women‍and‍doesn’t‍know‍how‍to‍deal‍
with them.

Someone who is dying of thirst, thinks only of water and would betray
everything for water.

Men,

If she has been in several unsuccessful relationships,

- some have produced children from different men.

What makes you think your relationship with her will be successful?

You are not Jesus.

Don't be a white knight!

Men,

A high-value conscious man does not raise another man's child.

- and women know this. That's why they cling to orbiters and white knights.

White knights are low hanging fruits who eat bread crumbs.

They can't hunt their prey.

Don't be like them.

Men,

Stay away from another man's baby mama.

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- She is not single

- She is not widowed

- She is not divorced

- She is someone's wife.

Their disagreement is always cosmetic.

They will always have sex behind your back.

Men,

Before committing,

Do a thorough background check.

If her elder sister is still single or divorced or in a chaotic marriage,

or,her sisters jump from one marriage to the next,

Bro, just fold your paraphernalia and focus on your life.

She will always complain about her baby daddy how bad he treats her but
trust me he is the man he love most in her life.

She can tell you that they ain't talking anymore but they talk about the baby
and have sex.

Don't raise another men's sperm cells.

Let the game start 0-0

A stepson won't easily submit to a man's rule that he knows isn't his
biological father.

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If he knows his biological father, it's even more risky.

The thought of him being tamed by a foreign man bewilds him.

He turns dangerous.

Don't cling to a single motherbecause of "love". There's no such thing as

Love, love is an illusion and mirage. That kid will never be yours you know it
the government knows it.

Even Lions don't raise other lion's cubs,they rather kill them to prevent
future insurrection.

You are not Jesus to save or change an already damaged women.

Buy news papers in the morning.

This tweet ain't a bout printed news papers.

If you knew the sexual history of teenage girls you see around in cities.

You will start to hate women.

Be aware of a woman's past before you marry her.

Do not wife up hoes.

Don’t‍act‍like‍a‍hero‍trying‍to‍save‍everyone.‍You‍will‍regret‍saving‍a‍retired‍
war veteran.

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Don't belong to those calibre of women who say men are dogs because they
lacked that love of a father.
Don't be that man who devalues himself because he sees women are better
than men.
My fellow men who have no father wake up build your frame.
Concentrate on your life and connect with your Father.

Women tend to demonise fathers to their sons, especially when they have a
bad marriage.

Always‍remember,‍a‍bad‍husband‍doesn’t‍make‍a‍bad‍father.‍Your‍mother‍is‍
just projecting her emotions and ruining your relationship with your father.

She's not different from her sister

They grew in a toxic environment that has polarized their feminine poles

Save yourself in time

It is important to give it time and thorough due diligence before making a

decision on commitment on relationships.

People are generally on their best behaviour before revealing their dark
secrets and behaviours.

Scrutinize her family.

Make sure you know her elder sister,brother and generally the whole family.

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Don't marry chaotic women,thots and cursed families.
Your marriage will be miserable with lots of regrets.
Don't marry her beauty marry value.

A thorough background check is KEY before commiting.Check her family

background, her behavior,her body count, her relationship with her dad
etc.Never ignore her past.A good past is an indicator of a fruitful
future.Dont ignore her pastbad behavior which is likely to reoccur.

Men,

When the sperm leaves your urethral meatus into the vaginal orifice,

You lose control of it.

That sperm becomes the property of the Government.

Be strict with your sperm, don't give it out carelessly.

Don't just plant your seed carelessly.

Plant your seed in an already prepared land, it will thrive and wither
healthily.

This post is not about farming.

Think.

Men,

Then when you start living together,

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Set your boundaries.

Don't do feminine house duties in the name of 'romance',

You are setting up yourself for failure.

No sharing duties. Let her do her role (nurturing), while you do your role
(building).

Men,

Never allow your woman to call you 'Baby' or 'Bae',

She either calls you by your name or 'Daddy',

She is your firstborn daughter. Not your mother.

We talked about this on

THE PARADOX OF MOTHERS

The writer has been summoned at many points in life for questioning
emotional narratives that has been socially engineered to disenfranchise
men. In our unmindfulness we miss everything advantegeous in life with an
intention of keeping the lies that has been repeatedly said to condition
ourselves from logical reasoning. These preconditions remain fixated in our
lives and mostly is inescapable. The later you realise the truth you will be
unable to unknot yourself from the adverse consequences. And if truth is to
be told most of us we have been conditioned to protect our mothers and
jealously guard their interests and its a misapprehension that perpetuate
itself, simultaneously blinding men the need for manning up and result in
masculine deficiency.

Most men have been socially conditioned not to question the decisions of
their mothers as they are told mothers have avenging spirits which haunts
them if they deny or question their order which is preposterous. We are
witnessing the boom of soy and mama's boys who can't make decisions on
their own but precisely wait for their mothers to make masculine decisions
for themselves. Thusdelirious, in the short run with inimical results in the

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long run. It is wise to note that most mothers use the words "I will tell my
relatives" once you question their decisions concerning your life thus
manipulative. Don't be intimidated Infact you have to wean off yourself her
and learn masculinity from fellow men. It is not the duty of your mother to
man you up, it is from history that women are jealous lazy and manipulators
if not tamed they genetically transfer it to you, as a man the spirit of
camaraderieship and solitude must strike a balance which is powerful men
while toxic for females.

I vividly remember our old days when we were forced to fight over the
"Zamhu ramai vako iri". That was a social configuration for men to fight for
everything that provokes his mother, even nowadays any insult involving
mothers will trigger a bloody violence. Such beliefs and shenanigans have
given mothers an extra-bullet to shoot you when conformity is not met. The
writer has nothing bad against mothers because they endured labor pain to
bring us on the earth, however it is not their duty to dictate their the path of
life since life is full of adventurous endeavors which requires confrontation
more than nurturing. The results of nurturing ain't good for men but a
disaster that's why men are committing suicide Nowadays because they are
not encouraged to confront the ugly side of the world with devilish heart
but with warmth and kindness.

The love of a mother is not always unconditional. It leads to a share of pain.

It leaves leaves a long lasting effects if untamed. Mostly scientific analysis
have argued that oxytocin slowly released created a bond. The truth is
mostly role of the father is is often glossed over or under appreciated as
mostly mothers manipulate. The biblical story of Jacob and Esau says a lot
about about female deceptive nature. It must not be a man's business to get
a life compass from the mother definitely he will be bound to dismalness.
However, it must be noted that in most cases mothers nurtures us in to
what we want to be unlike fathers they are able to beat the beast inside a
man and prove who he can be. That why mostly fathers mostly play outdoor
games with little kids only that say a lot about nature's narrative.
The results of being through the cunning and their deceptive nurture are
derilious. It creates an insecure attachment. In a relationship where a male
child hasn't paid a visit to hell or who hasn't exhausted his emotions are
aggressive and hostile in nature. Thus, they have learned how to over-
exaggerate reactions to certain situations. He constantly lose control and
react with anger since they can't transmute it. His ability to handle
emotions is deficient.

Most mothers through manipulative nature they see their sons as an

investment and personal property. This toxic relationship has serious
implications in emotional development in their psychological maturity and
making independent decisions. Consequently, difficulties in establishing a
relationship with others.

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It is common that most mothers are prepared to thwart off any attempt by
her son to have his own space and independent from her as they feel
neglected and insecure of the unknown. Hitherto, in later stage most boys
boycott of themselves in the sense of the belief of protecting their mothers.

It is important, for men not to seek therapy help instead they should be
ready to carry a load of suffering without being nurtured, in this capacity
denial is immensely needed hence emotional equilibrium will be realistic.
The adults males who have suffered manipulative mothers require social
reconfiguration from the chalice they fed before passing it to their son.

General Luverty is a men's rights activist. Founder of themovement,

journalist, poetic writer, public speaker and a correctional officer based in
Murehwa. He can be contacted on 077243682 and can also be contacted on
[email protected]

If someone disrespects you...

Adress it immediately.
Don't let anyone walk over you.

Never tolerate disrespect

If you're below 30, put your head down and focus on building yourself. Not
chasing women. They will come when you have your life together. If you
chase the later there is a moment in life an Alpha will be chowing your wife
for cheap things.

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Grind on yourself before wanting a woman. A woman drains your wealth.
Wealth is health. The more you empower your pockets, the more you enrich
your life. A poor man always waits for crumbs falling from a rich man's
table. Don't be that man.

SELF POLLINATION is not a hereditary condition.

No one inherits MASTURBATION from his father.

Masturbation is a choice you make to fulfil your useless sexual urges.

Masturbation destroys your body, mind and soul.

Avoid SELF POLLINATION. Leave it to flowers.

BetterTogether

Men,

Life is not getting harder,

It is men who are getting softer.

Be tougher.

-Be tough and choose progress over procrastination.

-Be tough and make discipline your closest friend

-Be tough and never let go of your self-worth.

-Be tough and make it a point to never accept disrespect from anybody.

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Be tough! Be tough!! Be tough!!!

Men,
Your forefathers foughta tough fight fullof misery and they won.

You are not supposedto lower your effortcontinue cause men are always on
War.

Men,

This is a reminder:

You are one payslip away from poverty.

Don't be a career employee.

Don't dilly-dally.

Diversify your portfolio.

Men,

Continue saving your money in a SACCO.

Then turn your savings into investment.

Build a solid safety net for your future.

Don't stop.

Don't be distracted.

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Instead of betting or buying unnecessary things or sending money to
women,

Save that money!

Men,

No one should force you to pay bride price.

The modern dating market is rotten, don't rush to pay.

Why rush to pay for someone who has been giving herself free to every Dog,
Dick & Dickson?

Bride price goes with purity.

Zero purity = Zero price.

Men,

- then when you decide to pay the bride price,

Pay in instalments.

First, confirm if she is fertile.

Pay the first instalment after she becomes a mother to your child.

Pay the other instalments after every 3 years.

Don't be nice to people!

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Men,

Before you commit to marriage,

Date her for at least 2 years.

Learn her manners and character.

Don't rush.

Otherwise, you may end up living with a demon for the rest of your awful
life.

Men get up from your comfort zone mix sand and ballast.
Earn your 500 or 600 go home buy yourself or family what you need.
Don't be a parasite or luggage to your parents or relatives.
You are a man work extra hard day in day out.

THE PARADOX OF TRUST

Desire Murire

https:wa.me+263783747936

" Trust is luxury most can't afford. Betrayal is an act that can't be ignored.
Death may be the result of ignoring the two "

RESPECT THE JUX MOVIE 2022

It is widely said and known that the person you trust the most can hurt you
the most. Despite this statement being relevant to the modern day, a lot of
men seem not to know what it means and why it can be of value to know
why the person you trust the most can hurt you the most.

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Trust is something which comes with a lot of investment be it in deals, love
relationships, business and other types of relationship setups. Like respect,
trust is earned. However, in love relationships it has not proved to be the
scenario anymore.

Since the mainstream media have replaced fathers and older men in the
society in being the father figure of the young men ( married and unmarried
), a lot of men have been conditioned in a situation where they believe
everything the media say about women to the extent of not asking the
moral sanity of such acts by the social media. Mainstream media act as the
legitimate voice of reason among men and women who are reluctant to
learn and do independent researches as to why the world is in the situation
it is now something which makes the masses to consume anything an
information media offers without even authenticate the truth and originality
of the information. This made the men to believe lies by the system and
mainstream media that " women are innocent beings " , " men and women
are gender equal ", " women are victims and men are perpetrators ". These
statements made a lot of men to assume innocence wherever he see himself
staring at a woman. Where innocence is assumed, trust is guaranteed.

In so doing, a lot of men enter in relationships giving trust to a woman he

barely knows all based on the assumption that women are innocent and
victims. This make a man love a woman in a sympathetic way which makes
him give her trust without her earning it. When trust is given, then the
mindset of risk is then totally removed giving a room for a man to do
anything within his means to express what he call love to the woman in
question. This is where a lot of men are perishing as far as love relationships
is concerned.

While it is acknowledged that some degree of trust might be required in an

relationship setup to be functional, trusting a person outrightly without
them earning the trust has been proven to be dangerous to one's health.
After trusting without a woman earning it, a lot of many invest their time,
resources and feelings all in the name of love. Where betrayal comes in the
name of cheating or rejection, a lot of men are seen stuck in denial that
such a thing wouldn't happen to them something which leaves them
extremely hurt and got stuck in the ' sunk cost fallacy effect '.A man who
think how impossible it is for him to deserve that given the investment
injected in the relationship. Statements like " I trusted her with all my heart
" , " I gave her my everything I had thinking she loved me " , " I sacrificed a
lot of things to make her happy " and " I didn't know she was pretending all
along ". All these statements manifests a man's failure to make a woman
earn trust first something which makes him do the unthinkable in the event
that trust is betrayed.

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Unlike in gangsterism where the one who breaks trust is the one who suffer
the consequences and eventually die mostly, in relationships it that person
who invest trust and who trust the other the most who suffer the
consequences and eventually die. Many young men and married men have
committed suicides, suffered severe depression and stress as a result of
giving trust, the luxury many don't afford.

When one think of all he did in the name of love, the suicidal thoughts
becomes inevitable where trust was given freely without the other person
earning it.When one gives trust, hopes and expectations becomes high and
when this happens the person also invest high where he expect higher ROI (
Return On Investment ), but this is quite misleading because there is no
ROI in love relationships mostly to the person who invest. No guarantees.
In this regard, trust will make a man take a love relationship as his life
purpose when the relationship ends with him being on the disadvantage, his
reason for living ceases to exist with immediate effect. This is where one
considers it conducive to take his own life in the way of suicide. To him, his
life on earth will be empty and hollow. When the luxury of trust is given to
those who can't afford it and the betrayal become the recipe of death to
those who give it ( trust ).

Men should accept the harsh reality that women are both good and evil.
Trust must be given where one must earn it not given on the pretext of
gender by virtue of one becoming a woman. 90 % of what mainstream
media say about men and women isfar divorced from reality, men should be
aware of that. One must not believe what the mainstream media say at face
value. Men should learn to do a background check on a woman's history,
being aware of the redflags, shit testing and be at peace that a woman is
capable of doing anything either in good way or evil way.

LEARN OR PERISH

Men,

When going for dowry negotiations,

DO NOT APPEAR THERE.

You will be deliberately humiliated.

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Send your father, uncles or cousins.

Don't go there with your 'wokeness', drunk friends and a fleet of Subaru
cars.

That's stupidity and disrespect.

Men,

Keep your women away from hormonal contraceptives.

They mess her physiological clockwork leading to a myriad of hormonal

complications.

Use a condom, follow her cycle, or she can use an IUD.

Value your woman's body too. - but she shouldn't be FAT.

Men,

Do not belittle or demean a man who picked you when you were deep in the
pits.

Respect that man.

Even if you disagree in the future, remain respectful.

Remember he pulled you out of the rock bottom when everyone else ran
away from you.

Men,

- also,

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if you meet a man who looks poor or has a low-life job, or torn shoes, don't
despise him.

Don't abuse him or mock him or make fun of his indigence. - That's childish.

A man should respect another man because you don't know his story.

Men,

Do not take relationship advice from women. You will burn your fingers.

Whether she is a 'professional marriage counsellor' or an 'experienced wife.'

A gazelle does not teach a lion how, when, why and where to hunt.

WOMEN

•no‍woman‍is‍irreplaceable
•don't‍get‍married‍in‍your‍20s
•women‍aren't‍as‍innocent‍as‍we're‍made‍to‍believe
•they're hypergamous by nature
•they‍don't‍really‍mature,‍they‍just‍get‍old
•they‍really‍respond‍to‍dominance‍over‍being‍understanding
•she'll‍cheat

MONEY

•live‍within‍your‍means
•invest‍more‍(be‍willing‍to‍risk)
•multiple‍sources‍of‍income>>>multiple‍women
•dont‍be‍embarrassed‍about‍a‍jobhustle
•don't‍lend‍money‍to‍friends‍(quickest‍way‍to‍end‍a‍relationship)

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EDUCATION

•majority‍of‍degrees‍are‍irrelevant
•googleyoutube‍offer‍just‍as‍much‍knowledge‍as‍colleges
•theyre‍few‍skilled‍people‍who‍are‍broke‍compared to graduates
•always‍be‍willing‍to‍learn‍more
•dont‍judge‍information‍based‍on‍credentialism‍only

RELATIONSHIPS

•majority‍of‍your‍friends‍won't‍be‍your‍friends‍by‍your‍30s
•cherish‍your‍parentsguardians‍&‍bond‍with‍your‍siblings
•dont‍inherit‍enemies
•make‍connections,‍it‍will‍take‍you‍far
•try‍to‍learn‍as‍much‍from‍those‍older‍than‍you‍(they've‍been‍there‍before)

HEALTH

•working‍out‍isn't‍a‍hobby‍it's‍a‍must
•dont‍get‍addicted‍to‍alcohol,‍smoking‍or‍any‍other‍kind‍of‍drug
•dont‍be‍sexually reckless, you'll di3
•social‍media‍isn't‍a‍real‍place‍it'll‍depress‍you

RELIGION

•your‍ancestors‍aren't‍demons
•faith‍without‍works‍doesn't‍cut‍it
•dont‍be‍religious‍intolerant
•never‍place‍any‍religious‍figure‍above‍your‍very‍own‍parents
•be‍a‍believer but also ask questions don't be a puppet

POLITICAL

•dont‍complain‍if‍you‍don't‍vote
•expect‍more‍from‍you‍than‍politicians
•politics‍affects‍every‍aspect‍of‍your‍life

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•be‍also‍well‍versed‍in‍international‍relations

That is just but a summary of what I've learned, not to say it's all set in
stone (you can agree or disagree) & at the same time not to imply that's all
there is to life. Anyways take whatever lessons you can from this now 29
year old. Happy birthday to myself

THE PARADOX OF SOLITUDE

The realisation that you are not the voice in your head, but the observer is
seismic and transformative, the start of an incredible journey of discovery,
without any end. This voice connects the soul the mind and the universe to
give some answers to problems of life. This can only be realized when one
chooses solitude over company of anyone.

Jesus Christ himself when he was about to start his mission he chose
solitude and spend forty days and forty nights alone. This is not about
biblical stories even the writer himself after being disappointed by once his
confidante he chose solitude for about sixty two days that is when he
discovered some of the problems which he target to answer using
paradoxes. Most men fear to be alone thinking that being alone is
loneliness. However, once you master the courage of accepting that you
started the course of life being alone and unique without any company you
will appreciate the beauty of the universe and how the universe can help
you to answer some of the unresolved questions you may have in your
subconscious.

Learning to be alone may be initially scary, but once mastered, it serves as

the cornerstone for personal development. Being alone allows you to think
for yourself. You may be able to make better choices and decisions about
who you are and what you want without outside influence. Solitude tames
away peer pressure among other groupie delinquencies.

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Being alone allows you to drop your social guard, thus giving you the
freedom to be introspective, to think for yourself. You are able to make
better choices and decisions about who you are and what you want without
outside influence. Most men of the day have failed to leave alone they fear
the unknown unfortunately they really don't know association paralyze the
soul and it disconnect them from their dreams and aspirations.

Once you learn to be comfortable with yourself, you will never feel lonely in
life. If you want to gain wisdom, learn to spend time alone. Reflect,
contemplate, and introspect and you will come out as a winner every time.
Most men have been stuck into abusive relationships and marriages
because they cannot see their potential and they have already surrendered
their purpose of life because they fear solitude. Nothing great was achieved
without sacrifice. There is absolute ataraxis in seclusion.

If you cannot imagine yourself and training yourself living alone there is a
greater lesson that is coming for you. Most people suffer depression anxiety
and mental disorders not because they have been left but because they
have never trained themselves to be alone. Solitude transcend to spiritual
growth too. If you can not enjoy the company of yourself then ask yourself,
who will enjoy your company?

Dear men, there is nothing called soulmate. If you only find yourself when
you find a woman, not only are you weak and effeminate, but your
happiness will always be dependent on her fleeting faithfulness to you. You
have an unhealthy attachment because she comfortably fills the void of
inadequacy. This can be only be minimized once you train yourself to live a a
lone warrior. Or else depression is coming for you.

You were born alone and you will die a alone. It's hogwash and fallacy to
follow an old saying that says he who finds a wife finds happiness you are
being misled into shooting yourself direct on the feet. The void of feeling
inadequacy without a woman is not filled for long, if you lack self-reliance
and integrity, you are bound to brush with women’s‍iniquity‍because‍such‍a‍
dependency is not her burden to bear, but yours. You should be the one who
consoles‍her,‍not‍vice‍versa.‍Mutual‍emotional‍support‍doesn’t‍work,‍your‍
emotional‍vulnerability‍is‍not‍strength‍in‍her‍eyes,‍it’s‍frailty.‍She‍seeks‍in
you‍what‍she‍lacks,‍if‍she‍doesn’t‍find‍it,‍she‍will‍resent‍you‍in‍contempt.‍It‍
is not your role to be emotional, it is a feminine trait which
needsextermination.

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If a woman know that you cannot sail without her or you are emotionally or
you have banked on her she will take that advantage to manipulate you and
your happiness and life will be hanged on intimacy with her. Women want a
strong hand, not a submissive one. Why would they seek submission from
men?‍It’s‍not‍our‍duty‍to‍follow‍her‍lead,‍nor‍her duty to listen to our
problems. A man resolves his own problems and hers aswell, he carries both
his burden and hers. And these problems most of the time requires solitude
and unrelenting spirit which can only be achieved when you are alone.

Juzi has become a hit and emotional song which most ghetto efiminate
youths played and some Simps however such type of music destroys the
spirit of manhood. I would rather go for the likes of handichina basa newe
they make sense and once a women knows that you are not afraid of being
alone‍definitely‍she‍will‍submit.‍Most‍‘love’‍songs‍written‍nowadays‍are‍
demonstrations of effeminacy from the side of man, he sings about his
uncontrollable yearning, desperation, approval and all the other despicable
feeings that women will never resolve for him. Cries of pity.

Truthfully, women will pretend to care and sympathize with weakness, but
they will still act in contradiction to their seeming pity because her words
are rarely in accordance to her actions. Only finding peace in solace and
constantly stop flirting with her and taking time without communicating
with her makes her aware that your life is not centered on anyone but you
alone.

Whenever you feel something goes wrong you need to go back to the
drawing board. Configuring and reconfiguration of the mind soul and heart
and this can only be realized in solitude. It offers the chance of recharging
yourself through introspection. Even an enemy will find it difficult to attack
you when you have the strength of working alone. Big names have been
betrayed by their companions and camaraderie while those who always
chose solitude have survived attack since they are always unpredictable.

THE PARADOX OF SOLITARY CONFINEMENT

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SATURDAY 0 JULY 202

The writer's pen is limited to vomit its ink when it comes to political
matters. However, the Redpill and politics are stubborn twins that are
intertwined. The events that have unfolded in South Africa this week during
the trial and incarceration of its former leader Jacob Zuma is not only
embarrassing but, heart wretching especially for some of us who have
strong passion for Pan-Africanism. Zuma was incarcerated at the age of 2
for ten year and is not a stranger to political gimmicks.

Whether he is wrong or right my grandfather always told me that; "kutonga

uroi" literally translating once you are on the helm you can't rule without
making mistakes. Msholozi has been nabbed for what is regarded as
constitutional delinquency but the questions are; Jacob Zuma was being
ignored when he requested that Reymond Zondo recusal himself because he
felt his past friendship with him might compromise everything that's why he
didn't show up at Zondo commission.Were his submissions
unconstitutional? Secondly, was it just for Zuma to be tried without being
heard? Lastly, there is a legal principle which is food for thought "nemo
judex in causa sua maxim": translating, no one should be judge in his own
cause. In the interest of self convictionPresident Zuma chose to be jailed
and live a solitude life in prison rather than giving in on situations where he
felt Justice wasn't served. In solidarity with Msholozi the writer serves you
with the paradox of solitary confinement.

It is common that one can be alone but not lonely. If you feel bad in your
own company or giving up on your goals and what you think is right for the
purpose of avoiding solitude dear brother a painful lesson is coming for you.
Nomatter how much you love her there must be time you have to choose
yourself over anyone else and never give a shit on that. Long term
commitments can be terminated for the benefit of oneself and for the
creation of an unbreakable legacy. Hypergamy does not care the sacrifices
you do to make her happy remember this whenever you are doing
something for someone whom you consider to be your lover. Every women
will be waiting for the winner on the finishing line to dine with him.

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If you are popular once she gain popularity by being in love with you
definitely she will dump you. Train yourself through solitary confinement in
your own apartment and enjoy the best of your life without considering
anyone else.

A caveat, of course, is that solitude should involve choice. It is positive

when seen as a chance to retreat, reboot and reconnect with ourselves.

"Being solitary is being alone luxuriously immersed in doing things of your

own choice, aware of the fullness of your own presence rather than the
absence of others," author Alice Koller says. "Because solitude is an
achievement."

An extended sense of isolation or loneliness, on the other hand, can be

extremely detrimental to both our physical and psychological health,
research shows.

However, a man should pay a piece of price on his trip to hell for him to
become the prize. Hence pain is necessary especially when you want to
grow. Sometimes heartbreaks, toxic families and social neglects lead us to
choose solitude. I have to mention lockdown currently was one of the most
unexpected social setup that was a perfect time for solitary confinement.
The first basic is how to survive alone. When you find out yourself in aloof,
you will surely discover the more stronger, contended self- loved version of
you. Solitary confinement beats out the beast that is within you.

More importantly, solitary confinement is a vaccine against depression

anxiety disappointments. Since you know that you are stronger alone and
there are a lot of silent battles you fought and won alone it is Takesure
Mandivengerei who wrote a letter to me strengthening me when I was
faced with imprisonment; "You are the person who comforted you when you
were brokenhearted. You are the person who loved you when you were
despised. You are the person who encouraged you when everything was
going against you. You are the person who was with on those sleepless
nights. You are strong alone. Take that time to introvert and communicate
with your soul and heart seek guidance from it definitely some of the
unresolved questions in life will be answered take that time to write your
journey and plan it. If you are convicted which I know you are innocent
thank your God and ancestors you will come back stronger. It is not my
wish for you to be jailed but if it happens take it with courage and pride"

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Women wouldn't think twice about rejecting "losers"

broke guys

guys who aren't tall enough

You shouldn't hesitate either to reject low quality women

obese women

single moms

older women

Don't give women a special privilege they wouldn't give you. Level the
playing field

Men are meant to be ruthless and protect those who they love. Never be
encouraged by modern social construct to be emotional. Men deal with their
emotions in private and appear strong in front of women and family.

TOUGH TIMES, TOUGH MEN

In September 929, the world began sucking itself into an economic

contagion later known as THE GREAT DEPRESSION.

On 24th October 929, the global economy collapsed in a day that has been
labelled as THE BLACK TUESDAY.

The money supply was shattered completely and people stared at poverty,
malnutrition and illnesses.

Prices of basic commodities rose to astronomical levels.

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Taxes were so high and stock markets crashed.

The weak ones were completely annihilated from the surface of the earth.
Suicides and homicides were at an all-time high as anger and mental
depression swept across the world.

It is 2022, we are now almost there, even though there is no palpable

indicator yet.

As the Russian - NATO conflict escalates and having come from a useless
pandemic, our global economy is on the edge.

The USA is busy sending billions of dollars to Ukraine while its economy
together with Europe is on a downward spiral. The money supply system is
on the edge as Russia and its block of allies like Brazil, China and India try
to avoid using the dollar for commercial trade.

- Prices of commodities are rising.

- Taxes are rising.

- The money supply system is tinkering.

- Jobs are being lost.

So, my question to you is this:

Are you ready for the great depression coming?

We are facing this upheaval because of the many soft men in positions of
leadership.

Nature has a perfect way of wiping away the weak, soft men and this is
likely the time for soft men to be naturally removed from the earth.

During the 929 depression, many men committed suicide but also many
men became rich. Newer businesses were built, newer networks were
created and newer profits were registered.

One such business is Disney which flourished during this depression. There
are other companies like HP that were founded in subsequent recession.

This is the time to level up and rise above the obstacles.

When other men are whining, complaining and blaming the Government,
this is your time to silently seize the opportunity and build a fortune for
yourself.

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The competition is weakening every day. Men today are chasing pleasure,
entertainment, sex, and other senseless things. These are the men who are
complaining, abusing their presidents and crying about the high cost of
living.

There is no day the cost of living will favour you. The world will not stop
because the cost of commodities has gone up.

The world will not stop because taxes have gone up.

Businesses will not end because the stock markets have collapsed.

This is the time to cut through the noise and rise above the clutter.

While your fellow men rush to watch on TV which politician has surged in
opinion polls, it is your time to rush to your corner and learn a skill.

While your fellow men are complaining about rising in sugar, seed oils and
refined carbs. It is your time to render lard, fast and live a healthy life.

For every obstacle, one man will see the end of his dreams, another man
will see an opportunity to fertilize his dreams.

Which man are you?

Life is not getting harder, it is men who are getting softer.

Go hard!

THE PARADOX OF VIRGINITY

A lot of men have lived in denial as far as the issue of virginity is concerned.
A lot of redpill adherents know that it's " no hymen, no ring ", " if she is not
virgin, don't wife her " etc.These statements made a lot of redpill disciplines
to look for virginity ( physical hymen ) on girls if they think of marriage.

Unmarried men should marry virgin girls if they think of marriage, this is
something which is familiar with many redpill disciplines. Which is quite
recommended and positive for men to do. Truth be told, it is disastrous for a
man to marry a non virgin girl, hence marrying a virgin girl is the best a man
can do for his well being.

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While I acknowledge the importance of marrying virgin girls, it came to my
attention that many men are not aware of the fact the virginity is more
psychological than it is physical ( hymen ). When a man knows that a girl is
virgin, he relaxes, and assume innocence on her all in the name of virginity.

The redpill clears states that you're be her first, literally translate to: you
must be the first one to date her or else you won't get the best of her (
virgin or non virgin ). This is where many redpill disciplines loss it all, they
date and marry the so called virgin girls blindly based on the common
assumption that " if she is virgin, wife her bro ". The statement have
mislead many young men who don't fully understand the redpill and I have
seen it fit to dissect the other part of virginity which many of mygender are
not aware of.

Virginity is a state of mind where a girl has zero knowledge of sex, this is
not limited romance, oral sex, watching pornography, reading erotic stories.
Virginity is beyond physical status of a girl having hymen. Virginity is more
of psychological than it is physical.

She sucked countless dicks, but her hymen still exists, she kissed, cuddled
with different guys but her hymen still exists. Her breasts have been sucked
by countless men to the extent that they're now fallen heroes on a girl with
hymen. She knows every type of sex style through watching pornography
and sex movies. She dates more than one person at a time and she has got
saliva of more than 5 guys in her system. Her hymen is still intact and
everyone calls her virgin.

We've been deceived to think virginity is only hymen, whether other dudes
damaged her psychologically it's non of our business as long she has got
hymen, wife her bro. This is where lost it.

I have met virgin girls who are damaged beyond repair, who are toxic,
bitter, selfish, and disgusting. This is what many of us men are not prepared
to say because once you say it, it's like you're acknowledging the fact that
marrying a non virgin girl is correct.

My gender should stop living in denial and embrace reality. As long you're
not the first on her, make peace with the brutal fact that she belongs to the
guy she once kneeled to and suck his dick, that dude who broke her heart,
that dude who gave her that kind of romance she never forgets, that dude
who made shocking waves in her spine when she heard his voice, you surely
can't undo all that. Women do bond with men emotionally, she can't just

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forget the dude who made her wet although he never fucked her. A lot of
men are divorced from this reality and they overlook this issue to the extent
as long she is virgin they think of marriage without paying attention to her
past, without scrutinizing her behavior.

I hate to say it myself, but there are a lot of virgin ( physical status = hymen
)girls who aresluts. She only avoids fucking but she romance, do oral sex
with many boys all in the name of " I'm having fun ", " as long I don't get
fucked it's all good ". This is what some virgin girls are doing and many men
who are not deeply invested in the game are not aware of it.

If you're an unmarried man who thinks of marrying a virgin, marry a virgin

girl both psychologically and physically. This means you must be the first
guy to date her or else be at peace that you're marrying a damaged product
which is not yet consumed.

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Last week I visited a neighbour at around 2 PM.

He is a father of 3.

When I got into his house, the children were sitting on the sofa set busy on
smartphones playing video games.

The TV was showing cartoons.

None of the children bothered to greet the visitors. They went on as if

nothing happened.

Shortly, the house girl brought lunch. Of course, I didn't eat because I am a
difficult visitor. The children ate the food then after eating sat properly, legs
on the table and the video games continued.

The house girl cleared the table. The children were not bothered.

The wife of the house then changed TV to Telemundo Channel.

I sympathized with the children.

No books. No library. Just TV and smartphones.

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That's how we are destroying our children.

Children are not supposed to sit where adults are having adult-centred
conversations.

They are not my children but we can do better.

BetterTogether

TOUGH TIMES, TOUGH MEN

In September 929, the world began sucking itself into an economic

contagion later known as THE GREAT DEPRESSION.

On 24th October 929, the global economy collapsed in a day that has been
labelled as THE BLACK TUESDAY.

The money supply was shattered completely and people stared at poverty,
malnutrition and illnesses.

Prices of basic commodities rose to astronomical levels.

Taxes were so high and stock markets crashed.

The weak ones were completely annihilated from the surface of the earth.
Suicides and homicides were at an all-time high as anger and mental
depression swept across the world.

It is 2022, we are now almost there, even though there is no palpable

indicator yet.

As the Russian - NATO conflict escalates and having come from a useless
pandemic, our global economy is on the edge.

The USA is busy sending billions of dollars to Ukraine while its economy
together with Europe is on a downward spiral. The money supply system is
on the edge as Russia and its block of allies like Brazil, China and India try
to avoid using the dollar for commercial trade.

- Prices of commodities are rising.

- Taxes are rising.

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- The money supply system is tinkering.

- Jobs are being lost.

So, my question to you is this:

Are you ready for the great depression coming?

We are facing this upheaval because of the many soft men in positions of
leadership.

Nature has a perfect way of wiping away the weak, soft men and this is
likely the time for soft men to be naturally removed from the earth.

During the 929 depression, many men committed suicide but also many
men became rich. Newer businesses were built, newer networks were
created and newer profits were registered.

One such business is Disney which flourished during this depression. There
are other companies like HP that were founded in subsequent recession.

This is the time to level up and rise above the obstacles.

When other men are whining, complaining and blaming the Government,
this is your time to silently seize the opportunity and build a fortune for
yourself.

The competition is weakening every day. Men today are chasing pleasure,
entertainment, sex, and other senseless things. These are the men who are
complaining, abusing their presidents and crying about the high cost of
living.

There is no day the cost of living will favour you. The world will not stop
because the cost of commodities has gone up.

The world will not stop because taxes have gone up.

Businesses will not end because the stock markets have collapsed.

This is the time to cut through the noise and rise above the clutter.

While your fellow men rush to watch on TV which politician has surged in
opinion polls, it is your time to rush to your corner and learn a skill.

While your fellow men are complaining about rising in sugar, seed oils and
refined carbs. It is your time to render lard, fast and live a healthy life.

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For every obstacle, one man will see the end of his dreams, another man
will see an opportunity to fertilize his dreams.

Which man are you?

Life is not getting harder, it is men who are getting softer.

Go hard!

BetterTogether

Good evening,

Here is a long testimony from one of us.

He needs advice. Don't insult or demean him. If you have nothing to tell
him, shut up!

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Hallo Doc,I am 28 years old.kindly I need some advice sir. I am a DJ and

working under entertainment industry. I was introduced to this channel by
my brother month ago and actually it has changed my life alot.I married 4
years ago and and we had our first born who is 2 yearsnow..due to covid
crisis I lost my job and I was forced to hustle here and there to support my
family which is my duty as a man.I managed to provide food on the table
and my family never slept with an empty stomach.ofcourse I had to work
hardto raise my son.my wife never understood allwe were going through so
she thought I was not giving them enough(all she wanted was to see the
shelves full of shopping with junk foods)she opted to look for a job because
she thought wewere not well enough.I decided to give him a chance.so
after she got the job she decided to take the kid to her mother where I think
I was so stupid enough to agree,i had know choice becausewell I was raised
by a single mother and my motherlater died when I was in highschool.my
father had passed awaytoo when I was at the age of 5 years.i had know one
in my family enough to take care of my kid apart from my mother, so my
'pocket' situation pushed me to agree to her decision.in some few days of
working after securing the job she started misbehaving.she started
receiving calls in weird hours,she could not even do her house chores on
time sometimes even she could complain that she is tired that I should do
the cooking.she wasworking in a boutique.I was forced to due to my
working environment,I used to do alot of manual jobs so I come home so
tired and hugry.a month later she decide to accept an invite into a bash
where she decided to over party and never came home for 3 days. she even

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decided to switch off her phone.I was worried because this is someone's
daughter who's is in my hands the morning she came she had the guts not
even to explain herself ofher whereabout,so I told her to park and leave.she
never left, she went ahead andcalled he mother and I don't knowwhat she
explained to her and her mother called and tried to beg me to forgiveher
daughter. I just dint accept any apologies.so her mother decided to board a
matatu secretly from home to my place .when she called she was halfway
the journey I was shocked but I had know option but to wait for his
arrival.we tried to solve the issues..she listened to both sides story but
somehow she was siding with her daughter she was trying to prove her
daughter innocent asking me how sure I was that she was in the bash.I was
foolish enough to accept and forgave her.(I think I was just a soy and
feminate man).since then the house has never been in peace..back then I
was a very polite boy in his first relationship.I started turning into an
aggressive man.we started to have less talksin the house,each one of us
pretending to be busy with our gadgets the house turned into a 'sort
yourself' place. Continued with the argument and rude talks and till she
decided one morning to call her mother. I don't know what was the talk
about but the mother decided to call me and tell my that her daughter
should vacate from my house until we solve our so called issues..the
daughter never went home,she decided to rent a house ofcourse, I think
with the support from her mother.after that she was gossiping to everyone
that I never supported my son, offwhich I didthrough her mother since she
was the one taking care of the kid..it's been almost 5 months now.as for me
I have a good bond with my son, I don't want to be a deadbit father,or else
an irresponsible one..kindly Doc,I have a life ahead of me,pliz advice me on
how to go about with this.thank you.

xxxxxx

BetterTogether

Concerning the testimony above,

You have all raised very valid, practical and actionable steps that he can
follow to recover from his failure.

It is up to him to strictly implement them by going hard on himself or

perish.

He needs to learn how to write like a man because his writing is so

effeminate and chaotic.

Importantly is to remember the ABCD of bouncing back from a heartbreak.

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Lessons to learn

. MOTHER IN LAW: Keep off your mother in law. She is not your relative. The
moment she encroaches on your boundary, she will terrorize you and
scatter your marriage.

2. FATHERLESSNESS: When you decide to marry a fatherless woman, be

ready to be her father first and a husband next. If you don't have the
temerity to be a tough man, don't dare.

- and if you are a fatherless man, don't just jump into a relationship. Your
fingers will burn. Build yourself first. Ensure your 5Ms are strong and your
fallback safety net is solid.

3. INDECISIVENESS: Never be an indecisive man. Once you make a decision

that your woman should leave, don't go back.

Once a woman packs her belongings, she is subtly telling you that you are a
fool. She doesn't respect you. Bang the door and never look back!

4. CO-PARENTING: Your child will always look for you in the future. You
have seen how men on this channel shared their stories of how they long to
meet their dads. Neurotic women cling to children so that they can continue
sucking your resources while monkey branching.

If your woman leaves with your child, don't bother. Simply open a bank
account, and save money there. You may put a caveat on withdrawal limits
and give her the ATM. Send money directly to school accounts and save the
receipts.

Do not give your money to her or her mother. Cut the links completely.

5. FOCUS: Your masculine purpose is important. Focus on it. Do not allow

things beyond your control to disturb you. Ignore what is beyond your
control and focus on what you can control eg thoughts, emotions,
environment and money.

6. SEX AND MARRIAGE

Don't get into a relationship because of sex. I have discussed this in detail.
Once you get bored with sex, the relationship will collapse. It's only simps
who rush into marriage because they want unlimited free sex.

Get into marriage with a good woman who will take care of your children
and legacy.

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Men get into marriage to fulfil their legacy and propagate the lineage
transmitted to them by their fathers.

Don't be a sex pervert. You will end up impregnating a slut, a neurotic

woman or a witch!

Don't get into marriage blindly. You will burn your fingers.

Otherwise, no man should underrate his potential. Men have massive,

golden potential hidden in them that needs to be unlocked.

Don't allow neurotic women to deter you and block your momentum.

Create like a god,

Command like a king,

Work like a slave.

BetterTogether

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