Oral Sex Mini Book
Oral Sex Mini Book
As you flip through, browse The Basics section to get a taste for each
technique. If something piques your interest, read on and explore the Blow-
by-Blow and Lick-by-Lick sections for a more detailed set of instructions,
and tips for heating things up before you get down to business.
As you incorporate them into your erotic routine, you’ll be inspired to tweak
the moves, make additions, and create a personalized repertoire to take your
sex lives to new heights.
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• Use your tongue in a back and forth motion against his F-spot or frenu-
lum. This is the hot pleasure zone on the underside of his penis where
the head and shaft meet.
• Lube up your hands before wrapping them around the base of his
cock so you can stroke the lower half of his shaft while performing the
Windshield Wiper. With all that sexual stimulation, he won’t know what
hit him!
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• Have him sit up against the headboard and kneel between his
bent legs.
• Wrap both hands around the base of his shaft and lower your moist
lips over the head of his cock.
• Stick your tongue out against the underside of his head and slowly
sweep it back and forth like windshield wipers as you suck gently with
your lips.
• Try to feel his F-spot and the swollen ridge of his head with your
tongue; Rotate your head ever so slightly to smooth out the
sweeping motions.
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• Seal your wet lips around his penis and suck away while your warm,
wet fingers stroke the bulb of his penis through his perineum (the
space between his butt and his balls).
• Since this technique requires a bit of coordination, practice in the air
or on a dildo ahead of time, so that the coordinated motion of your lips
and hands becomes fluid and natural.
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• Kneel between his legs as he sits spread eagle in an armchair.
• Wrap your lips around his cock and suck up and down from base to tip
at a medium, rhythmic pace.
• As you lower your lips downward, simultaneously press your warm,
lubed fingers against his perineum and stroke backward toward his
butt hole.
• Imagine that your fingers are an extension of your mouth and his
perineum is an extension of his penis. Stroke and suck in rhythm so
that your hands move down (toward his butt) as your lips move down
toward his base and your hands move up toward his balls as you suck
toward the tip of his cock.
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• Use the weight of your body to press your tongue against his shaft as
you excite the sensitive underside of his penis.
• To up the ante and give him a taste of what’s to come, tease him a little
by adding some brief lip suction over the head of his penis when you
reach the top.
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• Kneel between his legs as he lies flat on his back.
• Press his cock up against his abs so that the sensitive underside
is revealed.
• Flatten your tongue against the base of his penis and allow the
weight of your head to fall into your tongue as you press down with wet
heavy pressure.
• Slide your flat tongue all the way up to the tip of his penis maintaining
heavy pressure and exhaling warm air over his sensitive skin.
• As you slide back down from tip-to-base, maintain firm pressure as
your tongue naturally curls around the contours of his shaft.
• Don’t think of The Heavyweight as a licking move—your tongue doesn’t
move on its own for this technique. Instead, it moves as an extension
of your head, which slides up and down and allows your tongue to stay
passionately glued to his hard cock the whole time.
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Suck his whole cock into your mouth and use swallowing sensations to
tighten your grip and pulse around the swollen base.
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• Lie on your back with your head hanging off the side of the bed to
elongate your mouth and throat. He can slide his flavored penis into
your mouth as he remains standing bedside.
• Place your hands against his hips to control the depth of penetration.
• Suck him into your mouth and gradually increase the depth as you
become more relaxed.
• Once your mouth reaches the base of his penis (or your desired depth),
wrap your lips around him and swallow deeply three times.
• Alternate between sucking from base to tip, performing three juicy
swallows in between each sucking stroke.
• Exaggerate your swallows to create greater suction and enjoy the
natural sounds of sex!
• If you find yourself gagging a little as you deep throat, you have several
options:
- If you don’t mind gagging, relax and enjoy it. Don’t be self-
conscious, as many men (and women) are turned on by
gagging sounds.
- If gagging doesn’t feel good, simply adjust your depth,
and use lubed-up hands to reach deeper toward
the base of his cock.
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Use your wet hands to form an Eiffel Tower shape over his hard cock
as you gently suck his balls into your puckered lips.
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• Let him sit in his favorite armchair as you kneel between his legs
looking up at him seductively.
• Press your moist lips into his cock as you kiss it from top to bottom
working your way down to his balls, leaving bright lipstick stains over
his shaft.
• Suck one of his balls into your mouth and place your lubed-up hands
on either side of his shaft to create a tight seal between your palms.
• Slide your palms upward to form an Eiffel Tower over his bulging head,
working up and down at a rhythmic pace.
• Learn a few French words to seduce him with. Refer to him as mon
amour (my love), or simply respond to him with Oui or Non to set
the tone.
• Be sure to slather your hands in lube for this move so that your Eiffel
Tower slides smoothly up and down his shaft. The more lube you apply,
the more pressure and suction you can create around his throbbing
manhood.
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Hand over the reins of control and let him penetrate your mouth
however he likes it. The pleasure is all his as he adjusts the speed,
depth, and intensity according to his liking.
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• Tell him you’re craving his cock in your mouth and that you want to
fulfill his every fantasy.
• Kneel at his feet as he stands bedside.
• Lick your lips and place your hands against his hips so that you can
signal him with three hard taps (or the signal of your choice) if the
penetration or depth gets to be too much.
• Relax and breathe slowly as he slides his hard cock in your mouth
and tells you exactly what to do with your lips and tongue.
• When you need a break, offer two lubed-up hands in place of
your mouth.
• The key to a great blow job is mutual enjoyment. To enjoy having a
large object in your mouth, you need to be both relaxed and turned on.
Before you get started with the Mouth Screw, kiss, rub, hump, hold his
head between your legs and do whatever it takes to relax and titillate
your body and mind.
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Use a blindfold, lube, several wet body parts, and a little dirty talk to
take this naughty fantasy to the next level.
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• Blindfold your lover so that he can focus all of his attention on your
touch and your sensual whispers.
• Soak your index and middle finger in lube and “lick” one of his
earlobes with your fingers while you kiss the other earlobe with
your lips and tongue. The idea is to simulate two tongues at once.
• Whisper in his ear, “Do you like that? Two of us working on you at
once? We want you so bad!”
• Work your two “tongues” down to his cock and “lick” up and down
with both your tongue and your wet fingers so it feels like he’s being
serviced by two eager women.
• As you suck on his cock, use two hands to touch his balls, butt, lips,
ears, perineum and shaft with your wet hands. He won’t know what
hit him!
• Talk dirty to him throughout the entire experience. Stroke his ego a
little, reminding him how badly women crave him. Tell him that you’d
love to share him and show those other girls how lucky you really are!
• Debrief after this fantasy-play and make sure you both get the
reassurance you need to understand that fantasy does not have
to turn into reality.
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• Use your warm, wet hands as an extension of your mouth to suck and
stroke his penis from the very base to the highly sensitive tip.
• Because your hands will be the first contact point with his penis,
breathe heavily as you lower your suction tunnel over his head. This
will help “trick” his penis into feeling as though your hands really are a
part of your extra-long mouth.
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• Lube up your hands and place them in prayer position in front of
your face
• Press your thumbs against your lips so that your hands become an
extension of your mouth. Your palms should be wet and warm, so that
they feel just like your mouth.
• Lower your hands and mouth over his head, leading with your pinky
fingers and squeezing as you slide down with both your hands and lips.
• Work him over at a rhythmic pace from tip to base until you can feel his
cock throbbing with orgasmic release.
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Suck away with your eager lips and tongue while simultaneously
massaging his balls with a silk scarf.
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• Have you partner lie on his back and straddle his nipples so that he
gets a view of your round backside.
• Lean over and suck his cock into your mouth while using both hands to
drape a silk (or satin) scarf around his balls.
• Tug back and forth on the scarf with firm pressure to cup and stroke his
balls as you lick, suck, and swallow his cock like a tasty popsicle.
• When he’s about to finish, wrap the scarf around the base of his shaft
and hold his head between your lips.
• If you’re willing to sacrifice your scarf (anything for great sex, right?),
lube up his balls to intensify the silky smooth sensation.
• If you feel self-conscious sitting with your butt in his face, blindfold him
before getting started. The more relaxed you are, the more erotic it will
feel for you both.
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• Use you lips and tongue to pleasure his head while one hand strokes
his shaft and the other takes care of his scrotum and perineum
(the skin between his balls and his butt).
• Alternate hands between his shaft and perineum to change up the
sensations (for him) and avoid hand cramps (for you).
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• Start by tracing a figure-eight over his perineum with three wet fingers.
Work your way up to his balls and cup them in your wet hand, tugging
down on them gently.
• Use your other hand to stroke the shaft of his cock with lots of lube,
and add a firm squeeze or pulse each time you reach the base.
• At the same time, suck on the upper portion of his cock while
twisting your tongue around his swollen corona.
• Though you want to pay attention to all of his hot spots, breathe
deeply and do what comes naturally as you find a comfortable rhythm
between your hands and mouth.
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• Take a sip of champagne (or sparkling wine) and hold a little in your
mouth before drinking him in.
• Bringing food and drink into the bedroom is a simple way to spice up
your sex life. Because both food/drink and sex activate the dopamine
system of the brain (associated with pleasure and reward), they make
the perfect pairing for mind-blowing sex.
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• Take a few sips of champagne and warm up with some deep kissing.
• Drizzle a little champagne over your breasts and ask him to lick it
off of your nipples.
• Kneel down at his feet while he leans against the wall and run your wet
lips over his balls. Positioning is important, because if you tilt your head
forward, all the champagne will run out of your mouth.
• Get him primed by licking the head of his cock and running it over your
lips as though you’re applying lipstick with no precision.
• Take another sip of champagne, but don’t swallow. Suck him into
your mouth, allowing the bubbles to pop around his head.
• Twirl the liquid around your mouth as you suck up and down
his shaft.
• Once the bubbles dissipate, swallow and take another small sip before
returning to your Champagne BJ.
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You can find his million dollar point, otherwise known as the perineum,
on the fleshy part of his skin just in front of his butt hole. This area is rich
in nerve endings and is connected to the pathways that reach both his
prostate (the male G-spot) and the bulb of his penis (the swollen part of
the spongy tissue that surrounds his sensitive urethra). His f-spot is the
frenulum, which is a small band of tissue located on the underside of his
penis just below the head.
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• Lie side by side on the bed and wrap one hand around the base of
his shaft.
• Suck away at a rhythmic pace until you can feel his cock throbbing
with intense delight.
• As you suck toward the top of his shaft, feel his frenulum between
your lips and sweep your tongue over it in a J-shape with firm
pressure to make him squirm.
• Simultaneously, reach down between his legs and use all five fingers
(with lube) to stroke in an oval shape over his million dollar point.
• Continue sucking, sweeping, and stroking, even as he reaches orgasm.
• If you feel his cock pulsing in your mouth, orgasm is likely imminent.
Don’t stop, but you may want to ease the pressure on his head and
frenulum, as a lighter touch over these innervated areas is often
preferable at climax.
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Use lots of suction to work your way up his shaft toward the tip and then
switch it up and tease him a little as you release your lips on your way
back down.
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• Moisten your lips and lower them down his shaft as far as you can go.
• Seal your wet lips around him as you suck upward toward the tip with
all of your power and passion. Imagine that you’re sucking all of his
cum and sexual energy into your mouth.
• When you reach the tip, release your grip and keep your lips resting
softly against his head.
• Lower your moist lips back down his shaft while breathing out gently
without suction or firm pressure.
• Keep working up and down his shaft with firm suction on the way up
and gentle cradling on the way down.
• If you want to make him come, increase the speed and keep your
suction and breathing rhythmic to finish him off.
• Lube makes blow jobs better by warming it up, keeping it slippery,
and protecting his manhood from any incidental teeth contact!
Use your favorite flavored lube to take your pleasure and his orgasm
to new heights.
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• Wrap your tongue around the underside of his cock and
suck away!
• Practice this move on your middle finger to get a feel for the cradling
and sucking sensation with your tongue. You can start by rolling your
tongue into a tube to warm up your muscles.
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• Kneel on the floor next to the bed as your lover lies on his back with his
legs hanging off and feet flat on the floor.
• Wrap both hands around the bottom third of his cock, interlacing your
fingers to create a firm seal.
• Suck the top two-thirds into your mouth, and press your tongue into
the underside of his cock as hard as you possibly can. Allow it to wrap
around and form a cradle squeezing the sides and bottom as you suck
and slurp feverishly.
• Try to create suction with your tongue as opposed to your lips, which
simply wrap around him for warmth and slippery moisture.
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Let his hands guide you as you run your tongue over one of his most ten-
der erogenous zones and you stroke yourselves into an orgasmic trance.
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• Kneel at his feet (he can sit on a chair or stand against the wall) and tell
him that you’ll do whatever you’re told.
• Slather your hands in lube and wrap both of them around his shaft with
your fingers interlaced. Ask him to show you how he likes it and guide
your hands to find the perfect stroke, pressure, and pace.
• Once you’ve found the ideal rhythm, tuck your head behind his balls
and press your tongue into his perineum, making large sweeping
strokes in tempo with your hands.
• He may set the pace for The Boss, but this technique puts you in synch
with one another, so it’s the perfect opportunity to unite your orgasms.
Strap on or insert your favorite vibrating toy or wrap yourself around
his legs and grind to your heart’s content.
• Play up your submissive role with a little dirty talk:
- “Show me how to do it. You’re my man.”
- “If I’m good, will you let me suck it?”
- “I need two hands for your huge cock.”
- “I’ll do anything to taste your hot cum!”
- “I’m only here to please you.”
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Suck with all your might from base to tip, and twist passionately around
his corona using your lips and tongue to trace its curves.
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• Get him all riled up with some tongue play: lick all around his balls, up
and down his shaft, and press your tongue against his meatus (pee
hole) while grasping his base with two warm hands.
• When you’re ready to finish him off, lower your lips all the way to the
base (or as deep as you feel comfortable going) and press the roof of
your mouth firmly into his rock hard cock.
• Suck upward, and when you’re two-thirds of the way up, swivel your
head to the right and let your tongue wrap around his corona. As you
slip and swivel around his cock, maintain constant suction.
• Allow your sucking, slipping, swiveling, and flicking to become one
smooth movement as you lower back down to the base.
• Repeat until you feel the waves of orgasmic pleasure pulsating through
his penis.
• Let your slurps, sucks, and other natural sex sounds run wild! Sex is
supposed to be a sensual experience, and sound is an often-under-
valued erotic sense. So don’t hold back. Breathe deeply and let your
naughty noises come out to play!
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Suction, lubrication, and rhythm are elemental to any good blow job and
The Ultimate Indulgence combines all three to take him over the edge.
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• Alternate between three deep sucks and three shallow ones to tanta-
lize the supersensitive head, as well as the highly reactive lower third
of his cock.
• Tweaking your oral movements and strokes in small ways can produce
massive results, as his body and mind get excited by the unknown. By
trying The Ultimate Indulgence in different positions (between his legs,
straddling him from the top, or approaching from the side), it will feel
like a whole new move each and every time as his penis comes into
different points of contact with your lips and tongue.
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• Begin by kissing a few of his often ignored erogenous zones with loose,
soft lips: try his forehead, collarbone, hipbones and that sensitive patch
above his nipples.
• Once you’ve worked your way down, press your lips into his shaft
and run them up and down, like you’re eating corn on the cob but
with no teeth.
• When you’re both feeling relaxed and aroused, open your mouth
around his head and suck four to five times with your lips
wrapped around his corona (the swollen ridge).
• Lower your lips to the base, squeeze tightly, and suck four to five times
at the deepest point possible, swallowing with every suck.
• Alternate between sucking on his head and base at a steady pace until
you feel a pulsing sensation rushing through his shaft. At this point,
take him into your mouth as deep as possible, and press your hand
into his perineum (the space between his balls and butt).
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Blow him away using your soft, warm cheeks instead of your lips and
tongue. By approaching from the side, you’ll put extra pressure on the
highly responsive frenulum and the sensitive dorsal vein.
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• Kneel at your lover’s side as he lies flat on the bed and gets the perfect
profile view of your curves.
• Press your tongue flat against the bottom of your mouth to cover
your bottom teeth and lower your lips over his head as far as the
coronal ridge.
• Suck your cheeks in like a supermodel posing for a photo and allow
them to press up against his cock as you suck away.
• Overplay the sucking in sensation with your cheeks as you allow them
to envelop his cock from top to bottom.
• When you need a breather, exaggerate a big swallow at the tip of his
cock and allow your lips to create a popping sound as they disengage.
Look up into his eyes and hold his manhood in one hand like an old
fashioned video game joystick before returning to work.
• If your facial muscles get tired (the supermodel pout takes work!),
press your hands against your cheeks to tighten your grip around
his cock.
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Create a tight suction around his shaft with your hands and attach them
to your mouth as you “deep throat” his big, hard cock. If you warm them
up and use enough lube, it will feel like the deepest, tightest blow job ever.
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• Blindfold your lover and have him lie on the bed with his legs hanging
off the sides. Kneel at his feet and keep a bottle of lube handy.
• Create a suction tunnel with your hands:
- Start in prayer position. Rotate the fingers of your right hand
toward you while the fingers of your left hand slide slightly away.
- Create a tight hole between your thumbs and another hole
opposite them to form a tunnel.
• Apply lots of lube, and place your “tunnel” against your lips to create a
long suction path from your pinky fingers to your throat.
• Lower your hands and lips down toward his head and exhale deeply so
that he feels your breath on his head before your hands touch down.
• Suck from base to tip squeezing tightly with your palms and lips.
You can use lots of pressure as long as he’s lubed up.
• To finish him off, speed up your sucking to two strokes (one up and one
down) per second.
• To send him into orgasmic overdrive, squeeze the base of his cock
with your fingers on every stroke. This pulsing sensation mimics
the orgasmic contractions he experiences when he comes.
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• Suck on his cock while nodding your head in “yes” and “no” motions.
• Take Yes! Yes! Yes! to the next level by trying it out (on the kitchen
table) in the sixty-nine position!
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• Greet him in the kitchen wearing nothing but stilettos and a long strand
of beads around your neck.
• Ask him to sit on the counter or kitchen table, and slide yourself
between his legs. Depending on the height, you can place a cushion
below your knees or stand up.
• Use your hands to drip tasty lube over his cock, and gently caress his
thighs with your lubed-up hands.
• Once you’re both worked up, lower your lips over his lubed cock and
nod your head up and down as if you’re saying “Yes! Yes! Yes!”
• Perform your “yes” movements over his head and then lower halfway
down his shaft and repeat.
• When you come back up to his head, press your tongue flat against
him and alternate between “yes” and “no.”
• Add a few full head circles, allowing your tongue to wrap all the way
around his corona (the swollen ridge at the base of his head) and finish
him off by stroking the lower half of his cock with a warm, wet hand
while simultaneously nodding your head over the upper half with
quick rhythmic movements.
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• Rub off against his calves while you give him a blow job. Control your
arousal and wait for his impending orgasm before letting your orgasm
flow simultaneously.
• Simultaneous orgasms can and do happen, but you don’t want them to
turn into a high-pressure goal. One way to learn to control your orgasm
is to masturbate and practice alternating between different levels of
arousal (through peaks and plateaus) before coming.
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• Kneel between his legs while he relaxes in an armchair. Look him in his
eyes and unhook your bra, allowing the cups to rest against your breasts.
Lick all around his shaft as though your tongue is dancing on a pole for
his visual pleasure.
• Once he is hard, allow your bra to fall to the floor, and press your
breasts around his cock as you suck teasingly on the tip. Gradually
suck him deeper into your mouth with loose lips and light suction.
• By now, he should be aching for more, so wrap your lips tightly around
his shaft at the deepest point you can reach and suck as hard as you
can. Keep sucking as you ride his legs and rub yourself into a frenzied
state of arousal.
• Time your frottage (dry humping) with your cock sucking, and wait for
his cock to start pulsing intensely—this marks the point of no return
and is a sure-fire indicator that he’s about to come!
• Do whatever it takes to get yourself off, too—reach down with your
hands, grab hold of your favorite vibrator, or fantasize about a hot
sex scene so that you feel the orgasmic contractions as he comes
or shortly thereafter.
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• Use your hottest hands and mouth techniques to offer him a quickie
on the road!
• If you want to make him come faster, alternate between tight sucking
(or stroking) of the lower third of his shaft and more rapid sucking on
his head. Add a twist over his corona and a ton of genuine enthusiasm,
and he’ll be melting in the palm of your hand in no time!
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• Pack the essential supplies (lube and a scarf or blanket for privacy) and
choose the midpoint of your travel to initiate Love on the Run.
• If he’s driving, turn up the music to set the mood, and if you’re in a
more public place (train, plane, bus, etc.), cover his lap with a scarf
before unbuttoning his pants. Be sure to book the back row in advance
if you have the option to do so.
• Smear lube on your hand and slather your palm all over his head and
shaft. Roll your fingers around playfully without grabbing him as he
starts to get hard.
• Use your other hand to touch yourself if it helps to get you in the mood.
• Twirl your tongue (or two wet fingers) around his shaft and breathe
over his head. Suck his head into your mouth or wrap two wet hands
around his shaft as you begin stroking. Pepper your moves with lots of
“Mmm’s” and “Ahhh’s.”
• If you like to swallow, take him deep into your throat as he comes.
If you prefer to use your hands, wrap them around his coronal ridge
during orgasm and use your scarf to manage the sexy mess.
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Rub your face all over his cock and balls and encourage him to relish
in the thrill of watching himself come all over your breasts, stomach,
mouth, or face.
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• Position yourself so he has a nice view of your face between his legs.
• Draw his head into your mouth and press it into your cheeks so that he
can see its shape through your cheeks. Close your lips to pop him out
and run the tip of his cock over your lips while looking up into his eyes.
• Lick him with a slobbery tongue from base to tip, and rub his shaft up
and down the side of your face. Offer a genuine compliment, such as
“I love your cock!” “It’s so big in my mouth!” or “I just want to taste you!”
• Suck him into your mouth and take breaks to rub him all over your
cheeks, lips, and chin. When he’s ready to come, tell him you want to
watch, and feel his hot load against your skin.
• Grab him by the base and point it wherever you want it: in your open
mouth, all over your breasts, on your stomach, or on your face.
• Coming on a lover’s face is a top fantasy for many men. Some claim
that it’s an act of degradation (which can be a part of consensual
power play), while others suggest that it’s more about acceptance and
validation because it’s so common in mainstream porn. No consensual
act is inherently degrading; nor is any sex act inherently empower-
ing. Sex, pleasure, and power are yours to negotiate, and only you can
define what gets you off.
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• Suck on his throbbing head while alternating between your upper and
lower tongue to provide extra stimulation to his frenulum (the little
notch on the underside of the penis just below the head).
• Modify the Tongue Shift by using the topside of your tongue to stroke
his frenulum and then stimulating the upper side of his head with the
underside of your tongue. It sounds complicated, but if you try it on
your finger first, it will flow smoothly.
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• Resist the urge to suck him into your mouth right away. Instead, flutter
your tongue along his abdomen and around the base of his shaft.
• Run your tongue along his raphe (the dividing line that stretches from
his anus over the center of his perineum and balls up to the tip of his
cock) and blow cool air over your wet path.
• Suck him into your mouth and alternate between twirling your lips
around his head and pressing your tongue into his lower shaft while
maintaining suction.
• As he becomes more aroused, focus on his frenulum and flatten the top
of your tongue against it while sucking. Switch it up and continue sucking
while pressing the ridged underside of your tongue against this sweet
spot. You’ll need to bend your tongue backwards to execute this move.
• Keep the suction and wetness constant while shifting between the
topside and underside of your tongue every ten seconds.
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• Ease into rimming gradually by working your way around your lover’s
delicate pucker before diving in for some hot and heavy sucking, kiss-
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• Communication is of paramount importance to any sexual experi-
ence—especially if you’re trying something new. Whether you happen
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• The techniques below are merely guidelines. You don’t have to follow
each tip sequentially. If you find something that works, stick with it!
• Plant feather-light kisses with wet lips all over your lover’s butt cheeks.
• Add your tongue to your kisses, wiggling it in between his butt cheeks.
• Apply your favorite flavored lube and rub it in with two thumbs.
• Press your tongue flat against the pucker (bum hole) and curl it
upwards.
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• Spread your fingers over her G-spot to form a peace sign while your
tongue strokes her clitoral hood.
• If she loves to squirt, add the ring finger and some pelvic pressure into
the mix! Open and close all three fingers (index, middle, and ring) in
a “W” formation over her swollen G-spot while pressing down on her
lower abdomen with your other hand.
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• Kneel at her feet as she lies on the bed with her legs hanging off
the edge.
• Press your tongue against the very top of her vulva over the hood of her
clit and the bottom of her Venus mound. Lick up and down with short
strokes, alternating between the top and the underside of your tongue
to vary the texture and sensations.
• Slide your wet index and middle fingers into her pussy with your palm
facing upward and press against her upper vaginal wall feeling for the
swollen ridge-like area of her G-spot.
• When you’re as deep as your second knuckles, spread your fingers
apart to form a peace sign and close them rhythmically as though
they’re a pair of scissors.
• Time your tongue strokes to align with your finger movements to
pleasure her clitoris and G-spot in perfect rhythm.
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• Position a mirror in front of your bed so that she can watch you writhe
in pleasure between her legs.
• Press your hands into her butt cheeks to pull her pussy into your face
and intensify the pressure, thrusting, and pleasure.
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• Have her kneel on the mattress facing her reflection in the mirror.
• Lie on your back with your face beneath her pussy and your feet
behind her, away from the mirror. Place enough pillows under your
head to support your neck while you lick, suck, kiss, and slurp away!
• Begin by teasing her inner lips (the ones that usually hang lower) with
the soft tip of your nose. Breathe in and tell her you love
her scent.
• Stick your tongue out as far as you can and use only the tip to trace
the space between her inner and outer lips so that she can watch your
tongue in the mirror.
• Pull your head forward a little (toward the mirror) and wrap your
lips around as much of her as possible while sucking gently.
• As she gets more excited, reach up toward her clitoris with your tongue
and pulse against her with firm pressure.
• If she gets tired or sore while kneeling, she can put her hands down and
rest on all fours.
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• Look her in the eye and tell her that you want to ravish her and cater to
her every need.
• As she sits on the edge of the bed with her legs dangling off the side,
kneel on the floor at her feet.
• Place her hands on the back of your head and tell her you want her
to show you how she likes it.
• Encourage her to control the speed, pressure, direction, and strokes by
directing your head with her hands.
• Look up at her and ask her if she wants it harder, softer, slower,
or faster.
• Remind her how much you love it and how badly you want to
please her.
• Create a private code to communicate during oral sex. For example,
two taps to the back of your head means she wants you to speed up,
while a gentle tug of your ear indicates that she wants you to slow
down. Play with these sexy codes in and out of the bedroom to build
sexual tension throughout the week.
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• Hold her legs up in the air, drop to your knees, and make her moan with
delight.
• Take deep breaths and moan as you eat her out. It will help her to relax
and elicit her own natural sex sounds.
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• Look her in the eye and tell her that you’ve been craving her all
day long.
• Kiss her on the lips and lay her on her back at the edge of the bed.
• Grab her ankles in one hand and throw her legs up in the air as you
drop to your knees on the floor. Allow your hand to slide down her legs
if necessary, but keep a tight grip, and promise her that you’re going to
make her scream.
• Press your tongue flat against her bum hole and pulse 4-5 times before
licking your way to her fourchette (the sweet spot where her lower lips
meet). Stop here again and pulse another 4-5 times.
• Lick your lips and press them into her pussy sliding all the way to the
top and twirling your tongue around her clitoris.
• Continue licking and kissing a long line between her bum hole and her
clit until she is pressing her pussy into you and begging for more.
• Once she’s worked up, moan with desire as you open wide and suck
her entire pussy into your mouth.
• Alternatively, you can use two hands to hold her legs in the air and
spread them wide apart for easy access.
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• Open wide, and press your lips against her vulva while creating suction
and twirling your tongue around the perimeter.
• Multitasking makes for great lovers, so keep those hands busy! Rub
them against her thighs, buttocks, and breasts as you suck and twirl
between her legs.
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• Choose your favorite position, and open your mouth around her pussy
as wide as you can.
• Suck gently with your lips as you trace your tongue in a big oval around
the inside of the tight lip seal. Your tongue stays pressed against your
lips as it twirls around, and you should hear the sweet sounds of suc-
tion as your twirl in one direction.
• Alternate the direction of your tongue twirling, and pepper a few
bottom-to-top licks between your sensual circles.
• As she gets more excited, you can slide your tongue into her vagina
while maintaining the suction cup of your moist lips.
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• Use your fingers to pry open her juicy lips and make way for your
talented tongue.
• If she’s shy about opening her legs wide and letting you dive in, get her
permission to tie her legs spread eagle against your bed posts (or the
legs of a wide armchair) before going down on her.
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• Caress her thighs with some edible massage oil or lube to help put her
in the mood.
• Look down between her legs and then look up into her eyes and tell her
she’s beautiful. Then, smile as you lower your head and pry open her
lips with your fingers.
• Breathe gently over her opening and tell her how desperate you are to
taste it.
• Rub your cheeks against her open lips before licking across the opening
horizontally from side to side and then diagonally from top to bottom.
• Suck on the opening, and point the tip of your tongue into her vagina,
gradually increasing the depth and allowing your face to press flat
against her wet spot.
• Curl your tongue upward and feel her G-spot as the tip of your nose
rests gently against her clit.
• Alternate between tongue strokes, tongue insertions, and lip sucking,
paying attention to her unique responses, sounds, and movements.
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• Eat her out from behind and make her ache for more as you work your •
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• Roll her onto her stomach and lie between her spread legs as you slide
your hands under her hips. You may also want to prop them up with a
few pillows on either side.
• Use a wide, flat tongue to paint slow figure-eights over her perineum
(the soft patch between her labia and bum). Breathe slowly and deeply
to encourage her to relax and do the same.
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• Tease and stimulate the area above her nipples and beneath her warm
breasts to bring her to a mind-blowing orgasm. One breast (and one
nipple) is usually more sensitive than the other, so find out which side
your lady favors. Erotic sensitivity on the left side is more common,
but the only way to know is to ask!
• Tell her how great her tits are too! Compliments are a powerful
aphrodisiac.
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• Let her lie on her side comfortably with a pillow beneath her head and
knees as you lie facing her. Blindfold her to help her focus on the erotic
sensations. Caress her face, neck, and collarbone as gently as possible
with your fingertips.
• Don’t grab or knead her breasts. Instead, use soft open palms to lightly
encircle her nipples as you kiss her neck.
• The area above her nipples is often the most sensitive, so kiss,
lick, and suck around this erogenous zone for a few minutes before
working your way around the outer edges.
• Continue kissing and sucking around her outer curves until you arrive
at the bottom of her breasts, where you can use your tongue to lick
under their soft folds.
• Gradually work your way from the outer edge with sloppy wet,
suction-cup kisses until you arrive at her nipples. Blow on them gently.
• Suck on her nipples with a wide, loose mouth to tease and tantalize
them before closing your tight lips and flicking your tongue around
in circular motions.
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• Wrap a vibrating cock rick around the base of your tongue before you
begin your expert muff-diving session.
• As an alternative to using a cock ring on your tongue, you can learn to
use her favorite hand-held vibrator and create a new shared routine
with your hands, fingers, and tongue.
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• Wrap a stretchy (silicone) cock ring with a built-in vibrator around the
base of your tongue.
• Select the lowest setting as you begin to lick up and down her outer
lips with just the tip of your tongue.
• Increase the pressure of your licks as you flatten your tongue to cover
a greater area. Pretend you’re licking a soft-serve ice cream cone,
and don’t worry about the vibrator touching her skin directly, as your
tongue will pass along the vibrations.
• When her body starts to squirm with pleasure, turn up the vibrations
and press the underside of your tongue into her vagina. Use your
fingers to hold her lips open if needed.
• Roll your tongue around the inside wall of her vagina in a wide circular
motion, allowing the vibrations to travel inside her orgasmic platform
(the area on the outer third of the vaginal canal).
• Ask her to show you where she wants to be touched, and press
the bullet-end of the vibrating ring firmly into this hot spot as she
wanders off into a deep, unforgettable orgasm.
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• Fondle and titillate her entire body, avoiding her hottest erogenous zones
to make them palpitate with desire. When you finally give her what she’s
begging for, her entire body will tingle with climactic pleasure.
• When her body is overtaken by orgasmic waves of pleasure, press the
top of your tongue flat against her vulva and hold it in place firmly to
feel her wet orgasmic contractions.
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• Lay your lover down on her stomach and place a pillow under her hips.
• Kiss her outer ears with wet, loose lips before working your way down
to the nape of her neck. Trace a line down her spine with your tongue
and breathe heavily over the small of her back.
• Run your tongue between her booty cheeks and down between the
slit in her thighs before slowly kissing your way down her inner legs to
her ankles.
• Roll her over onto her back, and rub your face, tongue, and lips all over
her thighs. Allow your face to fleetingly brush up against her aching
pussy, but don’t pay it any purposeful attention—yet.
• Kiss all around her breasts, but don’t touch her nipples. Blow warm air
over them, resisting the urge to kiss or suck.
• Kiss a trail from between her breasts to the top of her pussy and blow
gentle kisses over her labia without making physical contact.
• Keep teasing by kissing, sucking, and caressing all around her hot
spots until she starts thrusting her hips into you.
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Squeeze her thighs together to create tight friction and use your hands,
toys, and cock to rub her into a state of orgasmic bliss.
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• Start with some simple tongue screwing: use your tongue like a small
penis to penetrate her, sliding in and out of her vagina as deep as you
can reach. Don’t be afraid to let your face (nose, cheeks, and forehead)
press flat against her vulva.
• Just as her body begins to beg for more of your slick tongue, grab hold
of her outer thighs and squeeze her legs together. Slide your tongue
into the crease of her inner thighs and twirl it around the warm,
wet space.
• Continue to “screw” her thighs with your tongue, hand (with lube),
cock, or favorite vibrating toy. As you glide in and out, be sure to press
upward against her vulva.
• Tell her to squeeze her thighs together to heighten the friction and use
her hips to guide the pace.
• Some women can reach orgasm simply from rubbing their thighs
together or crossing their legs. These movements can stimulate the
clitoral nerves and activate the muscles of her pelvic floor that
contract during orgasm.
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• Suck on and kiss her pucker (bum hole) while you use your fingers to
fondle her sensitive perineum.
• If you want to combine the Bootylicious with some good old fashioned
pussy-eating, be sure to remember the pussy-first rule: you can move
from her pussy to her anus, but not the other way around, as you don’t
want to transfer bacteria from the bum to the vagina.
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• If it’s your first time approaching her back door, talk to her first to make
sure she’s ready. Sex talk doesn’t have to be clinical. You can begin
with, “I love your ass. I just want to run my tongue between your hot
cheeks. Would you like that?”
• Have her lie on her stomach with a pillow propping up her hips.
• Kiss the upper part of her butt cheeks and the small of her back with
wide puckered lips as you trace circles toward the mid-line of her bum.
• Pull her butt cheeks apart with your hands as you slide the tip of
your tongue down toward her hole.
• Flatten your tongue against her and twirl it around in a circular
motion. Try painting flower petals around her pucker.
• If she likes it, slide your pointy tongue inside and continue to twirl
it around.
• Release her butt cheeks from your hands and continue to thrust your
tongue in and out of her as you reach under with one hand to pet
her perineum with soft, whispery finger strokes.
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• Pulse over her hot spots with your tongue and/or fingers as she
approaches orgasm.
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• Before trying this super-steamy finishing move, find out where your
lover likes to be touched during orgasm. You can watch her finish
herself off or simply ask her for a little guidance.
• Lick all around the outer edges of her vulva as you slide your middle
finger in and out of her wet pussy. Alternate screwing her with your
tongue and fingers, licking up any wetness that drips down her legs.
• As her hips undulate with greater speed and intensity, it is likely a sign
that climax is imminent, and it’s time to bring on the Sexual Heartbeat.
Tailor this move to her specific hot spots by pressing and releasing
every half-second. You have several options including:
- Cupping your entire hand around her vulva like a Jill-strap.
- Pressing the underside of your tongue against her clitoris.
- Curling your index and middle fingers inside of her and
press up into her G-spot on the upper vaginal wall.
- Using your tongue or fingers to press against her pucker as she
moans and writhes with pleasure.
• As she comes, keep your pulsing consistent even as the speed and
intensity of her contractions subside to promote longer, multiple
experiences of orgasmic pleasure.
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Titillate her G-spot from both sides to bring her over the edge and
encourage her to release a torrent of orgasmic energy. Try the Sultry
Squirter in the shower or lay a few towels down to avoid any concerns of
creating a mess.
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• Kiss, fondle, and caress her body to heighten her arousal. When she’s
ready, insert your middle and ring finger into her vagina pulling up
against the upper wall.
• Alternate between a come hither motion over her G-spot and a
tick-tock movement from side to side with both fingers. You will likely
feel her G-spot swell as you fondle it.
• Suck rhythmically on her clitoris with your lips as you continue
stroking her G-spot with two fingers.
• As she becomes more aroused, place your other hand flat on her mons
(the flesh over the pubic bone) and lower abdomen and undulate it in
unison with your come hither strokes. This will allow you to stimulate
her urethral sponge (the site of the G-spot) from both the abdominal/
bladder wall and the vaginal interior. Encourage her to breathe deeply
and bear down as she is overtaken by orgasm.
• The experience of squirting varies from person to person. Some dribble
a few drops while others spray with considerable force, but the
amount of fluid is not related to orgasmic pleasure. Rather than
feeling pressure to perform in any way, focus on your unique
experience and relish in every erotic moment.
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• Use your tongue to trace a sweet path over Hart’s line as you tease her
body to the heights of orgasmic pleasure.
• Send her body into a tsunami of sexual pleasure by using a small
vibrator to trace Hart’s line while sliding two crossed fingers in and
out of her vagina.
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• Lower the lights and approach her from behind while she’s watching
television or sitting at the table.
• Wrap your arms around her and kiss her neck before moving on to her
lips. Kneel at her feet.
• Slide her bum to the edge of the chair or couch and undress her from
the waist down before spreading her legs.
• Use the backs of your fingers to very gently trace curvy lines over her
inner thighs to draw blood flow and awareness to the area.
• Gently peel open her inner labia with your thumbs and use a flat
tongue to lick the shiny vestibule from bottom to top as slowly
as possible.
• Twirl your tongue around her fourchette (the delicate spot at the
bottom of where her labia meet).
• When she starts moaning and squirming with delight, finish her
off by tracing the tip of your tongue around the outer edge of her
vestibule. Alternate between clockwise and counterclockwise
rotations, maintaining a rapid, steady rhythm.
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• Tie her down and tease her entire body until she’s pleading for your
orgasmic touch.
• The hottest sex is in your head, not between your legs. Sexual teasing
can be even more intoxicating than direct genital touch, as it allows
your imagination to run wild with erotic anticipation. To eroticize your
relationship be playful and tease your lover throughout the day with
sexy compliments and flirtatious sexual references.
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• With her advanced consent, tie her wrists and ankles to the bed posts
or chair legs using silk scarves.
• Ask her where she likes to be touched and then tease the area all
around this craving erogenous zone without actually touching it.
Breathe over it with warm air, getting as close as you can without
making physical contact.
• Do the same to her sweet vulva: trickle your fingers around it; press
your lips into her thighs, allowing your cheeks to brush up against
her labia only fleetingly; lick her mons and twirl your tongue over
her clitoral hood as lightly as possible.
• Add a few fingers to the game as you pet her pussy, but when she
starts to get really riled up, retreat to kissing her neck.
• Repeat this teasing sequence a few times, encouraging her to tell
you just how badly she craves it.
• Once her body is straining with near-orgasmic pleasure, dive in with
your lips, tongue, and fingers, and give it to her just how she likes it.
• When you’re done, be sure to tell her teasingly, “You’re welcome.”
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• Use your tongue to slide the hood of her clitoris over its shaft and
swollen head.
• If her vulva becomes too slippery, you may not be able to
manipulate her hood with your tongue. If this is the case, simply use
your thumbs to glide it back and forth while sliding your tongue inside
her vagina.
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• Take total control for this move and bend her over a chair, table, bed,
or couch.
• Separate her legs with your hands and suck her inner labia from behind
while twirling your tongue between them.
• Sit down on the ground beneath her and pull her body a few inches out
from the furniture so that you can slide your head between her legs.
Turn around so you’re facing her.
• Twist your tongue around the inner wall of her vagina and slide a wet
thumb between her butt cheeks to periodically tease her pucker.
• When her hips start to thrust consistently, take her over the edge by
sliding her hood back and forth over her shaft and head using the tip of
your tongue.
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She wraps her feet around the back of your neck and uses them to guide
you both to the heights of passion and pleasure.
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• Play with power by laying her on the bed and telling her that you want
to ravage her luscious body.
• Lie between her legs and wrap her feet and ankles behind your neck.
• Look up into her eyes and tell her to show you how she likes it.
• Press your tongue flat against her pussy and moan a little to create
vibrations. Let her guide your pressure, movements, and speed with
her legs.
• Make lots of noise to show appreciation for her pussy.
• If you can reach her breasts, wrap your fingers around them and have
her place her hands on top to control your caresses.
• When she comes, tell her how much you love it, and keep licking her
pussy even after her orgasm subsides.
• Pay close attention to the guidance of her legs and hip movements.
If she’s thrusting into you, you’ve probably found a sweet spot, so
don’t stop what you’re doing. Variety may be the spice of life, but when
it comes to toe-curling orgasms, switching back and forth between
moves at the peak of pleasure can cause more frustration than frenzy.
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minus the teeth.
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• Tell her how much you love her pussy and how sweet it tastes in
your mouth.
• Climb between her legs as she lies on her side and you lie facing her.
• Wrap your lips around the outer edges of her vulva as though you’re
biting into the juiciest peach with your lips covering your teeth.
• Suck away, tasting every last drop and allowing the juices to drip down
your face.
• Pay attention to her sounds, and accentuate your own moans as she
lets out indulgent squeals of gratification.
• Grab hold off her butt cheeks with both hands and press her body into
your face as you tell her she’s delicious.
• When her body reaches a pinnacle of pleasure, bury your tongue in her
vagina as you continue sucking with your wet, soft lips.
• Hot sex is messy, slippery, and even a bit slimy, so don’t be shy about
getting her juices all over your face. And if she’s hesitant to let you
press your entire face into her pussy, ply her with compliments (on a
regular basis—not just during sex) to support a positive body image
that includes her genitals.
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• Vary your tongue strokes and licks to gauge her response. Once she’s
close to going over the edge, launch her into a sexual trance by picking
her favorite move of the day and increasing the speed and pressure.
• Change positions and try the same techniques from different angles to
vary the sensations.
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Begin with some basic tongue screwing, then vary your tongue
movements to include:
• Wide circles tracing the inside of her vaginal walls.
• Sweeping figure eights over her labia.
• A curled-up tongue against her swollen G-spot on the upper wall
of her vagina.
• A wide V-shaped stroke over the entire vulva.
• Deep insertion with your tongue rolled up into a tight tube.
• Side-to-side motions just inside the vagina, where most of the
responsive nerve endings are located.
• Gentle pulses over her sensitive clitoral head.
• Passionate flicks over her fourchette (the lowest point where her labia
meet) followed by wide upward strokes with a flat tongue.
• Winding “S” strokes up her thighs and over her vaginal opening.
• Very gentle nibbling of her inner labia.
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rubbing-off technique.
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• Have her lie on her stomach, as this position allows her to create extra
friction using her bodyweight against her sensitive mons and clitoris.
• Straddle her lower back facing her feet and offer a sensuous back
rub to help get you both into the mood.
• Once you’re both feeling relaxed, slide one hand under her pelvis.
• She can reach down and place her hand on yours to steer the rubbing
motion. She’ll also control the pressure and amount of friction by
adjusting the weight of her body against your hand.
• Once she finds her rhythm, start stroking your cock with your other
hand in perfect rhythm with her passionate rubbing.
• Lube and orgasms usually go hand-in-hand, but rubbing orgasms may
be the exception depending on your lover’s unique tastes. Because
you’ll be rubbing her mons and vulva without penetration, too much
lube may inhibit the friction needed for this particular technique, so
check in with her to ascertain just how wet she wants it.
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• Use your tongue to lick her from bottom to top as though you’re
lapping up water from a bowl.
• As she approaches orgasm, her clitoris may become too sensitive to
handle your tongue’s licks, so be aware of her reactions and adjust your
pressure and positioning accordingly. Besides, focusing solely on her
clit while ignoring the rest of her beautiful lady parts is comparable to
sucking only the head of a man’s penis during a blow job.
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• Have her lean against the headboard with her legs bent and feet flat on
the mattress.
• Prop her hips up with a few pillows to ensure easier access to her
juiciest parts.
• Tuck your head between her thighs and curl your tongue into the very
bottom of her vulva, licking in a scooping motion, as though you’re
drinking water from a bowl.
• Begin with slow, steady licks and work your way up to her mons.
• As her arousal levels increase, speed up your licks until your tongue is
fervently lapping up her juices with several licks per second.
• As she comes, lower your tongue to the center of her vulva and keep
licking away. If it’s too much for her to take, retreat to her thighs or
perineum, but don’t let her get away with one orgasm alone. Give her
a few moments to regroup before building up the tongue-induced
storm of sensuality once again.
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• Kiss her vulva as though you’re giving it a passionate French kiss!
• Pepper your day with unexpected kisses to set the mood and leave her
wanting more. And make kissing a daily habit, as science suggests that
men can actually transfer small doses of testosterone to their lover
through a prolonged French kiss. Higher levels of testosterone are
associated with increased libido.
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• Kiss her passionately on the lips to give her a taste of what’s to come.
• Continue to build the sexual tension by caressing her legs, alternat-
ing between your gentle fingertips and the warm, firm palms of
your hand.
• Take a deep breath and exhale over her pussy before making contact
to fuel her anticipation.
• Trace wide ovals over her vulva with a soft tongue and feather-
light touch.
• Stick your tongue out and point it downward, pressing the entire
surface against her lips. Sweep your tongue from side to side like the
pendulum of a grandfather clock.
• Dive in with your lips and tongue and French kiss her pussy with your
lips, tongue, and face. Show your enthusiasm with your sounds and
breath, and don’t be afraid to get a bit messy.
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• Set a glass of ice water and a mug of peppermint tea at your bedside,
and keep your lover guessing as you change up the pace and turn up
the heat.
• Add a little amaretto, rum, or bourbon to your mint tea, or use a mint-
flavored breath strip to heighten the tingle.
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• Begin by breathing warm and cool air over her pussy without making
physical contact with your mouth. A wide open mouth will create a
warm sensation, while tight pursed lips will generate cooler air.
• Take a sip of the water and tuck a small ice cube into your cheek as you
begin licking, sucking, and kissing her labia. Don’t place the ice cube
directly on her skin, but allow the ice to cool your lips, tongue, and
inner cheeks.
• After a minute or two, heat things up by taking a sip of the hot tea
before you dive back in and resume your slurping, smooching, and
stroking. Keep sipping periodically to maintain the heat and breathe
over the wet spots to make them quiver with delight!
• If you’re going to add your hands into the mix, dip them in the cool
water before playing with your lover’s nipples or running a few fingers
over her backside.
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• Use a finger, toy, or tongue to simulate anal play through the lower
vaginal wall.
• When she’s about to come, keep stimulating the shared vaginal-anal
wall and slide another finger into her wet pussy, pressing downward
toward her stomach to caress her G-spot.
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• Straddle her at the knees while she lies on her stomach atop a pile
of pillows.
• Tease your lover with kisses over her soft butt cheeks, and kiss the top
of the slit between them without diving in.
• Separate her legs and fondle her inner thighs with both hands.
Tell her how much you like the view from behind.
• Slide your hands below her hips and lick the sides of her pussy from
front to back, separating her inner lips slowly and sensually.
• Push your lips out into a large oval shape and suck her into your mouth
before inserting your tongue.
• Slide your tongue in and out, curling it up toward her bum at the deep-
est point of penetration. As you lick her, use your hands against her
hips to thrust her into your face.
• If she wants more depth or pressure, use your fingers or a toy to curl
up in a ‘come hither’ motion against the back wall of her vagina.
Remember that since she’s lying on her stomach, you want to
curl upward toward her bum.
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