Dominate/Submissive

Contract
I, Isabel, with a free mind and open-heart request of josh that he accept the submission of my will unto him. I ask
that as my Dominant, Josh takes me into his care and guidance and encourages growth together in love, trust, and
mutual respect. It is my desire as a submissive to satisfy his needs and desires whenever possible, in hopes that I will
be found pleasing to him. In order to do so, I offer him the use of my body, abilities, and purpose.

Further, I ask that as my Dominant, he will accept the responsibility of using my body for the fulfillment and
enhancement of both of our sexual, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. In order to achieve this, he has
unrestricted use of my body any time, any place, and in front of anyone as he determines appropriate.
As my Dominant, Josh may bestow upon me any symbol of ownership, including a collar, as well as any other future
marks or tokens he may wish to bestow upon me. Symbols of ownership are to be a visible reminder of status and will be
worn with pride.

Section One: Code of Conduct

Duties of Servitude

• Above all, the primary duty of this submissive is to please.

• Personal Duties: Attend to the physical and emotional needs of josh, behave as his sexual plaything, offer
physical comfort, act in obedience, remain honest and loyal, wait on the Dominant as desired.

General Behavior

• Attitude: As a submissive, I will show an attitude of respect at all times. Disrespect is a serious offense and
will be punished.
• Respect includes: manner of speech, promptness, proper answers, obedience, and wholehearted honesty.
• Respect and obedience are the two most valuable aspects of attitude that I will show at all times. Failure to do
so will be punished. Behavior in Private
• I shall address Josh as “Sir” or “Baby” at all available times. I will pay full attention to him when being
spoken to.
• My Dominant is more important than any other activity I may be engaged in with the exclusion being family/
work/ or my children
• I will sit, stand, walk, and lay where, when, and how he desires.

Behavior in Public

• I will address my Dominant by his given name or “babe” at all times when there is not enough privacy to use
the aforementioned “Sir.”
• I will remain within a safe distance of my dom unless permission is given to do otherwise to ensure my safety.
Training

Training activities will include: offering of self, proper answers, orgasm control, anal training to increase my ability to
offer every hole as he wishes, learning to present myself as a submissive full of poise, grace, and beauty in public and
private, learning protocols and rituals throughout this contract on an as-needed basis; any other training activities as
josh deems fit.
Punishment

Punishment will be given for the following offenses:

• Cockiness/rudeness
• Disobedience
• Incorrectly addressing josh
• Failing to properly serve
• Achieving orgasm without consent
• Any other punishable offense as dictated

Forms of Punishment

Punishments can include: spanking, flogging, hair pulling, withholding of orgasm, any other punishment as he sees fit.
The sub agrees and understands that any infractions of this agreement, or any act the sub commits which displeases the
Dom, will result in punishment. The sub will gracefully accept punishment and try to learn from it. The sub agrees to
assemble the punishment materials as ordered by the Dom and assume any position needed to accept the punishment. The
sub understands that failure to comply with the Dom's orders will result in a more severe punishment. The Dom will
inform the sub that they are being punished when punishment occurs. The Dom will explain the reason for punishment
either before, during, or following punishment. The Dom agrees to discipline only out of a desire to better the sub, and
further agrees to never punish out of, or during, feelings of anger.
Limits of submissive
Foot fetish, fisting, nipple clamps. -any future restrictions can be added at any time

Safety
Safe words for the duration of the contract will be the same in public and private settings. “BLACK” will indicate an
immediate stop to all activities. The sub agrees to accept the responsibility of using a safe word when necessary. The
Dom accepts the responsibility of assessing situations where the sub calls safe word and will, to the best of his ability,
make judgement on whether to modify the activity or stop activity entirely. The sub agrees to hold no ill will due to the
Dom's decision. The Dom agrees not to punish sub for the use of a safe word.
Alternative events

If Dom and sub/slave are present at an event and sub witnesses something they desire to experience Dom will not
unreasonably withhold permission of sub/slave to Participate.

Loyalty
Both the Dom and sub will remain loyal to each other. There will be no other Dom or sub interfering or getting between
our contract to each other.
Communication

The sub agrees to answer any and all questions asked by the Dom freely, promptly, and to the best of their knowledge.
The sub further agrees to volunteer any information that the Dom should know regarding the sub's physical or emotional
state. The Dom agrees to never use this information to harm the sub in any way. The Dom will always place the Sub’s
emotional needs first. The Dominant accepts full responsibility of submissive. This includes but is not limited to: the
sub's survival, health, physical well being, and mental well being. The sub accepts full responsibility for informing the
Dom of any real or perceived dangers or safety concerns, but also states that the Dom's decision will be final regarding
these issues. The Dom agrees that sub will not be punished for respectfully stating these concerns. The Dom further
agrees to listen to the sub's concerns with a clear and open mind. The Dominant agrees to learn what excites the
submissive through exploration and communication and try to incorporate this into the relationship.

Section Three: Submissive’s pledge

I will do my best to serve my Dom. I will work hard to correct any insecurities or inhibitions that interfere with my
capability to serve you. I will grow as a person. I will maintain honest and open communication. I will reveal my
thoughts, feelings, and desires without fear of judgment or embarrassment. I will bring you any wants and perceived
needs of mine. My surrender as a submissive is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of me will demean me as a
person and in no way diminish my own responsibilities towards making the utmost use of my potential. In recognition of
my family obligations, I know nothing will be required of me that will in any way damage or harm me in any way
physically, mentally or emotionally. I Isabel, do with sound mind and the realization of what this means, both stated
and implied, in the conviction that this offer will be understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem, devotion and the
love in which it is given. Should either of us find that our aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find
this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel, either Isabel or Josh may do so by verbal
notification to the other in keeping with the consensual nature of this contract. We both understand that cancellation
means a cessation to the power exchange dynamic indicated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of the
relationship as friends, lovers, and spouses. Upon cancellation, each of us agrees to offer the other his or her reasons
and to assess the new needs and situation openly. This agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of our
relationship, committed to in the spirit of loving and consensual Dominance and submission with the intention of
furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both lives.
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Dom Josh Date

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Sub Isabel Date