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 similarinterests.Themoretwopeoplethinkthesamethebetterthe
 match.
 Mynameissandrasmith .Iwasborninwiscousin,on june4,1981.
 IhavelivedinVirginiaBeachsinceIwasfour.Iamtheonly
 daughterofthefamilyandistruggletosurviveonmyown.Igota
 brandnewEscaladejeepwhenIturned22.Ihavealwaysbeenavery
 activeperson.Icheeredforsixyears,dancedforfive,beforeigot
 intocateringjob.Ihaveadaughter  (Isabella)of4yearsoldliving
  goodwithme.ihavebeensingleforabout2yearsandineverfinda
 truerelationshipafter  igotseperatedwiththefatherofmy
 daugther.Imethimwheniwasinschoolandidocareforhimalot
 andlaterthingswentwellforusnottillafterwelivetogetherasa
 couplesbeforeiknewtheytypeofGuyhewas.
 Ihavebeenhurtalotinpastandevenidontliketorememberthis
 sillystorybutiliketotellyoupartifitbecauseiamseeingyou
 asacaringandtruthfulfellowtotalkto.
 IgotacateringcontractinGermanyforabout6monthsandileft
 theretoworknotjusttobelazy.Afterigotworkdoneiwaspayed
 about100,000USDineverknewthiswiillhappenandisenthim
 70,000USDtogetnewhouseforusandwestartagoodbusiness
 together..Ididnottellhimyetwheniwascomminghomeyetjust
 becauseihavebeenhearingssomerumorsabouthim.Myflightarrived
 atnightthatdayandihavetowaittillmorningbeforeigethome
 andonmygettinghomeicaughthimRedhandedwithmyFriendMarythe
 sameapartmentwerentedhavingsexandifaintedspentabout3daysat
 hospitalbeforeiwakeupandafterthenOurrelationshipnotworking
 outwellagain.sowehavetoputastop
 canyoutellmelittleaboutyouaswellandyourrelationship?
 Ilostmyfatherinafatalaccidentjuly26th2008andthathasbeen
 abaddayforme..sadsadsadrememberingthisandafterthismeand
 mymotherstrugglehardtosurvivebecausemymumhadcancerforabout
 14yearsilostheraswellfebruary9th2012.iknowwhatcauseher
 deathwasbecausofmylateFatherfamilytheytreatingusalot
 becausetheywantallDadpropertiesfromusandmymumsaidnothey
 canonlygetpartofitnotall.
 wellIwillsaymyFatherwastheBestmanihaveeverLovedheisso
 caring,loving,Godfearing,respectfulandresponsiblefatherbuti
 trustedandBelieveinGodandIknowGodisDoingisThingsInhis
 Ownway.ihavelearnTobeaStrongwomanhavehardworking.aswell
 asmymum.
 Whatdoyoudoforliving?
 whatdoyoudoforfun?
 howdoyoufinditeasytolivealonewithnowomanwithyou,whodid
 cookingandhomecleaning
 Formeihavenotbeenfindingiteasyagainnowtolivealonebecause
 iliketoseesomeoneilovebesidemeandsharefeelingsandtalkto
 ..youknowwhatimean..
 Ienjoyexercisingdailywhicheitherinvolvesweighttrainingor
 aerobics.Ithinkitisimportanttoexerciseandeatingveryhealthy
 meals.Ilovetogooutdancing,toniceromaticdinnersandshopping
 atlargemallsliketheMallofAmerica.Ienjoyromanticmusicand
 slowdancingaswellanfastdancing.Ipreferromantic,attractive,
 affectionatemen.Ibelievethatromanceisaveryimportantpartof
 therelionship.Ienjoymenwhoareconfidentwiththemselvesandare
 notafraidtoexpressthemselvesinadiplomaticway.
 Ithinkitisveryimportantthattwopeoplewantthesamethingina
 relationship.Ibelievethatthisshouldbediscussedandcommunicated
 clearlywhentwopeoplefirstmeet.Idonotbelieveinwastingmy
 timeortheotherpersonstimebecauselifeistooshort..Ibelieve
 eachpersonshouldbeallowedtobewhotheyareandtobefreeto
 givetheirbestforeachothersmutualbenefit.Idonotlike
 controllingmenwhodonotcommunicatewellandhaveagendasor
 excessivepreviousbaggage.IlikemenwhoIcanhaveagood
 conversationwithandwecancommunicateinamutuallybenefitialway.
 ....
 Ilikemenwhoareinterestedinexerciseandphysicalfitness.Ilike
 menwhoreadtoimprovethemselvesandfindvalueinselfhelpbooks.
 Ialsolikemenwhoareeitherspiritualbutnotnecessaryreligious.
 Ialsoenjoyattendingagoodchurchthatleavesyoufeelingbetter
 aboutyourselfwhenyouleave..
 Ihavebeenonlotsdatingsitebutidontthinkiwilleverdothat
 againimetaguyfromNetherlandneverknowheonlywantmymoney
 afterhetoldmelotliesandlaterisenthimmoneytocomeherealso
 hetoldmewanttogetnewtruckthatishouldsendhimsomemoneyto
 addupandpromisetosendbacktomeinsomeweeksandafteridid
 thathisnottalkingtomeagainevenamstillindebtheretryingto
 getloanpayedbecauseihavetogetloanforhimbecauseofthelove
 ihaveforhim..
 IhavebeeninseriousproblemherewithstillwithlateDadbecause
 hisfamilystillwanttogetallfromme..sinceidonthaveanyone
 againtohelp..
 Whatdoyouliketomeetinawoman?
 whatdoyouseekinarealtionship?
 areyouwillingtohaveanotherwomanifyoufindanygoodone?
 idontevenwanttogetmarriedagainorgointoanyrelationship
 becauseidontthinkthereisanyonerealagaintohelpalljustwant
 moneyandsexnoonereadyforaseriousrelationship..
 Areyouachristian?
 doyoubelieveinGod?
 Howoftendoyougotochurch?
 whatdoyoulikedoingatleisuretime?
 Ilovepoetry,books,walksonthebeachandcozycandlelightdinners.
 Ienjoymovies,television,music,traveling,thedesert,the
 quietnessofthemountains,theocean,sunrisesandsunsets.Iama
 veryoutgoingperson,wholovestodineouttravelandenjoythe
 simplelife.Imahopelessromanticandveryaffectionate.Ihavea
 goodsenseofhumorandIliketomakeyoulaugh.Iliketochillout
 withagoodbookorwatchandmovieanditsevenmorefunwhenyou
 haveaspecialsomeonetodothiswith.Imveryeasytogetalong
 withandaverygoodlistener..IloveToshareMyTimewithPeopleI
 Loveandcare..
 whatihopetofindinaman
 Iamlookingforaspecial,lovingrelationshipwithauniqueManwho
 isaffectionate,Handsome,withashapelyfigure,sincere,easygoing,
 withinterestsandcharacteristicssimilartomine...someonewhowants
 ameaningful,serious,long-termrelationship...notjustafewdates.
 AreyouthatspecialMan?
 Iamlookingforsomeonewhohasagreatsenseofhumorandbigheart,
 iscuriousaboutnewthingsthatwouldliketosharenewexperiences
 oroldhabits.
 Iamlookingforsomeonewhobelievesthatatrueintimatepartner
 looksoutfortheotherandviceversa.Whilenavigatinglife
 together,wearecaringandconcernedforeachother'swell-being
 becausewemakeeachothersohappyandweloveeachothervery
 much.Butidontthinkanyoneagaincanmakethishappenagainforreal
 Igotsomethingtotellyoubutiamscaredifyoutruelyhonestwith
 menotlikeothersimeethere..pleaseareyousafetheretalkingto
 meoriwaittillmaybewemeetforrealbecauseithinkthatisthe
 bestwaytodiscussprivateissue.
 Dontworryiwilltellyouaboutthislateramscared..
 okwaitamtellingyounow
 PLEASEDONTLETANYONEKNOWTHISIFYOUCANPROMISEMEIWILLTELL
 MyfatherhadsomeinvestmentinNijeriameandmumonlyknowsabout
 thisandhetoldnottotellanyoneaboutthisbecauseitsmeantfor
 mewhenigetmarriedsoicanhaveagoodlivingwithmyfamilyjust
 becausethelovehehaveformenotknowingdeathwilltakehimyoung
 sosadcryiinghere...
 Alreadyhisfamilysoldallhehaseven6acresoflandhehasin
 floridaincludinghispropertiesevenhousealltheyknowsaboutand
 theydidnotgiveusapennyoutofthis.Thethinkingtakeawaythe
 lifeofmymum
 Soyoucanseeihavebeenstrugglinghardtosurvive
 wishicanfindamanthatwillmakemeandandmydaughterhappyand
 forgetallthispast
 Hegotalawyertherethathasalldocumentsanddetailshowamgoing
 togetallisinvestmentoutformeanditriedtotalktohimbutall
 issayisNObecauseMydadtoldhimbeforeisdeathheshouldonly
 claimallthisformeafteramfullymarriedwithmymariage
 certifaicateandotherssoicanmakesomethingoutofthis
 ThatheartlessGuyimeetfromnetherlandalreadygetoutofthiswe
 plantotalktolawyerwithfakecertificateandweclaimtobe
 marriedtogetherifnotGodthatsafemehewillhavegetallandrun
 away.
 ijustneedtotrustyoumoreandthinkmaybeweplanformeetingand
 knoweachotherbetterandknowifthingswillworkoutforusidont
 justwanttogethurtagainplease..
 Howsureamiifyoutruelyreadyforagoodrelationshipnotlikeothers
 ijustneedsomeonethatwillhelpmeoutgetthisevenjustafriend
 notrelationshipandiwillgivehimsomeofit..Ihavetriedallway
 totalktolawyertohelpmeoutbetweenmeandhimbuthesaidNohe
 wantgoodformeasthepromisehemaketomyfatherbeforeisdeath..
 ifyouwillhelpmeouticantalktohimandyoualsotalktohimas
 husbandandwifewejusthavedontlethimknowwelivefaraway
 ..justpleaseyouhavetobetruthfulwithme..
 afteritalktohimigiveyouhiscontactoremailsoyoucantalkto
 himpleasebehonestwithmeanddontletanyonetoknowaboutthis
 justbecauseofDadfamilytheymaytrytogetthisagain..Thanksfor
 thehonestandcaring..