Handout 13 • Early Recovery Skills Group
Five Common Problems in
Early Recovery: New Solutions
Everyone who attempts to stop drug and alcohol use
runs into situations that make it very difficult to maintain sobriety. The following
chart lists five of the most common situations encountered during the first few weeks
of treatment. Next to these problems are some suggested alternatives for dealing with
these situations.
PROBLEM NEW ALTERNATIVE
Using friends and associates
• Try to make new friends at Twelve
Step meetings or other spiritual
• Continued association with old
recovery groups.
friends or friends who use can
• Try new activities that will increase
cause triggering.
your chances of meeting sober people.
• Plan activities with sober friends or
family members.
Anger or irritability Tell yourself the following:
• Recovery involves a healing of brain
• Small events can create feelings
chemistry.
of anger that seem to preoccupy
• Moods will be affected; it’s a natural
the thinking process.
part of recovery.
• Exercise helps.
• Talking to a therapist or a supportive
friend helps.
Alcohol in the home • Get rid of all drugs and alcohol, if possible.
• Ask others if they would refrain from
• Even if you decide to stop drinking,
drinking and using at home for a while.
it doesn’t mean everyone else in
your house will decide to stop. • If you continue to have a problem, consider
moving out for a while.
Boredom or loneliness
• Put new activities in your schedule.
• Stopping drug and alcohol use often • Go back to activities you enjoyed before
means that many usual activities your addiction took over.
and people must be avoided. • Develop new friends at outside meetings.
Consider exchanging telephone numbers.
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FIVE COMMON PROBLEMS IN EARLY RECOVERY: NEW SOLUTIONS continued from other side
PROBLEM NEW ALTERNATIVE
Special occasions
• Have a plan for answering questions
about not drinking.
• Parties, dinners, business
• Have your own transportation to and
meetings, weddings, holidays,
from events.
and other events can be difficult
without alcohol and drugs. • Leave if you get uncomfortable or start
feeling deprived.
1. Are any of these issues likely to be a problem for you in the next few weeks?
If so, which ones?
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2. How will you deal with them?
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Try to make new friends at
Twelve Step meetings or other
spiritual recovery groups.
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