ANAL
PLAY
 Without
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ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration
Why
Explore
Anal
Pleasure
Without
Penetration?

Start
reading
any
article
about
anal
pleasure,
and
you're
going
to
find
that
the
authors
talk

about
all
of
the
benefits
to
slipping
something
inside
of
the
butt.
While
penetration
can
be

delightful
(there
are
a
lot
of
pleasure
benefits!)
you
don't
necessarily
have
to
put
something

inside
of
your
butt
in
order
to
enjoy
the
pleasure
benefits
that
anal
play
can
provide.
In
fact,

you
can
enjoy
just
as
much
of
the
pleasure
by
keeping
things
OUTSIDE
of
the
body
-
no

insertion
required!

There
are
lots
of
reasons
why
someone
might
be
curious
about
anal
play
-
but
not
necessarily

want
to
enjoy
insertion.
After
all,
the
anus
is
filled
with
tons
of
nerve
endings
–
both
inside
and

out!
All
of
those
external
nerve
endings
can
be
stimulated
from
the
outside
of
the
body
too.

Stroking,
pressure,
and
gentle
touches
can
all
stimulate
those
nerve
endings
without
ever

needing
to
slip
something
inside.


Even
if
those
electric
nerve
endings
weren't
around,
the
butt
still
offers
an
easy-access
zone

that's
still
"taboo"
for
a
lot
of
people.
Don't
underestimate
how
pleasurable
it
can
be
to
play

with
spots
that
are
supposed
to
be
"off-limits"!
The
human
brain
is
surprisingly
simple
to

please
sometimes.


While
we
think
anything
that
makes
you
feel
good
is
worth
exploring,
we
also
know
not

everything
feels
good
to
every
body.
There's
no
reason
to
force
it
if
you
just
aren't
feeling
it.
And
there's
lots
of
reasons
why
you
might
have
some
anal
penetration
objections.


PHYSICAL
CONCERNS
ABOUT
ANAL
PENETRATION MENTAL
BLOCKS
TO
ANAL
ENJOYMENT


•
You
may
have
hemorrhoids
that
get
irritated
by •
You
might
not
be
interested
in
ever
being



anal
intercourse. 

penetrated.
Full
stop.




•
You
may
be
concerned
about
STIs. •
You
may
have
tried
it
in
the
past,
and
it


wasn't
for
you,
but
external
pleasure
still
•
Underlying
medical
conditions
like
IBS,
IBD,
 

feels
good.


or
chronic
constipation
may
make
the
anus
tender


and
uncomfortable
for
penetration. •
You
may
be
with
a
new
partner
and


uninterested
in
experiencing
anal
penetration
•
You
might
be
constipated
-
which
makes 

with
them
at
this
point


penetration
uncomfortable.

•
Your
favorite
anal
dildo
isn't
on
the
bed,


and
you
don't
want
to
move.

•

You
may
be
uncomfortable
with
the
idea


of
any
mess.

•
You
just
might
not
feel
like
it!

ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration
How
Can
I
Pleasure
the
Butt
Without
Penetration?

Pleasuring
the
butt
without
penetration
is
something
you
can
do
-
today!
It
isn't
a
sex
act
that

requires
a
lot
of
knowledge,
patience,
or
gear;
all
you
need
is
your
butt,
well-trimmed

fingernails,
and
an
interest
in
feeling
some
pleasurable
sensations.

To
get
started,
try
reaching
around
your
body
to
gently
press
on
your
hole.
That's
it!
Experiment

with
different
touches
on
your
anus
including
gentle
flicking
motions
with
the
pad
of
your

finger,
small
circles,
and
gentle
touch
all
over
the
entire
area
between
your
cheeks.
There's
a

lot
of
nerve
endings
there,
and
you
can
stimulate
them
just
by
touching
them!


Want
to
easily
up
the
intensity
even
further?
Don't
start
playing
with
the
backdoor
until
you're

already
aroused
-
and
really
craving
those
anal
sensations.
There
are
lots
of
ways
to
arouse
your

body
(like
the
Twirling
Fun
or
your
other
favorite
sex
toys!)
Like
we're
always
preaching,
taking

time
for
self-exploration
and
involving
as
many
erotic
zones
as
possible
is
the
key
to
enjoying

as
much
pleasure
as
possible.

Before
really
delving
in
to
the
erotic
sensations
your
bum
can
provide,
you
really
need
to
take

care
of
your
hands.
Fingernails
can
quickly
injure
the
sensitive
tissue
of
the
anus
-
and
that's

definitely
not
something
we
want
to
do.
Trim
your
fingernails
as
short
as
you
possibly
can
-

then
file
them.
Trim
off
any
hangnails,
and
if
you
have
rough
skin,
it
might
be
time
to
consider

adding
hand
lotion
to
your
self-care
regimen.
(It'll
make
your
future
anal
fingering
feel
better!)


If
you're
unable
(or
not
interested!)
in
changing
up
your
fingernail
habits,
there's
a
fun,
easy

workaround:
use
a
glove
with
cotton
balls
stuffed
into
the
tips
of
the
fingers.
This
helps

cushion
your
nails,
makes
for
easy
clean-up
afterwards,
and
doesn't
require
you
to
do
anything

with
your
fingernails
-
which
is
especially
important
if
you
pay
a
lot
of
money
for
your
nails
or

need
to
keep
your
nails
for
other
activities
that
you
enjoy.


Now,
if
you
want
to
increase
the
pleasure
of
the
basic
sensation
of
your
finger
movements,
you

can
start
adding
in
some
additional
items.
Items
like:

•
Lube!
Lube
is
the
easiest
(and
cheapest!)
way
to
increase
the
sensations
of
touching
yourself.


Lube
instantly
slickens
the
skin
of
your
finger
-
and
of
your
butt
-
and
makes
the
two


slip-and-slide
against
one
another.
This
can
make
for
frictionless
touch
and
lets
you
glide
your


finger
over
the
skin
with
zero
pain.
A
water-based
lube,
like
Satisfyer
Gentle
Light,


will
make
for
very
easy
clean-up
afterwards
with
a
bit
of
warm
water
and
some
wiping.


•
Sex
Toys!
You
might
be
surprised
to
find
sex
toys
listed
as
an
option
when
we're
not
planning


for
any
penetration,
but
it's
not
as
surprising
as
you
might
think...
ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration
Why
Use
Toys
to
Pleasure
Externally?
If
you've
ever
tried
to
touch
your
butthole
for
long
periods
of
time,
you've
probably
noticed

that
it
requires
a
bit
of
stretching
and
maneuvering
your
body
to
keep
it
up.
Depending
on

your
level
of
flexibility,
it
might
be
enough
of
a
stretch
that
you
might
need
to
tap
out
early

when
your
side
cramps
up.


If
you're
able
to
stay
in
that
position
for
long
periods
of
time,
you
still
might
find
that
your

finger
tends
to
tire.
There's
only
so
much
repetitive
motion
that
any
one
of
our
joints
can
do

before
it
starts
to
feel
a
little
grating!

Plus,
if
your
fingers
aren't
properly
trimmed
for
the
job,
your
fingernails
could
very
well
scratch

the
butthole.
I
PROMISE
you,
you
do
not
want
that
to
happen.
Long
fingernails,
elaborate

manicures,
and
hangnails
can
be
the
true
enemies
of
gentle
anal
play.


Using
sex
toys
helps
alleviate
some
of
those
concerns.
Since
the
sex
toy
stands
in
as
the

intermediary
for
your
fingers,
it
removes
concerns
about
fingernails.
Since
some
sex
toys
have

some
added
length
to
them,
they
can
reach
your
pleasure
spots
even
easier
than
using
fingers

alone.


Above
all,
sex
toys
add
some
pretty
pleasurable
sensations
that
your
fingers
can't
provide!
Last
I

checked,
most
of
us
don't
have
vibrators
built
into
our
fingers
(how
cool
would
that
be?!)
So

not
only
do
sex
toys
make
it
easier
to
touch
the
anal
area,
but
they
provide
new
sensations

that
our
fingers
wouldn't
otherwise
be
able
to
provide.
Heck
yes!


Now
that
I
have
you
excited
for
the
options
that
sex
toys
can
provide,
let's
talk
about
the
types

of
sex
toys
that
are
going
to
be
an
amazing
fit
for
external
anal
pleasure.

ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration

Sex
Toys
that
Work
Well
for
External
Anal
Pleasure!

Wand
Massagers
Welcome
to
the
pleasure
of
wand
massagers!
These
toys
are

absolutely
huge,
but
that's
what
can
make
them
such
a
good

fit
for
external
anal
play.
Not
only
does
their
large
handle
make

it
easier
to
reach
the
toy
between
your
cheeks,
but
the
wand

massager's
large
head
makes
penetration
very
di cult
-
which

can
be
mentally
reassuring
if
you're
worried
about
something

sliding
inside
accidentally.


Plus,
wand
massagers
are
some
of
the
most
powerful
vibrators

on
the
market.
Just
look
at
the
Satisfyer
Wand-er
Woman!

Finger
Vibes
Especially
if
you're
struggling
with
"not
enough
hands"
for

the
pleasure
you
want,
a
finger
vibe
can
help.
These

vibrators,
like
the
Satisfyer
Teaser,
easily
fit
onto
the

finger
to
become
an
extension
of
your
own
finger.


Not
only
does
this
ensure
you're
much-less-likely
to
drop

the
vibrator,
but
it
also
means
that
finger
vibrators
are

going
to
offer
similar
movements
that
your
fingers

already
provided
-
which
can
be
a
lovely
way
to
explore

vibrations
while
still
retaining
a
lot
of
the
same
sensations

that
you
were
used
to
with
your
previous
fingering
fun.


ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration

Sex
Toys
that
Work
Well
for
External
Anal
Pleasure!

Vibrating
Cock
Rings
Even
though
you're
not
trying
to
put
a
ring
on
a
penis,
it

doesn't
mean
it
can't
be
helpful
here!
The
"ring"
of
a
cock
ring

functions
as
an
easy-grab
handle
while
the
vibrator
portion

can
be
pressed
up
against
your
most-sensitive
spots.


Since
cock
rings
tend
to
be
slimmer
designs,
it
will
easily
slide

between
the
cheeks
which
makes
a
vibrating
cock
ring,
like

the
Satisfyer
Powerful
One
a
simple,
easy-to-use
way
to
enjoy

vibrations
on
the
anus
with
a
fun,
built-in
“handle”.

Air
Suction
Toys
While
you'll
need
some
flexibility
to
pull
this
off,
some

people
swear
by
air
suction
toys
on
the
anus.

You'll
need
an
easy
way
to
spread
the
cheeks
-
and

ensure
that
you
can
get
a
good
"seal"
for
your
air

suction
toy,
but
if
you
can,
people
who
like
to
use
air

suction
toys
for
external
anal
pleasure
say
that
it
feels

just
like
rimming!

I'd
recommend
choosing
a
thinner
toy,

like
the
Satisfyer
Love
Triangle,
to
help
it
slide
between

the
cheeks
and
avoid
its
large
size
getting
jostled

around
when
you
just
finally
get
it
into
the
right
spot.

ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration
How
Do
I
Make
Sure
the
Toy
Doesn't
Slip
Inside?

If
you're
only
looking
for
external
pleasure,
one
of
your
biggest
concerns
might
be
accidentally

slipping
the
toy
inside
the
butt.
When
you
can't
see
behind
you,
this
can
feel
like
a
very
valid

fear!
Or,
if
you're
playing
with
a
brand
new,
exuberant
partner,
you
might
be
concerned
that

they
might
go
a
bit
further
than
you
originally
expressed
interest
in
going.


If
you're
worried
about
that,
I'd
recommend
staying
with
toys
that
don't
have
any
sort
of
thin

tip
that
would
make
it
easy
to
penetrate
-
and
if
they
do
have
one,
ensuring
that
the
toy
is

never
angled
"towards"
penetration.
Lay
it
flat
between
the
cheeks
with
the
“tip”
of
the
toy

pointing
directly
towards
the
ground
instead
of
towards
the
hole.

Choosing
a
long,
wide
like
the
Satisfyer
High
Fly
can
help
alleviate
your
concerns
too.
Since

the
High
Fly
offers
a
wide,
broad
surface,
it's
pretty
di cult
to
even
attempt
penetration
unless

you're
specifically
going
for
that
and
it
would
still
take
some
effort.
Looking
for
toys
with
a

similar,
broad,
wide
shape
can
help
alleviate
some
of
your
concerns.
That
way,
you
still
get
the

fun
of
vibrational
goodness
and
sensation
-
but
without
the
worry
about
penetration!


It's
also
worth
noting
that,
for
most
people,
the
butt
doesn't
casually
open
up
and
accept

items.
Even
for
people
who
want
to
slide
something
into
the
butt,
it
can
take
quite
a
bit
of

gentle
pressure
on
the
hole
to
begin
to
slide
the
toy
into
the
butt.
It's
unlikely
that
your
self-
exploration
will
lead
to
any
sort
of
penetration,
but
I'm
all
for
any
tips
that
help
you
relax
and

focus
better
on
the
pleasure
at-hand!

ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration
Exploring
External
Anal
Pleasure
with
a
Partner

Any
partner
worth
their
salt
will
understand
-
and
respect
-
your
choice
to
not
engage
in
anal

penetration.
Anyone,
at
any
time,
is
allowed
to
set
their
own
sexual
boundaries
and
change

them
as
they
wish.

If
this
is
one
of
yours,
your
partner
is
expected
to
respect
that.
(If
they

aren't,
and
they're
pushing
and
pressuring
you
to
change
your
mind,
it
may
be
time
to
think

about
a
new
partner.)

If
your
partner
is
happily
interested
in
exploring
external
anal
play
with
you,
though,
there
are

a
lot
of
ways
the
two
of
you
can
set
off
in
this
joint
exploration!


The
easiest
way
to
start
is
just
to
have
your
partner
copy
some
of
the
sensations
and

movements
that
you've
been
doing
on
yourself.
If
you've
been
using
your
fingers,
show
them

what
sensations
you
like
when
you
use
your
fingers.
If
you've
been
using
a
toy,
show
them
how

you
hold
the
toy
and
position
it
so
that
it
feels
the
most
pleasurable
to
you.


Don't
be
afraid
to
speak
up
if
your
partner
is
applying
too
much
pressure
to
your
anus.
Even

the
most
well-intentioned
partners
might
get
a
bit
excited
and
caught
up
in
the
moment
-

and
may
be
unaware
that
they're
placing
more
pressure
on
the
toy
than
they
originally

intended.


If
you
both
want
to,
you
might
also
want
to
explore
rimming.
Especially
when
done
with
safer

sex
barriers
(like
dental
dams!),
analingus
can
be
a
fantastic
way
to
explore
pleasuring
the

nerves
of
the
anal
entrance
while
avoiding
penetrating
the
butt.


Quite
a
few
people
who
love
penetration
still
love
to
experience
rimming
for
that
very
reason;

a
warm,
moist
tongue
can
activate
your
external
anal
nerves
in
a
seriously
pleasurable
way!


Don't
forget
about
other
ways
to
explore
external
anal
sensations,
too.
Dry
humping
can
be
a

fantastic
way
to
add
sensation
to
the
anal
region
without
sliding
anything
inside.


Especially
if
one
of
the
partners
owns
a
penis
(or
strap-on!),
the
phallus
can
slide
between
the

cheeks
and
against
the
anus
without
penetrating
it.
If
you're
concerned,
the
phallus-owner
can

wear
underwear
to
ensure
penetration
doesn't
happen,
but
the
friction
of
sliding
back
and

forth
between
the
cheeks
can
still
feel
more
than
enough
for
orgasm
for
a
lot
of
people!

ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration
Your
Whole
Butt
is
Sensitive:
Welcome
to
Spanking!

The
anus
itself
isn't
the
only
spot
that's
covered
in
nerve
endings,
though.
While
the
fleshy
bits

of
your
butt
itself
aren't
as
chock-full
of
nerves
like
the
anus
itself
is,
there
are
still
a
whole
lot

of
nerves
available
for
pleasurable
play
on
your
cheeks.
That's
part
of
what
makes
spanking
so

fun!

In
addition
to
the
"thrill"
of
spanking
that
comes
because
it's
a
taboo
activity
for
most,

spanking
can
feel
amazing
to
the
nerve
endings
found
on
the
butt.
Not
only
does
spanking

bring
the
butt
(and
our
nearby
erotic
zones!)
to
the
forefront
of
our
focus
(which
can
be
hot
in

itself!),
but
the
nerve
endings
in
the
butt
can
respond
well
to
spanking,
and
the
jiggling
of
the

cheeks
can
move
and
tug
on
things
between
your
legs,
too,
which
can
add
even
more

sensation.

One
of
the
biggest
myths
of
spanking
play
is
that
it
has
to
hurt.
It
doesn't!
Spanking
can
be
as

gentle
as
you
want
it
to
be
-
or
as
pain-inducing
as
you
want
it
to
be!
Spanking
aficionados

actually
have
words
for
this:
"stingy"
versus
"thuddy".


"Stingy"
sensations
are
those
sharp,
painful
sensations
you
probably
think
of
when
you
think
of

spankings.
Being
spanked
with
a
hand,
for
example,
provides
stinging
sensations.
However,
"Thuddy"
sensations
are
deep,
muscle-tissue
sensations
that
can
feel
closer
to
a

massage
than
a
painful
experience.
Imagine
being
spanked
with
a
heavy,
flat
piece
of

cardboard.
It
would
just
feel
like
a
slightly-heavy
object
that'd
evenly
apply
pressure
to
your

cheeks
-
instead
of
a
sharp,
painful
"sting"
that
your
brain
translated
as
painful.


Neither
sensation
is
better
or
worse
than
the
other.
They're
just
different!


If
you're
looking
to
explore
the
pleasure
of
spanking
to
involve
even
more
of
your
butt's
nerve

endings,
I'd
recommend
starting
off
with
items
that
provide
thuddy
sensations
instead
of

stingy
sensations.
Folding
up
a
piece
of
cardboard
-
or
getting
a
sturdy
cardboard
tube
from

the
shipping
store
-
can
be
a
great,
and
inexpensive,
way
to
start
experimenting.
If
the
idea
of
using
erotic
paddles
made
just
for
spanking
turns
you
on,
faux
fur
paddles
can

also
provide
thuddy,
pleasurable
sensations
that
stay
far
away
from
"stingy"
sensations.


If
your
partner
is
doing
the
spanking,
don't
forget
that
they
can
also
alternate
other
activities

in-between
the
spankings.
Your
spanking
implement
can
easily
be
set
aside
to
gently
slide

fingers
between
the
cheeks
to
brush
over
the
anus
-
or
the
hand
can
be
laid
flat
for
a
few,
very

light,
spankings
right
on
the
anus
itself
to
see
what
the
sensations
feel
like.


Spanking
can
put
your
senses
on
sexual
overload
when
other
erotic
activities
are
alternated
in

with
it
-
and
it
can
make
the
entire
experience
feel
even
more
orgasmic
than
you
probably

knew
was
possible!


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PLAY
 Without
Penetration
Safety
Concerns
of
External
Butt
Play

Since
we're
not
sliding
anything
inside
of
the
butt,
the
risk
of
injury
is
drastically
reduced.

You're
essentially
just
touching
a
super-sensitive
part
of
your
body.
That
being
said,
there
are

still
some
things
you
should
be
aware
of:

Fingernails
and
sharp
objects
can
scratch
or
tear
the
anus.
I
promise,
that's
not
fun.
Take
care

to
ensure
your
fingernails
are
sharp-free
-
and
so
are
your
sex
toys.
If
you
do
end
up
scratching

the
butt,
try
to
reduce
unnecessary
bowel
movements
as
best
as
possible
(don't
eat
that

delicious
meal
that
you
know
upsets
your
stomach),
avoid
any
further
anal
play,
and
give
it
a

few
weeks
to
heal.


Anal
bacteria
can
spread
to
the
vagina.
If
you
happen
to
have
a
vagina,
you'll
want
to
be

careful
when
playing
with
the
butt.
Even
if
you're
freshly
showered,
it's
possible
for
the
butt
to

have
fecal
bacteria
around
it
-
and
spreading
that
to
the
vaginal
area
can
cause
UTIs
-
which

aren't
particularly
fun.
Take
special
care
to
avoid
touching
the
vaginal
area
after
touching
the

butt.
Wash
up
between
different
activities
or
use
separate
hands.
Using
gloves
can
also
be
a

fun
way
to
shortcut
the
cleaning
process
too
-
just
strip
off
the
"butt"
glove
before
touching

elsewhere.
Don't
forget
to
take
your
lube
into
account
too!
Excess
lube
can
drip
from
the
butt

down
to
the
vaginal
area
in
some
pleasure
positions.


Anal
bacteria
can
spread
elsewhere.
The
vagina
isn't
the
only
place
on
the
body
that's

sensitive
to
fecal
bacteria.
Any
spot
that
has
entrance
into
your
body
can
be!
This
means
that

you
don't
want
to
play
with
your
butt
-
then
itch
your
eye
or
eat
a
mid-sex
snack
-
without
first

giving
your
hand
a
thorough,
thorough
scrubbing.
Try
to
remember:
even
though
you're
not

penetrating
the
butt,
there's
still
bacteria
you
may
come
in
contact
with,
and
you
should

ensure
a
thorough
clean-up
after
you're
done.
This
goes
for
your
sex
toys
too!
ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration
How
to
Move
Onto
Penetration
-
If
You
Want
To

"Moving
on"
to
penetration
is
never
necessary.
Never.
If
you
want
to
enjoy
the
sensations
of

external
anal
play
until
the
end
of
your
days,
you're
well-within
your
right
to
do
so,
and
don't

let
anyone
(not
a
partner
or
a
sex
education
website!)
tell
you
otherwise!

However,
some
people
find
that
their
interest
in
anal
penetration
gradually
opens
up
after

sticking
to
external
anal
play
for
awhile.
Others
find
that
they
really
enjoy
the
sensations
of
the

entrance
-
and
wonder
how
those
sensations
will
differ
if
something
is
slid
inside
of
the
body.


For
whatever
reason,
though,
you
might
be
curious
about
trying
penetration.
(And
if
you
aren't,

that's
okay
too!
Just
ignore
this
section!)

If
penetration
is
the
end
goal,
it's
even
more
important
to
ensure
that
your
fingernails
are

perfectly
trimmed
and
ready
to
go.
While
you
can
usually
hobble
together
a
safe,
pleasurable

experience
externally
with
your
fingers
as
long
as
you
use
the
pads
of
your
fingers
-
even
if
your

fingers
aren't
cut
properly,
that
isn't
the
case
when
you
insert
something.
That
finger
is
going

360-degrees.
Any
little
hangnail
or
sharp
nail
corner
is
going
to
come
back
with
a
vengeance.

Ensure
that
your
fingernails
are
perfectly
trimmed
and
pleasant
before
attempting
to
slide

fingers
inside.


If
you're
already
using
lube
for
a
gliding,
fun
surface
outside
of
the
body,
then
you'll
be
well-
prepared
to
start
taking
your
pleasure
inside
of
the
body
as
well.
If
you
aren't
using
lube,
well,

you'll
need
to
get
some.
It's
impossible
to
do
any
anal
penetration
safely
without
lube.
You're

putting
yourself
at
risk
for
a
host
of
tears
and
problems
if
you
try.
Lube
helps
the
body
parts

glide
against
one
another
for
smooth,
pleasurable
penetration
-
instead
of
sharp,
gripping

penetration.
Wouldn't
you
rather
things
feel
better
anyway!?

Now
that
you've
gathered
the
lube
and
ensured
your
fingers
are
as
butt-friendly
as
possible,

let's
talk
about
how
you
can
gently
move
into
penetration
next
time
you're
playing
externally:

1.
Trim
your
nails.
If
you
think
internal
butt
play
might
be
on
the
menu
today,
I
recommend

ensuring
your
fingers
are
fully
trimmed,
you
have
a
couple
washcloths
nearby,
and
you
have

your
favorite
bottle
of
lube. 

2.
Spend
time
on
external
hot
spots.
Start
with
enjoying
the
external
sensations
you
normally

like.
Slide
your
fingers
against
some
of
your
favorite
external
spots
and
see
how
it
feels.

Continue
to
pleasure
the
external
parts
of
the
butt
like
you
usually
enjoy.
If
you
feel
like

moving
onto
penetration
today,
you
can,
but
if
you're
not
feeling
it,
that's
okay
too.
It's
entirely

up
to
you! 
ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration

3.
Lube
up.
If
you
decide
you'd
like
to
explore
a
bit
of
penetration,
this
is
the
time
to
add
a
lot

of
extra
lube
to
your
finger.
Essentially,
take
a
finger,
dab
some
lube
on
it,
then
cover
the
entire

finger
in
lube
from
base
to
tip.
Add
more
lube
than
you
think
you
need.
It's
hard
to
use
too

much
lube,
but
it's
easy
to
use
too
little.

4.
Experiment
with
a
shallow
touch.
Gently
press
the
tip
of
the
finger
into
the
butt.
Unlike

external
play,
where
you
want
to
avoid
angles
that
directly
push
into
the
butt,
you'll
want
to

switch
up
your
angles
and
choose
something
that's
pushing
directly
into
the
hole.

5.
Incorporate
a
butt
plug.
Take
your
time
here!
There's
no
rush
to
get
your
finger
into
yourself

as
quickly
as
possible.
If
anything,
you'll
want
to
go
slower
than
necessary.
This
makes
it
much,

much,
more
likely
that
you'll
enjoy
yourself.
If
you
find
that
you're
having
problems
being

patient
because
this
particular
angle
is
too
much
of
a
strain
on
your
body,
consider
using
a
sex

toy
like
a
Satisfyer
Lolli-Plug
as
a
stand-in
for
your
finger
to
help
alleviate
some
of
that
stress

and
allow
you
to
focus
on
being
patient.
Your
patience
is
the
important
part
-
not
what
you're

sliding
inside
(as
long
as
it's
anal-safe
with
a
wide
flared
base.)

6.
Let
the
tip
of
your
finger
dance.
If
you're
able
to
slide
the
tip
of
your
finger
inside,
pause
for

a
second
and
check
in
with
yourself.
Does
it
still
feel
good?
Try
wiggling
your
finger
a
bit.
How

do
the
sensations
feel?
Are
you
experiencing
any
pain?
The
tip
is
the
thinnest
part
of
the
finger,

so
before
you
continue
on
your
adventure,
you'll
want
to
ensure
that
your
body
is
enjoying
the

tip
of
the
finger.
It's
your
body;
if
you
want
to
stop
right
now,
you
can
do
that. 6a.
If
you
feel
you

gotta
"go"...
It's
very
possible
that
this
sensation
may
make
you
feel
like
you
need
to
poop.

That's
totally
normal!
Essentially,
up
until
this
point,
anything
pressing
on
these
nerves
signaled

to
your
body
that
it
was
poop
time.
They've
never
had
a
different
explanation
for
these

sensations.
If
it
makes
you
feel
better,
you
can
remove
your
finger
and
try
to
have
a
bowel

movement
before
trying
again,
but
you'll
likely
find
that
the
sensations
disappear
as
soon
as

you
remove
your
finger.
Don't
worry;
if
you
continue
to
enjoy
these
sensations
in
the
future,

your
body
will
begin
to
rewrite
these
"need
to
go"
sensations.

7.
The
only
rule
is
feeling
good.
If
you
choose
to
continue,
slide
a
bit
more
of
your
finger
or
toy

into
the
butt.
Continue
to
check
in
with
yourself
as
you
do
so.
Feel
free
to
stop
or
change
what

you're
doing
at
any
moment
-
there's
no
"rule"
about
anything
that
you're
doing
besides
you

should
do
what
feels
best
to
your
body
in
the
safest
way
possible.

8.
Edge
into
deeper
spots.
If
you
reach
a
point
where
most
of
your
finger
is
inserted,
there
are

a
few
things
you
can
do.
You
can
leave
the
finger,
stationary,
inside
of
your
body
while
you

enjoy
the
sensations.
You
can
gently
thrust
your
finger
in
and
out
of
your
body.
You
can
also

curve
your
finger
and
spend
some
time
exploring
what
the
inside
of
your
body
feels
like
-
and

see
if
you
can
find
some
of
the
most-sensitive
internal
spots.
Whatever
you
want
to
do
is
what

ANAL
PLAY
 Without
Penetration

Whatever
you
want
to
do
is
what
you
should
do.
If
your
desires
include
inserting
a
second

finger,
make
sure
you
go
back
to
Step
3
and
start
by
removing
your
first
finger,
relubing
them

both,
and
beginning
again. 

9.
You
can
always
go
back.
Don't
forget
that
you
can
go
back
to
external-only
pleasure
at
any

point!
You
might
find
it
easiest
to
wipe
off
your
inserted
finger
before
doing
that,
but
that's

why
we
brought
the
washcloth
for
easy
clean-up.
You
don't
have
to
"stick"
with
penetration

once
you've
started.
It's
up
to
you!

10.
Don't
forget
the
wipes.
When
you're
done,
you'll
want
to
clean
yourself
up.
At
a
minimum,

wash
your
hands
with
soap
and
water
before
doing
anything
else
-
and
toss
those
washcloths

into
the
wash.
Some
people
use
toilet
paper
or
wet
wipes
to
clean
up
after
light
anal
play
like

this,
or
you
might
prefer
a
shower
to
feel
as
squeaky-clean
as
possible.
It's
up
to
you! 

If
that
all
goes
well,
you
might
find
that
you
want
to
explore
the
idea
of
internal
AND
external

sensations
-
simultaneously.
Luckily,
sex
toys
can
be
a
huge
help
with
that.
A
slim
toy
like

Satisfyer
Love
Beads
lets
you
have
something
inside
of
the
body
while
still
leaving
all
of
the

external
area
available
for
your
finger
stroking
and
play.


The
Bottom
Line
I
didn't
think
I'd
need
4,000
words
to
help
explain
the
enjoyment
of
external
anal
play,
but

here
we
are
–
at
4,200
words.


Never
let
anyone
tell
you
that
you
have
to
do
anal
penetration.
There's
clearly
a
whole
world
of

anal
pleasure
(and
fun!)
to
be
had
without
ever
sliding
anything
inside
of
the
butt.
For

whatever
reason
you
have
(including
plain
ol'
just
not
wanting
to!)
for
avoiding
anal

penetration,
there's
no
shortage
of
other
ways
to
explore
all
of
the
fun
of
the
anal
area.


Now
go
on
out
there
and
put
things
near
(but
not
in!)
your
bum!