Take Action Now!

Jimmy Mack • Bob Proctor • Maria Nemeth

 Take Action Now!
Jimmy Mack • Bob Proctor • Maria Nemeth
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 Contents
A Message from the Publisher
David E. Wright
5

Chapter One: My Liquid Fish

Jimmy Mack
7

Chapter Two: The Forgotten Laws

Bob Proctor
31

Chapter Three: The Interview

Maria Nemeth
55
 A Message from the Publisher

Taking action is what it’s all about in order to make things

happen in life! I have found that as I take action on various
projects, I learn and grow. I feel energized. Taking action is
powerful. With each step I take, I see more and more of the
bigger picture. I don’t have to know all the details about what
each step will require, but when I make that first move, and as
I go along, the more I know, and the more progress I make.

As I talked with the smart and successful people in this book, I

learned even more about this vital subject. They discussed
many success factors that make actions count and they talked
about commonsense ideas about how to take those first steps.

I highly recommend this book. I think that it just may change

your life!

Interviews Conducted by: David E. Wright, President

International Speakers Network
TAKE ACTION NOW!

David E. Wright with

Jimmy Mack
My Liquid Fish®
 Chapter One

My Liquid Fish
Jimmy Mack

David Wright (Wright)

Jimmy Mack is a medical intuitive and spiritual life coach. He

has completed a variety of healing modalities, but after a near
death experience (NDE) he noticed that his ability to help and
contribute to others had greatly increased.

He works/plays with clients worldwide by way of in-person

appointments, phone, and Skype.

Jimmy is an ordained minister, and earned degrees in American

Studies and Theology, and has a Doctor of Divinity degree. He
learned about Reiki and became a Mayan Usui Reiki Master. He
has studied psychometry, and psychic development. He has
gone on shamanic journeys, taken remote viewing classes, and
studied Ascension with the monks. Later he explored and
completed levels of Access Consciousness, Theta healing as
developed by Vianna Stibal, as well as levels one, two, and
three of Reconnective healing made popular by Eric Pearl DC.
He became a certified practitioner in Matrix Energetics with
Richard Bartlett DC, NP, as well as the Yuen Method made
popular by Dr. Kam Yuen.

Jimmy, welcome to Take Action Now! Will you tell our readers
about your journey and how you wound up doing this?

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Jimmy Mack (Mack)

I grew up in Clearwater, Florida, in the 1970s. I attended St

Paul’s Episcopal school where I became an acolyte in the
Episcopal Church and thought that was it. My medical
experience was rooted in Western medicine and I went to
doctors for prescriptions or surgery just as everyone else I
knew.

It wasn’t until the 1980s and my college years in Tampa,

Florida, at USF that I hungered for classes in religion and
explored spiritualist churches in the area. I took psychic
development classes and attended psychic fairs and even
séances. I found it all so fascinating; it would consume my
spare time, my reading, and my efforts.

I wasn’t trying to prove or disapprove but to somehow try on

this ethereal spiritually-filled alien “suit” so that I could
continue to explore the offbeat. I wanted to answer questions
that no one or any mainstream religion (that I was aware of)
could possibly answer.

I knew this would be a lifelong event and quest. The more I

read and experienced, the more courses I would complete.
These courses, experiences, and modalities would mold me into
what I would later become, for lack of a better term, a healer.

Wright

So what did you do then and what happens now?

Mack

I became like a man on fire with a thirst to help, contribute,

and to heal suffering in any manner I could. I would go out of

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my way to help the sick and the afflicted, often with varying
results. Of course, I later realized that what showed up and
what was different and unusual was, in fact, meant to happen
at that time. It seemed with the client the more detached I
could become, the more “neutral” and the higher the chances
and probability were for change to occur.

In the end, I work toward creating change more than results—

I work/play/create a void toward change. It is silly to “left
brain think” that an all-knowing, ever-present, powerful
presence would require worship or praise or not intuitively
know that we are, in fact, asking for better and the best to
occur. If some disease or disorder is far to the left where there
is suffering, pain, and discord, spirit surely intuitively knows
that we are changing course back to the center or to the right,
much as we would steer a canoe.

I have often said that the better or best “result” is like a dock
that we are trying to reach by canoe. We are paddling in calm
but current-filled waters in the fog on a moonlit night, but all
we need to do is get to that dock. If we get to the right of the
dock and tie off, we will be fine. Often it is our programs, our
left brain mockery of “it can’t be done” that not only won’t let
us reach the dock, but won’t allow us to realize we are in a
canoe with a paddle (that represents change) in our hands.

Over time I have seen miracles occur. I have witnessed the

lame walk and clients with migraines cease having them, for
example. I have noticed senses like sight and hearing increase
and improve and even my own eyesight vastly clinically
verifiably improve. Countless clients for decades have
experienced “healings” and profound changes in my presence
and have witnessed miracles take place in their lives. I have

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no doubt that when we change our vibration only slightly,
change can take place and improvements are made.

Wright

I understand that you had a near death experience. Will you

tell our readers about that?

Mack

The entirety of that could take up another book, but I will give
you a brief overview.

I wound up in a hospital with what I now consider food

poisoning but as you all know if they search for something
serious long enough, they will find it. So I was presented with
getting my gallbladder out. The problem was that they gave
me too much anesthesia during my surgery and nearly killed
me. I wound up with full blown clinical pneumonia. After a
stint in ICU for three days, I had profound experiences
including other worldly beings in my room, physically
experiencing going up into portals that looked like deep inner
space and the feeling that I was going up into a kaleidoscope
of colors and the mist of all that is. I never saw bright light or
Jesus or my sweet brother Kevin who died from a drugs and
alcohol overdose decades ago.

What I saw was as real as the words you see right now and no
one thought I would live, including me. I was shown things
and told things that increased my healing ability a bazillion
fold. It was as though I were given ethereal “cotton candy,” if
you will. Now, I break some off and give it to clients in person,
on the phone or over Skype. They feel lighter and I am now
convinced that the little “soul ghost” inside them recognizes

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and responds to the movements and events that occur during
a session. Their spirit recognizes my spirit and others in the
room. I think it reminds them of “being home” (i.e., on the
other side), so much so that they often experience sadness,
joy, or even levels of bliss they cannot describe.

The goal is always to create a wind or vortex of change. The old

joke is that the only thing you can rely upon for certain is death
and taxes and to that I would add change. Count on change
happening. You may not always like it and it is not always
pleasant and what I describe as fluffy kittens and cute puppies,
but change nonetheless develops us deep and creates a more
expansive experience during this incarnation. It can increase
the odds of our having a more dynamic life (this time around)
and the option to get it so right that we don’t have to return.

I often tempt spirit and dare the field to impress me. So

whether you are talking to God, Jesus, Buddha or your great
granny or an angel that someone made up, I coach others to
be bold in their request and then clear the paths blocking that
bold event so that it can occur. I want spirit to show me a sign
so that I know beyond all knowing that it could have only
come from the “God stuff.”

Wright

So you pretty much play it fast and loose or shoot from the hip?

Mack

My clients could say that one of the keys in this little book is
that it has taken me fifty years to realize that everything is
made up—everything. Time is a construct—movies, dinners,
diners, politics, religion, the social norm.

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It took an inventor to make a car, an optimist to create the
airplane, and a pessimist to invent the parachute. Electricity,
plumbing, air conditioning and heating, and all our creature
comforts were created by those who wanted to make their
lives and those of others a little bit easier and line their
pockets with coin in the process.

Cooking is another great made-up construct. Daily chefs and

moms and television shows are inventing, experimenting, and
melding ideas into pots, skillets, and recipes that no one has
ever done before.

So therefore, instead of taking the proven road of death and

taxes, I am going off on the right-brain trail into the
unknown, the made-up, and the derivatives of what can and
will work for me. I am going to create better beliefs, thoughts,
deeds, events, and memories that will leave a mark—a mark
left behind that others can study, find solace in, and improve
their lives and the lives of those they love.

Life for me has been a continual pursuit or anticipation of

what shows up, that which is unusual and different and, just
as important, enjoyable. We have been so pre-conditioned to
work hard and think nothing is easy that I want to say, let’s
make everything easy and fun and different and enjoyable,
and life will then be delicious.

Is this even possible? I think so, because I have done it. I have
created a construct or reference point for everything being
easier, more fun, entertaining, flowing with grace, with ease
without a healing crisis, or a crisis of any kind for that matter.

Now this does not mean you will not have blocks that in some
way prevent you from following me down my little bliss-filled

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path. It means that the door is there if you can find the handle
and just open it. There is no key—it is not locked and it never
was. Often we are mixed up in this fog of left-brain over-
thinking and bogged down into mystery, intrigue, and my
favorites to clear— deserving, worthy of, and open to
receiving. These three are generally a gateway to get you what
you would like to have.

I stay out of “want” because that is like a vision board that

just keeps “wants” out in front on some construct. Pictures of
new cars, women, men, money, “mcmansions,” or whatever,
keep them just out of reach.

Now, if you have a vision board and want to take it and, in

effect, collapse the energy of that board into your body as if it
is passing in, around, and through you like a ghost, then I am
fine with that. That can make a difference because then it’s as
if the sponge-like, sticky substance that is us actually allows it
to permeate into your being, right down to the core. And
envisioning a “liquid fish” containing everything in your
vision board might just do it.

Now, let’s say that on your vision board you have a picture of
a new Cadillac. If you wound up getting a new Lincoln, or

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foreign luxury car wouldn’t you be just as excited? The answer
is probably yes, and the point is that if you are open to that
occurring with a soft focus rather than a must-have only, the
probability greatly increases that, in fact, a new car will show
up in a way that you would have never dreamed up. It could be
considered simple and yet logical, but why would you give all
of this out to the world now?

Since the liquid fish was given to me from spirit, I believe that
by giving these ideas and gifts to the world, I can in some way
give back to others and encourage generations to come to
create profound changes in their lives. I also believe the more
you will play with and experiment with this and try out
different ways to do it, see it, feel it, and so on, the more
exotic experiences you may have. And by that I mean what I
am going to coach you to do. Do not be fooled by how simple
it is just because it is new. I believe it is extremely powerful
and I am hopeful it will create an ah-ha moment for you.

Wright

Don’t clients need to take courses as you did to get their heads
around all this?

Mack

You need not take weekend courses, study huge books,

download endless systems, studies, words, or videos and, my
personal laughing favorite, meditation with a yogi in a cave
for months on end. You need not meditate for twenty-five
years to figure out how to do this. I have done all of those
things and more already. This is the culmination of all of it
melded into one thing. My dear, lifelong friend and confidant
would always say, “Explain it to me like I’m nine years old!”

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So, here it is David.

Who hasn’t seen the fish symbol for Christians? It is

everywhere from on the bumpers of cars to billboards to
magazines, and so on. Who hasn’t at some point in life drawn
stick figures? I have empowered for years, the symbol I am
about to describe to you. I have played with it, practiced it, and
tried it out on every conceivable type of person, place, thing,
situation, pet, disease, disorder, phobia, fear, financial issue,
weight gain or loss, sexual hang ups or trying to have more sex,
and most anything else you can come up with. I have seen it
work immediately and sometimes over hours, days, weeks, and
months. But I have seen it make a change and have a lasting
effect with people who had no hope. I have witnessed change
where no one else believed there would be a change.

If you know how to use a pendulum or can use applied

kinesiology and/or muscle-testing yourself, that is great. For
those unfamiliar, please reference:
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In order to experience applied kinesiology or muscle testing,

merely stand up and face due north. Ideally it is great to be
hydrated and relaxed. Standing due north, say your name out
loud and it should pull you forward for yes. State, “My name is
Nemo the Fish,” and it should rock you backward symbolizing
a no. I like to do several “clearings” first to get you to where
you are at a better place. The first statement should be “I am.”

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If that is a no, ask God to change it so that you can be fully
present in your body. When it comes in, it should pull you
gently forward to a yes or affirmative. If it is a no (backward)
or if nothing is happening and you are at neutral, drink a glass
of water. It can and will come in to where you are being pulled
forward for yes, if you will just have patience.

My next favorite statement after you have “I am” is, “I am clear.”

I used to run through a ton of negative tests and questions that
would rule out hexes, curses, dark energy, vows, negative aliens,
and so on. Now I just state, “I am clear,” again if you are neutral,
you may not be sufficiently hydrated, so take a moment and
drink a large glass of water. If your response is no, (i.e., pulling
you backward), ask for God, Jesus, Angels, Buddha, or any one of
a number of ascended masters to clear you and to show you by
pulling you forward when you are clear.

After you have “I am clear” check the reverse of this too. You
can do this by stating out loud, “I am unclear.” You may find
that to be a yes or forward response and ideally it should be a
no or a moving you backward motion. I have found the “I am
unclear” to be the elephant in the room or the dark self or
energy that is present and can be holding you back, weighing
you down, and/or the root cause of your issue or challenge.

Now that you have those, you are able to have a baseline
whereby you can ask the questions, make challenges, and
address the negative items you want to get rid of, or positive
items you want to download from the Morphic field of all that
is.

Wright

How do you create what you call “basic fish”?

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Mack

Basic Fish is what I describe as a stick figure you can draw

with either your index finger (right-handed or left-handed, it
will not matter) as if you are pointing outward and up at the
sky, as though you are saying, “Hey, look at that mountain.”
You can pretend to draw it right in front of you and small or
larger on the wall of your due north direction, or if you are
outside it can be as big as the sky.

Find something, for instance, that you want to get rid of

such as, “I am my ideal weight for my height and body
type.” Chances are it will test as no and/or rock you back.
Then draw your fish in one smooth motion. Point outward
and start at the bottom as if the point where you start is the
bottom of the tail. Then aim your finger to draw a fish
slowly by going up and toward and right over the top of the
back, then down around the front of the fish’s mouth, then
under its belly, then cut back across your line and go
upward to the ceiling or the sky. This is to take that belief
or issue, instance or thing off you and release it up to the
heavens or the clouds.

For downloading something positive such as, “I am

deserving,” start at the heavens or the top of the tail as
though you are pulling down deserving out of the sky. Move
your pointing finger slowly downward, then along and

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underneath the fish’s belly, around in front of where its
mouth is, over the top of its back. Then cross your original
line and act as though you are now dropping this “I am
deserving” statement back into you by bringing your finger
back toward you.

You should only need to do this once and it should stick. Start
out small and work your way up from “I am,” to “I am
deserving” to “I am worthy,” “I am open,” “I am open to
receive,” “I am open to receiving _______________.” You get the
idea.

The size of the fish does not matter and over time you can go
faster. While it may be endless, I believe that it can change
your life because I know it has changed mine and countless
clients throughout years. Often I need not say anything,
whether clients are on the phone, in person, or on Skype. I am
merely drawing a fish with my index finger and it takes off
whatever the negative state may be on them and downloads
the positive state.

Even if you already muscle test or use a pendulum, try using

standing muscle testing, facing north and hydrated even for
five or ten minutes. Whether you are new to this or a super
star healer, I think you will be surprised at your responses.
Good stuff you thought you had, you don’t. Bad stuff you
thought you had gotten rid of years ago, you hadn’t—it’s still
there.

So play with it all and see what you can create and come up
with. Practice the above until you become proficient. That
could mean a day, a week, a month, or longer depending on
you!

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Wright

How does it work? I mean, who or what is happening?

Mack

I believe that I have done this long enough to create a

“shooting star” of energy, if you will, that will take up what no
longer serves you or bring into you what could be useful or
positive. It’s as though we are creating a tornado effect, taking
up the negative, and a soft rain to download the positive.

This is a way to access the field of all that is. I believe the field
is everything and is the greater cosmos—the great beyond. It
does flow in, around, and through us. It is the divine spark
that connects us all and can be accessed by anyone. It has
been there all along and regardless of your beliefs for or
against it, it will work. Just because you don’t like computers
or television doesn’t mean that if you turn it on, it won’t come
on. It will come on regardless of whether you believe in it or
not, and it will work whether you are in the room or not. I
have seen that over time, if you play with this long enough, it
will start playing with you and that’s when things get really
interesting.

Wright

Why are the words so important?

Mack

The conundrum is that words can mean everything or

nothing. In other words, all of these release changes,
statements, or pieces can and will work, but over time you can
come to a place where you can say one word or use one

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thought or one representation of ten or one hundred or one
thousand words.

Each word has a different signature or mark. Negative words

look more like allergies (ponder that) and are words like hate,
which is not the same as rage, which is not the same as
resentment, and so on. Your quest can be to eliminate any and
as much of the negative that you can and to stir up, adhere to,
and bring down as much and as many of the positive as you
can for the rest of this lifetime.

For stubborn changes or erasing, I like to say, “To all that is

[God, Jesus, Buddha or ____________], take this out of every
sphere, direction, depth, height, and angle—all that is known
and unknown, named, and unnamed.”

For stubborn downloads from “heaven” I might say something

like, “Download the highest and the best version of
____________ in, around, and through me now, creating the
highest and best version of this for me now. Or I might say,
“On all levels, I believe, think, know, and feel, and I am ready,
willing, and able, and I know when, where, how, and why to
[release or download] ________________________.”

If none of this is working for you, you may be dehydrated or

your energy is reversed or both, so get hydrated and ask if
your energy is reversed. If it is, ask that be changed to normal
now and that you are downloaded in your body with an “I am”
presence now. I have seen immediate changes and I’ve seen
changes that took hours, days, weeks, and months, so your
results may vary, but I believe that this can create profound
changes. Through applied kinesiology and standing muscle
testing or using your own style of muscle testing or a
pendulum, you can witness it yourself. Again, some changes

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take longer to release and download than others.

I believe they have unique frequencies and waves. Often

clients will move side to side, which could have to do with
letting go of control or abandonment issues. Others spin
around a little bit as though they are using a hula hoop, while
others feel tremendous pulls forward and back as if spirit is
vacuuming them up! While still others feel for a minute
straight that they are being pulled forward or backward as
though they are stuck. A minute is a long time when you are
doing something new and different, but it is often how you
know that “something” is happening. Your results may vary!

Wright

“If you’ve been doing this for so long, why would you give
away your best “word tracks” and your best inner knowledge
of how to change events or disease or disorder or just plain
bad stuff?”

Mack

My answer remains unchanged. If I can help/contribute to

others and someone somewhere relays this to someone else
who receives his or her heart’s desire or is magically cured of
an illness or disorder, then it was worth it. Will it cause the
lame to walk? I believe that it can if you find the angle, correct
series of words and beliefs like lottery numbers, a spinning
wheel, jackpot, or the right safe combination. If you access the
divine and are intuitively given the ideal word, tracks and
releases change occurs.

The longer I practiced the fish, the more intuitive I became.

You need not take endless weekends or week-long classes or

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pay tons of money as I did over decades in order to create
change. I have found it to be more likely that the change
utilizing the fish is better. It has been my experience that
there is a higher probability that the change will be good than
if you did nothing at all or practiced more traditional
methods. This can be a game-changer. It was for me and I
honestly hope it will be for you.

Wright

Why does it not work for everyone and everything,

immediately every time?

Mack

I do not know, but what I do know is that I have witnessed

more miracles utilizing this than anything else I have
watched, experienced, practiced, or learned. You can try out
each tip in this book and see what works for you. I believe you
will be amazed at the outcomes if you can remain as neutral as
possible without feeling as though you are forcing anything or
causing something to happen. As an example, you need not
concentrate a whole lot to will a paper airplane to fly, but if
you fold a nice one, it can take flight. How far or high it will fly
may vary.

Wright

What does it work on best?

Mack

My personal experience is that it works best on mental issues

such as sadness or sorrow, addictions, as well as a variety of
diseases, and disorders. I have seen it create profound changes

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in others’ lives and that of my own. I believe the more creative
you can be with this framework, the more profound your
change is apt to be.

Eventually you can get to a place where you are imprinting an

issue into the design of a gold liquid fish and as fast as you can
see it or imagine it. Much like turning on a light, it can change
and shift.

Wright

What do I do to achieve this level of belief and knowing?

Mack

I practice it daily and it seems for me to get even stronger,

faster, and deeper. It is simple yet expansive and I have not
seen anything that it cannot affect in a more positive way. If
you play with it long enough, over time it can start playing
with you and you will notice that you are becoming more in
tune, more intuitive, and that more of life is starting to show
up for you without your having to chase anything. In essence,
you are recreating the sequences of your life differently by
taking out that which no longer serves you and adding that
which will enhance you and your life and that of others
because you can do it for others too, much like you would say a
prayer for another. You need not get their permission. That is
my experience and belief. While others might say that you
could affect your karma or that of the other person without
asking permission to change any little nuance or piece of
someone else’s life, I disagree.

If you see a car wreck and people laid out on the road injured
and or bleeding, you would not stop your car, revive them, and

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ask, “Do you mind if I pray for you?” You would just do it and
hope beyond all hope for the best to come to them now.

I have also found it best to face north like a compass. Being

hydrated makes a difference, too. Some other abstract pieces
you will want to check if this is or is not working for you may
include: “I am over energy or reverse energy” change this by
using the liquid fish and work on releasing that to no. Make
certain to have positive responses to “I am” and “I am clear.”
“I am unclear” should always test as no and finally, “I am
running forward in life.” This has been encoded to mean body,
mind, spirit, health, business, love, and so on, and/or as much
as you could pack into it.

Wright

What happens now?

Mack

The Field is the morphic field of all that is. This can represent
to you a beautiful beach scene, an open field or meadow or
even a sky-lit night. Now imagine looking up at your favorite
scene like one of those. Ideally, if you can be there in person,
that’s even better. You will then be asking your fish to take up
the negative into the clouds/heavens. When creating your fish
for the positive, start at heaven and move toward you. This
represents bringing the good down from the clouds/heaven
into every aspect of your being.

Wright

What have your healing/coaching clients said about how your

using this has worked for them?

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Mack

I’m glad you asked that. I get upbeat e-mails daily and I will
share three with you now:

“I have worked with Jimmy Mack for several years. In a short

time he brought my income up to the highest it’s ever been. I
love his witty, down-to-earth personality. He is very easy to
talk to, always knows what I need to change/clear most, and
always lifts my spirits. He is a true blessing and I can’t
recommend him enough. I am now working with him on
weight issues and I have no doubt that I will be one slimmer
sexier chick as a result of our sessions! Thank you, Jimmy, for
all you do!”—DW

“Hi, Jimmy Mack! I just wanted to give you an update:

• Living life in the flow almost always
• Remembering to ask for what I want—good traffic,
perfect timing, clients, money, and so on
• $81,000 worth of debt forgiven—completely erased by
the bank!
• profitable, new clients falling into my lap
• attracting all kinds of great people
• everyone asking me what I do for a living, and my
answering in a fun way
• being respected, heard, and knowing that my intentions
will come to fruition.
“The list goes on and on. I am super grateful to you for
helping me in this shift. I can’t believe how different
everything is! Thanks for everything.”—JP

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“Hey, Jimmy, so job stuff and money are looking up! My
current job on the Broad Way [sic] play that was underpaying
me now is giving me $250 a week (much better than the $50 I
was getting for about forty hours a week).

“I also just got hired to work for a full-year paid internship for
a TV show at CBS!

“I have met someone and got tickets/invite to the red carpet

event! “Still open to love and any opportunities that present
themselves! “I’m thrilled with the job situations! Thank
you!”—A

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 About the Author

Jimmy Mack is a medical intuitive and spiritual life coach. He

has completed a variety of healing modalities but after a near
death experience (NDE) he noticed that his ability to help and
contribute to others had greatly increased.

He works/plays with clients worldwide by way of in-person

appointments, phone, and Skype. Jimmy Mack is an ordained
minister, has degrees in American Studies and Theology, and
a Doctor of Divinity degree. He learned about Reiki and
became a Mayan Usui Reiki Master. He has studied
psychometry, psychic development. He has gone on shamanic
journeys, taken remote viewing classes, and studied
Ascension with the monks. Later, he explored and completed
levels of Access Consciousness, Theta healing as developed by
Vianna Stibal, as well as levels one, two, and three of
reconnective healing made popular by Eric Pearl DC. He
became a certified practitioner in Matrix Energetics with

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Richard Bartlett DC, NP, as well as the Yuen Method made
popular by Dr. Kam Yuen.

Jimmy Mack
MyLiquidFish®
727-678-0557
info@[Link]
[Link]
Clearwater Florida

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TAKE ACTION NOW!

David E. Wright with

Bob Proctor
The Forgotten Laws
 Chapter Two

The Forgotten Laws

Bob Proctor

David Wright (Wright)

Today I’m talking with Bob Proctor, featured in the blockbuster

hit, The Secret. Bob Proctor is widely regarded as one of the
leading masters and teachers of the Law of Attraction and has
worked in the area of mind potential for more than forty years.
He is the best-selling author of You Were Born Rich and has
transformed the lives of millions through his books, seminars,
courses, and personal coaching. He is a direct link to the
modern science of success, stretching back to Andrew Carnegie
the great financier and philanthropist.

Carnegie’s secrets inspired and enthused Napoleon Hill in his

book Think and Grow Rich, which in turn inspired a whole
genre of success philosophy books. Napoleon passed the
baton on to Earl Nightingale who has since placed it in Bob
Proctor’s capable hands.

His wide-ranging work with businesses and industries around

the world extends far beyond the pep syndrome. Instead, it
encompasses working with business entities and individuals
to develop strategies that will assist individuals at all levels to
grow, improve, and adapt to the ever-changing nature of

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today’s world. His company, LifeSuccess Productions, is
headquartered in Phoenix, Arizona, and operates globally.

Bob Proctor, welcome to Take Action Now.

Bob Proctor (Proctor)

Thank you very much, David. It’s my pleasure to be here.

Wright

Perhaps a quote from Doug Wead, former Special Assistant to

the President of the United States, will better describe you for
our readers. He said, “Zig Ziglar may be the master motivator,
or Mark Victor Hansen and Jack Canfield, master storytellers
and co-authors of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series,
Anthony Robbins may be the guru of personal development,
but Bob Proctor is the master thinker. When it comes to
systematizing life, no one can touch him.” That’s pretty heavy
stuff. How did that make you feel?

Proctor

I was a little flattered with that and humbled coming from

Doug. Doug is a great individual. It’s what I’ve done for the
last fifty years—all my adult life. I’ve made a study of
thinking and why we end up where we are or why we do what
we do.

My life went through such a dramatic change at the age of

twenty-six. I had no formal education and I had no business
experience. I was losing and picking up speed. A good friend
of mine, Ray Stanford, who was really the first mentor I ever
had, suggested I read Think and Grow Rich. So I did and I
began to study it. Everything in my world changed. My income

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went from $4,000 to $175,000 and then I took it to over a
million. I started a cleaning business cleaning floors. I started
with a bucket and a mop, cleaning one office and in less than
five years we were cleaning offices in Toronto, Montreal,
Boston, Cleveland, Atlanta, London, England. It was such a
dramatic shift that I wasn’t satisfied with just accepting it and
enjoying it, I wanted to know why I changed because
everything I had been taught indicated that what happened
with me couldn’t happen. But, it did happen.

So I started to study, I wanted to find out how I changed and

that led me to the mind and why we do what we do and why
we don’t do many of the things we want to do and should do.
It took me about nine years to figure it out. I was really
looking; I was a very serious student. I came to the conclusion
that the information I had learned was lacking in our
educational system and, oddly enough, it’s still not taught.

So, when I finally figured it out, all I wanted to do was share

it. I’m a firm believer that we don’t really enjoy something
until we share it. I don’t care if it’s a new suit, a dress, a new
car, or even a sunset. You want to say, “Oh my goodness, look
at that,” and then you enjoy it a little more. Well, I had this
information and all I wanted to do was share it, so I decided
that that’s what I’d do—that’s what I’d spend the rest of my
life doing. And, that’s what I’ve done.

Wright

So it’s been several years since the revolutionary movie, The

Secret. It made such an impact and you were one of the key
figures in that endeavor. Would you explain to our readers
what the film was about?

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Proctor

The film was created by Rhonda Byrne and it was such a

phenomenon. Yet, there was a lot of criticism of it because it
talked about the Law of Attraction. It created an awareness
that there are laws that govern our universe. And, although it
didn’t get into the laws in any depth, it focused on the Law of
Attraction and it made people think.

The Law of Attraction is actually a secondary law, the law of

vibration is the primary law and whatever vibration we are in
is going to dictate what we’re going to attract. But, I still think
The Secret did a phenomenal job. It’s estimated that two to
three million people have been affected by that film and/or
the book, worldwide. It’s been translated into just about every
language.

It really woke people up and made them stop and think—why

do these things happen? Why are things as they are? So I
think The Secret did something that nothing else has ever
done, certainly in my lifetime. I was just extremely fortunate
to be asked to participate in it. Oddly enough, many people
think I created it. I had nothing to do with the making of it,
aside from the contribution I made.

Wright

So over the years there have been many speakers, trainers,

and educators who have introduced me to the Law of
Attraction theory but now I find that you believe that the Law
of Attraction is incomplete, and for the first time you reveal
eleven forgotten laws that finally uncover the laws’ true
potential. How did this knowledge come about?

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Proctor

I don’t think the Law of Attraction is incomplete. I think the

Law of Attraction is a part of but inclusive of everything. The
Law of Attraction is one aspect of the laws that govern life.
You might be thinking, how did these laws come about? Well,
I see the law as God’s modus operandi. I believe in God. I
believe that there has to be a first cause, a primary cause, and
I see the laws as the modus oprandi—how all work is done.
You see it in all of life. The sad part is that we’re not taught
this as children.

You see, I believe if you can teach a child three or four

languages before he or she goes to school (many kids learn
several languages before they’re five years old) we should be
able to teach children some of the basic laws that are going to
govern their life. But, we don’t and the laws are not part of our
formal educational system, so when you start talking about
the laws of the universe, people laugh at you.

I recall being on Nightline with Cynthia McFadden. Cynthia

was asking me questions about The Secret and the laws. She
brought in a couple of professors from one of the universities
in New York to refute what I was saying. They were mocking
and criticizing it and she said, “Well, what do you have to say
about that?”

“They obviously don’t understand it,” I replied. “Anything we

don’t understand we have a tendency to criticize or ridicule
and rather than doing that, we should try to understand it.
The Law of Attraction is an absolute law, energy attracts like
energy. That’s why a carrot grows. Not all the energy in the
Earth is in harmony with the vibration of a carrot seed, just
those particles of energy that are in harmony with it are

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attracted to the seed. And, of course, the attraction continues.
Over a period of time, governed by the law of gender, in about
eighty days the carrot is ready to eat. This doesn’t happen by
luck, it happens by law.”

When I began to study Earl Nightingale and his Lead the Field
Program, I remember him saying that as you begin to move
toward your goal, it will begin to move toward you. I really
didn’t know very much at the time but I thought, “Wow, I
wonder if he is right.” Well, he was right. As you move toward
the goal, the goal moves toward you because you are in
harmony with whatever you are attracting into your life, so
it’s coming to you and you are going to it.

Wright

Will you explain to our readers the original Law of Attraction

blueprint on which you based your eleven forgotten laws in an
effort to uncover the true potential of the Law of Attraction?

Proctor

Well, there is a Law of Thinking. Think about it. What is

thought? Thought is energy. Thought is the most potent form
of energy in existence, it penetrates all time and space. Edgar
Mitchell, the Captain of the Lunar Landing Module (one of the
Apollo flights), was doing thought transference exercises from
the other side of the moon. It was well documented.

Our thoughts are omnipresent and the thoughts that you

think and internalize instantly begin to move into form
because of the Law of Transmutation of Energy, which moves
your thoughts into form. We should be very cognizant of what
we are thinking because most people are thinking what they

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don’t want. I’ve heard it said that many people treat life as a
deep mystery—a complex and incomprehensible problem.
Mystery is just another word for ignorance, but as we start to
understand it, it’s not really a mystery.

Thinking is the highest function of which we are capable.

Every great leader who has ever lived has been in complete
and unanimous agreement that we become what we think
about. They disagree on virtually everything else, but on that
one point they’re all in agreement. Solomon said, “As a man
thinketh in his heart, so is he” (Proverbs 23:7). He’s referring
to the heart of hearts— the mind. The thoughts that we
entertain are going to control the vibration we’re in because
it’s energy.

Our body is energy, our mind is movement. Our body is the

manifestation of that movement. So as we think, we impress
that energy upon the cells of our being and if they’re negative
thoughts we’ll move into a negative vibration, if they’re
positive and good thoughts, we move into a positive or good
vibration.

As we become consciously aware of the vibration we’re in, we

don’t say, “I’m consciously aware of being in a good or bad
vibration.” That’s where the word “feeling” comes in. We say,
“I feel good” or “I feel bad” or “I’m not feeling that good.” If
we’re not feeling that well, all we have to do is adjust our
thoughts and our vibration will change and we’ll feel
differently. But I don’t believe that the vast majority of people
have any understanding that they have such control of their
life.

In his little book, As Man Thinketh, James Allen said, “A man

becomes calm in the measure that he understands himself as a

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thought evolved being, for such knowledge necessitates the
understanding of others as the result of thought.” So, if we see
a person acting in a certain way that is not very pleasant and
they’re directing that energy toward us, when we understand
we’re a thought-evolved being, we’re not going to let what the
person is doing or thinking control our thoughts. Instead, we
might look at people’s bad behavior and wonder why they are
acting that way. Would they deliberately upset themselves if
they were in control of their thoughts?

Wright

Perhaps we should state the eleven laws. Will you give us a

brief overview of each one?

Proctor

There’s The Law of Supply. There’s a Law of Thought. The law

of Perpetual Increase means progress and growth. We see it in
everything in life and when we understand that everything in
life is expanding and growing, we’ll want to get in harmony
with that so our life moves in that direction.

There is the Law of Attraction. We just spent some time on

that. You will attract to you whatever is in harmonious
vibration with you and if you don’t like what’s coming into
your life, you’d better start to see yourself receiving what you
want. Most people hold the image of what they don’t want. I
hope this doesn’t happen. If you go back to the great sufferer
in the Bible, Job, he said, “Lo, the things I fear have come to
pass it upon me” (Job 3:25). The fear is nothing but the
thought you’ve internalized that you are giving emotion to.
Fear is the next step from doubt and worry, but that’s a
conscious exercise we get involved in and it turns into fear.

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The Law of Receiving is the other half of The Law of Giving.
Remember, give and it shall be given unto you, good measure
and running over. In learning how to give, we learn how to
receive. One of my mentors taught that to me very well. He
said that we should willingly give and graciously receive. You
see, as we give, we open ourselves up to receive. This is all
based on law. Emerson said that The Law of Cause and Effect
was the “law of laws,” meaning that what you put out is what
is going to come back.

We spoke about The Law of Increase—everything increases.

Everything we give energy to grows. To quote Emerson again,
he said the only thing that will grow is the thing that you give
energy to. So The Law of Increase is a definite law and we are
in control of what does increase in our life, what grows, and
that is whatever we give energy to.

The Law of Compensation is another great law. You might

hear someone way, “I don’t deserve this. Life isn’t fair. It
hasn’t dealt me a fair deal and why are they getting all that
and I’m not.” I personally think the law of compensation is
very clear. It clearly states that what we receive in life is going
to be in direct ratio to the need for what we do, our ability to
do it, and the difficulty there is in replacing us. Realize that no
one is indispensible but some people are very hard to replace.
I think that if we just make up our mind we’re going to
become very good at what we do, then things are going to
start moving in the right direction.

We’ve got to have direction in our life, without it we’re lost.

I am reading Churchill Defiant: Fighting On: 1945–1955. He was

a great man. Churchill was on the Queen Mary sailing from
England to New York. It was just after the second world war

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and the ship was filled with veterans who were returning from
battle, Canadians and Americans.

He was up on the bridge one night speaking to the troops over

the loud speaker and he told them that what was going to
happen in the future was now in their hands, their life was
theirs and they could make out of it whatever they chose, but
he suggested that they have a definite purpose that they
follow.

He told about being on the bridge the night before and looking
down and seeing all these massive, angry waves smacking
against the ship and there were so many of them but the ship
just kept on going.

He asked himself why was it that the waves could not stop the
ship, even as violent as they were. He said, then he realized
the ship had a purpose and the waves had no purpose. Some
people live like the waves at sea and others like the ship.
We’ve got to have a definite purpose and really throw
ourselves into it and love what we’re doing. If we do that, we’ll
be very well compensated.

The Law of Non-Resistance is another law. Whatever we resist

persists. So, it’s best to just let it go. I think that is where
forgiveness comes in so well. To forgive is to let go of
completely.

I just mentioned forgiveness in The Law of Non-Resistance.

Well, there actually is a Law of Forgiveness and it’s very
clear—to forgive is to let go of completely, to abandon.
Michael Beckwith, who also appeared in The Secret, said
something one day in a seminar I was attending. He said,
“When anything happens in our life, it doesn’t matter what it

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is, there is a three-step strategy to handling it. Number one: it
is what it is, accept it. It doesn’t matter what it is, accept it.
It’s either going to control you or you’ll control it. Number
two: harvest the good. The more you look for it the more
you’ll find. And, number three: forgive all the rest.

As we look at these laws and start to dig into them, we might

change our thinking and say that these aren’t just cute sayings
that have been passed down from one generation to the
next—these are laws and they work every time for everyone. It
doesn’t matter where you are. You can be in Singapore or
Sault Ste Marie, you can be in Montreal, or anywhere—you’re
going to get exactly what you attract, what you are. The law
responds to your paradigm, not your wishes or wants.

The Law of Sacrifice is next. A lot of people, myself included,

thought sacrifice was losing something or giving up
something. In truth, it’s letting go of something of a lower
nature to receive something of a higher nature. We’re merely
making room for greater good in our life. Sacrifice is a very
positive forward step and it’s something that we should all
start to understand. It has nothing to do with losing
something, it’s about gaining something.

The Law of Obedience is a matter of being obedient to the law.

I think this is where discipline comes in. Discipline is, as I see
it, giving yourself a command and then being able to follow it.
As we become more obedient and live more in harmony with
these laws we, of course, will experience greater rewards.

I like the way Raymond Holliwell talked about The Law of

Success. He said, “God intended every individual to succeed. It
is God’s purpose that man should become great. It is God’s
will that man should not only use but enjoy every good in the

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universe. The law of God denies man nothing. We’re born to
be rich. The powers inherent in him are inexhaustible. Each
normal person is endowed with a complete set of faculties
which, if properly developed and scientifically applied, will
ensure success—ever-growing success.” You see, success can
be and is an absolute law if we understand it.

So these are some ideas that I have worked with, that I’ve
grown up with, and I’ve been teaching for more than forty
years. I’ve seen some phenomenal results come from people
attempting to apply them to their lives. I don’t know anyone
who does it perfectly; I certainly don’t.

Wright

One of the questions I have goes back to The Law of

Receiving. I’ve been here for a whole lot of years and it seems
I never get better at it. In your opinion, why is it much easier
to give than it is to receive for a lot of us?

Proctor

Well, I think we’re raised with the wrong idea as children. I

don’t think our self-image or our self-esteem is properly
established as a little child and unfortunately we grow up and
we don’t get into it the way we should.

I know my own self-image has grown tremendously over fifty

years but there is still room for improvement because I still find
myself putting myself down. Our paradigms are very powerful.
They’re genetic; they go back for generations. Many of the
things you do, you don’t decide to do consciously. Consider
some of the foods you eat—you didn’t consciously decide you
liked them, it was decided by an ancient ancestor and it’s been

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passed along in genes; it’s genetic conditioning. If we paid
attention, we would notice that some of the little idiosyncrasies
we have can be found in our parents and grandparents. This
genetic conditioning is so strong. It’s the same with why we
don’t feel worthy of the good that we desire.

When working with Earl Nightingale, he shared something with

me one time that I absolutely loved. He said that when you’re
going after a goal, don’t ask whether you are worthy of it, ask
whether it’s worthy of you because you’re going to trade your
life for it.

So I think we’ve got to realize that all we have to do is open up

and we’ll receive. Just ask and it’s given to us and it’s all here.
We don’t have to get anything, it’s all here. It’s a matter of
becoming aware of its presence. Nothing is created or
destroyed.

I guess it’s part of the eternal journey that we’re on and we’re
attempting to gain a better understanding. I believe, spiritually,
that we’re perfect. I believe our spiritual DNA is perfect. I don’t
think it requires any modification or any improvement. What
we have to do is become aware of its perfection and the more
aware we become, the more it’s reflected in our life.

Wright

Wesley said that we’re moving toward perfection, and you

think we’ve reached perfection already and we just don’t know
it?

Proctor

I believe we are a soul. I don’t think we have one, I think we

are one. And, I believe the soul is perfect and the soul is

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forever seeking its awareness of its oneness with Spirit, with
God, with that which is. So the perfection is there but we’re
not aware of the perfection. So Wesley is right, but it’s an
intellectual statement that we haven’t understood on a deep
emotional level.

Intellectually, you may say, I believe I can do thus and so. I

believe I can. And yet, your behavior would indicate that you
don’t believe it at all. Well, that’s because we believe on two
levels of consciousness—our conscious level of belief and our
subconscious level (that’s where the paradigm is). Our
paradigm is controlling our behavior. That’s where the word
“Praxis” comes in. Praxis is the integration of belief with
behavior. We’ve got to take some of these beliefs that we have
created in our conscious mind through study, through paying
a price, and then internalize those beliefs so that they become
part of our everyday behavior.

Wright

Praxis?

Proctor

It’s a beautiful word.

Wright

You have defined Matrixx as an incubator, a place of growth.

So, for the first time as a Secret teacher and renowned
business mentor, you are personally providing six full days of
your time in a small group setting to help people develop their
ideas and business. How do you deliver this unbelievable
information?

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Proctor

We bring people together for six days and it’s pretty intense.
The program goes from morning to night, and we help those
who attend to understand that they are capable of executing a
dream, an idea. If they come with an idea, we help them give
birth to the idea, to execute the idea. If they attend and don’t
have an idea in mind, we help them create one. We put them
in brainstorming sessions and mastermind sessions and they
get into the energy of creating something special. Typically,
it’s a small class of 25–50 people.

They are together for six days. On the last two days, we bring
in suppliers I use, some of whom I’ve dealt with for fifteen
years. They are very trusted and wonderful suppliers and we
have them attend to work with the participants.

We don’t pay the suppliers to come in; they come in on their

own dime. We allow each supplier to give a ten-minute
presentation on what they do and then we allow the participants
an opportunity to set up individual appointments with a
supplier, where they sit down for thirty minutes with suppliers of
interest to them to discuss their idea. If there’s a good
connection between the two, they set up a time to work
together. We don’t make anything on the back end. We just
bring them together. We’ve seen some wonderful work get done.

We help the participants better understand themselves and

the creative process and how the creative process actually
works. The creative process starts with a fantasy. It then
moves to a theory where you mentally play with it for a while
and ask yourself two questions: Am I able? Am I willing? If
you can answer yes to both of these questions, then you can
turn it into a goal. It’s at that point where we bring in the

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suppliers/experts to show them how to execute the goal and
work with them. I believe the program is built on three Cs:
Consciousness, Creativity, and Connections.

Wright

So you don’t just say go home and read a bunch of stuff, you
actually introduce them to people who can help them.

Proctor

Oh no, it’s not just, “Here are a bunch of books, go home and
read them.” We have students re-audit several times. We had
one fellow, Joakim from Sweden. Joakim went back home and
turned his idea into a multimillion dollar idea.

Now, he comes back as a facilitator and helps out with the

class. He shares his experience with the people, what he did,
how he learned it, got the idea, and got it going.

It’s a great environment and something I have a lot of fun

with. I wanted to put something together where we got the
participants to take action on their idea before they left the
class. So it’s a special environment.

Wright

I can almost imagine some of the suppliers who might even

come for some of the guests you have coming and mentors,
as it were, in the future.

Proctor

Absolutely. It’s an environment where you make great

connections and learn some great information. If you’re going
to execute a big idea, you’re going to want to be associating

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with other thinkers who are moving in the same direction as
yourself. We have a tendency to be attracted to people who
are much like ourselves. And, if we don’t begin moving ahead,
start thinking differently and hang around people who think
differently, we’ll probably stay where we are, or worse, fall
back. The paradigm always wants to hold us back.

Wright

This has been such an exciting conversation. Do you mind if I

ask you one more question?

Proctor

Anything at all, David.

Wright

One of my mentors many years ago told me that if I were

ever walking down a country road and saw a turtle sitting on
top of a fence post, I could bet he didn’t get up there by
himself. I’m just wondering who are some of the people in
your background, going all the way back, who have made you
the person you are?

Proctor

I love that. Well, Ray Stanford was my first mentor. He’s gone
now. In fact, they’re all gone now. Ray Stanford was the
person who introduced me to Think and Grow Rich and I really
owe so much to him because he saw something in me that I
didn’t see in myself and I believed in his belief in me, because
I didn’t believe in me.

Then Earl Nightingale and Lloyd Conant. I went and worked

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with them and spent five years working with them. It was such
a rich, rewarding experience just being around them and they
were so different—they were as different as night and day in
their personalities. Lloyd was a great businessman; Earl was a
great philosopher, teacher, visionary. So I learned so much
from both of them. I worked at their side for five years.

I was introduced to Nightingale Conant and then Val Van de

Wall from Western Canada and he, in turn, introduced me to
Dr. C. Harry Roder. Val and Harry were the two men who
taught me about the mind. In fact, there is a psychiatrist I
worked with in Florida, Dr. John Mike, and he said I taught
him more about the mind in a year than he had learned in four
years of medical school and five years of psychiatric training.
When he said that, I thought, “Wow, what I taught him was
simply what Van de Wall and Dr. Roder taught me.” They were
absolutely brilliant and they took the complex subject of the
mind and reduced it to something that was really simple for
me to understand.

I think my effectiveness as a teacher and communicator of this

type of information is largely due to the fact that I have had great
teachers who communicated to me in a very simple way. I read
one time where John Kennedy said he prepared his speeches so a
ten-year-old could understand them; I thought, “Wow, what great
advice.” That’s probably the way I communicate the information
because that’s the way I received it.

Last but not least, my sixth mentor was Bill Gove. Bill Gove was
the Frank Sinatra of public speaking. He was the greatest guy in
the world. I was very shy but I had studied so diligently. I had such
a desire to teach the material I’d learned, but I was too afraid to
raise my hand to ask a question, let alone stand up in front of a

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crowd and speak. I remember going to hear him speak. I was in
the back of the room. We were at the O’Hare Hyatt and it would
have been around 1968. He was on stage and he held up his hand.
He was looking out into the audience with about a thousand
people in front of him. He said, “If I want to be free, I’ve got to be
me. Not the me you think I should be, not the me I think my wife
wants me to be, not the me I think my kids think I should be. If I
want to be free, I’ve got to be me.” And, then he said, “But I’d
better know who me is.” I was watching him and thinking my
goodness he is so good at this. I thought, if only I could do that.

Now, on Earl Nightingale’s Attitude recording from the “Lead

the Field,” there is a part where he says, “Now right here we
come to a rather strange fact. We tend to minimize the things we
can do, the goals we can reach, and for some equally strange
reason we think other people can do things we cannot.

Understand that’s not true. You have deep reservoirs of talent

and ability in you.” If you had asked me whether or not I
understood that, I would have said of course I understand it.
After all, I must have listened to that a thousand times. But here
I was at the back of the room and I’m thinking, “If only I could
do that,” and at that moment, Earl’s recording started to play in
my head, “Now right we come to a rather . . .” and I thought,
“That’s exactly what Earl meant.” I made up my mind that I
wasn’t only get to know Bill Gove, I was going to get him to
teach me what he was doing.

Bill and I were great friends for a long time, right up until he
passed away. I think the last time he spoke was at an event that
my company had invited him as guest speaker in Florida. It was
late September and I think Bill passed away around the twelfth
of December. If he had lived to January, he would have been

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ninety. Fortunately, we had the event professionally filmed and
we’ve got his last public appearances on film. It was just weeks
after that he passed away and I thought, “Wow, that footage is
worth something.” So I gave it to Bill’s business partner, Steve
Siebold, and Bill’s wife, Ada. He was such a phenomenal speaker;
I loved him so much. I miss him.

Wright

He was absolutely my favorite speaker, and that is saying a lot.

This has been a pleasure for me. It has been such an

interesting conversation and I know the readers of this
chapter are going to get a tremendous amount of information
from it. I also hope they’ll follow up on what they learn.

Proctor

David, it’s been my pleasure, I have enjoyed chatting with you.

Wright

Today I have been talking with Bob Proctor. Bob is widely

regarded as one of the living masters and teachers of the Law
of Attraction and has worked in the area of mind potential for
more than forty years. He is the bestselling author of You
Were Born Rich and has transformed the lives of millions
through his books, seminars, courses, and personal coaching.

Bob, thank you so much for being with us today on Take

Action Now.

Proctor

My pleasure, David. Thank you for having me.

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 About the Author

Bob Proctor was featured in the blockbuster hit, The Secret.

Bob is widely regarded as one of the leading masters and
teachers of the Law of Attraction and has worked in the area
of mind potential for more than forty years. He is the best-
selling author of You Were Born Rich and has transformed the
lives of millions through his books, seminars, courses, and
personal coaching. He is a direct link to the modern science of
success, stretching back to Andrew Carnegie the great
financier and philanthropist. Carnegie’s secrets inspired and
enthused Napoleon Hill in his book Think and Grow Rich,
which in turn inspired a whole genre of success philosophy
books. Napoleon passed the baton on to Earl Nightingale who
has since placed it in Bob Proctor’s capable hands.

Bob’s wide-ranging work with businesses and industries around

the world extends far beyond the pep syndrome. Instead, it

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encompasses working with business entities and individuals to
develop strategies that will assist individuals at all levels to
grow, improve, and adapt to the ever-changing nature of
today’s world. His company, LifeSuccess Productions, is
headquartered in Phoenix, Arizona, and operates globally.

Bob Proctor
LifeSuccess Productions
8900 East Pinnacle Peak Road, Suite D-240
Scottsdale, AZ 85255
800-871-9715
customerservice@[Link]
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TAKE ACTION NOW!

David E. Wright with

Maria Nemeth
The Interview
 Chapter Three

The Interview
Maria Nemeth

David Wright (Wright)

Today I’m talking with Maria Nemeth, PhD. Dr. Nemeth is a

Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Master Certified Coach, and an
internationally recognized speaker, author, and seminar
leader. She is Founder and Executive Director of the Academy
for Coaching Excellence. For more than twenty years,
Dr. Nemeth has trained professional individuals using the
coaching methods and skills that she has designed.

The core principles are an outgrowth of her extensive

background as a clinical psychologist. Dr. Nemeth has served
as a professor in the University of California system, as well as
a Director of Clinical Programs, assisting alcohol and
substance abuse clients. She has authored articles and three
successful books including the Energy of Money, for which she
was featured on Oprah. In addition to her overseeing the
academy, Dr. Nemeth presents at conferences and
organizations worldwide.

Dr. Nemeth, welcome to Take Action Now!

Maria Nemeth (Nemeth)

Thank you very much, and please call me Maria.

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Wright

Thank you so much.

Let’s get real about success. So many people talk about how to
achieve, thrive, and grow. Why are we so interested in being
successful; what’s that all about?

Nemeth

Well, David, it’s a part of the human spirit to want to grow and
achieve and develop. It’s in everybody. You might even say it’s
a part of our DNA as human beings. We are gifted with the
ability to have vision and dreams and desires. We naturally
want to take those and do something with them in physical
reality. So everyone wants to be successful.

What I just said is true, no matter who we are or where we

live. Once people get their very basic needs taken care of, they
naturally begin to look at how to grow their lives and how to
take care of their families in a more prosperous way.

For real proof of this, look at Kiva. Kiva is an organization that

leverages the Internet to let people lend as little as $25 to help
create financial stability around the world. Because of this,
others can open small businesses, and they see their dreams
funded and their vision fulfilled. So this desire for success is in
all of us. Incidentally, the repayment rate for these microloans
exceeds 99 percent!

Wright

I’ve asked this question of literally thousands of people down

through the years. The answer is always very interesting and I
always learn a lot. What is your definition of success?

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Nemeth

My definition of success, David, is one that might sound

strange when I say it, so I’ll say it a couple of times and then I
can explain what I mean if you’d like.

Success is doing what you said you would do, consistently,

with clarity, focus, ease, and grace. I’ll repeat that: success is
doing what you said you would do, consistently, with clarity,
focus, ease, and grace.

I repeat this definition because it’s different than our usual

way of looking at success. We have this notion that success
means you have to run yourself to the ground, you have to
burn out, you have to burn the candle at both ends—all those
metaphors apply here. We think that people have to struggle
in order to become successful. They think they have to beat
out the competition.

I’ve interviewed and coached many successful people. They do

work hard. But they don’t struggle. They take action that’s
effective. They are interested in the quality of the action they
take, not just the quantity. They want elegance. They are
looking to be masterful at what they do. They don’t want to
lead lives that are driven by unnecessary action. They want to
collaborate, not compete. And because of this, they are not
struggling at all!

I’ll define the four qualities of success: clarity, focus, ease, and
grace. By clarity I mean becoming clear about, or aware of,
what’s really important to you. It means not becoming
distracted by so many different ideas that you don’t take much
action on any of them. If you do become distracted, you’ll
waste your energy. You won’t get anywhere. You won’t see

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what has real meaning and substance for you. That’s a recipe
for frustration.

By focus I mean learning to focus your attention and your energy

on whatever is important. There are six kinds of energy that I’ve
seen people use over the years to attain their goals. There is the
energy of money (the title of one of the books I wrote). Then
there is the energy of time. Time and money are so
interconnected for us. For example, we all know that one of the
reasons people say they didn’t achieve their goals and dreams in
life is the following: “I didn’t have the money or the time to do
it.” I’m sure you’ve heard that plenty of times yourself.

The third form of energy is the energy of physical vitality, and

that means having a relationship with your body that ensures
you stay around long enough to do what you’ve come here to
do in life. We are meant to have a partnership with our body
rather than an adversarial relationship. Therefore we want to
take care of this precious friend that allows us to play in
physical reality.

The next form of energy is the energy of creativity. You can

look at it this way: we all know that when we allow ourselves
to take a deep breath and step back from a problem, a
difficulty, or an obstacle that we begin to experience a kind of
creative energy. Creative thoughts begin to come through. We
all have the means within us to overcome just about any
obstacle, if we allow that creative energy to flow.

The next energy is enjoyment. By that I mean being able to

savor what we’re doing in the moment—to allow ourselves to
be present to enjoy rather than consume our lives. I can speak
for five hours about that one, David. For now I’ll just say that
I’ve discovered that the main difference between people who

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are naturally slender and people who have difficulties with
their weight is that people who are slender tend to enjoy their
food. People who need to lose weight tend to consume their
food. They “wolf” it down!

Then finally the energy of relationship, which is about

allowing oneself to be in a network or community where
everyone is both giving and receiving support. This could be a
mastermind group or a professional organization.

People who are successful know they cannot accomplish what

they want by doing it alone.

So, when we focus these energies, we begin to create and

attain the goals that warm our hearts and nourish our spirits.

Now let’s look at “ease.” Being successful with ease in your life
is about learning how to take small, sweet steps in the direction
of your goals. We all have heard that saying: the journey of a
thousand miles starts with a single step. People who are very
successful in life know that you don’t jump in and do a lot and
wear yourself out, but that you can begin with small, effective,
efficient action. This means taking action that will get you
somewhere, not action that is driven and aimless.

Finally, grace is about becoming grateful for what you have

right now—for where you are right now. The definition of
“grace” is that it is an unearned blessing. The experience of
grace is reached by cultivating our ability to be grateful. This
is the ability to find something for which to be grateful in each
and every moment. This ability is very powerful. When we are
grateful, it opens our heart to see the blessings that are
around us. And when we do, we immediately experience grace
in our hearts.

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So clarity, focus, ease, and grace point the way to a life that is
fulfilled and satisfied, rather than a life that is frustrated and
experienced with a sense of resignation.

That’s a long-winded way of talking about this very important

topic. I hope I’m making sense.

Wright

Absolutely.

You talk about “busy-holism.” Is being busy the same thing as

being successful?

Nemeth

No it isn’t. The successful life is not necessarily the busy life.

Busy-holism consists of cramming our lives with so much
activity that when we put our heads down on our pillow at the
end of the day we say to ourselves, “I know I did lots of things
today, but what did I really accomplish that really got me
somewhere? Did I move ahead toward any of my goals?”

I’ve studied busy-holism for years. Research on multitasking—

trying to do too many things at once—has been done revealing
that the brain literally begins to become less and less efficient
the more things you try to do at once. You lose focus and
energy. You get tired. Those are some of the symptoms of
busy- holism. This shows up most clearly when we see people
driving cars, talking on the phone, and eating their lunch all
at once. It is a formula for a car accident. And indigestion!

Wright

Why is it so hard for people to go for a goal, even if it is one

that they truly desire?

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Nemeth

One of the reasons it’s hard to go for goals is because many of

us don’t know the rules of the “playing field” upon which
goals exist.

Let me explain. You could say that there are two domains of
reality that we’ve come here to work with in our lives. One is
the domain of visionary reality, where we have all our ideas and
dreams and desires. These are the things that are important to
us—things we want to do something about. It is extremely
exciting to be in this domain. For example, I could start talking
with you right now, David, about ideas I have, personally or for
my business. I could talk about the places I want to travel, and
the wonderful people I want to meet. You could become excited
for me just listening to it all. I could probably talk forever about
my ideas, and congratulate myself on what a brilliant
“visionary” I am. But the truth is, everyone has ideas. Everyone
is a visionary. As I said before, it’s in our DNA.

But when we actually try to put our ideas into action, we go

into a domain called physical reality and in physical reality
the energy is configured differently. For example, whatever we
want to do in physical reality takes energy. Remember the six
forms of energy I mentioned earlier? It’s that kind of energy.
In fact, it takes more of that energy to begin a project than we
think it will take—about ten times more. That’s true whether
you want to learn a new language, open a coaching practice,
write a book—everything demands lots of energy in the
beginning. Like a rocket ship in liftoff that burns 90 percent of
its fuel in the first three and a half minutes.

In addition, in physical reality things are always changing. For

example: those of us who have developed countless business

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plans and critical paths know that one of the things that
happens is you have your idea of how you want your business
to look and grow and go. But then changes happen in physical
reality—things don’t turn out the way you planned. Ever. And
this is neither good nor bad. It is just what happens.

Finally, not only do things change in physical reality but

change is unpredictable. You can’t forecast specifically in
which direction the change will occur. I wish we could, but
just like we can’t predict the weather more than a couple days
out, we can’t predict how our lives or how our businesses are
going to turn out, two, three even four months down the line.
Because of this we have to become very resilient.

Energy, changing landscapes, and unpredictability are the

three elements of any exciting game. Look at tennis, football,
golf—almost any game we play. It’s all about expending
energy, and dealing with change and unpredictability. That’s
what captures our attention. That’s what we enjoy in a game.
Why do we think our own lives are different and that we
shouldn’t have this happen to us in everyday reality?

All of these conditions create what I call “Trouble at the Border.”

When you take an idea from visionary reality and you begin to
put it into physical reality, you hit the border. Once there, not
only does it take ten times more energy, but it activates a part of
our brain called the amygdala—the seat of fight, flight, or freeze.
It’s the part of the brain that looks for everything that could go
wrong and everything that could be dangerous.

Once activated, we begin hearing some self-limiting, internal

conversations such as: “I would turn back if I were you. This is
a bad idea. Whoever said you were a good businessperson?”
We all have some form of that internal conversation. The

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Buddhists call it “monkey mind.” It stands for that aspect of
the mind that is always chattering at us as it swings from
doubt to worry, and back to doubt again. We all experience it
as we cross the border from visionary to physical reality.

There are actually things you can do to mitigate some of the

stress. But just seeing that everyone has this trouble at the
border experience is comforting. You know you’re not alone.

Wright

You say that self-limiting, internal dialogues are normal.

Would you tell our readers what you mean?

Nemeth

I will. The presence of monkey mind can be a sign to you that

you’re doing something right, not something wrong. You are
going outside of your usual comfort zone. There is nothing
wrong with you, your idea, your goal, or your dream. You are
doing something new, and that’s why the brain says, “Don’t do
it.” Everyone goes through this point. You don’t have to fight
it. You don’t have to analyze it. You don’t have to do anything
with it. You don’t even have to try and make it go away.

However, there are things you can do in the midst of monkey

mind. That’s what a lot of my work is about. I show people
how to simply observe the monkey mind chatter, tell the truth
about it, and then shift the focus of their attention to
something more interesting.

Let me illustrate with a story. They interviewed that

wonderful comedian George Burns, who lived to be ninety-
nine years old. I think he was probably eighty-nine or ninety
when they asked him this question. They asked him, “What’s

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it like for you to go on stage? You’ve been doing this for most
of your life.” He said that at the beginning of each
performance it’s terrible. Right before he goes on stage he
gets nervous. See? That’s that monkey mind.

However, he said that the moment he gets on stage and puts his
attention on the people who are there, it goes away. He begins to
do what he loves to do. He becomes focused on something more
interesting—the opportunity to entertain people.

Now, can you imagine how deprived we would have been of

George Burns’ humor all these years if he had listened to those
self-limiting conversations? If he’d tried to analyze them and
figure out why he was having them, all along he would be
missing out on the opportunity to simply do what he came here
to do best, which was bring humor into people’s lives.

Wright

So what is one of the biggest success killers and how can we

get around it?

Nemeth

One of the biggest success killers is promising to do too much,

especially at the beginning of a project or journey toward a
goal.

A quick example here: I am privileged to work with a number

of people who write books. I do a lot of coaching to help
people finish their manuscripts. At the beginning of this
journey—and believe me, it is a journey and an adventure—
writers often want to promise to write five pages a day,
sometimes even ten pages a day. However, they all know
intuitively that this is too much. Being a writer, I am the same

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way. And when you promise too much and you don’t do what
you say you’re going to do consistently, with clarity, focus,
ease, and grace, you become frustrated and you could stop or
give up what you’re doing.

I often have authors start by writing two paragraphs a day. I

remember one client who said to me, “Maria, two paragraphs
a day is nothing. We’ll never get the book written.”

“John,” I said, “trust me on this: two paragraphs a day.”

The next week when I met with him he had written two
paragraphs a day, consistently.

“You know what?” he said, “It was harder than I thought.”

After another week with two paragraphs a day, he went up to a

page a day. After about three weeks he went up to two pages a
day, and then after another three weeks, he went up to three
pages a day. We held it right there at three pages a day,
because as you know, David, three pages a day equals three
book manuscripts a year! He ended up completing his
manuscript on time, within five months, with clarity, focus,
ease, and grace.

So, number one: don’t try to take a flying leap at the border
and try to get through it by promising too much. You’ll get
squashed. The analogy I use for this is a bit stark, but here
goes. One of the reasons that people die when they jump off a
bridge into water is not because they drown. It’s because
they’re hitting the water with such speed that the water
becomes like concrete.

However, if you enter the water slowly you can get into it with
relative ease.

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It’s the same with the border experience—don’t try to cram a
lot of activity at the border. Pick what is the most efficient,
effective, authentic action and do that every day successfully.
Focus. Start out small and looking back you’ll see that you’re
crossing that border with clarity, focus, ease, and grace—and a
bit of elegance because you’re not exhausted. It takes more
courage to engage in small, consistent action than to make a
dramatic show of huge promises that fall flat.

Wright

Is it still okay to want to be successful after the age of say

sixty and if so, why?

Nemeth

A lot of people ask me that question. In my Academy for

Coaching Excellence, for example, we actually have a number
of Baby Boomers or people who are quickly approaching Baby
Boomer age who say, “I’ve lived a lot in life and now I want to
go on to something new—something that contributes to
others.” They come to Academy courses and seminars in order
to start a whole new career.

This yearning for success and growth can be true for people
who live until the age of one hundred years old. I read a story
about a woman at one hundred and four who was still painting
successfully. There’s a PBS special that ran recently about the
athletes who compete in the Senior Olympics. I saw one
tennis player who is one hundred.

We are all born with the urge to lead a fulfilled life. And we
thrive when we are thoroughly and fully engaged with what
we’re doing. As a matter of fact, they’ve done some longevity

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research in which they studied the lives of people who lived a
long time and with a great sense of well-being. They found out
there were three factors that led to this kind of a long life. The
second and third most important factors were diet and exercise.
The most important factor was engagement. This means living
in a way that is connected to what you are meant to be doing—
right up to the point when you leave this life. So according to
that kind of a viewpoint, sixty years old is still pretty young.
You may have forty creative and productive years ahead of you!

Wright

I can remember the man who started Kentucky Fried

Chicken—he was seventy-five years old at the time.

So given your definition of success, what is financial success

and can you give us some real examples?

Nemeth

I’ll do my best. Given my definition of success—doing what

you said what you would do consistently with clarity, focus,
ease, and grace—financial success is doing what you say
you’re going to do, consistently with money, with clarity,
focus, ease, and grace. So by this definition you might see that
it doesn’t matter how much money you have; what matters is
the quality of your relationship with it.

For example, I’ve worked with people who have lots of money.
But they worry about it—they worry about losing it or
mismanaging it, or that people are only friends with them
because they have money.

One man said to me, “I come from a well-known, wealthy

family. Every time that I’m introduced to someone who asks if

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I belong to that family, and I say “yes,” I’m worried that it
changes the whole dynamic of our relationship—that they
won’t like me for me, but because I have a lot of money.”

I also remember a fifty-year-old-woman who confided to me,

“Every time my children call me, I’m worried that they’re not
calling me because they love me but because they want me to
give them more money.”

By my definition of financial success, these people had a

ways to go.

Here’s an entirely different example. Many years ago I

worked with a woman who was just off welfare. Sally was
starting to work in a home cleaning business.

“I want to be financially successful,” Sally said, “so I’m going

to create a goal to have a financial portfolio with $600 in it
by the end of one year from today. I don’t even know what a
financial portfolio is’ but I want to say to people at parties,
“My name is Sally and I have an investment portfolio.”

So she started saving $50 a month. She had to clean an

extra house, to do it. But every time she wrote a check for
$50 and put it in her investment portfolio savings account,
in that moment she was demonstrating being financially
successful.

It doesn’t matter how much money you have. What matters

is the quality of your relationship with it.

By the end of one year Sally had $600 in an investment

portfolio account and she invested it.

She had by that time learned what an investment portfolio

was. I saw her about a month later and she was so excited.

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“Maria, I’ve learned so much!” she said. “I thought that I had
to feel better about myself before I could become financially
successful. But now I see that when I do what I say I’m going
to do consistently with money, with clarity, focus, ease, and
grace, I’m already financially successful!”

She said she’d save $100 a month next. At the end of that second
year, she had put an additional $1,200 in her investment
portfolio account. I saw her again not long after that and she
didn’t look like the same woman—her posture was different, her
wardrobe was better, and she had started putting herself through
business school. It just started with that $50 a month. Today she
has a thriving business and is talking with other people about
how to be financially successful, starting now, by doing what you
say you’re going to do, consistently, with money, with clarity,
focus, ease, and grace. Does that make sense?

Wright

Absolutely.

Is being successful the same thing as being happy? Do we have

to choose between the two or can we have both?

Nemeth

You can really have both! If you are in touch with and are clear
about what’s important to you, if you’re focusing your money
and your energy and your attention on attaining what’s
important, if you’re doing it with ease and if you are allowing
yourself to be grateful: that’s a surefire recipe for happiness.

Let me say a little more about the “grace” principle of success.

I said before that gratitude is the means by which we see the
hand of grace in our lives. Gratitude opens your heart up to

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see and appreciate what’s important in life. This sets the stage
for happiness.

One practice to cultivate gratitude is this: every day, make a

list of three things for which you are grateful. Do it in a
notebook that you keep by your bedside. It could even be a
beautiful sunset or a smile of a child or maybe an unexpected
check you got in the mail. Whatever they are, write them
down. Do this for thirty days and at the end of thirty days read
what you wrote. You will see how your life is filled with
blessings. In that moment you will experience happiness.

So absolutely—this way of seeing and practicing success will

guarantee you happiness. Not that we’re going to be happy all
the time, because you and I know we are not happy the
moment we see an obstacle. We’re not automatically happy
the moment we hear monkey mind yelling in our head. But if
we are willing to shift the focus of our attention to what’s
important to us and take action on that, then we begin to
experience first a sense of relief and then happiness.

Wright

In your writings you talk about luminosity. Exactly what is

that and can you give us some examples?

Nemeth

I can, and thank you for asking. To lead a luminous life, you
must have a sense that you’re doing exactly what you’re
meant to be doing, right here and right now. You are thankful
that you are exactly where you are. You know you’re making a
difference. You’re glad you’re living your own life and nobody
else’s. You see that all is well.

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I’ll give you an example of something that happened recently.
A dear friend became ill and was told she had months to live.
Her sweetheart called me and I went to the hospital, bringing
her favorite treat. Chocolate of course! We talked and joked. I
told her I loved her and crawled in her hospital bed so that her
sweetheart could take a picture of the two of us. She passed
away a few weeks later. But her sweetheart told me she’d kept
our photograph close by. He sent a copy to me. Every time I
see it, it reminds me of the last time we shared. I’m not happy
about how things turned out, but I’m grateful I was there so
that she could know how much I love her. I’d fulfilled one of
my important “Life’s Intentions:” to be a generous friend.

I just mentioned Life’s Intentions. About twenty-five years

ago I began to see that when I asked people in my seminars
what they wanted to contribute to life, what they wanted to be
known for, I would hear the same sorts of things. This was
true no matter what age or gender or occupation or culture.
There were some universal themes. I took them and, over the
years, developed something I call the Life’s Intentions
Inventory. I’ll give you examples: to be a generous friend, to
be physically fit and healthy, to be financially successful, to be
a contributor to my community, to be an adventurer, to be
spiritually developing, to be well traveled, to be well educated.
How do some of these sound to you, David?

Wright

Sounds great.

Nemeth

When we’re taking action in life, that’s a reflection of one or

more of these Life’s Intentions, and the experience we have is

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of gratitude. We’re happy to be doing what we’re doing in the
moment. We aren’t comparing ourselves to anybody else. We
see possibility, which is to say all the yeses in life instead of
the noes. And in that moment of taking that specific kind of
action, we experience luminosity.

Think for a moment about this. Imagine looking back on your

lifetime. You’re looking back on the path of your life. As you look
back, you see that the pathway goes over hills and valleys. Now
imagine that no matter how wide or narrow the path is at times,
there are beautiful Chinese lanterns illuminating your path.
They are the kind that shed a beautiful, golden light wherever
they are. Imagine a number of them lighting your pathway all
through your life. No matter where the pathway leads, each one
of these lanterns represents a moment of luminosity for you—a
moment that you are thrilled to remember. It is a moment in
which you said, “You know what, I did here what I came to do in
my lifetime.” That’s luminosity.

Wright

This is intriguing. Give another example of someone fulfilling

a Life’s Intention.

Nemeth

There was Keith. An important Life’s Intention for him was to be

a loving family member. By the way, you can rate these Life’s
Intentions from one to five, with five being the most important.

Keith said, “This Life’s Intention of being a loving family

member is a five for me.”

What he next needed was a goal that, in physical reality,

would be a demonstration of his Life’s Intention. When you do

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this, and actually reach that goal, you’re going to experience
harmony, meaning, satisfaction, fulfillment— in a word,
luminosity.

“My wife has wanted to have a weekend where we could be

alone, without the kids. I’m going to take her on a romantic
weekend to this bed and breakfast she’s always wanted to go
to. I’ve been putting this off for at least a year. I mean, what
am I waiting for? We can get my Mom to babysit. She’d love it!
And so would we.”

He e-mailed me afterward, that it was one of the best times

that they had ever spent together. A memory to savor! So you
see, when you act on your important Life’s Intentions, you
create a purpose-filled life. Your life is filled with luminous
moments. You’re living with clarity, focus, ease, and grace.

You are successful. Is that clear?

Wright

It’s very clear.

This has been a great conversation, I have really learned a lot.

I guess we mentally apply things we hear and I really
appreciate you telling me personally without intending to.
I’ve been busy and I’ve done a lot of things, but it’s what I
have accomplished and what has moved me ahead is what’s
important. What a great thought.

Nemeth

I think we teach what we need to learn, and given my energy, I

have to turn to these principles again and again myself in my
own life when I meet up with challenges and obstacles. It’s

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really all a learning ground for us, isn’t it, David? The minute
any of us say we’ve arrived at the perfect pinnacle, as they
used to say in the old Laugh-In television program, the fickle
finger of fate tells us otherwise.

Wright

I really appreciate your taking this time with me to answer all

these questions. It has been delightful meeting you on the
telephone here today. I’m serious—I did learn a lot and I think
our readers are going to get a tremendous amount of advice
and good direction from this conversation.

Nemeth

Thank you, David. To tell you the truth, it’s an honor for me to
be talking with you. I have so admired you and your work.
When I heard that you wanted to speak with me, it was a real
thrill.

Wright

Today we have been talking to Maria Nemeth PhD. Dr.

Nemeth is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Master Certified
Coach, speaker, author, and seminar leader. She is the
Founder and Executive Director of the Academy for Coaching
Excellence. In addition to her overseeing the academy, she
also presents at conferences and organizations worldwide and
I can see why they would want her. Maria, thank you so much
for being with us on Take Action Now.

Nemeth

Thank you, David.

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 About the Author

Maria Nemeth, PhD is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and

Master Certified Coach. She is an internationally recognized
speaker, author, and seminar leader, and is the founder and
Director of the Academy for Coaching Excellence in
Sacramento, California. For more than twenty years, Dr.
Nemeth has trained professionals and private individuals
using the coaching methods and skills that she has designed.
Her courses and workshops have been taken by thousands of
people who report significant changes in their lives as a result
of her teachings.

The principles Dr. Nemeth teaches are based on more than

thirty years of tested personal research, developing and
leading hundreds of successful seminars and workshops with
state and federal agencies, in corporate settings, and coaching

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and counseling individuals. She has served as a professor in
the University of California system, as well as a director of
clinical programs assisting alcohol and substance abuse
clients.

Dr. Nemeth has authored articles and three successful books,

including the Energy of Money for which she was featured on
Oprah. Maria’s writing works to bring about powerful results
and make significant, lasting contributions. Her newest book,
Mastering Life’s Energies, is written with the intent to make
these principles widely available. Her work emphasizes clear
communication and empowers people to take authentic action
to produce extraordinary outcomes.

Maria Nemeth, PhD, MCC

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