Crafting Effective Hypnosis Suggestions
Crafting Effective Hypnosis Suggestions
Structure of a suggestion
To create an effective suggestion, the therapist needs to decide
DIRECT SUGGESTION
Direct suggestion hypnotherapy is the simplest and most direct way of affecting the
subconscious mind. Direct suggestions are like commands fired at the unconscious
mind. They may seem unsophisticated but they can be very effective. All hypnotherapy
uses direct suggestion to some extent. Direct suggestion has the advantage of being easy
to formulate, easy to understand and easy to deliver. The disadvantage is that the
subconscious mind may reject the suggestion if it conflicts with core beliefs. The
structure and wording of direct suggestions needs considerable skill to achieve
maximum effect. This section has examples of good and bad direct suggestion.
INDIRECT SUGGESTION
Indirect suggestion hypnotherapy was developed to avoid the disadvantages of direct
suggestion. Indirect suggestions are elegant and subtle and slide around the
subconscious mind's resistance to direct suggestion. The disadvantages of indirect
suggestion are that they are difficult to construct on the fly, and they can sometimes be
so indirect that the subconscious mind either does not react at all, or takes the wrong
meaning from them. There is a long standing debate as to whether direct or indirect
suggestions are best. Research suggests that both are equally effective when done well.
Hypnotic words and phrases create compelling suggestions and hypnotic binds when
they follow special patterns. The exact words for hypnotic suggestions can have a major
effect on how the listener responds to the suggestion. Milton Erickson developed a
technique known as the Milton Model for presenting ideas in hypnosis. This uses
ambiguous words and phrases to put people into trance easily and quickly. But those
words also need to be present in the framework.
The process of thinking about what the words actually mean deflects the mind away
from the speaker, and causes the listener to 'go inside' briefly. The use of 'artfully vague'
language causes the listener to search their mind for memories and matching
experiences. This is what trance is - dissociating out of the present moment by dropping
'inside'. While in that state the listener is more receptive to the next words, and if those
words do nothing to end that state then the client will quickly go into trance.
Once in trance, the unconscious mind does not analyse the words and phrases that it
hears. Any consistent form of words that are presented will not be examined closely, and
any suggestion is likely to be accepted and acted upon, even though an alert listener
would reject the suggestion as illogical. The hypnotist can use these hypnotic words and
phrases to bypass the critical faculty of the conscious mind.
2. Implication
These suggestions involve the deliberate use of presupposition, especially using time
and number. 'The first thing people do when they go into trance is....' presupposes that
the client will be going into trance as does 'Before you go into your trance...' does the
same. 'I wonder which lesson will be the first into your conscious awareness?' To a
certain extent, all indirect suggestion is based on suppositions.
4. Truisms
'You can take the good with the bad and learn from your mistakes'. Truisms are
statements of the obvious. The are used to get the client to evaluate the truism, and to
find that they agree with it. The next suggestion is then made while the agreement with
the truism is still in mind, so it too will be accepted as true, even if its truth is not so
obvious. Examples of truisms include 'People are happiest when they feel loved and
needed'; 'There are times when everyone underestimates their own talent'.
6. Appositions of opposites
This involves associating two actions which are changing in the opposite direction. It is
normal to link one of the actions to the body and the other to the some psychological
change. For example, 'As the heaviness in your body increases, the weight of your arm
decreases'. 'The more tense you feel at the beginning, the deeper your level of trance will
be by the end'.
A great many of the problems presented to hypnotherapists are about specific situations
where the person has to deal with some sort of trigger event. The client gets forced into a
behavior that they do not want, do not understand, and have no control over. This is
called the behavior cycle.
A great deal of our behavior is automatic and unconscious. When you find yourself in
any situation that has some emotional outcome you create a behavior cycle. Your mind
records the defining elements of the situation, what happened, how you responded to it,
and what the outcome was.
The next time you meet a new situation your mind goes searching for previous situations
that have similar elements. Your mind then makes the best match it can between your
previously recorded situations and the current one. Your response to the current situation
will be based on what worked in the most closely matching previous situation.
The advantage of this matching process is that you do not have to think about what to do
the next time you encounter a chair, or a sunset, or a car coming towards you. You just
react the way you did before. However, this can lead to inappropriate behavior.
THE BEHAVIOR CYCLE
Situation Where does it happen?
Stimulus What sets it off?
Memory What does it remind you of?
Reaction How do you react to it?
Termination How does your behavior end?
Evaluation Does the behavior deal with the situation?
Learning What lessons do you take from the incident?
Retrieval
The human mind is outstandingly good at finding similarities between different
situations. This is both a strength and a weakness. Mrs Squeak's mind registers the
stimulus subconsciously and goes into her memory to find matching situations. Her
subconscious has been doing this constantly all the time. Her subconscious has been
monitoring her heartbeat, hunger level, temperature, the pressure of her legs on the seat
and thousands of other stimuli simultaneously, and doing this automatically and
effortlessly. It has also been paying attention to every sight, sound and smell that has
come along. Mrs Squeak is unaware that she has heard the sound of a car door slam and
ignored it, and heard a dog bark and ignored it. In each case her subconscious went into
her memory and examined a torrent of information about each. One stimulus such as the
dog bark causes her mind to examine every memory associated with dogs barking. Her
mind will instantly flash over thousands of related and associated memories to do with
friends who are dog owners, stories about dogs, times when she couldn't sleep because a
dog was barking. Each of these fragments of memory is found, scanned and discarded in
a fraction of second. Thousands and thousands of images, smells, tastes, touches making
up memories associated with barking are blasted through almost instantaneously. Mrs
Squeak doesn't have any particularly powerful memories associated with car doors or
dogs barking or she would have reacted in some way.
Reaction
But Mrs Squeak does have thing about mice. When her subconscious registers the tiny
sound it dives into her memories and begins ripping through thousands of instances of
sounds and suddenly finds one or two associations between tiny sounds and tiny
creatures. Mrs Squeak's mind learned once that there is danger associated with tiny
creatures. The sound implies that there could be danger right now so her mind diverts
instantly to her survival routine.
Actions
Without even being aware of what she is doing Mrs Squeak is on her feet and heading
out of the door. She has no idea why she is suddenly running out of the door and this
causes her even more alarm and makes her run even faster. She is now running,
panicking, out of control, acting purely on instinct to preserve her safety. The entire
reaction is causing panic, embarrassment and distress.
Termination
At some point something registers in her attention and she becomes aware of what she it
doing. She realizes there is no danger, and her normal reactions set in. She looks around
perhaps, inspects the room, realizes the sound was the curtain moving, that there is
nothing to fear.
Evaluation
But she is left with the palpitations, her heart is pounding, her adrenalin has shot up, she
is shaky and maybe she is embarrassed if there are other people there. She then
remembers other times when she behaved like a fool and ran around screaming and that
makes her feel even worse.
Reinforcement
The cycle then completes when her subconscious applies its learning process to the
situation. The subconscious logic is impeccable. There was an indication of a mouse,
Mrs Squeak ended up frightened and feeling bad - the sound caused it. To avoid feeling
bad she was rushed out the room and then started to feel better. Therefore getting her out
of the room resulted in her feeling better. Therefore the next time she hears a tiny sound
her subconscious guardian will snap into action and catapult her out of the room again.
The reaction is filed away in memory as the absolutely correct way to behave. Mrs
Squeak's subconscious is doing what it is supposed to do, to keep her safe.
Unfortunately the learning process has now learned the wrong association. The mouse is
now irrelevant, she is reacting to her own reaction.
You can identify a complex equivalence by substituting 'is the same as' for the linking
verb, whereas the word 'causes' does not fit.
Conversational Postulate
A conversational postulate is a question which, on the face of it, requires a Yes or No
answer, but which is really demanding a specific behavior. 'Could you pass me the
cream?' is a request for action, not an enquiry about ability. 'Do you really have to stand
there?' is a request for someone to move. Similarly, questions can be posed in hypnosis
that are really instructions.
'I wonder if you can recall a time when you were really relaxed?'.
'Can you imagine some peaceful, restful place? '
'I wonder if you could imagine a big old house somewhere....? '
'Could you begin to relax while counting backwards from ten?'
Embedded Commands
Direct commands can be embedded within ordinary conversation. This is the essence of
a conversational induction, or covert hypnosis induction. For example the therapist
could begin a conversation with
'I can see that you are comfortable lying there, relaxing in that chair, quietly confident,
looking so comfortable as if you are ready to just let things go and relax while I talk
about this and that and you know, you don't have to think, you don't have to listen to
me or do anything really except relax and allow you mind to drift away like a small
child snuggling comfortably down in a warm quiet place, slowing down, more at ease
and more relaxed...' and so on.
Embedded commands are usually indicated by some form of analogical marking, for
example by speaking louder or looking directly at the client while using a particular tone
of voice.
Extended Quotation
If you attribute a suggestion to someone else this can avoid a lot of resistance from the
client. By using one or more levels of quotation you can say almost anything to the
client, and will probably confuse the unconscious mind in the process, making the
suggestion more likely to be accepted.
Milton Erickson once told the story about how he told a man 'you can learn to relax
instantly' and the man found he could relax immediately and said "you know
'Everyone can relax faster than they think.'".
I met a man from Bombay who said the secret of confidence is 'Fake it till you make
it'.
And as you circulate around that party you overhear someone saying 'I am so proud of
her. She is best daughter I could ever have wished for. She has become everything
hoped for.' And the other person replies 'Yes, maybe we didn't say it often enough,
maybe we thought she would just know it'.
Lost Performative
A suggestion is presented to the subconscious stating that some opinion is true, but does
not say how it known to be true, or who is saying it. The therapist intends that the
subconscious will accept the statement as being self evident and not ask for proof.
Examples include
"Your subconscious mind will find the correct answer."
"You are never going to have a problem with your nails again."
"No habit can stand up to the power of the mind."
You can always test for a lost performative statement by asking 'Says Who?'.
Mind Reading
The Milton Model designs the suggestion as if knowing what the client is thinking or
feeling, when the reality is that the therapist has no way of knowing what the client is
thinking. Examples include
'Part of your mind is wondering how fast you are going into trance right now...'
'You are becoming more curious about how that change is occurring'
'Your mind is now becoming more open to the idea of change...'.
You can identify a mind reading statement by asking 'How can you know that?'.
Modal Operator
These are phrases that use words that imply things could happen or must happen.
Typical Milton Model operators include words such as 'can, should, must, might, could,
would, will'. Modal operators might be the most commonly used hypnotic form.
'And each gentle breath out can lead to more relaxation.'
'And you could be surprised at how quickly you go into trance.'
'you might notice your left hand getting heavy....'.
A modal operator can usually be recognized if it makes sense to add ...'or maybe not' to
the end of the statement.
Negative Suggestions
Negative suggestions are similar to conversational postulates in that they ask for one
thing but really expect a different behaviour. The Milton Model works because the
unconscious mind does not deal with negatives well, and tends to ignore the words 'don't
and not' and instead focuses on the object of the sentence. The sentence 'Don't think of a
kangaroo' must bring out a memory of a kangaroo before it can be not thought of, so
negative questions can be used to give positive commands.
'and I don't want you to feel that you are going into trance now'.
'you should not be too curious about how you feel yourself going into trance. '
'You don't have to think about a really relaxing experience to call it to mind again'.
Nominalizations
The Milton Model is all about using words in an 'artfully vague' way. A nominalisation
is a word formed from a process. For example, the verb 'to restrict' can be nominalised
into the noun 'restriction'. The word restriction is then treated as if it is a 'thing' and the
fact that it refers to a ongoing process is forgotten. By using the nominalisation the thing
is treated as if it is over and done with, when in fact the process may still be going on.
Nouns ending in '-ship', '-ment', '-ion' or '-ings' are often nominalisations, for example
'relationship', 'annulment', 'learnings', 'decision'. By treating the word as a noun, the fact
that you are asking the person to go through a process is hidden.
'Your relaxation is increasing as you listen to my voice '.
'By moving your finger your confirm your irrevocable decision. '
'...you may wonder which part of your achievement you will enjoy most'.
You can test for a nominalisation by asking of a noun, 'could it be put in a bag?'
Nominalisations are abstractions and have no physical form so cannot be bagged.
Non Sequitur
A Milton Model non sequitur is a statement presented in the form of 'cause leads to
effect', A > B, but where there is in fact no logical connection between A and B. The
structure of the statement fools the listener by starting with a statement of something that
is true and then specifying an outcome that does not logically follow.
Getting the client to focus on their breathing has nothing to do with relaxation, but by
stating something that is true, that they are focusing on their breathing, the mind is
distracted into accepting the second part, that they can relax, without examining the
causal link between them.
'... paying attention to your breathing can make you relax even more. '
'You will be returning to the present, and bringing with you everything have
learned today.'
'as I count down the steps you will go deeper into trance'.
These can be identified by testing 'Oh, really? And how does that work?'
Presuppositions
A Milton Model presupposition talks about the consequences of something and
deliberately avoids mentioning the underlying concept. The suggestion starts from an
assumption that thing is true and then discusses the consequences of that thing being
true. By focusing on the consequences whether the thing is true or not is ignored and
never tested.
Adverbial And now as you relax more deeply you feel something different.
I don't know whether you will go into hypnosis before relaxation is fully
Alternatives
completed or begin right away.
Awareness The little things you notice remind you of how you have relaxed.
Because your eyes are closed, your mind will open to the idea of deep
Causality
relaxation.
Equivalence Coming here today means you have made a decision to relax.
Ordinal It may not be until the third breath that you notice relaxing.
Possibility And you may find that each breath relaxes you more.
Time You may not feel you are at the right level of relaxation yet.
Existence It might be interesting to consider the level of your relaxation.
A supposition may be present if the statement makes more sense when you add "I
suppose" at the end of it.
Inanimations
These are Milton Model statements that assign feelings or actions to things that cannot
have any. Technically these are called Selectional Restriction Violations. A sofa cannot
think, a plant cannot talk, but sentences can be constructed that sound that way and
because our minds are specially tuned to metaphor, this type of suggestion will be
accepted by the unconscious.
'That chair knows the secrets of many clients'.
'The part of you that makes you smoke is ashamed and wants to change.'
'Listen to the wind in the trees and absorb its wisdom'.
Truism sets
A Truism is a statement of the obvious. In the Milton Model truisms are used in sets to
produce a spurious cause and effect. The client listens to the first truism statement, and
agrees with it. The client listens to the next truism, and agrees with that too. The next
suggestion is then made while the agreement with the truism is still in mind, so it too
will be accepted as true, even if it has nothing to do with the first statements. An
example of a truism set might be
'People are happiest when they feel loved and needed''
'There are times when everyone underestimates their own talent'
'Everyone wants to be liked, and everyone needs to be loved, and you are learning to
listen to your emotions'.
You can identify a truism set by asking 'Yes, A is true, and B is true, but how does that
make C true?'.
Universal Quantifier
The Milton Model uses statements with words such as 'all, every, always, never, any,
everybody, nobody, no one' that act to generalize a particular statement. Universal
quantifiers always have an element of exaggeration.
'All that has gone before is a resource for you.'
'Every word you hear can be a signal to your unconscious '
'No one can fail once they really decide to change'.
You can identify a universal quantifier by querying the quantifier, e.g. 'Every word,
absolutely every word?'.
Unspecific Comparison
A typical Milton Model statement will use words to imply something, and relies on the
mind being too busy listening to the next words to really question the truth or logic of
the what was just heard. In a classic Milton Model statement, a comparison is made, but
does not specify what is being compared with.
'You will find yourself changing faster '.
'and you may find you are much more relaxed'.
'Every day in every way, you are getting better and better.'
Unspecific Object
These are words that sound good but are actually quite vague. Milton Model words such
as 'learnings, outcomes, resources, findings, consideration' etc., can be used to ground
almost anything, which makes the suggestion bullet proof. By using inclusive words the
client finds closure from their own resources. If you agreed with the previous sentence
you might want to re-read it, and consider whether it means anything at all.
And then come back to the present with all the learnings you need.
Your understanding will help make the changes clear'.
'You can open your mind to full consideration of everything that matters'.
Listen carefully to any politician avoiding a sticky issue for a lesson in how to say
nothing using unspecified verbs, nominalisations and unspecified objects.
Unspecific Verb
Like the Milton Model unspecific objects, Milton Model verbs sound good but are hard
to pin down. The unconscious mind accepts the word in context and supplies its own
meaning. Words such as 'wonder, change, understand, think, feel' etc., are non-specific
and can apply to anything.
'and you may be wondering about how best to go
into trance'.
'and soon the time will come when you grasp all this.'
'your unconscious mind will understand everything it needs'.
DEEPENERS
What Is A Deepener?
A deepener is a process designed to deepen trance. You can use the Vogt deepener (it’s a
nice one) as is or you can use the concepts therein to customize a deepener for the client,
based on their responses to your induction. The basic idea is that deepening is a
suggestion. You tie the client going deeper to some cue. The best deepeners use the
advantages that trance gives us and amplify responses that occur naturally during trance.
Fractionating Deepeners
The Vogt is a fractionating deepener. It deepens trance, not only by suggestion but also
by repeatedly emerging the subject from trance and then plunging them back in. Usually,
the more people come in and out of trance, the deeper they go as they go back in–
especially if you suggest it. Repeated, rapid emerging then re-inducing trance is called
fractionation.
To be more accurate, usually you don’t fully emerge someone but bring them up a bit.
They may open their eyes but not be fully emerged during this process.
An Example
Here’s a quick example of another way you could do use these concepts…
“In a moment, I’m going to lift up your arm slowly. As I do, your eyes will gently open.
Then I’m going to drop your arm down and when your arm contacts the chair, you’ll
instantly close your eyes and drop twice as deeply into relaxation. When your arm drops
down you drop down much, much deeper.”
Simple Deepeners.
A “deepener” further narrows the subject’s attention on what is around them, to the point
where all they are capable of doing, is focusing only on the sound of the hypnotist’s
voice and what the hypnotist is saying to them.
By turning focus into enjoyment, it becomes easier for the subject to be able to focus
even more. Once the hypnotist has linked “enjoyment” to “focusing”, the subject will
find enjoyment in focusing. They simply start to go deeper, and become even more
enjoyably focused. Now that they are focusing so enjoyably and feeling wonderful, they
go even deeper, and start to feel so much better. They automatically go even deeper still,
and they focus even more enjoyably because they are enjoying it so much, and they are
feeling even better. It’s so much easier for them to now go deeper and deeper, because it
becomes so much more enjoyable, and it just follows naturally.
The Simple Deepener is the very first thing the hypnotist says after the Induction, and it
continues to narrow the subject’s attention. Typically, it simply gives the subject
instructions so that their attention continues to narrow.
Deepeners
There are two kinds of deepeners. There are Simple Deepeners, and there are Complex
Deepeners. Today you will be learning about the Simple Deepeners.
A Simple Deepener is the most straightforward, because it is simple, fast and direct. It is
a very quick and easy way to deepen the subject’s hypnotic state.
Examples of Simple Deepeners
The “Go Deeper and Deeper Deepener”.
This is a very simple deepener. The hypnotist describes that “to go deeper” means “to
focus even more enjoyably”, and this will help the subject to understand what the word
“deeper” means. The hypnotist says, “Go deeper and deeper. Focus even more
enjoyably. That’s what deeper means”. This deepener links the word “deeper” with a
very good and enjoyable feeling.
The “Three to Zero Deepener”.
This is another simple deepener. The hypnotist simply counts from three down to zero,
telling the subject what is going to happen with each count, and with each count, how
they are going to respond to it, and how they are going to feel. The hypnotist says,
“With every count go 10 times deeper, focusing 10 times more enjoyably, and feeling 10
times better with every count”, and then counts from three all the way down to Zero.
This deepener further links very good and enjoyable feelings to “going deeper”.
The “Tap Deepener”
This deepener is very simple but incredibly effective, and it is useful as a covert test to
see if the subject is following instructions. It is often used after a complex deepener, but
it is very effective at any point for really deepening the subject’s state of hypnosis. The
hypnotist simply taps the subject’s hand, knee or shoulder or wherever, and looks for
any kind of physical reaction in response to the tap. The hypnotist says, “When I tap
you on your knee, you will instantly go 10 times deeper”. They will look for a physical
reaction and whether there is one or not, the hypnotist tells the subject how good they’re
now feeling. The hypnotist repeats the tap twice more, and tells the subject what a
wonderful place they’re now in. The subject is now much deeper than they were before
and is feeling awesome and absolutely wonderful.
The “Hand Drop Deepener”
This deepener can be used with several hypnotic inductions, such as The Hand Drop
Induction. The hypnotist uses it when they do an induction where they are holding the
subject’s arm or hand at the end of the induction. While the hypnotist is still holding the
subject’s arm, they say, “Now, in a moment, I am going to drop this arm”. Or, if the arm
is “floating”, they say, “Now, in a moment, I am going to touch the back of this hand”.
After this, they say, “When I do, you can just let it fall to your lap, just as quickly as you
want to go, all the way down … because you know, the moment this hand, touches your
lap, you will go … all … the way … down”. The hypnotist drops the arm just as they
are saying “down” the second time. Then they say, “Very good … deeper and deeper”.
The subject is now deep in hypnosis and is feeling incredible.
The “Snap Deepener”
The hypnotist says, “In a moment, I will snap my fingers, and you will instantly go 10
times deeper, and every time I snap my fingers you will go 10 times deeper with every
snap”.
The “Knock Deepener”
The hypnotist says, “In a moment, I will knock on the desk, and you will instantly go 10
times deeper, and every time I knock on the desk you will go 10 times deeper with every
knock”.