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  • Editor's Message: The section offers a personal message from the editor, introducing the magazine's theme and upcoming special edition.
  • Should You Get Married?: Discusses factors influencing marriage compatibility according to Bazi and special considerations for successful marriages.
  • Bazi and Marriage: Explains the role of Bazi Chart in assessing marriage dynamics and improving relationship compatibility.
  • Prenuptial Agreement: Explores the necessity and components of prenuptial agreements, guidelines for when they might be needed, and how to establish them.
  • Understanding Why Adultery Happens: Analyzes causes of adultery and offers strategies for preventing extramarital affairs through Bazi insights.
  • Living in Harmony with In-Laws: Addresses common challenges with in-laws and provides guidance on improving these relationships using Bazi analysis.
  • Drawing Your Marriage Canvas: Describes how to create a marriage canvas for visualizing and improving relationship aspects with a focus on Bazi elements.
  • Compatibility Between Day Masters: Explores compatibility indicators between different Bazi day masters with visual diagrams.
  • Understanding Your Partner by Day Master: Provides insights into understanding your partner's personality traits and needs based on their Bazi day master.

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11
Should you get married?
Bazi and Marriage
Should you have a
BAZI AND MARRIAGE
Prenuptial Agreement?
15 Understanding Why Adultery
Happens
18 Living in Harmony with the
In-Laws
21 Your “Man Luck” to building
a Harmonious Relationship
with your In-Laws
THE BABY
FORMULA
23 Drawing your Marriage Can-
p35 vas

29 COMPATIBILITY BE-
TWEEN DAY MASTERS
THIS MONTH’S HIGHLIGHT
30 UNDERSTAND YOUR
5 SPECIAL SEGMENT: BAZI AND PARTNER BY DAY
MARRIAGE MASTER

31 THE SCIENCE OF
HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS

L i v i ng 35 THE BABY FORMULA


r B e t ter
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Tips f 27 July 2014 11:30
Stable Day for
41 BANGSAR SOUTH – AN
UP AND COMING DE-
Wealth Activation VELOPMENT
Southwest 1
“It’s one thing to fall in love. It’s another to feel
someone else fall in love with you, and to feel a
responsibility toward that love.”
~ Every Day by David Levithan

2 June 2014 | BaziChic.com


BaziChic
8-day China Feng Shui Expedition
in this Special Edition

Team
Leader & Warrior
Director Josephine Phang
Editor Ooi Eu Geen

Philosopher
Writer Ooi Eu Geen
Writer Josephine Phang

Free Artist
Graphic Designer Microkey

Performer
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THE WAY OF WIND


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38 ACTIVATING EARTH LUCK


TO BRING HARMONY INTO YOUR ASSISTANT
YOUR HOME​ in Every Issue
Feng Shui activation to create
harmonious and loving 51 MONTHLY OUTLOOK
relationships for a happy home.​
63 GOOD DATES PLANNER

70 ANNUAL & MONTHLY FLYING


LEARNING STARS

43 BAZI 101 73 UNIVERSAL QI MAP Law of Attraction


Combination Relationships​
CHEAT SHEET
46 FACE READING 76 24 Mountains Reference Chart
The Basics: Fixed Position Reading 77 24 Mountains Compass
based on the 12 Palaces​ 78 Feng Shui Eight Mansions: East &
West Group Direction
48 LAW OF ATTRACTION with a twist 79 Nine Life Gua
Reaching an Alpha State of Mind​ 81 Bazi Reference Table

BaziChic.com | June 2014 3


Editor’s Message
Welcome to the 3rd issue of BaziChic Magazine. We’re so
glad to have you with us.

This issue we’re tackling the topic of marriage. Not being


married, I can only speak from my observation of my
friends’ marriages. And I’ve realised that the wedding isn’t
the happily-ever-after, but marks the point when the hard
work of integrating two lives and families has just begun.

However no one can deny that a happy marriage brings


great happiness and joy to our lives. In this issue, we are
going to equip you with all the tools possible for a happy
marriage, using Bazi, Feng Shui and Man Luck. Here’s
wishing you a happily-ever-after.

Love,
Eu Geen
Special Announcement
We’re really excited to announce that there will a Special Edition of Bazichic Magazine in November
2014. This Special Edition will be devoted to Feng Shui, more spefically Jo’s Feng Shui trip to
China with her master Dato’ Joey Yap in Spetember 2014. If you’re interested to know more about
landform Feng Shui, don’t miss out on this issue. Pre-orders start 1 June 2014.

Have a pressing matter? 1-QUESTION & ANSWER


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You ask, we answer!
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CAREER
What am I good at doing? How can I im-
prove my talent? Should I change jobs
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WEALTH
How can I improve my wealth? How can
I improve my talent? Should I look for a
new job?​

LOVE
When is my Prince Charming going to ap-
pear? How can I boost my chances at love?
How can I improve my relationship?
4 June 2014 | BaziChic.com
SHOULD YOU GET MARRIED?

A re you meant for marriage? In Bazi, there


are no hard and fast rules on who should get
and very demanding nature. It is especially
problematic if you are a weak Day Master
and the 伤官 Hurting Officer happens to be
married and who should not. Anyone can located in your Spouse Palace.
get married, if they so choose. Just because
your Bazi chart does not indicate a smooth- That being said, if you're both ready to
sailing marriage, it doesn’t mean that your commit to marriage, nothing can stop you.
marriage is doomed. It just means that you You just need to be prepared to overcome all
need to put more effort to make the marriage the problems that may derail your marriage.
work.
Here are some points you may want to
However, some Bazi Charts do indicate that consider to give your marriage the best
a person will have more problems married possible start:
than if they stayed single.
1. There are no unlucky years to get
Even without having problems arising married. This means that no matter
from harm, clash, destruction, punishment what your zodiac sign, you can choose
or combination relationships interacting to get married any year you want. The
with your Spouse Palace, a strong 伤官 point of selecting an auspicious date for
Hurting Officer or 食神 Eating God in your marriage is to ensure that your marriage
Bazi chart also indicates a problem. Your starts off smoothly and to give you the
problem may be your overly high standards best chance to overcome any potential

BaziChic.com | June 2014 5


Day Pillar with 伤官 Hurting Officer
in the Spouse Palace:

壬 乙 甲
辰 巳 午
Ren Chen Yi Si Jia Wu
Water Dragon Wood Snake Wood Horse

戊 辛 庚
戌 亥 子
Ren Xu Xin Hai Geng Zi
Earth Dog Metal Pig Metal Rat

issues that may crop up in your marriage. the marriage registration or wedding
An auspicious date is tailor-fit to every ceremony, and use the customised
couple. A date selection consultant looks auspicious date for that. You can select
at the couple's Bazi Charts to see what a generic auspicious date for the less
the potential problems are and chooses important event.
a date to offset these problems. There is
no one-size-fits-all good marriage date 2. Getting a Bazi compatibility reading
for everyone. may help you be better prepared for
your marriage. With the help of Bazi,
However, you have to decide which is you can determine your strengths and
more important to you, the marriage your weaknesses, and understand how
registration or wedding ceremony, if you you work in a relationship. The idea is to
decide to hold the two on different days. help you become more valuable to your
A consultant will place more importance partner and help you bring out the best
on the marriage registration date as in each other.
that is the date recognized by the law.
However, culturally the Chinese still Sometimes a marriage is not just
place great importance on the traditional about compatibility. Marriages often
wedding ceremony where the marriage breakdown when couples grow apart
is solemnized by offering prayers to and develop different sets of goals or
the gods and ancestors, followed by beliefs. Couples may share the same
the wedding dinner where family and interests and goals at the start of the
relatives acknowledge the couple's marriage, for example in building their
marriage. Obviously auspicious dates careers. However, as time passes, this
are limited, especially when they are may change. The man may still be
being tailored to the couple’s Bazi chart. ambitiously chasing for a better career,
There may not be enough auspicious but his wife may begin to focus more on
dates​for both the marriage registration the family. If both are aligned with these
and wedding ceremony. So you need to changes, and are able to support each
decide which is more important to you, other, all will be fine. If not, cracks will

6 June 2014 | BaziChic.com


start to appear in the relationship. You the romance in the relationship, you
need to ask yourself whether you are may want a prenup if you have a harm,
ready to handle any changes that come clash, destruction, punishment or
up in the future, or if you wouldn't be combination relationship with your
able to handle such changes. Spouse Palace. (See our article ‘Do You
Need A Prenuptial Agreement?’ to see
3. Whether to go for a prenuptial agreement. who should get a prenup). Whether you
You may not be Katie Holmes and he eventually sign a prenuptial agreement
is not Tom Cruise, or you aren’t a 8o or not, bringing up the prospect of a
year old billionaire marrying a 23 year prenuptial agreement will open up the
old blonde, but a prenuptial agreement door for you to discuss finances with
may still be an important consideration. your partner, which seems to be a taboo
While many feel that a prenup kills and sensitive topic for most couples.

Simple Yoga Poses to Relax and


Focus your Mind 法奇門 Law of Attraction
Mountain Prayer
Pose
A focused mind helps you to attract what you want​.

1. Stand straight with your palm together


like a prayer or relax your arms at your
sides.
2. Relax your feet and feel your feet con-
nect to the earth.
3. Relax your abdomen and open your
chest.
4. Broaden your collarbones, widening be-
tween the shoulder blades, base of the
shoulder blades are lifting up and in.
5. Ears over the shoulders, crown of the
head lifting up.
6. Soften the face and gently shut your
eyes.
7. Inhale and exhale for 15 minutes.
8. Focus your thoughs on the things that
you want in life.
9. Play relaxing meditation music and dif-
fuse some aromatic essential oils​while
standing in this pose.
10. Do this every day to train your mind.

BaziChic.com | June 2014 7


BAZI AND MARRIAGE

“Marriage: Love is the reason. Lifelong friendship is the gift. Kindness is the cause. Til’
death do us part is the length.” ~ Fawn Weaver

M
ost people equate marriage with  A Spouse Palace (shown in Diagram
happily-ever-after. However, un- 1) that is not in trouble. This means that
like the old days where married there must not be any relationships be-
couples stuck together through thick and tween the Hour and Month Branches such
thin, these days divorce is on the rise. For as harm, clash, destruction, punishment
some countries divorce statistics can go as and combination with your Spouse Palace.
high as 50%. This means that one in every
three of all first marriages fail, and 50 per-
cent of second or third marriages also hit the  For women, having the Influence ele-
wall. Looking at this trend you might want ment in your Spouse Palace is a plus point.
to take off your rose tinted glasses as you go The Influence element can be categorized
into marriage, and be prepared for the worst into Direct Officer and Seven Killings as a
while hoping for the best. result of Yin and Yang polarity. As you may
already know, the Influence Star represents
Or you can take a peek at your potential status. Hence, you will always be seen as
partner's Bazi chart and your own to see someone who is valuable by your spouse.
your marriage prospects. So, what type of This also means that you will put priority on
Bazi chart indicates a good marriage? Let's your husband’s needs.
take a look.
 For men, it is ideal to have the wealth
Relationships and marriage are governed element in your Spouse Palace. Your Day
by the the Spouse Palace of the Bazi Chart. Master must also be reasonably strong. You
Your Spouse Palace is located at the Day can find out how to find the strength of your
Branch right below your Day Master. What Day Master in our Bazi 101 series.
type of Spouse Palace will indicate a good
marriage?

8 June 2014 | BaziChic.com


Diagram 1: Location of the​Spouse Palace

八 字 Bazi Chart
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
天干

Heavenly
日主

Stems
Day Master

地支
夫妻宫

Branches
Earthly
Spouse
Palace

藏干

Hidden
Stem
 It is preferable for a woman to have 法奇門 Law of Attraction
a 阴 Yin Day Master and for a man to have 3 Simple Mantras
a 阳 Yang Day Master. A Yin Day Master
for a woman naturally combines with the You can recite simple mantras while medita-
husband star which is the Direct Officer tion or while doing a simple yoga pose to relax
star, while a Yang Day Master for a man and focus your mind. Reciting this mantra and
naturally combines with his Wife Star as meditating does not mean that you must take on
highlighted with  in Table 1. A Yin Day new spiritual or religious beliefs. This exercise is
Master for woman denotes a softer and a journey within you. Feel free to use any word
feminine characteristic that is more yield- that you feel is right for you.
ing. 1st Mantra: ‘Om’ is considered the most sacred
mantra. It is a Sanskrit word that is meant to
 As you may already know, your na- convey the “original vibration of manifestation.”
tal chart is only a static analysis. No mar- ‘Om’ helps you to manifest your intentions in the
riage is without its ups and downs. This physical realm.
is where the time factor effect comes in, 2nd Mantra: Alternatively you can use ‘I am’.
and this effect can be seen in your Luck It is the most powerful manifesting mantra. Add
Pillar or Luck Cycle. Therefore, even with positive affirmations while you meditate to help
an indication of a good marriage in your paint a mental picture of what you want out of
Bazi chart, your marriage is susceptible life. i.e. I am successful.
to changes brought in by the time factors.
Happily-ever-after is not 100% guaran- These mantras are best used with 符 Chief De-
teed. As Mignon McLaughlin once said, ity or 天 Heaven Deity of the Universal Qi Map
“A successful marriage requires falling in to help with the manifestation of your wish and
love many times, always with the same vision respectively. Check out the monthly Uni-
person.” So, couples must continuously versal Qi Map to find out the directions for these
work on their marriage to make it a suc- two deities. For example, if we’re using the June
cess. 2014 Universal Qi Map, you should have your
back to Northeast to tap into 符 Chief Deity or
have your back to the East to tap into 天 Heav-
en Deity while reciting the mantra ‘Om’.

BaziChic.com | June 2014 9


Table 1: Finding your Spouse Star
伴侣 星 Spouse Star
日主 Day Master
夫星 Husband 妻星 Wife
甲 辛  己
Jia Xin Ji
Yang Wood Yin Metal Yin Earth
乙  庚 戊
Yi Geng Wu
Yin Wood Yang Metal Yang Earth
丙 癸  辛
Bing Gui Xin
Yang Fire Yin Water Yin Metal
丁  壬 庚
Ding Ren Geng
Yin Fire Yang Water Yang Metal
戊 乙  癸
Wu Yi Gui
Yang Earth Yin Wood Yin Water
己  甲 壬
Ji Jia Ren
Yin Earth Yang Wood Yang Water
庚 丁  乙
Geng Ding Yi
Yang Metal Yin Fire Yin Wood
辛  丙 甲
Xin Bing Jia
Yin Metal Yang Fire Yang Wood
壬 己  丁
Ren Ji Ding
Yang Water Yin Earth Yin Fire
癸  戊 丙
Gui Wu Bing
Yin Water Yang Earth Yang Fire

 A natural combination with the Husband Star or Wife Star

10 June 2014 | BaziChic.com


Love & PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT
THIS AGREEMENT MADE IN TRIPLICATE
THIS 23th day of May, 2014

BETWEEN:

JOHN SMITH
of the City of Los Angeles
in the State of California

- AND -
ELIZABETH JONES
of the City of San Diego
in the State of California

Should you have a


Prenuptial Agreement?

W
hat is prenuptial agree- An affliction on the Spouse Palace doesn't
ment? necessarily mean a bad marriage. For some,
A prenuptial agreement a con- it just indicates that the spouse is constant-
tract entered into before marriage. The con- ly travelling for work or they have a long dis-
tent may vary, but it is commonly used to
determine division of property and spousal
support in the event of a divorce. Who else should consider having a
prenup besides the rich and the fa-
Do you even need a prenuptial agree- mous?
ment? • You have a large amount of debts
Prenuptial agreements are obviously a sen- • You have a reasonable amount of assets
sitive topic. Who wants to think about the • You may be receiving an inheritance
marriage breaking down before it has even • You have children from a previous
begun?​Not to mention the implications that marriage
one party is marrying the other for money. • This is your second marriage
All in, it's not very romantic and can indi- • You will be supporting your partner
cate a lack of trust in your partner. through college
• You have loved ones who need your
The case for prenuptial agreements care such as elderly parents
However, Bazi-wise, there is a case for pre- • You own a business
nuptial agreements, especially for those • You see a big potential your income to
whose Spouse Palace is afflicted by a harm, increase sharply due to your business
clash, destruction, punishment or combina- taking off or your career taking off.
tion relationship.

BaziChic.com | June 2014 11


tance relationship. It can also mean that you
just have a workaholic spouse to deal with. How to find an auspicious date
Step 1: Print your partner’s Bazi Chart.
However, for those whose charts show an af- You’ll need to know their birthdate for
fliction in the Spouse Palace, things can get this, If you still don’t have a clue about
really complicated if the relationship turns your partner’s birthday, go back to Rule
sour. There will be a lot of hatred, emotional #1.
blackmail and finger pointing going around. Step 2 : Grab yourself a Chinese Tong
It will be impossible for parties involved to Shu calendar.
be objective and they will rarely see that the Step 3: Avoid all the bad days - Month
problem stems from their own doing. Breaker, Year Breaker and Personal
Breaker day.
As such, it is best to have a prenuptial agree- Step 4: Select a Success Day. If you can-
ment in place, so that the couple can make a not use Success Day, then use a Stable
cleaner break if the worse happens and​the Day.
marriage breaks down. Step 5: Match the date with a combina-
tion to your love partner’s Day Pillar – ei-
How to broach the prenup with your ther the Day Stem, also known as the Day
partner? Master or the Day Branch, also known as
the Spouse Palace. You want to ensure the
Rule #1 Don’t ask if you don’t need it day’s energies favour your partner so that
Seriously, if you don’t fit any of the above he/she feels good or comfortable enough
criteria don’t ask. to agree to the prenup. You also want to
avoid a day that clashes with his/her Day
Rule #2 Select a good date to broach Pillar so to not agitate and annoy your
the subject partner further during the discussion.
Since the prenup sounds like a business
transaction and negotiation, you want to (see this issue’s Bazi 101 for more details
ensure that everything goes smoothly and on combination relationships that occur
that you do not hurt your partner’s feelings. with Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branch-
At the end of the day, you want to get a ‘yes’ es)
rather than a ‘I’ll come back to you’ or worst
‘I hate you’. So if you want to ensure better ding day, a judge can be convinced that one
chances of success​, selecting a good date is party was coerced into signing it, and toss
important. the contract.

Rule #3 Bring up the prenup as early Rule #4 Drafting a Prenup – Sharing


as possible is caring
If you’re thinking of shoving the prenup Two parties negotiating a Prenuptial Agree-
agreement at your intended bride or groom ment do not generally have equal bargain-
right before marching down the aisle, don’t. ing power. There is no denying that the one
With so much individualism, and self-love wants a prenup who has more to lose than
drummed into Gen-Y, you’ll find yourself his or her partner.
left standing at the altar. Even if you are
lucky and manage to get the prenup signed, You may think it is not fair that local mar-
it may not be valid. A valid prenup is “fair” riage laws state that your spouse is entitled
and will not leave one of the parties desti- to half of the successful business that you
tute and the court will look to make sure one have crafted out of blood and sweat. How-
spouse is not being taken advantage of. If ever, you are entering into this marriage
the document is signed too close to the wed- because of love. You do want to help and

12 June 2014 | BaziChic.com


support your partner who may not be doing out for dinner, you pay for the dinner. She
as well financially as you are. So frame your calls you out for a tea break and buys you a
requests in a more positive way, start with drink. If you want the prenup, pay for your
what you willing to give and share before partner’s lawyer too.
leaping into what you do not want to share.
Explain why. Be honest, it’s important in a Rule #6 Just get it done
healthy relationship to be able to talk about Do not drag out the matter. Once you’ve
your fears, concerns and and be vulnerable. both agreed to the prenup and the terms, get
Most importantly keep the tone light. You it signed quickly so that you can get on to
want to ensure that both of you are on the building your life together.
same page before seeing the lawyer.
Rule #7 Consider one last time if you
While a Prenuptial Agreement mainly deals really need it
with financial matters, it can include re- Really, don’t ask for a prenup if you do not
sponsibilities that are not related to money. fall into the above categories.
As you are not a celebrity, avoid making silly
demands such as requiring that your spouse Note: The enforceability of prenuptial agree-
not to gain weight or to quit smoking or take ments vary by country, so I would seek the
out the garbage. If you are thinking of this advice of a lawyer to assist you should you
go back to Rule #1. decide to go ahead with a prenuptial agree-
ment.
Rule #5 You ask, you pay
It is just like dating, if you ask your partner

Example:
John wants to broach the subject of a prenuptial agreement with his girlfriend, Liz. John’s
birth date is 23 May 1977 while Liz was born on 26 June 1978. How should he go about
choosing the best date to talk to Liz so that there is minimum damage to his relationship?

Step 1: First he looks at the Tong Shu Calendar. A copy of the calendar for the month of
February 2014 is shown in the Diagram 1.

Step 2: He crosses out all the Month Breaker, Year Breaker and Personal Breaker days.
The year 2014 is a 午 Horse year so 子 Rat days should be crossed out because this is a
Year Breaker day. The Qi brings negative effects causing​ disputes, arguments and even
loss of wealth. Generally, February falls into the 寅 Tiger month so the 申 Monkey day
should be crossed out as it is a Month Breaker day. John is born in the year of the 巳
Snake and Liz is born in the year of the 午 Horse so the 亥 Pig and 子 Rat days cannot be
used either as these are their Personal Breaker days.

Step 3: Then he identifies the Success Days. For February 2014, the Success day falls on
a Dog day while the Stable day falls on a Horse day.

Liz’s Day Pillar is 己 Ji Wei Earth Goat. The Day Stem combines with 甲 Jia Yang Wood
and Day Branch combines with 午 Horse. No 甲 Jia Yang Wood falls into Success Day
and Stable Day so the 午 Horse date is selected in this case. 午 Horse in the month of
February is the Stable Day.

BaziChic.com | June 2014 13


Diagram 1: Joey Yap’s TongShu Calendar for February​2014


 
  
 Month Breaker, Year Breaker and Personal Breaker days
O Stable day falls on a Horse day

Lesson from A Long Lasting Celebrity


Couple: Be Friends First
Will and Jada Smith have been married for 16
years, and still can be goofy, crazy and just them-
selves around each other. They both act as the
backbone and support system to one another in
order to make it last. They are each other’s best
friend.​

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Understanding Why
Adultery Happens

M
ost people believe and think that life but because of a lack of emotional inti-
adultery is the beginning of all macy - sharing, caring and friendship, in
marital problems when in fact, their relationship.
there were probably problems in the rela-
tionship way before the adultery takes place. That’s why, not every affair is sexual and
The unmet needs of either partner are usu- physical in nature. Sometimes a strong
ally a primary cause of extramarital affairs. emotional bond with another person can
It’s not about how pretty, handsome, or sen- break-up a marriage. Women are especially
sual you are. The other man or woman are inclined to leave their husbands because of
chosen not because they are prettier, more this affair of the heart.
handsome, or sexier, but because they meet
a need that the spouse is unable to provide While not all adultery ends in divorce, price
in the marriage. paid in harm caused to the family is far
greater than the short-term thrill and joy.
Frank Pittman, author of the book, Private Adultery shatters trust, intimacy, and self-
Lies: Infidelity and the Betrayal of Intima- esteem. At its worse it can break up families,
cy, points out that extramarital affairs take ruin careers, and leave a trail of pain and de-
place not because couples lack a good sex struction among your children and spouse.

BaziChic.com | June 2014 15


Children whose parents breakup because of some responsibility because both parties are
adultery are more likely to commit adultery responsible for the unmet needs and unre-
when they reach adulthood, further continu- solved problems that eventually lead to one
ing the vicious cycle. These factors should party seeking to meet these needs outside
be enough to make you stop and count the the marriage.
costs, before beginning an extramarital af-
fair. While Feng Shui can help you maintain a
harmonious relationship at home, it is im-
Can we prevent adultery? portant for couples to be proactive in meet-
ing the needs of their partners and provid-
Although there is no guarantee, there are ing the emotional intimacy for a healthy and
some things that can done to mitigate the fulfilling relationship.
occurrence of adultery.
So what can we do to keep the mar-
Adultery is sometimes not solely the respon- riage whole?
sibility of the person who committed the 1. Pray for your partner’s well-being​​
affair. The other spouse also needs to take Psychology studies reveal that act of

16 June 2014 | BaziChic.com


marriage, without resorting to controlling
behaviour.
The Dos & Don’ts Of Marriage
Dos
2. Be Loving and Caring
a) Buy gifts for your partner every now It is important to always communicate
and then. love and care to your partner. These can
b) Find time to fulfill each other’s sexual be verbal or physical demonstrations of
needs. love and care to keep both of you con-
c) Look good for your partner. nected and attracted to each other.
d) Share love and affection.
e) Give in to your spouse every now and 3. Take care of your Physical Ap-
then.Make sure you both give and take pearance
equally. Physical appearances do play a role in
relationship. You want to look good for
Don’ts your partner so that he or she continues
to find you attractive. Also, feeling and
a) Do not guard your partner like a hawk.
looking good will boost your confidence.
b) Stop the constant checking or spying And confidence is key to sex appeal
on your spouse. whether you are a man or a woman.
c) Do not try to have everything your own
way all the time. 4. Give your partner what they need
d) Stop being clingy and taking all your to feel loved
partner’s time. Different people have different love lan-
e) Do not brush off your partners requests guages, so they may not recognise when
and needs their spouses are showing them love, be-
cause it’s in a different language. If you
love language is gifts, you’ll be upset that
there are no anniversary presents, or
praying for your partner well-being can small tokens of love, even if your spouse
reduce the likelihood of cheating. This is makes a point to spend lots of time with
because the act of praying together and you. So, to keep a partner satisfied or
for each other, strengthens the belief in faithful give them what they need to feel
the sanctity of the relationship. Practice loved, even if you don’t understand why.
this daily, and you may find that your re- To find out more about love languages,
lationship is more stable - in good times check out The 5 Languages of Love by
and in bad. These shared prayers also Gary Chapman.
create a special bond between partners.
As such, we often find that couples who
share the same faith and spirituality
have a higher success rate in marriage.

For those who are not especially reli-


gious, you can honour the marriage by
taking time to wish each other well daily.

Rather than try to control your partner in


the hopes of avoiding infidelity, it is more
effective to encourage their faithfulness and
love with trust and love. Here are some ways
to help you to keep the flame alive in your

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Living in Harmony with the
IN-LAWS

I
n the Chinese culture and most of Asian culture, your mar-
riage is just not a partnership with your spouse, you’re also
entering a life partnership with the in-laws. It can be a com-
plicated relationship and problems can range from:
1. Conflicts arising from staying​with the in-laws
2. The in-laws being overly critical of you
3. Not feeling accepted by the in-laws
4. The in-laws having an opinion on everything from
where you live to how you parent your kids

Conflict with the in-laws won’t derail a relationship.


But handling it badly can. Here’s how you can use
Bazi to identify any areas of conflict so that you are
able to mitigate and minimize these conflicts for a
more harmonious relationship.

Step 1
First, find out which element represents your in-laws
in your Bazi chart. Below is the table that tells you
which elements represent your in-law based on your
Day Master and gender.

Table 1: In-Law Stars based on Day Master


and Gender
Male Female
Day Master Father-in- Mother-in- Father-in- Mother-in-
law law law law
甲 壬 丁 乙 戊
Jia Ren Ding Yi Wu
Yang Wood Yang Water Yin Fire Yin Wood Yang Earth
乙 癸 丙 甲 己
Yi Gui Bing Jia Ji
Yin Wood Yin Water Yang Fire Yang Wood Yin Earth
丙 甲 己 丁 庚
Bing Jia Ji Ding Geng
Yang Fire Yang Wood Yin Earth Yin Fire Yang Metal
丁 乙 戊 丙 辛
Ding Yi Wu Bing Xin
Yin Fire Yin Wood Yang Earth Yang Fire Yin Metal
戊 丙 辛 己 壬
Wu Bing Xin Ji Ren
Yang Earth Yang Fire Yin Metal Yin Earth Yang Water

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Male Female
Day Master Father-in- Mother-in- Father-in- Mother-in-
law law law law
己 丁 庚 戊 癸
Ji Ding Geng Wu Gui
Yin Earth Yin Fire Yang Metal Yang Earth Yin Water
庚 戊 癸 辛 甲
Geng Wu Gui Xin Jia
Yang Metal Yang Earth Yin Water Yin Metal Yang Wood
辛 己 壬 庚 乙
Xin Ji Ren Geng Yi
Yin Metal Yin Earth Yang Water Yang Metal Yin Wood
壬 庚 乙 癸 丙
Ren Geng Yi Gui Bing
Yang Water Yang Metal Yin Wood Yin Water Yang Fire
癸 辛 甲 壬 丁
Gui Xin Jia Ren Ding
Yin Water Yin Metal Yang Wood Yang Water Yin Fire

Step 2
Look for conflict relation- ships such as clash, harm, punish-
ment or destruction with your in-laws’ elements (you’ll
be learning more about these relationships in our Bazi
101 columns over the coming issues). Are there con-
flict relation- ships? If yes, who does the conflict stem
f r o m ? Since it is your Bazi chart that is showing
the prob- lem, it is most likely your habits, behaviour,
communication or expectations that are causing
the conflict. If you have these conflicting relationships in
your natal chart with your in-laws, it is best that you
don’t stay in the same house to minimize any con-
flicts.

Example
Jenny is born on 1st December 1977 at
09:30. Below is her Bazi chart. She is a
壬 Ren Yang Water Day Master. There-
fore the element that represents her
father-in-law is 癸 Gui Yin Water,
and her mother-in-law element is
represented by 丙 Bing Yang Fire.
The 癸 Gui Yin Water element
appears in her natal chart in
the Spouse Palace. Hence, we
can deduce that she will like-
ly be living with her
in-laws.

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Although there is no combination affecting the Spouse Palace between the Month and Hour
Branches, the husband element which is represented by 戊 Wu Yang Earth is in natural
combination with his father’s, 癸 Gui Yin Water element. This means that Jenny’s husband
shares a close relationship with his father, and probably spends more time with his father
than with her.

Jenny as a 壬 Ren Yang Water Day Master is a dynamic and extroverted individual. Her
outgoing personality, broad friendships and work may not sit well with her mother-in-law
as there is a Hai Pig and Si Snake clash in her natal chart affecting her mother-in-law’s, 丙
Bing Yang Fire element. We know that this 丙 Bing Yang Fire element brings warmth to
Jenny’s very cold natal chart, hence, her mother-in-law’s opinions and advice are meant
well, no matter how they sound.

In this case, taking care of “Man Luck” which means being mindful of our actions and how
it affects others can be very helpful in dealing with the in-laws. She can also activate the
Feng Shui of her home to maintain a harmonious relationship with her in-laws.

Diagram 1: Jenny’s Bazi Chart (1st December 1977 09:30)

八 字 Bazi Chart
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
傷 正 正 天干

乙 壬 辛 丁
官 印 財

Heavenly
HO DR DW

Stems
Yi Ren Xin Ding
Yin Wood Yang Water Yin Metal Yin Fire

巳 辰 亥 巳
地支

Branches
Earthly
Si Chen Hai Si
Snake Dragon Pig Snake
Yin Fire Yang Earth Yin Water Yin Fire

藏干
庚 丙 戊 癸 戊 乙 壬 甲 庚 丙 戊
Hidden
Stem

Geng Bing Wu Gui Wu Yi Ren Jia Geng Bing Wu


IR IW 7K RW 7K HO F EG IR IW 7K
偏印 偏財 七殺 劫財 七殺 傷官 比肩 食神 偏印 偏財 七殺

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Your “Man Luck”
to building a
Harmonious
Relationship
with your
In-Laws

O
ur “Man Luck” plays an important understand your spouse’s family tradi-
role in shaping healthy relationships tions, beliefs and practices.
with the people around us, be it with
our spouse, our children or our in-laws. 3. Set clear boundaries with the in-
Most people will have some form of strug- laws
gle or conflict with their in-laws. However, You should be able to have open con-
there are many ways to deal with your in- versations with your spouse about your
laws for a more harmonious relationship. boundaries and create a plan for living
with your in-laws that both of you agree
1. Recognise that everyone is differ- with. For example, if your partner is
ent OK with his parents staying with him,
You need to recognize that your in-laws but you’re not, you can both agree that
are different people with different ways. it may be a better option to have your
Families have their own culture due to in-laws stay nearby, or even right next
different upbringing, lifestyle, practices door.
and beliefs. There is no right or wrong,
just different. 4. Separate your issues with your in-
laws from your relationship
2. Make some effort to integrate with Marrying your spouse doesn’t neces-
your spouse’s family sarily mean marrying your in-laws too.
You have to understand that every par- While you may have a troubled and
ent plays an important role in their chil- complicated relationship with your in-
dren’s lives. The same is true for your laws, and find them hard to deal with,
spouse’s parents. As such, treat them it doesn’t involve your spouse or reflect
with respect by being mindful to their your spouse’s behaviour or thinking.
needs, greeting them and participat- Healthy couples make an extra effort to
ing in family events. Allow your in-laws be kind to each other, even if they do not
access to your family. In other words, agree with their in-laws.
make an effort to spend time together
even though you may not agree with or

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5. Keep communicating the issues agree with you or perceive what they say
and problem as criticism towards you. Your in-laws
It is important to keep communications are after all people with needs, concerns,
open and sympathize with each other’s doubts and feelings, just like you do.
feelings. Direct the conversation to the
issues that trouble you and do not criti- 7. Respect your Spouse’s attachment
cize your in-laws. to his/ her parents
It is natural that everyone has a natural
6. Don’t take it personally attachment to their parents . So respect
Remember that whatever your in-laws the fact that your spouse wants to take
are telling you, it is only their opinion. care of them and spend time with them
Control how you hear and receive mes- during holidays or weekends.
sages. You don’t have to follow their ad-
vice, nor do you need to argue until they

Simple Yoga Poses to Relax and


Focus your Mind 法奇門 Law of Attraction
CHILD Pose
A focused mind helps you to attract what you want​.

1. Sit with your legs stretched out in front


of you. Imagine a string pulling your
spine up towards the ceiling.
2. Using your hands to make it easier,
draw your heel towards your abdomen,
and place your right foot on the top of
your left thigh.
3. Do the same with your left foot.
4. Relax your hand on your knee.
5. If you wish, you can place the hands
palms up in jnana mudra, with the
thumbs and first fingers touching.
6. Inhale and exhale for 15 minutes.
7. Focus your thoughts on​the things that
you want in life.
8. Play a relaxing meditation music and
diffuse some aromatic essential oils​
while sitting in this pose.
9. Do this every day to train your mind.

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Drawing your Marriage Canvas
Relationship
Activity Person You Serve
Love Partner Value Provided

Liabilities Assets

Resource Channel

What is a Marriage Canvas? relationship. With this information you can


then re-draw a more positive Marriage Can-
vas that will see you contribute actively to
A Marriage Canvas gives you a big picture
of your marriage. It shows the role that your
your marriage to ratify the negative issues
and/or magnify the positives.
partner plays in your daily life such as how
How can you get a Marriage Canvas?
you see him or her as a husband or wife,
what you expect from and how you interact
You will need a professional’s help to draw
with and react to your partner, be it positive
your Marriage Canvas as it requires deep
or negative, as a result of your beliefs, your
knowledge of Bazi. However, this article will
character and your attitude towards rela-
show you how you can draw an approxima-
tionships​.
tion of a Marriage Canvas to give you a gen-
eral outlook of your marriage.
All the information in your Bazi Chart about
your marriage can be explained in a Mar-
1. The most important things to take note
riage Canvas. The Marriage Canvas will
of are your sSpouse Element or Spouse
show the positive and negative influence
Star and your spouse’s actual Day Mas-
you bring to each other as a husband and
ter in your Bazi Chart. These two ele-
wife and areas of potential conflict in your
ments will show you the role your spouse

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plays in your life. Chart as shown below in point  on the
2. Irregardless of whether your Spouse Star chart below.
and Day Master are positive or negative, 4. The “Person You Serve” is derived from
you always want these two elements to the Month Pillar as in indicated in point
appear as the “Key Love Partner” and the  below.
“Person You Serve” in the Marriage Can- 5. Another important factor is what we
vas. In the context of traditional Bazi have and naturally want to offer which
study, a favourable element brings posi- is the “Value Provided”. This is derived
tive influence and outcome while the un- from the Month Branch. However, you
favourable element causes the opposite. must take note that what you naturally
When it comes to negative and positive like to provide doesn’t necessarily trans-
influences and outcomes, my view dif- late to what your spouse needs. Usually
fers from the traditional view. I attach this is the area where conflict arises.
positivity or otherwise to the person’s 6. The points ,  and  are highlighted
character, action and attitude rather in the Bazi Chart 1.
than the element in the Bazi Chart.
3. The “Key Love Partner” is derived from
the triangle location in your Bazi Natal

八 字 Bazi Chart 1
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year

 天干

Heavenly
Stems

地支
Branches
Earthly

藏干


Hidden
Stem

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Example
Anna Lee and Francis Yeoh have decided to get married. Anna Lee is born on 26 January
1984 at 10:00 a.m. Francis Yeoh is born on 30 June 1984 at 3:00 a.m. While Anna and
Francis are not considered a match made in Heaven, they are still compatible and bring
good influence to each other based on their respective Day Masters.

Anna and Francis’ Bazi Charts at a Glance


They are an ordinary couple so do not plan to have a prenuptial agreement. However,
it is noted that Anna’s Spouse Palace has a Clash relationship while Francis has a Com-
bination relationship at the Spouse Palace. As such, there is bound to be some ongoing
arguments and bickering in their relationship. Since there is a problem with the Spouse
and Career Palace, both should decide early on the financial aspects of the relationship –
how much of the finances they want to share, the amount contributed to the family, and
the amount to keep for their own use.

By identifying the placement of your Spouse Star and your spouse’s actual Day Master
in your Bazi Chart, you will have a better understanding of the role they naturally play
in your life.

Table 1: Key Elements in a Relationship


Francis Yeoh Anna Lee
乙 己
Day Master Yi Ji
Yin Wood Yin Earth
戊 甲
Spouse Star Wu Jia
Yang Earth Yang Wood

Francis Yeoh’s Marriage Canvas


Ideally you want to find the key elements of the marriage, the Spouse Star and your
spouse’s actual Day Master to be in the Love Partner and Who You Serve sectors of the
Marriage Canvas. Francis Yeoh’s key element is highlighted in his Bazi Chart and trans-
lated into the Marriage Canvas below.

八 字 Francis Yeoh’s Bazi Chart


時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
正 正 劫 天干

戊 乙 庚 甲
財 官 財
Heavenly

DW DO RW
Stems

Wu Yi Geng Jia
Yang Earth Yin Wood Yang Metal Yang Wood

寅 未 午 子
地支
Branches
Earthly

Yin Wei Wu Zi
Tiger Goat Horse Rat
Yang Wood Yin Earth Yang Fire Yang Water

藏干
戊 甲 丙 乙 己 丁 丁 己 癸
Hidden
Stem

Wu Jia Bing Yi Ji Ding Ding Ji Gui


DW RW HO F IW EG EG IW IR
正財 劫財 傷官 比肩 偏財 食神 食神 偏財 偏印

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Relationship
Activity Person You Serve
Love Partner Value Provided

戊 戊 丁 己
Liabilities 戊 己 Assets

Resource Channel

Francis’ Marriage Canvas: The Role She Plays


Love Partner

Value Provided 己
Francis’ spouse The 丁 Ding Yin Person You
element (戊 Wu Fire is Francis’ Serve
Yang Earth) re- core character and Anna’s Day Master
sides here, indi- nature. This char- resides in this area.
cating that Francis acteristic and the This indicates that
and Anna see each Combination Rela- she is a priority to
other not only as tionship mean that Francis, and he will
life partners, but
also as friends,
戊 Francis often offers
guidance and so-
try to fulfill all her
needs.
Resource
supporters and lutions for Anna’s
The Spouse element
helpers. problems. The
here indicates that
combination indi-
Francis depends on
cates that he thinks
Anna to help and
that this is what she
support him to get
needs, but it may
what he wants and
not be so.​
needs.


Liabilities/cost

Assets
The Spouse element in this area indicates that Fran- Anna’s Day Master 己 Ji Yin Earth is here, indicating
cis feels burdened by Anna’s demands and wants. that Anna can help Francis financially.

Anna Lee’s Marriage Canvas


Now let’s look at Anna Lee’s Marriage Canvas. The key elements for marriage is high-
lighted in her Bazi Chart and translated into the Marriage Canvas below.

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八 字 Anna Lee’s Bazi Chart
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
比 七 偏 天干

己 己 乙 癸
肩 殺 財

Heavenly
F 7K IW

Stems
Ji Ji Yi Gui
Yin Earth Yin Earth Yin Wood Yin Water

巳 未 丑 亥
地支

Branches
Earthly
Si Wei Chou Hai
Snake Goat Ox Pig
Yin Fire Yin Earth Yin Earth Yin Water

藏干
庚 丙 戊 乙 己 丁 辛 己 癸 壬 甲

Hidden
Stem
Geng Bing Wu Yi Ji Ding Xin Ji Gui Ren Jia
HO DR RW 7K F IR EG F IW DW DO
傷官 正印 劫財 七殺 比肩 偏印 食神 比肩 偏財 正財 正官

Relationship
Activity Person You Serve
Love Partner Value Provided

乙 己 甲 乙
Liabilities Assets

Resources Channel

Lesson from A Long Lasting Celebrity Couple: Always remind yourself how
lucky you are to have your spouse
Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson recently celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary and
are undeniably Hollywood’s most famous long-term couple. “I got lucky,” Hanks told
Extra late last year. “No secrets, it’s about winning the lottery. She could’ve done better,
but man oh man, I’m no dope. I’m sticking with her.” In fact, the only problem in their
marriage is a pretty good one, according to Hanks. “The only thing we ever argue about
is who loves each other more,” he said during an appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres
Show. Aww!

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Anna’s Marriage Canvas: The Role He Plays

乙 己
Love Partner
Francis’ Day Mas- Value Provided 乙
Person You
ter 乙 Yi YinWood Anna cares about
Francis and wants Serve
resides in the Love Francis’ Day Mas-
Partner segment of to nurture the rela-
tionship. However ter resides here, in-
the Marriage Can- dicating that Fran-
vas indicating that due to the Clash
Relationship, this cis is a priority to
Francis and Anna Anna, and she will
see each other not is what she thinks
do what she can to

only as life part- he needs, but she
may come off as fulfill his needs.
ners, but also as
friends, supporters being intrusive and Value Provided
and helpers. controlling.


Value Provided
Anna’s Spouse Element (甲 Jia Yang Wood) is here, and
indicates that Francis is always on the move. It also in-
dicates that she expects him to take care of all external
matters such as errands, taking care of the family’s good
name and image, establishing friendships and dealing
with external matters and people.

法奇門 Law of Attraction


3 Simple Mantras
3rd Mantra
‘Love’ is considered a powerful word to create an atmosphere of love. Focus on the feel-
ing you receive when you say ‘Love’ repeatedly. You can feel love washing over you even
if you’re angry or upset. The loving feeling just radiates outward from your heart.

The mantra ‘Love’ is best to used with 合 Harmony Deity to help with manifesting love
in your life. Check out the monthly Universal Qi Map to find the deity direction. If you’re
planning to do this in June, the best position is to have your back to West to tap into 合
Harmony Deity while reciting the mantra ‘Love’.

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COMPATIBILITY BETWEEN
DAY MASTERS
Love  Love, natural affinity and con-
nection. Opposite characters
complement each other.
Compatible  Good influence on each other

Neutral  Share some goals


Incompatible  Bad influence on each other


Wu


Yang Earth

Bing 癸 庚 Geng


Yang Fire Gui


Yang Metal
Yin Water
Xin
丙 Yi
Yin Metal
壬 Bing
Yang Fire
己 Yin Wood
Ji


Ren
壬 丁

Yin Earth
Yang Water
Ding
Jia 戊 Ren


Yin Fire Ren

Yang Wood Yang Water


Wu Jia Yang Water


Yang Earth Yang Wood
Ji Bing
Yin Earth Yang Fire
丙 Geng 庚 戊 Ding
Yin Fire

Geng
甲 丙
Bing Yang Metal Wu
Yang Fire Yang Metal Yang Earth
Geng Jia
Yang Metal Yang Wood 癸 己 Bing
Yang Fire
Ji
Gui
Yin Water 日主 Yin Earth

Day Master

Love Compatible Neutral Incompatible IncompatibleNeutralCompatible Love


丁 辛
乙 Ding
Yin Fire
Xin
Yin Metal
戊 己
Wu Ji


Yi
Yin Wood 丁 辛 Yang Earth Yin Earth


Ji
Yin Earth
Ding
Yin Fire

Ren
Xin
Yin Metal 癸 庚
乙 丁 Gui Geng

癸 乙
Yang Water Yin Water Yang Metal
Wu
Ding

Yang Earth Yi
Gui Yin Wood Yin Fire 甲 Yi
Yin Water 壬 Wu Jia Yin Wood
Ren
Yang Earth
乙 Yang Wood
Yang Water
乙 癸

Yi


Bing
Yi
Yin Wood
Gui
Yin Water
Yin Wood
Ren


Yang Fire Yang Water

辛 Jia 丁Ding
Xin Yang Wood
Yin Fire
Yin Metal
己Ji
Yin Earth
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Understanding Your Partner
壬 by Day Master 丙
Ren Bing
Yang Water Yang Fire
• N
• W
eeds freedom
ants surprise and
癸 • Loves routine
• Feels insecure with
Gui sudden changes
adventure Yin Water
• Wants company and • Wants appreciation
• N eeds freedom & a lot of from time to time
shared activities
space
• Cannot feel restricted or feel 丁
like he/ she is being controlled Ding
• Wants constant change Yin Fire
• Wants you to play by his/her 甲 • Needs encouragement
rules Jia
Yang Wood • Wants to feel needed
• Love romance
• Looks for relationship • Likes to standout
stability
• Partner must share the
same values and goals
• Needs some form of control
乙 over their partner
• Needs tender loving care
Yi
Yin Wood
• Wants constant care,
reassurance and attention
• Enjoys sharing through
communication


Wu
Yang Earth
庚 • Needs time and space to
Geng
Yang Metal 己 reflect
• Reserved & conservative
Ji
• W ants to be a Hero • Needs security &
Yin Earth
• Wants to take charge assurance
• Wants to feel • A kind & nurturing
cherished partner
辛 • Shares likeminded
vision with partner
Xin
• Needs constant
Yin Metal
reassurance & support
• N eeds to keep face
• Needs reassurance
through praises
• Needs his/her
partner to look good

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甲 癸

戊 庚
乙 己 辛 丙

The Metaphysics & Science Behind a


Happy Relationship
THE SECRET TO HAPPY COUPLES
What can Metaphysics tell you about happy couples? That it’s all about your Man Luck​!

5:1 0.8:1
Happy couples have five happy inter- Couples who ultimately divorce have
actions for every negative one. just 0.8 happy encounters for every
positive interaction

Quality of their FRIENDSHIP


70% of the satisfaction and fulfillment felt by happy couples can be attributed to the quality of
friendship between them.

Happy Couples TALK


People in succesful marriages spend an average of five hours or more being together and
talking to each other.

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 Work with Your ‘Man Luck'
時 Hour
八 字 Bazi Chart
日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
Your Partner’s Passion, Desire & Love
天干 In your spouse’s Bazi chart, look at the elements residing in the Heav-
enly Stems of the Month and Hour Pillars, and the Earthly Branch of

Heavenly
日主

Stems
Day Master

地支
the Day Pillar, as shown in the Bazi chart on the left. These elements
represent interactions/activities/gifts that your partner enjoys. The ac-
Branches
Earthly
藏干
tion/activity represented by each element is stated in the infographic
below. For best results, try to include all these activities in your daily
Hidden
Stem

life. If not, make sure that you do the activities that your spouse enjoys,
based on the elements in his or her Bazi chart.

 Small Gestures can make a Big Difference


If you find the elements 乙 (Yi) Yin Wood, 辛 (Xin) Yin Metal, 丁 (Ding) Yin Fire, 己 (Ji) Yin
Earth and 壬 (Ren) Yang Water in these areas, there are many small things you can do daily to
delight and surprise your spouse. More details below.

Hey
Gorgeous
Yes Dear

乙 ,
辛 丁 己 壬
Yi Xin Ding Ji Ren
Yin Wood Yin Metal Yin Fire Yin Earth Yang Water
Show your appreciation
Give a compliment Relive a fun memory Do something together
for things big and small

 Set the Bedroom on Fire 


For those with 丙 (Bing) Yang Fire and 辛 (Xin) Yin Metal in those areas of the chart, sexual inti-
macy is especially important. And even neither you nor your spouse have these elements in your
chart, sexual intimacy is still key to a happy relationship.



  
 
  

Make time for intimacy More Sex = More Joy Once-a-Week Boost
The happiest couples have sex 2 People are 55% more likely to Having sex once a week makes
to 3 times a week report higher level of happiness people 44% more likely to have
when they have sex every few positive feelings.
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 Celebrate with Them 
Studies show that how you celebrate your partner’s GOOD news is the most important factor that
strengthening your relationship. This is especially so if your spouse has 甲 (Jia) Yang Wood and 庚
(Geng) Yang Metal in those areas of the Bazi chart.

Wow!  Show enthusiasm


Congrat. I’m so proud
Honey, I won
an Award.
of you.
 Ask questions
Tell me
about it.  Congratulate your partner

 Relive the experience with


your partner

One study it shows that people who did this 3


times a day for a week increased their happiness
and felt less depressed.

 Keep the Marriage Fresh with Fresh Experiences 


Couples who have NEW experiences together report feeling
more loving and supportive towards one another, and more
satisfied with their marriages. This is especially so if they
have 壬 Ren Yang Water and 戊 Wu Yang Earth in their
Bazi charts.

 Share an Experience Together 


己 丙 ,
戊 壬 辛
Ji Bing Wu Ren Xin
Yin Earth Yang Fire Yang Earth Yang Water Yin Metal

Take a stroll in the Try out new food and Explore new places. Go to a concert.
evening. dine at a new restau-
rant or cafe.


Gui
Yin Water
Try out new stuff
randomly.
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 Avoid Negative Fighting Style 

How you Behave during An Argument


八 字 Bazi Chart
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year

by Ten Gods
天干

Heavenly
日主

Stems
In your Bazi Chart, find out which of the Ten Gods reside
Day Master

地支
in the Month Pillar as shown in the Bazi chart on the left.

Branches
Earthly
These elements when negative can represent certain neg-
藏干 ative behaviours which should be avoided when you’re in

Hidden
the middle of an argument. The Ten Gods can be found in
Stem
Dato’ Joey Yap’s Bazi Profiling System.

Unhappy couples tend to act defensively, tune out, criticize or show contempt when they fight. From
the table below, you can see how the Ten Gods result in certain negative reactions and behaviour.
By identifying how the Ten Gods in your Month Pillar affect you, you can be more mindful of your
behaviour and reactions the next time you get into an argument with your spouse, and slowly but
surely resolve your arguments in a more positive way.
十神 Ten Gods Fighting Style
Influence Star:
Act defensively
正官 Direct Officer
Tune out
七殺 Seven Killings
Wealth Star:
Criticize
正財 Direct Wealth
Show contempt
偏財 Indirect Wealth
Output Star: Criticize
食神 Eating God Resort to name-
傷官 Hurting Officer calling
Resource Star
Roll their eyes
正印 Direct Resource
Tune out
偏印 Indirect Resource
Companion Star:
Criticize
比肩 Friend
Act defensively
劫財 Rob Wealth

When happy couples fight they tend


to defuse the tension by:
 Showing humour

 Expressing affection

 Conceding on certain
points their partner makes

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The
BaBY FORMULA

O
ne of the reasons for getting married is to start a family that you can call your own
and having cute little mini-mes running around. These days people are happy to
have a bundle of joy irregardless of gender, compared to the old days when it was
important for the Chinese family to have a son to carry on the family name. In the old days,
there aren’t any fertility specialists to identify sex of the embryo, so the Chinese used a
calendar system known as the ‘Chinese Pregnancy Calendar’ based on the Chinese Lunar
Calendar to predict the gender of the baby even before the baby is conceived. This system
is believed to be first found in a royal tomb in Beijing. Even though science enables you to
identify and choose the gender of your child, it is still illegal to do so in many countries. So
you may want to test out this system if you have too many boys and want a baby girl.

Reading the Chinese Pregnancy Calendar


The numbers listed on the left column shows the Chinese lunar age for the mother and the
numbers written across on the top row shows the month of conception. For example, a
woman who is born in the year of 1983 is now 32 years old according to the Chinese lunar
age. If she wants a baby boy, she should conceive during the 1st, 4th, 6th, 7th, 9th, 10th and
12th lunar month.

Trouble Conceiving
While your Output Star may appear on the Heavenly Stem on the Year’s Annual Pil-
lar, you want to be careful if there is a clash, harm, punishment, combination or
destruction between Earthly Branches of the Day and Hour Pillar in your natal chart
and the Year Annual Pillar. It can mean stress trying to conceive or a possible miscar-
riage.

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Table 1: Chinese Pregnancy Calendar
月 Month
Age 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12
18 GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY
19 BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL GIRL
20 GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY GIRL BOY BOY
21 BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL
22 GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL
23 BOY BOY BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL BOY BOY GIRL
24 BOY GIRL GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY
25 GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY BOY
26 BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL
27 GIRL GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY
28 BOY BOY BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL
29 GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL
30 BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY
31 BOY BOY BOY BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL
32 BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY
33 GIRL BOY BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL
34 BOY BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL
35 BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY
36 BOY GIRL BOY BOY BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL
37 GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY BOY BOY
38 BOY BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL
39 GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY
40 BOY BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY
41 GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL
42 BOY GIRL GIRL BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY
43 GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY BOY BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL BOY BOY
44 BOY GIRL GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY
45 GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL BOY GIRL

Although it is a very old system and many Chinese believe that it is highly accurate, there
is no scientific evidence to prove its accuracy yet. However, you can further ensure the sex
of the baby by matching the above calendar to the mother’s Bazi chart. Usually a woman
will have higher chances to conceive in years where her Output Star appears on the Heav-
enly Stem of the Annual Pillar. Output Star can be categorized into 食神 Eating God and
傷官 Hurting Officer due to Yin and Yang polarity. Usually Eating God represents a baby
girl while Hurting Officer represents a baby boy. So, say the 32 year old woman is born in
1983 . This year the Annual Pillar is 甲午 Jia Wu, a Wood Horse year. 甲 Jia Yang Wood
represents her 傷官 Hurting Officer, increasing her chances of conceiving a baby boy. Since
she wants a son, she should try to conceive in the lunar month as shown in the Chinese
Pregnancy calendar.

You can find which elements represent the Eating God and Hurting Officer Star (and there-
fore a baby girl or boy) for each Day Master in Table 2 below. This is for women only.​

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Table 2: The 食神 Eating God (Baby Girl) and
傷官 Hurting Officer (Baby Boy) Stars
女日主 食神 傷官
Eating God Hurting Officer
Woman Day Master
(Baby Girl) (Baby Boy)
甲 丙 丁
Jia Bing Ding
Yang Wood Yang Fire Yin Fire
乙 丁 丙
Yi Ding Bing
Yin Wood Yin Fire Yang Fire
丙 戊 己
Bing Wu Ji
Yang Fire Yang Earth Yin Earth
丁 己 戊
Ding Ji Wu
Yin Fire Yin Earth Yang Earth
戊 庚 辛
Wu Geng Xin
Yang Earth Yang Metal Yin Metal
己 辛 庚
Ji Xin Geng
Yin Earth Yin Metal Yang Metal
庚 壬 癸
Geng Ren Gui
Yang Metal Yang Water Yin Water
辛 癸 壬
Xin Gui Ren
Yin Metal Yin Water Yang Water
壬 甲 乙
Ren Jia Yi
Yang Water Yang Wood Yin Wood
癸 乙 甲
Gui Yi Jia
Yin Water Yin Wood Yang Wood

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Activating Earth Luck to Bring
Harmony into your Home

F
rom a harmonious relationship with the in-laws to a loving relationship with your
husband, all these fall under the influence of the 天醫 Tian Yi and 延年 Yan Nian
sectors of your home. For harmony in the family, ensure that these sectors of your
home are not suppressed by a staircase or used as a store room. De-clutter these two areas
and make it spacious and lively.

You can find the 天醫 Tian Yi sector in your home using Table 2.

Table 2: 天醫 Tian Yi and 延年 Yan Nian Sectors


House Facing 天醫 Tian Yi sector 延年 Yan Nian sector
South East South
West North Southeast
Northwest South East
North Southeast North
Northeast West Northwest
Southeast Northeast Southwest
East Southwest Northeast
Southwest Northwest West

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 A spiral staircase at your 延年 Nan
Yian Sector indicates constant arguments
and disharmony in your relationship.

 A low ceiling with beams at your 天醫 Tian Yi


sector indicates health issues. Qi is suppressed.
It also indicates the residents do not know where
to seek help or how to receive help when their
relationship is in trouble.

 Qi flow is restricted in the storeroom.


Residents find it difficult to express their
emotions and views positively when the
延年 Nan Yian sector is found in such
location.

 Such a staircase located a the Nan Yian or


Tian Yi sectors will have a similar effect as cases
 and .

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Workshop: Shen Sha 神煞

B
aZi enthusiasts, would you like to find out more about the Annual Shen Sha 神煞 fly-
ing into the Life Palace of each Zodiac? Now you have the chance!
At this workshop you will learn:
1. How to identify the Annual Shen Sha 神煞 (Auxiliary Stars) for each zodiac every year.
2. The meaning of each Shen Sha 神煞 (Auxiliary Stars).
3. Possible effects and influence of different Shen Sha 神煞 (Auxiliary Stars) appearing
together. How will it affect you?
4. How to apply this Shen Sha method into a person’s Bazi Chart.
5. Apply the Shen Sha 神煞 method to understand the energy for the year.
6. How the Shen Sha 神煞 affects you in terms of health, wealth and relationships
7. How to use Shen Sha 神煞 to forecast your external environment for the year

The benefits of this workshop:


1. You gain better understanding of another method of reading Bazi.
2. You can use and combine this method to do annual assessment for yourself and your
clients.
3. You can use this knowledge to publish your own annual Zodiac forecast.

Requirement: At least Bazi Module 2 and above

Normal fee: USD1,200.00


Register before 30 June 2014 and you will be entitled to bring a friend at 50% discount.

Registration is capped at 15 participants. To register and find out about the special offer
email me at [email protected]

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Bangsar South – An Up and
Coming Development
W
hen it comes to property investment, the most important Feng Shui factor to look
into is the landform. The macro Feng Shui of a place includes the mountain and
water mouths. If there is no immediate river in the vicinity, then the roads and
highway entrance and exit points can be used.

Another point to look into is investment holding period. Are you buying for a flip, a short-
term investment of about 2 to 3 years or something long-term? All these matter when it
comes to using Feng Shui to help you with property investment. Your holding period should
align with the Feng Shui effects.

So, let's talk about my visit to the up and coming development of Bangsar South City (BSC).
BSC is located within Kampung Kerinchi and near Pantai Dalam. To avoid the morning
traffic, I started my journey at about 9:45 a.m. It was a smooth 30 minute drive. The sun
was already up when I stepped foot out of the car, and it was hot as I walked around to
observe the surrounding area. However, all these were only a small inconvenience as I'm
doing what I what love, writing and telling stories about people and places from a Chinese
Metaphysics point of view.

As you may have already guessed, BSC is an area for long-term investment. As it is a
commercial area, it makes the study of the macro Feng Shui of BSC much easier. The most
important thing to look out for in commercial areas is the water mouth, as water represents
opportunity. To have influx of business you need a timely water entrance or exit point.
Since there are no immediate natural water bodies such as lakes or rivers, I used the road
that enters and exits Jalan Kerinchi as the reference point in this study.

Of course mountains are just as important as water mouths. BSC is surrounded by mountains,
which can be seen stretching out behind Jalan Kerinchi. However the mountains are far
away and blocked by some residential buildings. From where I was standing, the Qi of
the mountains will most likely benefit those on the ground to lower levels of The Park

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Residences.

I drove into Jalan Kerinchi from Bangsar which is from the North point while the New
Pantai Expressway (NPE) opens up the South entrance and exit to BSC. This indicates
that the value of BSC will gain momentum and become prosperous going toward period 9.
Prices of properties, like Qi, will slowly rise and fall with time. The Period 9 starts in the
year 2024, a Wood Dragon year and ends in 2o43. However, the Ascending and Descending
Qi calculation tells me that the Qi for period 9 is already making its presence felt in this
Wood Horse year. Hence, you will see the property development with South water mouth
or highway or road entrance and exit points slowly but surely gaining value.

BSC's landform is good value for those who are in the middle to lower income bracket. If
you are in this segment of the market and going for long-term investment, this would be
a nice place. For those who are planning to start businesses catering to the workers and
residential markets at BSC i.e. retail shops, cafés and restaurants, business will only gain
good momentum in the 2024.

North Entrance and Exit

South Entrance and Exit

In these articles I've been trying to keep things simple to help the reader gain a better un-
derstanding of the macro Feng Shui. However, there is a lot more to the landform Feng
Shui, as you study it further. For example, there are many different forms of mountains.
Each form and its location give rise to different influences that you can tap into. That's
why I’m looking forward to going on a 8-day Feng Shui expedition with my teacher Joey
Yap in September. I’ll be writing about all the places we see in our special November 2014
edition. To see examples of the beautiful landforms that can be found across China and
to learn more about the macro effects of Feng Shui, don’t miss out on this Special Issue.​
Pre-orders start 1 June 1014.

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Bazi 101
Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches Relationships (Part I)

I
n the last issue of Bazi 101, we introduced Luck Pillars and how they interact with
Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches to form relationships. Now Heavenly Stems and
Earthly Branches not only interact with Luck Pillars, they also interact with each other
to form relationships.

In this issue’s Bazi 101, we want to explore Combination Relationships that form between
Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches and Luck Pillars and each other, and what it means.

Combination-Relationships
All Combination-Relationships indicate that something – events, people, contracts,
agreements, wealth, time, emotion, thinking, ideas, inheritance, gifts etc is coming your
way.

There are two types of Combination-Relationships:


1. Heavenly Stems
2. Earthly Branches

Heavenly Stems Combination-Relationships


The Heavenly Stem Combination Relationships are shown in the Table 1.

Table 1: 天干合 Heavenly Stems Combination


天干 天干 化 五行
Heavenly Relationships Heavenly Characteristic
Transform Element
Stems Stems
甲 合 己 化 土 Merciful
Jia Ji
Combination Transform Earth Kind
Yang Wood Yin Earth
乙 合 庚 化 金 Loyal
Yi Geng
Combination Transform Metal Altruistic
Yin Wood Yang Metal
丙 合 辛 化 水 Sensual
Bing Xin
Combination Transform Water Lustful
Yang Fire Yin Metal
丁 合 壬 化 木 Romantic
Ding Ren
Combination Transform Wood Kind
Yin Fire Yang Water
戊 合 癸 化 火
Wu Gui Merciless
Yang Earth Combination Yin Water Transform Fire

The characteristics of Heavenly Stem Combinations are:


• They are easily accessible but not lasting

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• Each combination have different effects as shown in the table above. So if you have a
甲 Jia + 己 Ji combination, it indicates that whatever coming your way is merciful
and kind.

地支合 Earthly Branches Combination-Relationships


It’s better to seek out Earthly Branches Combination relationships as they have a more
lasting effect. So if a business partnership arises from an Earthly Branch combination, it
will be a long lasting relationship compared to one brought about by a Heavenly Stem
combination.

There are two types of Earthly Branch Combination relationships, the 六地支合 Six
Harmony Combinations and Three Earthly Branches Combinations.

六地支合 Six Harmony Combinations-Relationships


Six Harmony Combinations usually involves two parties. The six combinations are shown
in the Table 2.

Table 2: 六地支合 Six Harmony Combinations


地支 地支 化 五行
Earthly Relationships Earthly
Transform Element
Branches Branches
寅 合 亥 化 木
Yin Hai
Tiger Combination Pig Transform Wood

卯 合 戌 化 火
Mao Xu
Rabbit Combination Dog Transform Fire

辰 合 酉 化 金
Chen You
Dragon Combination Rooster Transform Metal

巳 合 申 化 水
Si Shen
Snake Combination Monkey Transform Water

午 合 未 化 火
Wu Wei Fire
Horse Combination Goat Transform
Sun/Moon
子 合 丑 化 土
Zi Chou
Rat Combination Ox Transform Earth

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三地支合 Three Earthly Branches Combinations-Relationships
Three Harmony Combinations involves more than two parties and can create a worldwide
connection. The combinations are shown in the Table 3.

Table 3: 三地支合 Three Earthly Branches Combinations


地支 Relation-
地支 Relation-
地支 化 五行
Earthly ships Earthly ships Earthly Transform
Element
Branches Branches Branches
寅 合 午 合 戌 化 火
Yin Wu Xu
Tiger Combination
Horse Combination
Dog Transform Fire

亥 合 卯 合 未 化 木
Hai Mao Wei
Pig Combination
Rabbit Combination
Goat Transform Wood

申 合 子 合 辰 化 水
Shen Zi Chen
Monkey Combination
Rat Combination
Dragon Transform Water

巳 合 酉 合 丑 化 金
Si You Chou
Snake Combination
Rooster Combination
Ox Transform Metal

Simple Yoga Poses to Relax and


Focus your Mind 法奇門 Law of Attraction

CHILD Pose
A focused mind helps you to attract what you want.

1. Kneel on your hands and knees.


2. Release your toes on the floor and separate your knees about hip width apart.
3. Exhale, and slowly lower your buttocks towards your heels feeling the tailbone lengthen
away from the back of your pelvis.
4. Lengthen the back of your neck before your forehead rests on the floor.
5. Lay your arms forward, about shoulder width apart Inhale and exhale while you rest.
6. Keep the pose for 8 minutes while focusing your thoughts on attracting what you want.
7. Practice this in bed before you sleep.

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FACE READING

Travelling Travelling
遷移宫 Career 遷移宫
Parent 官祿宮 Parent
父母宫 父母宫

12 12
Life
9 9
6 4
Palace
4 6
命宮
Health
7 疾厄宮 7

Wealth
財帛宮

Hired- Hired-
Help Help
奴僕官 奴僕官

12 Fortune & Virtue 福德宮


9 Sibling 兄弟宮
4 Property 田宅宮
7 Children 夫妻宮
6 Marriage 夫妻宮

Face Reading: The Basics, Part 3

The Twelve Palaces

E
ach area in your face represents a different aspect of your life. These areas are called
the 12 Palaces in face reading. The 12 Palaces face reading method is simple and easy
to apply. The 12 Palaces are:

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1. Life Palace 命宮, the most important palace. It gives insights into the prosperity, in-
telligence, wealth, health and well-being of a person
2. Career Palace 官祿宮, indicates your career prospects.
3. Wealth Palace 財帛宮 not only indicates your wealth and immediate cash flow but
also represents your spouse.
4. Property Palace 田宅宮, represents your physical assets and possessions.
5. Health Palace 疾厄宮 denotes one’s health and well-being as well as the health of
your spouse.
6. Marriage Palace 夫妻宮, governs the relationship you have with your spouse.
7. Children Palace 子女宮, governs the relationship you have with your children.
8. Parents Palace 父母宫, governs the relationship you have with your parents.
9. Sibling Palace 兄弟宮, governs the relationship you have with your siblings.
10. Hired-Help Palace 奴僕官 represents the presence or absence of people who assist
you in your life. i.e. employees, maids, drivers, lawyers etc.
11. Travelling Palace 遷移宫 determines matters relating to vacation and travel, migra-
tion, international business interests and travelling for career.
12. Fortune & Virtue Palace 福德宮 represents the person’s perception of life, fulfil-
ment and positivity.

Learn to recognize these areas in your face as slight changes such as pimples, changes in
skin tone, as well as small red or green veins can indicate positive or negative events that
are likely to take place within a week.

Also take note of the 12 Palaces corresponding to the age limits of your face as any mole,
freckle, mark, scar or discolouration will indicate certain events taking place at a specific
age related to the above aspect of your life.

It is easy to apply and understand the 12 Palaces for daily use. For example, a pimple on
your Wealth Palace tells you that you are going to lose some money within a few days.
Sometimes small loses can be indicated just by an itchiness on your Wealth Palace. If the
Wealth Palace is shiny and has a slight yellow tinted glow, you can expect some money
coming your way.

Lesson from A Long Lasting Celebrity Cou-


ple: Embrace your differences

Hollywood’s happiest un-married couple, Kurt


Russell and Goldie Hawn’s relationship has stood
the test of time, after 30 years together. Hawn is
known to be a free-spirit and their laid back ap-
proach seems to be the recipe for success.

“Relationships are always challenging because


you’re living with someone and two people are very
different but it really is about, ‘What are your core
values? What are the things that matter to you?’”
Hawn told talk show host Jonathan Ross. ‘’Kurt’s
quite different in many ways to what I am, and vice
versa, but we want the same things out of life and
so it’s been an incredible ride with him.”

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with a Twist
LAW OF ATTRACTION
法奇門 FA QI MEN

Reaching an Alpha State of Mind

I
n the old days, Fa Qi Men was mostly practiced by Taoist Priest. They are called 道士
Daoshi. The Chinese would seek the Daoshi for spiritual guidance when they have prob-
lems, when they are in trouble or when they wanted something. The Daoshi will then
set up an altar at a certain time, facing a certain direction and offer prayers to the Deities
and request for assistance. While reciting the scripture and praying the Daoshi will at the
same instance send metta (loving kindness) to the person who sought help.

What the Daoshi were actually doing was tapping into Universal Qi and asking the Uni-
verse to manifest and fulfill a wish using the Fa Qi Men method. It is like the Law of At-
traction but with the added advantage of knowing who, when and where to maximize the
Universal Energy in our favour. If you have a clear mind and have been constantly training
your mind to tune into positivity you can send metta to others too.

But lets not get a head of ourselves. First lets explore more activities that you can do to
help you tune into an alpha state of mind so that you can easily attract whatever you want
into your life.

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TOP 10 ACTIVITIES To Bring
Your Brain To ALPHA STATE

Alpha State of Mind

 Meditation  Exercise
Meditation is one of the best Exercise calms your mind
activities to do to bring your and raises the brain’s alpha
mind to different states, such wave activity. Fast-paced
as alpha, theta and gamma. and extreme sports require
acute concentration and for
you to cast away negative
thoughts. Some exercises
also have meditative
qualities to help optimize
 Music your mind.
Listening to music is one of
the easiest ways to affect your
emotions and state of mind.
There are many specialized
recordings that induce
 Singing alpha states to help you
Singing soothing and attract wealth, abundance,
positive songs refreshes fulfil your dreams and heal
and relaxes your mind and emotionally, physically
makes it easier for you reach and mentally. Some  Rhythmic Breathing
an alpha state. Sing out your gurus combine music and Rhythmic breathing in
wish too. meditation to help students a relaxed posture and a
reach alpha states of mind. peaceful environment is
important for getting to
the alpha state.Rhythmic
Essential Oils help to promote breathing techniques are
and amplify the alpha state of mind. taught by many eastern
There are so many ways to use them relaxation disciplines such
as yoga, aikido, tai-chi and
-diffuse in a diffuser, put some in qi-gong.
bath water, drop a few drops onto
cotton balls and stuff into air vents.
Or dilute some in a carrier oil and
apply on temples, wrists and neck.

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 Routine
Familiarity breeds security  New Age or Spiritual
and calms one’s mind. Feng Shui
Establish certain daily  The Silva Method The New Age Feng Shui
routines, for example Jose Silva developed a method practice of placing symbolic
morning rituals such as of dynamic meditation which objects around the house
drinking a cup of warm water effectively gets​ the user to or office may not have the
first thing in the morning, an alpha state. You can learn effects of environmental Qi,
exercise, meditation, or more about this technique but it can help you ground
even just reading the in his book The Silva Mind your thoughts and help you
newspapers and having a Control Method of Mental focus on attracting​the things
healthy breakfast before Dynamics. you want in life by reminding
work. You can close the day you of the reasons you placed
with evening rituals such the objects there in the first
as meditation, journaling place. Similarly the Spiritual
and reading before bed. Feng Shui practice of
These routines ground wearing good fortune totems
you, and once established, or charms works to ground
don’t require much thought your thoughts and focus your
or concentration, leaving mind. These practices yield
your mind free and calm to more results if used together
concentrate on other things. with Fa Qi Men.

Young Living Essential


Oil - Clarity™ promotes
a clear mind and alertness.
It contains stimulating oils
including peppermint and
 Floating Therapy rosemary, which have been
While experimenting with used for many years to
sensory deprivation, Dr. promote mental sharpness.
John C. Lilly discovered Clarity can also be used to
that the act of floating in help restore mental alertness
an isolation tank brought  Travelling for leisure
or wakefulness when you Travelling for a vacation
his subjects into a deeply are experiencing fatigue or
relaxed, meditative state. helps you to rejuvenate your
drowsiness. body and mind. The places
There are many commercial
float centres worldwide, you see, people you meet and
so go give it try. If not, experiences you encounter
improvise by floating in your will enrich your soul. A
bathtub with the lights off, yearly vacation can promote
or floating in the swimming a healthy agile mind.
pool at night.
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MONTHLY OUTLOOK
JUNE 2014 庚午 METAL HORSE
八 字 Bazi Chart
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
正 劫 七 天干

癸 戊 庚 甲
財 財 殺

Heavenly
DW RW 7K

Stems
Gui Wu Geng Jia
Yin Water Yang Earth Yang Metal Yang Wood

丑 申 午 午
地支

Branches
Earthly
Chou Shen Wu Wu
Ox Monkey Horse Horse
Yin Earth Yang Metal Yang Fire Yang Fire

藏干
辛 己 癸 己 庚 己 丁 己 丁 己

Hidden
Stem
Xin Ji Gui Ji Geng Ji Ding Ji Ding Ji
HO RW DW HO EG RW DR RW DR RW
傷官 劫財 正財 傷官 食神 劫財 正印 劫財 正印 劫財

Auspicious Stars:
金匱 Golden Lock
將星 General Star

Inauspicious Stars:
年煞 Grand Duke
咸池 Hidden Corpse
三刑 Triple Punishment
劍鋒 Sword Edge Star

J
une 2014 favours matters relating to self-development, learning, academic pursuits
and education. Furthermore, lessons taken on this month can easily be put to good
use. The Qi is positive for those who work in research, analysis and publication.
Writers and authors should take advantage of this period to research and write. The Qi also
works well for those who are making plans for their business and marketing strategies.

If the month’s Qi is unfavourable to you, you will find yourself more careless about your
routine work, so recheck your work regularly, especially on work related to documentation.
You will find yourself bogged down by minor documentation problems as a result of your
forgetfulness.

It is best to avoid being overly friendly, to prevent unwanted and aggressive Peach Blossom
attention. Spend more quality time with your spouse or romantic partner. Constant
arguments and an estranged relationship make it easy for a third party to jeopardise your

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current relationship.

This month’s energy favours those who have the following zodiac: Tiger, Dog, Pig and Goat.

Wood Day Masters (甲 Jia Yang Wood and 乙 Yi Yin Wood) born in the spring season should
be more productive this month. Contributions made now will gain recognition towards the
year end. Those born in the summer months should take some time-off to rest and relax.
Those born in the autumn and winter months should help others resolve their problems,
and in return, it will boost your reputation.

Fire Day Masters (丙 Bing Yang Fire and 丁 Ding Yin Fire), should spend some time building
good networks and learning something new.

Earth Day Masters (戊 Wu Yang Earth and 己 Ji Yin Earth), you will find yourself happily
indulging in good food and enjoying the company of good friends. It is a good time to put
your plan to the test!

Metal Day Masters (庚 Geng Yang Metal and 辛 Xin Yin Metal), while it is a stressful month,
help is at hand. Find some time to rest and recharge.

Water Day Masters (壬 Ren Yang Water and 癸 Gui Yin Water) especially those born in the
autumn and winter season will see an increased inflow of income and wealth opportunities.
Those who are born in spring and summer should look for ways to collaborate with others
to tap into these wealth opportunities.

Tiger
After going through a stressful period with a heavy
workload, the tide turns for the better. You will find
yourself more confident and happier as a result of
overcoming the seemingly tough obstacles of the
previous months. Wealth opportunities are present if
you join forces with others.

Rabbit
You will be feeling the negative side of the Peach Blossom
star. You will find petty attention being focused on you
due to jealousy. Remain calm amidst all the gossip. With
a little foresight on your part you can take advantage of
this petty gossip and rumour to gain further ground.

Dragon
Make full use of your thinking cap. This month you can
experience many creative ideas and can even turn it into
a reality if you pursue it persistently. Do not over indulge
in delicious food that compromises your health.

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Snake
Noble people are here to offer you help should you face
any trouble. So lower your pride and ask for assistance.
Just be grateful to those who have lent you a hand when
you needed it.

Horse
A power struggle may ensue as people around you are
feeling sensitive and emotional. Due to their insecurities,
they are aggressively protecting their own interests. Lie
low this month. Mind your own business.

Goat
You may be pulled into a dispute and argument as a
negotiator as people trust you to resolve their differences.
Thread carefully so as not to aggravate the matter and
land yourself in hot soup.

Monkey
Your good luck continues. Expect some good news,
personal and work-related, coming your way. Some
motivational course taken to mould your discipline will
greatly enhance your future.

Rooster
Your Peach Blossom Star is shining on you positively.
You will happily find yourself being the focus of
attention of many prospects. It is up to you to make the
connection. People who work in customer service, sales
and marketing will find their career going smoothly this
month.

Dog
Your good luck continues. Keep up with your good
work and you may be in for a promotion with a good
performance review. You suggestions and ideas are
easily accepted by your superior. If you have good ideas
do share it out.

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Pig
After a few months of uncertainty, your luck turns
better. People are more supportive of your ideas and
endeavours. Take this time to execute your project and
plans as help is around.

Rat
Those born in the year of the Rat are going to experience
a choppy and uncertain month. It is best to just take a
holiday on crucial dates like 4th, 5th, 10th and 22nd this
month to avoid and mitigate disruptive events.

Ox
You may experience a lack of energy. You tire easily. Take
some time off to rejuvenate. Do not trust people who
offer you investments with extraordinary gift or profit. It
may turn into a fraud later. For romantic relationships,
beware of internet love scams and overly passionate
lovers who promise you the world. Be more realistic this
month.

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MONTHLY OUTLOOK
JULY 2014 辛未 METAL GOAT
八 字 Bazi Chart
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
傷 食 七 天干

庚 己 辛 甲
官 神 殺

Heavenly
HO EG DO

Stems
Geng Ji Xin Jia
Yang Metal Yin Earth Yin Metal Yang Wood

午 卯 未 午
地支

Branches
Earthly
Wu Mao Wei Wu
Horse Rabbit Goat Horse
Yang Fire Yin Wood Yin Earth Yang Fire

藏干
丁 己 乙 乙 己 丁 丁 己

Hidden
Stem
Ding Ji Yi Yi Ji Ding Ding Ji
IR F 7K 7K F IR IR F
偏印 比肩 七殺 七殺 比肩 偏印 偏印 比肩

Auspicious Stars:
太陽 Sun / Great Yang
歲合 Grand Duke Combination
扳鞍 Pulling Saddle
攀鞍 Pommelled Saddle

Inauspicious Stars:
晦氣 Bad Qi
天空 Sky Emptiness
黃幡 Yellow Flag

T
here are many genuine helpful people out there to offer assistance. Overall, it is an
auspicious month. However, there are many disruptive changes that may take a turn
for the better given time although people may feel oppressed and unhappy in the
meantime. Do not look upon events or issues short-sightedly, as you may miss out on the
long-term benefit.

If the month’s Qi is unfavourable to you, you find yourself easily irritated and prone to be
argumentative. Be more flexible this month to any changes and events that come your way.

For people who have a plan or project, this is a good month for you to start executing your
plans. You will easily be able to pull in resources to get your project running with the help

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of friends and word of mouth.

This month’s energy favours those who have the following zodiacs: Rabbit, Pig and Horse.

Wood Day Masters (甲 Jia Yang Wood and 乙 Yi Yin Wood) especially those born in the
spring and winter season will see an increased inflow of income and wealth opportunities.

Fire Day Masters (丙 Bing Yang Fire and 丁 Ding Yin Fire), should spend some time with
your team to brainstorm ideas for creative products.

Earth Day Masters (戊 Wu Yang Earth and 己 Ji Yin Earth), focus on branding and marketing
yourselves. Put yourself out there!

Metal Day Masters (庚 Geng Yang Metal and 辛 Xin Yin Metal), should spend some time to
build a good network especially if you are looking for some key resources.

Water Day Masters (壬 Ren Yang Water and 癸 Gui Yin Water) should take a good look
again at documentations or agreements drawn this month. It is also a good month to enjoy
some fun hobbies.

Tiger
Whether at work or on personal matters, there are noble
people to lend you a hand. Health issues like gastric,
stomach ache and migraines may become a persistent
problem due to constant high stress this year. Take care
of yourself to prevent this minor illness from developing
further into something more serious.

Rabbit
Overall it is a smooth sailing month for Rabbits. There
are many happy events and good news awaiting you.
While you are in a happy mood, do take care to voice
your opinions diplomatically as you do not want to land
yourself into an argument that could ruin relationships.

Dragon
This month’s motto for you is “There is no easy way out.”
Do not resort to short-cuts to do your work. Be diligent
and follow the rules in completing your assignment. Any
attempt to take the easy way can land you unexpected
trouble.

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Snake
Expect heavy workload coming your way. You may feel
like you’re being pulled into several directions at once,
as there are many things that need your attention. At the
same time you feel lethargic. Do what you can.

Horse
This is a good time to build a good network and learn
something new. You are surrounded by harmonious
people and friends who are willing to listen and offer
their support. All in a smooth sailing month and for
single Horses, you are going to experience strong
romantic luck.

Goat
This is a quiet month for you. While there is no major
problem that can cause chaos in your life, you should
still proceed with caution to avoid minor issues that can
turn into a big hassle due to pettiness of others. No a
month to make major decisions.

Monkey
Peach Blossom Luck is shining on you. You may want
to depend on your Man Luck to proactively make your
feelings known as there is no auspicious star this year
to support your romantic endeavours. Remember you
have nothing to lose.

Rooster
As you gain more trust from your superior this year, your
workload will be heavier especially towards the year
end. You may become irritable as you find little time for
yourself. At work, communicate in a precise manner to
avoid misunderstanding. Do relate your situation to your
family as they will be supportive and understanding.

Dog
You will be indulging in good food and drink with good
company. However, do not go overboard with the merry
making as you may find that all that socializing can take
a toll on your health. All in, this is still an auspicious
month for Dogs with a lot of happy news and celebration.

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Pig
Good luck continues for those born in the year of the Pig.
You are having the Midas touch, so anything you plan to
do this month will turn out successful. Remember small
successes can accumulate into something bigger so be
happy with the small achievements.

Rat
While you are not fully free from the disruptive cycle
of previous month, you can breathe a sigh of relief as
things take a turn for the better. To be safe, keep working
diligently.

Ox
Some travelling can help mitigate some of your trouble
this month. Go to some place where you can find some
peace and so that you’ll be back energized and ready to
take on any challenges. Follow rules and regulation this
month, and you will do no wrong.

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MONTHLY OUTLOOK
AUGUST 2014 壬申 WATER MONKEY
八 字 Bazi Chart
時 Hour 日 Day 月 Month 年 Year
正 食 天干

丁 己

庚 甲
官 神 財

Heavenly
DO EG IW

Stems
Ding Geng Ji Jia
Yin Fire Yang Metal Yin Earth Yang Wood

亥 戌 申 午
地支

Branches
Earthly
Hai Xu Shen Wu
Pig Dog Monkey Horse
Yin Water Yang Earth Yang Metal Yang Fire

藏干
壬 甲 丁 戊 辛 戊 庚 壬 丁 己

Hidden
Stem
Ren Jia Ding Wu Xin Wu Geng Ren Ding Ji
7K IR DO IR RW EG F EG DO DR
七殺 偏印 正官 偏印 劫財 食神 比肩 食神 正官 正印

Auspicious Stars:
驛馬 Sky Horse

Inauspicious Stars:
孤辰 Solitary
喪門 Funeral Door
地喪 Earth Funeral

E
vents or work will move into high gear as we move into a strong metal and water
month. Activities like travel, moving office and migrating are likely to occur this
month.

August still favours collaborative work especially those involving international partnerships.

If the month’s Qi is unfavourable to you, you need to be more alert as to your safety, as
injuries, accident and death toll may rise this month.

This month’s energy favours those who have the following zodiacs: Dragon, Rat and Snake.

Wood Day Masters (甲 Jia Yang Wood and 乙 Yi Yin Wood) especially those born in the
spring and summer season may see that their ideas put to good use. This month you are
prone to conflict with people of higher authority and power.
Fire Day Masters (丙 Bing Yang Fire and 丁 Ding Yin Fire), should avoid under table

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methods to resolve your issues. It will land you into more trouble.

Earth Day Masters (戊 Wu Yang Earth and 己 Ji Yin Earth), still a month to focus on
branding and marketing themselves. Put yourself out there!

This month favours Metal Day Masters (庚 Geng Yang Metal and 辛 Xin Yin Metal), looking
for collaborative projects. Partnerships will help them gain a pool of easily accessible
resources.

Water Day Masters (壬 Ren Yang Water and 癸 Gui Yin Water) born in autumn and winter
will experience more competition for their market share. Those born in spring and summer,
should spend some time to build a good network and learn something new.

Tiger
You may experience unstable luck this month. Stay calm.
If you have already implemented your plans, persistence
is the key. Keep going as your problems will resolve in
time. For those who are still in the planning stage, fine-
tune your plans to help you reach your goals.

Rabbit
You are still going through a good luck cycle. Take this
time to turn your plans into reality as you will have many
noble people offering you good opportunities to take
your project to a higher level.

Dragon
Your luck takes a turn for the better this month especially
in terms of wealth and career. Take this time to market
yourself and build a positive image for yourself. Spend
some time on building a good network for your business
or career. People you meet this month can boost your
career with the right timing.

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Snake
Romance is on the cards! Single Snakes will find people
paying more attention to them. Couples may find their
marriage a bit crowded as a third party may come into the
picture if they’re not careful. Expect an overall smooth
sailing month in all aspects of your life. This is the best
time to carry out your plans and projects.

Horse
Wealth luck is strong especially for those in business or in
sales. However, this translates into a heavier workload.
You are going to experience a hectic month with a lot
of short business trips. For employees, your luck cycle
will be stable and leans more towards the positive. Your
work will be recognized by your boss.

Goat
You may go into hermit mode this month with little
interest in your surroundings. This may be due to stress
caused by work or relationship problems. Those who
have just experienced a break-up will try to drown their
pain in work. However, do not isolate yourself for too
long as this method may not help you to resolve your
issues. It is better to seek counselling or a sympathetic
ear from friends and family.

Monkey
You will experience quite a bit of travelling luck. It may
just be short trips but rest assured you’ll find yourself
running around. Why not just take this time to have a
long vacation? Overall luck is stable and smooth.

Rooster
This may not be your best month. The good luck from the
yearly auspicious stars is still shining on you. While there
are no major obstacles, you may lose some money due
to your negligence while negotiating and when signing
documentations, contracts or agreements. Seek the help
of a good lawyer to inspect all agreements thoroughly.

Dog
You may experience positive attention from the opposite
sex this month. This attraction can turn into a serious
relationship if you accept the person into your life. For
singles, this is a month to be proactive in looking out
for a love partner especially for guys. The energy is also
beneficial for networking and public relations work.

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Pig
Those who are in employment will experience more
stability than those running their own business. Do not
make any major changes or execute any major plans and
all should run smoothly. This month favours those who
follow the norm, and you should conserve your capital.
Push your marketing plan to another month.

Rat
Rat zodiac can expect an auspicious month in terms of
career, wealth and relationships. Be more confident to
take up extra responsibility or start a new project.

Ox
After a month of uncertainty, you can expect a stable
month in August. All aspects of your life will run smoothly.
You will find more wealth opportunities, if you have an
extra source of income. You’ll be in a happier mood
which bodes well for personal relationships. Couples will
find their married life blissful.

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GOOD DATES PLANNER
HOW TO USE THE GOOD DATES PLANNER
Thursday Friday Saturday 董公择日

DECEMBER 2013 甲子 WOOD RAT


5 6 7 Dong Gong Good Day
The legend explains the
Avoid major activities Special weekly prizes for Excellent day for activat-
today. subscriber of BaziChic ing South 2 at 5:30 a.m or Excellent Day quality of the day.
Magazine. 9:30 p.m. for Nobleman Suggested special activi-
at Avoid: Ox Auspicious Day ties.

Fair Day

Inauspicious Day
12 13 14
Good day for wealth activities
Suitable for:
The legend explains what
especially related to property. A
good day for asking forgiveness and Money Matters each icon represents.
righting the wrongs. Best time at
Sign Contract A person who has this
9:30 a.m. Avoid: Ox
Special weekly prizes for subscriber Networking zodiac sign should avoid
of BaziChic Magazine.
Getting Married using this day.
  Renovation Icons help to indicate
Moving Home suitable activities of the
Travelling
19 29 21 Winter Solstice day.
Special weekly prizes for
subscriber of BaziChic
Magazine.



26 27 28
Good day for wealth activities Special weekly prizes for
especially related to market- subscriber of BaziChic
ing and promotion. Good for Magazine.
prayers & yoga, manifestation.
Best time at 12:30 a.m. or 1:30
p.m. Avoid: Goat



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GOOD DATES PLANNER
Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday
JUNE 2014 庚午 METAL HORSE
1 Excellent day to acti- 2 肉粽節 3 4
vate wealth luck at W2 at Dumpling Festival
15:30.

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8 Excellent day to ask 9 10 Avoid major activi- 11


for forgiveness, request ties today.
for protection and resolve
problems​. Activate noble-
man luck at W2 at 15:30.
Avoid: Dragon



15 Father’s Day 16 17 A fair day to start a 18 A fair day to col-


diet plan. Avoid: Ox lect debt and to speed up
eagerly awaited matters,
results or outcomes i.e.
follow-up on project
tender, job interview
or contract deal. Avoid:
Tiger
 

22 Avoid major activi- 23 24 Excellent day for 25


ties today. investment, networking
and relationship matters.
A good day for making
babies. Activate E2, For-
tune Virtue, at 00:00.



29 A fair day to dis- 30


solve partnerships, agree-
ments and contracts, and
resign from your work.
Avoid: Ox


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Thursday Friday Saturday
董公择日

JUNE 2014 庚午 METAL HORSE


5 6 Good day to activate 7 Yang di-Pertuan Agong’s Birthday
Dong Gong Good Day
wealth luck at SW1 at
09:30. Today is good for Excellent Day
making requests i.e. gifts,
deals, pay raise and help
etc. Avoid: Tiger Auspicious Day

Fair Day


12 Excellent day to 13 14 Excellent day to Inauspicious Day


activate romance luck activate popularity luck at
at W2 at 03:30. A good Suitable for:
W2 at 15:30 a.m. Today
day to start a new career. is good for marketing, Money Matters
Avoid: Monkey promotional and sales Sign Contract
activites. Avoid: Dog Networking
Getting Married
Renovation
 
Moving Home
19 Travelling
20 21

26 27 28

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GOOD DATES PLANNER
Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday
METAL GOAT

1 2 Excellent day to
request for protection
and resolve problems​.
Activate nobleman luck
at W2 at 09:30. Avoid:
Dragon
JULY 2014 辛未



6 Excellent day for all 7 Good day for all 8 9


matters. Activate wealth matters. Activate wealth
luck at W2 at 07:30, luck at W2 at 11:30,
nobleman luck at E2 nobleman luck at E2
13:30, and romance luck 09:30, and romance luck
at E2/W3 at 07:30. Avoid: at E2/W3 at 03:30. Avoid:
Monkey Rooster

 

13 Good day for 14 15 Excellent day to ac- 16 Avoid major ac-


making babies. Activate tivate wealth luck at W2 tivities today.
decendants luck at North at 11:30. Avoid: Snake
at 03:30. Avoid: Rabbit



20 Just a good day. 21 A good day to acti- 22 A good day to 23


Enjoy! vate wealth luck at W2 at activate popularity luck
00:00. Avoid: Pig at E2 at 07:30, and health
luck at SW1 at 11:30.
Today is good for a health
check-up, and marketing,
promotional and sales
activites. Avoid: Rat

27 Excellent day for 28 Avoid major ac- 29 Avoid major activi- 30 Excellent day to
all matters. Excellent day tivities today. ties today. activate popularity and
to activate wealth luck wealth luck at W2 at
and relationship luck at 03:30. Today is good for
W2 at 11:30. Avoid: Snake marketing, promotional
and sales activites. Avoid:
Monkey

 
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Thursday Friday Saturday
董公择日

METAL GOAT
3 Excellent day to 4 Avoid major activi- 5 Dong Gong Good Day
activate nobleman luck at ties today.
W2 at 11:30 a.m. Today Excellent Day
is good for marketing,
promotional and sales
activites. Avoid: Snake Auspicious Day

Fair Day

JULY 2014 辛未
10 Just a good day. 11 12 Inauspicious Day
Enjoy!
Suitable for:
Money Matters
Sign Contract
Networking
Getting Married
Renovation
Moving Home
17 Avoid major activi- 18 Excellent day to 19 Excellent day to Travelling
ties today. activate popularity luck make requests i.e. gifts,
at W2 at 7:30 a.m. Today deals, pay raise and help
is good for marketing, etc. Activate E2 at 03:30
promotional and sales or 05:30. Avoid: Dragon
activites. Avoid: Monkey

 

24 25 26

31 Just a good day.


Enjoy!


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GOOD DATES PLANNER
Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday
AUGUST 2014 壬申 WATER MONKEY

3 Just a good day. 4 5 A good day to start a 6


Enjoy! diet plan. Just a good day.
Enjoy!

10 11 Avoid major ac- 12 13 A good day for


tivities today. investment matters. Ac-
tivate wealth luck at SW1
or W2 at 15:30. A good
day to start a new career.
Avoid: Dog

17 18 19 20

24 Just a good day. 25 26 27


Enjoy!

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Thursday Friday Saturday

AUGUST 2014 壬申 WATER MONKEY


董公择日
1 Excellent day to 2 A good day to speed Dong Gong Good Day
speed up eagerly awaited up eagerly awaited mat-
matters, results or out- ters, results or outcomes Excellent Day
comes i.e. follow-up on i.e. follow-up on project
project tender, job in- tender, job interview or Auspicious Day
terview or contract deal. contract deal. Activate
Activate SW3 at 09:30. SW1 at 09:30. A good
Avoid: Dog day to start a new career. Fair Day
 Avoid: Pig
Inauspicious Day
7 8 9 Avoid major activi-
ties today.
Suitable for:
Money Matters
Sign Contract
Networking
Getting Married
Renovation
Moving Home
Travelling
14 15 Excellent day to 16 Excellent day to
speed up eagerly awaited activate wealth luck at
matters, results or out- W2 at 00:00 or 15:30, and
comes i.e. follow-up on nobleman luck at SW1 at
project tender, job in- 07:30 or15:30. Avoid: Ox
terview or contract deal.
Activate SW3 at 15:30.
Avoid: Rat


21 Avoid major activi- 22 23 Avoid major activi-


ties today. ties today.

28 A good day to acti- 29 Excellent day to 30


vate health luck at SW1 at activate popularity and
03:30. Today is good for wealth luck at W2 at
a health check-up. Avoid: 01:30. Today is good for
Ox marketing, promotional
and sales activites. Avoid:
Monkey

Hari Raya  Hari Raya


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2014 ANNUAL AND MONTHLY FLYING STAR CHART
HOW TO USE THE FLYING STAR CHART
Abbreviation of the
SE direction

9
4
Monthly flying star
Annual flying star

Suggested activites suit-


able for the location,
effect and outcome of the
flying star.

June 6 - July 6 庚午

SE S SW
3
3 8
8 1
1
Sudden Change Partnership Academic
In Business & Financial Success Excellence
Career

2
2 4
4 6
6
Good Reputation

E Property Gain Power


Leadership W

7
7 9
9 5
5
Good
Communication Spiritual
Success Enlightenment Financial Losses
Romance

NE N NW

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2014 ANNUAL AND MONTHLY FLYING STAR CHART

July 7 - August 6 辛未

SE S SW
2
3 7
8 9
1
Avoid
Dispute Financial Success Wealth
Argument Romance

1
2 3
4 5
6
Avoid

E Illness
Dispute
Wealth
W

6
7 9
8
5
4

Avoid
Fighting Career Success Illness
Dispute Happiness
Argument Romance

NE N NW

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2014 ANNUAL AND MONTHLY FLYING STAR CHART

August 7 - September 7 壬申

SE S SW
1
3 6
8 8
1
Wealth Financial Success Good Business
Status Partnership Acumen

9
2 2
4 4
6
E Chasing Empty
Dream
Legal Issue
W

5
7 9
7
5
3

Avoid
Illness Partnership Financial
Injuries Joint Venture Losses
Bad Reputation Romance

NE N NW

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UNIVERSAL QI MAP Law of Attraction
HOW TO USE THE UNIVERSAL QI MAP
Abbreviation of the
SE direction

陰 Guardian Angel

Yin
Moon

Request assistance from


Wisdom the Universal Qi on spe-
cial matters

Jing
Scenery Door way

June 6 - July 6 庚午

SE S SW
地 玄 虎
Di Xuan Hu
Earth Tortoise Tiger

Wealth Reality Distortion Energy

休 生 傷
Xiu Sheng Shang
Rest Life Harm

天 Universal Qi 合
Tian He
Heaven Auspicious Harmony

E Vision Inauspicious Relationship W


開 杜
Kai Neutral Du
Open Delusion

符 蛇 陰
Fu She Yin
Chief Snake Moon

Fulfilling Wishes Discovery Wisdom

驚 死 景
Jing Si Jing
Fear Death Scenery

NE N NW

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UNIVERSAL QI MAP Law of Attraction

July 7 - August 6 辛未

SE S SW
合 陰 蛇
He Yin She
Harmony Moon Snakey

Relationship Wisdom Discovery

生 傷 杜
Sheng Shang Du
Life Harm Delusion

虎 Universal Qi 符
Hu Fu
Tiger Auspicious Chief

E Energy Inauspicious Fulfilling Wishes W


休 景
Xiu Neutral Jing
Rest Scenery

玄 地 天
Xuan Di Tian
Tortoise Earth Heaven

Reality Distortion Wealth Vision

開 驚 死
Kai Jing Si
Open Fear Death

NE N NW

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UNIVERSAL QI MAP Law of Attraction

August 7 - September 7 壬申
SE S SW
虎 合 陰
Hu He Yin
Tiger Harmony Moon

Energy Relationship Wisdom

驚 開 休
Jing Kai Xiu
Fear Open Rest

玄 Universal Qi 蛇
Xuan She
Tortoise Auspicious Snakey

E Reality Distortion Inauspicious Discovery W


死 生
Si Neutral Sheng
Death Life

地 天 符
Di Tian Fu
Earth Heaven Chief

Wealth Vision Fulfilling Wishes

景 杜 傷
Jing Du Shang
Scenery Delusion Harm

NE N NW

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CHEAT SHEET
24-Mountain Reference Chart

GUA DIRECTION 24 MOUNTAINS DEGREES


S1 Bing 丙 Yang Fire 157.6 - 172.5

South S2 Wu 午 Horse (Yang Fire ) 172.6 - 187.5
Li
S3 Ding 丁 Yin Fire 187.6 - 202.5
SW1 Wei 未 Goat (Yin Earth) 202.6 - 217.5

Southwest SW2 Kun 坤 Southwest (Earth) 217.6 - 232.5
Kun
SW3 Shen 申 Monkey (Yang Metal) 232.6 - 247.5
W1 Geng 庚 Yang Metal 247.6 - 262.5

West W2 You 酉 Rooster (Yin Metal) 262.6 - 277.5
Dui
W3 Xin 辛 Yin Metal 277.6 - 292.5
NW1 Xu 戌 Dog (Yang Earth) 292.6 - 307.5

Northwest NW2 Qian 乾 Northwest (Metal) 307.6 - 322.5
Qian
NW3 Hai 亥 Pig (Yin Water) 322.6 - 337.5
N1 Ren 壬 Yang Water 337.6 - 352.5

North N2 Zi 子 Rat (Yang Water) 352.6 - 7.5
Kan
N3 Gui 癸 Yin Water 7.6 - 22.5
NE1 Chou 丑 Ox (Yin Earth) 22.6 - 37.5

Northeast NE2 Gen 艮 Northeast (Earth) 37.6 - 52.5
Gen
NE3 Yin 寅 Tiger (Yang Wood) 52.6 - 67.5
E1 Jia 甲 Yang Wood 67.6 - 82.5

East E2 Mao 卯 Rabbit (Yin Wood) 82.6 - 97.5
Zhen
E3 Yi 乙 Yin Wood 97.6 - 112.5
SE1 Chen 辰 Dragon (Yang Earth) 112.6 - 127.5

Southeast SE2 Xun 巽 Southeast (Wood) 127.6 - 142.5
Xun
SE3 Si 巳 Snake (Yin Fire) 142.6 - 157.5

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24-Mountain Compass

丙 午 丁




西南




Yi


卯甲



西




丑 亥
癸 子 壬

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Feng Shui Eight Mansions: East & West Group Direction

1. East Group 東命
生氣 天醫 延年 伏位 禍害 五鬼 六煞 絕命
卦 Sheng Qi Tian Yi Jue Ming
Yan Nian Fu Wei Huo Hai Wu Gui Five Liu Sha Six
Gua Life Heavenly
Longevity Stability Mishaps Ghosts Killings
Life
Generating Doctor Threatening

坎 東南 東北 西北 西南
東 南 北 西
Kan South North North South
East South North West
1 Water East East West West
震 東南 西南 西北 東北
南 北 東 西
Zhen South South North North
3 Wood South North East West
East West West East
巽 東南 西北 西南 東北
北 南 東 西
Xun South North South North
4 Wood North South East West
East West West East
离 東南 東北 西南 西北
東 北 南 西
Li South North South North
9 Fire East North South West
East East West West

1. West Group 東命
生氣 天醫 延年 伏位 禍害 五鬼 六煞 絕命
卦 Sheng Qi Tian Yi Jue Ming
Yan Nian Fu Wei Huo Hai Wu Gui Five Liu Sha Six
Gua Life Heavenly
Longevity Stability Mishaps Ghosts Killings
Life
Generating Doctor Threatening

坤 東北 西北 西南 東南
西 東 南 北
Kun North North South South
West East South North
2 Earth East West West East
乾 東北 西南 西北 東南
西 東 北 南
Qian North South North South
6 Metal West East North South
East West West East
兌 西北 西南 東北 東南
西 北 南 東
Dui North South North South
7 Metal West North South East
West West East East
艮 西南 西北 東北 東南
西 南 北 東
Gen South North North South
8 Earth West South North East
West West East East

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Year Pillar and Life Gua Reference Table for 1912 - 1979
Life Gua Life Gua
Year of Birth Year of Birth
Male Female Male Female
壬子 丙戌
1912 Ren Zi
Water Rat 7 8 1946 Bing Xu
Fire Dog 9 6
癸丑 丁亥
1913 Gui Chou
Water Ox 6 9 1947 Ding Hai
Fire Pig 8 7
甲寅 戊子
1914 Jia Yin
Wood Tiger 5 1 1948 Wu Zi
Earth Rat 7 8
乙卯 己丑
1915 Yi Mao
Wood Rabbit 4 2 1949 Ji Chou
Earth Ox 6 9
丙辰 庚寅
1916 Bing Chen
Fire Dragon 3 3 1950 Geng Yin
Metal Tiger 5 1
丁巳 辛卯
1917 Ding Si
Fire Snake 2 4 1951 Xin Mao
Metal Rabbit 4 2
戊午 壬辰
1918 Wu Wu
Earth Horse 1 5 1952 Ren Chen
Water Dragon 3 3
己未 癸巳
1919 Ji Wei
Earth Goat 9 6 1953 Gui Si
Water Snake 2 4
庚申 甲午
1920 Geng Shen
Metal Monkey 8 7 1954 Jia Wu
Wood Horse 1 5
辛酉 乙未
1921 Xin You
Metal Rooster 7 8 1955 Yi Wei
Wood Goat 9 6
壬戌 丙申
1922 Ren Xu
Water Dog 6 9 1956 Bing Shen
Fire Monkey 8 7
癸亥 丁酉
1923 Gui Hai
Water Pig 5 1 1957 Ding You
Fire Rooster 7 8
甲子 戊戌
1924 Jia Zi
Wood Rat 4 2 1958 Wu Xu
Earth Dog 6 9
乙丑 己亥
1925 Yi Chou
Wood Ox 3 3 1959 Ji Hai
Earth Pig 5 1
丙寅 庚子
1926 Bing Yin
Fire Tiger 2 4 1960 Geng Zi
Metal Rat 4 2
丁卯 辛丑
1927 Ding Mao
Fire Rabbit 1 5 1961 Xin Chou
Metal Ox 3 3
戊辰 壬寅
1928 Wu Chen
Earth Dragon 9 6 1962 Ren Yin
Water Tiger 2 4
己巳 癸卯
1929 Ji Si
Earth Snake 8 7 1963 Gui Mao
Water Rabbit 1 5
庚午 甲辰
1930 Geng Wu
Metal Horse 7 8 1964 Jia Chen
Wood Dragon 9 6
辛未 乙巳
1931 Xin Wei
Metal Goat 6 9 1965 Yi Si
Wood Snake 8 7
壬申 丙午
1932 Ren Shen
Water Monkey 5 1 1966 Bing Wu
Fire Horse 7 8
癸酉 丁未
1933 Gui You
Water Rooster 4 2 1967 Ding Wei
Fire Goat 6 9
甲戌 戊申
1934 Jia Xu
Wood Dog 3 3 1968 Wu Shen
Earth Monkey 5 1
乙亥 己酉
1935 Yi Hai
Wood Pig 2 4 1969 Ji You
Earth Rooster 4 2
丙子 庚戌
1936 Bing Zi
Fire Rat 1 5 1970 Geng Xu
Metal Dog 3 3
丁丑 辛亥
1937 Ding Chou
Fire Ox 9 6 1971 Xin Hai
Metal Pig 2 4
戊寅 壬子
1938 Wu Yin
Earth Tiger 8 7 1972 Ren Zi
Water Rat 1 5
己卯 癸丑
1939 Ji Mao
Earth Rabbit 7 8 1973 Gui Chou
Water Ox 9 6
庚辰 甲寅
1940 Geng Chen
Metal Dragon 6 9 1974 Jia Yin
Wood Tiger 8 7
辛巳 乙卯
1941 Xin Si
Metal Snake 5 1 1975 Yi Mao
Wood Rabbit 7 8
壬午 丙辰
1942 Ren Wu
Water Horse 4 2 1976 Bing Chen
Fire Dragon 6 9
癸未 丁巳
1943 Gui Wei
Water Goat 3 3 1977 Ding Si
Fire Snake 5 1
甲申 戊午
1944 Jia Shen
Wood Monkey 2 4 1978 Wu Wu
Earth Horse 4 2
乙酉 己未
1945 Yi You
Wood Rooster 1 5 1979 Ji Wei
Earth Goat 3 3

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Year Pillar and Life Gua Reference Table for 1980 - 2047
Life Gua Life Gua
Year of Birth Year of Birth
Male Female Male Female
庚申 甲午
1980 Geng Shen
Metal Monkey 2 4 2014 Jia Wu
Wood Horse 4 2
辛酉 乙未
1981 Xin You
Metal Rooster 1 5 2015 Yi Wei
Wood Goat 3 3
壬戌 丙申
1982 Ren Xu
Water Dog 9 6 2016 Bing Shen
Fire Monkey 2 4
癸亥 丁酉
1983 Gui Hai
Water Pig 8 7 2017 Ding You
Fire Rooster 1 5
甲子 戊戌
1984 Jia Zi
Wood Rat 7 8 2018 Wu Xu
Earth Dog 9 6
乙丑 己亥
1985 Yi Chou
Wood Ox 6 9 2019 Ji Hai
Earth Pig 8 7
丙寅 庚子
1986 Bing Yin
Fire Tiger 5 1 2020 Geng Zi
Metal Rat 7 8
丁卯 辛丑
1987 Ding Mao
Fire Rabbit 4 2 2021 Xin Chou
Metal Ox 6 9
戊辰 壬寅
1988 Wu Chen
Earth Dragon 3 3 2022 Ren Yin
Water Tiger 5 1
己巳 癸卯
1989 Ji Si
Earth Snake 2 4 2023 Gui Mao
Water Rabbit 4 2
庚午 甲辰
1990 Geng Wu
Metal Horse 1 5 2024 Jia Chen
Wood Dragon 3 3
辛未 乙巳
1991 Xin Wei
Metal Goat 9 6 2025 Yi Si
Wood Snake 2 4
壬申 丙午
1992 Ren Shen
Water Monkey 8 7 2026 Bing Wu
Fire Horse 1 5
癸酉 丁未
1993 Gui You
Water Rooster 7 8 2027 Ding Wei
Fire Goat 9 6
甲戌 戊申
1994 Jia Xu
Wood Dog 6 9 2028 Wu Shen
Earth Monkey 8 7
乙亥 己酉
1995 Yi Hai
Wood Pig 5 1 2029 Ji You
Earth Rooster 7 8
丙子 庚戌
1996 Bing Zi
Fire Rat 4 2 2030 Geng Xu
Metal Dog 6 9
丁丑 辛亥
1997 Ding Chou
Fire Ox 3 3 2031 Xin Hai
Metal Pig 5 1
戊寅 壬子
1998 Wu Yin
Earth Tiger 2 4 2032 Ren Zi
Water Rat 4 2
己卯 癸丑
1999 Ji Mao
Earth Rabbit 1 5 2033 Gui Chou
Water Ox 3 3
庚辰 甲寅
2000 Geng Chen
Metal Dragon 9 6 2034 Jia Yin
Wood Tiger 2 4
辛巳 乙卯
2001 Xin Si
Metal Snake 8 7 2035 Yi Mao
Wood Rabbit 1 5
壬午 丙辰
2002 Ren Wu
Water Horse 7 8 2036 Bing Chen
Fire Dragon 9 6
癸未 丁巳
2003 Gui Wei
Water Goat 6 9 2037 Ding Si
Fire Snake 8 7
甲申 戊午
2004 Jia Shen
Wood Monkey 5 1 2038 Wu Wu
Earth Horse 7 8
乙酉 己未
2005 Yi You
Wood Rooster 4 2 2039 Ji Wei
Earth Goat 6 9
丙戌 庚申
2006 Bing Xu
Fire Dog 3 3 2040 Geng Shen
Metal Monkey 5 1
丁亥 辛酉
2007 Ding Hai
Fire Pig 2 4 2041 Xin You
Metal Rooster 4 2
戊子 壬戌
2008 Wu Zi
Earth Rat 1 5 2042 Ren Xu
Water Dog 3 3
己丑 癸亥
2009 Ji Chou
Earth Ox 9 6 2043 Gui Hai
Water Pig 2 4
庚寅 甲子
2010 Geng Yin
Metal Tiger 8 7 2044 Jia Zi
Wood Rat 1 5
辛卯 乙丑
2011 Xin Mao
Metal Rabbit 7 8 2045 Yi Chou
Wood Ox 9 6
壬辰 丙寅
2012 Ren Chen
Water Dragon 6 9 2046 Bing Yin
Fire Tiger 8 7
癸巳 丁卯
2013 Gui Si
Water Snake 5 1 2047 Ding Mao
Fire Rabbit 7 8

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Reference Table: Bazi Heavenly Stems Relationship
Heavenly Stems Combination, Countering and Clashes 天干合剋沖
甲 乙 丙 丁 戊 己 庚 辛 壬 癸
Jia Yi Bing Ding Wu Ji Geng Xin Ren Gui
Yang Wood Yin Wood Yang Fire Yin Fire Yang Earth Yin Earth Yang Metal Yin Metal Yang Water Yin Water

Combination 己 庚 辛 壬 癸 甲 乙 丙 丁 戊
Ji Geng Xin Ren Gui Jia Yi Bing Ding Wu
合 Yin Earth Yang Metal Yin Metal Yang Water Yin Water Yang Wood Yin Wood Yang Fire Yin Fire Yang Earth

Counter 戊 己 庚 辛 壬 癸 甲 乙 丙 丁
Wu Ji Geng Xin Ren Gui Jia Yi Bing Ding
剋 Yang Earth Yin Earth Yang Metal Yin Metal Yang Water Yin Water Yang Wood Yin Wood Yang Fire Yin Fire

Clash 庚 辛 壬 癸 甲 乙 丙 丁
Geng Xin Ren Gui Jia Yi Bing Ding
沖 Yang Metal Yin Metal Yang Water Yin Water Yang Wood Yin Wood Yang Fire Yin Fire

Reference Table: Bazi Earthly Branches Relationship


Earthly Branches Combination, Punishment, Destruction, Clash and Harm 天干合 刑 破害
子 丑 寅 卯 辰 巳 午 未 申 酉 戌 亥
Zi Chou Yin Mao Chen Si Wu Wei Shen You Xu Hai
Rat Ox Tiger Rabbit Dragon Snake Horse Goat Monkey Rooster Dog Pig

Six
丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅
Combination Chou Zi Hai Xu You Shen Wei Wu Si Chen Mao Yin
六合 Ox Rat Pig Dog Rooster Monkey Goat Horse Snake Dragon Rabbit Tiger

申 巳 午 亥 子 酉 寅 亥 子 巳 寅 卯
Three Shen Si Wu Hai Zi You Yin Hai Zi Si Yin Mao
Monkey Snake Horse Pig Rat Rooster Tiger Pig Rat Snake Tiger Rabbit
Harmony
三合 辰 酉 戌 未 申 丑 戌 卯 辰 丑 午 未
Chen You Xu Wei Shen Chou Xu Mao Chen Chou Wu Wei
Dragon Rooster Dog Goat Monkey Ox Dog Rabbit Dragon Ox Horse Goat

Clash 午 未 申 酉 戌 亥 子 丑 寅 卯 辰 巳
Wu Wei Shen You Xu Hai Zi Chou Yin Mao Chen Si
沖 Horse Goat Monkey Rooster Dog Pig Rat Ox Tiger Rabbit Dragon Snake

卯 戌 巳 子 辰 寅 午 丑 寅 酉 丑 亥
Mao Xu Si Zi Chen Yin Wu Chou Yin You Chou Hai
Punishment Rabbit Dog Snake Rat Dragon Tiger Horse Ox Tiger Rooster Ox Pig

刑 未 申 申 戌 巳 未
Wei Shen Shen Xu Si Wei
Goat Monkey Monkey Dog Snake Goat

Destruction 酉 辰 亥 午 丑 申 卯 戌 巳 子 未 寅
You Chen Hai Wu Chou Shen Mao Xu Si Zi Wei Yin
破 Rooster Dragon Pig Horse Ox Monkey Rabbit Dog Snake Rat Goat Tiger

Harm 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申
Wei Wu Si Chen Mao Yin Chou Zi Hai Xu You Shen
害 Goat Horse Snake Dragon Rabbit Tiger Ox Rat Pig Dog Rooster Monkey

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Common questions

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Prenuptial agreements may be perceived as unromantic because they introduce financial protections and legal considerations into a relationship, which can detract from the ideal of love and trust. However, individuals may still consider them important to protect personal and business assets in the event of marriage dissolution, which is increasingly common with high divorce rates. This foresight helps manage expectations and protect interests .

Respecting a spouse’s attachment to their parents contributes to a healthier marriage by acknowledging and accepting the natural familial bond and desire to maintain close relationships. This respect reduces conflicts arising from divided loyalties and supports harmonious family interactions, thus strengthening the marital relationship .

Bringing up the conversation about prenuptial agreements early in a relationship is crucial to avoid the appearance of coercion close to the wedding date, which might invalidate the agreement. Initiating this conversation early also opens a dialogue about finances, a sensitive topic for many couples, and ensures the prenup is "fair" in the eyes of the court, preventing one party from being left destitute .

The Law of Attraction can be applied through yoga practices by focusing the mind on desired outcomes while performing specific poses. For example, the Mountain Prayer Pose involves standing straight, relaxing the body, and focusing thoughts on personal goals while breathing deeply for 15 minutes. This mental focus, combined with relaxing music and essential oils, is said to strengthen the attractor power of individual desires .

The Spouse Palace in a Bazi Chart holds significant relevance for marriage predictions as it governs relationships and marriage prospects. It is located at the Day Branch right below the Day Master. A good marriage is indicated by a Spouse Palace that is not in trouble, meaning there should not be any harmful relationships between the Hour and Month Branches, such as harm, clash, destruction, or punishment .

The Marriage Canvas serves as a visual representation of how partners perceive each other in a marital relationship. It illustrates the expectations, values, and roles each partner plays, influenced by personal beliefs, attitudes, and character. This canvas can highlight potential supportive dynamics as well as areas of conflict based on perceived needs and partner roles .

Effective communication strategies for dealing with complicated in-law relationships include: maintaining open dialogue about issues without criticism, empathizing with the spouse's perspectives, and managing personal reactions to in-law opinions by not taking them personally. Remaining calm and constructive while discussing sensitive topics keeps the focus on resolving issues collaboratively .

Focusing on the feeling of love through repeated mantras, such as saying 'Love,' and aligning energy with specific deities like the 合 Harmony Deity can manifest an atmosphere of love and positivity. This practice can transform negative emotions and radiate loving feelings outward, enhancing personal and relational well-being by fostering an environment conducive to love and harmony .

Managing in-law relationships to prevent interference in marital relations involves several strategies: separate issues with in-laws from the marital relationship, maintain open communication while being sympathetic to each other's feelings, not taking in-law opinions personally, and respecting the spouse's natural attachment to their parents. These steps ensure a supportive marital environment despite in-law challenges .

Selecting an auspicious date for discussing a prenup involves aligning the choice with a partner's Bazi Chart to ensure the day’s energies are favorable. Avoiding days that clash with the partner’s Day Pillar (either the Day Stem or Day Branch) prevents agitation and enhances comfort during discussions. Using a Chinese Tong Shu calendar, days like Month Breaker and Year Breaker are avoided while Success Day or Stable Day are preferred .

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