I, __________________, with a free mind and open heart; do request of Aaron/ VibraniumStrokes, that he accept the
submission of my will unto him and take me into his care and guidance, that we may grow together in love, trust, and
mutual respect. The satisfaction of his wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my desire as a submissive to be found
pleasing to him. To that end, I offer him the use of my time, talents, and abilities.
Further, I ask, in sincere humility, that as my Dom/Sir, he accept the keeping of my body, for the fulfillment and
enhancement of our sexual, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. To achieve this, he may have unfettered use of my
body any time, any place he determines. I ask that he guide me in any sexual, sensual, or scene-related behavior in such a
way as to further my growth as a person.
I request of Aaron/VibraniumStrokes, as my Sir/Dom, that he use the power in his role; to mold and shape me; assisting me
to grow in strength, character, confidence, and being, and that he continue to help me develop my submissive, vanilla, and
intellectual abilities.
In return, I agree:
* To obey his commands to the best of my ability
* To strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, jealously, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve
him and limit my growth as his submissive
* To maintain honest and open communications with him
* To reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment
* To inform him of my wants and perceived needs, recognizing that he is the sole judge of whether or how these shall be
satisfied
* To strive toward maintenance of a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations and goals
* To work with him to become a happy and self-fulfilled individual
* To work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with advancement of these aims
My surrender as a submissive is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of me will demean me as a person, or interfere
with my usual family life/responsibilities, and in no way diminish my own responsibilities toward making use of my
potential.
This I, __________________ do give, with clarity and the realization of what this means, both stated and implied, in the
conviction that this offer will be understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem, and devotion in which it is given.
Should either of us find that our aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find this commitment too
burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel, either may do so by verbal notification to the other, in keeping with the
consensual nature of the agreement.
We both understand that cancellation means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this agreement, not a
termination of our relationship as friends and lovers. Upon cancellation, each of us agree to offer the other their reasons and
assess our new needs and situation openly and lovingly. We may also rework the contract so that it can be suitable for both
of us.
This agreement shall serve as our committed to each other in the spirit of loving and consensual Dominance and submission
with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both our
lives.
PUNISHMENT:
I shall read and become aware of the rules and know that Sir has full discretion to decide on the number of spankings, etc.,
for rule breaking on a case by case basis. Sir will always provide reason for the punishment. Punishment will be treated
seriously. Sir will comfort me after I have been taught. Punishments besides lashings of belt or crop are at the discretion of
Sir and always must be complied with. These include orders to stand in a corner, to sit, to accept without resistance a quick
spanking, lectures, or whatever else Sir determines useful and necessary to teach and guide the sub.
CORRECTION AND PUNISHMENT:
It is assumed that I wish to be in service and wish to perform tasks to the best of my ability. Submission is not intended as a
game wherein I intentionally make errors to attract attention or to provoke an S&M scene.
Therefore, if I fail at a task, or mode of behavior or speech, it is initially assumed that the failure is due to a lack of
understanding or instruction. Sir will instruct again so that I understand better.
If there is a repeated failure of the same task or mode of behavior I will again be instructed, and a mild, reinforcing
punishment will be enacted. Additional failure will evoke a more severe punishment.
Punishments will not be designed to be confused with S&M play; they will be designed to be unpleasant.
Punishment of me is subject to certain rules designed to protect me from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm.
Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:
- Death
- Any permanent bodily harm
- Any burning of my body
- Blood must not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn.
- Dramatic loss of circulation
- Causing internal bleeding
- Loss of consciousness
- Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, oxygen, water or sunlight for extended periods of time
- Any cutting of the my hair or pulling of the my hair such that the hair is pulled out
- No marks visible outside of the normal public or work clothing of the sub. This does not include bathing suits or other
skimpy attire. I must use discretion when dressing for public display so as not to show marks received from punishment or
play.
RULES OF CONDUCT:
I will answer any questions put to me honestly and directly and will volunteer any information my Sir should know about
my physical or emotional condition. While my Sir expects me to speak honestly and forthrightly about anything that bothers
me, I am not to interpret that as permission to whine or complain. I will phrase my concerns politely and respectfully, and
then gracefully accept my Sir's judgment in these matters without further complaint.
My Sir may give me “free periods” in his presence during which I may express myself openly and freely. There will be no
punishments applied during free periods. It is understood, however, that I will continue to address my Sir with respect and
love at all times and that deviations from this rule are subject to punishment at a later time. Sir and I agree that in extremes,
either may activate a free period. The free period will continue until both parties agree that the problem(s) concerned are
resolved.
When speaking to my Sir or being spoken to by him, I will assume a demeanor of alert attention and will meet Sir's eyes
directly, unless instructed to do otherwise.
I will wear whatever Sir tells me to in the privacy of my home, or our meeting place, no matter how inappropriate, revealing,
slutty I may believe the clothing is. I will always be well groomed and wear my hair any way Sir prefers in the privacy of
our meeting place.
I will perform any acts we have agreed upon without hesitation and with a smile or thank You, Sir.
HARD AND SPECIAL LIMITS:
I and my Sir have a life and jobs independent of the relationship that Sir recognizes might make us both suddenly
unavailable at times. We will respect this and be understanding. If it is ever discovered that I have lied or mislead Sir, then I
shall punish be punished as Sir sees fit.
Sir can make no rules or regulations involving the subs career.
No play or punishment that might cause temporary or permanent damage to my neck and/or vocal cords.
No play or punishment that might make it impossible for me to perform my job.
No scat or fecal play.
No vomit play.
No blood play or knife play.
No public displays of their private relationship, unless previously discussed and agreed upon.
No verbal humiliation, unless agreed upon. No play involving children at all.
Restricted physical humiliation- no licking feet, licking boots, eating dirt etc unless agreed upon.
Both Sir and I have agreed upon a Red, Yellow, Green system. Should Sir do something that I can not handle or will not do,
I am to say Red and Sir is to stop immediately and disengage to discuss the situation. Alternatively this being a temporary
contract with the purpose being to gain experience any play scenes including sexual acts must be Green lit by me
beforehand.
Once Collared → This being a temporary arrangement both parties have agreed to use their own Sir cuff and sub collar
until we are comfortable exchanging these items for more personal ones. Whilst in the privacy of our meeting place, Sir will
wear his cuff as a reminder of His Dominant role, and I will wear my collar as a sign of my submission to my Sir.
CHANGE OR TERMINATION OF THE CONTRACT:
Sir and I must both agree on any changes made to this Contract. Should either of us find that our aspirations are not being
well served by this agreement, find this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel, either may do
so by verbal notification to the other, in keeping with the consensual nature of this agreement. We both understand that
cancellation means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of our relationship
as friends and lovers. Upon cancellation, each of us agrees to offer to the other His or her reasons and to assess our new
needs and situation openly and lovingly.
This contract has a life of ____ (days/weeks/months/years). At its expiration a new contract may be created and signed.
I offer my consent of submission to Aaron/VibraniumStrokes, under the terms stated above on this the ____ day of ____ in
the year ____.
____________________
(Signature of submissive)
I offer my acceptance of submission by (submissive), under the terms stated above on the ____ day of ____ in the year ____.
____________________
(Signature of Dominant)