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Making A Toast at Mother'S 80 Birthday Party: Some Suggested Inclusions

The document provides guidance for giving a toast at a mother's 80th birthday party. It suggests including details about the mother's life such as where she was born, her family, education, marriage, children, talents, and qualities. It recommends saying something to pay tribute to her wonderful and generous life. The toast should ask everyone to raise their glasses and say "To [Mother's Name]" before wishing her a happy 80th birthday. The document also provides tips for delivering the toast such as writing it out fully, using note cards, speaking loudly and making eye contact with everyone.

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Making A Toast at Mother'S 80 Birthday Party: Some Suggested Inclusions

The document provides guidance for giving a toast at a mother's 80th birthday party. It suggests including details about the mother's life such as where she was born, her family, education, marriage, children, talents, and qualities. It recommends saying something to pay tribute to her wonderful and generous life. The toast should ask everyone to raise their glasses and say "To [Mother's Name]" before wishing her a happy 80th birthday. The document also provides tips for delivering the toast such as writing it out fully, using note cards, speaking loudly and making eye contact with everyone.

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MAKING A TOAST AT MOTHER’S 80TH BIRTHDAY PARTY

Some suggested inclusions:


Welcome everybody. Thank you for being here and sharing ………………’s 80th birthday
celebration. On behalf of Mum, I thank you for your gifts, cards, and good wishes.
I will tell you a little about Mum’s life and ask you to join with me in a toast at the end of my speech.
A brief outline of …………………’s life:
Where born
Parents
Place in the family (how many in the family)
Where she went to school, and how
When and where she married and to whom, married life
How many children she had, and now how many grandchildren
Talk about her qualities
Talk briefly about a story which illustrates a particular quality
Mention a special talent she has
Mention particular things she taught her children, or what you appreciate most about her.
Near the end, say something like, Mum, all your family and friends here tonight pay tribute to the
wonderful/ generous/ loving life you have lived, and for everything you have given us……
Ladies and gentlemen, I ask you to fill your glasses, be upstanding, and to drink a toast to…………
[Raising your glass towards your mother, so others will follow] TO …………………………..
[Everyone repeats : TO…………………………………
Happy 80th birthday Mum.
[Everyone sits down. Is there a compere to hand over to? If not say “Thank you everyone” or
similar.]
SOME DO’S
 Give some thought to how you would like one of your children to speak about you in this
situation in the future, and apply that now to how you undertake the task.
 Consider asking your mother what she would like you to mention or not mention. You could
ask her in advance about what she thinks are her greatest achievements, and weave them
into your speech.
 Write out your speech in full. Your mother might like to keep it.
 Consider reducing your speech to some business-sized cards with a paragraph heading
and a few key words on each card to remind you of what you want to say. Alternatively,
referring to the whole speech in full would be acceptable, but be sure to look at the group
often to make eye contact.
 If using cards, number each card in case you drop them.
 A good speaking pace is 120 words a minute, so if you plan to talk for about 4-5 minutes,
you would write out about 500-600 words.
 Speak loudly and slowly, looking around the group, to include everyone. Some people may
be hard of hearing or at the back. Make sure they can all hear.
 If someone is filming the event, face the camera sometimes.
 Enjoy this unique opportunity to praise and thank your mother among her family and
friends. This is a great honour, and gift to your mother. Remember that you are doing
something kind for her, and the focus is on her, not you and your nerves. Smile and enjoy.
SOME DON’TS
 Don’t talk about other people or your self or your childhood. This speech is about her.
 Don’t make unkind jokes or make fun of any characteristics. Use your time to speak
positively and warmly.
 Don’t apologise for anything – being nervous, having a cold etc
 Don’t repeat anything that your mother said when you were talking about the speech in
advance, if it was negative eg “Oh, I’m just an ordinary person” etc. Try to keep everything
positive and reflective of your high opinion of her. Di Pepper, February 2010

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