Domination/Submission Checklist

G = Give & R = Receive

Done it Y = yes; N = no

RATING
0 = Hard limit, will NEVER do it;
1 = Extremely unwilling (will do it under stern orders);
2 = Unwilling (will do it under orders);
3 = Willing (will do it with a suggestion);
4 = Wants to (will do it without prompting);
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A zero (0) rating means this activity will be OFF LIMITS.

A 1 - 3 rating implies that it will be done for the pleasure of the other as for a benefit
A 4 - 5 rating implies that the person filling the checklist will derive some direct sense of satisfaction from this activity.

Please specify are Y/you filling this out as Master, Dom/Me, slave, sub

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SEX

Sexual intercourse involving a penis

Anal Sex entering your anus.

The use of the ass crack for male genital

Ass Cheek Sex stimulation.

The use of the armpit for male genital

Armpit Sex stimulation.
Animal Sex Sex with an animal (dog, cat, horse etc.)

The use of the cleavage for male genital

Breast Sex stimulation

Sexually stimulating the vagina with a

Cunnilingus mouth/tongue.

Going without sex often at another

Denial person's command.

Sexual intercourse in which two orifices

Double Penetration - Dildo are filled.
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SEX CONTD/

Double Penetration -Multiple Sexual intercourse in which two orifices

Partners are filled.
Dildo - Anal A non-vibrating artificial phallus in anus.

A non-vibrating artificial phallus in

Dildo - Oral mouth.

A non-vibrating artificial phallus in

Dildo - Vaginal vagina.

Sexually stimulating the penis with

Fillatio mouth/tongue.

Using a finger or multiple fingers for

Finger Sex sexual stimulation
Genital Intercourse Sexual intercourse

Sexual intercourse with more than one

Group Sex partner.
Hand Job Stimulating a penis with your hand

Including others in the

Including Others physical/emotional aspects.

Using your tongue on another person's

Licking body

Rubbing another person's body for their

Massage relaxation.

Having sexually explicit phone

Phone Sex conversations.

Sexually stimulating the anus with a

Rimming mouth/tongue.

Secretly having sexual intercourse in a

Secret Sex (Public area) public area

Secret Sex (Semi-public Secretly having sexual intercourse in a

area) semi-public area
Secret Intimacy (Public area) Secretly being intimate in a public area
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Secret Intimacy (Semi-public Secretly being intimate in a semi-public

area) area

Trading your partner/s with other

Swinging partner/s for sex
Sex Outdoors Having sex outdoors

Going out in public with a sex toy (such

Sex Toys under clothes in as a butt plug) in your body, under your
public clothing.

Sexual intercourse in which three orifices

Triple Penetration - Dildo are filled.

Triple Penetration - Multiple Sexual intercourse in which three orifices

Partners are filled.

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by teasing the
Teasing body.

Vanilla Traditional intercourse without any kinks.

SEX TOYS

Having a string of connected beads (or

balls) inserted in to your anus or vagina
Beads and then pulled out.

Butt Plugs Wearing a "plug" inserted in to your anus.

Using and/or being penetrated with a

Dildos non-vibrating artificial phallus.

Variously known as Ben-Wa Balls,

Oriental Love Eggs, etc. Two connected
balls that are placed inside the body
and either vibrate when you move or
are battery powered to vibrate.
Love Eggs

Suction devices used on specific parts of

Suction Toys body, namely breasts/nipples//pussy
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Insertable, battery operated that create

vibrations for external & internal
Vibrators stimulation
BONDAGE

Lightly binding or restricting the body.

Usually more symbolic than actually
Bondage Light restrictive.

Heavily binding or restricting the body,

usually to the point where no, or next-to
Bondage Heavy no, movement is possible.

Being placed in or placing someone in a

Boxing / Closeting box or closet.

Breast Binding or restricting the breasts.

Being placed in or placing someone in a

Caging cage

Affixed or fixing someone to a cross or

Crucifixion crucifix-shaped structure.

Full Body Binding or restricting the whole body.

Genital Binding or restricting the genitals.

Intricately binding or restricting some or

Intricate all of the body.

Mental Normally done by Hypnotism.

Being wrapped or wrapping someone -

often in cotton, leather, PVC or plastic
Mummification wrap- from head to toe.

Outdoors Restraint Outdoors

Restraint Privately with no other people

Private to see

Public Restraint in view of others

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BONDAGE CONTD/

Restraint in public under Restraint in public, but under clothes

clothes

Restraint Duration: 0-1hr Restraint duration less than an hour

Restraint Duration: 1-3hrs Restraint duration up to 3 hours
Restraint duration for more than 3 hours
Restraint Duration: 3+hrs at a time

Restraint Duration: Restraint duration overnight or full day

Overnight/Full Day

Restraint Duration: Multiple Restraint duration for multiple days, more

Days than 1 day

Binding or restricting someone so they

are suspended above the ground,
Suspension - Vertical vertically.

Binding or restricting someone so they

are suspended above the ground,
Suspension - Horizontal horizontally.

Binding or restricting someone so they

are suspended above the ground,
Suspension - Inverted upside-down.
BONDAGE TOYS

Acts in which blindfolds are placed over

one partner's eyes to remove that sense
Blindfolds (and often heighten others).

Restricting the entire body by placing

Body Bags them in a body bag

Binding or restricting the body, or parts

Duct Tape of, with duct tape.

Wearing hoods that cover the entire

head, leaving only small holes for vision,
Full Head Hoods breathing, etc. (if even them).

A type of gag that uses a ball to

effectively block any verbal
Gags - ball type communication.
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A type of gag that uses a bar that goes

across the mouth, much like a horse's
Gags - bits "bit".

Using Cloth as a gag to block any verbal

Gags - cloth communication

Using an inflatable devise to block

Gags - inflatable verbal communication

Using a phallic(penis)shape to block

Gags - phallic verbal communication

A type of gag that uses a ring to force

the mouth open while providing access
Gags - ring to the, now undefendable, mouth.

Using adhesive tape across the mouth to

Gags - tape create a gag.

Wearing clothing that harnesses the

Harnessing - leather body without necessarily covering it.

Wearing clothing that harnesses the

Harnessing - rope body without necessarily covering it.

Wearing of headphones/earplugs
depriving the subject of their hearing
(often to heighten the remaining
Headphone/Earplugs senses).

Manacles Metal bondage equipment

Masks Wearing masks that cover the face.

Padlocks Bondage that involves locks and keys.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts

Plastic Wrap of, with plastic wrap (Clingfilm).

Restraints - Ankle Binding or restricting the ankles.

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Restricting the movement of the arms

and legs by placing them in a confining
Restraints - Arm & leg sleeves sleeve.

Binding or restricting the body (usually

Restraints - Hand Cuffs the wrists) with [hand]cuffs.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts

Restraints - Leather of, with leather.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts

Restraints - Metal of, with metal.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts

Restraints - Rope of, with rope.

Using thumb cuffs to restrict a persons

Restraints - Thumb Cuffs hand movements

Binding or restricting the wrists of a

Restraints - Wrist person

Restraints - Wrist to Binding or restricting from wrists to neck

ankle/neck/waist ankle and waist

Binding or restricting the body, or parts

Silk Scarves of, with silk scarves.

Being placed in or placing someone in a

bondage device, often made of nylon
or other stretchable fabric, used to
Sleep sacks
completely immobilize the entire body.

Restricting movement by putting them in

Slings/Swings sling/swing

Restricting the movement of the legs by

connecting them to either end of a bar,
Spreader bars usually forcing them open.

Restricting movement by placing the

wrists and neck (though may involve
Stocks ankles) through a set of stocks.
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Binding or restricting the torso and arms

Strait Jackets by placing them inside a strait jacket.
S&M

Skin scratched, scraped, or abraded by

Abrasion a partner

Anal Dilation Deliberately stretching the anus open.

Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is

Anal Fisting often an exaggeration) inside the anus.

Temporarily preventing the flow of

Asphyxiation oxygen to the lungs

Bastinado Torturing the soles of your feet.

Beating (General) Acts in which one partner is beaten.

Acts in which one partner is beaten

Beating - hard hard.

Acts in which one partner is beaten

Beating - soft softly.

Beating based acts that focus on the

Beating - Back back as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the

Beating - Bottom bottom as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the

Beating - Chest chest or breasts as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the

Beating - Feet feet (usually the soles) as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the

Beating - Genitals genitals as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the

Beating - Genitals genitals as a target.
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Beating based acts that focus on the

Beating - Legs legs as a target.

Acts involving biting one partner with the

Biting teeth of the other.

Breast Milking Acts by milking the partner

Breast Stretching Acts by stretching the partners breasts

Breast Torture Acts of torture targeting the breasts

Breast Whipping Whipping of breasts

Acts involving restricting or cutting off

Choking the supply of oxygen.

Electricity Using electricity for sensation or pain.

Slapping the face, usually with an open

Face Slapping hand, to cause pain or denote position.

Acts involving the sensations and

Fire play apprehensions caused by fire and heat.

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by having hair
Hair pulling pulled.

Nipple Torture Acts by torturing the nipples

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by being
Pinching pinched.

Being punched or punching your

Punching partner

Deliberately causing scars, often through

Scarification cutting the skin, for adornment.

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by being
Scratching scratched.
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Beaten with a hand standing on hands
& knees
Spanking - on all fours

Beaten with a hand over other partners

Spanking - over knee knee

Acts in which one partner is beaten hard

Spanking hard with a hand

Acts in which one partner is beaten

Spanking soft softly with a hand.

Vaginal Dilation Deliberately stretching the vagina open.

Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is

often an exaggeration) inside the
Vaginal Fisting vagina.
S & M TOYS

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Belt/Strap a belt/strap

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Caning a cane.

Clothespins Clothespins applied to body

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by having
Cupping/Suction suction applied to the body.

Acts involving the sensations and

Cutting apprehensions caused by being cut.

Electrosex is a sexual practice involving

the application of electrical stimulation
to the nerves of the body, with particular
emphasis on the genitals, using a power
source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet
wand, or made-for-play units) for
Electricity - Tens Unit purposes of sexual stimulation.
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Electrosex is a sexual practice involving

the application of electrical stimulation
to the nerves of the body, with particular
emphasis on the genitals, using a power
source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet
wand, or made-for-play units) for
Electricity - Violet Wand purposes of sexual stimulation.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Flogging a flogger.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Hairbrushes a hairbrush.

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by having hot oil
Hot Oils dripped on to or applied to the body.

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by using ice or
Ice Cubes (bottom) other cold items on the body.

Injecting (normally saline) in to a part of

Injections the body to temporarily engorge it.

Figging Use of ginger in cunt/ass

Labial Clip Applying a clip/clamp to labial/clit

Placing clamps on the nipples to cause

Nipple Clamps pain.

Applying weights to the nipples, or

usually to clamps on the nipples, to
Nipple Weights stretch them, generally to cause pain.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Paddling a paddle.

Exploring the concept of body piercing

Piercing - temp but in a manner that is temporary.
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Putting an object through a part of the

Piercing - Permanent body for permanent adornment.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Riding Crops a riding crop.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Strapping - Full Body a strap, full body.

"Sounds" are elongated instruments

intended for exploring or "sounding"
body cavities. "Urethral Sounds" are
inserted into the urethra, often for the
purposes of stimulation and dilation.
Urethral Sounds

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Whipping - bullwhip a bullwhip.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Whipping - Cat a cat whip.

Acts in which one partner is beaten on

Whipping - genitals genitals with a whip.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with

Whipping - knotted whip a knotted whip.

Acts in which both partners are beaten

Whipping - switch with a whip by taking turns.
FETISH

Being aroused by the idea and/or act of

being left behind, abandoned,
Abandonment forgotten, or thrown away.

Being aroused from heights, in and of

themselves, and/or being aroused by
sexual or sensual activities at unusual
Acrophilia heights.
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Being aroused by amputees. This fetish

may or may not involve sexual or sensual
activity specifically related to the
Acrotomophilia amputated area.

Adult Movies (watching) Watching of adult movies

Being aroused by statues. This fetish may

or may not involve actual sexual acts
Agalmatophilia with statues.

Barosmia Being aroused from smells

Having photographs taken of you, either

Being Recorded naked or indulging in a sexual act.
Bestiality
Sex with animals.

Boot Worship Worshiping the boots of another person.

Burning the body, often with a specific

design, to leave a permanent mark or
Branding scar.

Being defecated upon by another

Brown Showers person.

Inserting a tube in to the urethra to

Catheterization collect urine.

Receptacles used for the collection of

urine and faecal matter. (Similar to a
"Bed Pan," these pots were used
historically in place of indoor plumbing.)
Chamber Pots

Putting a ring or having a ring put,

usually made of metal or rubber, around
the base of a partner's cock. "Cock
Rings" are often used for increased
sensation and erection-duration during
sex. This results from the blocking of
Cock Rings blood flow to the cock.
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Wearing corsets which control the shape

Corsets of the waist and hips.

Dressing yourself, dressing a partner or

being dressed in a fashion usually
Cross-Dressing symbolic of the opposite gender.

Diapers Wearing of diapers.

Sexual activity in and around dirt, mud,

Dirty Sex or oil.

Using a "Douche," which is a device

inserted into the vagina or anus that
squirts a liquid, often saline, for the
purposes of cleansing.
Douching

Being given or giving an "Enema" -- an

apparatus used for injecting liquid into
the intestine by way of the anus, often
for the purposes of cleansing.
Enemas

Erotic Dancing Erotic Dancing for Dom

Having your body physically examined

and, often, appraised. Sometimes this
includes medical examination role-plays
though, here, that is listed as Role-play -
Medical.
Examination (Physical)

Enjoying the idea and/or act of being

seen in a sexual or sensual context.
Opinions vary on this activity. Some
exhibitionists wish to be seen by non-
consensual viewers, and some prefer
Exhibitionism only consensual viewers.

Fear Fear for You/ Fearing someone

Being aroused by someone wearing

Feathers/Fur feathers/fur
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Food Play Using food like cucumbers in play

Foot Worship Worshiping the feet of another person.

Golden Showers Being urinated upon by another person.

Scenes that involve the use of guns as

Gun Play props.

Worshiping the high-heeled shoes of

High Heel Worship another person.

Treating a partner as an infant or being

treated as an infant. "Infantilism" is an
extreme form of "Age Play" and can
include anything from role playing and
dress-up to diaper wearing and usage.
Infantilism

A form of consensual BDSM edge play

involving knives, daggers, and swords as
a source of physical and mental
Knife play stimulation.

Clothing made out of, or involving,

Latex rubber or latex.

Clothing made out of, or involving,

Leather leather.

Lingerie Wearing women's lingerie.

Medical Instruments Using medical instruments in play

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by using needles
on the body, either scratching with
them, or poking them.
Needles

Engaging in sexual activity in which a

partner uses his/her mouth or vice versa
to stimulate and arouses your anus
and/or surrounding areas.
Oral/Anal Play
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Pain Acts involving physical pain.

Having photographs taken of you, either

Posing for Erotic Photos naked or indulging in a sexual act.

The subject takes on and acts out a role

based on being a male or female
prostitute, selling themselves to another
person for sex.
Prostitution (real)

Public Exposure Exposing yourself in public

Clothing made out of, or involving, PVC

PVC (the shiny plasticy material).

Acts that explore being sexually used,

nominally against your will, by another
Rape Fantasy person.

Acts that explore being sexually used,

nominally against your will, by more than
Rape Fantasy Gang one other person.

Having video taken of you, either naked

Recording Scenes or indulging in a sexual act.

Having the amount of sensory input

you're exposed to blocked or limited.
This often includes segregation from
other people and activities, and may
utilize blindfolds, earplugs, etc.
Sensory Deprivation

Shaving Removing all traces of hair bodily hair

Skinny-Dipping Swimming in public naked

Enjoying the feel and look of spandex on

others or yourself. "Spandex" is often
used for active wear and conforms to
the body when worn.
Spandex
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A medical device used to spread and

dilate the anus. These are often used in
Speculums (anal) role playing scenes.

A medical device used to spread and

dilate the vagina. These are often used
Speculums (vaginal) in role playing scenes.

Spitting Being spit on or spitting on someone

Providing subs for your Dom/me for a

variety of purposes. This activity may
result in group play or simply the use of
an additional sub by a Dom/me.
Supplying partners

Swallowing Semen Swallowing the semen.

Taking photographs of you or someone

else, either naked or indulging in a
Taking Erotic Photos sexual act.

Sampling your own flavour -- most often

this refers to either your own vaginal
Tasting Yourself juices or semen.

Adorning the body by permanently

Tattoos applying ink under the skin.

Acts involving the sensations and

apprehensions caused by tickling the
Tickling body.

Wearing uniforms that have a given

Uniforms significance.

Watching someone, often without their

knowledge, in a situation with sexual
connotations. For example, watching
someone undressing or having sex.
Voyeurism
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Have to beg before something is

Begging allowed

Having rules imposed that govern

behaviour in general, and prevent some
specific behaviours. This is often coupled
with a "Contract," which details the rules
and is agreed on and signed by all
parties involved.
Behaviour Restrictive Rules

In BDSM, any type of "Worship" implies

directed affection and emotional and
physical attention. "Breast Worship"
means taking this special care of the
breasts of a Dom/me's choosing.
Breast Worship

Also called Asphyxiation. Acts involving

restricting or cutting off the supply of
Breath Play oxygen.

Using an apparatus to prevent access to

the genitals and to promote chastity.
(Also known as "Chastity Devices,"
because of the wide selection of
chastity implements now available that
Chastity Belts do not include a belt.)

Either choosing for or having your

clothes chosen for you by a partner. This
can occur in conjunction with "Forced
Clothing choice Dressing."

In BDSM, any type of "Worship" implies

directed affection and emotional and
physical attention. "Cock Worship"
means taking this special care of the
cock of a Dom/me's choosing.
Cock Worship
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Making someone or being made to

wear a collar. For many, "being collared"
is representative of a long-term
committed relationship.
Collars

Collar and Leash Wearing a leash, attached to a collar.

Competing with one or more sub or

making a sub compete with other subs
Competition for the pleasure of a Dom/me.

The act of crawling on all fours to

Crawling denote submission.

Having to whom, when, how, and for

what reason a sub is allowed to make
Eye Contact Restriction eye contact controlled and restricted.

Serving another person, putting their

pleasure ahead of your own, as they
Following Orders give you specific formal orders to follow.

Having your food choices made for you,

Food Choice/Directed Eating usually without the ability to appeal.

Sexual acts with members of the both

Forced Bisexuality sexes, nominally against your will.

Being forced or forcing someone to

Forced Dressing dress in a certain way.

Being forced or forcing someone to

exercise. This practice can be for fun, for
punishment, or in conjunction with other
forced behaviour and D/s practices
such as forced weight loss or other
forced physical changes.
Forced Exercise

Sexual acts with members of the

Forced Heterosexuality opposite sex, nominally against your will.
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Sexual acts with members of the same

Forced Homosexuality sex, nominally against your will.

Pleasuring your own genitals, with your

Forced Masturbation hand, nominally against your will.

Periods of time spent without clothing,

Forced Nudity (Private) nominally against you will.

Periods of time spent without clothing,

Forced Nudity (Around nominally against you will with other
Others) people present

Serving another person in specific ways,

putting their pleasure ahead of your
own, nominally forced to do so against
Forced Servitude your will.

Being given, at a partner's whim, to

Given Away (Temp) another person, usually temporarily.

Being given away, at a partner's whim,

Given Away (Perm) to another person, permanently.

Also known as "Wax Play," this practice

involves pouring or dripping hot wax on
your sub for a mixture of pleasure and
pain. (Remember, coloured wax is
hotter!) "Waxing" may also imply the
removal of hair when removing the
Hot Waxing cooled wax.

Making someone do or being made to

do housework. This can either be done in
a sexual, sensual way or in a more
straight-forward way.
Housework

Acts in which you are humiliated,

degraded, or shamed, in a private
Humiliation - Private setting.

Acts in which you are humiliated,

Humiliation - Public degraded, or shamed, in front of others.
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Acts in which you are humiliated,

degraded, or shamed, through either
the words of someone else (such as
name calling) or your own words.
Humiliation - Verbal

The act of kneeling to denote

Kneeling submission.

An exposition of a given subject for the

Lecturing purpose of instruction or reprimand.

Giving another person a manicure or

Manicures receiving one

Renaming your sub or being re-named

by a Dom/me either temporarily or
Name Change permanently.

Having a partner control if and when

climaxing is allowed. This control can be
practiced for short term or extended
periods of time.
Orgasm Control

Being prevented from or preventing

someone from climaxing. "Orgasm
Denial" can refer to the denial of climax
in the short term as well as for extended
periods of time.
Orgasm Denial

Having to orgasm on the command of

Orgasm on Command another person.

Forcing or being forced or encouraged

to change aspects of your personality by
a Dom/me. This is often accomplished
through tactics such as punishment and
reward.
Personality Modification

Pussy Worship Worshiping the pussy of another person.

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Acts involving depriving the subject of

their senses (often to heighten the
Sensation Deprivation remaining ones).

Serving Orally Stimulating a partner with your mouth.

Preventing someone or being prevented

from having sexual interactions. This is
often done in conjunction with "Chastity
Devices" and "Orgasm Control
Sexual Deprivation

Not being allowed to sleep. "Sleep

Deprivation" can result in altered states
of mind and may impair decision
Sleep Deprivation making.

Restrictions as to what you're allowed to

Speech Restrictions say
Standing in Corner Have to stand in corner
Struggling Being made to struggle against Dom/me

Being given jewellery by a Dom/me or

giving a sub jewellery that represents
something special, such as your
relationship, your expectations,
behaviour modification, etc.
Symbolic Jewellery

A form of torture in which water is

poured over the face of an immobilized
captive, thus causing the individual to
Waterboarding experience the sensation of drowning.

Forcing someone to or being forced to

either gain or lose weight by a Dom/me.
This may be coupled with "Forced
Weight Gain/Loss Exercise."
ROLE PLAY

Scenes in which the participants take on

Role Play (General) and act out roles.
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Scenes in which the participants take on

and act out roles based on being a
different age (such as babies or naughty
young girls).
Age Play

Scenes in which the subject takes on

and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Cat cat.

Scenes in which the subject takes on

and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Pig pig.

Scenes in which the subject takes on

and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Pony pony

Scenes in which the subject takes on

and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Puppy puppy.

Scenes in which the subject takes on

Animal Play - Other (Pls and acts out a role based on being any
specify) other animal.

Serving another person, putting their

pleasure ahead of your own, as their
Chauffeuring formal driver.

Scenes in which the participants take on

and act out roles based on a scholastic
Education teacher/student setting.

Being made to (or asked to) or making

someone perform some sort of task or
ritual, pass some sort of test or
challenge, or do some other symbolic
act in order to gain acceptance,
approval, or access to something
Initiation Rites coveted.
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Scenes in which the participants take on

and act out roles based on
interrogations where one person is the
interrogator and the other the subject.
Interrogation

Scenes in which the participants take on

and act out roles based on one partner
Kidnapping being kidnapped.

Scenes in which the participants take on

and act out roles based on the medical
Medical Scenes world such as Doctor/Patient.

Having your body physically examined

and, often, appraised. Sometimes this
includes medical examination role-plays
though, here, that is listed as Role-play
Physical Examinations

Scenes in which the participants take on

and act out roles based on the prison
world such as Sadistic Jailer/Vulnerable
Inmate
Prison Scenes

Scenes in which the subject takes on

and acts out a role based on being a
male or female prostitute, selling
themselves to another person for sex.
Prostitution (pretend)

Engaging in a scene that bases around

Punishment Scene the act of punishment.

Scenes in which the participants take on

and act out roles based on the religious
world such as confessionals or
Religious Scenes Bishop/Nun.

Serving another person, putting their

pleasure ahead of your own, as a
[usually immobile] piece of artwork such
as a statue.
Serving as Art
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Serving another person, putting their

pleasure ahead of your own, using a
part of your body as a receptacle for
their cigarette or cigar ash.
Serving as Ashtray

Serving another person, putting their

pleasure ahead of your own, as an
immobile piece of furniture. For
example, on all fours as a table or a
Serving as Furniture footstool.

Serving another person, putting their

pleasure ahead of your own, as a maid.
For example, serving tea while wearing a
uniform.
Serving as Maid

Serving another person, putting their

Serving as Toilet pleasure ahead of your own, as toilet.

Serving Other Dom/Me Serving other Dom/Me's with your Dom

(supervised) present

Serving Other Dom/Me Serving other Dom/Me's without your

(unsupervised) Dom
Serving - Sexually
Serving another person, putting their
pleasure ahead of your own, in
whatever sexual way pleases them.

Using and/or being penetrated with an

artificial phallus that fastens about a
Strap on Dildos female partner's waist.