-Squinting, furrowing of the forehead, and facial contortions are indicative of distress
or discomfort.
-Head tilt says in a powerful way, I am comfortable, I am receptive, I am friendly.
It is very difficult to do this around people we dont like.
-In this diagram you can see pupil dilation and constriction. From birth we
find comfort in dilated pupils, especially those with whom we are emotionally attached.
-We squint to block out light or objectionable things. We squint when we are angry
or even when we hear voices, sounds, or music we dont like.
-Squinting can be very brief18 of secondbut in real time may reflect a negative thought or
emotion.
-Eye blocking with the hands is an effective way of saying, I dont like what I just heard, saw, or
learned.
-A brief touch of the eyes during a conversation may give you a clue to a
persons negative perception of what is being discussed.
-A delay in opening of the eyelids upon hearing information or a lengthy closure is indicative of
negative emotions or displeasure.
-Where the lids compress tightly as in this photo, the person is trying to block out totally some
negative news or event.
-When we are content, our eyes are relaxed and show little tension.
-Here the eyebrows are arched slightly, defying gravity, a sure sign of positive
feelings.
-Flashbulb eyes can be seen when we are excited to see someone or are full of
positive emotions we just cant hold back.
-We look askance at people when we are distrustful or unconvinced, as in this photo.
-A real smile forces the corners of the mouth up toward the eyes.
-This is a fake or polite smile: the corners of the mouth move toward the ears and
there is little emotion in the eyes.
-When the lips disappear, there is usually stress or anxiety driving this behavior.
-Note that when the lips are full, usually the person is content.
-When there is stress, the lips will begin to disappear and tighten.
-Lip compression, reflecting stress or anxiety, may progress to the point where the lips disappear,
as in this photo.
-When the lips disappear and the corners of the mouth turn down, emotions and confidence are
at a low point, while anxiety, stress, and concerns are running high.
-We purse our lips or pucker them when we are in disagreement with something or someone, or
we are thinking of a possible alternative.
-A sneer fleetingly signifies disrespect or disdain. It says I care little for you or your thoughts.
-Lip licking is a pacifying behavior that tends to soothe and calm us down. You see it in class just
before a test.
-Tongue jutting is seen when people get caught doing something they shouldnt, they screw up,
or they are getting away with something. It is very brief.
-A furrowed forehead is an easy way to assess for discomfort or anxiety. When we are happy and
content, you hardly see this behavior.
-We crinkle our noses to indicate dislike or disgust. This is very accurate but at times
fleeting. In some cultures it is really pronounced.
-When confidence is low or we are concerned for ourselves, the chin will tuck in, forcing the
nose down.
-When we feel positive, the chin comes out and the nose is high: both signs of comfort and
confidence.