An informal letter is usually meant for a relative or close friend, to tell them something about yourself,
your thoughts and/or feelings. It is written in a friendly, chatty manner, as you would talk to the person,
face-to-face. A casual letter is not as exact and structured as a formal letter is, and there are not many
hard and fast rules here. Some people adhere to the format of a formal letter, while for some people,
mentioning the name of the recipient and sender's signature is enough. The context is also an important
factor to determine your writing style - if you are writing to your best buddy, your language can be a lot
more peppy, than say, if you are writing to your uncle.
The best way to write this kind of a letter is to close your eyes, imagine that the person is standing right
in front of you and jot down what you would like to tell him/her. Once you've got the rough draft ready,
take a paper of your choice - my favorite part of writing! There are thousands upon thousands of pretty
papers - little hearts would look terrific for writing to your sweetheart or a quirky geometric pattern for
your bestie, maybe a teddy for the kids or recycled paper for your tree-hugger brother. Pick up a pen,
and follow the format given below.
Format for an Informal Letter
Address of the sender
Date of writing the letter
Greetings and Name of the recipient; example - My Dear Kathy, or Dearest Mom,
Introduction - This is the opening of the letter and should start with a 'How are you?' or 'How are
things?'. This is also the right place to acknowledge the previous letter/gift or apologize if you have
replied late.
Example 1 - Hello. How have you been? It's been so long since I've heard from you. I was chatting with
Ruth the other day, and heard from her that you have moved to New York. How's it going there?
Example 2 - How are you Andrew? I received your letter on Tuesday, but was busy with the soccerpractice as we had a match with the Avon Old Farms yesterday, so couldn't reply earlier.
Body - This is where you write the message - write about what is happening in your school or home.
Write in a relaxed, easy manner, like you speak. Write in several paragraphs, so it is easy for the reader
to understand. Also, remember, as you are writing and not typing, the paragraphs have to be indented
i.e., start writing after 5 spaces on the left hand side when starting a new paragraph.
Example - Our school has just started with the drama classes and this year we are producing, 'The
Legend of Sleepy Hollow'. It is a fun, hilarious story and I'm hoping to bag the part of Brom Bones. I'm so
excited, and working hard. I read the lines at least twice daily, to perfect my diction. But need help with
the expressions and would like some help from you. Can you make it on Saturday at my place?
Listen, did I tell you about my new neighbor?....
Closure - This part indicates that the letter is going to end and you may also ask the recipient to respond
here.
Example - I have to stop writing now. Aunt Alice is coming to pick me up in half an hour. Do write soon
and give my best wishes to your parents.
Complimentary Close - Sign off with a short expression followed by a comma like Lots of love,
Signature or name of the sender
Points to Remember You can write in a casual manner, but the language has to be clear and simple.
Use active voice as it makes the letter sound a lot more interesting.
Ask questions as it keeps the conversation going and remember to respond to the recipient's queries.
Remember to indent the paragraphs.
Use commas, semicolons and periods wherever necessary.
If you are writing the letter instead of typing, make sure the handwriting is legible and clear.
A paper has no spell-check, so watch out for those extra 'a's and 'e's.
Personal Letter Sample
32-A, Charlton Dr,
North Birmingham,
NSW 2065
3rdSeptember, 2012
Hello Chris,
How are you and the girls? Thanks again for giving me Brian's number. It was so easy designing the site
with Brian, as he was a great help with the technical stuff. It is online now, have a look when you get the
time and do tell if any changes are to be made.
As per your suggestion, I booked a stall in 'The Rocks market' on Saturday, and got a terrific response. All
the stuff was gone by 4, and there were a couple of women who wanted me to design for their
boutique! But, I declined their offer, as they want at least 30 dresses in a month. The max I can do is 10,
as the kids keep me busy and Shawn has a very hectic schedule. Besides, running after a dead-line is just
not my thing.
The weather is driving us crazy - the rain just won't stop and the kids are stuck at home getting bored.
We tried to engage them by playing Monopoly the other day, and was immediately reminded of our
childhood and the snow-fights we had. Can you believe that I miss snow?
You know what? The other day I bumped into Greg. The tall guy who used to live in Martha's
neighborhood? He too has moved to Sydney and lives just a few blocks from here. He has made it pretty
big, and owns several restaurants, and just bought Aria on Macquarie Street. We went for dinner there
on your last day in the city, remember?
I have to go to the market, so will stop writing now. Looking forward to meeting you all during the
Christmas break. Give my love to Nat and the kids.
Warm regards,
Anne
Informal Letter to a Pen Pal
32-A, Charlton Dr,
North Birmingham,
NSW 2065
6thMarch, 2013
Dear James,
Hi, I am Sally. I study in the fifth grade. In school, I love science and math. I enjoy music. This year, I will
be taking part in the debate and elocution competitions being held next month. Students from different
schools in the city will be participating. I hope to do my best and make my school proud. Wish me luck.
How are you doing? It feels nice to have you as my pen-friend. I would like to know more about you.
What are your favorite subjects in school? What are your hobbies? How do you spend your weekends?
Hoping to hear from you soon.
Love,
Fred
Writing a letter might seem a bit behind the times, but it has its own old-world charm. Besides that,
writing a handwritten letter is a very personal and touching gesture; and is sure to bring a lot of joy and
warmth to any relationship. Just remember that this format is not as set as that of a formal letter. Some
say, stating the recipient's and sender's address is a must; while for some, it becomes too formal and
they prefer mentioning only the names. So, consult your parents or better still, the recipient's letter, if
you are very specific about the conventions.
