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The document provides advice on various topics such as how to react when great personalities make mistakes, the benefits of saying no, evaluating potential partners, and living a balanced life between social media and real-world interactions. It recommends helping others who fall instead of judging them, focusing kindness on those most in need, listening to your gut feelings about new acquaintances, and prioritizing real-world relationships and tasks over excessive social media use.

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Ed Lapiz Notes

The document provides advice on various topics such as how to react when great personalities make mistakes, the benefits of saying no, evaluating potential partners, and living a balanced life between social media and real-world interactions. It recommends helping others who fall instead of judging them, focusing kindness on those most in need, listening to your gut feelings about new acquaintances, and prioritizing real-world relationships and tasks over excessive social media use.

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Noel Valedict Rosario Imus
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  • Sensitive Topics: Addresses sensitivity around discussing personal trauma and taboos.
  • Reaction to Mistakes: Discussion on how great personalities react to mistakes and the importance of kindness.
  • Saying No: Exploration of the significance of saying 'no' and maintaining boundaries.
  • Body Language Communication: Discussion on understanding body language and expressions over verbal communication.
  • Real Life Engagement: Encourages shifting focus from digital to real-world engagement and experiences.

Q - Ano po ang best reaction when a great personality commits a mistake?

A - Tulad din ng best reaction pag isa lang simpleng tao ang nadapa: tulungang b umangon. Pareho lang naman silang tao. The Arabs have a saying: "Even a great horse must be allowed at least one fall." ___________________________________________ Attention is best appreciated by people who don't get it. If you had only limited attention to give, give it to the ones who are most igno red. ___________________________________________ Kindness is best appreciated by the weak and needy. If you had only a limited kindness to spare, give it to the one who is down and out. ____________________________________________ Saying "NO" is one great savior, liberator and de-stressor. Saying no saves you from doing what you do not want to do, setting you free to d o what you want to do. Next time that you want to say NO, say it. You can't please everybody, but at th e very least, you should please yourself. However, you could cushion the impact by saying NO in the best possible way, lik e it was a profound regret. ___________________________________________ Q - What do you think of watching scandal videos? A - When you watch, you 1. Give success to the malicious intention of the ones who upload those videos. 2. Actually participate in the scandal. You also get stained. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you --- or your loved one s. If you don't want others to watch your own lapses or "scandalous" moment, don 't watch theirs. Kung biglang nalaglag ang damit ng kausap mo, look away. That's respect --- for the poor person and for yourself. _____________________________________________ Pag may bagong kalilala, lalu kung candidate na maging business partner, kaibiga n o kasintahan, MAKINIG SA KUTOB. PANSININ ANG MALILIIT MONG NADARAMA, NAHAHALATA O NAPAPANSIN T UNGKOL SA KANYANG UGALI, pagkatao o costumbre. Malamang totoo/tama ang ang mga una mong kutob na kung magtagal at uminit ang in yong pagmamabutihan ay matabunan ng nakakabulag na "good points" at malimutan mo

. Pero pag lumabas muli ang ganitong mga pahimakas, at napautayan mo ang iyong una ng hinala, madalas ay huli na ang lahat: nasaktan o naapektuhan ka na. Makinig sa unang kutob. Sensitive ka pa sa una, pag hindi ka pa nadadaya ng emot ional involvement. ___________________________________________ Q - Pano ko po malalaman na ang BF ko ay talagang good na para sa akin? A - Maraming paraan. Isa doon: Pag kasama mo sya, sa mga gawa nya at salita, nas asabi mo sa loob mo na "Gusto ko sya talaga! It feels so right! I really like hi m! How nice he is, etc etec " Pero kung sa mga asal, kilos at gawa nya ay may naiisip kang "Hmmmp, nakakainis naman ito." Or "Kulang sya sa kabaitan, thoughtfulness, good deeds, etc etc, Hin di sya masarap kasama, atbp" malamang na hindi sya bagay sa yo. ___________________________________________ Do not believe the words or verbal language; believe the body language. Do not believe the words "I love you"; believe action/deeds that express "I love you". Words can lie; actions reveal the truth. ______________________________________________ FB addict: stand up, walk out of cyberspace and walk into the real world. GET A LIFE! Mas maraming FB, mas konting tunay na buhay. Give FB a slice of your time, but not most of it. Give your best, personal waking moments to persons and tasks that have higher ri ghts to your attention. ______________________________________________

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