A problem of Erdős and Shelah. The Fano geometry gives an example where there are no two edges which meet in $r-1$ vertices. Are there any other examples?

Erdős and Lovász [ErLo75] proved that there must be two edges which meet in $\gg \frac{r}{\log r}$ many vertices.

Alon has provided the following counterexample to the first question: as vertices take two sets $X$ and $Y$ of sizes $2r-2$ and $\frac{1}{2}\binom{2r-2}{r-1}$ respectively, where $Y$ corresponds to all partitions of $X$ into two equal parts. The edges are all subsets of $X$ of size $r$, and also all sets consisting of a subset of $X$ of size $r-1$ together with the unique element of $Y$ corresponding to the induced partition of $X$.

This hypergraph is intersecting, its chromatic number is $3$, and it has $\asymp 4^r/\sqrt{r}$ many vertices.

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