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A PATRIARCHAL FAMILY SYSTEM STUDY FROM GENESIS

2022, This article is chapter 2 of my book FROM THE HOUSE OF PATRIARCH'S TO THE HOUSE OF THE FATHER, A Trajectory of Social Change

Abstract

As reported in Genesis 3-12, men like Cain, Abel, Lamech, Nimrod, Enoch, and Noah did all the significant acting on the stage of human history. It is in Genesis 12 where women again walk onto the stage. Abraham and Sarah learn that the wife is no just a tool for baby making. God’s promise to Abraham was equally a promise to his wife, and no other woman would do. Hagar supplements the lesson, becoming the first person on record to give God a name (Genesis 16:13). In the next generation another question arose: Does God talk to women? When God spoke to his wife, Rebekah, Isaac refused to believe. His stubbornness his his wife’s manipulations led to threats of murder and Jacob’s expulsion from home. Then after a lifetime of trauma for his family, Jacob reformed the system of first-born rights. Whereas in the first generation, Abraham’s sons had to be separated to prevent potential violence, again in the second generation, Jacob and Esau had to separate, due to threats of murder. Then in the third generation, Jacob’s son Joseph was rescued from the potential threat of murder by being sold into slavery. But finally, the story ends when twelve brothers are reunited and reconciled such in the future brothers did live hundreds of years in harmony and no one-man potentate could emerge in Israel as ruler. Eventually Moses was able to establish an order in which God chose the kings, and not the other way around. The story reveals the hand of God redeeming an ongoing succession of trauma’s, bringing forgiveness, and initiating a trajectory of social change that led to Jesus coming and is still in motion today.

Key takeaways

  • Genesis 12-50 reveals God at work in human experience to begin changing this system.
  • By the time Jacob returned he had learned to depend upon God rather than upon his mother.
  • What Jacob would learn over time was that only God could offer the covenant and not his father, Isaac.
  • Had God made things easy for Jacob, God would have simply made Jacob the firstborn and there would have been no Uncle Laban in his life.
  • Jacob now realized his inheritance was not from Isaac, but from God.