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Luce Irigaray: Love through Sexual Difference

Traditionally, love has been seen as searching for one’s “other half.” We are determined to find our soul mate and if we do not find one, we are deemed “less than human” or not truly living up to our potential humanity. In society, the fusion of lovers is permeated through our culture. The main reply against this is Sartre but he still falls under the rubric of the fusion model. Luce Irigaray is a philosopher that stands against the fusion model altogether. She will point out the mistakes that both the tradition and Sartre have fallen into and what they have been assuming. For both sides, they are assuming that love can only happen (1) under a unification of the individuals, (2) if the individuals are equal, and (3) under a pre-existing framework of having a family. In the end, Irigaray will conclude that love as a unification is possible, but one would not want that anyways because it just leads into Sartrean sadomasochism. In fact, one would not want love qua union at all. Genuine love for Irigaray means that the lovers must be different, and with that, I will bring in her concept of sexual difference and what it could mean for society if everyone followed the rubric of sexual difference.