true woman 101: divine design review

I’m very much a book nerd, as this blog proves, but I’m also very much a girly girl.  Not in a high-maintenance kind of way, but in a I-like-dressing up-going-shopping-and-watching-Jane-Austen-flicks kind of way.  And I love books on biblical femininity and womanhood.  So when I saw this Bible study on biblical womanhood, I couldn’t wait to buy it!

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Mary Kassian & Nancy Leigh Demoss team up to teach women about what it means go after what God wants for women.  They start at the beginning and talk about God’s purpose for both men and women and why we were created differently and how those specifics are important when it comes to glorifying God.  From there, they go on to address how the beautiful framework of womanhood has been attacked by Satan and how cultural and societal lies have been accepted and woven into our thought processes.  It was extremely interesting and inspiring and I didn’t want it to end!

What’s also super great about this study, is that there is a companion website where you can visit and watch “table talk” videos for each lesson.  Here, authors Mary and Nancy, along with a panel of other women, discuss each chapter and how the lessons have impacted their lives.

This is a great study for women’s groups.  I highly, highly recommend it!  Married, single, it doesn’t matter.  There are so many different ideas and theories about what womanhood is and what femininity means.  This study answers a lot of questions about God’s design is for women and how beautiful His plans for us truly are!

To check out the book and additional resources, check out the website: http://www.truewoman101.com.

Questions for the Book Lover

This questionnaire was originally posted by Hero @ Heroic Endeavors but I found it on Kelli’s blog, She Learns As She Goes.  I love quizes & questionnaires so I thought I’d try it out too :).  Here we go!

Do you snack while you read?

Sometimes.  If I do, it’s usually popcorn :)

What’s your favorite drink while reading?

I love the herbal coffee Teeccino.  I put almond milk, sugar, and vanilla syrup in it and it’s super delish!  Of course, when it’s too hot outside for a hot drink, I love homemade lemonade.

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Do you tend to mark your books as you read, or does the idea of writing in books horrify you?

It kind of does horrify me even though I read somewhere that it’s good to write in your books.  The only book I mark in is my Bible.  Wait, that’s not true, I mark all over my textbooks if I own them.  But beyond that, I do not highlight or write in the margins of my books.  If I want to remember something, I put a sticky tab or note on the page and write on that.

How do you keep your place while reading a book?

I use bookmarks.  My neighborhood library, when I was growing up, always had bookmarks at the front desk and I would get a new one every time I visited.  I still have a handful of those bookmarks and they’re super nostalgic and homey and sweet.  I do pick up new bookmarks every now and again at bookstores or libraries.  I do want some of those monogrammed ones….

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Are you the type of person who tends to read to the end of the chapter, or can you stop anywhere?

I can stop anywhere.  I’d prefer to finish a chapter in one sitting but it’s just not realistic.  I snatch time to read in bits and pieces.

Are you the type of person to throw a book across the room or onto the floor if the author irritates you?

Is the author irritating me or the storyline?  Because it depends.  Gone with the Wind irritated me but I stuck through it.  I’ll only quit on a book if the writing isn’t clear, the arguments are bogus or I get bored with a weak storyline.  But to answer the question, haha, no I have yet to throw a book across a room.

If you come across an unfamiliar word, do you look it up right away?

I usually just figure it out by the context.  Lately, I’ve been writing down cool or unusual words to look up later.  I’m usually too lazy to stop and look words up in a dictionary.

What are you currently reading?

  • The Bible
  • Christ’s Object Lessons by Ellen White
  • Of Thee I Zing by Laura Ingraham
  • Les Miserables by Victor Hugo
  • On Writing Well: What Every Blogger Needs to Know by Denise J. Hughes

Yeeaah.  I’m not one to read just one book at a time :P.

What is the last book you bought?

1776 by David McCullough.  It’s list price is $32.00. I bought it on Amazon for $0.01 + &3.99 for S&H.  Aw yeah, babe, I was a happy camper!

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Do you have a favorite time/place to read?

I can read anytime and almost anywhere but I especially like reading curled up in bed or on the couch or armchair.

Do you prefer series books or stand alone?

I love both :).

Is there a specific book you find yourself recommending over and over?

I usually match book to person but I have recommended Crazy Love by Francis Chan several times, as well as Authentic Beauty by Leslie Ludy.

How do you organize your books?

I’m real specific about my books.  I sort by genre and then by height.  I’m not all alphabetical with my library, I prefer my books to look good on my shelves.

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That was lovely!  Feel free to fill in this little questionnaire, and leave me a comment and link so I can check out your answers :).  I will be linking mine to Kelli’s post.

Y’all have a blessed Friday :)

dug down deep//book review

Second review of the night.  I read The Power of a Praying Woman and Dug Down Deep last year and am only now taking time to type up my thoughts on them.  Let’s talk theology for a bit.

I got excited to read Joshua Harris’s Dug Down Deep when I first saw the book trailer.

I read I Kissed Dating Goodbye and Boy Meet’s Girl years ago and enjoyed them immensely so I was eager to get my hands on this book.  With everybody arguing back and forth and debating and discussing within and without the church, and the world telling you that truth is relative, that what’s true for you may not be true for me, it’s imperative that you not only know what you believe but why you believe it.  Harris challenges his readers to take a look at theology not as archaic and useless but as a means through which we can get to know the God of our faith better.  Knowing why you believe as you do, to be able to back it by the Word and be able to share and prove it to others will carry you further than just fluffy Christian lingo and a sit-down in a pew once a week.  Christianity is so much more than knowing a few great verses and singing feel good songs, it’s sacrifice and strength and knowledge of the Christ who loves with an everlasting love.  It’s studying the Bible and allowing it to speak to your heart and transform your life.  It’s building your life on the Rock of Ages and trusting completely in Him.

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While I grew up with a fairly solid grasp of Bible stories I didn’t have a clear idea of how the Bible fit together or what it was all about. I certainly didn’t understand how the exciting stories of the Old Testament connected to the rather less-exciting New Testament and the story of Jesus.

This concept of the Bible as a bunch of disconnected stories sprinkled with wise advice and capped off with the inspirational life of Jesus seems fairly common among Christians. That is so unfortunate because to see the Bible as one book with one author and all about one main character is to see it in its breathtaking beauty.

There were one or two theological points that I don’t quite with him on but on the whole, this is a great read and super inspiring and encouraging.  I really appreciate Harris’s writing style and look forward to reading some of his other books!  Has anyone read Stop Dating the Church!: Fall in Love with the Family of God?

the power of a praying woman//book review

The Power Of A Praying Woman - Omartian, StormieYou know that feeling you get when you finish a book and know that it belongs in your library for keeps?  Stormie Omartian’s Power of a Praying Woman was one of those books for me.  I didn’t want to return it to the library when it was due!!

Growing up in a great Christian home, I learned to pray and talk to God at an early age.  However, so often I’ve taken prayer and the potential power it can have in my life for granted.  God is so wonderful and powerful and He longs to move and work in our lives if only we’d ask.  Omartian addresses topics like forgiveness, obedience, worship, purpose and relationships, so many of the aspects of life that, as a woman, I count important but often forget to seriously and sincerely pray about.  While I keep a journal where I write out my thoughts and musings to the Lord, I didn’t realize how superficial my prayer life really is.  I was reminded that, like with any relationship, communication is key to healthy development.  So just like I can spend hours on end talking with my best friend, I should take time to communicate with my Heavenly Father, to seek after His heart and get to know Him better and better.  He’s always there to listen, to counsel, to console, to celebrate with, to solve problems, to give, to bless, to forgive.  All we have to do is sit at His feet and talk to Him!  *happy sigh*

“We will never be happy until we make God the source of our fulfillment and the answer to our longings. He is the only one who should have power over our souls.”

This definitely deserves a reread!  It’s on my list of books to buy and add to my shelf.  Deep and encouraging, it’s a great stepping stone to cultivating a beautiful prayer life!  I highly recommend it!!!

april meme//classics club

I’m really excited about this month’s meme question!!

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Who is hands-down the best literary hero, in your opinion? Likewise, who is the best heroine?

You mean I can only choose one?!?!?!  Haha! Oh goodness gracious this one is reeeal tough! There are so many!  There’s Mr. Rochester and Atticus Finch and Arthur Clennam and Theodore Lawrence and and Joe Willard and I haven’t even gotten to Austen yet!  You’ve got Captain Wentworth and Colonel Brandon and Edward Ferrars and Mr. Tilney and Mr. Knightly and of course, the most beloved Mr. Darcy!  Plus, I know there are some that aren’t coming to mind and so many more that I haven’t even read about yet.  But as I was thinking about all the possibilities, there was one name that I always came back to: Gilbert Blythe.

Yep, I’m a Gil Blythe fan, hands down.  While there is no denying the wonderfulness (yes I just used wonderfulness) of the other literary gentlemen listed above, I have to say that Gilbert Blythe is my absolute favorite!

What’s not to like about this guy?  Anyone who’s has read the series through knows you just can’t help but love the person he grew up to be. Sweet, patient, honorable, unselfish, smart, hard-working, fun-loving, loyal to a fault, I mean the guy was pretty near perfect!

Then of course there is the movie series.  Jonathan Crombie is forever immortalized as the face of Montgomery’s most popular leading man.

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Yeeeeeeeap. I should stop so I have enough to talk about when I do actual book reviews :).

My mother has told me on more than one occasion that I need someone like Gilbert who can balance me out and handle my craziness.  Like Anne Shirley, I can be a bit on the dramatic side.  Okay, a lot on the dramatic side.  I’m workin’ on it!

And now to answer the second question. Who’s my favorite heroine?

That’s even harder.  I absolutely cannot choose.  For sentimental reasons it’s a tie between Anne Shirley and Jo March.  But recently, I’ve grown to admire Jane Eyre and Ann Elliot. The latter two have beautifully noble characters that I have payed close attention to.  The former two, well, you gotta love them both!  I think I’m a bit of a mix of both Anne and Jo.

We all have reasons why we admire people, be they real or imaginary.  It’s either because we see so much of ourselves in those people or better yet, they possess qualities that we want to cultivate ourselves.

I’m looking forward to reading about everyone else’s favorite literary heroes & heroines :)

don’t waste your life book review//nerdy non-fiction 2013

“Desire that your life count for something great! Long for your life to have eternal significance. Want this! Don’t coast through life without a passion.”

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I’ve added this title to my list of books to buy.  I got a free copy of the audiobook from Christian Audio and decided to listen to it for the 2013 Audio Challenge.  I’m so glad I did.  However, I’m finding that it’s a bit more challenging to review an audiobook than to review a hard copy.  Here are a few of my thoughts on this great read!

SPOILER ALERT: This post does contain spoilers!! You have been warned ;).

In Don’t Waste Your Life, John Piper, also the author of Desiring God, challenges readers not to live a life of selfish gratification.  He proposes that a life not wasted is a life fully devoted to the cause of Christ.  I believe that 100%.

“My joy grows with every soul that seeks the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. Remember, you have one life. That’s all. You were made for God. Don’t waste it.”

It’s so easy as Christians to feel discouraged and downtrodden or worse yet, complacent and comfortable with the mediocre.  Neither of those conditions are what God intends for our lives.  He’d rather us live passionately and boldly and completely sold out to Him, making Him front and center of everything we say and do.  Piper pleads with his readers to take God and our lives seriously and not waste it on that which doesn’t last.

“But whatever you do, find the God-centered, Christ-exalting, Bible-saturated passion of your life, and find your way to say it and live for it and die for it. And you will make a difference that lasts. You will not waste your life.”

“God created me—and you—to live with a single, all-embracing, all-transforming passion—namely, a passion to glorify God by enjoying and displaying his supreme excellence in all the spheres of life.”

This is why I need a hard copy of this book, so many great life quotes!!  Here are a couple more:

“You don’t have to know a lot of things for your life to make a lasting difference in the world. But you do have to know the few great things that matter, perhaps just one, and then be willing to live for them and die for them. The people that make a durable difference in the world are not the people who have mastered many things, but who have been mastered by one great thing.”

“Life is wasted if we do not grasp the glory of the cross, cherish it for the treasure that it is, and cleave to it as the highest price of every pleasure and the deepest comfort in every pain. What was once foolishness to us—a crucified God—must become our wisdom and our power and our only boast in this world.”

This book deserves a re-read.  I’m so glad I finally got to listen to it!  Life is a precious, precious thing and we owe it to our Creator and Lord of the Universe to live it in such a way that brings continual glory and honor to His name!

Y’all have a blessed day :).

to kill a mockingbird review//classics club

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To put it quite simply, I love this book. I loved when I first read it in high school and it remains one of my favorite novels.  I think it is one of the greatest pieces of American literature ever penned!  There is so much to love about it!  And then, of course, there is the film.  When I read Atticus Finch, I see Gregory Peck and as far as I’m concerned, that’s the way it’s meant to be!

SPOILER ALERT: This post does contain spoilers!! You have been warned ;).

Oh there so much to say about this book!  I keep typing out sentences and deleting them, typing more and hitting backspace.  Tom Robinson and Boo Radley and Mrs. Dubose and Miss Maudie!!  There simply isn’t enough time!

The brilliance of this story lies in the fact that its multi-faceted plot is seen through the eyes of a young girl.  Scout is spunkiness personified.   She’s curious about life and truly wants to know how and why things work the way they do.  She actually puts me in mind of Beverly Cleary’s Ramona Quimby a little.  Maybe it’s the hair.  Maybe it’s the unfiltered desire to know about everything, to understand people and have them understand you.  I think it’s a great coming of age story.

But of course, as much as we love to love Scout Finch, the real hero of the book is Atticus.  And rightfully so.  Here’s a man who knows who he is and what he stands for and doesn’t need to prove himself.  He simply lets his life speak louder than his words.  But oh, his words!  This book is filled with some great quotes from this southern lawyer!

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“When a child asks you something, answer him, for goodness sake. But don’t make a production of it. Children are children, but they can spot an evasion faster than adults, and evasion simply muddles ’em.”

“You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view – until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.”

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“If you shouldn’t be defendin’ him, then why are you doin’ it?”

“For a number of reasons,” said Atticus. “The main one is, if I didn’t I couldn’t hold up my head in town, I couldn’t represent this county in the legislature, I couldn’t even tell you or Jem not to do something again.

“Scout, simply by the nature of the work, every lawyer gets a least one case in his lifetime that affects him personally. This one’s mine, I guess. You might hear some ugly talk about it at school, but do one thing for me if you will: you just hold your head high and keep those fists down. No matter what anybody says to you, don’t let ’em get your goat. Try fighting with your head for a change…it’s a good one, even if it does resist learning.”

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“The one place where a man ought to get a square deal is in a courtroom, be he any color of the rainbow, but people have a way of carrying their resentments right into a jury box. As you grow older, you’ll see white men cheat black men every day of your life, but let me tell you something and don’t you forget it – whenever a white man does that to a black man, no matter who he is, how rich he is, or how fine a family he comes from, he is trash.”

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“Atticus said to Jem one day, “I’d rather you shot at tin cans in the backyard, but I know you’ll go after birds. Shoot all the blue jays you want, if you can hit ‘em, but remember it’s a sin to kill a mockingbird.” That was the only time I ever heard Atticus say it was a sin to do something, and I asked Miss Maudie about it. “Your father’s right,” she said. “Mockingbirds don’t do one thing except make music for us to enjoy. They don’t eat up people’s gardens, don’t nest in corn cribs, they don’t do one thing but sing their hearts out for us. That’s why it’s a sin to kill a mockingbird.”

Yes.  Atticus Finch is pretty much the coolest guy in American literature.  His relationship with his kids is beautiful.  His sense of duty to his fellowman is admirable.  While he was out to fight for truth and justice, the knowledge that victory was pretty near impossible never swayed him.  He understood that the Tom Robinson case was more than defending an innocent black man – as important as that was – it was about proving that his morals were more than just talk.  Many people talk big but fail miserably when faced with the hard test.  Atticus may not have won the case for Tom, but he proved that as long as there were others like himself who were willing to sacrifice all for the sake of justice, racial equality would eventually become a reality.

“I wanted you to see what real courage is, instead of getting the idea that courage is a man with a gun in his hand. It’s when you know you’re licked before you begin but you begin anyway and you see it through no matter what. You rarely win, but sometimes you do.”

If you have never read this book, I HIGHLY recommend it!!  And then watch the movie :).

narrative of the life of frederick douglass review//classics club

The Classics Club Spin was such a fun idea!  And I’m so glad this book was my #14.  On the practical side, it was short enough to fit into my crazy March days annnnnnd it’s on my TBR list so two birds, one stone.  Oh yeah!
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SPOILER ALERT: This post does contain spoilers!! You have been warned ;).

The story of Fredrick Douglass is one of heartache and injustice and triumph.  It’ll make you mad and want to knock a few heads together.  It’ll have you cheering when a young man refuses to be whipped by his inane master and fights back or when a group of slaves quietly learn to read on Sunday mornings.  It will have you thanking God that we no longer live in a time where it’s lawful for one American to own another.  It will have you wishing you could search out the evil men in every dark corner of this country and the world who are still making money from modern slavery.

I’m not going to spin out the history he shares in this autobiography – it’s a short enough read that you can learn of it yourself in no time at all – rather, I want to share a couple of the quotes that I found especially poignant and awful in their searing truth.

“From my earliest recollection, I date the entertainment of a deep conviction that slavery would not always be able to hold me within its foul embrace; and in the darkest hours of my career in slavery, this living word of faith and spirit of hope departed not from me, but remained like ministering angels to cheer me through the gloom. This good spirit was from God, and to him I offer thanksgiving and praise.”

“I have observed this in my experience of slavery, – that whenever my condition was improved, instead of its increasing my contentment, it only increased my desire to be free, and set me to thinking of plans to gain my freedom. I have found that, to make a contented slave, it is necessary to make a thoughtless one. It is necessary to darken his moral and mental vision, and, as far as possible, to annihilate the power of reason. He must be able to detect no inconsistencies in slavery; he must be made to feel that slavery is right; and he can be brought to that only when he ceased to be a man.”

“Slaves sing most when they are most unhappy. The songs of the slave represent the sorrows of his heart; and he is relieved by them, only as an aching heart is relieved by its tears.”

But the part that got me the most was in the appendix when he talked about the “slaveholding religion of this land”.  The whole time I was like “Preach it!” It angered me to read about perhaps as much as it did Douglass to live through it.  This part, in my opinion, was THE best part of the book:

“I love the pure, peaceable, and impartial Christianity of Christ: I therefore hate the corrupt, slaveholding, women-whipping, cradle-plundering, partial and hypocritical Christianity of the land. Indeed, I can see no reason, but the most deceitful one, for calling the religion of this land Christianity. I look upon it as the climax of all misnomers, the boldest of all frauds, and the grossest of all libels. Never was there a clearer case of ‘stealing the livery of the court of heaven to serve the devil in.’ I am filled with unutterable loathing when I contemplate the religious pomp and show, together with the horrible inconsistencies, which every where surround me. We have men-stealers for ministers, women-whippers for missionaries, and cradle-plunderers for church members. The man who wields the blood-clotted cowskin during the week fills the pulpit on Sunday, and claims to be a minister of the meek and lowly Jesus. . . . The slave auctioneer’s bell and the church-going bell chime in with each other, and the bitter cries of the heart-broken slave are drowned in the religious shouts of his pious master. Revivals of religion and revivals in the slave-trade go hand in hand together. The slave prison and the church stand near each other. The clanking of fetters and the rattling of chains in the prison, and the pious psalm and solemn prayer in the church, may be heard at the same time. The dealers in the bodies and souls of men erect their stand in the presence of the pulpit, and they mutually help each other. The dealer gives his blood-stained gold to support the pulpit, and the pulpit, in return, covers his infernal business with the garb of Christianity. Here we have religion and robbery the allies of each other—devils dressed in angels’ robes, and hell presenting the semblance of paradise.”

BAM!  And that’s not even the whole thing, he goes on and it was…moving to say the least.  It’s like when the pastor says something that resonates with your entire being and you can’t help but say, “Well!” or “Have mercy!” or “Amen!”  That’s me anyway ;).

I read this book on my Kindle but really want to get a hard copy for my bookshelf!  It’s worth adding to the collection.  And I’m going to add Douglass’s other books to my reading list!!

Y’all have a blessed day!

The Pilgrim’s Progress Reading Event Announcement

I’m taking the plunge!  I’ve decided to host my first classics reading event!!  In July, I’m going to be reading John Bunyan’s timeless classic, The Pilgrim’s Progress and I’d love to have you join me :).

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I have wanted to read this book for years and while putting my TBR list together, I knew I had to include it. Over at the Classic’s Club, they’re giving the month of July over to the ancient classics and I figured this book was an old enough piece of great literature, yeah?

Signing Up:

This read along is open to anyone who’d like to participate.  You can sign up simply by leaving a comment on the SIGN UP PAGE.  If you have a blog and write an INTRODUCTORY POST for the read along, you can leave the URL as well. You may sign up even after the read along has begun as long as you finish the book by August 9th.

The Book:

There are several versions of this well-loved classic.  I plan on purchasing the Oxford World’s Classics paperback version from Amazon.  You, of course, may use whatever version you’d like! It’s also free for Kindle :).

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Reading Schedule:

The book has 2 parts and we’ll have 3 weeks to finish each one:

July 1-20: Part 1

July 21-Aug 9: Part 2

Updates and Reviews:

Since the month of July begins on a Monday, I’m planning on posting weekly updates each Monday.  Feel free to join in the discussions and express your thoughts!  You can also write update posts on your blog.  Just remember to post the link in the comments!

I’ll also be reviewing both parts 1 & 2.  You can to post two reviews as well or just one cumulative review at the end of the read along.  If you don’t have a blog, you can leave your thoughts in the comments boxes :).

The Giveaway:

Yes, there will be a giveaway!!  Each comment/post on updates/discussions as well as each review will count as an entry.  At the end of the read along, I’ll pick the lucky winner(s)

The Button:

Here’s the button in three sizes (300×300, 250×250, & 200×200) if you’d like to copy and paste one to your posts and/or sidebars:

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Well, that about does it for now!  Let me know if you have any questions or suggestions :).  I will keep you posted with any updates or changes.

Y’all have a blessed day!

the waste land review//classics club

I’m not even sure what to say about this piece.  Halfway through, I checked the reviews on GoodReads and was surprised at the 5 star ratings.  I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised cause this is such a popular piece of American poetry…but still.  I figured I had to be the one with the problem.

CAUSE I COULDN’T MAKE HEADS OR TAILS OF THIS POEM!

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Maybe it was because I read it on my Kindle and that might have messed with the lines, the flow of which are, of course, hugely important.  Maybe it was too modern??  The imagery was lost on me.  It jumped around and went in weird directions.  I don’t know, I just was not feeling it at all!  Sorry Mr. Elliot, but if someone were to ask me what your great work was about, I’d have no idea how to answer!

Any of you T. S. Elliot fans out there have any comments as to what I was missing in my Waste Land experience?  I just was not impressed at all :(.

On a bit of a lighter note, this book was not only on my Classics Club list, it was apart of A Modern March, and also counted toward the Nerdy Non-Fiction Reading Challenge 2013!  3 birds, 1 stone.  Booyah!