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Look, Plan, Write
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Looking back on my political-themed posts over the last few months, I see something emerging: we need a plan. It's not enough to complain about what's not happening, nor blame the people in power. We have to have a plan.

I've also been schooled lately in looking; we tend not to find things until we look for them. I even hinted at that way back when I wrote Waffes and Tequila, but I didn't really understand it until recently.

Yesterday, I went to pick 11yo up from her afterschool care. Her mentor and I shared a glass of wine as we often do. We talked about plans for the future. I talked about becoming a writer, supporting my family from writing. Then she asked a question that stumped me silly.

"What will that look like?" She didn't mean it in a very practical sense, contracts, agents, publishing deals and all. She meant what will my day look like, what will my life look like? What will I do when I get up? what hours will I keep, what kind of house will I live in, where will I live, what will I drive, vacations, teaching, will I write at home, in a coffee shop, in an office? Will there be part of my day devoted to not writing, to exercise, to reading, to art, movies, 11yo's homework, anything else? A relationship, friends, exercise, this blog I seem to like, going dancing, drinking beer and acting stupid...

I realized I only had vague concepts. That's not a plan. That's not good writing. Writing is all about the details - not each and every possible detail, just the ones necessary to convey the story. I have some writing to do.

TXRD
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I'm probably taking 11yo to the TXRD show next month. Why? Because girls need to see girls KICKING ASS.

And now, because I promised chreebomb...

the photos! But first, the disclaimer!

Flashes are quite dangerous to women moving at about 30 mph, and therefore not allowed. My camera did it's best to get good images in low light and high-speed, but it could only do so much. I tried the video feature, but I don't really know how to download the video yet.

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May 7 - I'm going, I'm taking 11yo, I know gevis going. Anyone else?