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The only place you need for surrogacy.

From thought to finish.

Learn about surrogacy
Find your match
Manage your journey
"Having a baby through surrogacy was never in my plans, but then I got cancer. The biggest surprise of my life is how rewarding the whole experience was. I love our surrogate and she will always be a part of our life."
- Elise M., mother through surrogacy
"I felt so privileged to be able to do this, and in a way, I felt kind of like a voyeur into the happiness of another couple – but also I felt in a very real way that I had made their happiness possible.”
– Ivy M., experienced surrogate
"It's hard to put into words the feeling you get from helping another family come to life."
- Ashley, experienced surrogate
"While I’ve still had to process and grieve the fact that I possibly won’t ever be able to carry my own pregnancy, I’m just so incredibly grateful that surrogacy is even an option."
- Brianna, Intended Mother
"Looking back now, we can say that meeting Ashley and her family was one of the most important encounters in our life. She made our biggest dream come true and we cannot be any happier. "
- Marco & Yves, Fathers through surrogacy

The Biggest Ask offers everything surrogates and intended parents need for their surrogacy journey.

With us, you can: 
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Learn:

Match:

  • Ready to find your match? Our philosophy is that wonderful matches happen when intended parents share their story for surrogacy. We invite intended parents to share their story and we invite surrogates to check out their profiles.

Manage:

  • Once you find your match, ensure that your journey is as smooth and fulfilling as possible by joining our surrogacy program, where we guide and support you every step of the way.

Why should you join The Biggest Ask community?

Embarking on a surrogacy journey from scratch is incredibly intimidating. Don’t let fear drive any of your decisions. Learn everything about surrogacy from us – The Biggest Ask – your source for unbiased and well-balanced information about surrogacy.

When you join The Biggest Ask you immediately: 

Gain free access to our free online surrogacy guide

Can sign up for our free virtual workshops

Gain access to resources (e.g., agency lists, surrogacy attorney lists, etc) that provide in-depth information to help you select an agency if that is the route you plan to take

Join a community of other intended parents and surrogates!

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Meet some of our intended parents looking for a surrogate:

M & S

OUR STORY Although we worked right across the street from each other in graduate school, a dating app brought us together. We were both pursuing our PhDs – S was getting hers in Stem Cell Biology and M in Organic

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briannae May 26, 2026

A & J

OUR STORY We met on a dating app, but it turns out A grew up around the corner from J’s cousins and rode the bus with them to school! Our connection was immediate–J’s dad is from New Orleans, A is

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briannae May 20, 2026

A & P

OUR STORY My husband and I met 15 years ago in our hometown in India through a matchmaking app. We liked each other on the very first meeting and started dating. After a year, we decided to get married. Shortly

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fixrunner April 24, 2026

S & S

OUR STORY We’re S squared! Met through common friends nearly 18 years ago at a El Torito happy hour (we love Mexican food)! We are literally each other’s best friend and are so grateful we have been navigating our adult

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fixrunner April 24, 2026

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