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[Ellen] Wiskee tiem nao plz

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So, after a two week drive across the country, a car crash involving our trailer jack-knifing and running us off the road (we're fine, the cat's are fine, the car was totaled), we are in northern California.

Tired and glad to be here.

And I still have two more exchange fics to write but if I have writing time tomorrow, I'm clearly going to write a Yuletide treat.

Figured I'd let you all know what the radio silence was about.
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[Get Backers] That's sodomy!

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I keep trying to decide whether making a blog post about my near-heckling at Yaoicon will cause more drama than it's worth. I've told a couple of people (mostly the ones who know the people involved) the story, but it still amuses me in a really oblique way.

Still, the people involved cause a lot of drama in my life a few years ago and, while I doubt they can hate me more than they already do, we still have a few mutual friends.

Hm.
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[Seto] Stress

COMPLAIN COMPLAIN

The problem with fic fests (aside from my natural tendency toward procrastination) is that when I finish a fic two months early, I'm not allowed to POST IT ANYWHERE. :(

This is the other reason why I don't write exchange fics until near the end of the period. I hate sitting on fics.


In other news, starting Tuesday I have to actually find something useful to do with my time, since comixologist is going to start classes and won't be around to entertain me.
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[Text] Feminazi

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So, I'm in the middle of unpacking, right? (For those of you not in the know, I just moved in with [personal profile] comixologist). So we had to ship a crap ton of stuff because there was no way I was shlepping ten boxes worth of books and four or five boxes of assorted kitchen and other stuff with me across the country.

Yesterday, we picked up the boxes and today is UNPACKING! Hooray!

We probably should have started to notice something was wrong when the dust jackets for the wrong books were in my boxes. Or when the loose page from the Kingdom Hearts 2 strat guide ended up in a box without the strat guide.

But it wasn't until I opened a box and found a shiny new meat grinder and an inspirational Christian romance that we really figured out that something was well and truly wonky. See, I don't buy Christian romances, not even ironically. And I do not and never have owned a table-top meat grinder. So... I. Uh. Also in that box? Several loose pieces from one of my Murder Mystery Box Sets, and the top, but not the bottom or the cards, from one of my Apple to Apples expansion sets.

So that's today. I look forward to opening more boxes and figuring out how much of my gay porn the Christian Romance Lady has taken home with her.
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[Text] Feminazi

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So, I really, really enjoy fics about an outsider dealing with cultish, semi-military families/groups.

of course, I just really like fish-out-of-water stories. Also, all ridiculous AUs ever. ([personal profile] comixologist can tell you just how many crazy-ass badfic AUs I link her to regularly.)

So, you know. I'm just saying.
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midnight ramblings about immigrant identity and the politics of ethnicity

Interesting thought for the day after St Patrick's Day.

There's a comment to this Sociological Images post that states:
There’s a fair amount of bemusement when Americans tell us that they’re Irish when they mean that they’re 5 generations down from an Irish ancestor. Added to that, the way that so many people (not just Americans) find an Irish identity on March 17th then portray it in stereotypical terms (hats, green Guinness, shamrocks).


The comment then goes on to talk about how the Irish commentator defines "Irish" as a national and cultural identity.

But I think there's something to be teased out that tends to get glossed over when people make jokes about "Irish-Americans". That's the way, in the USA, you're almost never just American.

Because of the history of immigration (not to say that other countries don't have high immigration rates, but most countries didn't and don't have an identity founded on it the way America does-- streets paved with gold, anyone?) Americans tend to be very protective of their cultural and ethnic distinctions. This may be because it usually started as prejudice or discrimination-- indeed, in many cases, especially where someone doesn't look white, it still does display itself as naked prejudice. It seems to me there are two categories or responses to prejudice based off cultural and ethnic distinctions. On one hand you can try to wipe away all the differences and assimilate, and on the other, you can form insular communities where the culture is reinforced. In some cases the second option is enforced by the mainstream culture refusing to assimilate a particular ethnic or cultural identity, usually due to perceived racial differences. On the other hand, the more chances a group has to assimilate, the more likely it is that the insular community will eventually fragment somewhat.

Still, there's a heavy reliance on these communal, cultural structures. Because most immigrant communities started off as relatively insular, even after fragmenting people in the US often rely very heavily on the identification of the group or groups from which they originated. Even if they retain little or no fragments of the original cultural identity besides an identification with the ethnic and cultural group with which the immigrants in their family associated, that's enough. People in the US put heavy stock in that kind of identification.

It's something to be made fun of, I guess, when the person identifying that way has none of the cultural markers or knowledge that technically should associate him or her with said culture aside from an ancestor or two five generations back. However, I do feel like dismissing the idea of the "Irish-American" is ignoring the way in which the immigrant mentality has never really dissipated out of the American psyche, pretty much regardless of how long the family has been in the US. I mean, hell there's even the Mayflower Society, for people whose ancestors have been here literally since White people started invading this country was founded.


I really have no idea where this post is going. I just think some variation of this whenever non-Americans bring up how weird it is that people from the US are so hung-up on the ethnicities of their ancestors. Is it really so weird that a country that has a national identity founded on being a nation of immigrants is hung up on being immigrants? I mean, seriously.


Another note, I use "ethnicity" here for a reason-- a significant number of Americans are hung up on "ethnicity"-- on being specifically a national or ethnic group rather than being a race. I am also glossing over African-American identity, which is WAY too complicated for someone rambling at midnight with no research, and I'm probably fucking shit up WRT other groups too, especially non-white ethnic/racial groups. It's midnight, comment if you think I'm wrong about anything.
[Text] Feminazi

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Hi, everyone, I'm still alive!

I've been a little out of communication for a bit-- as mentioned in my last ranty post, jhyanmar and leticia just got married 40 miles out from the middle of nowhere in Washington, and I went up to be their Best Man. When I got back, onyxdubh was waiting for me and I haven't seen him in weeks.

And then we went to set up my mother's new laptop and learned that a) said laptop is picky about the routers she'll connect to, b) our old Netgear is not one of them, and c) the other router we had on hand satisfied the laptop but apparently refused to admit that modems existed. I've been running aorund for the past three days trying to fix the problem.

The solution was, apparently, to buy a new router and modem. Yay, technology.

In other words, I've been gone for a while because craziness.

Hi. How are you guys doing?
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