net: check for invalid socket earlier in CConnman::AcceptConnection()

This check is related to an accept() failure. So do the check earlier,
closer to the accept() call.

This will allow to isolate the accept()-specific code at the beginning
of CConnman::AcceptConnection() and reuse the code that follows it.

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net: get the bind address earlier in CConnman::AcceptConnection()

Call GetBindAddress() earlier in CConnman::AcceptConnection(). That
is specific to the TCP protocol and makes the code below it reusable for
other protocols, if the caller provides addr_bind, retrieved by other
means.

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This is a backport of core#20685 [4&5/20]

Depends on D11013

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