Celebrating our partners’ partners!
Metamour Day was created to honor the relationships between you and your partners’ partners, however that might look. It is not about forced compersion. It’s about communal appreciation within our family structures and modeling positivity to the world around us. Metamour Day is a recognition of the unique and special relationships between metamours.
l Día de Metamor es una forma de apreciar el papel especial de un Metamor, la pareja de tu pareja, y de reconocer el impacto benéfico y de apoyo de la no monogamia en nuestras vidas colectivas. Se trata de una apreciación comunitaria de nuestras estructuras familiares, en lugar de una compersión forzada (lo opuesto a los celos, es una reacción emocional positiva a la otra pareja de un ser querido).
Order your Metamour Day cards from the Bloom Community: profits from postcard sales will be donated to OPEN (Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy), a nonprofit organization dedicated to fostering the polyamory and non-monogamy movement by advancing cultural acceptance, building political power, and supporting non-monogamous communities and leaders.
You can also celebrate Metamour Day on February 28th by sharing these graphics below, along with Metamour Day cards by Anna D. Hirsch in English, Spanish, French, Norwegian, Maltese, German, Italian and Hebrew that are posted in the left-hand sidebar.
2025 Metamour Day Graphics
2023 Metamour Day Graphics
2022 Metamour Day Graphics
Have a Question for Metamour Day? Use our form in the right-hand sidebar to ask!
Check out our video: What is a Metamour?
Metamour Day Archive
NCSF Proudly Launches Metamour Day! by NCSF
Happy Metamour Day! by Tikva Wolf, Kimchi Cuddles
Celebrating Metamour Day by Intimacy ConAmore
Delighting in Your Beloveds’ Other Lovers by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Psychology Today
February 28th is Metamour Day! And metas in the media. by Alan, Poly in the Media
Happy Metamours’ Day! But also sometimes not by Alana Phelan, The Polyamorous Librarian
Happy Metamour Day! by Kae Burdo
Do poly families have to live together? by Cunning Minx and Lusty Guy, PolyWeekly
Help, I Don’t Like My Metamour! What to Do When You Don’t Like Who Your Partner Dates by Paige Turner, Poly.land
Guest Contributor Edition: “A Letter to My Metamour” by Andre Shakti/guest, I am poly and so can you
Metamour Troubles and Struggles by Multiamory Podcast
What’s a Metamour? by Aggie Sez, SoloPoly.net
Metamours: The Partners of Your Partners (And Why You Should Invest in Them) by YesYesNonMono
Some noteworthy definitions pertaining to Metamour Day:
- Polyamory: the philosophy or state of being in love or romantically involved with more than one person at the same time with the knowledge of all involved.
- Metamour: The partner of one’s partner, with whom one does not share a direct sexual or loving relationship.
- Compersion: A feeling of joy when a partner invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship. Commentary: Compersion can be thought of as the opposite of “jealousy”; it is a positive emotional reaction to a lover’s other relationship. The term was coined by the Kerista Commune.
Metamour Day was launched in 2019:
