Curang

Kecurangan (kata dasar: curang) atau keselingkuhan/perselingkuhan (kata dasar: selingkuh [sĕ-ling-kuh]) difahamkan sebagai tindakan melanggar persetiaan hubungan emosi atau seks yang terjalin bersama pasangan secara khusus atau eksklusif sesama mereka tanpa rasa jujur si pelaku kepada pasangan tersebut sehingga mengakibatkan perasaan marah, cemburu, dan persaingan.

Kesan dampak

Secara emosi

Keterlibatan seseorang dalam mengkhianati hubungan intim dengan pasangan boleh mendatangkan seberapa kesan mendalam apabila kegiatan tersebut diketahui:

• Rasa malu muncul sebagai akibat perasaan terhina dan direndahkan, malah menyangka diri sebagai penyebab pencurangan lalu meningkatnya kemungkinan mencari-cari kesalahan dalam diri sendiri tanpa disedari.
• Kebuntuan fikiran kerana menghadapi situasi yang menjejaskan keutuhan hubungan yang terjalin sesama diri
• Kekesalan yang muncul berikutan rasa kecewa diri terhadap ketidaksetiaan pasangan sampai melakukan tindakan curang sedemikian

Aspek undang-undang

Tindakan pencurangan yang disaksikan pasangan atau orang kenalan mampu memberi kesan utama kepada penelitian dan pemberian keputusan dalam mengurus kes-kes cerai termasuk pampasan harta warisan, penjagaan anak-anak hasil hubungan bersama, kelayakan mendapat alimoni dan sebagainya.

Pandangan mengikut agama

Agama Kristian

Mazhab Katolik

Mazhab Protestan

Lihat juga

• Dayus
• Perempuan simpanan
• Penggodaan
• Kegasangan
• Seks luar nikah
• Zina

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