fix(rtdetr): honor max_det in decoder exports and validation - #25153

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@Hasnaathussain Thanks for the contribution! We scoped max_det to the RT-DETR paths that own it: export uses decoder query capacity, while native prediction and validation limit detections after filtering. We removed the broader end2end lifecycle flags because RT-DETR does not use the standard YOLO criterion-update lifecycle. This is now merged.