What supposed to be a very simple change end up being quite involved, as current Windows CI framework is quite inflexible, i.e. it takes a lots of argument, but later on ignores them, namely:
 - `PYTHON_VERSION` used to be a no-op that is simply ignored by the scripts
 - With this change, `setup-win` action will create an environment called `py_tmp` with specific python version + intel-openmp (that is hard runtime requirement, but for some reason not packaged into the wheel nor marked as such)
 - Copied test type dependencies from https://github.com/pytorch/test-infra/blob/be01a40157c36cd5a48391fdf44a7bc3ebd4c7e3/aws/ami/windows/scripts/Installers/Install-Pip-Dependencies.ps1#L16 into `win-test.sh`, but made some adjustments to be compatible with 3.10 runtime (scipy version update) and just make rerun-tests compatible with the rest of the deps

I think in the long run, one needs to update https://github.com/pytorch/test-infra/blob/4432e2cacd8a5bb7a46158e71d08c937c502e35a/aws/ami/windows/scripts/Installers/Install-Miniconda3.ps1 that currently pins Miniconda python to 3.9, but also figure out how CI can still create a new environment without having to download all the dependencies all the time
Pull Request resolved: #162862
Approved by: https://github.com/wdvr, https://github.com/huydhn
ghstack dependencies: #163339, #163341

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