🐛 Describe the bug

Hi, all. I'm developing the replay to Execution Trace. Confusing about the 2 points below and not sure whether it is bug. Can you help confirm/explain? Thanks!

1. Consider torch.distributed.batch_isend_irecv() is invoked.
   Several send/recv will be invoked in coalesed range. startCoalesing bumps up seqCollective_, but not seqP2P_. Is it by design?

2. Consider allgather is invoked with different size, where it will be coverted to multi _broadcast_oop() in coalesed range, which is implemented by collective.
   Compared with coalesed send/recv, each collective will always bump seqCollective_ and create work. However, the work is returned but not used.
   However, coalesed p2p will not bump seqP2P_ and not create word. Why is the pattern different?
   
   

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