Fix HDRS_LIST building when paths in header inclusion tree include spaces - #3607

Proposed changes

In mlx/backend/metal/make_compiled_preamble.sh, doing declare -a HDRS_LIST=($HDRS) breaks when the header inclusion tree $HDRS has paths with spaces. This manifests by headers not being properly linked, and a bunch of grep errors during build. This PR fixes header inclusion to support paths with spaces.

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