[13.x] prefer isset() over in_array() for better performance - #59457

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the `class_uses_recursive()` method returns an array where both the key and value are the same fully qualified class name. by switching to `isset()` we get O(1) performance, while `in_array()` gives O(n) performance.

- also remove some single use temporary variables
- passes multiple arguments to `isset()` rather than multiple separate calls

Port refreshForUpdate with the shared refresh query path, upstream unit and integration coverage, and usage documentation. Preserve model key validation and relationship reload behavior.

Make relationship touching honor WithoutTimestamps and the same property/attribute precedence as model initialization. Disabled models could otherwise write updated_at, including on tables without that column. Strengthen the precedence cases and reconcile both attribute cache-order tests against the existing instance-based cache.

Complete the missing multi-attribute touch model test and documentation. Use the upstream keyed AsPivot lookup in the moved refresh helper; the rest of the trait lookup PR remains under reconciliation.

Upstream: laravel/framework at 01d008c9b5f32cb7c5e50a9a22273113d810b2a2.

laravel/framework#61247
laravel/framework#59175
laravel/framework#61073
laravel/framework#60815
laravel/framework#59457

Validation: timestamp precedence regressions failed before the correction and pass afterward; SQLite relation touching verifies inherited disabling. Changed test files, affected Eloquent ParaTest, full source/type analysis, and scoped formatting pass. Refresh integration tests also pass after the final trait lookup correction.

Port the remaining changes from Laravel #59457 using the current 13.x source at 01d008c9b5f32cb7c5e50a9a22273113d810b2a2. Recursive trait discovery returns trait names as both keys and values, so these checks can use direct key lookups instead of scanning the values.

Update generators, model capabilities, pivot detection, ULID foreign keys, seeders and queued handlers. Combine the batch trait checks and remove the unnecessary Seeder array_flip. Preserve existing model caches and coroutine-safe cloning of mapped handlers and listeners. The other upstream sites already use keyed lookups, including refresh completed in the preceding commit.

Validation: affected database, console and event suites, queue handler unit and integration tests, model pruning integration tests, scoped formatting and full source/type analysis pass.

laravel/framework#59457