Backport PR #15339 on branch v5.3.x (Attempt to fix wheel building), removed parallel-and-32bit job - #15340

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Tsk tsk... Doesn't quite make sense to backport #15018 since cron job does not run automatically for backport branches. Should we just remove the 32-bit job for v5.3.x ?