…_targets (#2298)

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Added prod only and dev only options for npm_link_all_packages and
npm_link_targets rules

### Test plan

- New test cases added

Fixes: #1879

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### Test plan
Covered by existing test cases

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### Test plan

- Covered by existing test cases

### Changes are visible to end-users: no
At worst they will get a single restart but realistically non-ancient
bazels handle restarts gracefully

### Test plan
- Covered by existing test cases

Automated changes by
[create-pull-request](https://github.com/peter-evans/create-pull-request)
GitHub action

Co-authored-by: alexeagle <[email protected]>

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### Test plan
N/A