Purpose of this pull request

If the engine is overloaded, the distributed lock for obtaining metrics may fail or block, which currently prevents the task from completing normally. This PR will try to give up updating metrics to ensure the normal operation of the task.

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

no

How was this patch tested?

add new test

Check list

• If any new Jar binary package adding in your PR, please add License Notice according
  New License Guide
• If necessary, please update the documentation to describe the new feature. https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/tree/dev/docs
• If you are contributing the connector code, please check that the following files are updated:
  1. Update change log that in connector document. For more details you can refer to connector-v2
  2. Update plugin-mapping.properties and add new connector information in it
  3. Update the pom file of seatunnel-dist
• Update the release-note.